The One About Dropping Triple Bs All The Live Long Day 

Y’all need to stop.😂🤦🏻‍♀️ She hasn’t ‘not supported’ either one of them. She’s allowed to do what’s best for herself, her mental health, and build a peaceful home environment for her daughters. EVERYONE should be able to protect and do what’s best for their emotional & mental health - Ariana would have told you that a year ago…and while I generally adore Ari & will continue to support her in a lot of ways, she has far too many “yes” people around her right now, and she’s letting it make her feel, and certainly is acting, like her own personal feelings towards Sandoval (which are valid, & La has never said otherwise) are far more important than what nearly ALL of her friends are feeling and going through. You can’t keep your friends emotionally hostage like she is, that’s not being a friend. La is literally the only one outside of herself & Katie who IS NOT actually trying to be that man’s friend, she never was to begin with, and certainly doesn’t want that now, she was merely trying to rid herself of all of the anger & animosity that always exists between them, because she’s tired of fighting and tired of the constant onslaught of negativity within the group, which is constantly being stoked right now by Ari’s refusal to let anyone move on from what happened. It’s completely unrealistic to think that, or want, everyone else to be As Angry & As Hateful as she is; nobody else was in a nearly decade-long relationship with That Man. People are allowed to not want to stay that angry and upset for SO LONG. At this point in the new season, it is seven months later, and everyone is exhausted and drained from having to hold onto that anger& hate, just for her. This is always what was going to happen. How Ari is behaving right now, and forcing people to still be unreasonably angry (for them, not her) is how friendship groups get and stay torn apart after a breakup. A lot of you are deeply emotionally immature. It’s embarrassing for y’all.😳

@@Free420LoveOh give over! Yacking on about stuff you know nothing about. Comment on what you see and hear not what you think is going on behind the scenes. Lala, Scheana and to a lesser extent Brock have behaved horribly to Ariana. On screen facts!

I die every single time 😂😂

I love this. I have been attacked so many times on social media for loving La but girl, she's literally transformed in front of our eyes on the show and now the pod ❤❤❤❤

@@elizabethnieman5513 - Absolutely !!! Girl Stick To Your Convictions Because ... Lala Has Not Only SURVIVED But She's THRIVED & THRIVING & Doing Fantastic !!! Haters Be Hate'n !!! GO LALA !!!

Yaaas

Yuppers they don’t stay long enjoy it. I crave hugs from my adult Son now 😊

Which she IMMEDIATELY followed by “just kidding”, which anyone with a functioning brain could already tell. The constant intentional, willful misinterpretation & ignoring of context of literally everything La says and does by you ignorant, hypocritical bullies is way more fun. Y’all are just embarrassing yourselves with every post.😳 Good job carrying the toxic-female-Bravo-fan torch and really leaning into your internalized misogyny. The lack of self-awareness and hypocrisy is astounding. Acting like a bunch of high school mean girls, ganging up on a woman for trying to protect herself, her mental & emotional health, and find peace for her growing family as she gets ready to welcome a whole new human into her life. What y’all are saying in the comments is far worse than anything La has ever said & done. You’re all a bunch of deeply stunted individuals. Do everyone around you a favor and grow TF up. Vile.

And everything lala says agrees with and is the sweetest thing she's heard 🙄.

If you try building muscle as you lose the weight, instead of just letting it fall off, you can avoid some of that loss of tissue, FYI. All women are going to lose that fat in that area after significant weight loss, but you can do things to help.

I so need to be on it

There’s definitely a major difference between being honest with someone and pointing out their behavior, etc. like you would for a friend and legit hate watching and being here to spread negativity. It’s Hippocratical to love us as long as we blow smoke up her ass. I think she’s a great mom, I think she’s funny, smart, love so many things about her…that doesn’t mean I always think she’s right and if you like someone you should be able to say “hey I think you’re out of line here for saying this”.

They’ve been hating on La for things they blatantly took out of context, or pretending they know her intentions or motivations for everything she says and does since Day 1 of her being on the show. It’s ugly, and pathetic. The bravo fandom continues to be a toxic cesspool of women hating on other women, just “for fun”. Meanwhile, the things they’re saying all over the internet are far worse than anything La has ever said or done, but they’re all still pretending they’re morally superior humans. It’s disgusting, and the height of hypocrisy. The rampant internalized misogyny continues to thrive with the female bravo fanbase. It’s fucking embarrassing for women everywhere.😳🤢

@@Birdiee93xy’all should try applying this to Ariana.🙄🤷🏻‍♀️ Trying to speak about hypocrisy, when you’re actively doing it as you type…yikes. People are allowed to do what’s best for their own emotional & mental wellbeing. Holding your friends emotionally hostage because they don’t want to keep draining themselves by pretending to hate someone as much as she does, the person who was actually in that relationship for nearly a decade, is just gross. It’s been 7 months at this point in the season, and that’s a long time for everyone else to have to hold onto that anger & hate for her. It serves no one, it’s not healthy for ANYBODY. & La is the only one that actually IS NOT trying to be friends with the man, and go back to just casually hanging out, aside from Katie. All she wanted was to let go of that animosity & anger that was present every time she was around him. It’s okay not to want that for yourself. Y’all are displaying a shocking amount of immaturity in not understanding this. Also, she’s consistently read critiques about her before from fans and admitted they were right & discussed her flaws and how she’s trying to handle certain situations differently…she’s not giving all the trolls that power this time, because the majority are either saying outright disgusting things that are nothing but a cruel character assassination full of lies, or flat-out INTENTIONALLY taking everything she says or does out of context, or willfully twisting why she’s doing what she’s doing. It’s ugly, and pathetic, and she should be dismissing the majority of the criticisms…calling it that is being nice. They’re a bunch miserable trolls with deep-seated internalized misogyny that they’ll never admit nor address.

@@Free420Loveyou clearly are a lala stan. We get it, you give her a pass and want to hate on the others who keep their mouth shut about their costars and haven’t policed Lala’s behaviours over the years like she did to them lol. I like lala but don’t you dare say “apply this to Ariana” when Ariana isn’t coming for lala or demanding to understand everyone else’s decisions, especially when they’re going through stuff. There’s compilations of all the times Ariana has been so supportive to lala over the years and held space for her even when she was being messy as hell. Like damn, lala can’t give any grace even when it comes to her friends own life decisions that don’t affect lala?

​@@Birdiee93xof course people can share their opinion, if you're being respectful about it then no one is talking about you, hun. That's not being a hater. But if you REALLY think all these comments are along the lines of a good friend kindly letting Lala know what's up, then I have a bridge to sell you.

She coerced a mentally challenged guy to kill her Mother and provided the knife, the bus ticket, house tour and why don’t you do a little research. Nick was honest to a fault and when he said he stabbed her Mother 8 time and the number was 16… you know damn well that WOMAN she was in her late 20’s, instructed and helped kill her at the time disabled Mother. Also she is a user and is putting Ryan on a smear campaign as most narcissistic people do. She is trying to embarrass him and for fkn what ? Just saying DO A LITTLE MORE RESEARCH YOURSELF?

Lala was being real? Let’s hope not cos that makes her an awful person. I’d rather think she was trying to cause drama to save the show. That still makes her selfish and a bad friend but it better than it being her true self. I used to like Lala, warts and all but season 11 is horrible. Scheana is awful too but that’s no surprise cos she’s always been shallow and self seeking. Ugh!