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@jessicasthul6774
@jessicasthul6774 4 года назад
Oprah Winfrey is a diamond... I watched this video with teary eyes...still weeping!
@kerrydehorney2949
@kerrydehorney2949 4 года назад
Me too
@AndreaSanchez-rr2qs
@AndreaSanchez-rr2qs 4 года назад
@Cow Boy vv !
@1111Annie
@1111Annie 4 года назад
Wake up!!!! Do some research
@kumarkishan8912
@kumarkishan8912 4 года назад
ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-EjDlaQ_9th0.html
@maryjanekadelski1588
@maryjanekadelski1588 4 года назад
Yeah poor okra her and kale have it so hard
@supreme.justice
@supreme.justice 4 года назад
Many of us needed just a hug and a word of comfort when we were kids. So sad that so many of us were deprived of it.
@adjuafrican2664
@adjuafrican2664 4 года назад
You're so right
@EmpressofChrist
@EmpressofChrist 4 года назад
Yup
@THEOMNIVERSEPERSPECTIVE
@THEOMNIVERSEPERSPECTIVE 4 года назад
Truth is, life is an individual journey, before being born we choose what we are going to go through. we weren’t deprived, we chose not to see that we were all we needed and love.
@arlene8420
@arlene8420 4 года назад
@@THEOMNIVERSEPERSPECTIVE if only we were taught the lessons of soul contracts, incarnations, past lives etc. at an early age the challenges would be so much easier to bear. But even our timeline for transformation we chose so that is also a liberating fact.
@rashimasimmons7583
@rashimasimmons7583 4 года назад
Hugs and kisses from above 🙏 KEEP ON SMILING 😊 7777
@ummahmedca
@ummahmedca Год назад
"Forgiveness is giving up the hope that the past could be any different" Love that!
@mindsigh4
@mindsigh4 Год назад
one time i was thinking about the Serenity prayer; "...may God grant me the serenity, ....to accept the _things i cannot change_ ..." & the things that fall under that category? *every single thing from my past*
@jocoder-williams4306
@jocoder-williams4306 Год назад
Forgiveness is for you & your well being.
@rubytuesday1316
@rubytuesday1316 4 месяца назад
And a gift we give ourselves But- we dont have to be a martyr.
@ZenjaGlass
@ZenjaGlass 4 года назад
“Forgiveness is a GIFT you give YOURSELF!”
@oprahwinfreyprivatechannel2603
@oprahwinfreyprivatechannel2603 4 года назад
Thanks Dear for listening and God bless you I'm very lucky to have a great fan like you, once again thank you for your comments and support, may the good Lord continue to guide you and grant you all your heart desires through Christ our Lord Amen 🙏 I will like to share some important information with you if you don't mind OK so I will like you to contact me personally through my Gmail address below winfreyoprah067@gmail.com
@22ilona
@22ilona 4 года назад
Oprah is a fomer showmen, who did everything for money. She has always search the opportunities to make a lot of money sacrifiind the truth only to have audience. She was so far the journalist number one to create and feed scandals about celebrities (only and exclusively celebrities, because the huge audience), she was the biggest tabloid's journalist. But, we can see, her "taste" changed and she chenged from the show buisinees to spiritual education. It's like a joke.Please, inform you before trust a such persona.
@bettycarr6599
@bettycarr6599 4 года назад
" AMEN TO THIS TRUTH; FIRST SERMON OF JESUS - THE CHRIST( ANOINTED; BURDEN BEARER-- POWER OF GOD). FORGIVING ATTITUDE IN MY LIFE ; HAS KEPT ME SANE"!! MADE SOME HORRIBLE CHOICES IN MY LIFE; THAT BRUISED MY 4 ADULT CHILDREN. I WROTE THEM LETTERS WHEN OUR FAMILY WAS BROKEN BY DIVORCE-- TO PLEASE FORGIVE US"!!?? ONLY ONE HAS ( 2020); OTHER 3 ARE ANGRY; BITTER; BLAME ME; NOW THAT THEIR DAD PASSED AWAY IN 2018. I'M THE REASON FOR ALL THEIR PAIN-- THANK GOD I'M FORGIVEN; FREE TO BE"!!?? PRAY THEY GET PEACE & JOY BEFORE THEY EXIT EARTH"!! FORGIVENESS IS KEY"!! HOLDING ON TO PAIN IS CANCEROUS; A ROOT OF BITTERNESS THAT ROTS YOUR VERY SOUL. DEAD MAN WALKING; --- I SO DECLINE TO LIVE LIKE THAT; EVER"!!!?? AMEN
@oprahwinfreyprivatechannel2603
@oprahwinfreyprivatechannel2603 4 года назад
Betty Carr God is great OK just contact me personally through my Gmail address for more information
@bettycarr6599
@bettycarr6599 4 года назад
@@22ilona "HATERS GONNA HATE-- SHE HAS DONE GOOD & BAD ; I'M SURE-- MADE SOME BAD CHOICES-- SUFFERED THE CONSEQUENCES-- SO HAVE YOU & I-- FO SHO-- LIVE ; LEARN-- TRUST THE PROCESS"!!## IJS
@r.a.contrerasma8578
@r.a.contrerasma8578 Год назад
"When you're a 10-gallon person in a one-pint family." That got me good. Some people can't give more love because of the hurt in their own hearts. It's comforting knowing that now. But it's hard, so very hard when you don't understand in those moments the hurt is happening. The best we can do is forgive our abusers, heal ourselves. It's THE gift available to all of us.
@rehanahrasheed4260
@rehanahrasheed4260 Год назад
Can’t understand your English
@QuestionEverythingButWHY
@QuestionEverythingButWHY 4 года назад
“Everyone wants to ride with you in the limo, but what you want is someone who will take the bus with you when the limo breaks down.” ― Oprah Winfrey
@jacquelyndavis6493
@jacquelyndavis6493 4 года назад
❤️
@MrsThollo
@MrsThollo 4 года назад
💥
@princessadaezeokoye9585
@princessadaezeokoye9585 4 года назад
Right
@kynathomas4809
@kynathomas4809 4 года назад
That part!♥️
@ladennayoung2939
@ladennayoung2939 4 года назад
Or would ride the bus with you before the limo was ever an option.
@alphasworld7848
@alphasworld7848 4 года назад
Forgiveness is a gift you give yourself... 100% true
@MrGoodman174
@MrGoodman174 4 года назад
True. Unless when it comes to forgive snakes. Then no.
@Ayyeliki
@Ayyeliki 4 года назад
And God has given US
@justmyopinion9883
@justmyopinion9883 4 года назад
Absolutely!
@LulabellaDonna
@LulabellaDonna 4 года назад
I loved it when she fell in front of everyone as she bragged to her audience of her ability and knowledge of balancing. Same with telling us how to parent, or be a spouse when she has no clue.
@alphaecka1949
@alphaecka1949 4 года назад
From where I stand Oprah it was shameful resenting your mother and to using the remark them up she comes around because of who you were is known them whenever you find any family member all your family member should be living in luxury because you so you'll be sick simple fact the only way you could have come into this world was the way you did and the treatment if your grandmother are disciplined Propel you into being who you are and that was the designation of the Mandate that surrounds you enter into something much more bigger than and anyting you could imagine .offer those deception you probably said it's best to let people know the resentment you had but you should have none in the firstplace before you should be thankful and whatever treatment you got because; guess what without all of those you would not have been who you are you today. the name she gave you was outstanding it reverse the Equinox to make you into who you are regardless of the fact your handler Quincy Jones this guy that's the end result of the product is the most important think because it brings about satisfaction whatever the ingredients goes into it it's important yes but the final product is more marketable than bits and pieces of something that amounts to nothing and the way you come on you need some rethinking cuz if you say you are not better off then because each person is, I'm fine it's kind of strange. person who tell you the story about homeless man and walking your dog and say you wish to be Oprah Winfrey that's the person you should have gone to a lease interview him you by so doing you would have climb a lot of stairways in the sky but you remember the incident yet you never show them because that would be fulfillment for him. Wake up Oprah Never too late.!!!
@lisas2538
@lisas2538 4 года назад
I have always had so much love and kindness from my mom. We have always been so close. She is 90. I take care of her and my dad now the way they took care of me. I know I have had a blessed life with my parents. I am grateful.
@helenboula3538
@helenboula3538 4 года назад
You're a very lucky person God bless you
@oprahwinfreyprivatechannel2603
@oprahwinfreyprivatechannel2603 4 года назад
Thanks Lisa for listening and God bless you I'm very lucky to have a great fan like you, once again thank you for your comments and support, may the good Lord continue to guide you and grant you all your heart desires through Christ our Lord Amen 🙏 I will like to share some important information with you if you don't mind OK so I will like you to contact me personally through my Gmail address below. winfreyoprah067@gmail.com
@oprahwinfreyprivatechannel2603
@oprahwinfreyprivatechannel2603 4 года назад
Helen Boula Thanks for listening and God bless you I'm very lucky to have a great fan like you, once again thank you for your comments and support, may the good Lord continue to guide you and grant you all your heart desires through Christ our Lord Amen 🙏 I will like to share some important information with you if you don't mind OK so I will like you to contact me personally through my Gmail address below.
@dianayankah9806
@dianayankah9806 4 года назад
@@oprahwinfreyprivatechannel2603 indeed, we all need love! Thanks for all the love you show to others. From west Africa, I have been drawing so much inspiration from you. I am going through some challenging moments but listening to you has always been a blessing. Thanks once again for being a rare gem 💎!!
@oprahwinfreyprivatechannel2603
@oprahwinfreyprivatechannel2603 4 года назад
Diana Yankah thank you and God bless you more OK just contact me personally through my Gmail address below winfreyoprah067@gmail.com
@shannonstarr7980
@shannonstarr7980 Год назад
I had a terrible mother. Verbally abusive. Never showed any love,affection, inspiration or encouragement. It’s difficult to think how a woman can be like that. I’ve tried to forgive but it’s really hard to. I spent many years in addiction to cover my pain - Years sober now. I feel the pain still
@nazimabegam1424
@nazimabegam1424 Год назад
Pls don't hurt urself for bad people. Who don't deserve anything good
@Victoria-ry2kq
@Victoria-ry2kq Год назад
I got you!🌸
@kathyk2777
@kathyk2777 Год назад
"Total Forgiveness" by RT Kendall is helping me. Also, in Gavin deBecker's book "The Gift of Fear," he talks about safety over justice. In the same vein, letting go is peace over justice.
@--ag
@--ag Год назад
Start on a journey to love yourself. Seek a therapist. Took me too many years but l think l like myself now. Baby steps.
@millicenthamilton-kakowski8275
I, also, had a verbally & emotionally abusive mother. I had a love/hate relationship w/her. When she died, I cried for the mother that I did not have. I don't miss her. I let her go--for good & I'm free!
@wisdom-for-all
@wisdom-for-all 4 года назад
When a deep injury is done to us, we never heal until we forgive. Forgiveness does not change the past, but it does enlarge the future 🖖
@mlle3297
@mlle3297 4 года назад
🙂🙂🙂🙂
@loisevans1771
@loisevans1771 4 года назад
Agree
@ladennayoung2939
@ladennayoung2939 4 года назад
@theophilusobimatthew2507
@theophilusobimatthew2507 4 года назад
Love is inexpressible
@marylamb7707
@marylamb7707 4 года назад
Ive been dealing with this double for a little while now. I dont understand any of it.
@jinhan5129
@jinhan5129 4 года назад
My mother was a kind person but unable to open her heart to her daughters. My sister never felt loved and me I just became the achiever in everything. Difficult relationship until the end of her life. A few hours before she passed this April, she was in a coma. I washed her face, touched her hands and talked to her telling her that she did the best she could and that all was well. Before leaving her, I kissed her forehead and told her that it was ok to go. She passed peacefully 2 hours later. I forgave her, I forgave myself as well and now I am indeed free.
@Piekyable
@Piekyable 4 года назад
Thank you from my hart.
@RMW22222
@RMW22222 4 года назад
@@Piekyable I can relate to your story 100%. I have tried for many years to have a relationship with my younger sister and now I believe deep down that she doesn't like me either. God has blessed me and I tried to help her but she takes advantage of my kindness and it hurts me. I'm almost ready to give up on a relationship with her. Very sad...
@tonyagetsreal8905
@tonyagetsreal8905 4 года назад
Maple leaf Forever yes god bless you. am glad to hear life stories like this.🙏🏾
@ladyo8297
@ladyo8297 4 года назад
Part of the reason why many of our blk men can't show emotion and communication is broken.
@suey8227
@suey8227 4 года назад
You did the right thing : )
@katrinkasanfranciscobayare7364
@katrinkasanfranciscobayare7364 3 года назад
Sometimes family does you more harm than good Edit: This is April 2022. I left my original comment one year ago and there are 1.4 k people that agree with this comment.
@dicksonselena6480
@dicksonselena6480 3 года назад
Hello katrina
@katrinkasanfranciscobayare7364
@katrinkasanfranciscobayare7364 3 года назад
@@dicksonselena6480 Hello and Happy New Year Ok and my name is KatrinKa 😁💞
@dicksonselena6480
@dicksonselena6480 3 года назад
Same to you, such a powerful word you said
@dicksonselena6480
@dicksonselena6480 3 года назад
Please can I have your email address so I can add you up on Hangout?
@dicksonselena6480
@dicksonselena6480 3 года назад
I would love to see the pretty face behind the phone
@DmitriRuwan
@DmitriRuwan 2 года назад
Repeatedly watching this video healed me. It healed my past traumas and healed my relationships. Thank you.
@TheBerkeleyBeauty
@TheBerkeleyBeauty 2 года назад
I realize when my daughter was two years old that I would never have the mother daughter relationship I had always wanted with my mother, so it was up to me to have that relationship with my daughter only from the other perspective. I have that precious relationship with my daughter. She and I are beyond close, and I thank my therapist for making me realize that I could not change the past but I could shape the future.
@MissFaisa
@MissFaisa 2 года назад
Amen. same here. well done 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@enzothegamer1442
@enzothegamer1442 2 года назад
Amen
@joshilapereira762
@joshilapereira762 2 года назад
My story is the same but I love my daughter and have a lovely relationship
@janicehamilton3175
@janicehamilton3175 2 года назад
AND YOU NEEDED A THERAPIST FOR THAT. WOW YOU COULDN'T TAKE CARE OF THAT YOURSELF. WOW, W0W, WOW. A MOTHER WOW. THAT'S DUMB WOW
@MissFaisa
@MissFaisa 2 года назад
@@janicehamilton3175 stop being a Debbie Downer . You sound angry & could do with a therapist yourself. have a blessed day
@EntrepDiaries
@EntrepDiaries 4 года назад
We have to accept that Not everyone has 10 gallons of love. That was powerful.
@apolishedtouchnailstudio
@apolishedtouchnailstudio 4 года назад
So TRUE!
@ummlubaba
@ummlubaba 3 года назад
You see no human can give you the 10 gallons of love back, no human can give you the love that will satisfy you fully, only god can do that
@marielaguerre5954
@marielaguerre5954 3 года назад
I love that
@helennyamutsamba2977
@helennyamutsamba2977 3 года назад
But its pretty painfull when they do not resprocate..
@helennyamutsamba2977
@helennyamutsamba2977 3 года назад
Subject of forgiveness, it has been the Best to listen to, ther is Power in Forgiveness
@milhouse14
@milhouse14 4 года назад
You may be bruised but you're not broken. Let us turn our wounds into wisdom.
@dickyilo6702
@dickyilo6702 4 года назад
👏👏👏
@22ilona
@22ilona 4 года назад
Oprah is a fomer showmen, who did everything for money. She has always search the opportunities to make a lot of money sacrifiind the truth only to have audience. She was so far the journalist number one to create and feed scandals about celebrities (only and exclusively celebrities, because the huge audience), she was the biggest tabloid's journalist. But, we can see, her "taste" changed and she chenged from the show buisinees to spiritual education. It's like a joke.Please, inform you before trust a such persona.
@emeldamudara2595
@emeldamudara2595 4 года назад
I agree
@rhondalawson4757
@rhondalawson4757 4 года назад
You may be bruised but you're not broken. Let us turn our wounds into wisdom
@carolynlevingston4666
@carolynlevingston4666 3 года назад
I’m a twin to you.The doors of the bus is shut close still. I went to my mother at age 17. I had to be the mother and she was the teenager.She put me on the bus and sent me back to the people that raised me.My biological family rejects me and others today.But God!
@sstraight86
@sstraight86 4 года назад
"Can't expect 10 gallon love from a pint person".......duly noted.
@lasvegashula
@lasvegashula 4 года назад
That’s deep.
@stompbaddess1772
@stompbaddess1772 4 года назад
That's real deep.
@ansonjaking5509
@ansonjaking5509 4 года назад
Thats good I like that!
@doralcardwell4876
@doralcardwell4876 4 года назад
People can't give what they don't have. My mother had nothing but rage and abuse for me. But I have been helped and have received much healing
@quasimobius
@quasimobius 4 года назад
Oprah's well on her way to needing 10 gallons of forgiveness herself. I have news for her, life is unpredictable, and she needs to lose that hate now, before she dies. later...that just doesn't count at Judgement Day. Beware of lightning and heart attacks, old girl. BTW, stop condemning an entire generation of strangers who never did you harm. ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE--1sWsn1Q8lk.html
@TonalliZeleste
@TonalliZeleste 3 года назад
3:36 When he told her "What if your show doesn't do well?" HER RESPONSE IS GOLD "I am not defined by a show, I think we are defined by the way we treat ourselves and the way we treat other people." I LOVE THAT SHE DOESN'T LET HIS SELF DOUBT AND INSECURITIES BECOME HERS, I LOVE THAT SHE NEVER LETS OTHERS DEFINE WHO SHE IS! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! THANK YOU OPRAH
@sheteg1
@sheteg1 3 года назад
Great moment in this interview.
@daliamcmahon5884
@daliamcmahon5884 3 года назад
Oprah was right!!!
@SunMoonStars-qc4qy
@SunMoonStars-qc4qy 2 года назад
❤️🔥💪🏼 yass
@freddiemontanez8461
@freddiemontanez8461 2 года назад
Celestial 7777+ l like your comment. I agree 💯 with you.
@TheLordsPearl
@TheLordsPearl 2 года назад
Oprah and Dr. Perry wrote a book about her experiences called "what happened to her?"
@KM-eo8uw
@KM-eo8uw 3 года назад
I thank God for my mother everyday! She’s the best mother in the entire universe!!!
@soulstired3654
@soulstired3654 3 года назад
Thank you for my mother and please forgive me for the mother I’ve been
@claritadavis3239
@claritadavis3239 3 года назад
Lucky you
@leticiadiaz7805
@leticiadiaz7805 3 года назад
You are fortunate.
@veronicautter3916
@veronicautter3916 3 года назад
You are so lucky, my mother used to bit me up, and told me that I will be ended my life in the street like a prostitute, my main gol in life was not be like my mother, I tell my daughter everyday how much I love her, and how much she means to me❤️
@lisbethandersen5608
@lisbethandersen5608 3 года назад
Wish I could say the same
@tammieparrishmiller3669
@tammieparrishmiller3669 Год назад
I have learned to forgive myself and then you can forgive those you felt hurt by. My mother, who actually wasn't there for me in the ways I needed her to be is the one who taught me that. She did the best she could with what she knew and what she had. She is now my best friend and best mother. I love her so very much and I'm so grateful to have her in my life 💓 💛 💗
@yvonnesmith8233
@yvonnesmith8233 Год назад
It happens to many of us children.Some grew up in large families and there were other females,a grandma or an aunt or two aunts or even a big suster,who will give you that love that hug for you to flourish, to grow and bloom . LIFE IS LIKE THAT.BUT Then there are some who never even had that none of that God help those to come out to make a kife,not knowing they were loved by anyone.
@tammieparrishmiller3669
@tammieparrishmiller3669 Год назад
@@yvonnesmith8233 You have many good examples of what life can or could have been. My father who was raised by a madman was beaten on a daily basis and kicked out of the home at 14 and lived under a bridge for some time before an Aunt and Uncle found him. He knew only how to beat to get his way. It took him many years to learn to be a real man and a real father. I finally got to have a relationship with him that was loving before he passed.
@elainebutler3102
@elainebutler3102 Год назад
❤❤❤my mom became my best friend also what a blessing 😢😢😢
@tammieparrishmiller3669
@tammieparrishmiller3669 Год назад
@@elainebutler3102 It is a true blessing and I am so happy for you that it turned out that way! We are some of the lucky ones for sure! Take good care and Merry Christmas!
@amydawn3516
@amydawn3516 3 года назад
Not being allowed to cry when you are being hurt. I understand how she feels.
@lindmohamad3726
@lindmohamad3726 2 года назад
Prophets cry..
@KateBates22zabu
@KateBates22zabu 2 года назад
Shut up! Or I'll really give you something to cry about was a mantra in my youth
@lindmohamad3726
@lindmohamad3726 2 года назад
@@KateBates22zabu Oh dear that's sad to hear. Compassion compassion...
@southside4000
@southside4000 2 года назад
Every black kid got that treatment. She's not special
@lindmohamad3726
@lindmohamad3726 2 года назад
@@southside4000 Every father does this , worldwide, for those *who do not understand*.
@QuestionEverythingButWHY
@QuestionEverythingButWHY 4 года назад
“Turn your wounds into wisdom.” ― Oprah Winfrey
@jamesdemetro8819
@jamesdemetro8819 4 года назад
So why is she still bitter and sad
@MrGoodman174
@MrGoodman174 4 года назад
Big words coming from a serpent crone.
@Nuatida
@Nuatida 4 года назад
And sell you soul for money. Oprah is so rich! No soul.
@shammidean8084
@shammidean8084 4 года назад
Hats off to you Opera Such an amazing Human being. Not sure if i am so strong , i have tried. It us very difficult.
@jamesdemetro8819
@jamesdemetro8819 4 года назад
She's the devil .. Prove me wrong.. She never cared for anyone but herself.. If she does like or care for someone , She only shows it on camera..
@noorjemilah8672
@noorjemilah8672 4 года назад
I am in tears. This brings back some difficult memories
@b.schannell747
@b.schannell747 3 года назад
Bless u...same HERE🙏🏽 we STRONG God. Gots US!💯💯
@419iam
@419iam 3 года назад
🤗
@aliciadarling5983
@aliciadarling5983 3 года назад
Hugs for you baby girl, and all of us who needed it then...and needs it now🤗
@soulstired3654
@soulstired3654 3 года назад
Only the strength of the Lord and faith can get you through this
@soulstired3654
@soulstired3654 3 года назад
Teach and keep teaching
@davidpp330
@davidpp330 Год назад
I’m really glad Oprah was able to close out what she needed to say to her Mom. I never thought of forgiveness for my Parents at all until I watched this video.
@andream8176
@andream8176 4 года назад
“They were broken when you got them” eye opening and powerful
@katierayford5743
@katierayford5743 4 года назад
Ilks by I by
@heatherpike5230
@heatherpike5230 4 года назад
@@oprahwinfreyprivatechannel2603 no one is that stupid.
@OO-ct4hq
@OO-ct4hq 4 года назад
@@heatherpike5230 They literally thought
@ellie-tk4jy
@ellie-tk4jy 2 года назад
@@oprahwinfreyprivatechannel2603 YOu are evil for doing this. Oprah is kind and caring and you just want to cheat vulnerable people of their money. Honestly you belong in prison. Revolting.
@bearlytraincot4131
@bearlytraincot4131 4 года назад
She was an adorable child. God gave that girl some strength, SMDH! And what a gift she has been to so many.
@heatherbledsoe9956
@heatherbledsoe9956 4 года назад
I thought she was a cute lil thing.Hard to Imagine some light skin women being so wrong to her, it's heartbreaking and disgusting.
@theliberalthinker3308
@theliberalthinker3308 3 года назад
She's amazing. She had the determination and optimism that led her to succeed.
@Warmfireandtea
@Warmfireandtea 3 года назад
She was luckily steel at her core and very very smart.
@teemadarif8243
@teemadarif8243 3 года назад
Plus her "father" Vernon wouldn't have it any other way.
@toniannpitters1198
@toniannpitters1198 Год назад
Opera was sooo darn adorable when she was a baby and a little girl. Who could abuse such a sweet little innocent face
@gloriaf6971
@gloriaf6971 Год назад
Yes. She was precious. I love those pictures of Oprah.
@saphire7693
@saphire7693 4 года назад
There are so many mothers who cant love their kids..motherhood is not a universal emotion as portrayed🥺
@anneistee7850
@anneistee7850 4 года назад
True, coz they can't give what they don't have and never received
@saphire7693
@saphire7693 4 года назад
@@anneistee7850 May be ie genetic. I have seen orphans being better parents. Strange are the ways of the world!
@gracemercy5478
@gracemercy5478 4 года назад
Period!
@marlynoconnor5502
@marlynoconnor5502 4 года назад
Hi
@ideasimaginations899
@ideasimaginations899 4 года назад
Very true....both my parents were unbearable...
@verucasalt6519
@verucasalt6519 2 года назад
The way she looked at that man when asked about her show and said, “It’ll do well.” The understatement of the century right there! To have her courage, determination, and self-awareness…wow. She is an amazing human being.
@HairAffairbyElle
@HairAffairbyElle Год назад
I love Veruca Salt
@tinarunge1693
@tinarunge1693 3 года назад
Tears in my eyes. Forgiveness. Release. Healing to all with God's help.
@fredrickelof9031
@fredrickelof9031 3 года назад
Hello how are you doing?
@thegratitudeattitude67
@thegratitudeattitude67 Год назад
I know the feeling of having parents who don't want you until you begin to show signs that you will succeed.
@chrisallen7911
@chrisallen7911 3 года назад
Reverend Jakes has changed my life by his important message. I have always been a 10 gallon/talent person and never understood why my parents couldn't give me the same. I now realize they were broken in their own way and were giving all they had to give. Thank you God for opening up my eyes tonight and thank you Reverend Jakes.
@DeannaWelchCram
@DeannaWelchCram 3 года назад
Amen to that! Wonderful, profound, touching message!
@lisap4222
@lisap4222 3 года назад
Love your words
@motherofthreeb6337
@motherofthreeb6337 2 года назад
Only Christ is to be reverenced; no man should hold that title. He sent redemption unto his people: he hath commanded his covenant for ever: holy and reverend is his name. Psalm 111:9 kjv
@judsjoglorycarrier6125
@judsjoglorycarrier6125 2 года назад
Such a powerful Message from Rev TD jakes
@janjdavis1
@janjdavis1 2 года назад
Some pastors call him TD Snakes...lol
@airicaxoxo
@airicaxoxo 4 года назад
Honestly, would Oprah be who she is today if her mom kept her? Her struggle became her power like many of our struggles and tribulations (can) become.
@ChitraJayawardena
@ChitraJayawardena 3 года назад
Exactly.
@barrymarcus4980
@barrymarcus4980 3 года назад
Airica how are you doing?
@sophiepiepie7126
@sophiepiepie7126 3 года назад
I NEVER DREAM AMERICA.BUT TO HUG THIS QUEEN IS MY DREAM. 💙💚
@barrymarcus4980
@barrymarcus4980 3 года назад
@@sophiepiepie7126 hello how are you doing
@samorabeth7715
@samorabeth7715 3 года назад
@@ChitraJayawardena hey
@OlivierDeVuyst
@OlivierDeVuyst 4 года назад
I am speechless... this hits close to home. Thanks you Goalcast for this! "Forgiveness is giving up the hope that the past could be any different, forgiving is accepting that it HAS happend to you"
@Counselingforlife
@Counselingforlife 4 года назад
She’s taking about radical acceptance... ♥️ Tara Brach Phd
@candyk9864
@candyk9864 4 года назад
Thank you so much for those words😭😭😭😭you literally made me cry
@janekim5895
@janekim5895 4 года назад
This is 🔥 burning down all the way home 🏠!
@carolinejohnson985
@carolinejohnson985 2 года назад
Most times it amazes me greatly the way I moved from an average lifestyle to earning over 63k per month, utter shock is the word. I have understood a lot in the past few years to doubt that opportunities abound in the financial markets, The only thing is to know where to focus.
@elizabethalbert264
@elizabethalbert264 2 года назад
Do you know her?
@santospaulinho5994
@santospaulinho5994 2 года назад
Investments are stepping stone to success investing is what creates wealth, I need a real broker to guide me through my trading course.
@ameliawilliams8522
@ameliawilliams8522 2 года назад
My first investment in my portfolio was in the forex market with $1870. With Stephanie operating on my behalf, the portfolio balance is currently $17017.
@mimibee409
@mimibee409 3 года назад
Sometimes its a blessing to be removed from some people because being with them would have harmed you more even though the rejection seems to be the biggest hurtful thing they did. Its not about forgiveness, its about recognising that they were never good for you and that by rejecting you, they in fact saved you from them...its the appreciation for not letting them break you further
@wokebrokeinVancouver
@wokebrokeinVancouver 2 года назад
I said this to my therapist the other day. God removed me from my family to save me. I was incredible hurt by people who judged me, shunned me and treated me like dirt based on other people's words. Now I know that they shunning me was for my own good. Let's be honest it doesn't feel good but I'm greatful for therapy to finally work through these emotions I could never show.
@kariukisusan754
@kariukisusan754 2 года назад
I agree 101%
@KateBates22zabu
@KateBates22zabu 2 года назад
My mom abandoning us was def a blessing I. Disguise tho I didn't recognize it til I was in my 50's.
@patriciacano3549
@patriciacano3549 2 года назад
Amen!!!! 🙏 I am so better off now!!!
@agnescruz12
@agnescruz12 2 года назад
100% truthness in all cases. . . There are thousands or millions of people who have this experience and it might have been different endings in some cases. . . However it boils down to one thing: Rejection is a Blessing in itself. No matter how HURTFUL, it is an opportunity for our own growth, genuine Happiness . . . Then when we eventually FORGIVE, we become FREE.
@Shay_TheUnpopularOpinion_
@Shay_TheUnpopularOpinion_ 4 года назад
When TD JAKES had that message about the 10 gallons Vs a Pint , I almost bawled my eyes out!!! That was the best analogy I could ever hear 💕💕Didn’t expect this to be this powerful!
@oprahwinfreyprivatechannel2603
@oprahwinfreyprivatechannel2603 4 года назад
Thanks Shay for listening and God bless you I'm very lucky to have a great fan like you, once again thank you for your comments and support, may the good Lord continue to guide you and grant you all your heart desires through Christ our Lord Amen 🙏 I will like to share some important information with you if you don't mind OK so I will like you to contact me personally through my Gmail address below.
@audreyclearwater3828
@audreyclearwater3828 4 года назад
Same. It stopped me in my tracks and I finally understand that I have so much hurt and anger that needs to be released. I honestly didn’t realize it until he spoke those words.
@tebogomeyersfeld8562
@tebogomeyersfeld8562 4 года назад
It stopped me in my tracks too. Something has definitely shifted in me. That was my aha moment
@melramrattan1093
@melramrattan1093 4 года назад
Beautiful analogy
@samorabeth7715
@samorabeth7715 3 года назад
How can I know you?
@TeeMBabs
@TeeMBabs 2 года назад
That was powerful! My mother raised my sisters, my brother, and I by herself. She gave up her life for us. My mother is a Queen, a true GIFT from GOD! If I can give her the world I would! Thank you MOTHER for loving me, being my mentor and my savior! I will love you for eternity!!!
@Doueru8394
@Doueru8394 2 года назад
Power woman. She is my mom's twin.. She gave us her ALL by HERSELF
@beckerethan8293
@beckerethan8293 2 года назад
Hello Tee, happy new year to you and how are you doing?
@barbaracreel2777
@barbaracreel2777 2 года назад
Your mother should have thought about that each time she laid down with a man without any birth control. If there was no birth control then control herself from dropping her drawers for all them times. My mother had 5 children before she discovered birth control except hers was cancer of the uterus. She had to have a complete hysterectomy then she had breast cancer but was fortunate enough to use chemotherapy and radiation.
@payrpaynoattn809
@payrpaynoattn809 2 года назад
This
@marquitasozio7489
@marquitasozio7489 2 года назад
Why didn't your mother GIVE YOU ALL A FATHER? I'll tell you why. Because welfare, WIC and all the other social programs replaced Daddy. The more kids she had, the more money she got. My money. My tax money and I resent anyone who has children and replaces her children's father with a check and be as immoral as she wants. Go to work and support your children. Your gravy train has stopped. The country is changing for the good of the people. Today is just the beginning of getting the USA back on track so get used to it.
@tinamariarandez
@tinamariarandez Год назад
Thank our Lord his love for her gave oprah the strength to realize her specialness!♥️
@Person-mh6xq
@Person-mh6xq Год назад
Nonsense! The Lord didn’t do it. Oprah did it.
@RXM73
@RXM73 3 года назад
This helped me release a ton of hurt and resentment I'd been holding on to since childhood. I wanted to let it go, to free myself from immense disappointment and sadness, it ate at me and It played in my head like an old movie watched on repeat. It's been helpful to look at my father from a different perspective. I'm voluminous with 10plus gallons of love to give and and my greatest accomplishment has been to Let. It. Go! The chains I felt bound to were my own doing and I had the power all along to set myself free. I'm happier now and I can look back with understanding and compassion.....and love.
@elizabethapa-davis297
@elizabethapa-davis297 2 года назад
Hello Robert, I am so pleased to hear that you now feel free - I could even sense the relief come across in your words. Well done. Unfortunately, I have not been able to reach that point in my life towards my sister. But I live in hope. I wish you a happy 😊 life. Best wishes,, Liz
@MsEmworld
@MsEmworld 2 года назад
Understanding the truth sets you free & brings about "compassion" vs " pity" for the broken. Remember that broken ppl break others until the cycle breaks! Be blessed!
@ladyunique6010
@ladyunique6010 2 года назад
Awww...hope you are much at peace now.
@inmyopinionwisdom4986
@inmyopinionwisdom4986 2 года назад
I REJOICE with you! May God bless you for letting go of all that hurt & resentment. You REPLACED it with UNDERSTANDING, COMPASSION & LOVE...and yes, FORGIVENESS! *Ephesians 4:31-32; "Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you." ... 2 Corinthians 12:8-9 :-D
@RXM73
@RXM73 2 года назад
@@elizabethapa-davis297 thank you so much for your kind words. I'm no stranger to the struggle so I understand and I too have hope you will find your freedom. All the best to you.
@pattiocon6075
@pattiocon6075 4 года назад
😢😢my mother could not HAVE even LOVED me..but im a better MOTHER to my children
@rukiahabdulkadir521
@rukiahabdulkadir521 4 года назад
Patti O'con good on you god bless you keeps strong
@pattiocon6075
@pattiocon6075 4 года назад
@@rukiahabdulkadir521 ❤❤👍👍🙏🙏
@nurfadlina5211
@nurfadlina5211 4 года назад
Don't be sad. Forgive your mum. Best thing will come soon for you sister.
@tammi67able
@tammi67able 4 года назад
God bless you for breaking that chain!
@pattiocon6075
@pattiocon6075 4 года назад
@@tammi67able thk u but i was just THERE AND GOD PUT HIS HANDS on me and carried me and never LEFT ME..Im so greatful 🙏🙏👍👍
@Summer-ju4pj
@Summer-ju4pj 3 года назад
Someone once told me that forgiveness is letting go the desire for revenge. Everyone desires a loving mother
@fredrickelof9031
@fredrickelof9031 3 года назад
Hello how are you?
@stephenconnell3645
@stephenconnell3645 Год назад
Hey Oprah, I just stumbled across this. I went through Savage abuse as a child. You struck a chord when you talked about a person telling a child not to cry when they're being beaten for no reason at all in my case. I actually got beaten for a crime I didn't do from the age of two and a half years old. At 50 years old I was told something and it really had no value at all. Over time bits and pieces made sense to me. I do realize one thing when someone has been there it's good medicine to see that they survived. Thanks for sharing that- meaning your experience, it meant something to hear it. You can't learn things like that in a book .Only people that have been on the other end of it make sense to me. You got to be one tough lady. Thanks again XO
@stephenconnell3645
@stephenconnell3645 Год назад
@Waffle_guy2099 thanks for the comment. Every once in awhile people are knowingly will pick at that scar. Who knows maybe they do know what they're doing? For the most part I have a pretty good grip on things nowadays. But never really related to anybody sometimes that stinks
@aidenfermanagh6207
@aidenfermanagh6207 Год назад
I'm so sorry that you were abused. I hope that you have healed and are now thriving.
@palesasechai624
@palesasechai624 Год назад
The best gift you gave both you and your mom is Peace. Well done Miss Oprah. I have learned a lot from this video. Thank you
@monyauz6997
@monyauz6997 4 года назад
It is a huge pain when we realize that a parent is not really interested in a child or treats him/her bad....another big pain - feeling ''not enough" because of own skin colour....Why do people hurt other people like this...no empathy, no sensitivity.... "We are 10 gallon people...'' I started crying.... "Forgiveness is a gift given to yourself"....I am still crying... After Oprah's documentary I have decided to visit my father (after 40 years)...
@sharonlenton7312
@sharonlenton7312 4 года назад
Wow,tht had to be a deep decision
@chetnanath4985
@chetnanath4985 4 года назад
More power you dear...
@mahmoudyosif8803
@mahmoudyosif8803 4 года назад
how do you feel after doing that?
@sammysiko
@sammysiko 4 года назад
Nothing is more traumatising than past experiences. Thank you so much for sharing. I hope everyone who's going through something heals and forgive💓
@antheadonaldson2088
@antheadonaldson2088 3 года назад
Every time I seek clarity I watch this and "Let them go" Dr Jakes. "They were broken when you got them.......a gift you give yourself"!!!!!!!!✊✊✊
@dicksonselena6480
@dicksonselena6480 3 года назад
Hello Anthea
@liveitup2.0
@liveitup2.0 3 года назад
Anthea Donaldson, I do to
@TheVelvetLoungeLife
@TheVelvetLoungeLife Год назад
The worst thing is when the two people that are supposed to love you the absolute most completely try to destroy you with emotional, physical and mental abuse. It is 100% unforgivable. It is okay not to forgive as long as you do not let it destroy you or impact your life. Use it as a catalyst for success. That's what I did and after discarding those people from my life life is good, life is peaceful, life is creative and my life has been highly successful. Lastly, just because "your parents were broken when you got them" as TD Jakes said... That is a zero excuse for any abuse. As a matter of fact, it should be a lesson and choice to them in what not to do.
@zelilee5312
@zelilee5312 3 года назад
My mother was verbally and emotionally abusive too. I’m glad Oprah could openly talk about things like this. My mother treated me like a slave and never said anything good to me until I became successful.
@mchoudhary9571
@mchoudhary9571 3 года назад
God bless uh
@kasnarfburns210
@kasnarfburns210 3 года назад
Have you forgiven your mother?
@jasminemayo872
@jasminemayo872 3 года назад
She probably didn't know how to love. So sorry about that.
@zelilee5312
@zelilee5312 3 года назад
@@kasnarfburns210 She never understood what she did wrong. She never admitted any guilt. I wish I can forgive her and heal.
@zelilee5312
@zelilee5312 3 года назад
@@jasminemayo872 Some people have kids to use them for financial gain, to make them support the adults who cannot be adults.
@andrebarnes6750
@andrebarnes6750 3 года назад
“I knew Oprah was going to be something.” Woman please you did Oprah dirty and you didn’t think she was going to be anything. Stop lying.
@monicamoreira8863
@monicamoreira8863 3 года назад
Yes, now they know who OPRAH is so she is loved now!
@monicamoreira8863
@monicamoreira8863 3 года назад
Yes 👍 forgiveness is everything!
@dalondabaker2121
@dalondabaker2121 3 года назад
Please forgive her mother.
@meriandimond5442
@meriandimond5442 3 года назад
I thought 💭 same thing 🤔
@thepriestess5969
@thepriestess5969 4 года назад
Forgiveness does not exonerate the perpetrator, it does not justify their behavior. Forgiveness is a gift that you give yourself. T. D Jakes
@Lady--G
@Lady--G 4 года назад
Amen ❤💜
@messue428
@messue428 4 года назад
And amen
@margh737
@margh737 3 года назад
Semantics...Flowery words.
@esthertesi2956
@esthertesi2956 Год назад
Oprah’s example teaches me that despite what one w n’y through in life, there is no excuse to allow that incident or situation to cause you to become or remain a bitter person, or worse still delinquent because of the challenges or bitter experiences in one’s childhood. There are quite a few like Oprah who can’t speak of their positive effects on others despite the terrible things they too went through. Thank God we have people like Oprah who have platforms to educate the world. Awesome Oprah. You are an inspiration to billions of people.
@TheWonderingBelle
@TheWonderingBelle 4 года назад
"We are ten-gallon people, but we may have been born into families of people who have pint capacities." -Bishop T.D. Jakes
@anniedcruz7025
@anniedcruz7025 4 года назад
AWSOME .... eye-opener
@tanyamcclure3700
@tanyamcclure3700 4 года назад
Everything in life is a lesson to each on everyone and the Planet 🌎 for us to learn and when we recognize it and overcome it, to see what it make us be ! We help others to know, that pain can be healed, when we accept it and not Suppressing it with things to hide it, we can heal if something is hiddenOthers things that can not help! the BIBLE teaches US we can Overcome with truth! Thank you for your video❤️
@Gamma2Boys
@Gamma2Boys 4 года назад
I felt that in my soul .........
@TheWonderingBelle
@TheWonderingBelle 4 года назад
@@anniedcruz7025 Yeah, I was struck by that statement too.
@thehow2Collection
@thehow2Collection 4 года назад
true, but how do you cope with knowing that now and not realizing it 10 years ago 😥 (still grateful to God) - but it took me 10 years to realize this one huge rule. almost 90% of those in my vicinity were pint size and very much content in doing the same thing forever, like ZERO aspirations, and they never bat an eye to all my aspirations. now that i know they're pints, it all makes sense. you can't pour gallons of dreams or energy into a pint.
@emefreeman1905
@emefreeman1905 4 года назад
“Forgiveness is giving up the hope that the past could have been any different.”
@minnie6163
@minnie6163 4 года назад
That's beautiful 🙁😭
@CatherineSTodd
@CatherineSTodd 4 года назад
Miro, this is the best statement I have ever read. That's it in a nutshell. THANK YOU!
@milhouse14
@milhouse14 4 года назад
Let us instead turn our wounds into wisdom.
@likeitism
@likeitism 4 года назад
This was a golden statement from oprah
@Grace-jb1sl
@Grace-jb1sl 4 года назад
So powerful.😨
@FavorsMeChelC
@FavorsMeChelC 2 года назад
“Forgiveness is giving up the hope that the past could be any different.” “You think that forgiveness is accepting that something happened to you. Well… it accepting that it HAS happened to you. Not accepting that it was okay for it to happen… it is accepting that it HAS happened.” Hold grudges for both and no one so that the past doesn’t hold you prisoner. Forgiveness FREES YOU!!! -Oprah Winfrey “Forgiveness is a gift you give yourself.” -T.D. Jakes
@kathyr.8135
@kathyr.8135 2 года назад
HER PLASTIC SURGEON. HE PULLED THE SKIN BACK SO FAR IT HAS OUTLINED HER CHEEKS AND THEY LOOK LIKE ROCKS
@asriehikaru85
@asriehikaru85 2 года назад
It’s has very deep meaning
@jenmdawg
@jenmdawg 2 года назад
Yes. And if those we forgive want to continue their harm we can remove them from our lives without anger or resentment.
@carolwilliams7007
@carolwilliams7007 Год назад
Forgiveness helps to heal broken heart , free your mind from your past and allows you to live a prayerful life. You did the right thing your conscience is clear and you have been pardon ,Give thanks and praise to the Almighty for heart he gave you to overcame your struggles.You did well.
@nathanbrowne4967
@nathanbrowne4967 Год назад
The world can hurt you but God loves us through our struggles
@Person-mh6xq
@Person-mh6xq Год назад
Oh please.
@vikkismith7497
@vikkismith7497 3 года назад
You can forgive people but it's hard to forget especially when Im still see the one that hurts me. It like pouring salt on wounds.
@dicksonselena6480
@dicksonselena6480 3 года назад
That is true,great words vikki
@duygusnckttn_4181
@duygusnckttn_4181 3 года назад
“If you forgive but don’t forget u didn’t forgive to begin with .” Just keep that in mind 🙏🏼
@delishme2
@delishme2 3 года назад
That's not forgiveness honey. Forgiveness is for you. Also, forgiveness doesn't necessarily mean these people get to have a place in your life if you don't want them to. Often it comes when you love yourself enough to say, sorry but no more and walk away, or stop having a relationship with them. Pray on it, and over time it will come. Forgiveness is the key that opens the last door to your peace. No way to get to peace, without going through the door of forgiveness. But only you will know when you are truly ready in your heart to put the key in the lock, turn it ,and walk on through. Good luck to you.
@isurrendertoyou7498
@isurrendertoyou7498 3 года назад
Yes..nobody can easily forget..that's normal bt try not to hold grudge or do passive aggressive attitude cs that way u will engage yourself in the negativity!!
@uzalet6826
@uzalet6826 3 года назад
Personally, same. People in my life choke the words "I said I'm sorry," down my throat. And then, when I say for what? They rationalize any kind of wounds they caused to protect digging the deep and kind of the selfishness behind it. So, it's kind of for me, a forgiveness is not a anything you should give anyone if they don't deserve it. When you haven't learned or reflected anything from it. It's the other person's fault at this point. Can imagine being guilt-tripped for not accepting a half-assed sorry.
@devindhoojeet905
@devindhoojeet905 4 года назад
Be strong no matter what. Its better to die on your feet than to live your entire life on your knee.
@nikapiggee8340
@nikapiggee8340 Год назад
Thanks Oprah I needed to hear this on this day and I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart ❤️💐🙏
@cmclayton1986
@cmclayton1986 3 года назад
Forgiveness is so hard I'm still working in it. Trying to forgive those who hurt me.
@chrissymatondo9549
@chrissymatondo9549 3 года назад
forgiveness is a very important as human being we also need to be forgiven
@Naomi.magar11
@Naomi.magar11 3 года назад
Pray to Lord Jesus and He will deliver you from it.
@sissycynara6585
@sissycynara6585 4 года назад
I forgave my mother and have moved on. She can’t give what she doesn’t have. What can I do if my mother can’t love regardless I’m her daughter. It was a pain in me that left me dysfunctional as a person that I hate myself until Jesus showed what love is, then I realized I don’t need any love from anyone, it’s just a bonus. God’s love is more than enough. Love is what you give away. Not what you recieved....
@puja6964
@puja6964 4 года назад
Wonderful
@patriciaicon
@patriciaicon 4 года назад
I believe abusive people have a mental disorder......getting people help is the first step....spiritual help.....then talk to the person.....tell them the good things you apprreciate about them and be their friend
@sissycynara6585
@sissycynara6585 4 года назад
Patricia Cornell It’s either deluded or plain evil. Science has lots of justification of evilness. My mother regretted everything on her death bed and I forgave her. She died in the hands of the Lord
@michekids
@michekids 4 года назад
Truth
@SexyRed7474
@SexyRed7474 4 года назад
Thats beautiful and absolutely correct. God bless you.
@debraharris776
@debraharris776 4 года назад
FORGIVENESS is a very Profound & Powerful word. In order to be forgiven, you have to be willing to forgive. FORGIVENESS will indeed set you FREE!!!!!!
@esoc1100
@esoc1100 3 года назад
I cried so hard at the gallons reference, i felt like My question was answered finally, Thankyou Jesus
@kaym804
@kaym804 4 года назад
She shows no matter what you suffer through you can still live a wonderful, giving life!
@oprahwinfreyprivatechannel2603
@oprahwinfreyprivatechannel2603 4 года назад
Thanks Kay for listening and God bless you I'm very lucky to have a great fan like you, once again thank you for your comments and support, may the good Lord continue to guide you and grant you all your heart desires through Christ our Lord Amen 🙏 I will like to share some important information with you if you don't mind OK so I will like you to contact me personally through my Gmail address below winfreyoprah067@gmail.com
@barrymarcus4980
@barrymarcus4980 3 года назад
Kay are you sure about that.
@joanalfred1390
@joanalfred1390 2 года назад
This is something I wish I could share with one of my daughters, but it would probably make her more angry with me. I was a divorced woman with two daughters, who also had siblings using and dealing with drugs, who was trying to stay away from drugs and keep them away from that kind of environment. I admitted to her that I had to be hard at times because of the environment we lived in at times; and how I had to deal with my siblings, avoiding drugs and dealers approaching us after they (my kids) got out of school and I got off of work. My main focus was for me not to get caught up using drugs, and make sure that didn’t get addicted. She told me the same thing I heard in this video, “I didn’t give her the love and affection she needed as a child”. Our relationship changed after she was discharged from the Marines over twenty years ago but has gotten worse over the last two years.
@nickyjones2709
@nickyjones2709 2 года назад
I've been in a similar situation as you. Whereabouts you live and have to bring your children up has a large part to play. Drug dealers lived nextdoor to me, single mother, for 10years. It was awful, definitely the worse time of my life. Police were useless, housing landlords were useless. I just had to put up with it. And you do your best that's all anyone can do ❤️
@inog3633
@inog3633 3 года назад
This is so heart breaking. I don't know if you can really truly forgive. I don't know if you can ever heal the wounds. I feel you just find a way to live and survive
@lyterbug
@lyterbug 3 года назад
I’m a living testimony that you can truly forgive someone whole heartedly. It has been a complete gift from got to forgive and let go, in its self have healed me.
@lyterbug
@lyterbug 3 года назад
GOD*
@LyleKN
@LyleKN 3 года назад
I hear you, but forgiveness is not saying that what was done in the past was good or acceptable. True forgiveness is giving up the hope that things could have been different and coming to the realization that those who transgressed us did so because as he says, they were also broken and were doing all they knew at that time. Forgiveness allows us not to forget the past but to give up holding onto it and only then can we move on. Holding on to the past is like drinking poison and expecting it to harm the other person. It never works that way because we are then consumed with negativity which erodes us from the inside. Others cannot heal us, only we can do that for ourselves. Listening to others can facilitate the healing process but we have to be open to it in order for it to take affect. .❤
@inog3633
@inog3633 3 года назад
@@LyleKN I really like your prospective
@MrsNsf74
@MrsNsf74 3 года назад
Maybe can't forgive but just absolve them
@michellefilak631
@michellefilak631 3 года назад
Wow! When he said ‘that’s because she was broken before she got you’ ... that was powerful!!!!! That was stated so simply yet truly profound!!!!
@Kcarneirowashere
@Kcarneirowashere 2 года назад
I deserve the 10 gallon and I was given NOTHING. I deserve this sit down with my mom as well. I bet Oprah feels so ok.
@awakeninganna
@awakeninganna 4 года назад
“I am not defined by a show. I believe we are all defined by how we treat ourselves and how we treat other people” Oprah. Crushing it. I love her ❤️
@taniachara77
@taniachara77 4 года назад
So we should define her regarding how she treats black men🧐
@ericmoore6716
@ericmoore6716 3 года назад
@@taniachara77 how are you doing today my name is Eric Moore
@izamils
@izamils Год назад
My mother was 17 when she had me. I am now 17. I've barely had any contact with her since she went M.I.A. about 4 years ago, but I hope as I grow older to reconnect with her. I feel so much anger towards her, though, and I feel like this video has made me reconsider why I am actually mad. She was 17, and she tried to give me and my siblings a good life. She had 3 kids by the time she was about 23. She was just doing the best she could at the time with her own struggles. Oprah is my idol. I hope to be as strong as her someday in the future.
@ashleywhite2362
@ashleywhite2362 4 года назад
God bless you sweetheart, you showed the world what determination and hard work can achieve. You had an incredibly difficult upbringing and yet you have made such an impact on millions of people’s lives around the world with your charity work, helping out members of the black community and just inspiring the community in general. You deserve every happiness in the world and I’m so pleased that you have finally found it. Hugs from the uk. Xxx
@ericmoore402
@ericmoore402 3 года назад
How are you doing today my name is Eric
@sterlinggold9859
@sterlinggold9859 3 года назад
This makes me reconnect Oprah again. I'm in my sixties,and STILL trying to discover who I am. I totally agree with forgiveness...a start. Thank you and Amen.
@silentislandprojects2379
@silentislandprojects2379 2 года назад
Wow, now that waked me up, after 60 years I finely understand my mom did what she could, it was me who needed more! Thanks for the eye opener, Monique.
@munyaradzimushato9102
@munyaradzimushato9102 2 года назад
Thank you Oprah for the insights on forgiveness : accepting that it happened, not what happened! Powerful. The other point that made me cry is the statement by that other speaker: sometimes what people give us is all they have.....so let's all learn to appreciate any love we get from others.....oh my God!!!!!!!!!
@farhiafarah6954
@farhiafarah6954 2 года назад
No , farhiasRespect is Somebody else The girl young women on earth.+ Family.
@patriciadavis2506
@patriciadavis2506 2 года назад
the other person is Bishop T. D. Jakes, a Powerful Preacher, Amen!
@albaforever
@albaforever Год назад
@@patriciadavis2506 by
@mubin833
@mubin833 4 года назад
I didn't think I would cry , truly forgiveness is pure inner peace.
@jaxx-inspiregrowcreate2862
@jaxx-inspiregrowcreate2862 4 года назад
"You can't achieve your way out of childhood traumas... The only sustainable mission throughout your whole existence is to improve lives." - Will Smith
@minnienevarez6009
@minnienevarez6009 4 года назад
Jaxx - Inspire Grow Create no no no....these people are all pedophiles..
@marysalvi242
@marysalvi242 4 года назад
@@@minnienevarez6009 this is what is meant about setting yourself free from those people - YOU have to find a healthy way to leave the emotional damage that your living with and it isn't easy. You then find that those people are broken, not an excuse just a reason. I'ts mysterious why some people who are abused do not become abusers themselves while others do become abusers. If one wants to spend their lives in constant anger and sadness or not trusting others then the abuse is leading every move you make and every choice. Oh and it's the hardest thing to do is to release all of that because it is ones normal state of being. Wishing you the best ~
@llso-lovelightsoundoneness1606
@llso-lovelightsoundoneness1606 4 года назад
@@marysalvi242 look we are loving people but pedovores must go period. Don't insinuate anything else. These are not just cases of molestation or rape they are cases that boggling to the mind. I can forgive but they must be destroyed. Sorry for any pain that may cause but it is what it is. Wonderful things up ahead and bright new Earth and future with a renewed trust in each other and Blessings on the way! Don't stop loving each other and find it in your heart to forgive these people when their horrific crimes come to light for that is the beginning of the end of the nightmare they have created for innocents of this world. Love to all! And remember no one human or good ever stepped foot on Epstein's island except for the victims!
@kenhavens6670
@kenhavens6670 4 года назад
@@marysalvi2421
@marysalvi242
@marysalvi242 4 года назад
@@kenhavens6670 💖
@samuraiethos
@samuraiethos Год назад
What an amazing person. She embodies resilience, compassion, wit, and grace. She's a lovely human being!
@shlrleyjones6609
@shlrleyjones6609 4 года назад
“Forgiveness is the Gift you giveYourself.” Life is an Adventure in Forgiveness. The Art 🖼 of Forgiveness 💪🏿💪🏿🥰❤️😍
@andersonscott9465
@andersonscott9465 3 года назад
Hello
@ericmoore402
@ericmoore402 3 года назад
How are you doing today my name is Eric Moore
@cb7359
@cb7359 3 года назад
“Forgiveness is giving up the hope that the past could be any different”. Very powerful!
@NathalieLazo
@NathalieLazo 3 года назад
Thank you for sharing this powerful message from Oprah!
@victorbuzes4430
@victorbuzes4430 3 года назад
Nice
@a.p2234
@a.p2234 4 года назад
I'm so glad she went back to say all that she wanted to say. When you love someone you understand that person and you don't hold on to any negative.
@22ilona
@22ilona 4 года назад
Oprah is a fomer showmen, who did everything for money. She has always search the opportunities to make a lot of money sacrifiind the truth only to have audience. She was so far the journalist number one to create and feed scandals about celebrities (only and exclusively celebrities, because the huge audience), she was the biggest tabloid's journalist. But, we can see, her "taste" changed and she chenged from the show buisinees to spiritual education. It's like a joke.Please, inform you before trust a such persona.
@mrs.powell9064
@mrs.powell9064 3 года назад
@@22ilona new flash a lot people grow up curious and making money from things barely anyone is doing. Opera did much more then you saying she exposed truths people werent willing to accept and yes also had celebrities on her show who were human like the rest of us. Also she stepped away from tv because like every celebrity it can get stressful. How is she evil for doing something she loves and is comfortable with operas always going to be making money money doesn't make you happy. knowing who YOU are and what makes YOU comfortable is what matters. This is also why people make money from their passion and somwthing that natural for them she started off as a new anchor and made that into something bigger shes an INFJ
@ericmoore402
@ericmoore402 3 года назад
@@22ilona how are you doing today my name is Eric
@kcrreeves7919
@kcrreeves7919 2 года назад
@@22ilona If you pray from your heart, you will get what you desire, The power of prayer will take you higher. Your faith should be stronger than you will and things will be fine all the while Its just a matter of that one smile; This will change your life forever So, pray with your heart. I’m using this medium to appreciate and thank you for your continuous support and prayers throughout my movie career once again thank you. I’m KEANU REEVES, Hope you don’t mind where are you from?
@lucildaparkes1371
@lucildaparkes1371 2 года назад
Oprah you have been through some dark times during your childhood but that was no mistake, God works in mysterious ways you will never get the answer why your mother was like that towards you, I don’t think she knows the reason why because there’s no reason. I think those dark times you were going through God were preparing you for the feature we do not know how God works but I do know that you are blessed, you have been through so much at such a tender age and yet you manage to come out on the other side shining, forgave and made peace with your mother what does not kill you made you stronger. You are a great person also the perfect example for others.🙏😘
@IMANESAMMAN
@IMANESAMMAN 2 года назад
She deserves everything she has. She has EARNED it
@cushandamapp178
@cushandamapp178 Год назад
No
@mindsigh4
@mindsigh4 Год назад
Yes
@hailoweenhailoween5264
@hailoweenhailoween5264 7 месяцев назад
Not at the expense of others
@jeannetteburgess2745
@jeannetteburgess2745 4 года назад
People love to criticise Oprah nowadays but despite how you feel about Oprah the celebrity, have some compassion for Oprah the child. She was abandoned.She was abused mercilessly, yet like the Phoenix she has risen and triumphed. I for one want to take all the positives. Don't confuse her celebrity with her tenacity and strength of spirit.She is a good person. Her soul is special.Her place in history is set to remain. Thank you Oprah. God Bless you. Best wishes all the way from England. 👏👏👏❤
@lindacalvo8815
@lindacalvo8815 4 года назад
A lot of people do not realize or accept the gift that Opah has given them. As a public personality, she has opened up herself, with all the pain and suffering she endured, to help others heal their own wounds. It must be a big person who can expose their most personal wounds so that others can face their own pain, in order to forgive and be free. Only that can be defined as love . God bless you Oprah.
@TheWhyNugget
@TheWhyNugget 2 года назад
This all makes sense, about forgiveness. I want to be ready to do it, I've tried before but couldn't stick to it. There are just too many adults that hurt me as a child. Its overwhelming
@BBlair-if8tj
@BBlair-if8tj Год назад
It is a process. Do your best to continue in any ways you can. A inch is better than nothing and they add up over time. ❤
@FindMeBeingMe
@FindMeBeingMe 4 года назад
When TD Jakes speaks about the 10 Gallon kind of people....Goosebumps. I had to pause to let that sink in...
@camarajordan1143
@camarajordan1143 4 года назад
Yes, drew tears to my eyes.
@zohashahid30984
@zohashahid30984 4 года назад
Find me being I paused it too 🙌
@lenorapassley2835
@lenorapassley2835 Год назад
This was beautiful ❤️ I learned so much listen to Oprah Winfrey to her. Forgiving her Mom was absolutely awesome.
@martinswells1987
@martinswells1987 Год назад
Hello Lenora, how are you doing?
@cyl742
@cyl742 3 года назад
I'm so surprised and shocked to hear her color and looks were an issue. I always thought Oprah was so attractive through all the years she had her show. And the older she got, the prettier she became. My heart bleeds for the little child who felt so unloved and was forced to sleep outdoors. She sure overcame it all.
@caticornpurrmaid2049
@caticornpurrmaid2049 3 года назад
To her mother's point of view the light-skinned woman that she roomed with held a lot of power and possibly her very survival. In some way we have all chosen our fears when we could have made room for another human being.
@deliabisnar1882
@deliabisnar1882 3 года назад
God works in mysterious ways esp.in the life of Oprah, the abandoned child before, but a billioner now, your one of kind, watching u always your shows fm. Philippines.
@honorbluelovelyful
@honorbluelovelyful 3 года назад
I remember thinking she was pretty too....I'll never forget that red lipstick....red blazer and big hair look.....I had to be no older than 4
@reinamacaren-a4132
@reinamacaren-a4132 3 года назад
I don't get it especially since her mom was the same color🤔
@yolandaross2574
@yolandaross2574 3 года назад
@@reinamacaren-a4132 ii hi
@MonkyDollqueen
@MonkyDollqueen 4 года назад
Results happen over time, not overnight. Work hard, stay consistent, and be patient. 😇
@IMBewildered
@IMBewildered Год назад
Wonderful lesson Oprah. I too had a mom who "that's all she had." I was able to rally in her final years. She was grateful and I was proud of myself. My memories are better now than they would have been without our reconciliation.
@kellyc4144
@kellyc4144 2 года назад
I think Oprah is beautiful and I love her huge wide set eyes. I love that she stayed true to herself and kept her own natural beauty rather than craving into this screwed up society seeking perfection and going under the knife to get it. I cant imagine the hurt she went through as a little girl or how people can be so horrible to a little child. I thought she was an adorable little girl. This world is so. Damned. Cruel.
@nidzainfante6022
@nidzainfante6022 2 года назад
Amen and stll
@bradb1474
@bradb1474 2 года назад
Too bad she is in the top 5 racists in the world.
@jirehsunlimited7618
@jirehsunlimited7618 2 года назад
@@bradb1474 Not true! She just happen to be loving. She is a self made women who seems to love Christ.
@mgmassey174
@mgmassey174 2 года назад
@@bradb1474 ya know Brad, if you don't like her, why post here? A bully A bigot An insecure man or child would be like you. How sad
@shapiro9640
@shapiro9640 2 года назад
I totally agree. She has her own charm and beauty.
@marg233
@marg233 2 года назад
"Forgiveness in the gift you give yourself" Powerful 💞 Oprah we need to repeat this show today 2022
@kcrreeves7919
@kcrreeves7919 2 года назад
If you pray from your heart, you will get what you desire, The power of prayer will take you higher. Your faith should be stronger than you will and things will be fine all the while Its just a matter of that one smile; This will change your life forever So, pray with your heart. I’m using this medium to appreciate and thank you for your continuous support and prayers throughout my movie career once again thank you. I’m KEANU REEVES, Hope you don’t mind where are you from?
@fredajohnson506
@fredajohnson506 2 года назад
Amen people don't realize it but only hurting yourself because forgiveness led to lot illness in you as well
@davislouis8181
@davislouis8181 Год назад
Simple music can make you sing simple hug can make you feel better simple things can make you happy, i hope my simple Hello make you smile..
@Corazanaoro
@Corazanaoro 4 года назад
My mother has never said I love u to any of her children, but she shows it. She cried so hard when my younger brother died suddenly. We love our momma dearly, she was not perfect, was given away to new parents as a child, 6th grade education but under the circumstances all her kids agree to having a good childhood. My childhood was good. My adulthood has been horrible. I wanna be a kid again!
@CatherineSTodd
@CatherineSTodd 4 года назад
Lucky you for a good childhood. Maybe you can find a way to turn things around and make a "happy childhood" for another child, and thereby heal your wounds. You will get to relive your childhood through them and you both come out ahead! Good luck and God Bless.
@Corazanaoro
@Corazanaoro 4 года назад
@@CatherineSTodd Thx for comment. I'm raising two grandkids and had two bad kids. Adulthood has been very bad to me, despite it all, my grandkids say they happy. Is hard during these trial times. Good luck to u also
@rissykup
@rissykup 2 года назад
I’m so thankful for my mama. I couldn’t imagine how it would feel not to have unconditional love and support from her.
@rissykup
@rissykup 2 года назад
@London Bugatti blessed
@edithrodriguez4383
@edithrodriguez4383 2 года назад
yet it is so hurtful the you're heart it feels like it broke in millions pieces. wao not having parents either one is horrible but to have them and be treated like trash yet is even worse not wining yet star with us first yo forgive other wise you can not hill so true so the ones the hurt you they said we win but when they see your doing good even if is not profesional they still hate you wao I learned is they're loss and finally loving yourself 1 that's where the healing start it takes time everyone's situation is diferent some my take a little time or more time but let go all the pain they caused you and my still do is not easy imposible no it yes take time to learn to excuse those who really hurt you .yet
@minglee649
@minglee649 2 года назад
You are very blessed🙏🏾
@rhondamoses9084
@rhondamoses9084 3 года назад
" Forgiveness is the hope, of giving up the past, thinking if it could have been better ". This was not only a Profound statement, but one of real emotional healing and freedom. Thanks for speaking my heart. Blessings to you Oprah Winfrey.
@beckerethan8293
@beckerethan8293 2 года назад
Hello Rhonda, happy new year to you and how are you doing?
@TheOriginalPrincessBronze
@TheOriginalPrincessBronze 2 года назад
Wow. This was so deep. Glad Oprah and her mom was able to get some type of closure. 💕🙏🏾
@skj068
@skj068 2 года назад
I have never seen this one. She is a true role model in loving yourself and persevering no matter what. I used to say my Mother was “incapable” of loving me because of her own traumas, but that whole “ten gallon” people wanting love from people with “pint-sized” capacity brought me to tears. The analogy couldn’t be more perfect.
@kmtaylor88
@kmtaylor88 4 года назад
When Oprah said " I love you" in reference to her mom, but her face is full of sadness, I totally understand her because I too never liked my mom.
@fredrickelof9031
@fredrickelof9031 3 года назад
Hello how are you doing?
@ericmoore402
@ericmoore402 3 года назад
How are you doing today my name is Eric Moore
@kcrreeves7919
@kcrreeves7919 2 года назад
If you pray from your heart, you will get what you desire, The power of prayer will take you higher. Your faith should be stronger than you will and things will be fine all the while Its just a matter of that one smile; This will change your life forever So, pray with your heart. I’m using this medium to appreciate and thank you for your continuous support and prayers throughout my movie career once again thank you. I’m KEANU REEVES, Hope you don’t mind where are you from?!
@AP-zi7wl
@AP-zi7wl 4 года назад
Yuppp the part about the parenting and “stop crying” a lot of us Caribbean kids experienced that growing up even in the 2000’s and it’s a horrible generational curse
@nickiecee1564
@nickiecee1564 2 года назад
In complete & utter gratitude for Ms. Winfrey’s wise words. I needed to hear this in this season of life.
@nidzainfante6022
@nidzainfante6022 2 года назад
Me Amen
@catherinenewman6516
@catherinenewman6516 2 года назад
There arecinlyctwobpeoplecin the world from whom I can ask for hugsxwhen I need them: my children. Friends and lovers come and go but blood family is forever
@hellentibamanya2461
@hellentibamanya2461 Год назад
This woman has been my role model, she is such a strong woman, 💜
@hellentibamanya2461
@hellentibamanya2461 Год назад
@charlesraymond9719 Uganda is my country
@BBlair-if8tj
@BBlair-if8tj Год назад
@@hellentibamanya2461 Beware. Charles is a scammer who posts trying to get women to respond.
@priscillasharp8582
@priscillasharp8582 3 года назад
Sister, You've come along way,be proud of who you are, you are LOVE!
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