I remember that pain as sharply to. I had sent out a letter to them, detailing why I loved them so much, what I’d do with them, etc. I was driving home after a long day and then I received a message. I was in busy company so I decided not to see what they said at that moment. Then I arrived home and I saw it, they broke my heart. College applications are brutal
U still did it that’s what matters I’m proud of you bro. It’s perfectly ok to be awkward just keep taking action and don’t let your nerves stop u from doing what u wanna do ever
I asked a girl out on Valentine's day and got rejected, but she was nice about it, things were a little awkward, but we got over it and we're still good friends
@@riso-1919imagine trying to prove your a bigger loser then someone else. “Oh you think you being rejected is bad I broke up with someone on Valentines day”
I’ve never been rejected by a girl. Probably cause none of them know about my existence. Heck some teachers don’t even know I’m there cause of how quiet I am
I remember my First crush didnt reject me at ALL, she straight up went to the front office and made up some shit that i was stalking her to get me off her ass even though If she rejected me i would leave her alone, so i Started avoiding her like the plague and i Started seeing her as an absolute menace, everytime she looked at me i would frown to make It Very clear. After like 3 months, she Just dissapeared. I messed up real had.
at that point it's abuse, no matter how clapped u are that's stupid af to do. If she can't say even just the word "ew" to you directly, yeah she's bad. You did the good thing here tbh
This looks like a good place to tell about my situation. So I have a crush on one of my classmates, but I have really no riz, instead I have social anxiety so I barely even talk to anyone. I only talk when I have to, but it's always nervous and awkward. And the worst part is she's a really popular girl so I probably don't stand a chance. Unless she's secretly has a crush on me, but that's just not realistic at all. I know I should probably give up on her, but I don't have the power to do it so.
Try talking to other girls. Once you get comfortable enough talking to them. Try talking to your crush. It's better to have tried and know for sure. Then giving up and questioning "what if" later on.
@@starryskies6510 This is a very good advice, but the fact that I can't even speak to a girl in the first place changes things a lot. I know I just need to talk more, but it's a tough start... Only the beggining is tough, after that I can have a nice conversation.
Hey bro I also have social anxiety too and I was in your same spot at one point(I still am single) But if you want to talk to your crush slowly talk to different girls. I know it will be awkward as hell. But if you put yourself out there even you'll feel confident and somewhat comfortable when talking to girls.if your crush rejects you it will hurt.but you'll be glad you did it.and feel more confident. I BELIEVE IN YOU!!
I just started dating someone not too long ago, I was crying tears of joy, not only because they liked me back, but also because I didn't have to feel the pain of being rejected and possibly not being their friend anymore.
Maybe this fail of mine will motivate someone... I was at the club going wild and very drunk. I asked a girl if she wanted to dance. She laughed with her friends and said "you asked me like 5 times already!" I felt SOOO bad. I apologized and went to another area. I never felt bad about being rejected 5 times by the same girl. I was just happy she took it well, when she kind of had a reason to be upset. I like to tell this story to friends and I always wonder if she does the same... But instead, it'd be about how she rejected the same guy 5 times.
Dont rizz them If they want they will come to you. That is how I got some ladies amd rejected some. I tried rizzing one and it didnt work out even when I had the same mindset as you lol
Got rejected by 5 different girls in one week in 7th grade. A year and a half later, I finally got a girlfriend. It took me a year and a half to get that girl, and we are still dating over 8 years later.
@@grandamericantravelblog3421 That's the dream date that a ton of guys wish, so really congrats man, you deserve it. A sibling of mine is 25 and is with the same girl since he was in 9th grade, he's a big inspiration for me
One time i was rejected by my crush after i built up enough confidance to ask her to a school dance, she said no and then turned right around and asked my best friend at the time and he ended up going with her to the dance, that hit me hard. But i cant say much anymore because a few years down the road i found my current and girlfriend and have been dating for almost a year now.
I felt rejection a few times. I eventually swore to stay single because the last crush I had was extremely abusive, my ex-crush and her fella were threatening to abuse me so I ended up blocking them along with their "mandem" as well.
As a girl myself, I just want to say to everyone that’s been rejected or is feeling terrible about themself, keep your head up! There are so many other people in the world, and you’re sure to find someone who will treat you well and love you for who you are! I know it can be hard, and every girl (every person!) has different things they like or dislike in romantic partners, but if you do get rejected by someone, just know that they weren’t the one for you! You WILL find that person who loves you for you, even if you aren’t conventionally attractive or struggle with things like social phobia or low self-confidence. Keep your head up and don’t beat yourself up over getting rejected. I’m rooting for you!! ☺💚
Thanks for the message. As someone who was recently rejected, it sucks, but now that I think about it, a relationship between me and the girl that rejected me wouldn’t work out.
The phrase “there are so many other people in the world” is true but is also tricky. I mean nobody in it’s entire life is going to meet EVERY person in the planet lol.
I had a crush who I won’t name for privacy reasons. I was gonna ask her to prom. But she said she already had a boyfriend. I didn’t ask when she said it. But she said it and I canceled the asking because I have morals. We’re still friends though
Worst feelings 1, when that bult you've been trying to get out for ages brakes 2, striping threads 3, seeing a run down old car Best feelings 1, getting something running after years of sitting 2, taking your fresh build on a first no break down drive 3, driving a manual
She rejected me recently, I can tell she still wants to talk to me but I cant bring myself to have genuine conversation with her anymore. I have been focusing alot on myself now, Im not gonna let rejection slow me down.
i got rejected for the first time some months back and i must've not liked the girl enough cuz i got over it within an hour just doing normal things. Didnt really think much of her during that hour either.
*In middle school i got rejected alot ,then there was this one time a girl approached me and asked me out but my stupid goofy ass brain took over and said *nah no thanks" from that day on i would punish my brain once a week watching 30 minutes of cringe but now i have someone way beyond my league and I'm happy* 🐴♥️🦄
Reminds me of the time a girl in my class liked me and asked me out but her friends were giggling in the back so I thought it was some kinda joke or prank so I said no thanks... man I fucked that one up
Mann i remember one of my friends back in the day telling a random popular girl i loved here while i was just sitting on a bench minding my own business and till this day i can still hear her say "eww". Like damn i was just minding my own, chill😭😭😂
I’ve gotten rejected from my crush who I definitely thought had a really good chance with since we had a really good relationship before that but gave me the lamest friendzone excuse ever. But that was so bad for me that I felt physically sick for 3 days straight and felt like throwing up the entire time and still keep me down a bit to this day, almost a year has gone by now
My self esteem is so low that its not just being rejected that im afraid of. Im terrified of talking to girls because im afraid they wont just reject me, theyll see me as a creep. Im afraid simply saying hi to a girl will get the police called on me. Being ugly sucks lmao
Lol I got rejected by my crush and I was real sad. But you gotta improve yourself so you can come back harder better and stronger, never give up on life because of rejection bro.
At this point i am use to being alone made peace with my situation and I've gotten comfortable with it just if a girl comes around and messes it up resettling into the Erie peace that i have now would be......difficult
I just got done with my freshman year of college, and throughout the year, my friends and I were talking to different girls trying to find each other girlfriends. And on the second to last week before finals, three of us, including me, got rejected. It was painful because a few days earlier a girl I was talking to agreed to hang out with me on the weekend, but the next day, she told me that she needed to study for finals. It sucks, but fortunately there are plenty of girls on campus, and we have the upcoming freshman class coming in.
I had a whole September crisis of rejection and a friend group spiraling out of control, but its almost 9 months later and its not rejection by my crush that hurts its mostly just the loneliness cause looking at all of my friends they have happy relationships and im just kind of the "nice guy" that nobody really pays attention too.
In my experience the worst rejections are the ones where you feel the closest like you’re almost there or like you already have a close connection with someone and you talk for a long time maybe even do the thing but things just don’t work out after you experience one of those rejections are like ant bites
If you dont take anything else from these comments, DO NOT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES get tour hopes up too high, sure, be excited, but it will hurt a shit ton less if you keep your hopes lower
Naw bro I still ain’t over her and it’s been a little while now. It wasn’t only being rejected that hurt but also that I lost a person who I thoroughly enjoyed talking to in the process 😔. Sorry for the sob story but just know kings that you’re not alone and we’ll get through this together!
yo I feel u fr. I was backed into a corner by text as my crush interrogated me after bein tipped off by a friend that i liked someone. I Folded and it wasnt the rejection that hurt it was that she knew and yk now ppl know and crap. I dwelt and went insane.. im over her now and I think we're friends again.
"I'm not looking to date rn" is usually cap, but I honestly mean it when I say it. I'm at a point in my life where relationships are just too much stress and I don't wanna deal with that, even if I am hella attracted to that person. Turned down a few people over the past 2 years and it had nothing to do with them personally, I am just not emotionally available at this time🤷🏻♀️
Fellas, here is some W fizz to get ya started: Are you a Minecraft fence, cause I can’t get over you. Are you a map, cause when I look at you I get lost in your eyes. Is it hot in here, or is it just you.
Their was this girl I really liked and I ended up telling 2 of my friends that I liked this gitl and then somehow she found out. Fast forward a few months later my sister found out and as I was walking by my sister and this girl my sister said oh look it's your girlfriend and the girl I liked said "EWWW NOO EWWW HES GROSS EWW NOOOO" I felt so bad after that.
