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The Party - Short Film on Domestic Violence 

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Feeling unsafe at home is not normal. Every third woman in India faces violence at home. Domestic violence can be physical, emotional, verbal, sexual and/or financial.
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Emotional abuse and verbal abuse are extremely normalised forms of domestic violence. Controlling the daily life of women from clothing to friends circle, monitoring phone and social media activity, constantly insulting and undermining self-esteem, using degrading words and restricting mobility are some of the many ways in which perpetrators control and abuse their partner or family member emotionally and verbally.
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Director: Garima Pura
Producer: Aastha Bana
DP: Ihjaz Aziz
Cast: Sana Sheikh
Editor: Aastha Bana
Colorist: Yash Soni
Sound Designer: Droopad

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7 ноя 2020

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Комментарии : 76   
@sulaganabiswas
@sulaganabiswas 2 года назад
This is very relatable. Husbands bodyshaming their wives, especially after having a kid.
@DrSmileup
@DrSmileup 2 года назад
True , i am often told how fat i have become and irregular my body is after baby, but you have got to tell them that it is none of their business
@shivanivasavada251
@shivanivasavada251 2 года назад
Wife also must have to comment on the stability of sexual intercource 🤨🤨🤨🤨
@nadaisiddiqui5418
@nadaisiddiqui5418 2 года назад
It's not about only domestic violence it's about hurting someone's feeling if she likes something it doesn't mean she can't have it just his husband don't want her to eat it's her choice.
@Moitreyee473
@Moitreyee473 2 года назад
I understand that but I also understand how obesity/being overweight is a threat to one's health. The man in the video is wrong by the way he said it to her. But even I don't let my father eat sweets after he has put so much weight that he is risking his life by increasing his heart problems due to his obesity. It is always not about bodyshaming. Remember, gluttony is a sin and restricting our loved ones from eating junk is out of care, not always meant to bodyshame them.
@soni1109
@soni1109 2 года назад
He's nothing but a bully! She is a beautiful woman 💃
@truth640
@truth640 2 года назад
What are husbands rights in marriage answer zero.women want free alimony maintenance and there are dowry prohibition act and498 a ipc .125 cr pc and domestic violence act. So when comes the wife turn all question of free consent and choice arise but when comes the husband turn he is forced by law.what a double standadrs these type of feminist have.
@krasuuuee
@krasuuuee 2 года назад
@@truth640 I wish u had little brain of understanding this.
@truth640
@truth640 2 года назад
@@krasuuuee i have superb brain.it is you who need brain and honesty.answer points rationally and logically .
@kookie_love6450
@kookie_love6450 2 года назад
I hope this video also shows the part where women overcome those harsh situations and take their stand. It is very nice to see how these videos are showing deep meaning of domestic violence and explaining body shaming and making one individual discomfort is wrong even if it is their partner . Keep going and all the best guys
@truth640
@truth640 2 года назад
What are husband legal rights in marriage answer zero .wife is to take free maintenace and alimony by law and it will not be called dacoity or legal loot .there is no law which gives husband rights but there are dowry prohibition act Curbing the freedom of males only than domestic violence act where anything done by husband is violence .what it gives to women free alumony maintenance and free residence.hysband has to satisfy his boss or customer than earn money.but wife want free.if some actor bevomes fat will he be taken or cricketer no .salesman can not perform no.even pm removes his non performing ministers.but when comes the turn of husband and wife double standards are applied.males are forced by law to provide but women are free to choose
@vasusneh5881
@vasusneh5881 2 года назад
I too face this ... No one has the right to disrespect anyone's feelings
@goldenbear2331
@goldenbear2331 2 года назад
Please don't keep silence then open your mouth and tell him that you don't like to hear this kind of stuff
@nandinivetal8569
@nandinivetal8569 2 года назад
I faced this...It was so horrible to face such situations
@yasminkhan-lc3pq
@yasminkhan-lc3pq 3 года назад
Amazing and very real , the msg is conveyed simply in a minute, with only expression...🤩👌👏👏👏
@aparnadutta9284
@aparnadutta9284 2 года назад
I have faced same types problem,but after 40 I had make it clear to him that my dissition is only my discition he may be my friend philosopher and guide but not the commander
@vangauttara6066
@vangauttara6066 2 года назад
I think only one thing atleast one does for oneself is eating. Every thing else we do is to maintain appearances. So don't compromise on it . Even if you are overweight or anything else , we bear it. So its our decision to eat or not
@supposedlyhuman
@supposedlyhuman 2 года назад
Yeah but being obese/overweight is a threat to one's health as well rest is their choice to live healthy or not
@aarifeen313
@aarifeen313 2 года назад
This is nothing.... nothing...these men become ruthless... merciless... only come closer when they are in their MOOD.... Leave us in awkward situations... Never give a damn to our feeling after any confrontation that how much disturbed we would be....😭😭😭😔😔😔😢😢😢 Ah!!! Need an angel to explain our feelings to them....
@dibya8319
@dibya8319 2 года назад
I think he has narcissism. I recently came to know that my ex bf is a narcissist. Please check the symptoms on RU-vid. See if he has all the symptoms. If he has. You cannot correct them.
@poojaganguli2624
@poojaganguli2624 2 года назад
Nowadays everything is domestic violence. Please don't lower your tolerance level and play victim. The man needs to be made aware on her feelings. And they should emotionally grow together. We ladies can not be so fragile in our emotions calling every act as violence. It hurts but not an domestic violence.
@user-hl1ci2ct3n
@user-hl1ci2ct3n 3 года назад
Wonderful show of reality.
@suvarnashastri9700
@suvarnashastri9700 2 года назад
We should consider this type of voilence same seriously if its again n again made by friends, relatives, closed ones... It also hurts too much...
@gunjansrivastava8496
@gunjansrivastava8496 2 года назад
Very true... what one wants for herself should be her own decision
@karunasingh3988
@karunasingh3988 2 года назад
If this hurts then pull your self from this relation, no need to give up your desires for others ,live your life and enjoy your self, no need to subjugate desires do not bear violence be violent with such fithy vultures who try to impose their rules on you ,fire back instantly
@shailapillai1263
@shailapillai1263 3 года назад
Excellent my dear❤❤❤
@dibya8319
@dibya8319 2 года назад
This destructive criticism it damages ones inner happiness. Instead of poking one, be friendly to them. We all know putting on weight is not appreciative thing, but we can be our partner's supportive pillar, we can help them lose weight, and make them healthy. We lovingly tell her to avoide these food for few months, and make some healthy habit. Let them realise we love them in every shape. But we cant see you suffer from disease, which can be preventable right now. And frequent snacking is appreciable btw.
@shaziyamirza3725
@shaziyamirza3725 2 года назад
Yeah this really hurts
@englishtalks8395
@englishtalks8395 2 года назад
Wonderful act
@divineaffinities991
@divineaffinities991 2 года назад
Men will be men! Must ask every other woman about her husband's comments in person 😊 Everyone will come out with more stories for ur channel. Few husbands never take their wives out due to their own complexities might it be insecurity or superiority! Try to accept your spouse as they are for in your old age it is not beauty that is gonna care and protect you but only love and care 🙏🙏Stay safe and blessed all 😊😊🌄🌈🙏🙏🙏🙏
@sangeetameena9256
@sangeetameena9256 2 года назад
We should make people enough comfortable to Express themselves
@nasreensaher
@nasreensaher 2 года назад
There is all kind of Domestic violence on us Women...Question arise...Men stop marrying! Just buy a one night stand and move on...!
@nareshsurya298nare7
@nareshsurya298nare7 2 года назад
What a exprsn n face suprb,frm malaysia nareshsurya
@ujwalabapuram385
@ujwalabapuram385 2 года назад
This nagging is usually mostly done by wives over husbands. Without proper background of this incident, we can't judge the situation. There could be health condition due to which opposite person is concerned or it may be anything else which is valid. No relation can sustain over certain level of individuality. If one need high independence, individuality and freedom, then it's btr not to get into marriage or any other relation tat needs coexistence. Better stay alone free from all ties and exert ur individuality. Coexistence needs certain amount of understanding and adjustment which is required from both sides of a married couple. Don't just get married against your values and then increase divorce date. This culture of divorcing is kind of child violence forcing them into childhood crisis, depression etc. So be aware of repurcussions of such exaggeration on incidents as such.
@ujwalabapuram385
@ujwalabapuram385 2 года назад
@@Aditi-mb3qm I am also a female. my point is not to say only women does tat. It happens from both sides. Most of the times, these things are done out of concern. For ex: In many cases, ppl keep reminding their partners about their health and get totally ignored. And it does happen that they end up complaining or nagging since their partners don't listen or understand even after explaining multiple times. My point here is , this video is exaggerating the situation. Background of this situation is missing. Their could be serious health condition involved and he is concerned. Even a mother or doctor who knows patients history scolds right away if they are close enough to the person. Ppl should not c things through a magnifying glass. Just Be happy, think happy. I wil totally agree tat husband's behaviour in this video is wrong if his intentions are wrong but not otherwise.
@ujwalabapuram385
@ujwalabapuram385 2 года назад
@@Aditi-mb3qm u totally got me wrong. one's ability to b happy or not and take decisions accordingly is totally upto them. Divorce is a good thing if ppl involved are happy about it. This video just doesn't justify violence in any way. This is just projecting a situation in very bad light without proper background to it. This only makes young minds so fickle that they are no longer ready for minor adjustments in life.
@kaustavkantimahapatra8900
@kaustavkantimahapatra8900 2 года назад
Ghar pe my maa also told me yeah mat khao wow mat khao tum mote go reheho. Kaya wo v domestic violence may aayega
@tanyabisht8969
@tanyabisht8969 2 года назад
Indian moms sab ek jaisi hai unka kuch nahi 🙄 ho sakta
@kaustavkantimahapatra8900
@kaustavkantimahapatra8900 2 года назад
@@Aditi-mb3qm human mind is very complex, If u want to find wrong in a simple things, I m sure u would find it.
@vinayakakula7909
@vinayakakula7909 2 года назад
The fight is between the forceful option and the freedom of choice a lot of people are forced to accept things that they don’t want to……..but the only solution is to be independent and keep decisions of choice with yourself. society is brutal but don’t bother go ahead and have the donuts because that’s your choice and happiness
@bogdananedavnya2528
@bogdananedavnya2528 3 года назад
It is important to learn and watch videos of selfe defence plys Know how to reach and contact ngo, shelters to escape abusive families is important
@rumibanerjee1795
@rumibanerjee1795 2 года назад
we dont own people. we own properties and money. Marriage doesnt give one the right to own people. neither imposing rules on another. Free will should be respected. Fat shaming and imposing personal choices is not a relationship even if its done with good intentions.
@ShyamKumar-wq7ky
@ShyamKumar-wq7ky 2 года назад
He is very right his wife is fat and donut ain't healthy though he could have been more polite and diplomatic but his intentions were to keep her safe.... that's not violence that's call care...
@rumibanerjee1795
@rumibanerjee1795 2 года назад
he is only making her hate him with his unsolicited advice! He has started taking decisions on her behalf. Micromanaging is very unhealthy for any relationship. Looks like you are a control freak too. Lol!
@ishdeepkaur802
@ishdeepkaur802 2 года назад
yes happened every day to every woman I think
@kcvft
@kcvft 2 года назад
My husband not allowing me to wear nose ring....
@pragyashrivastava3182
@pragyashrivastava3182 2 года назад
Mine too lol
@nehachamoli6174
@nehachamoli6174 Год назад
This is not violence. This is lack of acceptance and pride by the woman on herself. I have given a birth to a baby, once my husband said just look at yourself, you have become dark. I replied him, in that case you should have carried our son in your womb and have delievered him. If you accept yourself, no one can hurt you. Simple!!
@shaheensiddique1204
@shaheensiddique1204 2 года назад
Y u want to make it domestic violence this is not violence this is a husband who doesn't know that he must not say publicly this maybe he is worried abt her health
@user-tq4vj3ck9t
@user-tq4vj3ck9t 2 года назад
Verbal abuse in public deliberately to humiliate
@pnath
@pnath 2 года назад
This is more in the line of mental cruelty than violence... Violence is more of a physical thing.
@vinhosten1498
@vinhosten1498 3 года назад
Go for a run
@sanjeevranjan3470
@sanjeevranjan3470 2 года назад
Maybe the wife has some weight related physical issues and the husband shows his concern by precluding her from neglecting herself like we all do at times with our parents , kids, siblings or even friends ...
@adduv1
@adduv1 2 года назад
Well is tarah se har husband domestic violence ka shikar hojata. It could also be seen as concern for spouse
@shwetawarrier6235
@shwetawarrier6235 2 года назад
Ad faro.koi bhi wife husband ko publicly aise nahi bolti vo bhi muh pe samjhe.
@adduv1
@adduv1 2 года назад
Husband bhi nahi bolta phir except in parallel universe
@missrai7517
@missrai7517 2 года назад
Waah mtlb kuch ...If insulting your wife in front of everyone is love for you then I feel sorry for your wife
@mansipatel1
@mansipatel1 2 года назад
भारत की कोई लड़की अगर पितृसत्ता की राह पर चलना छोड़ दे, तो उसके खुद के मां-बाप उसको पूरी जिंदगी नरक की आग में जलाते है, हमारी गलती क्या है? बस खाली इतनी कि हम भी किसी पुरुष की तरह अपना घर खरीदना चाहते है, हम भी किसी पुरुष की तरह अपनी आजादी चाहते है, हमारे जैसी लड़कियों को अगर "भारत रत्न" का खिताब भी मिल जाए ना, तो वह भी कम है, हमारे दुखों के आगे।
@supriyasharma8419
@supriyasharma8419 2 года назад
Saying something out of concern is not domestic violence. Even wives keep a check on husbands eating habits. Drawing a line is important. The emotion behind saying anything is important.
@shwetawarrier6235
@shwetawarrier6235 2 года назад
Supriya Sharma. There is a huge difference between insult in public and showing concern in public. This is clearly insult. "Look at the amount of weight she has put on" and "I don't like it so we don't have these things" is what way to show concern? Yes wives do keep a check on husbands weight but don't talk like this in public...
@ujwalabapuram385
@ujwalabapuram385 2 года назад
@@shwetawarrier6235 whether it is an insult or words out of frustration depends on background of their relationship. We are noone to judge based on single statement. If this lady in video is real life charecter and she is having some serious helath condition, then her mother would respond the same way ( if she is not listening even after telling her to avoid such food after multiple times). Even a doctor wil scold right away in such a case. If this husbnad is really behaving this way just for appearance and not with concern, then tat is emotional violence. But this video donot give any background, so no point in taking stands on what is right or wrong. Taking such impulsive stands without even knowing the context of it is leading to very high divorce rate.
@vinaykhandelwal8870
@vinaykhandelwal8870 2 года назад
Over the board exaggerated, domestic "intolerance" inducing message. There is Understanding and Tolerance behind every flourishing sustainable relationship....being forgotten.
@supriyasharma8419
@supriyasharma8419 2 года назад
Actually. Being a financially independent woman any form of domestic violence is absolutely untolerated. But making a content of one minute which dosent tell anything about the background is not justified.
@prch5202
@prch5202 2 года назад
Kya story h 🙄,
@nusrathanjum925
@nusrathanjum925 2 года назад
Extra Weight gain is a real health concern for every one, spouses should be concerned about the partners health instead of joking at their appearance.With love and care you can change the lifestyles of opposite for their better health and also appearance but giving priority to their health comes within innnerself when we really loves our partner irrespective of their changed looks.Nazaron se dekhoge to sirf khoobsurti dikhegi, lekin agar dil se dekhoge to "PYAR" dikhega..!
@mansipatel1
@mansipatel1 2 года назад
कब तक भागती रहोगी? पहले मां-बाप से भागा, फिर पहले पति से भागा, फिर दूसरे पति से भागोगी, अगर भागना ही है तो पितृसत्ता से दूर भागो, अपने नाम पर अपना घर खरीद के शांति से अकेले रहो, शादी कभी मत करो, जो लड़का तुमसे प्यार करता है, वह बिना शादी के भी प्यार निभाएगा।
@shagird6317
@shagird6317 2 года назад
Fir sugar intake badhne se ...Obesity then BP and then diabetes ....Tab acha lagega na domestic violence 😀😀 india is full of hypocrites.
@IshanDuttagglblord
@IshanDuttagglblord 2 года назад
She can have one donut but she needs to lose weight.
@sudipmishra9674
@sudipmishra9674 2 года назад
Why don't you think that his husband cares for her, doesn't want his wife to suffer from diabetes, cholesterol or heart ailments as she is already over weight. This is neither cruelty nor domestic violence. This is true love which so called feminist people cannot understand.
@Borntoshine567
@Borntoshine567 2 года назад
this is not true love making your partner embarras in public and if she like something than whats your problem
@missrai7517
@missrai7517 2 года назад
Ohh so insulting your wife infront of everyone is true love 🤣🤣
@Kirtiman3D
@Kirtiman3D 2 года назад
faltu, pati ne mana kiya kya?
@9579490313
@9579490313 2 года назад
Agar aisa hai to ladies aap sab bhi salman ya hrithik jaisi body wale husband naa hi dhunde to accha..motapa ya over weight hona theek nhi hota..aap beemar ho jaoge fir kiski taraf dekhoge.ek healthy life ke liye agar husband kisi cheez ke liye rok rha hai to wo violence hai kya.agar haa to mai to chahti hu ki mere pati mere sath ye violence roz kre. Agar apka pati apko toke iska matlab hai usse apki care hai naa ki wo apko hurt kr rha hai. Khair sabki apni apni raay hai.mere mummy papa mujhe kisi galat kaam keliye toke to mai unpe bhi domestic violence ka charge laga du kya.had hai..ye women empowerment nhi hai.samjhe
@radhikamenon3934
@radhikamenon3934 2 года назад
But body positivity should not be an excuse to obesity
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