I been through this. Girls for some reason find you more attractive when you have a gf or wife. But for the love of God fellas, stay loyal to your girl. Those are just temptations and just think about it, that girl likes you when you have a gf right next to you just shows how bad of a person she is. Trust they will do anything to try to steal you as well. Stay true to your girl
When I met my hubby all of the women we worked with kept yelling me to not talk to him, because he was "scary" (he's a good size guy and only really smiles when he is laughing)... as soon as we started dating, the other women suddenly started trying to get his attention... it didn't work 😂
"Stay away from him, stay away from him" - translation from womanize to menize - I tried to woo him with my "charm", he rejected me, and now I am going to be a bitter bit** about it for the rest of my life..😂😂😂
@Candlelight787 lol nah... they were all intimidated by him lol he constantly walks around like a grumpy bear lol he kind of is a grumpy bear, but in all of the good ways
@LostAngel907 potato potatos. The point is when girls don't get their way with the guy/don't like him, they go out and spread gossips and try to ruin his reputation. Chicken brains do chicken sh*t.
A co worker told me this a year ago. He's married now . And he said it was weird cause women didn't really notice him before the marriage he said but as soon as he got married and women saw the ring , More ladies started throwing themselves at him. It's a crazy concept . Almost like the saying the rich get richer.
I can confirm this personally, until I got a girlfriend it was like I was invisible to the women I liked, now that they know I have one I can see their obvious interest in me, it's a catch 22
Pre selection makes it so much easier to have as many options if she’s falling out of interest then find another then she’s jealous that another women got your attention when she gave up on you. Pre selection works to perfection.
@@lamaralvarez7385 That is just sad. In all of my years I have never coveted what belongs to another. Never dated my friends exes. Never cheated. I was raised differently, in a different era than the young women today.
Yep, these are facts. I remember I started liking a friend of mine and wanted to take our relationship to a romantic level. She told me no and they she wanted to stay friends. I didn't have a problem, seeing as we had been friends for over a decade. One night she saw me talking to a woman at a bar and she completely lost it, saying she wanted to f**k that night. What she didn't know was that the woman I was talking to was in my martial arts class 13 years prior. Perception is EVERYTHING.
That's the problem for introverts analytical men many of us are single because we use the mind and like intelligent conversation not this the physical we don't need a woman on her arm to make us look good I understand this mindset it's still messed up
Some women incorporate a little more logic when mate selecting for men, while most incorporate their instincts/natural proclivities. Without logically thinking about selecting a man, women will select based on "proof"..the presumption is that the women around him is proof that he's a "catch", presumably for resources, protection, status, etc ..He must be doing something right for women being around him. You on the other hand consciously think about the other aspects of when a man has a lot of women around him, which in a lot of cases is not necessarily a good thing or good bet for a relationship, a good choice of investment for your kids, etc...Most women don't get to that logical thought process until AFTER they've gotten with him, and a lot of times, even then, they don't realize it until they actually forego with picking him by having his children, or marrying him... only then is when they say well, what I thought he was going to be for me is not actually what it is... I mis-conceptualized what it means or looks like for a guy to be a protector, provider, etc...The fanciful thoughts get in the way.
Very true. As a man i have experienced that tons of the time. I like that feeling of being chased tho. Women better explain to us what that shit is all about 😊
This is most definitely true! They love competing with other women. They don't won't the guy who has no chicks on his team. If you marry the wrong woman, she will leave you, or become uninterested if she thinks or doesn't see other women coming after you!
There's something wrong that will continue to affect the possibility of having friends and healthy relationships with others when there's this jealousy to want what the other has. With that thinking/behaviour within, how can two friends remain as friends?
Well I ain’t that attractive so maybe that’s why no females hit me up. But your right once u have a woman those other women start with their bs talking about I had always like you & wanted you but was to scared that’s bs but whatever.
How u doing my name zone U are pretty and smart what a combo, if u have a man I'm not trying to break up a happy home, but if u are looking for a good humble man that's willing to listen to ur feelings no disrespect I'm here for u if u are interested, have a Blessed DAY 777
Why do women want guys who other women want? Is this like how people in general like numbers? Like how if there's a RU-vid channel with millions of subs, others sub, or how if you're Elon Musk, everyone is supportive or gives donations? Is that what's going on? What's the logic in that? Don't choose the guy who everyone else wants. Choose the guy YOU want.
No, All Women....When a woman knows she has the man that damn near every woman wants, she'll feel like you're the prize, and she'll treat you as such. If she thinks that you have no options beyond her, she'll treat you as if her dealing with you, is doing you a favor. If she feels that you can easily replace her, she'll stay on her P's & Q's to keep you around.
