9 reasons why she comes back after you give her distance

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Women are very interesting to say the least, she's been playing hard to get or perhaps didn't value you at all, so you withdrew from her. Now, she's back, banging on your door. Why does this keep happening?
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@billydavis1263 2 года назад

When someone treats you like an option, help them to narrow down their choices by removing yourself from the equation. It's that simple.

@simonkimathi1484 2 года назад

Yea billy

@mumenguvuze2093 2 года назад

That is exactly what I did recently ... Am at my happiest . Awesome life

@billydavis1263 2 года назад

@@mumenguvuze2093 you are the most important person in the world. Hold on to that thought forever!

@1stone379 2 года назад

Word

@kelvesterwilliams3898 2 года назад

I don't have a belly

@leoncomlanhekpazo4386 2 года назад

No need beating about the bush. She comes back after rejecting you simply means that she did not manage to get a better option and obviously that you are NOT her first choice. Never let in a woman for whom you're nothing more than a choice by default. She will drop you the day she will come accross someone of her true standards. PERIOD

@mupenziedwin295 2 года назад

Fact👌👌

@captainkeyboard1007 2 года назад

That comment is a good warning.

@dominosamuz 2 года назад

True bro

@anmolpandey6576 2 года назад

my bro spitting fact

@qimarebruner8356 2 года назад

Facts

@prasannagupchup7887 Год назад

She left you. You leave her. She doesn't respond, you don't either. She doesn't text back, follow no contact rule. You call her, she doesn't answer. Stop calling her. Respect her totally by exactly reciprocating the way she is treating you. Man, this is the way to go. You will never be happier than this.

@khi3v40 Год назад

No, you mean respect yourself by moving on without wasting energy or saying a word lol

@emmanuelgabrynmoutondoboul2035 Год назад

Thanks for your expertise

@emiwreck194 Год назад

Let me just try out, cause I'm in deep stress

@alkaullahmediaTz Год назад

yuh saidit man. yuh have finish!

@Sam-us8qt 10 месяцев назад

She will always come back to look for you. Because she will get dump by others and she will think of you. What goes around comes around. Remember that. Karma may take time but karma never fail to do it's work. It is just a matter of time she will look for you again.

@stevencastle2551 11 месяцев назад

Remember this: you lived your life before, without her. You ate your food, you played your toy, you enjoyed your youthful without her by your side. So, you can live without her. You dont need her for you to live. You proved that already, a long time ago!

@ilarryshe6861 2 года назад

“Treat her like a celebrity, she’d treat you like a fan”.

@barakawabuge5285 2 года назад

Hahaha i am not doinf that again

@donellhowell6954 2 года назад

Deep facts

@frimzprodie465 2 года назад

Waste

@professahbruno1578 2 года назад

Wind that back, treat her like a lady as Joe Thomas sang, before you do that though practice karma= treat her like a fan and she will keep on begging for an autograph every time she sees you around!📝

@chubbrockstar187 2 года назад

Facts!!!!

@mandisinqata8834 Год назад

As the society of men let's honour Jessica because she's making a huge impact in our relationship life

@nate4139 Год назад

Agreed

@Sammie551 Год назад

And those men who disagree with her watch the whole video lol

@matamboshula1527 Год назад

Very true

@lawrencejor277 Год назад

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@GreeneChakra Год назад

Yesss

@blakprophet9305 Год назад

Reason 6 is the main reason and they find out the grass is not greener on the other side. Most likely they was rejected by the guy they wanted and not realizing she rejected the guy she needed

@terrymitchell4579 Год назад

Exactly

@ephraimakoto3657 2 года назад

A lady left me at my worst moment, when I was sick,she was no where to be found, when I got better she started giving me silent treatment, I ignored her. Now after 2 years my life is better and she is trying to do all she can for me to accept her. I made her do some stuff and kicked her to the streets. She was only interested in me for my progress not who I am.

@mirskii2758 Год назад

That’s deep my Brother‼️❤️ Keep grinding and growing

@MacLeethal_87 Год назад

I know this all to well continue to be be strong my guy

@DejiTalker Год назад

Ride on brother

@akasickform Год назад

Narcissists do this As soon as they see you as "inferior" (not well in this case) they treat you like trash as their "perfect image" of you is shattered

@ephraimakoto3657 Год назад

Thanks, brothers. Just do not rely on a woman,s lovebombing phase because it will end in a relationship.

@orian3131 2 года назад

TO be honest it’s better for us men to be single and work on ourselves. Woman these days will leave as soon as she feels she has other options. Once those options run dry she come running back

@kabysummit5801 Год назад

In the West yes that’s how it is

@sayitloudblcknproud Год назад

Funny, that's how women feel about men. Men will leave a long term relationship, even after telling their girl that she's the love of their life and promising marriage, just because they found new tail.

@royaltykonceptz Год назад

@@kabysummit5801 this happened to me from a girl from Russia...it's everywhere!!!

@orian3131 Год назад

@@sayitloudblcknproud nah. You got it wrong. More than likely a man will stay in a relationship even if he is unhappy especially if he has kids with said woman. Plus if a man cheats it literally means nothing. He still loves his girl. But when a woman cheats. It means everything bc women form an emotional connection way b4 the sex happens

@tim46153 Год назад

Quite horrible human beings it’s seems they are a lot of the time. Unfortunately a sign of the modern social media times 😩

@baldealpha0997 2 года назад

If she comes back it might simply be because she hasn't found any better options out there. Never forget she let you down once because she is more than likely to repeat that again for whatever reason. Stay focus brothers #TeamAlpha🐺

@dj29550 2 года назад

On god hold them the same way they hold us

@dripgeng5554 2 года назад

Facts #

@baldealpha0997 2 года назад

@@dripgeng5554 'preciate your support bro

@baldealpha0997 2 года назад

@@dj29550 Sure know what to say bruh👍

@addnel2000 2 года назад

Can you just eat her and dump her?

@andersnielsen6044 Год назад

If she leaves for distance... She is gone forever.

@rowhaus5478 Год назад

In my experience, women often come back because they miss the power they had over you. My advice to any guy in this situation would be to move on without them. There’s no better feeling than finding happiness elsewhere, with someone who genuinely appreciates you, and leaving those who rejected you behind. It’s not uncommon for them to reach out via text or social media as well, trying to pry themselves back into your life, but you gotta let them know that ship has sailed. Don’t waste your time with these women.

@tadmira127dreamuvtadmir2 Год назад

It's been 8 months and my boyfriend's ex keeps looking for him and calling him, I've already gotten married from that situation and well yesterday we broke up because I'm tired of that girl being everywhere, he says he told her not to look for her and that he doesn't want anything with her anymore but I don't understand how an older woman like that can't understand the word no, in the end my relationship is over because he isn't able to put a stop to it, surely he still wants her in his life, I preferred get out of that shit, cause you ain't giving me my spot.

@JChristo1984 Год назад

Well said. My ex was dating a guy for a month before she even told me. Just kept blowing me off, even after saying she wanted to get together. Flat out lied bold face to me. In our last conversation, she told me she loves me, but is not in love with me. I said it's lady's choice, and told her I'm out. Haven't heard from her since and I am pretty sure she moved in with her new BF's house. If she was my friend, why would she lie? My hope is we never see each other again. It's difficult because I had no idea, but people don't do that to people they care about. We were together for 8 years. She just vanished. Oh well. If she would have been honest, there was a chance we could have been friends. We have known each other since 5th grade. Such disrespect. It's appalling.

@trvgbeatz Год назад

True

@geelove44 Год назад

👌🏾💯

@edwinhernandez5581 Год назад

I AGREE A 1000%

@annotatedmedicaltutorials858 2 года назад

My friend told me to never take someone who never chose me the first time. Someone who comes to you after rejecting you the first time. You are special. NEVER GIVE SECOND CHANCES.

@robertsmith4714 2 года назад

That happened to me before and I take one week..and that's the worst thing I ever did in my life

@annotatedmedicaltutorials858 2 года назад

@@robertsmith4714 me too i will never do it again

@audreylewis965 2 года назад

Its true. I see it all the time.

@stefbaws 2 года назад

That's just means you were never her first choice neither on the second chance

@robertsmith4714 2 года назад

@@stefbaws she want me to be her choice now.be she find out that I live over seas and doingwell not likeI wasn't doing well then but now I'm doingbetter...that could never work no way

@immanelkwabenaadjepong1698 2 года назад

Most of the time she coming back cos the guy she has genuine interest for dropped her and you are just the second option.. don't take her back

@jriches957 Год назад

You re right why don’t you just use her and non serious ? Lol 😂

@JuanGonzalez-lk6uu 4 дня назад

Do you have facts to support that claim? Or just talking from experience??

@Powerline1391 2 года назад

Distance always gives time to reflect for both parties…

@stevenharrison9032 Год назад

I was rejected twice by the same woman. The first time was a warning. I didn’t see it. The second time is a lesson. There will not be a third…

@tyetr9853 Год назад

Give us some details, tell us the story.

@lawofthesun Год назад

Don’t chase a woman!!!!

@bernardanyetei4181 2 года назад

God only knows how much I have fallen for the "I missed you" trap 😂😂😂😂😂

@nshomjoel7543 Год назад

Hahaha

@rl3656 Год назад

😂😂 havnt we all

@ndahemeka7741 Год назад

We have all😂😂💔. We need to cleanse ourselves

@enobongobong2728 29 дней назад

It's probably funny but we always find a way back

@013DREC 2 года назад

For a woman to truthfully tell us about the ways of women speaks volumes. That means they are well aware of their tactics

@leowest5106 Год назад

When a woman distant her self from you Please use that moment wisely, focused on your self put your happiness first heal your self. Correct your self from all’s your mistake You had with her your past Relationship.work your life back up, believe me you will see different they will know you the master Mind.

@juliusv.cnwachukwu6076 2 года назад

"Kick her to the Curb" You made my day, thanks Jessica.

@mvuyisityiwani9080 2 года назад

"Scarcity creates value".

@andrewokuni7487 2 года назад

I wouldn't call it value. Women just want to eat their cake and have it.

@hermanlucaslucas846 Год назад

@@andrewokuni7487 true that you might have cubic zirconium

@gabrieludensi5072 Год назад

Wow thats cute word from Jessica,I ve a girl dat I really love so much and was planing to end up wit her,I just travel for two months and she mess up and I came bck and notice and was able to forgive her but her attitude was nothing to write about but this girl has become part of me and am still battling to let her off from my hrt.

@JanVill Год назад

know your worth, fellas. focus on you. and like from that one video I recently saw says, "you don't deserve someone who comes back, you deserve someone who never leaves."

@JT-wc7me Год назад

As soon as you focus on your life purpose/ambition she will want to feel like she's important enough to distract you from it; if you let her distract you, she'd tell you, you should have stayed focused on your purpose. The answer is, just focused on yourself anyways

@bravebanda4554 2 года назад

This woman is smart, whatever she says is true and beneficial, women love attention and validation... If they don't get it they feel empty...

@josephchris8360 2 года назад

The best big sister ever with so much wisdom and insight....not only do i become better for relationships whenever I listen to you, I so become a better person with your teachings. Thank you love you big sister ❤️

@edwinomweri 2 года назад

I felt the same when she whispered...you know what she whispered 😅

@JessicaOS 2 года назад

Lol

@salah3339 2 года назад

I watch a videos regularly now

@pave_waywiz8869 2 года назад

JESSICA why did you quite CitiFm ?

@theodorebennefield2030 2 года назад

Hold on bruh. Jessica is NOT "big."

@josezerpa8177 10 месяцев назад

This last girl I used to date was very attractive, and she told me a few stories of guys who would become obsessed over her , even to the extreme that some guy went to her house and started yelling at her from outside because she had dumped him. I told her then that I was not that kind of guy. Shortly after she tried to friendzone me. I validated her decision of not seeing me anymore, and refused to be friends with her. She insisted and I said it's better to part ways. She then said she would still "say hello" if she ever saw me in the neighborhood. Fellas, don't be that crazy stalker that chases her around. Take your L with dignity, move on QUICKLY, and carry on with your life as if nothing happened. Yeah it sucks to be rejected, but it sucks more betraying yourself by agreeing to do something you don't want. Having that clarity of what you want is key. Do not ever settle for less. Thank you Jessica , your content is PURE GOLD,.

@oganebu 7 месяцев назад

I hate wen a lady tells me let’s be freinds,how do you tell a 38 year old man to keep female freinds up and down?later they’ll say men are scum and men don’t stay one place!

@Hocklie333 Год назад

Like she said if the only thing someone is interested in doing is keeping the flame from dying but doesn't want a relationship then more than likely they are surrounding themselves with other flames too. Just remember they may love collecting all that warmth and bright light from those flames now, but eventually the only thing that's going to do is cause their house to burn down.

@bbnCRLB 2 года назад

There's a lot one can achieve in life than chasing who doesn't want you. I tried that twice at 18 and 19 and learnt that early to never chase.

@1stone379 2 года назад

Things get VVVVEEEERY INTERESTING in the work place when a women you were light-weight flirting with (because she opened the door to see if she still has that type of pull) catches another good looking woman trying to flirt with you in her face 😂😂😂 The aftermath is freakin hiiiiilarious

@FNC84 11 месяцев назад

@@1stone379bad man 😂😂

@gowonclasp7249 2 года назад

You read my mind at point #8 when you said jealousy a woman hates to see a man at his very best and not be apart of it that's something I see a lot with most women 💯💯💯

@georgeagu7388 2 года назад

She nailed that one

@toddbr5959 2 года назад

Most of them are like that! From my prospective that's a toxic behaviour! They want us to like them even when they are at they're lowest but when we are at our lowest they dump us! Double standards i see.

@kennethletterlou3451 Год назад

@@toddbr5959 i agree its definitely a toxic behavior trait fr

@mray9305 Год назад

Women will project and put you down for having a nice car, clothes and job. Especially if it means they need to compete with other women or they can not do it for thenslves

@leonardmuranj4112 2 года назад

Hi Jessica, I have a feeling that women happen to be the most selfish people I have ever seen. Imagine as a man, I'm chasing goals for us, so that we two get better especially financially. Then, she starts complicating life, wants to be chased and pampered like babies. Come on, love should be considerate of our life dreams together, not passing all the time pampering someone. Time waits for no one. Let's focus on our goals and as well as love each other genuinely.💞

@morkakenneth4737 Год назад

Fact… Bless you bro

@raphealnelson5551 2 года назад

I will cherish this channel…the men in my family always taught us to chase money…because you’ll lose money chasing women but you’ll NEVER lose women chasing money💪🏾💯

@raphealnelson5551 2 года назад

I’m good but thank you…I don’t want her back I just move on and constantly progress with no distraction…I’m actually glad we split now I have a peace of mind

@hmanfilms Год назад

I keep seeing all of these 1) She couldn’t find someone better 2) don’t give her a second chance These are all so negative. Sometimes a woman just needs space to contemplate the relationship, feel big feelings, feel your absence and realize how much she values about the relationship to continue it. Peoples minds jump straight to negative

@howtosnatch Год назад

This is what the world needs more of.

@thegreatxander7 Год назад

Thank you for not being negative.

@shannonjackson3470 Год назад

💯💯🔥

@mzeimagida8364 7 месяцев назад

❤❤❤

@SentilongJamir777 11 дней назад

Sometimes they leave because the guy became comfortable in his own space and lost his path 😞 we need to self reflect and become a better version and when the time is right if she or he was for you God will bring you two together. Sometimes all we need in life is to self reflect and change for better. Thanks for the postive comment.

@paulthobe3489 2 года назад

I will never give them a chance. Once an abusive person. Most likely always an abusive person. They left you every for less. Your job is not to redeem them but, for them never to do it again. Learning is a self taught lesson hardest to do but, best for you future.

@thelegendarycritique40 2 года назад

Fellas please don’t take her back when she comes back.. Why? She literally playing games with you and giving you mixed signals when things should be straightforward..

@chimadivine7715 9 месяцев назад

The way your thoughts transform into fluent words of exact description is so phenomenal. Well done.

@claudecontour9277 2 года назад

This sounded like me alot. I kept chasing this girl, being too available and she literally dissed me. Now that I found my grip and gave her the cold shoulder, she works 110% trying to figure out how did I get myself out of her yoke.

@s3k3tv8 Год назад

lol, i laughed at yoke

@claudecontour9277 Год назад

@@s3k3tv8 almost literally 😂

@edwardsamilee2330 Год назад

A girl left me because I didn't have a job back then.She also got a kid but separated with the husband because they got married since she "accidentally" got pregnant.. years down the line she comes back with a kid and wants me back because things got tougher on the streets.She knows I have a good job and I am single. Hahahaha. I turned her down and her response was that I am mean just because I refused to take her back. She is now feeling the heat.The hunter now becomes the hunted.

@moonbear9035 Год назад

@@edwardsamilee2330 She’s for the streets lmao. good job

@eldrickejleest 2 года назад

I think you speak the most truth out of any relationship guru on youtube.

@paulconteh4219 2 года назад

You always answer my questions ..... when ever I don't have answers to life questions you always seem to post videos at the right time .... thank you very much u are a real Blessing

@pamotorsports763 Год назад

I have to thank you. Your videos help me just stay away and not fall back into BS w my ex. I walked away from inconsistency, games, silent treatment and it always being turned on me. I've taken this energy and put it all into bettering myself. I told her you said she's no good. Lol

@ogbonnafrancis2495 Год назад

Dear Jessica..... This is by far one of the best videos I've watched. I have watched it over and over again and it has really been helpful. Thank You.

@christopherj8324 2 года назад

I'm going through something similar. Thank you for your insight!

@Original_jataro 2 года назад

I was pondering some of these questions about a year ago based upon an experience I had at the time so hearing your perspective is so refreshing and enlightening. Thanks Jessica much love!

@coldonecold4384 2 года назад

Lol wicth probably 🤣 😅 😂

@onyekachiokpi7761 2 года назад

Jessica, you just saved a life, almost all you said, was my experience with my ex.. I am grateful, thank you so much... Indeed knowledge is power

@leroyallen3222 Год назад

You always speak the truth and that's why I appreciate you Jessica

@derrickbrooks6833 2 года назад

Nice, no one could have put it down better than you. Excellent points. Keep up the great work

@adamjayson2007 2 года назад

Thanks Jessica for the advice I was in the same situation a couple years ago,and I just cut her off because all she was doing is used up my energy and time.

@dietermendoza6385 2 года назад

phenomenal, absolutely phenomenal. please make more videos. don't stop. you're the older sister I need.

@johndiggs4060 Год назад

Queen Jessica blesses us with that holy knowledge once again!! Thank you Queen!

@Nimeamua 2 года назад

Thank you Jessica! This video really hit me deep

@williamsgege5481 2 года назад

I've been following your videos quietly for a long while and I must confess that you good and always improving at what you do best. I appreciate your impact. Keep you the good work.

@willgabriel5275 2 года назад

Jessica, I can't appreciate you enough. I was almost crying to this. But you're really helping lots out there. I bless the day I found you. Thank you so much for your invaluable pieces. You need to be awarded in the hall of fame for all the males out here.

@bobbimensahatopley9894 2 года назад

Your videos have been of immense help to me... I have started the road to recovering myself and focusing on the things that matter: myself, my goals, my future... Thank you so much. I deleted so many contacts that were of NO benefit at all to me. Still more contacts to go

@usangelemi4966 2 года назад

Big Jessy I am short of words to say truly. To be honest I started listening to you some few month ago in this year and each and every words I hear you say do works a lot of magic in my life. This particular episode of yours is mind blowing it really got me moving on now and working on myself for the future to come. Yes I agree the part you did talk about a Lady who does not have your interest but still they will not want to see you with another person that is witch craft like you said.... Thank you Jessy for your motivational words they have really help me a lot and am ready to move on to become a Better a person. Thanks a lot Jessy and I am also a proud Nigeria I love everything about my African... Do have a wonderful year Beautiful Jessy with much love from Nigeria.

@bendoyle5023 Год назад

I've watched every break up video on RU-vid now that I am going through my most painful breakup and yours are the only one that have made me feel better! You've indirectly reminded me that I don't need to chase her and that if we dont make things work then life will be okay without her. Thankyou

@kalonjeebless 2 года назад

God bless the parents of Jessica Os, you have been such a blessing to this world.

@kalangankombo1421 2 года назад

Jessica you really bring out the best in me every time I listen to you 💯

@qwesiemansaya2642 2 года назад

The sprinkle holy water part got me😂😂😂…Jessica you’re the best. Much love Jess❤️

@mightymike5801 Год назад

She comes back because you loved her and she tried to get your love from somebody else but the probably with that is the way you love and another man loves is different

@kevin392 2 года назад

What you say, point by point, is spot on.

@dougmannix2559 2 года назад

Straight forward and makes sense!! Good one Jessica!!

@robelasgedom Год назад

"If someone can walk away from you, let them walk." T.D.Jakes

@citrinwarren6073 2 года назад

Jessica, it appears to me that you are highly inspired in all these sensitive topics. You always strike the nail on the head. I can always relate to your topics. Thanks

@richardhanula4702 Год назад

stumbled upon your channel and im pretty amazed, hearing this stuff from womans perspective adds to it. you go girl and thank you

@jeremiahperez9451 Год назад

I’m about to tell her too Jess said she no bueno I needed this clarity so much help new here and I’m already loving it

@Verstify 2 года назад

I love how you articulate your words and composure. Straight from kenya one love

@davidwaiganjo5343 2 года назад

Tuko wengi huku

@jossell911 2 года назад

Awesome vid and you’re definitely right about the last one. They loved being chased and get a thrill out of it. Deserves a ton of views💯

@VeeShenge 2 года назад

Women are so full of it, this is what this video confirms to me. Something that I already knew.

@jl_4_preZz 2 года назад

I only follow 2 RU-vid pages... This one of them and my favorite one. Thank you for this... Reinforcing what I've been thinking and feeling. Much love!

@janefegarido6493 Год назад

This is also a good advice to us women. My ex boyfriend broke up with me because he said that we can't be together in reality. And aside from that I gave him too much of my time and attentions which is didn't reciprocate at all. When I stopped talking to him after 2 months, he came back and asking me too much questions. He asked me to meet him but I rejected it because I'm still not getting over him. Thank you Jessica, love your channel❤

@danmcadams5925 Год назад

Jessica you're a legend.💯 Thank You for what you're doing..🙏

@brownguylee1591 2 года назад

I’m literally only watching this because of you😍 there’s guys that do this and honestly I feel like it’s honest and straight forward and it coming from a woman gives me a better understanding than hearing this from the guys

@Joshua_s_23 2 года назад

The “kick her to the curve” whisper and witch/witchcraft. Sprinkle Holy Water on you are pure comedy 😂😂😂

@arunj.gnanarathinam1412 2 года назад

Completely level headed & honest. Jessica you've cut all the BS & driven straight to the point. You're leadership material. Way to go ✌️👍👏👌

@dwightdaniels3283 2 года назад

That's for sure 💯

@damianlopez7630 Год назад

Thank You Jessica Os. You are a True Gem!!!

@florencewambui4274 25 дней назад

Lovely and powerful message. God bless you for advising us

@tacticalhuddy3614 2 года назад

"They get curious why you aren't giving them attention anymore....and they will come back...DON'T GIVE IT TO THEM"....Jessy I really like your take, side comments, thought process, concepts and constructs. Those punches of advice that you so softly punctuate your video are invaluable. And some sense of humor.

@mikeike3621 2 года назад

My ex left me 😩 I moved to a different city which is 3 hours from her. She used to call my phone every day to curse me out. We have two kids and I said to her don’t call my phone for her personal issues just call me for my kids! She puts me in Childsupport and I pay every month 💯💯 . She sent me photos and videos of her and her man together’s kissing. I still don’t mind even though I loved her. After almost 2 years of breaking up she has the nerve to call my phone to ask me to come back in her life. 😩😩 I politely said to her if she keeps calling my phone about this crap I’ll call her in court to make her stay in her lane because some people are enjoying hurting others to please their short breath of pleasure. She left me with $3000 now my net worth is almost $1M in less than 2 years.

@atenanimism4362 2 года назад

If she's harassing you with photos, I would use that towards getting full custody, especially if them dudes ain't no good

@mikeike3621 2 года назад

I just pay my child support every month and move on I don’t pay Her no mind.

@denisgitau7120 2 года назад

How did you make that amount of money?

@themangerministry3021 Год назад

God bless you sis, you are currently helping me in a challenge am into currently

@nonenone6884 Год назад

Thanks for being real with us guys

@rainbowstar4360 Год назад

Thank you Jessica. The more I watch your video’s I feel that I have made the right decision to walk away from this person who is constantly taking advantage of me.

@kinche6380 2 года назад

You are amazing. Thank you for mentioning that a woman who doesn't want you and doesn't want you to move on with someone is a witch. You are the best Jessica. 👌 I learn a lot from you and continue this ministry to us.

@otiss3213 2 года назад

Spot on! I've seen these very same characteristics displayed in a particular individual with whom I once dated. That is why I stepped off -and kept it moving!! I knew,know and realized my sf -worth very early on. My father(R.I.P.) always instilled in me to never chase any woman. And I don't....💯🖐🏿

@paulramuki5836 2 года назад

sending just love and appreciation to you for all the content from South Africa

@tiggergolah Год назад

I'm actually going to add that to my repertoire. "Jessica said you're no good." I love it.

@Torpedopot 2 года назад

Great advice and excellent assessment

@mozedarren 2 года назад

You're so legit. I've experience this from many women especially number 7

@kevincroft9848 Год назад

Thank you Jessica for your video message . It helped me very much. I got alot out of this video . Iam very grateful that you are helping us men out here Kevin xxx

@healthybehave 2 года назад

Powerful advice that points out to me because I am in this process of taking my distance from a woman. Thank you to refresh my mind with your advice.

@pacybone 2 года назад

Abuya kelly ole niyen. Thief

@omey1408 2 года назад

Madam u r brilliant Bravo all men should listen to u luv from 🇮🇳

@sparktech96 Год назад

Thank you for this video. This situation has happened to me lately.

@dreamerthetruthmatters619 2 года назад

Jessica, I am a living witness to the above-mentioned motives. Thanks ❤️🤝 I am enjoying my life and she is trying to come back but I am not giving her the face I have made things tough for her!

@trashawnjackson5956 2 года назад

This lady is so on point. 👍🏾. Me being a man I have had this happen to me at least 3 times in my life. Couldn't figure out why they would wanna come back after I moved on.

@datstovey 11 месяцев назад

Crazy right, happened to me twice.

@Wisdomkey7 2 года назад

I agree with you this time. I dropped them fast! I couldn't find myself chasing a woman these days. I think it's about 5-10 women out of a million deserve to be chase.

@1stone379 2 года назад

A lot are good at putting on an image of "desirability" and doing major things. The reality is really an illusion. A lot really ain't shit 😂😂😂. Just "decent looking" substanceless gashes.. 😬 REAL Ladies please stand!

@alabra3350 Год назад

Thanks Jessica. Beauty, intellect, wisdom. Love your thoughts and insights. Very educative psychology and beneficial.

@demetremcdonald6133 Год назад

I knew it was something different about you. You’re anointed.

@coolbenny2005 11 месяцев назад

Give her the break up she asked for .It’s that simple.Chasing a woman give her validation and when you take it away she runs back

@daverose8028 2 года назад

You have nuff good points your videos are Great , my EX wife left me how much years & now she's Begging to come back she even divorce me for how much years & went overseas , she had invited me for Dinner & Breakfast sending numbers for me to come back , I told her the Relationship is over & done , thanks be to God I could wash clean cook bake everything in the house ,Now she's found regrets , your video is the Best

@savead6628 2 года назад

What’s with them if they think they can come back after so many years and hurt they put u in? I try to understand there minds?

@daverose8028 2 года назад

@@savead6628 one advice I can tell you ,if you buck up on persons like those run for your life because there head isn't good ,& I choose not to go back in Relationship like those .

@daverose8028 2 года назад

@@savead6628 it's not every one you see out there that wear clean clothes has a good mental,most of them need to see a Doctor so careful who you pick up , most persons looking some one for a Stepping Stone to come out of there Poor life ,I got the shitty end of the stick my story is long & what had happened to me in the past can't catch me again.

@erinmerlot8826 Год назад

You're so strong I'm trying to find myself at the moment and as I am I pray I find this same level of levelheadedness. It's been a roller coaster but being alone totally makes you better and analyze all your own faults and love yourself

@daverose8028 Год назад

@@erinmerlot8826 I won't be going back to her not now not ever ,thank GOD I can wash, Cook, Clean,Iron, Bake, there's nothing in the Home I can't do I can do everything .Plus I work for the Government long hours . I don't let a thing Bothers me

@ogembojogoo1687 2 года назад

I will listen to your videos anytime. We love you Jessica. Thank you

@matthewbrown9844 5 месяцев назад

This is so spot on 🙏 My ex has recently unblocked me on social media after I stopped contact with her. All these points feel valid in my situation. I wish there was a more meaningful reason but my gut is telling me exactly what you’re saying in this video. I feel empowered to keep going with no contact. Thanks