I do NOT see Asian men as my brother as an Asian woman myself. I see them much more worthy than the racist, self-hating BS coming out of your mouths in this video.
I think it’s sad when anyone has any sort of dating policy that has zero to do with an individual’s character and values. Preference is one thing. Hard no’s are another.
When it's true and ppl like you and 50% of Asian women have a no asian policy and 50% of you marry white or jewish men, it is sad ppl like you deny your choices are independent of living in racist America,. Fact: most of the famous asian women are married to yt men. Authors, newsreporters, academics, actresses, all married to yt men, it is sad that it is common for asian women have a preference for yt men and not call it racism.@@cchangandco
As an asian American male, I believe most asian men get upset at asian women dating outside their race has more so to do with them & their inner projection of insecurity. Asian males on average have a much more difficult time being able to date outside their race, let alone inside their own race. But that's not to say sometimes our asian sisters put us down in the process of dating others due to how society portrays asian men or how little aasian men receive recognition. However, I understand both perspectives. I have two younger sisters, as I'm older, I don't typically find myself physically attracted to asian women bc they remind me that they're my sisters haha I personally don't have any difficulty dating outside my race, & nothing against my beautiful asian sisters but much prefer dating outside my race. Not only but from a biological perspective, we're most often attracted to those who are "different" bc we instinctively desire procreation, why it matters is bc difference creates stronger offspring The last handful of women I've dated were turkish, Armenian & saudi... I personally find this region most physically appealing
Thanks for sharing your thoughts. I think similarly - It’s not some personal emotional charge. It’s messed up to put someone down for simply being a certain race. I will put someone down if they are doing shitty things though! 😂 Some of the comments we get are so angry and presumptuous. P.S. I also think middle eastern people are BEAUTIFUL!
Honestly if you got game it doesn't matter, you just cant know somebody's preference on first glance. Ive seen balding old guys that dont work out with really attractive women(objectively 8-10) swooning over them.
There is some sense of "insecurity" but there is some sense of truth of American media putting down Asian men. Asian culture is actually incredible, incredible powerhouse of technology, and starting to become entertainment powerhouses as well. American culture has it though to look at Asians as "no lifers" or as "too homogenous" to have you focused on all the flaws of Asian culture, despite Asian countries succeeding beyond all odds. Once I started watching more Asian content, it opened my eyes. We have our flaws for sure, but American media will have you thinking Asians are bottom of the barrel people. But I now realize American culture does this out of the perceived threat and their own insecurities about maintaining dominance. What I'm trying to say is that some Asian women are also quite insecure as well. There is absolutely no reason for them to bag on Asian men who probably have it the hardest in the dating market (according to outdated dating statistics from dating apps but who knows), yet they are doing so anyways for what reason? I ask why?
I'm white hispanic, dated a Chinese girl once and she told me I would only be for fun as her family would make her life hell if she didn't settle down with another Chinese guy. Oh well
@@marcelinolopez2326 Thanks! - I did find that out recently from Asian guy. He said they ruin a long line (lineage) that dates back 100,000 years and a female ruins that line and has no respect. Or so he says?
@@sikeibutler7027 As a MEXIKAN with a daughter, ill never let my daughter marry a whiyte human. Do you not know our history in USA. That will be a disrespect, considering all of the racism i told her i have endured with these people, and all of fhe massacre they have done to our people TO THIS DATE.
Attractive people are allowed to date their life into a better situation. like what does suck and i don't know if asian guys are broke but like an attractive women with a broke guy. then she complaining the whole time. it's like jsut go date the white guy and be better off.
As a white man, even though I have preferences with White (most of my gf), Asians (had one gf) and Latinas (never had a gf), what she blurted out in the end.. I leave it to you guys 🙂
My sisters from another mothers, there will always be cultural expectations of dating your own race, that's uniform with just about every race and culture. Particularly for white and Asian dynamic in predominantly western society, the main issue is you're dealing with internalized racism. Your environment can very well shape you to inadvertently value white above Asians because they are the majority and the primordial model by exposure (i.e. you'll see more white leads in movies than Asian leads) and that's just how the dice rolls if you were born in western soil, less so if you're an immigrant. Whenever you experienced/felt like "you don't like being Asian"-that's internalized racism. Anecdotally speaking every Asian-American in my friend group shared this reference point, while the immigrant group (myself included) do not. I believe this influence can indirectly affect how you see attraction in many ways. I believe most of us Asian men are not here to victimize WMAF couples who are in a healthy relationship, nor we're gatekeeping your romance/love life if you do seek love as interracial. We're just not down with the numbers of Asian women who are parading white men above Asian men, and the optics WMAF couple gives is bad because of that very reason. And this is all a byproduct of (you guessed it) years of internalized racism. So I check my biases, if you're happy be happy. But please do us a favor and don't discredit Asian men for who they are. We don't need calls coming from inside of the house. Btw this type of pushback transpires in any interracial space; Asian men and white woman, black men and white women, so on and so forth
most if not all prominent asian american women are with yt men, see actresses, politicians, news reporters,artists, athletes. Open your eyes Christine!!!!@@cchangandco
@@cchangandco Why did you marry your husband? From your videos I can't perceive any love or affection for him? I sort of feel sorry for him. There's no use being married to a beautiful woman who seems remote.
I think it's incredibly sad that your husband will never see you the way you see yourself. And that 100% has to do with the fact that you're Asian and he's not. He will never understand a portion of you that is a core part of your identity. Your relationship with Chinese (assuming you're Chinese) culture, he will never truly grasp. Same with the language and food. Doesn't matter if he learns the language or loves the food, he won't get it the way you get it. There will always be a certain gap between each other because there lacks a complete mutual understanding of one another due to the difference in culture and upbringing. A barrier will always be between your parents and him. He will never know what it's like to grow up in America as an Asian with immigrant parents and the struggles and insecurities you had to go through. You're not missing out on Asian men by marrying a white guy... you're missing out on YOURSELF. "To be known is to be loved." You cannot fully be known by your own husband and therefore loved and I find that heartbreaking.
this Q; is to the asian woman... im curious why do you date mostly white men? am hispanic and dated a few asian woman, most of them tell mw that i made it difficult for them to date white men lol, i ask why do half of the asian woman tell me "because we think white men a superior finically obviously that is not the case with you" i have own 2 construction businesses.... they tell me my features are attractive "dark" and are attracted that i am very passionate, romantic, protective and can build a house from the grown up and repair lol apart from been rugged.... but im curious to know what other woman only date white men... have a great day
I live in California so am around all sorts of races and ethnicities. The races I have dated the most when I was single are white, Asian, and Hispanic. As long as personal + family values and mutual attraction are there, I personally don’t care what race the person is. I didn’t get hit on much by Black and Indian men.
I absolutely agree eventually the personality person values surpass any physical appearance, for example, the Asian girl I’m dating now from Singapore (Korean) tell me I made it extremely difficult for her to ever date of white guy or Asian ever again lol 😅🤗… I speak on my behalf the key for me I treated every single woman as I will want my mother to be treated. ☺️❤🙏💁🏻♂️ have a great day 🙌☀️ Christine and thank you so much for your reply ☺️🫶
@@cm07ca so if you had the choice... would date a savage or a civilized woman? Hispanics typically are more prone to being violent than white men....do not come on here and portray your race as better than any other... like you have.,...because someone can point out a racial generalization like i have that is true as to why your race is not better...aka quit being racist because in the end it boils down to preference and that is it...
Im asian and I dont find anything wrong with asian women dating outside their race. I think I can give insight on why asian dudes might be slighted. It comes probably from an array of things. One would be because the portayal of asian dudes being weaker and less desirable in societal media vs asian women are at the highest, which then reflects on the dating market. You can see this from dating app data. That in turn, gives the generalized notion "oh your own race doesn't even want you." This is an on going trope for a long time. Also it may come from the Asian females who say "i dont find asians attractive cause they remind me of my sibling or family members." Many find it offensive. In society asian masculinity and asian men are usually just the butt of the joke, in general. I think it's just all these things piled on, and it's harder for the asian brothers even in 2024 with the dating market. Its ok because asian women dont understand this because the men havent really talked about it. Growing up in asian households they dont really have an outlet to discuss these things. Sex and relationships arent actually talked about at all between parents and young asian boys. They typically have to learn and diacover everything on their own without guidence in life as well. That's just my two cents to shed light on the topic. Im all for date who you want as that is a preference.
To the girl that never wanted that role as a traditional woman: Did you ever ask why? The way it is presented here seems very resentful, which usually indicates other issues at hand other than actually doing dishes, which you (girls in general like this) will do anyways being single due to poor attitudes. Good men will not be doing dishes for their boss babe for long. She will grow bored, she will leave. Women want to adore, given they are hypergamous. They do not adore men doing dishes while they earn a big paycheck. They look down. That's not a man's fault. It's female preferance that gets us to that inevitable conclusion.
As a Blk woman I can relate. The only difference is that Asian men want ownership of Asian women and actually want to date them. A lot of Blk men want to own and control Blk women then are repulsed by them at the same time. Makes no sense!
Many of us white guys are turned on by blk women, as different is good, but too often we're afraid to pursue it for fear of rejection or ridicule. That said, East Asian women are our #1.
Wait what do you mean when you say Asian men want ownership of Asian women? lol Ownership over a person sounds wild. Tbh I’m an Asian man that grew up around a lot of black people. From an outside pov I’ve seen a lot of black women get beyond pissed at any black man dating outside the race especially if it’s a white girl. 😂 Whoever said black people cant be racist needs to be a fly on the wall during one of those interactions bc sheesh. IMO men or women whenever someone gets upset that the opposite sex is dating outside the race all of that energy comes from insecurities. If you didnt want to date that person then it wouldn’t even matter who they chose to date.
@@bannedmann4469 lol I’m still waiting for her to explain how Asian men want ownership of Asian women. 😂 Never in my life have I or anyone I know want ownership of Asian women.
Not true because outside of celebrities, BM are usually dating bottom of the barrel WW. Those women date BM because they aren't getting love from their own men or other men.
@@alphalijahsworld9010 you're delusional mate, I look up on the internet, there's barely any videos criticising the mix couple, yet the internet is full of people criticising WMAW couples just look it up mate
@@alphalijahsworld9010 Type on yt _"BMWF couples"_ and it's full of people showing off their relationship, yet if you look up _"WMAF couples"_ more than half the videos are of Asians criticising the mix couple using terms such as _"colonial powers"_ or _"these Asian women are not attractive enough so they go for foreign men"_ or _"she doesn't like Asian men so that's why she dates white"_ but no one will ever say that about white women in mix couples 🤦
@@feduntu thats just because the internet adjusts to your search history most interracial relationships are hated and even tho i dont agree personally its not hard to see reason in their arguments if you lookm
Then you're not trying. I have a work friend who figured it out, living and working in Maryland. He ended up marrying a Thai woman who was living in Thailand. He figured it out because he knew what he wanted, and set about to make it happen. They've been married about 10 years, and are currently in Thailand on vacation.
I love asian women i want to meet and merry one, my dream women is north korean rrefugee woman the most tanned most poor nk woman nice asian Canadian north korean japan chinese filipina whatever woman ahh thats the best to me
i have never heard that Danish women don't like Danish men because they remind them of their brothers. And Denmark is a very small country, smaller than many cities in China
