The proof that heterosexual orientation is the truth. 

You mean what an inaccurate and not needed lecture from a homophobic perspective. Rabbi Yom Tov is not the man.

No he doesn’t lol

I’m sorry I’m only seeing this nine months later. I don’t really look much at my comments. Not that I don’t care but I’ve got a lot going on. I can’t really answer your question. Besides, the way you asked, it would probably be the best answer. I think that praying and doing very devotional, spiritual ritual, and obviously sacrificing ones carnal desires, would go along way toward getting rid of the frustration of your sexual attraction.

Cici Mack Im Presuming he’s referring to the friction caused through intercourse

I’m a gay man , and I couldn’t have sex with a woman , I physically couldn’t do it ! And I’ve tried

@@Avievan91 I think you need the right woman. She should be with serious masculine traits and extremely aggressive/dominating

@@RabbiYomTov I’m just so happy you replied xx

@@RabbiYomTov on a serious note though , I’m not physically attractive to the female form ! That is something I can’t change and I tried 😢

Lol

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lol. some old texts discuss :P there being people flipside being whats called Hermaphrodites. spiritual texts that said jesus had breasts. some interpret that as jesus was actually a woman, woman as a being with both male genitals and female breasts. so in the Supernatural realm we head to after. its endless possibility.. not what im personally interested in...I love women. end of story. lmao. but if god makes those kinds of beings out there, a step further than homosexuality. and they are their own movement and planet out there. so bet it. whatever. haha. i fully support the gay communities and think Love is the end all be all to God. And don't think they'd be here if not for God's will. perhaps they were straight for many lifetimes before this life. and god had an "experimental" path available for some to try homosexuality. I wont be doin that personally. lmao. but good for them n they :D

Sexual repulsion is a big challenge. Regarding forcing physical attraction, I wouldn’t force it. Spouses have to be very open with each other. With the right kind of openness, a couple can work it out. I wouldn’t want to be that couple, but a lot of people are living their lives with some painful realities. Things are not always easy.

I'm not certain if there will be proof of this from an empirical standpoint. I will say this as an anecdote and as a guy who is into other guys, I do notice within my friends who are gay, just how much of our conversations tend to steer towards that aspect of themselves. It is difficult to talk about other things like hobbies or other intertest outside of this aspect. I will be fair in saying that maybe they feel comfortable with me sharing that since they know my attraction as well. However, I think when one is friends with another human being, the relationship should be encompassing of more than one aspect of your being. I also noticed in myself, previously, how often I would make this aspect front and center in my personal relationships with others, who probably didn't need to know that about me or care. In honestly, I don't think this can ever be empirically proven, especially in the 20's and beyond but I do think the rabbi is onto something here. As far as friction goes, I think it means one of two things... in this case here what the rabbi is probably referring to is the pleasure received by men.

First of all, it’s better to read through things a few times before we send them and you could’ve just as easily sent that thoughtful, unique and creative. Comment with the word respectfully instead of respectlessly or just get rid of the whole thing and write what you wanted to say. I will sing, that we don’t know how to interpret a single commandment in the entire Atara, except for that which the oral tradition teaches us. Not one commandment comes with explanation in the Torah itself. It would be super cool, though if your explanation was the one given through the generations. It’s creative, but no the actual explanation that has been transmitted. With all due respect, I have lined my life personally to that which is in the transmission.

@@RabbiYomTov so u agree that there could be different ways to interpret this line from the Torah. That’s great! That’s a start! That is a rabbi’s job their job is to debate and provide explanations for what the Torah says meaning rabbis can provide different interpretations for laws in the Torah. Which they do on a regular basis. So I’m very happy that u are replying to this comment. There are many interpretations for that line in the Torah. You don’t have to choose the homophobic one.