Two good individuals can be non compatible for each other. What the spouses and family focus on is to proof who is wrong. Sometimes it’s not about being right or wrong but compatibility that doesn’t exist between two individuals. It’s natural. In nature there are many things that are not compatible with each other but have their own true existence. Same applies to human beings too.
MARRIAGE BRINGS TRANQUILITY AND MERCY وَمِنْ آيَاتِهِ أَنْ خَلَقَ لَكُم مِّنْ أَنفُسِكُمْ أَزْوَاجًا لِتَسْكُنُوا إِلَيْهَا وَجَعَلَ بَيْنَكُم مَّوَدَّةً وَرَحْمَةً ۚ إِنَّ فِي ذَلِكَ لَآيَاتٍ لِقَوْمٍ يَتَفَكَّرُونَ "And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquillity in them, and He placed between you affection and mercy. Indeed in that are signs for a people who give thought. (Surah Ar-Rum, 30:21)
Purpose of marriage (from male perspective) I need new clothes, okay darling I need new jewelry, okay darling I need a new car, okay darling I need a big house, this five bedroom house is not enough, okay darling Your parents are extremely annoying, okay darling I going to my parents’ house so don’t bug me, okay darling. Make sure you clean the whole house and kitchen, okay darling I love you, I know darling 🥴
Jesus said: I am the way and the truth and the life, no one comes to the Father (God) except through ME! (John 14:6) Jesus did not say that he was a way or a truth. Jesus said he was THE way and THE truth. Jesus said he is the LIFE. Who can give life but God? Jesus said no one, no matter who you are, will come to God the Father unless they go through him. He is the only way. He is the only way to eternal life and heaven. 1 Corinthians 1:27 For God has chosen the foolish of the world to shame the wise, and he has chosen the weak of the world to shame the mighty.
