The Reason for Meagan Good and Devon's divorce: Faking happiness for the public & incompatibility? 

Exactly well Put

Yes Empressive Yes! Great minds think alike. I hope that more bloggers remember their purpose vs digging for dirt. 💯💕

Wow!!! . . . SMILING . . .

I never thought they would get divorced

Well said. Came to Crossroad and 2 different paths at this time. This may be only for a season. Only time will tell.

PERIOD IT TAKES A MARRIED PERSON TO KNOW THIS!

Great Great comment

THIS!!!

This is the most mature response on the whole thread.

True. It goes through seasons like everything else.

Not true.II never heard rumors he was gay until this video She repeated what she " heard, which IS the definition of spreading gossip.Using the female voice mimicking and mocking his Instagram post, regarding their divorce, suggesting his sexuality is suspect.Because they decided to go their separate ways but did so without drama, she insinuated they were hiding that he could be gay, as the reason. She pretending she doesnt believe any of it but the entire video is dedicated to putting everything she's heard in a list, attempting to lead others to the conclusion that he is gay, then backing away as if she didn't start the fire.First and foremost her caption/ title, in and of itself is irresponsible and messy😒🙄

Bro, your name is awesome! I love it!

Unequally yoked is more like it.

@@pammypoo3003 Yes! He said, "I had to really sacrifice my list to accept her."😐 That kind of adjustment can make a relationship rocky.

@@shad8623 And I'm certain she had to do the same. I would think it went both ways.

It's possible that like Hosea the prophet (no offense Meagan), he will receive her back again.

Awww thought they was a great couple 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

Agreed

I don't like these phrases "weren't meant to be". Like some force came a day broke them off. They failed to work on their marriage.

@@justemeka but how do you know they didn't work on their marriage? Wouldn't be surprised if they went to therapy

yes I agree, they should get some privacy to process the breakup. Also your profile pic is the bomb. I love Storm!!

He is such a fraud and down low. So what. A beautiful women like her. Please. I know its rocketscience. I cant stand pulprit pimps. Omg i would never thought she smoke. He put her business out there. Hollywood scoundrel. Preacher smeacher. Boy bye. Dont like how he put her out there. I might be wrong but he always gave me downlow vibes. She may be infertile. Who knows whats really accurate. He wants to be a moviestarlet. Good megan next a billionaire. 😅 it was god who protected her not him

I like how they separated privately and took time (months) before announcing it. Im watching selling sunset now and seeing how Justin Hartley texted his wife Crishelle that he is filing for divorce and then the press announcing it 45min later is so disrespectful to me. Its good to process it before letting everyone know especially when youre in the lime light.

This is just a smoke screen. Celebrities often do this to protect themselves and keep the money flowing. There’s a reason that they’re not letting be known yet, so don’t be quick to believe the “cordial” disposition coming from both parties.

@@cynthiacromwell8002 who hurt you?🤔

@@romanbryant4742 exactly 😅😅😅

Til death do us part don't mean a fuck thing 💯 😴

This is a very selfish statement

@@93ajcollier How is the truth selfish?

That is not biblical but okay. He's a preacher

@@SarahR2D2 he’s a preacher…and? So what? Why is that important?

Haha enjoy the peace 🧘🏾‍♂️💯

They aren't obligated to explain anything to anyone but okay

@@deloriswilliams5493 true

I think Megan’s time in the industry might’ve had catered to her unhappiness. There’s not much about her cause she is very private, but I can only image how someone being a sex symbol since they were in their teens could really have damaging effects on them. She might’ve thought that marrying a pastor would bring her to some sort of happiness or closer to it-when that wasn’t fulfilled I guess neither the marriage.this is my speculation cause you’re right she never seem quite happy or at peace. Or….it could be neither that. And she wanted to continue her acting while he’s doing what he does and it simply just didn’t work out. They agreed respectfully to go their own ways as mature adults. I hope she finds what she is searching for in herself and not someone else cause that can often lead to many disappointments.

Could've been some childhood trauma that she never healed

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I just hope he doesn't try to sue for alimony !!

maybe shes a lesbian

Me not so much specially since they have remained childless for this long 😢

I absolutely saw this coming because out of her own mouth she said I thought he was out of my league I didn't think that I would be able to be with a man like him, him being a man of GOD, stood out to her she knew that he was not the average man and she was not healed from the previous relationship, Devon like what he saw he was into the flesh he enjoyed her look without really finding out what her character was like, when you are unequally yoked from the jump your relationship will not last so it was absolutely a situation where you just knew that they were going to be getting a divorce eventually were married for 9 years because they were both into entertainment movies TV they were always on the road so they saw each other very little and when they did see each other they were knocking boots but that's not the basis of a marriage we all know that, this is definitely something that was so predictable from the jump I knew this was going to happen absolutely and it's unfortunate but prayerfully they both will find the peace and happiness that they desire and they will find who they are equally yoked with 🙏🏿

i thought this would happen sooner or later considering she isn't sure about children when the husband has always wanted children

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Bruh! I was like 'what?' 🤔😑

Girl OK, I rolled my eyes when I heard that, one is the dumbest phrases ever!!! 🙄

Meh still be like what was that? What does that mean? Omygosh I just can’t….🤦🏽‍♀️🇯🇲

I’m all for positivity but they took it further than what it needed.

They clearly weren’t joined by God. They just found each other attractive and called it God like many people do. 🤷🏿‍♀️. What God joins, only death does it apart. People don’t even know what marriage means. Marriage is you partnering with God to make someone’s life better and helping them reach their destiny. Romance is nice, but it’s not what holds a marriage together.

Well according to the Bible which they claim to follow 1 Cor.13:4-8 Love is patient,(A) love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.(B) 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking,(C) it is not easily angered,(D) it keeps no record of wrongs.(E) 6 Love does not delight in evil(F) but rejoices with the truth.(G) 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.(H) 8 Love never fails. So I guess it wasn’t love of the Bible. Maybe that man made love

@@sixfigurebosschick538 I kinda agree with u in some way!! Sometimes the voices we claimed speaks/spoke to us may not just be of GOD!! The devil speaks too!

Amen, it's their business and if someone isn't your soulmate ordained by God,it is what it is

@@sixfigurebosschick538 Love thy neighbor as thyself. God expects you to love yourself also. Sometimes it’s hard to love yourself in a contentious or unhappy home. It weighs so heavily on you. Based on Genesis 29:31 and Isaiah 54:6, if you are an unloved, rejected, or hated wife, my channel is for you. Come get encouraged by the Lord through His Word.

​@@malayamona8921...Just imagine if God divorced us like we divorce each other. No, God accepts us raggedy, broken down, ratchet, messy, foul, smelly, etc. He proved it by putting His only Son on the cross to die so we could be forgiven of our wrong doings. Yes, He sacrificed His only Son, Jesus Christ!! AND humans get divorced for running up credit card debt, growing apart, going down different paths when they supposedly started on the same one, etc. Humans are so led by their feelings and emotions, which are fleeting. You do not make decisions based on feelings, especially one of the most important decisions in your life, i.e. who you will marry.

Well said. Most get to go through this and worse in private. They have to walk theirs out with the world. Let's uplift them in prayers.

Very true 👏🏾

Well class would be not making the video lol. It’s not our business. Meagan and DeVon just don’t want people speculating and being annoying. But alas, here we are.

@@spacebar9733 Empressive is an entertainment blogger. If you know that and are so morally self righteous that that offends you, why do you sub??

@@spacebar9733 this is reality. Ppl will ALWAYS speculate. That's the trade off w being in the public eye.

Yes I agree with you love 💯

They said God told them to marry each other 🤷

Meagan wanted a wholesome church boy and Devon wanted a hot girl. On Devon's side I'm not sure if it was God or his loins. On Meagan side she admitted that she just came out of a traumatic relationship and wanted something completely opposite from what she had. This doesn't sound like divine intervention to me. It sounds like they fulfilled what eachother wanted for the time being.

Right I never really felt there was any chemistry between them but they seemed like really good loving friends that respected each other as individuals.

Yes!

When you wind up divorced you weren’t meant to be and clearly not joined by God. They just wanted each other. Those that GOD put together, only death does them apart.

@@BBFLYRISEN that's the stupidest thing I've ever heard my Lord...

@@BBFLYRISEN Exactly. He also said be not yoked together with unbelievers. God ain't gone tell you to do that. He compromised God to marry her.

@@BBFLYRISEN Megan set the tone, it was her prayer to have a "good" man as oppose to the one she was with when she claims g^d told her to cut it off and go celibate. Just like the character she played in a movie, (think like a man) stop giving away your goodies. So, she set her eyes on DeVon and keep her goodies to herself until he married her she got what she prayed for, however, she never thought past being celibate until a man marries you. I can see g^d allowing him to marry her and compromise his standards which are righteous standards, he ask it of the prophet Hosea. It was her prayer answered and he was the gift given. People bury, reject and dishonor the gifts g^d give them everyday a union, a marriage is no different.

Sending so many blessings and positivity for your new marriage and life my love 💕

Aw, CONGRATULATIONS! 🤗🙏🤗

Congratulations sending love longevity blessings strength respect and unlimited joy, patience and I pray God keeps you together in Jesus name amen ❤

Social media destroys marriages.

@@trawlins396 I agree

Kimmy E. KIMMY E. 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

But who's not imperfect?

Are people out here idolizing other humans?

@@jupiterskiss3473 Apparently. Because it's also apparently impossible to have a love story similar to this. ESPECIALLY NOT FOR BLACK WOMEN.....

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True but sometimes things run their course.

@@ebonyeverything2751 I respectfully disagree. if two people are married that course should not go in separate ways. Marriage vows are “until death do us part” not “until this love runs it’s course.” That’s the difference between a marriage and a regular dating relationship. It’s meant to be for life.

@@ChrystleJones I know people love to LITERALLY apply the Bible to their lives but that's just irrational. U don't know those 2 people at all. They've each expressed their belief that God left them to each other and its not for u to say that God didn't do that. Their marriage was intended to be a testimony to others, it served its purpose. We are HUMANS not Gods, we change, we evolve and we grow apart as human beings. We were designed by God and we are some of the many species NOT designed to mate for life. There's nothing wrong with the Bible but u can't read it like a fairytale. Do u also apply the law of eye for an eye in your life as the Bible says? I also think that's why their divorce isn't drama filled and they still respect each other. Relationships die, just like people.

@@ebonyeverything2751 I am 100% not judging them. They both seem to be amazing individuals. I personally just believe the marriage union is meant to be for life and that is something I have seen people apply whether they believe in the Bible or not. I’m definitely not here to argue which I why I said I respectfully disagree with you.

@@ebonyeverything2751 they are Christians, so what else should be the basis of talking to them?

i think in general people should keep relationships low key. if looks too flashy and comes off sanctimonious to people. when shit hits the fan its difficult to pull back without looking like a fool. it ain't just famoso people.

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Beyounce and Jay Z never come out and say ANYTHING!! That's why I Absolutely Love them 💖... You don't owe anybody any explanations!! They will talk about you irregardless!! 🤷

And everyone all in your business and swear that they know you. 🙄

christian scrutiny is good Ol' Misogyny .they've got all that smoke for first ladies but yet the pastors be smashing parishioners left and right.

She had no business marrying that pastor. Shaunie O’Neal nice nasty is next

@@lorealjane9192 Not Christian scrutiny under a comment against Christian scrutiny 😂. Who are you to say? Judgement like this is the reason so many people hate Christians and call them hypocrites. You never know what God has in store for them or what He can change within a relationship. Stop it!

Its That last phrase 4 me ..

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Yes

Wholeheartedly agree 👏🏾

I agree with you. You can look past 1 or 2 things but definitely not an entire list of things... That's totally wrong

You nailed it.

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Absolutely! He compromised his values because she's beautiful and she compromised her lifestyle because he's a respectable man of God. But compromise is not the same as acceptance.

@@trawlins396 Exactly.

Kids he wants kids she took off from her career now she back now they file for divorce she is focusing on her career now

We have to understand that some of our deal breakers maybe God has placed them on our heart for a reason. We have to stick to them and sticking to them is not idolism but wisdom. I think they both still got something beautiful out of this, to me my main concern is just that she still walks with God. I pray she knows and understands God's deep love for her and that some of the treatment did not push her away or make her feel unloved by God.

This is true. Totally agree

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@@omogenews I don't trust you... I'm not clicking that lol

@@vijzon3223 not a bad link please ...

I thought so too. Both good people, but never saw them together romantically.

I agree. They’ve always seem to give me friends vibe instead of romantic energy. I wish them the best.

i had the same vibe

YES!

Exactly it seems it takes a lot to be a pastors wife and I understand if she wasn’t ready for all that but he did know who he married.

I didn’t get that vibe at all. Did you know meagan was having fertility issues? Which makes this even sadder. And she had uterine cancer. People should really stop pulling the blame card it just did not work out.

What makes u think he is definately straight?🤔

This!

Ugh. & the way she was like “so we’re going to cover up right?” Who do you think you are? I’m so glad he checked her!

@@__kash I was beside myself hearing that. There were too many church queens being incredibly judgmental and rude.

Yes religion, politics, and too much ppl in the mix, can all break things up equally. They stood no chance against society.

I think her tone was wrong but her point was valid.I think certain lifestyles have certain sacrifices that come with them.Personally, I can't be a pastor's wife cause I love weird things

@@praxym9293 personally, I don’t believe in judging someone’s appearance. The entire ideology of dressing conservatively is too rooted into misogyny.

Yea, him sacrificing his list for someone with her qualities seems like something you wouldn't think God would want a minister to do. But then you could also look at it as God wanting to grow both of them, or have people learn from their experience.

If only it was that simple.

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Exactly! Megan pursued that man… this is a lesson to “new age” women, NEVER pursue a man In that interview with Tamiron Hall, they said that Megan went after him and followed him around at a party🥴

@@DH-uw3us Yea but would God want a minister to also be a Hollywood producer? I just feel like walking in Christ is a big challenge and it’s not for everyone as it requires to sacrifice everything and quite frankly it’s the hardest thing to do which is why the Bible says only a few will make it. Christ and Hollywood and other worldly things are like oil and water; they don’t mix.

If God didn't choose your mate. You should divorce

NOW THIS IS THE REALEST COMMENT IVE SEEN IN MY LIFE!!!! GODDDD NEEDS TO BRING MARRIAGES TOGETHER MORE NOT OUR FEELINGS ON WHAT WE FEEL AND THINK!!!!!! GODS VOICE STILL MATTER!!!!

Agreed

Agreed x2!!☺☺☺

depend who they reporting on

I keep trying to tell people this. Nobody listens🤷🏽‍♀️

It's EVERYTHING!! It's the most overlooked!

Now this I agree with

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Hmm that’s a lie ... Paul called out a men in front of everyone so did Jesus! If your brother or sister is falling away from the faith and you’ve spoke to her in private and also with 2 witnesses, the bible tell us to rebuke them in front of everyone. Read the bible sis. It’s just that you need to use wisdom

@@christlivesevangelism9824 you read the bible. That lady never spoke to Megan in private. She didn't speak to her from Christian love in public- she was just being judgemental and humiliating the young woman. Who did Jesus or Paul, Moses or whoever.. treat that way? No one. Good gave everyone a soft whisper or 3 or 4 before blasting them. That audience lady did not show God's way nor God's love to Megan or anyone who sees that interview. Phew.

@@HabitualLover Galatians 2:11 But when Peter came to Antioch, I opposed him in public, because he was clearly wrong. Mark 8:33 But when Jesus turned and looked at his disciples, he rebuked Peter. “Get behind me, Satan!” Matthew 21:12-13 Jesus entered the temple courts and drove out all who were buying and selling there. He overturned the tables of the money changers and the benches of those selling doves.13 “It is written,” he said to them, “‘My house will be called a house of prayer,’but you are making it ‘a den of robbers.’ Love rebukes, you think that I didn’t say anything in love because I am calling her out in the way that she dresses, I say Christianity isn’t a joke, peoples eternal salvation is at stake here and the gate is narrow. She can do wtv she wants now that she no longer is the wife of a pastor. But the way that she dresses, the movies that she makes, they are bluntly of the devil. As you can see Jesus didn’t always spoke and did things in a soft way and I believe that Jesus is giving her a chance but she needs to want to change.

Dude is a preacher though, hes not supposed to be making these sacrifices in front of everyone like that

It's a peaceful divorce because it's just the two of them. No children involved!

I said the same thing. No one from their circle is stirring mess; no story fabrications. Neither was in a rush to delete the other from social media. Though I didn't completely care for the caption, there was a unified front on the statement. It's one of the most, if not THE most no drama celebrity divorce I've seen.

no kids lol

Its not a good thing no kids are involved. The fact they were married 8 yrs with no kids tells u that they were not fully committed.

@@ebnrucker What?! How can you make such a comment in ignorance? How is NOT HAVING AND CHILDREN a sign of "no commitment?" How do you know he or she can even reproduce biologically???? Some people are married and in love for years, yet they have no children because of biological reasons. Not saying that was the case with these two, but the point is we just don't know, therefore it is foolish to make assumptions. 💖💛💖💖🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

This is it... I remember I used to wear shorts to church (embarrassing 😫) ... But no one said anything or made me feel out of place about it. Idk who was praying for me but the Holy Spirit definitely convicted me of this action and told me, while it is not your intention to mislead or attract anyone with the way that you dress, it is a distraction. And from that day forward, I never wore shorts to church again. You have to have a teachable spirit. You can't be soft to correction. You must allow GOD to mold you! #Amen 🙏🏾

I went through the same exact situation through the church my ex husband and I were attending. Very private divorce but certain people in the church made it their public business and treated me like I was less than a woman because my husband was seeking a divorce because his mental health was at stake. I grew up in ministry and knew one important fact… Church folk, not true Christians are the most judgmental folk in the world. Definitely a contradiction to the word of God. I stepped away from the “church” and developed a stronger relationship with God and found true joy and not just momentary happiness. Even more because God is so sovereign, my Ex husband and I had 7 years to find that joy and on the 8th year we reconnected. The year of New Beginnings. #TransformationinChrist

I remember that when that disheveled looking woman tries to embarrass her but did you see her she was definitely a hater she was not a looker at all

@Paris Holiday, Not quite certain about the statement you made, "she kept her relationship with God, while walking away from her relationship with her husband to protect her boundaries." No judgment, but if she had a true relationship with God, she would have been convicted in several aspects. Her choice of clothing, whether she was married io not, and her relationship with her husband.. Someone once told me respect is greater than love in a marriage. Sounds like she didn't have respect for him, or be sensitive to his desire to have a wife to meet basic requests, cooking, i.e. He in turn was way too willing to compromise his values for her. Surprised it lasted this long. I wish the best for both.

@@SharronHaimour-ko6jl for reaaaaaaal tho she should have atleast turned down some things they weren't ready to settle for eachother i would say

He didn’t have enough edge for you right you needed Tupac with a degree LOL

@@menardtexsampson3745 no actually. He was a 3rd degree black belt so he could literally kill someone with his bare hands🤣 he had a silent cool calm collected but he could kill u type of edge. He was just terribly scorned from 2 previous relationships and I wasnt going to stick around and pay for what previous women had done to him🤷🏽‍♀️

Lol Women don't build with men, they wait by the finish line and pick the winners...

@@RJ12347 not sure how this relates to my comment but ok thx for the information

@@RJ12347 Someone sounds bitter

Volume please

Now that is real!! Some people force it to work and others simply can't and walk away to find their peace.

I see where you're coming from... But I don't want gamble with my feelings and waste my time. I don't like the idea of investing so much time and energy into something only for it not to work out

@@smilesallround yeah it’s not for everyone. It could just be beneficial for people like me that think too much and maybe won’t walk down the aisle bc of being afraid to fail. The best thing I can do is know what I want and see if I can take my partner with their current flaws. That’s it.

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Right! Ppl have no idea

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Amen!!🙏

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I’d love to hear your reasons for getting a divorce. Did you have a list and had to adjust it?

Amen

God first then ourselves.

What part did she sacrifice cause I heard him say " I know she still going to drink, smoke and dress how she want to." 🤔 they can't change its who they are. Well she got one part right, To thy own self be true.

Same. They didn’t seem compatible to me either, but I’m glad it’s amicable for them.

To me they were like oil and water , I feel like Devon had a higher purpose in the kingdom of God but sis wanted the idea of marriage and was going through something

@@agribusinesswithwadzanaima275 I also think sometimes marriage isn’t for everyone, but you may not realize it until you’re married LOL. I think this truth is very difficult for women to accept as we are conditioned to think that’s what we should do. I wish them the best individually.

@@agribusinesswithwadzanaima275 To me it seem like she was kinda a puppet trophy wife and he gave this impression as if she was a student or hes used to sleeping with his followers. There always seemed like an age gap an for some reason it's like her child hood Megan is frozen in this new made up Christian lifestyle. Something about it still seems like a cash cow situation.

@@TheClubWebseries you have Sumed it all up , something was off about the marriage . I know the husband is the head but to me it seemed as if he was stifling her

Amen, couldn’t have said it better! 🙏🏾🔥

And she can't get back that Megan Good her fans all once loved right now if shes acting I'm like who is she ?

This is so true and it's no judgment on either side , but clearly some things were not aligned!

According to Megan- States god told her- GOD SAID IT WAS HER HUSBAND🤔🧐🤔🧐🤔🧐, i cant what God brings together it doesn’t cause all if what they experience.

@@rokeishiarodgers7205 y'all are something else. Not many people even start off in the Church. Everyone is dangling and eventually get there with support. This is why she felt as she did about church folk. We all grow. Being equally yoked is more that both being Christian, there is also compatability beyond that. If we are to go by equally yoked, then they were both yoked in Christianity before they tied the knot.

But she had a career before they even met and he knew the types of roles she had taken previously as well. Why is it that the woman should change everything about herself and her career for a marriage to work? He knew who he was marrying, I don’t feel like she should’ve changed the way she went about her career because suddenly she’s married to a preacher. Again, the career was around before he was

This is so true. In real life too

A man, or woman of God, should "NEVER" compromise, and make deals with the devil (NOT CALLING HER THE DEVIL, BUT RATHER THE IMAGINATION IN HIS MIND, THAT SAID, GO FOR IT, WITH HER), because the devil will "ALWAYS" leave you looking weak, and foolish, once the bait is bitten. Devon knew this woman was too much of a sex symbol, for any preacher worth his calling, for him to link up with.

If Devon was okay with it then it doesn’t matter what the rest of us think. For all we know her purpose could be to preach to those in Hollywood similar to Fantasia singing Gospel songs at her concerts.

Agreed, they started out promoting a book that turned into their own brand. Relationships are co-created so both of them have to do some introspection. I think it's healthy to be honest about your relationship. I think for him his ego is crushed. He is known as an " relationship expert." So I think that he has to sit with that. I think it would've been great for them to be honest about the state of their marriage to their fans. Something happened for them to get a divorce. All marriages go through things. People don't realize that 69 percent of marital problems are unresolved.

I agree 100%

They were faking it for a long time trust meghan been unhappy in this marriage

@@ye23. right! lol 9 years isn’t a short time…

THEY WAS FAKIN IT FOR 9 YEARS ESPECIALLY WHEN THEY DON'T HAVE A LEGACY AKA PROCREATION....

@@Likelyfairy THANK YOU ... BIG RED FLAG 🚩

@@ye23. THANK YOU..... I CAN'T STAND IT WHEN BLACK FEMALES IN PARTICULAR PUT GOD IN THE PICTURE OVER THE RESULTS AND OUTCOMES THEY WANT....

Why can't they have loved each other enough to actually let go??? 🤔

To me there’s different types of love. With romantic love in my opinion when you’re in love with someone you don’t want to be without that person. If you’re at the point where you’re going, It’s better to let go of this person, you may love them but you’re not in love any more.

@@hikmahking5351 doesn't mean they don't love each other .. when Harlem came out he was her biggest cheerleader... Adults in this day and age realize sometimes love is letting go... This isn't the old days where you stick it out or else... And we know half of those relationships ended time the kids got out the house

they looked cute together , a shame that churchy folk were on her neck all the time. they thought she was an opportunist Ashawo . SMH !

@@PHlophe I think she was just tired of being something she wasn't

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@@omogenews no one cares.

I have to admit I thought was another media hyped up lie if I'm honest...I hope they both find happiness even if its not with each other x

@@shai2137 lol IKR

I agree with you wholeheartedly. That back and forth situation is too much. Devon is an A1 Grade great man, and he is doing what he is supposed to do as a man. Megan does the wishy washy thing and it crushes the relationship. They both are good people and we all have flaws, but this one came as a shock to me. In marriage you have to bend a little. Hollywood becomes Hollyweird and I would not have compromised anything when it came to my husband, in which is a good man. The streets is not popular, so why run back to it. Her being a producer now is cool, but she shouldn't let it come between her relationship with Devon. Nevertheless I feel more sorry for Devon because it's hard to find men like him. This world is like a drop in the bucket. It will chew you up and spit you out, because the devil is always out seeking whom he can devour. Megan, being the woman should have focus more on her marriage and not so much into Hollyweird. It comes a time when we all got to sit our butts down and stop Dibble and Dabbling into things that will gobble us in the end. I love Megan, but I'm not fond of how she is doing in these days and times. Life is too short! It's her life and I know he gots to do what's important. I wish them both happiness and success. In my opinion, I would have stayed with my damn husband if I was Megan. He has the best covering for her, in case she didn't know. To each it's own though.😌 👌 😉

@@valeriewilliams4941 you know these people personally?

@@tyvanderpump2317 exactly! She speaking like they grew up together 🥴

@@tyvanderpump2317 right judgy much

@@tyvanderpump2317 I am not going to go back and forth with you on my opinion. It's my take on what I heard on these platforms, not based on if I knew them personally. They are celebrities, in which I am with a public figure myself. If the news goes out, and I want to Comment on it, I can and I will. The problem with social media is when a person gives a opinion, everyone else wants to challenge their opinion. I said what I said and I'm not changing it. If the rest of you looks at my opinion as judging, then so be it. I like Devon and Megan and wants them to stay together but if they made a mature decision to not do so, then that's their right. But if I choose to put in my two cents, then I will do so. I been raised in the church, and I have left the church. But the truth is the truth...If Megan is living a worldly life and her husband is on a spiritual path, then that would make them not compatible anymore. He can choose to still be with her or not. When you are not on the same path and growing together...it brings more problems in the relationship. From the reports in these blogs say, I'm going on what I heard, not what Devon and Megan has said because I haven't heard them say a damn thing yet. But as my husband says, "I can give my opinion like everyone else!" I will not respond to anymore comments. I said what I said and will say it again. If that's judging to yall, I don't give a damn!

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I agree! I was in a situation that wasn't good for me. I gave my ex 3 chances and we got back in a relationship and we fell apart again. We didn't work out for each other. I'm working on my self love now 🙏🏾🤎

I think the reason why we hold on is because of time invested and some are afraid to be alone. This cycle of thought should end.

Church people say stay and struggle girl. I was literally out with a man the other day, a God fearing man. And he literally said women need to stop being weak and ruining marriages bc “of a little cheating”. Church people think women need to stay and suffer.

@@mrod87 He can say that until hes the one being cheated on...

It ended publicly peacefully. We have no idea what it was like privately.

Megan seems like a free spirit honestly. He seems a lot more of a "by the book" christian

@@lwazzzyoutuber I agree… because I’m a free spirit… men be trying to marry me, but they be married already 😐😐🤔🤔 anyway 😂😂😂 I am a free spirit and don’t want to get married. Relationships are work. And I just don’t want those kinds of commitments. 🙂

See at 1:25 in the video she's in that gorgeous green dress and trying ro cover up the the high slit with her hand. I get that...but...she probably wouldn't have done that if she was with her industry friends. Best of luck to them.

She said all she new was her career.. Marriage and kids weren't on her priority list at the time.

@@tondaniraluswinga2590 When people say opposites attract I think they are speaking more on a surface level. For example, I like hiking but he likes swimming. That type of opposite. But when it comes to beliefs/morals those are foundational beliefs that both people in the relationship have to agree on. I can be conservative and still be ok with my friends being more “free”. But I would want a partner who is also that way because we see eye to eye on the matter. Just like another foundational belief would be how you guys feel about raising children.

I think once the divorce is done then she will go on the Red Table Talk or Ms. Tina new Facebook show (which may be perfect since they both were divorced).

OH PLEASE...... THIS SITUATION WAS ALL ABOUT SEX AND MARRIAGE WAS THE BACK HANDED COMPLIMENT....

@@EMPEROR_KING_SIDDY it was actually clear she didn't fit the pastor's wife's image much less character. There was nothing admirable about their marriage, it was just a well crafted public image by PR. They were just married for a minute and wanted to be giving advice and counsel they didn't live 🤷🏽‍♂️

He left her cause he realize she for the seewwerrs

But he wants kids NOW and she doesn’t. She wants to focus on her career.

@@otsam1050 9 years is a minute?

Unequally yoked. That's it!

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I think so too

I agree with the judgement aspect and self consciousness, it diminishes an individuals authenticity and causes a different path of growth. Def loved your insight.

Same for me and my jamaican boyfriend. You meet him and probably think he's so serious but at home he's a big kid. He brings me back to earth when I get I play harder than working. He pushed me as a yoga teacher when I was going thru my certification. That's my rock

So what do you want? If your partner does not give you feedback, how can things improve? It goes both ways.

@@thrilla72 It’s something that only married people can understand. When you get married unfortunately the outside world has a lot to say about your relationship now. And sometimes it can become overwhelming for both parties and you grow apart not even because of your own actions but because of outside forces. That’s why communication is important both parties have to properly communicate in any relationship but what happens when you have communicated how you felt but there are no actions behind the communication? The relationship falls apart.

@@LadyRosze Are you saying that 'the importance of accepting feedback is only something married people can understand'?

Exactly. I felt that as well.

As soon as he said “he had to sacrifice his list to accept her” I was like 😳 I don’t think that would sit well with me marrying someone after knowing that who I actually am is unacceptable to you.

@@NuDiva14 Right!

There is nothing wrong with him sacrificing things on his list. Women do this ALL the time for the man they want to be with. Look at the man you’re with now, tell me you didn’t have to sacrifice things on your “list”. It’s okay if a woman does it, but it’s not okay if a man does it???

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I hated that moment. It just showed his flesh. His woman did dress badly and while that audience members delivery wasn't great, she had a point but Debjn in his flesh couldn't see it like that. I've seen pastors deal with criticism concerning their family differently to the way Devon dealt with it.

@@chantellea9938 The lady in the audience spoke down on Megan and spoke to her like she was a child. That's disrespectful and deserve no justification. He was probably trying to figure out the best way to address that and maybe HIS TRUE SELF AND WAY OF SPEECH, revealed itself CLOTHES DO NOT MAKE YOUR CHARACTER. That's what y'all don't understand

@@chantellea9938 His flash? It's his wife and he accepted her and her career; which includes tons of photoshoot and wearing what they give you. I don't think him knowing that his wife models and doesn't always get to choose what she wears, has anything to do with his flash. All he said was she can wear what ever she wants and I feel like more people should have this attitude lol

I agree , I loved that moment too. Even if you agree with the lady in the audience, in that moment, the most Christian thing Devon could have done is protect his wife. You don’t let someone publicly trample on your wife like that without repercussions. Now if Devon has an issue with how Megan dresses then they can work that out privately but that was not the forum or Christian way to correct someone. That lady wanted to hurt Megan and make her feel small and I’m glad her husband stepped in and shut it down.

@@nicoleraheem1195 well actually, how you dress speaks volumes of your character.

@@chrisj277 but that wasn’t that lady place to address her like that, she could’ve talked to them privately 😒

@@KD2xs_ There are plenty of people in the church who are completely covered up while being sinful. I am tired of this antiquated notion. People use the bible like a bludgeon for judgement rather than a tool to show gentle guidance.

@@Goosebumps1395 right, and there's never the same energy for men.

@@Goosebumps1395 as some one that's is a christian i agree with you there's a difference between acting like one and just saying you are one

Some of the most hypocritical people, are those that follow organised religion.

@@tondaniraluswinga2590 I think that, deep down, one wanted the other to change (to look more like him) and one wanted to change to please the other person but couldn’t.

Straight facts I need to take this advice for myself

Preach!!!

Moral of the story stop coming to conclusions about strangers who didn't share their reason for divorcing

Or maybe they thought those differences wouldn't be a big deal but as time passed it started weighting in the relationship, it happens

Well said! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

Preach. It said everything.

When you choose what you want over God..

_ that statement sound like bs…. “a list”? get outta here…

Yeah that interview didn’t sit right with me

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What happen for better or worse rich or poor?

Now that's what's up!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

Very well said!! 💯❤🙏🏾👑👑