The RIGHT Type of Seduction That Women CRAVE! 

Don't fall in love blindly. Own YOUR passion and priorities.

You’re a G! Straight gangster spitting the most valuable FACTS!

No dates for 2020 fellas😎Mode 1, we getting straight to the point👍🏿

Types of seduction that women craves: 1) Emotional connection with conversation 2) show interest but instead that you to be balanced. 3) be intentional with your needs and understand and remember your partner's needs.

My personal advice, first find a purpose and go after it 100% if women are interested in you, give who you are show them what you're after if they want to be part if it them allow them in your life guys, the right women will stick around and will value you and your time! Trust me when you do this you give off the type of vibe women find very attractive. Be confident and never be attached to an outcome but act accordingly to how she responds to you. Love you Apollonia for your work! Keep it up

I agree with your video which relates to quality women. But 95% of women are low quality. Married or single they put themselves in situations in public or dating sites to literally meet a man and if he is her "attraction type" no further seduction is needed. Her safety is not a concern, she is all in on where he wants to go for sex. I'll take this information (I'm pretty good at it now) and sharpen my skill set. Men remember women have the power from 16-25yrs old after that men have it because that's when we start building resources. After 30 women should pursue men, why? If I'm financially stable, own assets, fit, confident, leading the relationship, teaching and sharing wisdom, providing protection etc. AND I need to chase her to give my resources away... Men we've lost our way it's time to come home and get things back on track. Stay wise! Be encouraged! #MENFIRST

"i'm gonna show up to work and see what happens." hey, this is exactly what i already do...always works for me!

We rush because when it comes to avoiding "friend zone" we are told to make our intention clear... Like don't even small talk in text, So what's the timeframes?

I’m a girl and I enjoy watching videos of appolonia. She’s right on on what women what. Most dating coaches for men focus a lot of just the pick up part/hook up but nothing on how to be great boyfriends. She’s the only one that does that

The safety thing you’re talking about is a real game changer. There are girls who I never knew were interested in me who I kept as friends. They could come to my home, kick off their shoes, have deep convos about our dating lives etc but then find out they were interested me all along especially because I flirt without intent. It all adds up. Love your channel

I will never forget what Breńe Brown taught me in one of her books: “The String of Lights” analogy. It takes a long string of lights(trust and reciprocation) to build trust and intimacy as opposed to a blinding bright light out of the blue.

You are the epitome of the female best friend that always gives great relationship advice. Keep up the great work. Thank you. 🙏🏾

We live in the age of the con artist

True. Safety and trust of a female is major factor. The next level is however to make her seduce me. If she can't do that, she is not strong enough in her feminine and sexuality.

I also have a few people ( I show alot of likes and I mean a lot of them and I think I may be a bit too much into the sexual descriptions and I have been playing as a ,man do with a few of these women I never really knew what I wanted but I don't know if I was wrong but I don't know via instructions video on wowomen and I have a few questions about .I have no clue why I am alone besides the fact I was born broken and that I am a LOSER AND A GUY WHO IS ALONE IT IS NOT A GOOD THING TO BE ALONE HELP

I learn a lot from you Media has given us wrong information but you are re defining Relationship information AP. Keep it up 🕺🏾

The first time am seeing a relationship channel full of positivity and not preaching against d opposite sex, you are teaching both the male and female what's important ❤I just subscribed

thank you. I´m divorce with 45 years old and your lesson are priceless, thank you. From Paraguay I salute you.

Too much thought into this. Just be yourself and be positive and be confident. Treat her like you can live with her or without her and don't get all serious and express your feelings no matter how much you are falling for her.

Great video, Apollonia. I think that many times men are unconscious to what real attraction is because we think too much. Society tells us that we have to provide and hunt and chase women. The problem is that men remain unconscious because they listen to all this. Men need to get out of their own heads and just go by instinct, body language, like you said. I know I have made many of these mistakes, which I see as experiences that needed to happen and not real mistakes... Thanks for these videos, beautiful. Enlightening stuff.

im gonna die alone.. life is too tough..

It seems that the dating landscape has become hazardous for men. Now we need to train and prepare ourselves for mental combat to be successful with women. I know they are the weaker sex and deserve respect but I feel like I'm giving up too much of my self respect to go through these shenanigans. When men face more risk if a relationship fails, it's not worth it. It's better to just not date American. I'll go overseas and find a woman that is raised to respect and cater to her man.

Informative and enlightening on how to nurture a quality relationship between 2 people Thank You Apollonia

Hey Apollonia! Been a subscriber for a while now and just wanted to let you know that I appreciate all the content and the advice that you are sharing! I completely agree with Trust, Comfort and Attraction!

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6:58 Friendship doesn't work that way with men. We don't study potential friends. We just do stuff together and BAMMM! we're friends. There's never an issue of values. That's not friendship, that would be business acquaintanceship. The only value we care about as men for friendship is that you be a straight dude.

Well I’ll be honest, I have always shown up for job interviews without much prep beforehand. No real plan. I had some idea of what to say but that’s it, no serious planning. And that worked a-ok for me! I appreciate what you and other channels like develop attraction are trying to say, but I’ll just take bits and pieces of advice while staying true to myself. Not gonna try to remember every single detail, it’s simply too much. Something as essential to the thriving of humanity as relationships and all that shouldn’t be this difficult to obtain. I think people (like me) are just really confused and overstimulated nowadays by all the information out there. What’s that called, analysis paralysis? I’ll keep an eye out for more vids, but only in passing. And call me a skeptic whenever I see or hear advice from anyone about anything. I don’t suppose I’ll ever truly know who I can trust out there anymore.

It does NOT matter about trust, comfort, or attraction. Women will BREAK their own rules for Chad & Tyrone. Be like Chad & Tyrone

if there is no attraction then there will never be trust or communication … period

Lol! "Just show up and see what happens." Good Lord I hate admitting that's my M.O. lots of times. Got me this far just fine☺

She's really telling the truth and actually giving too much of our secrets. Lol

Don't ask the fish how to catch the fish ask the fisherman I am just Kidding 😂 She is Good

Take it 2 slow end up in the friend zone go 2 fast scare them off jesus christ pick 1🤬😂

Guys don't want to take accountability for the way they treat us. They want us to hand them the cookies to them on a platter without earning it or working for it. I'm sick of it. I'm not investing in anyone who doesn't make me a priority meaning make time for me. If you guys want something you have to connect with us in a genuine way. Stop thinking about the end goal. If you respect her, she will respect you if she is mentally healthy and not a narcissist. So far all I have found are Narcissists. We need to recognize healthy people before we get close to them. Yes everything is about timing and balance!

Love the videos. I was wondering if you have anything on what to do for her if she is grieving a loss family member.

I need to master seducing a woman with her mind. I have an ex-gf that I had a great relationship with. About six months after she ended things with me (and ended her rebound relationship) she got back in touch with me and we hung out. Unfortunately, my anxiety and nervousness drove her away over many months, and three weeks ago (18 months after our initial breakup) she told me she's seeing someone else now. The kicker is that she told me last year that she had thoughts of us dating again, but her feelings for me never came back and to this date I was the best boyfriend she'd ever had. I understand now that instead of creating emotional attraction between us again, I didn't make her feel safe...I came on too strong, was too needy/clingy and lacked the confidence i used to have with her... and she's dating another man now *sigh* I had a perfect opportunity for us to have a great new beginning... it was there for me like shooting a fish in a barrel and I mucked it up! Anyway, now I'm all about learning how to make her feel safe with me and create emotional attraction with her again. Self improvement in this area, getting control over my anxiety, and regaining my confidence and sense of humor are my main goals. If...IF... I'm lucky to get another chance I won't mess it up this time. I've viewed a ton of dating RU-vid channels... most of them men and oriented towards women. A few men are mature and really understand women and relationships, but most don't. There is a lot of bad info out there! It is very very refreshing to have a woman explain how women think and how I can self improve to be the best, most attractive me I can be. Apollonia's channel is the best and I'm dedicated to watching all her videos. Eventually when I can afford to I'll hire her as my coach. I've been in no contact with my ex for almost 4 weeks now...I told her I didn't want to be in no contact, but I couldn't be on the sideline as "just friends" when I'm in love with her and she's dating another guy... and if things don't work out with this guy and her feelings for me change I hope she reaches out to me. We dated two years (2020 and 2021) and we've been friends for nearly two decades. I'm sure she's not missing me yet, but while I get my life in order I hope (even though i didn't start no contact until 18 months after our breakup and i have been clearly friend zoned for the last 10 months) that the honeymoon ends soon with her new guy, and her thoughts will turn to what I'm doing and missing me. Wish me luck!

....Sounds okay.....but.....the problem is the "Bad Boy" does none of this, and the girl goes for the Bad Boy !!!....The "nice" guy who remembers she's afraid of heights...etc..etc...gets left at the bar, while she goes home with the Bad Boy.....

3:08 now lets get into it

Hey, Apollonia! 😁 Thanks for the video. Fun fact: these weeks after watching each one of your videos I had to immediately apply the info. So... Please don't make any break-up ones 😂😂

Apollonia in the core of your heart you must be knowing that what you say...and what you crave are totally different scenarios.

Make your intention clear and move forward if the return signals look positive. All this other stuff, too many hurdles. We dont have that much time. They are either in your frame or not.

Disagree: seduction is an enticing aimed at Intercourse; and, something that was intended to escalate the possibility of sexual intimacy in terms of nearby developing moments. When I was a teenager, Seduction's purpose was "How to get around the bases" of a new girlfriend quickly. It required: being alone and unobserved by family/friends; recognizing she liked/wanted you; was providing an environment, that if her fears could be allayed, that she might be tempted into much "more" than kissing. Since teenagers usually have narrow time frames for "undisturbed" intimacy, successful seduction was measured in Hrs...maybe in a second rendezvous. The examples you give would, minimally, require several days, just to have an "initial" impact on her...and b4 sex intimacy has happened. (Games?) Ergo, The Concept you're hijacking employs much longer time periods; and sounds more like the "groundwork" for developing supportivenes. Intimacy does not "require" a Relationship. Relationships do not "require" Intimacy. Even tho it "feels" nicer, more rewarding, when both are a fit.

The whole best friend example, hit home. Ap ❤

Every advice given by experts works on a certain group of women. So as a man it depends what kind of women you deal with or interested in. Becareful with applying it without knowing what kind of woman she is. Most women it is all about MONEY!!

Oh gracious me!! Apollonia just handed me the MAGIC WAND!😉 Now, expect loooong quees outside my door🤣 I think I need to hire security🤣 Thank ye Apollonia😘

I agree with the psychological part of what you are saying, but the other part is time&energy you can put in just for an empty box( I'm not ready for a relationship yet), or nomore than a one-night stand, the stakes are to high for unnecessary failure. Coming from a warriors stand point, " Be the dominant Alpha, and let the ones remaining pick you," then once you have chosen who desired you, then seduction can effectively take place.

I love you Apollonia Ponti😚

Thanks AP. This was deep & high quality

This is nothing but BS

This is an amazing topic keep up the good work much love to you and your family 🌹

1 more thing- if u do it too well (when meeting the girl first time), things r clicking too well, u did it really well.........well now u r in trouble, it’s now gone too well for her to continue, it’s like the silence after a great song. Women r scared of carrying it further even when the initial flirting n communication has gone really well. This species is making everything too damn complicated. After centuries, it’s the most advantageous n powerful era for the female species....n r they enjoying it all !! The women are confused in this era....most of them nowadays behave as 19 year old teenagers boys. The amount n kind of things, today’s female is demanding from men.....well majority of them aren’t even 20% worthy of those kind of efforts. I think (sorry if it sounds crass n ghetto)....there is only one thing (or rather 1 body part) which is getting sooo much overrated attention for women. However u women have over-utilized ur position n power & have created a social anarchy in today’s society. I foresee that within 10 years, because of your attitude n behavior, the need of women will be taken over by artificial intelligence n human like robots (it’s already started)

Learning about seduction on my birthday...yay!!

Communicating, most women I meet can't even do that!

This is just too damn much bull crap I'm not jumping through hoops for no woman.

1. Women looking for something to learn from, not to agree with them. Go in with plans, goals, educating yourself. Asking deeper questions. 2. Show interest, but understand balance - dont attach

At 59, Women first need her emotional wants met prior to the physical.

All these videos just go to show how complicated women are

most women crave the bad boy kinda thing.

**Converse

I meditated 2 hours every day for three weeks, noticed a difference in the way women look at me especially older women. I realize now that my body projected poised calmness thanks to the breathing and clear-mind. Anyway that was two months ago, its time to cross the legs and get sober once more

Female Social Cue: "Please take me home Matthew, so that we can make mad passionate & wild abandoned love together" Me: Huh?

sounds like a lot of work and effort. not worth the reward (especially because there is none).

Hi apollonia thanks for your effort and consistent attitudes in educating us about women. But I can't get still the 20 questions to ask

Hold the phone!!! *You created a video helping Men get out of the dreaded "FRIEND ZONE" and successfully seduce a potential partner?* Where can I find this invaluable information?!

TOOO Complicated, they either take me, or leave me, life is to short for all this.

Sounds like someones using M3 model. This is ok for some women but others won’t need as much comfort ...if we are talking about “seduction “ . If you’re talking about a long-term relationship that’s different....

No, the right kind of seduction that SOME WOMEN CRAVE!😅😅😅

It sounds like your advice is going to get us in the “friend zone”.

I appreciate showing us true meaning behind the mind of women. Will use this responsibility.

That’s good, the foreplay of emotional connection. And it’s right, too.

A good relationship should happen naturally between compatible mature people. Dating and initiation are very different, a kind of selling process is going on. The trouble is good matches may be prevented by being too picky in the netting stage. Your feelings may be completely wrong because a guy isn’t good at the initial interaction. Insisting men have to be good at this brief stage means many women fall for players.

Treat them as a friend you want to make love to for the rest of your life.

I absolutely love your videos. I can tell you're a good person too.

If I may help socal cue.. body language / it’s either on or off- if you play with that with your own , simply match then lead - if they don’t follow - they are not attracted yet - work on being “ attractive “ well groomed , leader in your life, ability to emote , ect...try again..

OF Course and we are essentially speaking of Humans. Whenever we stipulate (sexes) we are dealing with only Half of the issue at hand. This shit just Bores me to death. I am heterosexual, and I Agreed with everything this Bright-Lady Just said. Long Story...The "Deep-End" is something most people do dot get into. No matter What their orientation may be. It's Rudimentary, and the only time..... Well.. This Video Depicts Many Key Issues.

BS and also you’re just copying mystery’s blueprint. Sometimes you can go straight to comfort or straight to seduction and sometimes comfort is even build first. It’s only good as a rough guideline. It all depends.

6’2” , good looks , Australian accent. My colleague just smiles and pulls , almost no effort. He practices none of these attributes…

Feminism say BEHAVE Men with your Silly Needs - You have to work extra hard and invest and wait. Thanks for being nice boys and properly trained by your momma

what is she trying to say? I truly don't follow her logic.

"Conversate"? I think you meant to say "converse".

I do not wish to play stupid games.

Simple,not confusing,it is spell,DOLLAR BILLS aka MONEY

Few ever knew this stuff in the past but people still had relationships. How come?

OH MY GOD YES!!!! I am the confident, sexy, intellectual, financially secure female “type” and I always do what you are telling these men to do! That’s why I seem so angry about men. I NEVER expect another person to be my source of entertainment. I found myself first, found a career based around THAT and then had a ton to talk about. Guys, shape up for me! I’ll shower you with nurturing love!

I have watched several of Your videos, And at 50+, I realize I have a lot to learn about myself, And women. Thank-You for producing these videos, And I look forward to watching more.SincerelyKyle

Hi ma'am,Apollonia Ponti..If you are building relationship to a woman ,is it necessary to tell her your weaknesses.

Lol, all this non-sense for a few sloppy seconds? It is funny women think men should put this much effort into them. But what do men get in return? Enjoy your cats ladies or be on a rotation (aka to be sluts) with the top 1% men. Relationship/marriage is useless for men.

Wtf . Why women dont do it to men ? R we not eqaul now?

Actually i found out this by talking to a group of women tonight. It is very interesting. Most women do not involve themselves with actual physical sex and most are not in a relationship. They watch TV shows like Sex In The City or go to see 50 Shades of Green or whatever it is..but physical involvement rarely happens. However I do not have figures and number. The group involved two business women a general practitioner and two bank cashiers. So i thought hat it was a good cross section.

How about being yourself being true to yourself and keep the games to a minimum

I understand what you're trying to portray and teach men here but there's only one problem with this. These ideas put away too much onus on men to be responsible for woman's emotions. That expectation is not put generally on women toward men and it's unreasonable for either sex. I understand being caring and attentive but again it is not mens job to entertain a woman or to make her feel safe because she feels insecure about the way that she world feels the world is even if that worldview is incredibly untruthful at times. Men shouldn't have to do so much work just to keep a woman's attention, any woman's attention, doesn't matter how much he loves her. That is unreasonable and if you don't think that is not true then please put yourself in the position of a man and ask yourself if you would ever do that for your partner and more importantly if it even works in the long term. If the answer is yes, I'm going to tell you you are a rarity among women because this is not culturally taught or expected especially in "Proggresive societies".

lost me at 2:45. blah, blah, blah...

If you know that she is,afraid of heights,why should you suggest rock climbing?

I've been married to a gamer for 27, yrs, if you dont know what thst means, your blessed, or one, but I'm always the one that does the initiating, and even getting us out, which is a chore, I've not found any places that have decent food, in some time, and prices, and atmosphere, before this fear mongering chinese flu, , I'm looking for hints on how to break that stupor she stays in without breaking her devices, I know she cant ever stop playing them but there has to be a way to get thru, yep play a game, well she plays solitaire n sadoka, n it's time for sex, I'm not having any luck finding things to distract her off of those that I'd even be intrested in, we play board games , shes deaf, so most noises, music, hurt her ears , but she likes to sing, if she does get her ear buds tuned right, I'm looking for new tricks, I've dated since the 4th grade my mom taught me how to date n treat women , but dead between the ears is tricky one for me, I've been married 4 times, to real sexy active women but none of them gamed this is getting way past old, should I just have her smash them with my chain saw? I got a 20 pounde sledge hammer, that might tone up her titties , any tips that other gamers married to gamers do to get laid ?

Yep. I fully agree with her. Gotta first create trust and comfort and feeling first. Once you have that, any type of seduction works. If its not there, then no type of seduction will work.

All this is what women would like to have, nothing but a programming by women for women, pay attention to the words it's all about what she would like how you will make her feel so good by giving her all that attention, never worked that hard for a woman and have had very nice relationships, make sure you treat them with respect and if you click you click if not then move on.

A lot of what your saying, should be common sense, like if you want good things, maybe you should try to be a good person. Im not trying to be critical of you, because a lot of guys don't really get it.

My experiences came from not trying or thinking about it. Thats where i go wrong now. You gotta be in the right place too, which changes after highschool. You only meet at bars or gyms which are both not the best.

Hope you enjoyed all the festivities in Miami this weekend, Apollonia.

That's sad, nowadays if you want a girlfriend you need a bachelor degree in psychology first... Anyway this is good content. Thank you for your help