Thank you, Rabbi. It all sounds good when it's all good in a perfect world. We don't live in such a world. I am honored to have been born gay and am proud of it. My partner and I love each other and complete each other. I will always believe in God but the bible is a reference manual, written and changed so many times to fit the wants, beliefs, and ideas of those who wrote it.
i think both should grow individually until they feel they've done their best and are almost complete say 95% complete on their own. only when that happens hey can later come together in order to create a balance depending on ones character and needs which will create the 100% completion of both.
We can grow and age together. We never stop learning...the bond can start at the right age, when they have basically learned to be good and responsible ppl and they feel they can connect to each other and build their life together.
I have always had a question.. why some specific guys attract more to some girl .. we are really looking to repeat the caos we lived at home ? Curiously the guys i have found more attractive had problems and they were perfect to repeat the same history my parents had… god wants that? (Abusive relationship) and a rectification of that history?should i accept one of them and get married, i decided to say no .. but now im not sure if i took a wrong decision to protect myself
Really interesting, but what do you mean by "complementing" each other? I assume that you does not only consider the physical aspect of the relationship.
Attraction means seeing urself in another, this guy has lots of wisdom but something is missing on deeper level. It doesn’t matter how bad u even behave as long u meet the right person u will grow together into the best versions cuz u are one person and it’s impossible not to influence eachothers..and women want to share their knowledge and give just as much and expand it just usualy plays out in different areas.. let’s say one one couple the women is the book worm so she shares her wisdom there and the man may be sharing more bussines advice or whatver or he can take her knowledge to the next level and sometimes it’s the opposite.. and another thing I noticed is that the hub is the initiator more in the beginning and then it becomes more or less even