@@bryceneuberger3460 Well we have universal health care here so that should never be an issue for anyone in europe. The drastic inflation of prices for worse healthcare is a US only issue. Even Mexico, Cuba and Canada (they all basically share a border withthe US) do a better job in this regards.
@@miyoukifhey8544 ive seen 3 dozen therapists and at least that many psychiatrists. They cant fix it either. They give you pills... that numb the symptoms.
Except it's not only feelings, it's often being trapped in life circumstances that are inescapable and where there is massive loss involved in leaving them
Listen to me please please please I will tell you the CURE don't give up don't fear anything except the Lord there is a cure for this and the best thing is that is free READ THE BIBLE GO TO THE CHURCH ACEPET CHRIST ASK HIM TO COME FOR HELP HE WIL HELP YOU WITH EVERYTHING
@@gedon4713 I used to think that but God has turned his back on me in recent years. From the time I get up in the morning until the minute I go to sleep I’m constantly thinking of suicide. I’ve been isolated from my family who actually hates me for no reason really. after 1.5 years of working remotely with very little people contact I realize I’ve painted myself into a corner. I’m getting older I can’t think very well anymore and now I have brain fog from Covid. I’m not ready to retire financially but I do have some money that will go to some family members when I do get up the nerve to take myself out. Hopefully this will happen in 2022.
It's so annoying that so much of suicide talk is about the people left behind. If the people left behind weren't so horrible some of us wouldn't be suicidal. The thought of them pretending to be concerned if I die makes me ill.
The only thing keeping me from suicide is the fall out I know my loved ones would go through. Honestly... I wish there was more of a reason to go on living other than fearing the hurt I would bring to others...
Same, man.. I own a gun and want to every day but I can't because of the impact I would make on loved ones. I don't want to cause trauma for anyone. I just wanna cease to be.
@@commondog3956 @J D Same, man. I was nervous purchasing my firearm while things were going crazy here in Seattle, and sometimes find my mind wandering towards it during the dark nights. Let's hold on to why we have those tools; to preserve and protect life. Eternal sleep will come to us so soon, man. Life is short and it will be over before we know it. Rest assured that rest is coming. Let's hang in there together, brother. We will be free from this pain in no time
@@Sannosama you literally caught me in the middle of researching for a shotgun because I wouldn't trust my 9mm but I also take blood thinners for life. Still, you are right. I am in therapy and trying to get well. I just feel worthless sometimes and I dislike my own negative thought patterns and try to change them as often as I notice them. My firearm is meant to protect me and my family. I know I could hurt more people than I realize. Thank you for your reply and I hope you are doing okay. Stay safe. Be well. I hope 2021 is a much better year for you and for your loved ones.
ok but no one talks about how hard financially it is to get the help you need. I myself suffer severe depression, anxiety issues, just a life full of misery. no friends and my family is all dead so no help there. You people preach "oh, just go get help" but what if the mental issues are so bad you cant succeed and function in life to make good money and get good insurance? then what? ultimately wrapping a noose around your neck or drugging yourself up becomes the answer....
Hope you are doing ok. Myself, my son said he is having suicidal thoughts and very depressed. Hence I'm here . I'm trying to help him by changing his diet , exercise , spend time in nature , drink water , writing 5 things that are positive; either has happens to him or he wants to happen for him to be happy . Positive thought create more positive thoughts.
Yup and when you do get help they throw the wrong pills and dose at you or say nothings wrong with you, then a free tall building starts lookin like a fuckin snack
Also sometimes there isn’t really help.. I’ve done so much therapy so many drugs and I just continue to get worse. It’s an exhausting fight with myself everyday just to keep going. I don’t want to do tms or ect because I’m scared it will make me worse.
@@DaveEntity yup I think about it all the time. I’ve told my doctor my plan and everything, trying to save myself.. I should be in a hospital but I don’t think anyone wants to have to pay for that & I cant. He just sends me out the door.. and I’ve attempted 3x.
It’s not temporary feelings. Some kids/children are raised by ABUSERS or are bullied in school this ruins their mindset! Some people have incurable physical diseases you destroy the mind once you abuse a person. Or if they have a chronic physical illness. Sometimes they are in unbearable circumstances there is no way out of it.
Oh, the suicidal person lacks empathy, but the people who've completely FAILED to empathize with that person, have empathy, because they have not killed themselves. (Very clever distortions.) Actually, suicidal people think & FEEL, at length, over YEARS, about the people they will leave behind....
Go ask for help in the Church read read the Bible it will help the devil and the demons are try to get close to you they're are the ones that are pushing you to suicide Jesus Christ is the only cure don't give up never lose hope
@@gedon4713 Welll THAT was super nauseating from another clueless religionist = YOU. (& no, not interested. Further, I know everything about your insane religion.)
GO ASK FOR HELP IN THE CHURCH THEY CAN HELP YOU I GUARANTEE YOU NEED ALSO TO READ THE BIBLE IT WILL HELP YOU PLEASE DON'T IGNORE THIS GOD IS TRYING TO HELP YOU
@@gedon4713 What happens when you are gangstalked so badly that even friends from church suggest you commit suicide? And NO ONE will help because they want you dead, while you suffer in living hell from brain damage from assault with Havana-class microwave weapons?
I have acted on my thoughts. Numerous overdose's. I have died twice. I have childhood trauma. I am homeless, I am ugly. I am only good for a check or a cheap lay. Everyone uses me. I have no purpose. No future. There is no help. You ask for help and you're locked up in a hospital for 3+ days. And once your insurance stops paying you are back on the streets in my case. It's a revolving door. The most sickening aspect is those that tell you to hold on. They have no clue. If you truly cared do something other than tell us to cheer up. Ughh. I am so sick of fake people.
I care. I have been homeless and I was 55. I would recommend trying DBT. Look for Marsha Linehan's book about DBT. She designed this therapy for herself and then went public with it. It takes practice to learn the skills because they don't come natural to all of us. There are a lot of common sense skills. Please do not give up. Make better boundries for yourself. You do have have to have cheap sex, etc. Try to become your own best friend. This is hard too, but it works.
Perhaps the reality of the effect your suicide has on those you love can be another brake in preventing suicide. I think he was using it as a way to raise empathy, not to create a guilt complex.
There's not a single convincing argument against suicide. If life get's so hard you don't want to live it, there's no feasible reason you should be forced to carry on living. Living for the sake of other people is manipulative and unfair.
It always feels wrong to be happy and it makes me feel like like it's best to keep it that way. The reason I tell myself I haven't KMS is because i feel as thought i deserve hell outside of hell
I'm a suicide survivor Dr Chapek from the Tukwila Amen Clinic helped me stop the OCD thoughts, anxiety and depression. I'm grateful for all your books the Amen clinic getting me off all anti anxiety drugs and I take amino acid supplements, my larger worries are gone and Im writing a book on my miracle story. Thank you! There is hope!!
First, I’m so happy you got the help you needed and survived & that you are here to share!!! ♥️ Would you be willing to share what the cost is for being hello at Amen Clinic please? Thank you so much!!! 🙏
Is depression really temporary though? I was diagnosed with depression at 14 and I’m 22 now. I can’t imagine not feeling like this. It feels like people are downplaying depression when they say it’s temporary. Especially knowing chronic depression 100% exists...this very well may be permanent. I’d like to know how to deal with that. I swear if another person says what I’m feeling will just go away one day I’m gonna lose my shit. Waiting and hoping to get better seems about as good of a solution as suicide🤷🏼♂️
Hey, sweet person. I am rewriting this as for some reason youtube deleted my comment. I just want you to know that my mom went through the same for over 15 years and she got out of it because of the videos im about to list up now.
RU-vid keep deleting my comments as soon as I get personal, but here is a playlist to help you out of this, my mom was in the same path as you for over 15 years, she got out of it when she saw these vids and saw light. Was ready to take it. ru-vid.com/group/PLMkJRs4aq81mMqulON0CYSfTGZMcEg_SB
Find something you would do for free, and make $$ at it. Such as use your favorite hobby as source of income. What is that called? Find your purpose. What is it that makes, you, you? Hold on to it
Tanner, I'm 41, depressed since 5. It hasn't been temporary. My father was depressed for decades too, and finally passed from a massive heart attack. He was utterly miserable and tried many medications and treatments and inpatient stays. I would've understood if he took his own life, especially since he talked about it so much. I don't think guilt is a good reason to stay alive. I feel like I only prolonged his suffering for no reason.
Good point. I'm about to turn 40 and it feels like it never ends. There are good days, but damn the sad days drag me down. It helps to try and make plans with others to gey out of my thoughts. This is why I'll never have children, don't want to bring anyone into this world.
I do not want to grow old so suicide is definitely going to be the only escape from that inevitable torment. We have to get rid of the negative stigma around suicide, instead we should legalize it and find a way that offs you quick and with the lowest amount of pain possible.
Yeah. Switzerland already allows it for the elderly because they know how inhumane care facilities are. Just money making machines. One example are people who are stuck in wheelchairs and can’t have a life. Till you die, have a great life. Even though I agree with you, life still is phenomenal and I’m thankful to experience it.😄
It is NOT a temporary feeling. It is a recurring feeling that plagues one often for years, and the feelings have a cumulative effect. I listen to folks like you and realize you have very little comprehension of depression. You do a lot of good work, but many of your opinions regarding suicidal people are wrong.
Thank you for speaking this truth! Most don’t want to voice this truth to power ( yes, even Amen, as wonderful as he is, is an authority figure)...unless you have chronically stared into the abyss yourself you frankly CANNOT completely empathize with the experience. It’s so bleak and lifeless, it isn’t explainable. I can say though that there are times when living past that moment of decision is so ironic in retrospection realizing you’re glad you lived beyond that moment. But I would have to say that fear of the black cloud returning is excruciating!
True but my brain scan--that I got begrudgingly--helped me to realize I needed to do something about my less than normal brain. I was fortunate that low doses of medication for my issues--not sadness depression or suicidal thoughts--improved my situation. Amen is integrative so I also tried the supplements and dietary recommendations for my situation. The combination was surprisingly helpful but not perfect. They did not feel entirely natural. My main point is that we need to continue to look for better answers. In my case it was previously undiagnosed lead poisoning. Amen's clinic did not discover that problem but I was grateful for the experience--not the price tag. After 15 or more years of clueless insurance doctors it gave me hope that I could one day be healthy again. I was more productive and various relationships were healthier. I've heard from people in detox support groups that one thing or another made a big impact--T3 medication--not just T4/synthroid--for thyroid, Adrenal/sex hormone balancing, methylation support. Even a low dose supplement combo can take the edge off for some people--lithium, magnesium, GABA, etc. Unfortunately insurance doctors will be useless for much of that. Maybe that is part of the reason so many people are suffering. Dr Mark Hyman is good on that subject.
I hear you Thomas. I am a psych nurse, I work with patients who suffer suicide ideation constantly. It's sad and hurtful. Big part of the dilemma is sometimes medication isn't working and patients don't always have the support they need. In general the mental health system has failed in America. Prescribed medication for mental illness is strictly based on symptoms, and therefore it's not always accurate or right for some patients. That's why they call it trial and error. I know depression hurt and I know people can have suicidal thoughts for a very long long time. But what Dr. Amen is trying to say here is, he can help you beat depression and consequently end the recurring thoughts of suicidal. Trust me, I don't work for Dr. Amen and I am not receiving any gifts from their clinic to say this, I am just speaking the truth because I care. If your medication isn't working and you have recurring thoughts of harming yourself, don't stop taking your meds but talk to your doctor about getting evaluated at Dr. Amen clinic. God Bless.
I swear every time someone gets a camera in theyr face and speaks about suicide, they start spewing these slogans and catch phrases "permanent fix for a temporary problem", "fix yourself!", "seek help now!", "we are here for you", "you matter", "suicide/being suicidal is selfish", "it's an act of a coward", "think of everyone else!" ("why won't anyone just think of the children!?!" ?) or many other like that does not help much at all, sometimes it makes things worse, just adding more negative thinking and stress. Had this video recommended by a few ppl and decided to watch it, I've no idea who this guy is, but seems like a salesman more than anything. Are selfhelp gurus reprofilating?
I have no children are no family so killing myself are living with matter either way I think I’m gonna do it because it would end my suffering and no one else would be affected.
Look bro look please please please let me help you i have the CURE the CURE is send to it is told in the bible Jesus Christ is talking to you believe in him trust in him if you are here that means he still wants you hear go ask for help in the Church believe me don't lose hope don't give u I love if i didn't love you i wouldn't be here and tell you that
3 of my siblings commited suiside. My father was a violent alcoholic. My mother was schizophrenic and murdered my twin baby sisters. I used to be a homeless, suicidal, drug-addicted, murdering, gay, prostitute, with a multiple personality disorder. No one ever told me they loved me. I had run away from home and then for 14 months I was kidnapped for sex trafficking. My family didn't even report me missing. I was constantly be tormented with the fear of going to Hell when I died. I heard demonic voices in my head almost everyday from age 6-50 telling me to kill myself. My TY Bio goes into more of my story. I had gone to church for my entire life, countless counselors, 12 step groups, etc., but they were never able to help me. By age 50 I still wasn't married. I felt totally unlovable. But NOW for the last 3-1/2 years I have never once struggled with anger, rejection, nightmares, fear, emotional eating, suicidal thoughts, sickness, depression, insecurity, blaming others, or even a single perverted thought. All because I found out it only takes 1 Day to listen to the New Testament Bible. I read thing for the very first time that the Church never shared...that could have spared me from a life of Hell. It made me realize that I was choosing to play the victim, I was continually subjecting myself to toxic people, all because of what happened to me when I was 6 y/o. Religion can never help anybody, only a Relationship with the One who created you. On Aug 10, 2017 my mind, body, soul & spirit were instantly healed, because I read 1ST JOHN 3:9-10; and it scared the Hell out of me. I didn't realize that everything in my life was passed down through "Generational Curses", Word Curses, and Demonic Warfare, so I finally surrendered my ENTIRE life over to Jesus Christ. Now every single day I feel total peace and joy because I am spending all my time with Him just praying and reading the Bible, because I know that that I know: He Loves Me, because JESUS DIED FOR ME! Now I know that I'm going to Heaven and I'm not willing to sacrifice that for anyone or anything. My youngest brother who is an Agnostic just told me last month that he was suicidal, so I flew him out and after 8 days he understands that it was spiritual warfare. He is now seeking after God and finding peace and joy.
He is right about the chances of the child committing suicide . My father did it and it runs through my mind all the time. I feel like he left me alone in this world with a toxic mother at 8.
Hi Simone, I hope and yes pray that you can get the answers/help that you need. My father, 2 cousins, brother in law all decided to end their lives. Yes, I used to think about it a lot when I was drinking. I am much older than you; i.e. 68 years old. I was forced to go to jail or AA for my drinking problem back in "79, before you were born. I was fortunate to find a fellowship in AA that I could count on when feeling that life was just not worth living. I am not saying everything is great now, but I can say that I am very glad that I didn't. I have purpose in my life and responsibilities that show me that I would have missed so much of the good things that life has to offer. I don't know what you are going through, but please don't give up. You may not realize it, but there are so many people that would be affected by your decision to not want to go on anymore. I wish you the best and again hope and pray that you get some answers. Sincerely Jay
@@jaywomack873 Thank you for that, I am doing well I have been in therapy for a few years. I’m definitely finding my way. It was just difficult when life felt so heavy and no one available to help me through it. My dad committed suicide by drug overdose. And my mother is an alcoholic. I had to learn life on my own and quickly. But I’m standing strong and proud today. My life is well and on track.
Thr CURE is in Jesus che already told us that in the bible but we are ignoring that go READDD THE BIBLE GO IN THE CHURCH ASK FOR HELP EXSCORCIZM I GUARANTEE YOU THEY WILL HELP YOU IF YOU LISTEN TO THOSE THERAPIST THEY WILL JUST BURN YOU EVEN MORE
I hope I’m never his client. He’s way too flippant in his comments and speaking outside his expertise. While the brain is important to consider regarding suicide, his use of guilt and other recommendations are completely inappropriate.
When I was in my 40s, I learned about DBT. I had asked one therapist to help me to be more assertive. I would go in and just talk about stuff that was bothering me. Then, I was hospitalized. I was exhausted and angry. I just stayed in bed. About the 3rd day, the head nurse came in and gave me a mini lecture. I decided that I would just go to meetings because the sooner I did that, the sooner I would be discharged. I had low expectations of actually being helped. I was wrong. The first afternoon session I went to, I raised my hand. I was told I had a good question. The answer had been discussed in the morning session. Don't worry it would be reviewed at some point. After that, I became a model patient. I had hope. You had to earn your daily walk. I did that. I volunteered to read aloud. To me DBT is the best kept secret in psychiatry/psychology. I don't have border line personality, but I do have SI. And I some how missed the common sense skills that are taught in DBT. Hang in there every body.
With what some people are living through, they'd be crazy if they weren't depressed. It's not always a brain chemical imbalance or mental illness. Sometimes depression is justified, and so is suicide.
i would be happy to have a permanent solution to my constant problem (depression since 10+years with 8+trys).. after so much suffering i would really truly welcome death! im just to chicken to do it.. also i dont have friends, dont have any family, nothing.. nobody.. so nobody really needs, loves or misses me if im gone.. if i could i wouldnt be here anymore..
Thank you for reaching out, and for sharing. The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline numbers are 800-273-8255 and 988. It is staffed 24/7 by trained counselors who provide compassionate and knowledgeable support as well as connections to helpful resources. If you'd like more information about Amen Clinics, our services, and brain SPECT scans, please contact our Care Coordinators: www.amenclinics.com/schedule-visit/.
@@AmenClinic 988 does NOTHING. They just say 'Her for you' and listen. They are not trained in anything except to maybe call the cops on you.. Cops wre called on me once when I wasn't even suicidal (my brother had killed himself and the counselor was so paranoid if I called her just sayinf I was having a real bad day- I have severe MDD- she would call- didn't understnad depression AT All) i was screamed at by te cop like a drill seargent- I told the cop I was fine- four showed up (!) and when my counselor arrived she said nothing about making a huge mistake. There was nothing there- no rope,gun, drugs, I was sleeping-that's it. He threatened to hadncuff me if I didn't go. I was taken to the psych ward- for a few hours- while the interns ralked about movies and ignored me. Then I had to pay for my own cab home!! So- what resources?? You can't relate or care about the rest of us The 'resources' are student' therapists', lousy psychs who treat you like a lab rat- then your brain is totally screwed up. So we're supposed to cal the AMEN CLINC that costs thousands of dollars, travel/expenses. Or just read a book and somehow 'cure' ourselves? If Amen clinics or Dr. Amen truly cared (isn't he rich enpugh already?) then this would be made available to EVERYONE and their psychs that only take Medicaid. Or the homeless and poor. He claims to have some spiritual faith but doesn't seem to care about the rest of us. Read these posts!
@lolak7438 I FEEL THE SAME WAY, AND WAS GOING TO SAY IT. IF AMEN CLINICS REALLY CARED, THE WOULDN'T CHARGE SO MUCH FOR HELP. IT LIKE ONLY THE WEALTHY GETS THEIR HELP. I've sent emails for help...didn't even get reply. I have severe depression, yah, I have trauma of losses in my life I cannot accept, and have devastated me. I just hate suffering every minute of every day and night. I need help.... but can't get it. I too tried 988... no help. Dr. Amen.. just keeps advertising for his clinics, as if they want to help you...... but, you better be RICH, for their help.
I used to think that after people committed suicide, they’d notice several others sad during the funeral and say to whomever attended the funeral, “SHUT UP, YOU CRYBABIES!”
He lost me at Roman Catholic and using guilt I became more suicidal at that point I frigging HATE when people use guilt to stop people from doing something that is half the problem with the western world. We are made to feel guilty about EVERYTHING and my pop blew his brains out due to guilt and I'm probably going to swallow a bunch of pills for the same reason.
There is someone that died for you he care for you so much Depression Anxiety those things doesn't exist they're all created by the devil Go read the Bible Get help from the church but most importantly trust in the Lord he knows what he is doing he can deliver you from this situation only
I have schizoaffective disorder. I had a few suicidal thoughts surface today. I started crying cuz I think that there is an even bigger problem going on.
We wish you all the best on your mental health journey. If you'd like more information on Amen Clinics SPECT scans and services, please feel free to reach us here: www.amenclinics.com/schedule-visit/
It's not temporary. It can be, but sadly most mental Healthcare providers actually keep encouraging the loop of suicidal thoughts by keeping you drugged,labled as ill and in therapy for ever talking about the same damn things and Never helping you realize that you're not broken nor do you need to be fixed you have something needing realignment or also been programmed subconsciously since childhood that is disempowering. To try and focus on what wholeness looks like feels like etc. I had cptsd from childhood abuse which then was constantly misdiagnosed and unknowingly because i was gaslit and abused so badly that i thought i was the problem that i deserved to be treated so badly and i was sick for feeling thr way i did. From the age of 12 - current 41 year of age i have consistently fought off the nagging reoccurring thought of ending my life. I tried to get help and became worse from more medical abuse from mental health centers and doctors. I was overlooked over drugged and not listened to from doctors. They didn't figure it out i did after driving into psychology on my own...i no longer have friends or family it was all abusive relationships which i understand i allowed because that was the subconscious trauma bond,thats what love was for me family and friends meant abuse. When i finally learned to have more self respect i cut ties with all of it. I am so exhausted from working the puzzle on top of chronic nerve pain which left me in a severe state of agony for a decade and an abusive marrige who projected and blamed me for his childhood wounds...death seemed like a friend..a trap door out of this world. I did survive a suicide attempt 20 years ago had a near death experience. I was surrounded in love and light..it took almost dying to feel what it was like to be loved unconditionally. That same love i felt i have been searching for in this world since...it's pretty scarce. I find it in glimpses of beautiful music,animals, nature,art..and meditation. The pull to die now is i am just exhausted already from the puzzle of this lifetime. From a souls perspective suicide is not judged as wrong or a sin. Religion needs to stop that shit. I am not condoning anyone just leap out to die not at all but dont judge yourself so harshly, this world is in critical crisis regarding conciousness. The only things that have worked quiet that suicidal voice have been doing my best to love myself as i am affirmations meditation and dr. Joe dispenzas work.
3 of my siblings commited suiside. My father was a violent alcoholic. My mother was schizophrenic and murdered my twin baby sisters. I used to be a homeless, suicidal, drug-addicted, murdering, gay, prostitute, with a multiple personality disorder. No one ever told me they loved me. I had run away from home and then for 14 months I was kidnapped for sex trafficking. My family didn't even report me missing. I was constantly be tormented with the fear of going to Hell when I died. I heard demonic voices in my head almost everyday from age 6-50 telling me to kill myself. My TY Bio goes into more of my story. I had gone to church for my entire life, countless counselors, 12 step groups, etc., but they were never able to help me. By age 50 I still wasn't married. I felt totally unlovable. But NOW for the last 3-1/2 years I have never once struggled with anger, rejection, nightmares, fear, emotional eating, suicidal thoughts, sickness, depression, insecurity, blaming others, or even a single perverted thought. All because I found out it only takes 1 Day to listen to the New Testament Bible. I read thing for the very first time that the Church never shared...that could have spared me from a life of Hell. It made me realize that I was choosing to play the victim, I was continually subjecting myself to toxic people, all because of what happened to me when I was 6 y/o. Religion can never help anybody, only a Relationship with the One who created you. On Aug 10, 2017 my mind, body, soul & spirit were instantly healed, because I read 1ST JOHN 3:9-10; and it scared the Hell out of me. I didn't realize that everything in my life was passed down through "Generational Curses", Word Curses, and Demonic Warfare, so I finally surrendered my ENTIRE life over to Jesus Christ. Now every single day I feel total peace and joy because I am spending all my time with Him just praying and reading the Bible, because I know that that I know: He Loves Me, because JESUS DIED FOR ME! Now I know that I'm going to Heaven and I'm not willing to sacrifice that for anyone or anything. My youngest brother just told me last month that he was suicidal, so I flew him out and after 8 days he understood that it was spiritual warfare. He is now seeking after God and finding peace and joy.
I’m fighting every day because l love my children so so much and l really do want to live. I just want to live without this constant suffering it is unbearable! I have been misdiagnosed with bipolar in the past and l have attempted suicide in the past. l know that l am autistic. Although medical professionals agree l have been misdiagnosed and I’m autistic. I have no official diagnosis. They say because I’m 47. They won’t help because l am functioning. I’m trying so hard. I’m trying to help myself. Thank u so much for all your incredible knowledge! X
Any devastation/trauma/heartbreak that others will suffer when I’m gone is not fair. Why do they want me here if I am not happy, I feel lonely, worthless, and i just want to be dead
What if it’s becomes obsession, what if you don’t have a day in life without thinking about suicide? What if it’s been year’s day to day idea no matter what’s going on outside? What if you achieved all you wanted one day like cars, home, all materialistic things you wished for so badly before and then you understand none of that made you feel better and you feel you been living in world full of lies about what to do how to do who to be and who not to be. You give up on all goals because you don’t care anymore about none of that, you start push people away because you see them just fake like everything, else chasing meaningless things what you won’t take in the grave. What if the new biggest goal becomes to go from here, when you can’t spend a day without thinking about it? I know how people and family will feel but what if comes day when you can’t anymore live only for them? Are we insane in this case if we feel we been lied all life and been living fake lifes in world build upon lies ? None can see that around you, because picture you painted is fake as everything else, people think you are so happy and achieved all (fake materialistic things one wish for) but YOU, dead from inside and death becomes obsession and like new goal to achieve, no fear in death whatsoever. What to do, how to be if all you can think about is leaving?
I have to pay attention what is not true. He Said lack of empathy for Loved ones is bullshit. I have a Brain damage in frontalcortex. Today i cried bcs My daughter suffer when i cant live. 6 hrs is empathy
How much physical pain is required before a person feel's like suicide is the only option. I AM NOT TALKING ABOUT EMOTIONAL PAIN. Physical pain. Pinched Nerve, fever's invoked by viruses or bacteria, cellular or neurological pain. How much of these kind's of stresses are required before a person feel's sick enough to commit suicide? Tell me.... How do you truely know how agitated a nerve is if you cannot read it's signal's with a machine and wire? What sign's do you pay attention to? Sweating? Chill's? Dellusion? Hallucination? Anger? Extreme amount's of sleeping? How can you actually pay attention to these sign's IF YOU DO NOT LIVE WITH THE PATIENT?
You need Jesus Christ right now he can only help you no one other the devil and jis angels are trying to push you on suicide don't let them to do that read the Bible go to the church ask for help in the name of Jesus Christ
Please don't commit suicide JESUS CHRIST LOVES YOU SO MUCH HE CARES FOR YOU SO MUCH HE SHOWN HIS LOVE ON US THAT HE HAS DIED FOR OUR SINS AND HE HAS RISEN FROM DEATH HE IS THE ONLY TRUE GOD
My Dad killed himself in October of last year. Neve even got to meet his gradson his grandson. He was so excited to meet him that I believe he didn't want to really die. It may have been an partial accident. The gun had no clip but a bullet in the chamber. He had threatened it for years. This was directly in front of his dad and my mother..... I'm still trying to understand. He feel back and my mom fell with him. She said he had a facial expression of surprise. Sorry share something so disturbing. I'm trying raise awareness. We talked regularly up until a week before. I assumed he was just drinking again. Death certificate read cause o death self inflicted gun shot 9mm to tempel. Secondary cause o death chronic ethenol use.
David, I am so sorry to hear about your Dad. My 85 year old Dad was in a lot physical pain, and last month killed himself. He kept his feelings to himself... we didn’t see it coming. He was a tough Marine. We are all pretty devastated. My family and friends have been there for me. How about you? Do you have support? I hope and pray you are healing as you grieve🙏🏻
Guys only listen to the people who is experiencing the same as you and got out of it. Those are the real solutions. Watch this playlist it helps alot ru-vid.com/group/PLMkJRs4aq81mMqulON0CYSfTGZMcEg_SB
I fckg fear October, something in my mind tells me -ended it all- I don't know what is going to happend and I can't trust anyone in my closer circle of friends, I never talk talk with my family were like strangers living in the same house.
I really respect the study behind this video, and I respect this guy! But I don’t think unless you have suicidal thoughts or the mental illnesses that lead people to this method of death, you will not be able to understand it or have a way of science to explain it. The studies are 100% true, but not one suicidal person is the same, and the science behind one persons suicide will not be the same as others.
The devil and his angels are trying to push you on suicide that's why they can't find explanation why people are killing themselves read the Bible go in the Church ask for help EXSCORCIZM it will help you Immediately and most importantly trust in the Lord
You said people that may not be empathetic have lowered activity in their frontal lobes.,Yet you still lay blame for suicidal people for potentially hurting their family, (passing suicidal tendencies down to children) This seems like a contradiction.
Guilt is not a healthy tool. We spend years living with pain for this guilt.. guilt eventually turns to resintment. Why should I suffer for you do u live for me??
I'm chronically dealing with these thoughts very often. All I want to do is go to the Amen clinic and get helped but I cannot afford it. I don't know where else to go
A wider view of the influence is needed for science. When I was In the afterlife my voice box was not part of me yet my thoughts were heard. 2 worlds . One is temporary one is eternal. We go back to the eternal. . It's not so much the circumstance I believe its a time issue. Consistent negative feeling and or thoughts is a influence attracted through concept. The pressure is through the unseen . After the car accident I began scribbling a stickman with a rope and circle attached to its head .sometimes over 50 times . The psychiatrist put it down to a ptsd symptom a number of medications didn't prevent this symptom. I was going to be admitted however I was shown a book with the same stickman symbol . He had to let me go and I completed training with the inner peace movement. I was scribbling the symbol for about 7 years. Plus the regressions that were triggered.
Although I agree with your analysis of the brain, one thing I remember is even though I had had thoughts of dying before. I had never felt worse than when I was suicidal. And my empathy was intact, but the pain was worse. By pain I am speaking of this weird sensation in my brain like it was on fire, like it was inflamed by small particles that would go in and out of my brain cells. When I would feel these inflamed spikes I would feel like I wanted to die. It was not nerve pain but brain pain.
A close friend had a similar sensation when she took a "detox" supplement in the months after she had her silver-mercury dental fillings removed. She said it felt like her brain was "on fire." Her hands were tingling, she was emotionally very stressed out and not thinking straight. I've heard a number of those reports from people in heavy metal detox support groups. If you were taking a detox medication or supplement--cilantro, lipoic acid, cysteine, etc--while amalgam was still present, I suggest that you look into this issue further. My friend liked these and related folks. www.livingnetwork.co.za/chelationnetwork/
Read the Bible people read the Bible here is the cure Jesus Christ already told us that you need to read the Bible every day and go to the church ask for help EXSCORCIZM it will help you the devil and his demons are trying to push you on suicide
For me it was a full body pain not just mental. In my head, my neck locked up, my spine, deep in my soul. mental illness doesn't define the truth of what some of us go through! thanks for sharing!
I don't know if this helps but a lot people say that you have to learn to take care of yourself and put yourself first and learn to love yourself before you can love anyone else because you are what matters most.
GO READ THE BIBLE BRO READ THE BIBLE IT WILL HELP YOU GO ASK FOR HELP IN THE CHURCH ASK THEM TO HELP YOU JESUS CHRIST WIL GIVE YOU PEACE HE CAN ONLY SAVE YOU
@@notofthisworld5267 there is reason why he hasn't taken your yet because he had purpose for you he loves you read the Bible go in the Church ask for help and the Lord Jesus Christ wil give you peace that you never had before
@@notofthisworld5267 3 of my siblings commited suiside. My father was a violent alcoholic. My mother was schizophrenic and murdered my twin baby sisters. I used to be a homeless, suicidal, drug-addicted, murdering, gay, prostitute, with a multiple personality disorder. No one ever told me they loved me. I had run away from home and then for 14 months I was kidnapped for sex trafficking. My family didn't even report me missing. I was constantly be tormented with the fear of going to Hell when I died. I heard demonic voices in my head almost everyday from age 6-50 telling me to kill myself. My TY Bio goes into more of my story. I had gone to church for my entire life, countless counselors, 12 step groups, etc., but they were never able to help me. By age 50 I still wasn't married. I felt totally unlovable. But NOW for the last 3-1/2 years I have never once struggled with anger, rejection, nightmares, fear, emotional eating, suicidal thoughts, sickness, depression, insecurity, blaming others, or even a single perverted thought. All because I found out it only takes 1 Day to listen to the New Testament Bible. I read thing for the very first time that the Church never shared...that could have spared me from a life of Hell. It made me realize that I was choosing to play the victim, I was continually subjecting myself to toxic people, all because of what happened to me when I was 6 y/o. Religion can never help anybody, only a Relationship with the One who created you. On Aug 10, 2017 my mind, body, soul & spirit were instantly healed, because I read 1ST JOHN 3:9-10; and it scared the Hell out of me. I didn't realize that everything in my life was passed down through "Generational Curses", Word Curses, and Demonic Warfare, so I finally surrendered my ENTIRE life over to Jesus Christ. Now every single day I feel total peace and joy because I am spending all my time with Him just praying and reading the Bible, because I know that that I know: He Loves Me, because JESUS DIED FOR ME! Now I know that I'm going to Heaven and I'm not willing to sacrifice that for anyone or anything. My youngest brother who is an Agnostic just told me last month that he was suicidal, so I flew him out and after 8 days he understands that it was spiritual warfare. He is now seeking after God and finding peace and joy.
I appreciate that religious beliefs helped you,but thats not the solution for all of us. All religion did for me ever was show me what i didn't want and what god wasn't which is JUDGMENT. My own religious mother used christs name to judge us constantly as children while simultaneously telling us she wished we were dead. Then after i tried to end my life she told me the only reason i survived is that god didn't want me to burn in hell...so religion is not the answer for all of us. I respect that it works for you though.
Why tell lies? Why not have an honest conversation about it? Guilting your clients and you say that they have no empathy? Why can't you grow some empathy? Why can't you care about your patients? That's fucked.
You didn't help at all ,.. made me feel worse. Like you can help, but id have to be very wealthy to get it. Here at Amens clinics.... here at Amens clinics...
IF YOU DEAL WITH SOMETHING LIKE THIS I WILL TELL YOU THE CURE JESUS CHRIST IS THE CURE HE CAN HELP YOU READ THE BIBLE PLEASE IT WILL HELP SPREAD THIS WITH MANY AS YOU CAN
@@gedon4713 Lithium is not a medication. it is one of the most common elements of - the god made - universe. We need it to live. your advice is like: DON'T TAKE ANY FOOD OR SOMETHING GO READ THE BIBLE IT WILL HELP YOU GO IN THE CHURCH ASK FOR HELP And how do you know whether God has not sent a doctor to help us?
Ask for help help in church read the Bible every day it wil help you the devil and jis angels are trying to push you on suicide they are the reason why you are in this situation
This is difficult for me to address, BUT -- for the good of a family member who has been suicidal periodically throughout life, and who most recently just checked out of a hospital where was to have had treatment; then zigzagged erratically to three weeks of three difficult ECT treatments each week, in which was totally wiped and up and down ,yet the only hope -- so stigmatized because cannot hold a really good job, because of erratic manic depressive history which at one time gave a bad credit history and missing person label--it is so sad to have to accept all this stigmatization of a person's life; and nowhere to go for help, nor a decent way to make it in this world; nor the money to pay for high-price neurofeedback, or scans or other treatments that are not covered by medical or health insurance.................. no wonder it results and reinforces the incentive to commit more suiced in the poor person who suffers from severe depression and mania!Wherein lies the answer for a family who has tried to help, but who knows that IT (the deadly attempt again) will just happen again when the ECT wears off.....Woe is us!
The cure is in the BIBLE Jesus Christ already told us this Read the Bible every day go to the church ask for help EXSCORCIZM it will help you i guarantee you that
Please don't commit suicide God cares for you so much...... JESUS CHRIST LOVES YOU SO MUCH WITH AN EVERLASTING LOVE HE HAS DIED FOR OUR SINS AND HE HAS RISEN FROM DEATH .( Holy bible) JESUS CHRIST IS THE ONLY WAY ,THE TRUTH AND THE LIFE ( John 14:6). JESUS CHRIST IS ONLY THE TRUE GOD (1 john 5:20) JESUS CHRIST IS GREAT GOD AND OUR SAVIOUR (Titus 2: 13) JESUS CHRIST DIED FOR OUR SINS ACCORDING TO THE SCRIPTURES AND THAT HE WAS BURIED AND THAT HE ROSE AGAIN THE THIRD DAY ACCORDING TO THE SCRIPTURES (1Corinthians15:3,4)
