The Secret Of Harry Styles' Quiet Confidence 

Lolz

Bruh

As a male I can confirm this message

@@kc7159 LOLZ

Ufff you just had to destroy it...

Yes! Some people have trouble knowing how to do such simple things. Which is why I like to break down the reasoning 😁

Fine line

"Maybe we can..."

@@4Pyuh find a PLAAACE to feel good!

TPWK

Yup. But what about for brits?

yes it does

@@AnthonyRecenello I was shocked when I first heard him speak, he does sound a bit sleepy & not at all like the Londoner I am. A bit "country", in the sweetest possible way. I was not used to the Cheshire accent. But I would not want him to speak in any other way now.

Women fall in love listening, men fall in love looking. I am a woman and a sucker for a great voice = Morgan Freeman. Older, but what the heck. To fall a sleep and wake up listening to..yummy

@@AnthonyRecenello I think even without the accent, his voice and just the way that he speaks in general is quite unique.

hannalexa hathway that’s so true. It’s not just his looks

Fan girl fs 😂

Mario Gomez so what if I’m a fan? You got a problem

I’ll strip everything off of him yk 😉😌

He actually is the nicest human being ever. For eg- leonardo di caprio, was very handsome at a young age, but he was not the nicest. and now that he is old , and lost his good looks, girls do not prefer him much. Thats not true for harry because his personality and what he actually is, outshines everything else..

Lol hahaha

Omg lmao

Nah, just be u.

Can u explain the way you do?

My opinion : Yes we love him . I’ve been a fan myself in the early 1D days. People that don’t know much about him and his fans , they see a bunch of “girls” that think he’s hot af and we wish to be in a “relationship with him” . It isn’t true , well for majority of us I’m guessing . Not every fan of his are girls . Yes whenever you see Harry with fans most are girls , but there many different fans that aren’t just girls . We honestly just support him as an artist and for being such a different artist than others. He spread out positivity , supports us back and do things in such a special way that not many other artists do . Honestly go check on Twitter yourself . Some of us are gay/straight/bi and most of us came out because of Harry . What I’m really saying is that people stereotype us fans when really we’re more than that . I hope I made sense . There’s more I’d like to say but I don’t want to mess up with my sayings cause I honestly can’t think straight lol

Anthony Recenello we love him for all the work he put for into us, for everything he has done .

We love him the way we love family and friends it’s like someone you just care deeply about even if you don’t know them at all . But there is just something about him that makes us feel comfortable with ourselves and happy (:

I love him because he's such a beautiful soul and skin. He has every thing I'm looking for in a human being. O I'm definitely attracted to and sooooo obsessed with him but never dreamed of being in a romantic relationship with him. I wanna be him. I wanna be that good.

Yes exactly!

exactly !!!

Anthony Recenello thank you I get bullied for admiring Harry styles so much

Kacey Abbott omg i know how u feel!!!

Garden Gear its so annoying !! Also are u going to see Harry next year ??

Yeah he’s pretty darn great lolz

Anthony Recenello he sure is!

I agree totally!

SAAME

Brad Pitt, Leonardo Dicaprio, James Dean, Marilyn Monroe

Exactly.

I don't think she actively tried teaching him anything. It's like Harry said. He learnt from watching her. She didn't try to teach, she was just a very good person and her child learnt from watching her.

Agreed

That is something I've noticed in aquarius men

I’m a women and my therapist told me I have a quiet confidence

@@omokok1877 no

Ancient Aspirer I felt the same as I commented lol 🌸 I love this love people are capable of having

Ancient Aspirer honestly ♥️

Yes that’s so true

Could you tell me please which doc are you talking about?)

@@karlas_vibe His behind the album documentary. It's only on apple music.

Your name though! I love it

Sydney Crutchfield ohh I’ve found it thanks)

Nicki K she raised a great son!

She needs to write a parenting book, starting now. And I'll definitely buy it.

Styles Olivia YES!!

me toooo😍😍🥺

Imagine raising such a kind person.. Would be like completing a life goal, for sure.

Awwwwwww

❤ same

Ancient Aspirer this actually made me cry i totally relate

me too

Champ1988 I think he is very in the mood to express himself fully. Without hising something. He tries to be as real as it is possible.

Great stuff guys. As always, charm is a balance of two opposites. It’s clear that Harry is both feminine and masculine at the same time.

It’s the libra rising ♎️

Btw you reminded me that he is a master of Grace. Which is one of the nine traits of a charmer.

Yes.

Totes mcgotes

Yes definitely. I’m so glad he is there to inspire you.

i think the most attractive thing about him is his ability to be kind to people no matter what. you’ll never find this guy being rude. he’s just genuinely humble.

Ninaofthe90s hell yeah!

Emilia Clarke is similar for the females, and humans in general. Impossible to teach this eh!

It’s possible to teach. Yes Emilia is ridiculously charming

I guess it's something exclusive to English people, look at Rupert, Daniel radcliffe, Emma watson, the guy who plays malfoy, niall horan, Harry, it's like they are better parents than Americans in general.

Mo-lester zendaya tho but I agree

Another good example is Freddie Highmore

@@joshdunham7167 Ha! Before I read your comment I gave the example of Freddie Highmore!

Saaame

Oh yes!!! Since X-factor auditions. He was just something else. He always had that confidence. The King 👑. The good King ❣️

Same. I thought it was more than just "looks".

Same

@@asenpongen9203 I agree he was calm and respectful from his first audition. Very charming with his "boo" when Lous said that he did not have enough confidence. Like wtf? Seriously? And I noticed that even then people wanted to touch him and kiss him. Such a kind charm! ❤️🐈

This comment 👏🏽

Also hello there sub user 🤭

Every time I ever tell someone harry is my celebrity crush they say he’s not even that cute and I’m like (first off he is) it’s not all about looks just him as a person he’s just such an amazing person no one understands until they truly see him in action and realize he’s not a normal celebrity.

periodt.

samee

To add to this, since RU-vid keeps alerting me to my own comment... I’m in a wheelchair, right? Harry was the only person in the room who actually sat on his heels for a bit so we were eye level while talking. Now, this isn’t an uncommon thing for people to do, yet most people don’t. To me, that night, it spoke volumes.

Wow, what a lucky person you are! He seems very intellectual also. One to have long conversations about the world, universe anything to go in depth about, that is what I need.

@@fayestardust wow, he went out of his way to make you more comfortable and get at your level. That right there DOES speak volumes on his character . Where are these men??

@@KrystalKalleen I know. I’m still single. But they must be out there somewhere, right? Maybe I’ll just meet Harry again sometime and ask him to go out on a date XD

Wow! That was so beautiful n pure! Thank u 4 sharing ur experience n describing it like the artist u really r! Beautiful!💋

Heck yeah Elias! I hope to see more of you on my videos. :-)

Awwww

Ikrrr

Lauren Bray trueee

Facts!

THIS. COMMENT. RIGHT. HERE.

yes, and I'm glad he doesn't define his sexuality

1000% agree! He’s also unapologetically himself with 0 arrogance and very modest and I have to say that’s amazing. Being able to say “who cares” about all these things like race and gender and sexual orientation,,,, it’s just so freeing. I strive to be like him as well

THIS IS WHY EVERY GIRL LOVES HIM THIS IS THE REASON AND THIS IS WHY I LOVE HIM. T.P.W.K.

I want to be like him too. I am in love with him

They probably watched my video 🤪

Ah another thing to mention, safe and comfortable! Women need this. You don't have to be the sexiest physically looking guy. Women need a man that is confident, sincere, open , caring and someone that makes them feel safe, comfortable and loved.

@@KrystalKalleen yes! Exactly

Yes. That has always stood out to me. He used to care a lot what people thought. Look at him now! That tid bit helps to inspire me.

Vulnerability is the most attractive thing to women.

Anthony Recenello I agree!

@Anthony thanks for always diminishing us to animals with predictable behaviour

Hi iop! I’m sorry you think I’m doing that. Better said, I think vulnerability is the most attractive thing to all humans. I think we’re based in love. Sure, people are attracted to other things. But I think when a person is openly showing themselves to others, there’s a purity that removes people’s ego and enables us to connect. We can put it in a ton of diff ways... I just wasn’t predicting someone would get offended by my words. I’ll try to be more clear and less mistakingly implicative. Thanks for bringing it to my attention!

I think it's fine to care what people think but only insofar as it aids your understanding if the impact our behaviour has on those around us, not in terms of trying to please everyone all the time and in the process losing sight of who we really are.

And he has been!

Lol you nerd! 🤪

we’d be great friends

we've got an unhealthy obsession i think

haha same 🙋🏾‍♀️💚

Agreed! Thanks JM

Yes you’re so right

yea practice.maybe

Hira you don’t find a lot of people like him

And because being a good, wholesome human being is so rare...it seems magical.

No its not that despite having everything that he has and how much he has been bullied he has remained kind.... A lot of people become aggressive and abusive when they get abused like harry but he remains kind.... Being kind is harder then being aggressive remember that!

Omg it’s such insane

Yuppers!

He is another Elvis - Elvis had that IT FACTOR he had charisma and when he walked in a room everyone stopped. thats who harry reminds me of. Elvis was a really good person along with his looks and talent. Elvis was effortless. harry is effortless and beautiful.

Hahaha that one is for the REAL fans

Anthony Recenello OMG . You’re amazing ! 💚💙

So true!

Khin Thwe I feel the same way

hes just about the opposite of that

@@agirlwhoeatscarrots2211 how where is the proof

Ikr...nit to he hateful but thats what i dislike about Zayn...hr tries so hard to seem cool..bashing 1d music because he wants people to think his music is cool..even how he takes pictures he TRIES TOO HARD..and it just turns me off

MERCY KACHIGUNDA how does he bash 1d’s music? he left the band because of issues he was having

LMAO YESSS all I could think of while watching this was AQUARIUS STELLIUM!!! He’s majorlyyyy Aquarius dominant

nova_ray That makes him damn near Perfect.

@nova_ray really? I thought he had a libra moon?

I guess the only thing you can do to raise a good person is to schedule their birth. And we all can chill the f out and don't try to be better since out birth time defines who we are *eye roll*

He definitely radiates that.

Haha I already did one. Here you go! Tom Holland: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-ro71l0Adp1o.html

Anthony Recenello hahah didn’t noticed at first until I finished watching it lmao 😂 It’s amazing, I’m loving these videos

Thanks Natalia you’re the best!

Hahah you caught it ;-)

I read this the moment he said it

Interesting take on Eminem, thair.

@@AnthonyRecenello a video about him pls :D

Agreed!

Who do you think is more handsome than Harry?

@Ki l being hot and being handsome is totally different...smh

harrys literally so handsome 😭

Yes, his politeness is so attractive and effortless, what a change from most macho hip hop artists

Yes, but at the same time I am glad he keeps certain things private, like his sexuality. A bit of mystery is also very attractive.

iop erty yes Harry styles is going to help change men’s toxic masculinity. I know it.

Menna thank you! Please share it with your friends!

Ohhhh good one!!!

I’m putting that one on my list.

I agree loretta good ted talk

Thanks Jonah! You have inspirational words.

I think being like Harry is also being yourself. The most beautiful thing about Harry is the fact that he is himself and doesn't seem to care what anyone thinks.

@@Beatriz-hs8eu I totally agree with you

@@AnthonyRecenello hey i didnt mean to sound disrespectful towards you, i just didnt want people to think being like Harry Styles is the right way to be, i believe being yourself and accepting your imperfections and flaws is the best way to be. thank you though it means a lot. I liked the video great work

@@jonahlandefeld6131 Thanks. Yes, these videos are not about mimicking celebrities. These videos are learning the way celebrities have learned to be themselves-and hopefully taking that nugget of wisdom so you can learn to also be your self. Hope to see you again!

Haha!

Oooo that’s a good idea. Ok thanks rose!

He has anxiety ..

Agreed. I think zayn is the most attractive 1D member but the one I'm the least interested in.

He's introverted

@@user-do4co3ff6b exactly!

Yeah....i love love love him so much❤

Anytime sista!

helena maria peculiar.... i see what u did there ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

SOTT vibe, yesssss indeed! I was on Eroda Island!🥰

Yes, it says a lot that everybody who meets him loves him and has good things to say about him

Yayyyy thank YOU for watching!

EXACTLY!!!

Great point travis. I'll add finn to my list too.