The Secret to Making Powerful Friends | Jordan Harbinger on Impact Theory

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Jordan Harbinger is a former Wall Street lawyer who learned how to effectively network and build relationships to survive in a competitive industry. Years and millions of podcast episode downloads later, he now uses this skill to bring and interview guests on The Jordan Harbinger Show with the goal of giving listeners insight on how to become a better version of themselves. The man Forbes named 1 of the 50 best relationship experts anywhere explains why your network means more than names on a list on this episode of Impact Theory with Tom Bilyeu.
SHOW NOTES:
Jordan tells how he ended up giving tours in North Korea and his attraction to the forbidden. [2:56]
Jordan details his early path into podcasting and it’s evolution into a business. [6:50]
Jordan explains how he overcame his shyness as a youth. [15:20]
Jordan describes a method for developing body language and esteem and the value of deliberate practice. [17:55]
Jordan talks about the art of learning and the value of having a coach. [23:48]
Jordan and Tom discuss the process of building relationships and common mistakes people make. [27:07]
Jordan touches on reinventing himself and his brand. [35:31]
Jordan breaks down the relationship between action and suffering. [45:00]
Jordan reveals the impact he wants to have on the world. [48:16]
QUOTES:
“A question I will always ask people who think that they're not good at something is how they know that they're not good at it. Usually, the answer has to do with the environment that they learn in or the set up their learning process and very rarely with their actual talent.” [23:55]
“Action ends suffering.” [46:32]
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@JordanHarbingerShow 6 лет назад

This was a really fun show. Thanks again for having me on and thanks to everyone watching for their attention. I hope to count many of you as fans of The Jordan Harbinger Show in the near future!

@jonathanacuna 6 лет назад

THE JORDAN HARBINGER SHOW wow I remember listening to your show years ago. Your advice changed my life to help build me to who I am today. Super grateful. Going to relisten to your show all over again this week!

@syrriamarshalleck905 6 лет назад

okay...you are a genius. I always notice these 'covert contracts' from people and but I didn't know what to call it, I did it sometimes too. You helped me alot, so thank you so much I hope other people watch this and learn too

@michaelhardie9193 6 лет назад

THE JORDAN HARBINGER SHOW I first caught wind of you on your previous show and have followed you over. Your content is amazing and having a podcast of both you and Tom is amazing. By far my two favorite podcasts!!!

@Aliens-Are-Our-Friends2027 6 лет назад

Thanks Jordan! Great stuff. Dig the well before you're thirsty, Give without expectation of return, Don't keep score. Be a Value Arbitrator - help people who need each other find each other. Let me know if I can help your show in any way : D RP

@SiimLand 6 лет назад

Master Networker

@Wise101 6 лет назад

Summary of Jordan Harbinger's rules for powerful friendships/relationships: 1. Dig the well before you are thirsty. (Start and nurture relationships before you need any type of help) 2. Give without expecting anything in return and without any attachment. 3. Do not keep score. (Don't think things like "I did this for you so now you owe me a favor.") Bonus: 4. Do good things for others when you can. If someone did something nice for you try to help them if/when and however you can. Help others even if they haven't done anything for you, and do it without asking for anything in return.

@JordanHarbingerShow 6 лет назад

I dig it!

@sidmichael1158 5 лет назад

Thanks

@jeffreyfine558 5 лет назад

I know it is hard for most of us to not have attachment when we help others. We are just so used to thinking now we have something good coming in return or actually owed from that person. Instead good will come from our deeds but not exactly the way we think. Maybe another person from our network with help with something we need,

@mootastica3146 5 лет назад

Mind shift!! I realising I’m often a taker and I take score a lot, I also have two people in my family that won’t do anything that doesn’t benefit them. Time to think about how I can help others more.

@noraparejo7673 5 лет назад

Thank you!!!!

@leslie_rogers 6 лет назад

How nice it is to watch an interview where the interviewer lets the guest speak without interrupting. Interesting and inspiring interviews, always!

@vr8944 4 года назад

Exactly, one of the things I can't stand of Gary Vee is that he can't stand other people being the center of attention. Tom is really cool

@viniholanda1223 6 лет назад

"Don't waste time making short term money when you have a long term goal!" I relate to this so much

@JordanHarbingerShow 6 лет назад

BOOM ;)

@SiimLand 6 лет назад

"Every second you spend feeling sorry for yourself you're wasting your time" - @40:40

@TomBilyeu 6 лет назад

Truuuuuuuuth

@JordanHarbingerShow 6 лет назад

nice one.

@ikbenmarko 5 лет назад

We sometimes should go through these emotions though and then CRUSH IT. hard to sometimes ignore it.

@ImWORTHITINC 5 лет назад

GREAT POINT, Siim!

@commanderpipi1youknowfromp730 5 лет назад

You Sir are always come up with the best comments.

@johannafroese9484 5 лет назад

I am so grateful that I live in a time where there is awesome content like this available FOR FREE - sometimes I just can't believe how lucky I am.

@patricksslkpatricksslk2624 2 года назад

True , I am staggered by the knowledge and I remember the days before the net. I believe there is more to come. Esp in the educational field. It's quite possible that alot of educational information seminars could be free online. Infact theoretically knowledge of this type should be freely available.

@AchieversWorkshop 6 лет назад

They say life is 50% what you know and 50% who you know. Make friends with the right kind of people!

@JordanHarbingerShow 6 лет назад

indeed.

@moshefabrikant1 3 года назад

6:40 Networking is the name of the game 8:20 Just record 15:45 Quote 16:06 First impressions is without talking 20:30 Upgrade your weakness and practice your strengths 21:40 How do you know you are good at it? Great question 23:55 Coaches are great. Find it as early as you can. 24:40 Help others with no return. And keep communications like that (Noah Kagan) 27:00 Start relationship before contacting them. Ask to help people before attachment to getting something in return 30:10 Don't keep a score of helping 32:17 Summary of relationships 36:00 How to approach the person you interview 38:28 Have income Of year or 6 months no matter what happens 39:30 Quote

@lflores5050 5 лет назад

Tom - you are exceptional at listening...I've learned so much from you just by watching you listen intently to people. Thank you! -Luis

@TomBilyeu 5 лет назад

Thank you! Very kind.

@AsHleYxxX257 6 лет назад

I have watched just about every episode, some even twice,but have never left a comment... That needs to change, I want to get involved! Jordan was so real and authentic. He eloquently talked about the importance of human connection and I really needed to hear that. I loved how when you mentioned how he reached out to you earlier, he didn’t even remember, but it still held true to what he was preaching throughout the interview. It shows how he is living what he is saying, and it was a great example of how genuine connection with others is critical to long term success. I love it Tom! I plan on showing myself and my voice much more around here, thank you for giving me the opportunity and platform to do just that! Take care.

@JordanHarbingerShow 6 лет назад

Thanks so much Ashley! You're so kind!

@JordanHarbingerShow 6 лет назад

I hope to count you as a fan of The Jordan Harbinger Show someday as well!

@theresagonzales3959 2 года назад

💕

@nitahudson5109 6 лет назад

Tom is the master of intros. I’m glad he’s shortened them to be even more exciting. The art of brevity is truly impactful!!

@Zoesstuff 6 лет назад

Action ends suffering because faith without works is dead. Incredible interview - thanks Impact team!

@beltusnkwawir2908 3 года назад

"Anxiety is energy we don't know what to do with" 41:12 -- This is all needed to stop the negative thought pattern ann get back to work. Thank you Jordan. Thank you Tom.

@elvinafernandes 5 лет назад

One of the few people who actually break it down and show how they got to the top

@ModernConnoisseur 5 лет назад

That doorway thing is like practicing daily positive affirmations, rewiring our mindset, which changes our actions etc, i luv it!

@JordanHarbingerShow 5 лет назад

kind of, only it builds a real habit and isn't just positive affirmations (pseudoscience)

@lindienhlapo5231 5 лет назад

Tom iis such an inspiration though, He is sick but he is up doing what he loves and giving it a 100 percent. Man, If you are not this passionate. You might need to check yourself. Loved this interview. From South Africa! x

@l.kumaran55 5 лет назад

1. Dig the well before thirsty 2. Give without expectation or attachment of getting 3. Do not keep score I think this is going to change my life. Thank you Jordan, and props to Tom for asking such a question @26:15

@JordanHarbingerShow 5 лет назад

nice -great list. Do you listen to The Jordan Harbinger Show as well?

@l.kumaran55 5 лет назад

Hahaha yea man, I stumbled upon you when you did an episode with Vanessa Van Edwards, and I immediately subscribed to your RU-vid channel - Da Ding-Ding Cha ; ) I also downloaded Stitcher just so I could listen to your full show. So yeah... I'm a fan And man, if you ever find yourself in Malaysia, hit me up... I'll show you around!

@JordanHarbingerShow 5 лет назад

oh nice. Thanks!

@jesserodriguez3614 5 лет назад

Love the authenticity. Always a great interview if it's impact theory. Love Tom's depth of research, excavative questioning, and though he asks the best questions and can even better articulate someone's response than the they can at times, he remains translucent allowing the full completion of the response. Master of his craft! Jordan was awesome and genuine. It is much appreciated on this side of the screen. Thank you both!

@JordanHarbingerShow 5 лет назад

Thanks Jesse! Do you listen to The Jordan Harbinger Show as well?

@stukenborgpodcast 6 лет назад

This made my brain sizzle watching and listening to the top two Heavy-Hitters of Interviewers!! Thank you both for sharing your time, experiences and knowledge with us!

@JordanHarbingerShow 6 лет назад

Thanks Pam!

@stukenborgpodcast 6 лет назад

THE JORDAN HARBINGER SHOW Absolutely!

@ukknightrider 6 лет назад

Wow ! I love Jordan he's a really special human being. That was a the quickest 49 mins, it honestly felt like a five min chat. Good luck in all you do sir. Peace

@JordanHarbingerShow 6 лет назад

thank you! Do you listen to The Jordan Harbinger Show as well?

@mysteriouspsycho4010 6 лет назад

I absolutely love these videos so much, they've impacted me in a way that makes a simple thank you not enough but thank you is what I can do. Have a great day Tom Bilyeu and Crew.

@TomBilyeu 6 лет назад

Thank you! That's very kind!

@Nashking20 6 лет назад

I discovered Impact Theory after listening to Tom Bilyeu's interview on Jordan Harbinger's old podcast show, and I've been listening to Impact Theory ever since. So, it looks like things have come full circle!

@PhiloSage 6 лет назад

Nashking20 darn I must have missed that one, might still be there though. I know that they have removed many episodes.

@JordanHarbingerShow 6 лет назад

ha! That's great! I'm so glad we introduced you to Tom and now you're back watching me on I.T.!

@BryanDivisions 6 лет назад

Dude this was excellent advice and such a humble dude! Main takeaway - Ask people how you can help them, and expect nothing in return. I've noticed this lately as I've had friends ask me to help them with things I didn't even know I could help them with! Much love Jordan and thanks Tom for bringing such an awesome talk out into the universe!

@JordanHarbingerShow 6 лет назад

you're welcome Bryan! Do you listen to The Jordan Harbinger Show as well?

@hrvojeodak 4 года назад

Yet another FANTASTIC show Tom. Jordan is one of the most intelligent, funny and simply awesome guys you can learn from. His Jordan Harbinger Show is my go to podcast nowadays, along with Kevin Rose, Tim Ferriss and Peter Attia. Topics he covers are very wide, you can learn everything from dating apps to management techniques and he has a very, very unique style. Also, his Networking course is pure gold. Simple and effective, actionable advice you can incorporate immediately. Tom, thanks for bringing this guy on the show!

@JordanHarbingerShow 3 года назад

Thanks for the kind words!

@alliesteamc3546 2 года назад

Yes, we also love Jordan Harbinger show also! Thanks so much for showing up here since we get best leads of who to listen to by listening to Tom Bilyeu’s impact theory!

@Miki91nis 6 лет назад

Talk at 30 minutes, about passive aggression, really resonated hard with me. Plenty of usfull advises, and Tom, you delivered again, in spite of you having trouble with your voice. Btw, I'm from Serbia, and really thrilled he speaks my language! Veliki pozdrav ako citas ovo Jordane!

@JordanHarbingerShow 6 лет назад

citam bre! ;) hvala puno

@Miki91nis 6 лет назад

Hahah, to care! Nema na cemu, hvala tebi na intervjuu :)

@DomCTBG 5 лет назад

You're so handsome.

@jaydurham778 5 лет назад

These interviews... I've heard some of these people before on podcasts and I used to be a subscriber to The Art of Charm. Seeing these people on IT, I always end up opening a notepad on my computer and typing in takeaways to review later and important quotes from these shows. This channel is golden and Jordan was an awesome interview.

@JordanHarbingerShow 5 лет назад

Thanks Jay! Do you listen to The Jordan Harbinger Show as well?

@manjeet7595 6 лет назад

It's not good to compare two great things, but hey tom i enjoy your impact theory more than ted talks because you go in deep.

@TomBilyeu 6 лет назад

Wow! I'll take that compliment! Thank you!

@manjeet7595 6 лет назад

Tom Bilyeu Thank you for your precious reply tom 😆.

@JordanHarbingerShow 6 лет назад

Impact Theory is def better than TED because of the interaction and the depth.

@mitchell.9632 6 лет назад

I agree with you Jordan and Automobile about the interaction. Ted is good for shorter overview but may not cover all points.

@trishataylor2837 5 лет назад

I had never heard of Joran till just now. I had watched several of your shows before Tom so knew whoever he was, it would be good. Wow....It was Great! I listened so intently, it was like I was breathing in every word. What I mostly heard was a great deal of opportunity as the core of his success as in " it just so happened " several times. It gives me hope as I am preparing to move forward in my life. I have been at a job for 10 yrs and besides physically needing to leave, I need to expand my horizons for bigger and better things. It's opportunity I need to come to me a it has in the past to bring me to a place where it won't be so much work as it will be fun and passion. Thanks for interviewing this very dynamic individual.👍

@JordanHarbingerShow 5 лет назад

Thanks Trisha! Do you listen to The Jordan Harbinger Show as well?

@phanicewamukota3006 5 лет назад

That was worth all the 48.57 minutes spend here. Thank you.

@alliesteamc3546 2 года назад

Tom Bilyeu offers such awesome interviews-great selections,- great questions, great responses, great lessons! Thank you so much for your fabulous contributions to the community!😁

@somethingbeautiful2212 5 лет назад

I love Jordan Harbinger! Every pore of my body and my “ear balls “ is soaking up the important information he shares! Thank you 🙏😌

@CookingwithZee 6 лет назад

Great job Tom, finding your channel has been the best thing in my life. Totally life changing, thank-you!

@ImWORTHITINC 5 лет назад

DIG THE WELL BEFORE YOU'RE THIRSTY! Now I have phrase for the things I've experienced the last few years. Another great reason: DO IT JUST BECAUSE BRINGING OTHERS JOY BRINGS YOU JOY! Being resentful is a result of premeditated expectations caused by covert contracts!! Thanks so much, Tom & Jordan!

@JordanHarbingerShow 5 лет назад

you're welcome! Do you listen to The Jordan Harbinger Show as well?

@sheanjames5672 5 лет назад

I've never been so engaged in my life with just listening to someone talk. He makes Jim Rohn looks normal. He kept my attention although he has the same tone with the same soft pitch. This dude uses simple analogies and examples which anyone could understand and learn from. You truly have earned my attention Jordon Harbinger

@JordanHarbingerShow 5 лет назад

hey thank you! this is so kind of you to say. Do you listen to The Jordan Harbinger Show as well?

@jamiej6680 4 года назад

OMG Tom Bilyeu, I am hooked on your interview content. The best thing I have ever discovered. Tremendous thanks!!

@WoahBeyney 6 лет назад

THIS IS GREAT STUFF! Tom, you are changing lives. Thank you.

@TomBilyeu 6 лет назад

Thank you! So glad the content adds value!

@vr8944 4 года назад

I love this vídeos. I haven't watched mainstream media in years. Don't even trust it anymore, but Tom is awesome

@laurentiulugo4579 Год назад

I am so glad you made this happen so people could follow examples and bring all of us closer

@ismilareyes4176 6 лет назад

Extremely powerful advice on how one can build confidence and true relationship. Great episode as always!!

@janedildine2014 6 лет назад

Every time I listen, I think, "This one is my favorite!" THIS ONE GOES DOWN AS ONE OF MY FAVORITE !

@JordanHarbingerShow 6 лет назад

Thanks Jane!

@TheZGALa 6 лет назад

Perfect message for me today. I am just recently coming to appreciate how much coaching can be such a catalyst for rapid growth.

@JordanHarbingerShow 6 лет назад

definitely!

@celestereyes2960 5 лет назад

One of my faves. Love it guys and so grateful for this show. By far the most impressionable and helpful for my mindset and entire life!

@luket79_gc56 4 года назад

This sort of interview makes the world a better place, thanks guys. I'll take building a well before your thirsty and especially action leads to less suffering and run with it. Many thanks.

@Legend-sd7gr 6 лет назад

Tom;u r a legend 🙌 even after not being well u r doing your work!!u inspire me to work harder!!

@TomBilyeu 6 лет назад

Thank you! Very kind!

@MrMcfire2 5 лет назад

The advice he gave on reaching out to others, givng without expecting anything in return, is key.

@Grifons003 6 лет назад

Yep, that's it! I'll have two regulars now. I can already tell that The Jordan Harbinger show will be one of my things. :) You, Jordan Harbinger, sir, you are definitely someone I want to learn from. A truly great episode this was. Definitely one of my favorites here at Impact Theory! Cheers!

@JordanHarbingerShow 6 лет назад

Thanks Matiss!

@Merjen_NYC 6 лет назад

I love Impact Theory and I listen everyday at least 1 podcast or RU-vid video but i never thought there would be a talk about my country Turkmenistan! Thank you for this!

@RossQuintana 6 лет назад

Great interview, you two really resonate with me. I feel doing the homework is key and I am the same way. So much value can be uncovered when you don't just expose what they think, but also expand it to create new value. I'm all about quality and appreciate you and the people you interview. Thanks

@GosiaCanoFitness 6 лет назад

This was one of my favourite shows!!! Thanks so much for this interview ❤️

@JordanHarbingerShow 6 лет назад

glad you dig it! Lmk what you think of The Jordan Harbinger Show if you get a chance to listen there as well.

@GosiaCanoFitness 6 лет назад

THE JORDAN HARBINGER SHOW I will watch it later and let you know.

@mwakie 6 лет назад

THANK YOU FOR THIS!!!

@abdulmuti1 6 лет назад

Thank you for another great episode Tom. I guess you are leading by example doing the show while having a cold. Wish you a speedy recovery.

@TomBilyeu 6 лет назад

Thank you! All better now.

@paulperole 5 лет назад

someone (a user or a guest) once noted that Tom has the BEST INTROs for all of his guests. so well written & presented. Tom, you're doing such a great job.

@JordanHarbingerShow 5 лет назад

that was me actually...on this full episode.

@paulperole 5 лет назад

what do you mean? anyway, I love how you come back and check the comments. Jesus, can this get any better? 🙌🙌🙌

@gabrielmujimbere5556 6 лет назад

Thank you so much... My father always tells us to be focus on human investment than money... So happy to hear people like u too validate and upgrade one of my guide line in life. Thank you so much

@urbansproutfarms 5 лет назад

Bro your interviews are so powerful! Thank you for your work!!

@soheekim3314 6 лет назад

Wow, i feel so inspired after watching this interview! Thank you, Tom, for bringing Jordan on the show! Both of you guys are so amazing, i can't tell you how thankful i am to know of you.

@JordanHarbingerShow 6 лет назад

You got it Sohee! You a fan of The Jordan Harbinger Show as well?

@soheekim3314 6 лет назад

No, I unfortunately haven't been a fan yet because I wasn't aware of your existence. Soon to be a fan though!

@zeroooooooo22 6 лет назад

"Dig the well before you´re thirsty" - in the case of relationships @27:30 - in the case of money @39:18

@JordanHarbingerShow 6 лет назад

nice!

@sepalifernando6628 Год назад

Hey Tom , you are really a great interviewer no interruptions at all. You have done the research in advance . That’s how impact theory has become a great show. Lucky I have subscribed you long time ago. Hope to have more interesting and eye opening shows like this in the future. Thanks

@mirandasummer 6 лет назад

This IT'S absolutely crucial to hear!! --- "Action Ends Suffering"

@JordanHarbingerShow 6 лет назад

Yes!

@sheriannemanus263 6 лет назад

All i can say is awesome! Thanks Tom.

@EMillerphotography 6 лет назад

This is one of the best channels in YT 💓

@krow449 6 лет назад

"Action ends suffering" @43:57 Love it!!!

@tammymccarthy1204 4 года назад

Thank you both Tom and Jordan. The best part is your vulnerability on your part Jordan . Thank you so much for all your great content . Well appreciated when I was wanting to wallow in self pity 😊. I will now take ACTION. Much love

@JordanHarbingerShow 4 года назад

Thanks! Do you listen to The Jordan Harbinger Show (podcast) as well?

@JP-ll8iy 5 лет назад

I love this episode... I keep rewatching and always coming out with something new! Thank you both.

@JordanHarbingerShow 5 лет назад

glad to hear it! Do you listen to The Jordan Harbinger Show as well?

@phmarketingmgmt.agency7233 5 лет назад

So excited to see him on here! His personality and passion pours out in all that he has done. Look forward to finding those lego pieces💪🏾🌼

@intuitive_duck 6 лет назад

I absolutely love this one! Congratulations for another golden episode! I relate so much. It feels so empowering to see what he became. To see that he overcame his painful shyness that I often battle with. To see he learned multiple languages like I aspire to learn. To beat that scorecard. 100% gold, thank you!

@TomBilyeu 6 лет назад

So glad you liked it!

@JordanHarbingerShow 6 лет назад

Thanks D! Hope to see you at The Jordan Harbinger Show soon as well! Happy to help!

@Divineshot 6 лет назад

Lovely episode! :)

@animenoms3492 6 лет назад

I am going through hard circumstances myself right now and this is so, so inspiring. Thank you! :)

@infernalweasal5670 3 года назад

Amazing! The Covert Contracts. I realize I've done that a lot in the past. Going to keep my awareness open to it! Thanks Tom and Jordan!

@sydnichattman2738 5 лет назад

I’ve paused this quite a few times to make “hello how are you doing...’what can I do to help’ phone calls within the last two hours and it felt good! Thanks for dropping jewels!

@JordanHarbingerShow 5 лет назад

you're welcome! Do you listen to The Jordan Harbinger Show as well?

@sydnichattman2738 5 лет назад

I watched/listened to one of them just this morning in my *save for later* you've got a new supporter! Thanks!

@jeffreyfine558 5 лет назад

I took copious notes which is a rarity for me. That abundance mindset shines through.Jordan, I want more !

@JordanHarbingerShow 5 лет назад

glad to hear it! Do you listen to The Jordan Harbinger Show as well?

@organizer14 Год назад

Both of you are sooo awesome!!! Thank you so much!!!❤

@emilyc7515 6 лет назад

So much value in this interview. Been listening to Jordan and Impact Theory for a while and it's amazing to see what comes of a meeting between two amazing well-articulated people! It's like seeing a great crossover episode of two superheroes, but with so much more usable wisdom!

@TomBilyeu 6 лет назад

Haha! Amazing!

@JordanHarbingerShow 6 лет назад

Thanks Emily! Do you listen to The Jordan Harbinger Show as well?

@emilyc7515 6 лет назад

THE JORDAN HARBINGER SHOW Yes! Thank you so much for creating it! You have some top-quality content that's super approachable and practical.

@emilyc7515 6 лет назад

The after impact was amazing for this one too. Your story about having crippling anxiety in front of family really was SO relatable. You give me hope that I can get better!

@titifash74 2 года назад

1. Dig the well before you are thirsty 2. Give without expecting anything in return 3. Do not keep scores. Thanks for the wise words, really helpful

@StayingHard 6 лет назад

This Video is a GEM.

@JulieAndersonvideos 3 года назад

This is so awesome, I totally identified with the growing into the confidence as people start treating you differently. I definitely had shaky self-esteem and as I started to get more positive feedback on TikTok, it's like I have grown into that confidence and it's mine now. There's definitely something about the sheer scale and volume of feedback that changes a person. When he talks about feeling the imposter syndrome, boom, I've felt like that. It's honestly been only the last couple of months I feel more sure of me. Just how he describes it, it's not a fake veneer, it's like you finally believe in yourself. Not second guessing myself all the time, not looking at everyone else and wondering, how are they so sure of themselves? How do they KNOW? I was watching The Last Dance on Netflix and it struck me that the basketball players didn't deflect compliments or use the crying/grateful emoji every time someone showed them appreciation. They were themselves. And just got on with things. And this caused me to ask myself, why am I behaving like I'm so unworthy and so surprised to receive any crumb of appreciation, positive feedback. Like I have to get on my hands and knees and say thank you over and over again. It was an aha moment. Awesome interview, thanks so much. So freaking grateful that we live in a time where we can access info like this! Yay!

@JordanHarbingerShow 3 года назад

thanks for watching! Do you listen to The Jordan Harbinger Show (podcast) as well?

@JulieAndersonvideos 3 года назад

@@JordanHarbingerShow I do!

@tuesdayskittens 4 года назад

44:32 Quite possibly the BEST ADVICE EVER!! What an excellent interview, love you both ♥

@JordanHarbingerShow 4 года назад

Thanks! Do you listen to The Jordan Harbinger Show (podcast) as well?

@ammartarakji8553 6 лет назад

I enjoyed listening to this as a podcast so much. It's one of my favorite Impact Theory episodes. Thanks Tom and Jordan for the great interview!

@JordanHarbingerShow 6 лет назад

You're so welcome! Do you listen to The Jordan Harbinger Show as well?

@ammartarakji8553 6 лет назад

THE JORDAN HARBINGER SHOW sure, I do! I used to listen to Art of Charm and now I moved to the new Jordan Harbinger show. Great stuff as always. Keep up the good work!

@GypsyOakRetrievers 6 лет назад

Watched tonight with my wife. Wrote down several great ideas and ready to implement then in my business. Love it!! Thank you

@JordanHarbingerShow 6 лет назад

LMK how those ideas go! More drills from me at advancedhumandynamics.com/levelone if you're up to the challenge!

@sudabehmoein1788 5 лет назад

He is so REAL & HELPFUL!!! Thank u !!!

@JordanHarbingerShow 5 лет назад

thank you! Do you listen to The Jordan Harbinger Show as well?

@axxent2 6 лет назад

Loved the interview; as always you and your guests bring enormous value to the lives of viewers around the world. Thank you both. Specially for giving it your best despite that awful cold, Tom.

@TomBilyeu 6 лет назад

Jordan made it easy for me! He's amazing!

@JordanHarbingerShow 6 лет назад

You're welcome and thanks for listening Jessica! Hope you get a chance to catch The Jordan Harbinger Show as well.

@JordanHarbingerShow 6 лет назад

too kind :)

@jonasbaas 4 года назад

That's a whole lot of greatness in one room. Thank you gentlemen. Right Power.

@RaymondVR1 6 лет назад

Awesome show, guys - thanks. All the way from South Africa! Yep...the penny dropped for sure - provide [Massive] Value first with zero expectations.

@TomBilyeu 6 лет назад

Indeed!

@JordanHarbingerShow 6 лет назад

YES!

@vn1118 4 года назад

This is one of the best talks I've listened too!! Good job guys!

@JordanHarbingerShow 4 года назад

Thanks! Do you listen to The Jordan Harbinger Show (podcast) as well?

@tanyaserna5967 6 лет назад

I needed this today! Thank you Tom and Jordan!

@JordanHarbingerShow 6 лет назад

You got it Ivy!

@Virginia.Rasmijn 6 лет назад

Thanx Tom for having Jordan! Great interview and super informative. Love "Give without no expectations". Its always better to give than receive. Honest connections work best.

@JordanHarbingerShow 6 лет назад

Thanks V! Do you listen to The Jordan Harbinger Show as well?

@Virginia.Rasmijn 6 лет назад

So exciting to get a reply from you! thank you! Well, I didnt know about you before. Just now through Tom's show. So I went directly to your website and now listening to a podcast Deep Dive 22 via PlayerFM hahah ;) subscribed through my iphone podcast app to keep learning on the go. By the way, I really like your recommendations on books on your website. Always looking for great reads. So glad I found you! Keep up the good work!

@JordanHarbingerShow 6 лет назад

welcome to the show!

@RicardoPicena 4 года назад

Second time to watch this, one year about & wow! Great downloads this time

@user-fy6tj8up4x 6 лет назад

I so needed this! One of the best episodes so far! 👏🏼

@JordanHarbingerShow 6 лет назад

Thanks Bonita!

@armandorivera9550 6 лет назад

Tom, I am relatively new to your channel, but i have to say that I can relate to this video tremendously...thank you so much for sharing!

@JordanHarbingerShow 6 лет назад

you're welcome! Glad you dig it!

@korban007 6 лет назад

Thank you so much for this amazing show you have Tom, thank you for Jordon!

@TomBilyeu 6 лет назад

My pleasure!

@javierreyes-valenzuela6641 6 лет назад

This episode is probably the best one! So far.

@JordanHarbingerShow 6 лет назад

high praise! I hope you'll also enjoy The Jordan Harbinger Show if you like this one so much!

@christopherknight7813 6 лет назад

Love the through a doorway tip, will be using this from now on!

@JordanHarbingerShow 6 лет назад

Do it! LMK how it goes. More drills like that at advancedhumandynamics.com/levelone

@christopherknight7813 6 лет назад

Thank you for the reply, I appreciate it, I definitely will I've got a post it note up on my home office door now and I'll have them up throughout the house over the next few days, I'll be checking out the podcast too as it's had several rave recommendations via my Facebook, thank you for the great interview.

@sistasarita 6 лет назад

So good! Thank you for this!!!

@naxvisoo3705 5 лет назад

Woow that was really a nice interview, thanks guys , I learn a new thing from each episode. Keep going frm Somalia

@aLr_boosh 5 лет назад

A good reminder on the power of networking. Took notes on this one for sure! Boosh!

@tyronewallace8520 6 лет назад

Great interview. I am on the search for Jordan's show right now. Thanks!

@JordanHarbingerShow 6 лет назад

Any podcast app has The Jordan Harbinger Show -I'll look forward to counting you as a fan!

@mandylee2898 5 лет назад

LOVE how authentic Jordon Harbinger is. Grateful for this episode.

@JordanHarbingerShow 5 лет назад

Thanks Mandy! Do you also listen to The Jordan Harbinger Show?

@mandylee2898 5 лет назад

I subscribed to your channel once I found you here. Will do!!!

@JordanHarbingerShow 5 лет назад

welcome!

@alliesteamc3546 2 года назад

America’s military industrial establish can learn frim Tom Bilyeu’s Impact Theory and Jordan Harbinger show in their generosity and fearless/not competitive creative and collaborative Spirit!