I love this video! The empathy you show goes such a long way. I'm constantly reminding myself of that. Reminding myself that if you want to show your full and true loving self then you must empathize with your lover, not constantly be on the defense. Wish I truly understood that before she dumped me lol
Yeah, I agree, whoever is here watching all these videos are going through hard time, cheating, dump, and all, so we have experience and we can be good couples if choose from here!
Going through a breakup, your videos give me comfort and hope during this difficult time. If only I would've not given this person a chance after the first red flag. I'm trying to keep myself sane and say positive affirmations.
Your channel is a life line. Currently going through a breakup and just listening to your videos give so much hope and comfort. Thanks Coach Craig and Margaret 😇😊
This is so true, putting it as a lifeline is like the most perfect way to describe the comfort these videos have brought me as I’ve been trying to go through my breakup
Craig spoke a lot about over-posting on social media. I agree that over-posting is bad but I think he missed the point a little bit. I don't think the danger is that your ex will think you've got so much going on that you don't care. I think the real danger is that they'll think you're trying too hard to look busy. If you suddenly are posting way more than you were before, it would look to your ex as though you're trying to get their attention and impress him/her. That's just as bad if not worse than breaking NC.
After 4 months of no contact I am finally feeling better guys. 3 years, lived together, step kids, and we were engaged. I won't reach out if it means to death, I was dumped and she has relapsed on drugs and hooking up with guy 30 years older with money. Best of luck, at this point it's best to move on of I haven't heard 1 word!
My ex fiancé and I were in a LDR and I haven’t seen her since October 2019. Never did I think seeing her leave would be the last time I ever saw her.. 😞
Same , I left Italy in March , he said think of me when u look at the ring have faith on us ,5 months later he broke up with me 👀👀 I cannot see him because the border control he is Italian and I’m chinese we are long distance due to the covid , I’m in NC 11 days after 2 months broke up 😂😂 Any updates from u ?
Gao Ang we were together for 3 years and I was planning to move to her this year until COVID happened. I’m in the US and she in Germany. She broke up with me in late august and I gave her about a month of NC until I found out she’s now dating a new guy. That was September 29th. I blew up. She’s now blocked me on everything and I’m back in NC. I’m really hurting right now.
Adrian Ross wish the same luck for us , he didn’t date anyone but he said he is afraid to marry and when he was with me it’s working like drugs , he loves me but my love blinded him ,and he doesn’t know when will us meet , it’s impossible blah blahhh .. he didn’t delete me but I unfriend him on Instagram we only hold connection via wechat ,it’s hurt as hell , I’m like addicted on RU-vid video these days ,🤯
Dude, I swear to God.... You're a wizard. She said that about focusing on herself and I only hear how she is still fueling her anger on little things and envy from one woman to another. Almost a month in our breakup and she is still fighting on social media with some other people. Making allusion to people imitating her and stuff like that. Whilst I'm doing kickboxing, back to drawing, feeling positive everyday and growing as a person, got a tattoo, new clothes, hung out and go on karaoke nights every friday, plus I got a new tattoo!!! In just 3 weeks and this is getting better and better Craig. I've met a whole bunch of people and I'm having amazing life experiences. She is just choosing poor self-management. Took me out of her life and she is still in ruins.
You’re a good guy, Craig. I wish there had been social media when I was dumped 40 years ago. I did all the wrong things, although my partner had already moved on to a new guy 6 months beforehand. Still suffering the trauma.
I am on the receiving end of a bad break up at the moment. I so wish my ex would be upset at the prospect of losing me. My ex fiancé of near 4 years went incommunicado for 9 weeks (after texting me he had gone back to his soon to be ex wife) which left me absolutely distraught, only to come back stating that, he only said that to avoid an argument. He now no longer wishes to get married and would like to have a friends with benefits situation instead, as he doesn’t want the expectations that come with engagement or marriage. The whole thing is very upsetting and I feel torn to cut him off as I have been with him for 12 years on and off and he says he loves me and will love me for the rest of his life (which is the only reason I have seriously tried to resolve things).
*THIS* is the one! *THIS* is my keeper! *THIS* is the video that I will watch over and over. Coach, do you really think this is true? I've been having a rough few days, after just short of six months apart. He's in a rebound (three months or so), which I keep watching for signs that it's falling apart, but I'm not seeing any. I really miss him. I doubt his thoughts are on me, they are probably all on the new one. Lately I have been fighting with, if he does come back, will I be able to get past thinking about him sleeping with someone else and just nonchalantly going into a new relationship, while I feel absolutely broken. Maybe you could do a video on that topic? Thank you so much for this one 💜
I think it depends on whether you are serious about taking him back he could come looking for you even months down the line try not to think about not forgiving just try and believe in him returning to your arms stay focused on that (that's what I'm trying to do)
My personal growth is a investment to a better life for me. The work will never stop for me. The more I work on myself the better me I will become! Than you Craig and Margaret!
Thank you !!! I needed to hear this. It's been 159 days NC buy who's counting. This was an important message for me. We were close 3 years and lived together. I went NC day 1 peacefully, respectively, with dignity. WE have not spoken since New years Eve together. She wanted the break up. I told her I felt we were better together than apart. I respected her decision and was gone jan 1st before she got home from work that day. I was gone. I guess we will see. She is in law enforcement, which will tell you. She deals with comply or consequences, not compromise ! She is avoidant, no surprise there, which is why I believe she won't reach out. Cheers
Coach Craig, your videos along with Coach Margarette and Coach Victoria have helped me so much in healing. We haven't met, but you three are now part of my life and my family!! Come to the Bay Area, CA, you call can stay at my place!
Don’t over post on social media. In fact just don’t post on it at all. When the breakup happened I started posting a lot of pictures and stories of cool places I was going to just to share with my friends and family. She watched every single one of them all the time until one day she just blocked me. Be careful
I enjoy watching your videos. Im at 1 month of no contact and now the pain of breakup is not that much. She is in rebound but does not kill me now. Nc is great
hey Coach, not sure if you remember me, but wanted to say thank you for your videos. i come to your page from time to time to listen on previous videos, AGAIN!!! In our session, you told me to move on, and to leave the person I was talking. i ended up doing toe complete opposite, stay for little longer hoping for things to get better, it didn't. here i am again, back to point 1. this time, I will stay committed. thank you for your work. Mynor
What if nothing was wrong, that you knew of? My Husband walked out on me, and our 8yo child. He has moved in with another woman. Pretends we don't exist. He has not saw our child in 7 months. Messaged me a couple weeks ago that he missed his old life with me, and our child. 10 years! Ten, of my life, wasted!
I thought we weren't supposed to have any contact with them? Don't be friends with them, not saying ignore them if they reach out, but no contact what so ever? I'm kinda confused?
My ex doesn't use any social media, we live now in diff states as I left when we broke up so, no stalking on either part, We're really apart. The problem with us working on ourselves and them not, if we get back with them, they will be unhealthy so, won't work anyway. Unless, they were a secure person and you were the problem.
My ex and I started talking on New Years, not every day but I let her contact me , after a month I offered to go out and she said no thanks, not feeling it , I don’t understand what’s she wants from me
Thank you Coach Craig.. my bf recently broke up with me in a text a few days ago after an argument we had. He hung up and texted me he has no time for our relationship .. I’m devastated but I have e accepted it. He has been asking for his things but has not come to pick them up. Why is he lagging?
I think one point Craig brings up that's very important is understanding relationship dynamics, not just with your ex, but in general. I feel much more competent in all relationship dynamics, not just dating. im a bit of an introvert/loaner that lacks some social skills, imo, and these videos help with those things. thanks! much love to everyone!
I have a question I was wondering about. I haven’t seen a video about it but maybe they work all the same. I got dumped because of not enough time. My ex said she had to break up with me because she hasnt got any time due to her work (lawyer) and maintaining her stable (horse owner). Now I know if she likes me she should just make time but I just said I respect your decision and gave her a hug and we went our separate ways. I have gone No Contact ever since but Im curious if she will reach out? Im not sad anymore about it but God do I miss her. Spectacular woman!
I need help. I really need help Sir. I have these suicidal thoughts everytime I think of her I feel like I did her wrong. I bought her so many things but she never seemed to like them I really need help my thoughts hunts me
Please don’t hurt yourself. You are feeling empty right now. It’s so hard to understand why someone you cared so deeply about could just walk away and not appreciate all you did for them. . I understand the grief you are going through. I’m in the same situation right now. I did everything I could for him. We got along great and one day we were making plans for a day trip and the next day he didn’t want to see me anymore. I have no clue why. It hurts above believe, trust me I know.
Please dont think thiss way. Every person on this planet has had their heartbroken in one way or another. It does get better and it does get easier. Do something meaningful for yourself wether its learn a new instrument or start a new sport.. do something to feel value within yourself. Make yourself happy. It does get better
Listen my friend you need to live through this very painful experience I know, like most on these sites everything that you are feeling regret loss sadness devastation heart break love hate you name it and we have all felt it but we are all here to give you support during your hours of need please don't do anything daft you need to stick around to find out what happens because whether it's her coming back to you and there is a good possibility (sorry not while you are like this though) or someone else please remember this : we all deserve to be happy! and that's how this will end for you if you hold on please this is your life and you need to stay ok
What if when you see your ex for like 5hours and kisses you and tells you that she loves you and cant keep hands off of each other but soon as your apart its like were a plauge or something so what to do about that
Hi coach Graig, I broke up with my ex about four months ago due to me finding condoms in his jacket. Long story short he is in a rebound but often text me and pops by my place early in the morning...I don’t know how to handle all of this, can you make a video on dumper not wanting to do a circle all over again.
If your ex walked out on you and started cheating with someone else and you thought it was over but now they call you every now and then that when you try to return their calls most of the time they don’t pick up what does this mean
is there hope? please advise. theres no platform to be connecting since he doesn't follow me on any social media and neither did he block me on anything. it has been six months of no contact and I only broke it on new year when I wished him happy new year which he only gave a dead end reply and reciprocate the greetings. that is all. this is an ldr. is there any chance.... idk if we can ever get back. please. I have only been working on myself during the six months and did not behave in a way where I feel I need him anymore. but I haven't stop wanting him in my life. does he not want to chase anymore...
So my ex broke up with me a month ago. Due to distance. Our busy lives and him losing his butterfly feelings. Idiot me, I sent him a message and he left me on read and didn’t reply. I’ve been in no contact for 3 weeks now. However, my ex watches my Snapchat stories and still has me on all social media. Do you think my chances with getting back with him are high?
I think i must be the only person that doesnt look on their social media. I know it would just hurt...and hurt my progress. Curious? Of course! But i honestly do NOT want any confirmation of my fears.
I do get that but your fears are heightened at the moment I think it is difficult to even think straight at the moment and your ex could return stay hopeful
Less is more. Totally agree on not posting everything or it will be obvious you’re trying too hard to make your ex jealous. Remaining mysterious and not posting will make your ex miss you more if you just disappear.
💓 I was talking to a lady today whose partner left her after 5 years only to return 18 months later they have been togethe ever since and recently celebrated their 27th anniversary so it can happen 💓
That's so relieving hear when each day seems like passing through death.... It's so painful can't express in words of losing a relationship in which we had so much hope in....
If they dump you without reason they dating somebody else behind your back! Let them go. Work on your self. And kiss their ass good bye. Move on! That wasn’t meant to be.
A reason doesnt always mean its theyr real reason either. Experienced it several times that they were actually looking for excuses , some reasons were such a bad lie ,nobody would believe that BS. So... the reason may not always be the real reason.
It would i beleave to move on if we new there were with some one else so hard in long distance we have brocken up 6 times in 4 years i woukd never go back if i new
Steven Nguyen me too it’s a fucking shame. We were great together Been dating a beautiful lady who’s three years out of a divorce with an expert gaslighter/narcissistic First 6 months have been fantastic, full of joy, great intimacy ( she’s a therapist) We have great time together surf together work in the garden, talk n laugh and have fantastic sex, she’ll shed a tear in those intimate moments and tell me she’s glad I don’t run and her heart is open to me. Then 3 weeks ago she starts withdrawing, I feel this, so we talk. She has list of things that she say causes her not to feel trust for me. Example. I say I adore her ( I do) When she shares a painful moment, I will listen, be present, then perhaps say I’ve shared a similar experience and I know how tough that can be. I am a good listener. Then she say “ there you go again, making everything about you..u say u love me then always talk about yourself.. your words and actions are incongruent, yesterday you didn’t offer to carry the heavy bag, if you loved me you would, incongruent!!! It erodes my trust, that’s why I’ve withdrawn.. “ I suggested she told me she feels safe with me so bring up matters as they happen don’t hold them inside to smoulder for days and withdraw let’s talk it out, we are great at that” She said I’m not sure how much of this is me and I don’t want to come off as a picky bitch. I said Bringing up matters will show me you value us and want to create intimacy and fix issues... it’s how we can deal with things. It’s exhausting suddenly, I really do care about her. Now I’m overthinking. That was yesterday... let her come to me? I sent a text yesterday asking about day and that I miss her presence and touch. She replied re her day but didn’t acknowledge the personal stuff. I think she has trust issues. She’s in a battle with ex who’s telling the kids she’s a bad mother. Battle to be best parents. Lot on her plate. I asked if she needs space she said I’ve had enough space from u. She said she’s trying to figure out how much of this is her stuff. And if it’s us or the ex problems that’s getting in our way. How do I handle support her. Help. She tried to break up with me. I suggested a week break to reflect. She agreed. What do I do know? Thoughts Be honest people Richard BYRON bay Australia Xxx
@@wategoslife8371 bro she had communication issues, she can't fully vent to u how she's feeling as an issue arise, ik everyone is different. And issue may arise and a person want to reflect on it before they address but ofc they can't wait too long for that and trust me I do understand been in a similar situation where that kind of communication is concern. It's frustrating when u both agree to b upfront and honest with these things and yet the other person has battled up emotion inside. She sounds like an Avoidant they tend to do these stuff. And your doing a great job by listening and I'm seeing a little distorting of reality from her. Where u r listening and trying to connect with her through your similar experience in comparison to hers and she's saying u are bringing the attention to u or someone of that nature; point is I think that's bizarre and it makes me wonder what could cause this communication issue a mean what was her childhood like? Her attachment to her primary care takers etc. I believe all this is playing a role if it's unhealthy plus I think the issue with her ex husband is stressing her and it's not fair to u that it's affecting the relationship negatively especially when u r being understanding and trying to help, if she needs space tell her u love and care about her and that to contact u when she's ready n leave her alone.
Ash Mo thank you. It has been such a hard month. I was in a year long, long distance relationship. We had an amazing relationship- we were always laughing and always communicating and never fought. As things got more serious (we saw each other for at least a week or two a month - we would take turns traveling to each other. My family loved him, and his loved me. His son had just started calling me Mom - his mom isn’t in the picture at all.) we decided we didn’t want to be apart anymore. Due to some family issues (he takes care of his ill mom), there was no way he could move here... so, despite how much I loved my job (I’m a teacher) I gave everything up to be with him and start our lives together. Fast forward - two weeks before I’m supposed to move (not to mention my parents/my biggest support system, were out of state for a few weeks which he knew)... I’m getting ready for a normal night - we would spend every night together doing something, whether it was watching our favorite shows or playing games or whatever - and he sends me a long TEXT breaking up with me. He tells me he doesn’t think I should move, in fact we need to break up. In short, he felt complacent and just “wasn’t feeling it” anymore. He said his romantic feelings were gone and he felt like I was more of a best friend. I called him - our talk was about five minutes of me just being shocked and him saying sorry. It felt like my worst fear, that he would get bored of me, came true. I couldn’t and still can’t believe it. It’s been a month now and I’m going strong with no contact and slowly trying to work on myself, but I still feel so crushed. The life I was about to have got ripped away, and I’m left jobless, in a house full of packed boxes. The worst part is just how much I miss him and his son. I miss my family. But thanks to Craig’s videos I feel like I’m aware now of my anxious attachment style due to my past, and I feel my ex was terrified of the commitment- of the reality that I was really moving across country for him in a matter of days. He most likely felt trapped. And in his family, where they all ignore their problems, it was easier for him to just end it. Hopefully in time he will realize that we were and still can be an amazing, happy couple and family... but with or without him, I need to find my happiness.
smollybellies wishing for the best for you. Sounds like a real shitty situation. These videos help me but sometimes I feel like this is becoming my new addiction. It’s hard now for me to turn away from breakup videos.
Don’t regret your emotions, begging or breaking no contact, it’s completely normal and to be expected. I suggest going no contact for good after trying. They say, those who care for you, will hear your silence. It’s so true. My ex contacted me after 4-6 months, her emotions were neglected as soon as we broke up, she needed to experience life without me, and realised my value, so she never faced reality. As we the dumpee, only grow stronger every day, week and month. They become weaker.
This is a long distance relationship X 3 years . Been apart for a year but only broke six months ago. I've been working on myself n still in no contact. Has he given up and no longer interested since covid is still around. I felt better after six months n confident so u sent a happy new years greeting. He replied in kindness signing off 'all the best'. he no longer follows me on Insta nothing. that doesn't sound weak to me or any signs that he wants this again.
Remember, YOU attract... Don't chase. Let them experience the time and space without your presence. If they are not a sociopath and are actually a human being with emotions, THEY WILL REACH OUT TO YOU EVENTUALLY! Be strong and focus on personal growth!
They walked away and then I walked away. They came back but I don't care nearly as much anymore I've grown so much as a person I don't have the same extreme desire to be with him anymore. Actually, I can see myself maybe dating a new amazing man in the future 🤗
Damn throughout the course of a day I'm a range of emotions. Sometimes I'm like "oh I miss her so much" then 20 minutes later I'm like "I got this, I'm way better than her". She blocked me off everything and left me for another guy, so I know she'll never come back. But I just love her even if she hates me..
But I know it's stupid to love someone who cheated and left. I know she'll never talk to me again. But it's ok, I'll go no contact and get over her. I pray karma will come back to bite her.
Mine did the same. Told me she love another guy, she regret dating me, she swear to call for if I contact her, dare to tell her parents. And even say she will definently cheat on me if she is with me. Blocked me too so pretty sure my ex is with someone as much as I hate to think about it.
I can attest to personal growth. Almost a year on from my breakup and I'm alot bigger in terms of muscle. I've lifted for a year straight and it's great. Plus I'm joining the British army next month. See it works So thank you ex.... Losing her Made me find myself again. Me losing her made me love myself again. But I still love her but i dont want her back. I've outgrown her so much. 😅😅😅
Coach Craig, this video is exactly what my ex admitted this last week when she came by to pick up a few things that she left behind. She said that she has struggled “a lot” with the break up even though it was her idea to do it. After hearing her admit that it made it easier for me to be able to move on (it has been 2 months since the breakup ) because one of the hardest things for me to understand is how she could just be gone from my life after being so relevant in it for 20 months. I appreciate you and Coach Margaret. Your wisdom has helped me tremendously.
Lonely Guy me too. I pleaded and texted her incessantly for a month just to show how much I cared and loved her. She broke up saying that I don’t love her. She never tried to ask what’s going on in my life before dumping. When I chased her, she did exactly as these guys say, that is, frustrated and annoyed her in the process. I couldn’t take it anymore and went into NC for my own well being. Everyday was torturous when she didn’t read or reply my texts. Only God can pull me out of this tribulation. You stay strong, coz I believe one day the tables will turn. Like they say, everyday can’t be Sunday 😊
Lonely Guy I hear you bro. I’m in NC for over a month now. During my begging and pleading, she really got annoyed and she turned her face sour when she saw me. That sight of her face I couldn’t take anymore and I decided that I will not bother her for some time until, hopefully, time heals her attitude towards me. The only problem is, she lives 2 hours drive from my place, and there is no other way to track her moves unless I see her at train station when she goes to work. I feel terrible to go and chase her like that. I also feel the same way as you are feeling right now. Hopelessness, fear, anger, etc. I try to forget and try occupy myself into different things hoping to forget about her. But you can’t shut the thoughts out of your mind. It’s a vicious cycle. Sometimes I feel ok and sometimes it comes back out of nowhere. I’m not even sure what lies ahead. But I have faith in God that keeps me in check all the time. Else I would’ve been broken down completely. BTW, as I had promised you that I will pray for you and relationship; I did put you in my prayers this morning. And I believe that God will surely hear my prayer for you.
Lonely Guy I feel your pain bro, as I’m going through the same. I myself cried during this time so much that I must have never cried since the day I was born. Hopefully, one day I look back on my moments and think why? And hopefully you too. Days are also hard for me. I stopped going out, esp places where you see couple together, hand in hand, such as malls etc. coz they remind me of my time with her; and that sight is torturous to look at. That’s the reason why I stopped going out much apart from work and the gym. What I have realized is, when I’m sitting all by myself, those thoughts about her haunt me and gets me crushed. That’s y I keep myself occupied most of the time, and that way it’s good. Sometimes I wonder how some people can be so callous and merciless. If I think deeply about our breakup, I believe that she is half responsible for it. But I never argued with her about that, as that would infuriate her. I accepted all of the faults as my own. So you also do not argue with her, but humbly accept them as your fault. Eventually humility will triumph and bring her to senses. I can imagine how much you must have cried, and how many tears you must have shed. Trust me bro, all of those shed tears will never go to waste, as they are accumulated for your ultimate joy one day. I see your pain in those comments, and if I could be of any help for you apart from prayers, please let me know.
My ex was an avoidant. I was very patient with him, and defended some of his actions when friends were wondering why I stuck with him. I loved him with every fiber of my being, and worked hard at understanding him, being patient with him, and being empathetic. He wasn't a bad guy, just brought up differently than my friends and me. I defended him then, and I still defend him today.
This channel is so therapeutic. Craig and Margaret need to win an award or something. But also, can you guys do a video on forgiving someone that hurt you? Anger has set in and I don't like it but its so hard to let it go.
She doesn't have any feelings for me anymore after been together for 4 years.....4 good years. But she thinks future might lead us to be together. I'm not a back up plan or a second choice. Gonna move on.... it's been month since break up
I'm going to say it again... thank God for your video's. About three weeks ago I had to go through a breakup with a highschool crush. We reunited after 22 years but due to circumstances it only lasted about 7 weeks. I'm devastated because I REALLY love this girl. I've never thought about someone being "The One", but she was it. Listening to you and Margaret soothes the pain, and at the same time provides such valuable insight.
I broke up with him. I loved him. I still love him. I am heartbroken. But he lied all the time, seemed narcissistic, threatened me and was insecure. He also took me for granted.... though I did it, I'm still grieving...what about a video for the people that do the breaking up?
No,do not try talking to him.He knows what he did to you.I strongly believe that some people leave u with no choice but to break up with them that is just as good as them breaking up with you.Know your worth and understand that if you reach out to him he will never change.let him realize for himself what he did and decide for himself that he wants to make a change and that he wants u in his life.I know it's hard but it will get better
There is a video by him that describes when a relationship is not worth saving...basically, it's not worth saving if he has an addiction or mental illness or is abusive.
Craig, can you do a video on when YOU do the breaking up because you feel disrespected and devalued and go no contact...hoping that your ex will reach out when they realize what they lost.
Petros Giorgallis this whole channel is basically about us being dumped and trying to avoid reaching out by going no contact, so there’s a chance they could. Especially when the only reason I broke up with him was because he said he loved me, but he started treating me like crap...so if he actually means what he said than I’m hoping no contact will make him appreciate what he had when it’s not there anymore and clean up his act. Unless of course it was all lovebombing and he’s a narcissist.
matrixband12 thankyou for understanding. Well I guess we are at an impasse then because if I were to reach out and try to reconcile it’s basically telling him that I accept him treating me like crap, so it will feed into his ego. I’ll just cut my losses and accept that he went from being this amazing man, to a totally different person. I’m not just going to accept his breadcrumbing anymore.
matrixband12 I did that before. This is the third time now that we have broken up. The first 2 times he broke up with me but always came back saying he was sorry and things would be as they used to be for a couple of days. This time I had the exact discussion that you are suggesting with him, but it’s almost like he wasn’t listening and was just waiting me to finish what I was saying so that he could turn it around and try to gaslight me with it. I got so frustrated I told him that if he’s not willing to try and even to listen to how I’m feeling than I’m walking. Which is exactly what I did. Now I’m in 3 weeks no contact, and other than an angry text he sent me on Thursday night at 11:30 pm, I haven’t heart from him since.
I don’t think I should reattract my x as he’s way too young for me😢😢😭😭😭😫😫😫😬😬😬I wish I could warn women to not go there with younger men they are users!!!!!!!At least he got what he needed from me! But I got used
Ive been in no contact for 2 weeks now.. i feel like she's gone for good. Im trying so fucking hard to not think about her but what makes it impossible is bc i help raised her daughter and she wont let me say goodbye
Are any of these videos or advise directed for those of us that were in a 30 year marriage.? And have kids and grandkids, where we have to see each other?
It’s hard to believe that they miss you once they are with somebody else, they will reach out to you when things don’t work out with the new person or during a fight but that doesn’t mean they miss you or they want you back, it means you’re their plan B
Yo I been broken up for almost three months and this video helped me a lot I’ve finally gotten over the hump of letting my mind beer towards negativity and untrue things and now I feel happy again
The best thing about watching these is taking this knowledge isn't just about knowing and improving, but helping others with the same advice, and even showing you to them. It's eye-opening really!
Very powerful video Coach Craig - I love it 😍 Your advice regarding working on yourself and committing to personal growth is a truly life changing experience. I am working with 4 teen girls in trauma recovery who are all having severe relationship difficulties due to their attachment injuries. We watch all of yours and Margaret’s videos and discuss the theories. It is making a huge huge huge difference to their future outlook as emotionally healthy young women and their personal recoveries. Thank you 😊 Have a super day Xx
Am I the only person that doesn’t look at her social media? This is my ex wife and we weren’t ever connected. She didn’t show any empathy at all. I even said before that we should show each other a little empathy, but that wasn’t even acknowledged. She said she wanted us to be only friends, but I told her several times I wasn’t interested in being just friends. She said that’s all she had to offer and goodbye. I’m freaking out!!!!
If and when that loser dances back in my life I will introduce him to my new boyfriend. I wish you all healthy loving relationships. Remember a breakup can be a blessing too.. you had a life before them right? Hang in there!
Day 3 of no contact, feeling better in myself after a few issues in myself, not expecting her to reach out but I don’t really care now, i know im better than her in so many aspects anyways, keep yourself positive in tough times, things do get a lot easier!!
Am I the only one who doesn't do the social media stalking thing? If they haven't blocked me, I always block them so I don't have to deal with the stress of seeing them pop up (possibly with someone else in the picture...)
My heart breaks when I see even just a picture of a landscape taken by him. It makes me miss him and all kinds of anxious thoughts full my mind. It just feels so bad, so I follow that instinct and stop hurting myself. I don’t look.
I am the dumper but I’m hurting and trying to do the work. I ended things bc he wasn’t ready for a commitment even though we had been dating for 10 months. I’m heartbroken but I value myself and needed to walk away since he just always kept me in limbo. It was very hurtful and painful so I needed to do what was best for me and chose to end things. I feel abandoned and sad but I’ve left him alone for good.
this was a great video. about 2.5 weeks out of my breakup - and yeah lots of this makes sense. Been watching your videos to help get me through the roughest parts of it but liked it so much been watching more of them. Took your advice and doing the no contact and more importantly the self work on my issues. Thanks dude
So if I broke up with her and regretted it 3 weeks later only to find out she didn’t want to try again, and blamed her anxious attachment style on me even though she suffered severe childhood trauma, and is now seeing an ex from long ago that they haven’t even talked for 5 years. Then what? We dated for 4.5 years, I’m 27 she’s 24 now. She blocked me everywhere and told me not to fight for her. Tricky
I think she is just angry and blocking you is both childish and won't solve anything I know because my partner has done the same I think you should still try no contact and try and stay away from social media until the dust settles and there's nothing to say that within time you two may be able to dissolve your differences
I have been going through hell since our breakup. I miss my ex so much. Her cousins are my best friends and her brother works for me. So it's hard to not think of her.
I know there is a women out there that could want me as much as I could want her. I probably won't ever meet her. Maybe she is sitting on a small unknown island in the pacific, nobody knows. But I am pretty sure there must be a person out there that fits to me. However, I am starting to question that I will ever meet that person. Desperate, I know.
