A FATHER!!!! A leader!!! That’s what I’m talking about. He got his son together and he didn’t call him out if his name or curse him. He just simply demanded respect. He didn’t disrespect his son, even though he felt disrespected. He school him and reminded him who the man of the house is.
You can tell he respects his dad!! He humbled himself so quick! And see Karen didn't interrupt. That's a lesson for ladies when the father is correcting the child
@@lincas8976 No it's called learning from other people who have been on this earth longer with more experience. Many women have a bad habit of interrupting the father when he's disciplining the child. Not hurting the child but disciplining then complain if the dad does not get involved at all. Being a "follower" is not the same as learning from older and wiser people. I think you're smart enough to know that.
Lin Cas We can be backwards in our society. Because we have not many fathers, many sons are out of control, have no discipline, and no good reference point. You can have different parenting styles but some of the styles we are trying to incorporate so we can be different from other parents ain’t working. You gotta have a wise person you can go to for help from Time to time
@@yob4971 I understand not it doesn't matter how hard you are with your kids, they still do what they want regardless. I'm sure he taught him about sex without marriage and now he has 2 kids lol. Ijs I that j drew had his own mind, shot Kierra did too she speaks and it all the time.
Bishop he will not trie do again by say n what he said that was a slip of the tongue he seen how far that will go nowhere we know who's in control i know he was sorry for that mistake i know he respect u more then that he didnt mean it that way i believe him but he let that slip out for real bishop i know he apologize I know you will forgive him bless his heart he don't respect you Bishop don't feel bad that he did that in the front of you we know you in control everything of your home and family God bless you
I'm just trying to see who added "lie or liar" to the list of "cuss" words. Don't act like I'm the only one who had to say, "telling a story or fib" ...tuh.
Yeah, to an adult calling them a lie or simply saying the word in reference to them was highly disrespectful and punishment worthy if you were a child. So much so, I still catch myself if we're having a "dispute"
Jean-Paul Charlot I agree. Sometimes I wish I was a pastors kid. But instead, I ended up a daughter of a Rolling Stone. Well, he’s not a Rolling Stone anymore thank God.
This was my favorite clip of the show... When Bishop said when you start cussing and cut those cameras off I was through😄😄 Bishop was ready to lay hands😅
Yep, u see j drew Jr tone his voice down when talking to his dad but he kept talking when he was talking back to his mom on one episode I seen. Bishop was about to lay hands and go oops upside his head which is why he told him cut them cameras
I don’t say hell, damn, or nothing else around my parents. There’s a respect level that should be established at a very young age so that a child doesn’t even feel comfortable cursing around their parent(s).
This show was everything! I miss them being on but I understand that some people just don’t understand their family dynamic. They are called to lead but they are still human! I love the Sheards and appreciate their transparency ❤️❤️❤️
Cindy Howard FACTS, and I’m a millennial so it has nothing to do with generations it’s just parenting raising children to have respect and likewise having parents display the same towards the child.
Poor thing; these young people don’t “pay attention” when the shift happened to shut up! Apologize and shut up; he just kept talking that’s why the bishop had to handle him. Bishop saw “pride” and a “so what” “not a big deal” “you extra” taking over in the son. Definitely check his behind! I’m in agreement!
I like that Daddy. Handle it early. That's love believe it or not. He loves his son but not to the point of disrespect. That's a Christian home and that doesn't sound good with him talking like that to his parents.
Bishop had every right to check his son. His home is a house of prayer, and there will be no profanity used in it! I was raised like that, old school teaching stood for, "RESPECT!" I'm sure son will never flip the scrip again🤐👍🏽
SEE, J Drew should have just shut up when his daddy told him to stop talking if he didnt know what to say.....cuz see the Bishop was trying to be slow to anger!!!!
I know the rest of that night was NOT a good one for J Children get older and when they are passionate about things they sometimes FORGET we are STILL the parents. He learned that night.
Drew is a grown man with children, he had the right to speak his truth also. He reduced Drew not cool. And paying attention, Drew was saying indirectly, as a man I have something to say. His father was very dismissive and hurtful.
@@largessbeauty1159 I dont think anybody has or had a problem (including his dad) w/him speaking his TRUTH, but I think the problem was the Language he used, that's what his dad didnt appreciate & probably felt disrespected by his son....that's when the whole thing went left!!!
Dad did the right thing, setting the tone, keeping the standards for the son for the good. Parents needs to be more like that, its bitter sweet for moment but will be appreciated later. Another learning curb for him to become a better man.
Thank you Bishop. I am 55 years old and cannot say 'lie' in front of my mother. I respect that and her. Words carry a message. Make sure you are sending the right message.
*sigh* I did this in my 20s too, and my parents responded the same way. In retrospect, I’m glad it happened. Ephesians 4:29 says it perfectly, we gotta minister grace.
I don't even know that much about this family but Bishop I got the most respect for. We need a lot more black man like him to stand up in our household and help us with our children!! I commend him 💯💯
Amen. My father was the exact same way. He would always say, “I’m not one of your little friends; I’m your father!”. Basically telling me and my siblings to put some respect on it!
I get where J. Drew is coming from. His tone and his voice began to raise and he get heated/upset. I respect that Bishops is FATHER first and he have lead by example. He has teach his son how to give and earn respect 🙌
He’s kinda hard headed and didn’t take feedback well. He had major people in the industry tell him that he needed to upgrade is sound and he just threw fits the whole season.
Now THAT'S A FATHER! If every father were like that today, many of our black youths wouldn't have lost their lives, all because they had no male figure in their lives to guide and to discipline them. Instead they end up in bad company. Well done Daddy (Bishop) Sheard
I'm 51 and I can't even say the word Lie in front of my old school Pentecostal Mother. She says the same thing. " Stop cussing in my holy house" I have to say" She told a story" lol
I remember meeting Bishop JDrew yrs ago at 2005 AIM convention in KC and at the time he was just a Superintendent. I was really young & was planning my 1st Men's conference at my church & I wanted Bishop Sheard to be a speaker. I approached him & I wasn't sure how he was going to respond but he was so humble & confident at the same time. His presence & aura was that of a real Father with a lot of wisdom & you have no choice but to humble yourself in his presence.
I really miss this show.... I noticed that a lot of the Christians shows don’t last too many seasons... His Father went in!!! He said since when did u start 🤬 .... he was so upset his son talked that way in front of him and his wife ... he knew he messed up..... Shoot I can’t front when he said that I was scared 😱
I mean come on... his daddy is the bishop, he knew better than to use that word (especially with the cameras recording). Number II walked right into that one, thought he could get away with it and move on. Nope. The Bishop jumped right out of ‘Dad’ and the women knew not to get involved with the correction. Praise God. Lol.
You could tell he was raised right cause when his daddy stood up his whole face changed. Mama said nothing and led her husband be her husband. Lastly, can we say how handsome and attractive Keke brother is.
Daddy right though. The song can be trash but if a certain person name on it then that's what the industry will market because so and so is established in the industry. Bishop said now wait a minute when you start cussing in front of me. I'm shutting all the 😡 down
The Sheard gene is strong. I have seen the picture of Bishop J Drew Grandfather who was a pastor, then his father Bishop J H Sheard now look J Drew and his son. They all look like each other.
Yeaaaaa I like Bishop! Karen sitting over there all quiet!! 🤣 I love him ! That’s exactly how a father is supposed to run his home! Got to have some strength on ya ! 🙏🏽❤️
Well, a lot of the fans loved Trumpets Blow. Kierra didn't so she didn't use it; wasn't even on the album. She just chose 2nd Win as the single. I honestly think it would've done well if she let it.
As a millennial, I agree with his father. Cursing has become so common in our culture to the point where anyone can say the "b" word on tv, and the other profane words are barely blocked out so you have no choice but to finish the curse word in your head. The perversity of our culture is the reason why I do not own a television. I don't like cursing, yet, it is hard to avoid even browsing through the internet, watching videos, and reading comments. It is nice to see that his father is not allowing the camera and view ship to be an excuse for his son to behave in this manner. Another thing to consider is the people who film feed off drama. It's what they want to see. Believers who are being filmed have to stay prayed up so their carnal natures do not take over--hence giving the film crew what they want: drama. In the case of the argument, I think both of them have a point. Today, a hit is a hit.People's response to the song takes precedent over who produced it. On the other hand, her father is right. Getting a good producer on the song increases her chances of success and recognition. I did find it a bit odd that she is experiencing the same challenges as those who sing worldly songs. If she is led by the Holy Spirit to write a song, she should not be concerned with view-ship nor whether or not the producer is well recognized because God will do the rest of the work. A lot of Spirit filled songs do not have big-name producers attached to them. She is already well-known in the gospel community. Producers should be wanting her name on their song, not the other way around. I'm sure if she goes deeper in the Lord, she will find the answer.
Dad said what was needed and son humble his speech respect all day is in order because he was raised right we all have to remember are Dad and give him respect 💯🙏
Its not “knowing their place” they not fuckin dogs. But when dads going off usually everyone else is quit. He was reprimanding their son if she didnt agree she would have said something. Smh you obviously dont know of her well
Himay Hambles baby when men are speaking woman stay out of it, that’s “their place” what she disagrees with her husband with they speak about later not in front of the kids what type of parenting you have and baby I know everything about the clarks and sheards don’t try it
Praise God for family standards 🙏! JDrew will remember this and be grateful for his father's u compromised expectations. We only have high expectations for those that we hold in high esteem. ♥️
Karen is right about artists not loving every song they get. Toni Braxton didn't like "Unbreak My Heart" (neither did I by the way). But when she saw that it went number one pretty much worldwide she was very happy.
Hell is a bad word! Well how I was brought up we could not say hell, damn, shoot, shut up, whatever, and the one word that I still don’t get but got beat up for saying... BORED 😂
All this cleaning and "lesson getting/school work/reading/studying" that can be done, you don't have TIME to be BORED ... was my mama's words lol. "Bored?! Go get your lesson!"