Bonnie K do you see that it’s not about the silent treatment. She gives the devil sign. Which phycological is not of God. Turn to scripture. We are far away from the most High.
The silent treatment is childish, someone who is emotionally immature will use it. If you cant Express yourself in a relationship with another person, why are you in it? If someone is giving you the treatment, its a red flag.
I'm getting the silent treatment (ghosted) by a so called friend..I think its cowardly..and avoidance. Just end it and dont leave the other person hanging...please. I dont know what I did..guess I never will...
I'm going through a similar situation with a person I now call a former friend. This person has used this tactic against me for years. It got to the point where I have become numb to it. I agree it's best to end it. I tried being sympathetic to this person. I know that it stems from childhood abuse from a parent. But this person has not shown a signs of growth in the time we have been friends. If a person ghost you. Then leave them be. Your emotional health should always come first.
It’s the i don’t know what I did for me. And I think and I think on what I can do to get them back which I don’t do anymore. But i still think twice about what happened.
Whatever. The “Silent Treatment” is I don’t give a shit. Let’s cut to the chase if someone disrespects you over and over that’s it. I’m not going to waste my time engaging with said person.
The silent treatment is like a toddler holding their breath. People that use this are abusive and emotionally unavailable. Silent treatment is an immediate 🚩 RUN!!
I agree with you completely. Like, a child, I am going to hold my breath until you do what I want. I am going to kick and scream until I regain control of you. There is RAGE and disordered emotion behind people who need to do this. The people on your show seem like they are out of control of their emotions. Lost individuals who have no idea how disturbing and miserable they are probably making anyone who interacts with them. Yikes. This was a disturbing show for me to watch.
HAHA my ex was the same way but I wasn't going to post this. Yeah, I see now how it was a sign of controlling. God, I'm so glad I'm no longer with that situation. I can't even call it a relationship. Ugh.
My ex gave me the silent treatment. I immediately blocked him on my phone, social media. He was shocked when he tried to come back and I told him he is single!
The best way to deal with “the silent treatment” is to not react. Not texting back to back nd definitely not callin either. B.S tactic only works if you allow it.
I utilize the silent treatment because I’m very sharp tongued. I’ve had people tell me I was “too afraid to stand up to them” and “intimidated” but honestly and very honestly I’m afraid of what I’m going to say. So I say nothing.
TV is so hard and such a competitive numbers-driven market Doesn't always give good people or shows a chance...THANK YOU, MEL--YOU NEVER CEASE TO DELIVER
As for the married couple. Her going out pursuing and new degree and having more responsibility without consulting him speaks volumes. She basically was saying his opinion didn't matter. How does she not think this is going to cause a problem?
This segment was helpful for understanding the mindset of some people when they are using the silent treatment. It's interesting how people justify it with good intentions; however, I'm skeptical when someone claims it's being used for a good cause. In most cases, I think it's used for revenge.
I’m used to humans doing this, But my AI Doll too? Man! I can’t win from losing! No wonder why my AI Doll acts the same way! Wow! Thanks for this video!😍
My narcissist husband has given me silent treatment, in our 32 years of marriage he has been given me silent treatment for all 30 years , we have spoken together only for 2 years or I have to say he has fight me for the other 2 years and now I absolutely hate him and don’t want to look at his face , I stayed because at the beginning I didn’t know why and for the rest of it my daughter was sick and because of her I didn’t divorce and now I want to divorce but he bags me and cry’s like a b........🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
A lot of these behaviors and issues are explained in a book by Robin Norwood called Women Who Love Too Much. If you like to read, this book will open up your eyes and mind about why women behave the way they do in relationship to men, but it can also be a great book for men. It all comes back to family dynamics and childhood, like Tabatha shared that in her home her parents avoided each other and so she and her sister learned the behavior.
I don’t know if I believe that silent treatment is abusive. I keep quiet when I know I’ll go off on people and so to avoid a blow up I will use the silent treatment. I figure it’s better than having to apologize later even if I speak the truth.
I agree with you, I think there are different reasons for using the silent treatment. Some people use it to abuse/control, others use it because they don't know how to deal with a situation and may need time to figure it out. It depends on the individual and the circumstances.
These women are “50” and “5” at the same time... They all need therapy to learn how to effectively communicate, and deal with their inability to process their emotions in a healthy manner.
When I go silent the Earth shakes lol I do it to avoid conflict because if I open up my mouth nothing good will come out of it my entire family gives the silent treatment can you imagine that
I use it as a form of checking out on the relationship when I'm hurt and mad, to create a consequence when a person is behaving badly towards me and isn't listening. Its my way of saying.. I won't allow you to do this to me. I do it because for some its the only thing they seem to understand. Until there is an incentive to be there again, my usual love and attention is withdrawn. "If you ain't got nothing nice to say, don't say nothin at all." Bambi!
That's manipulation. It's OK to tell someone how you feel without disrespecting that person. The "something nice" from the quote is about not attacking a person, rather attacking the issue/problem.