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The surprising reason why this woman feels lonely 

Eric Jeng
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After WWII, many countries, scarred by the war, implemented strict measures to ensure peace and stability, often at the expense of spontaneity and open communication among their people. This hindered the healing of post-war wounds, fostering an environment of mistrust and isolation.
We see this play out at the individual level within this woman. When I asked her how she felt about feeling lonely, she replied, “I wouldn’t say I really know anything else. It’s been life here.”
This conversation reminded me of the importance of building community and fostering safe, open dialogue. These are core goals for Kindred, the online community I’m currently developing. Stay tuned for an announcement in the coming months.
Filmed in Vienna, Austria. Featuring Natalie.

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@REM1956
@REM1956 Месяц назад
What an open, intelligent, and thoughtful young woman. This is the kind of person to spend your time with.
@papasmurf159
@papasmurf159 29 дней назад
Loved it
@amirsadeghi9888
@amirsadeghi9888 25 дней назад
a nato undercover agent.
@amirsadeghi9888
@amirsadeghi9888 25 дней назад
a nato spy
@sid98geek
@sid98geek 21 день назад
"But whatever you see is reflecting something in you." I would spend hours talking if I found someone like her.
@amirsadeghi9888
@amirsadeghi9888 21 день назад
@@sid98geek perfect, spill your guts to her and she'll write you up real good... what a cute little spy with all the hippy dippy nonsense, ughhh
@BoxingYT-kw2gb
@BoxingYT-kw2gb Месяц назад
She's a philosopher at heart
@subchan6595
@subchan6595 Месяц назад
I think more a scientist - ie a behavoural scientist, an observer of people and understanding of the pysche
@whitecrow20XX
@whitecrow20XX Месяц назад
​@@subchan6595 that's psychologist
@Visakh_S_Nair
@Visakh_S_Nair Месяц назад
​@saubchan6595 philosopher is also an observer, infact Better than a scientist in self experience and experiments.
@connorduke4619
@connorduke4619 Месяц назад
She's probably a Priest Soul (look up The Michael Teachings). Ironically so was her fellow Austrian Hitler, although he was clearly a less evolved one.
@geiiger
@geiiger Месяц назад
I thought the same almost right away
@SullyAfgarshe
@SullyAfgarshe Месяц назад
It’s evident that she is well spoken and highly intelligent, but what stands out to me is that she is curious; and you can’t be curious without courage ❤
@LuckyLukeTF2
@LuckyLukeTF2 Месяц назад
Can't be curious without courage, love that.. :)
@connorduke4619
@connorduke4619 Месяц назад
Yes you can. Curiosity is ruled by Gemini and comes from the planet Mercury. Courage is ruled by Aries and comes from the planet Mars.
@tconnolly9820
@tconnolly9820 Месяц назад
​@@connorduke4619 Oh what a load of self indulgent fantastical bullshit.
@sk2790
@sk2790 Месяц назад
i would say relating having a curious mind to having courage is also a self indulgent fantastical bs lol.. u can be curious but if u dont act on curing the curiosity, theres nothing courageous about it. so logically, its def possible to be a curious coward.
@connorduke4619
@connorduke4619 Месяц назад
@@tconnolly9820 A.k.a universal laws. Only you are unaware of them.
@anjalisingh-bh1gi
@anjalisingh-bh1gi Месяц назад
she's so beautiful ... her level of awareness makes her so appealing like I could listen to her all day!
@thomase13
@thomase13 Месяц назад
Yes, and a wonderful laugh!
@tallpoppysyndrome9578
@tallpoppysyndrome9578 Месяц назад
Simp
@DesertStateInEU
@DesertStateInEU Месяц назад
Nah, I guarantee theres hundreds of guys rallying around her on social media and dating apps and she doesn't value relationships because for her its abundant. She above average so if she really is on dating apps, and why wouldn't she be, then its highly likely this is the case. Also I think shes wrong, in WW2 it was obvious who is right and who is wrong, what caused today's instability is the rise of the internet, social media, and dating apps in the past 20 years.
@waykee3
@waykee3 Месяц назад
@@DesertStateInEUNah. I’m like her or even better than her in truth but I the only people I get at the bottom few girls.
@DesertStateInEU
@DesertStateInEU Месяц назад
@@waykee3 So.. you're a girl who looks even better than the girl in the video, and the only people you get are the bottom few girls? Did I get that right?
@AnotherAnonymousMan
@AnotherAnonymousMan Месяц назад
She's an extraordinarily beautiful human being. I'd be honoured to have anyone liker her in my life!
@AtomicHouse
@AtomicHouse Месяц назад
You don't know her at all, simp
@kenjammin
@kenjammin Месяц назад
Simp
@sheezy2526
@sheezy2526 Месяц назад
simp
@zetristan4525
@zetristan4525 Месяц назад
​@@kenjamminNo, he's recognizing her wisdom and balance.
@AmeyaBenare
@AmeyaBenare Месяц назад
@@kenjammin right girl to simp for i would say
@chuncheng451
@chuncheng451 Месяц назад
Humble and elegant people are like warm sunshine that makes our days calm and grateful.
@ManassehBB
@ManassehBB Месяц назад
This reminds me about what Arnold Schwarzenegger said about growing after the war that "Austria was a country of broken men". I hope this young woman and people like her find encouraging communities that's full of life.
@zeecee9479
@zeecee9479 Месяц назад
Arnold's father was a Nazi
@TimesComingMedia
@TimesComingMedia 10 дней назад
Yeah, I remember him saying, screw your freedom.
@TheAnantaSesa
@TheAnantaSesa 8 дней назад
@@TimesComingMediahe also said "hasta la vista, baby"
@illegalsmirf
@illegalsmirf 8 дней назад
They are all being replaced by immigrants now.
@samharper5881
@samharper5881 День назад
@@TimesComingMedia Yeeeeah. A lot of big babies out there really got triggered by that.
@ins344
@ins344 Месяц назад
Incredibly erudite conversation, especially considering that she's conversing in a non native language.
@TheDemonicPenguin
@TheDemonicPenguin Месяц назад
She must have lived in an English speaking country for a bit or partly grown up speaking it. It's very fluent and with almost no Austrian accent. It's kind of soft American. And sure, there's a lot of English in Austria (well, Vienna), especially if you're young, but not quite that level.
@JezzFilm
@JezzFilm Месяц назад
Yay new vocab
@allesvertig
@allesvertig Месяц назад
Good thing about knowing German is to voice out your point of view which is why the German speaking culture is the ground of very organized time, why she mentioned about something in the past have an impact in the present.
@paddleed6176
@paddleed6176 Месяц назад
What
@allesvertig
@allesvertig Месяц назад
@@paddleed6176 talking more on learning the German language from A1 to C2
@Dawnasy
@Dawnasy Месяц назад
She is incredible! Speaks truth.
@SAMX2007
@SAMX2007 Месяц назад
That feeling is not just there, many around the world feel the loneliness
@user-kr8rk8ef8z
@user-kr8rk8ef8z Месяц назад
She is an intelligent, empathetic, articulate and beautiful young woman.
@YouTube_can_ESAD
@YouTube_can_ESAD 24 дня назад
You are so right… I’ve only been to Vienna a couple of times but I want to spend more time there, would love to meet people like her and enjoy some great conversations and food at Disco Volante. (I love that place and that neighborhood.)
@krysiacruz23
@krysiacruz23 Месяц назад
Wise beyond her years so beautiful she wants peace and the world itself is self destructive yet she finds the beauty in everything
@aaronmarshall
@aaronmarshall Месяц назад
She's so wise.
@jacob-bi9ys
@jacob-bi9ys Месяц назад
And pretty, which is enough for me
@dandylion2837
@dandylion2837 Месяц назад
Joga means being yoked with Hindu God Brahma ru-vid.com2Lf2L_puKjU?si=hmnKLTieO8c8ZCb_. this short changed my mind, I know she said she doesen't do it for spiritual reasons, but it just is. Heard of Jesus?
@previouslyachimp
@previouslyachimp Месяц назад
@@dandylion2837 - Yes, we've all heard of your fairytail figurehead.
@dandylion2837
@dandylion2837 Месяц назад
@@previouslyachimp yournamesaysall
@previouslyachimp
@previouslyachimp Месяц назад
@@dandylion2837 - Exactly, it refers to the theory of evolution, the best-supported proposition in science. I prefer reality over fantasy.
@madmarty7103
@madmarty7103 Месяц назад
wow, it's touching what she is saying. She is so reflective and smart. I wish I knew more poeple like her. WWII was just so unbelievable terrible. It still affects my family so much. The trauma is passed along over all the generations and it hit me so hard. Thankfully we have therapists and can do more about it than previuous generations.
@anweshakar146
@anweshakar146 11 дней назад
No one knows or talks about the trauma of Bangladeshi Hindu refugees and their children. I'm realizing now how much it affected me and my family too.
@kristinawalla
@kristinawalla Месяц назад
What a wonderful person, i love her curiosity and compassion, gentleness and lightness. I want to watch her utube channel! I wish i was able to be in her yoga classes
@Rob-e7n
@Rob-e7n Месяц назад
She picked up on it being a psychological war without even living in the era. Her self-awareness and intellectual articulation of thoughts is incredible. She needs to get out of Vienna... in Australia, we are not dead inside.
@jaidee9570
@jaidee9570 Месяц назад
Not yet maybe. Is it one of the states in, or Australia that has appointed a minister for changing men's behaviour? Is it Australia where feminists had boys in school apologizing for things men who died long ago did? If you think that kind of mentality didn't create the Europe that exists today you need to study recent European history. You can't have generations of people being made to feel guilty for the sins of their fathers/grandfathers and it not affect people for generations to come. Australia seems to be on the brink of waging warfare on men, if you don't think that will divide the genders even more, and result in a nation of depressed lonely people who are dead inside, you are failing to see the bigger picture.
@Rob-e7n
@Rob-e7n Месяц назад
@@jaidee9570 - I agree that those things can have an impact on you… if you lean into them, watch the news, be consumed. Most people are too busy surfing, doing river runs, taking adventures into the outback, fishing, building successful companies in a thriving economy, hanging in gym communities and even cool church communities (not that it’s a very religious country they still do very much exist), it’s got great weather, fun people, just don’t get caught up in the negativity of life bro.
@user-hn1oo7dx1w
@user-hn1oo7dx1w Месяц назад
Australia is dead as mate 😂
@somethingelse9535
@somethingelse9535 27 дней назад
@@jaidee9570 What you see in the news or read on the net and the experience in your own personal life here in Australia can be two very different things. That weird wokeness you read about doesn't exist in most people's lives here and that minister for men's behavior in the state of Victoria will not be able to do a thing.
@HikariMiwa
@HikariMiwa 23 дня назад
I’m in Australia and still felt if not more dead inside
@markjulius2006
@markjulius2006 Месяц назад
I'm in love with this woman and everything about her. Her demeanor, her natural beauty, her intelligence, and her views on life. A kind and gentle soul. Someday I hope to find someone like her.
@koalaed
@koalaed Месяц назад
She’s absolutely on point. I’m part Austrian. My grandma is full Austrian and barely spoke a word to me as I got older. To be fair,I rarely saw her when I was growing up, but still, I could be in the same room as her and she’d ignore me, the entire time she was there (visiting my father). My father one time told me what she saw in the war, so it gave me a higher understanding. So much rigitity too. I’ve had to heal it out of myself.
@calm713
@calm713 Месяц назад
What if your grandma was autistic and didn't know it. Maybe she was like that to most people? If it was just you that she was so rudely silent to, then that's another story.
@koalaed
@koalaed Месяц назад
@@calm713 she was not autistic.
@sandybeach95
@sandybeach95 Месяц назад
@@calm713 Sounds more like she was dissociated, which is a typical trauma response.
@s-code-b
@s-code-b Месяц назад
Are all you repliers 'slow'? She just said, 'I’ve had to heal it out of myself'. How does that statement raise a suspicion that her gramma was autistic? One way or another, I don't want to see what they saw.
@koalaed
@koalaed Месяц назад
@@sandybeach95 neither of you are correct. Thank you anyway.
@agarwalsushant
@agarwalsushant 29 дней назад
Beautiful, intelligent, emotionally mature, and articulate. And, you just found her walking on the street with a mop in hand!
@leokorn1629
@leokorn1629 Месяц назад
Well, i was very surprised seeing this interview. I have to agree with her statement or view. Vienna is my hometown too and i feel isolated or lets say excluded. We are not really friendly open people and when i say that i know that i am guilty too. Yes, many are dead inside, especially outside in the streets or in subway or other places. Everybody has his track through the city and is not willing or prepared to open up. People life in their bubbles or lets say in viennese Grätzl. You have your friends, family, people you know from somewhere and thats it. If you do not have that it can be very tough. But maybe i am wrong and not society is the reason for me living almost in solitude. Maybe i am not good in connecting to people. Vienna is the city of Freud, Adler, Frankl, so there has to be a foundation of madness.
@0711floflo
@0711floflo Месяц назад
It's the fucking same in Belgium unfortunately, Wallonia
@leokorn1629
@leokorn1629 Месяц назад
@@0711floflo Ok, thats interesting. I guess, with the big amount of quantity, in terms of possible connections, especially through internet and travelling came the lack of quantity or depth.
@johnmarengo3988
@johnmarengo3988 Месяц назад
Interesting, both what you said and the woman in the vid. My Dad was from Vienna and Salzburg, Austria. During the war. They left, lived in Shanghai for some time, and then to the USA, in the 1950's. I thought it was just my Dad, as he was very closed off, feeling of isolation, immense anger and rage. Couldn't relate to him
@leokorn1629
@leokorn1629 Месяц назад
@@johnmarengo3988 I understand, my grandparents moved into a house in vienna mid of the 1950ies. Before the war it was owned by a jewish family, some of them could flee, some not. Some could escape to Shanghai. I see the first steps of the Holocaust as a betrayal. By the government, by friends and neighbours. I think this trauma can last for many decades and can influence whole societies. I did a little research on this family from my childhood home, it´s interesting but also sad. My parents generation experienced violence through their parents. So i guess we inherit some forms of violence.
@0711floflo
@0711floflo Месяц назад
@@leokorn1629 yes i guess ? But actually i think it has nothing to do with war like the woman in the video. I've met people who are from family that are here for generations, and they say the same. They only are friends from school since young and hobbies, or whatever context where people see each other very often. Once studies are done, and we work, people don't make friends with other people even in hobbies, I experience it myself. Everyone just come and go as soon as classes are done. At school, we see people all the time all day, in adult life, we work all day and hobbies people apparently stay hobbies people that's sad. I've tried several times to be open and speak to people but they are really close minded when it comes to be friend with strangers outside their circle that already existed. For people who lost friends, or got betrayal, abandoned or whatever reasons and got no one reliable anymore, it's very hard to approach others. I have been meeting new people the past decades. But no one last because they are either judgemental, or there was once a girl i met in a bar, she said I need to "take a test" with one of her friend and talking to her and that "if I pass, she will present me to her other friends gang". Like what the hell, are we supposed to pass test to get to know people? Lol. And this girl i met I was meeting someone else and she interrupted it and I found her funny that's why i asked we exchange number to hang out. Turns out she's not that nice, she also judged my life easily since she hasn't experienced the bad things i had. Anyway people are always like this I just cut it off after several times of seeing disrespectful words from her. Not everyone is like this but I met bunch of people who were nice, turning out weird and close minded. If you don't make the effort to make the first move, no one will. I've always made the first contact and sometimes it's tiring. Lately I've again made first contact with 2 people, a girl in my dance class , who i never talked to during whole year (because last year I made an effort but there was a girl who used me as a bridge to talk to other people I was talking to, she also was weird and not assuming her choices I got annoyed she was disrespectful and not honnest), there was a show for the class in last June, I had the opportunity to speak to her so I did. We had fun, I just talk for getting to know her because I was like "funny we've never talked all year so let's talk now while we wait". I , again, decided to make the first move and search her on Facebook, send a message to say it was fun and if she wants we can hang out. Turned out it was mutual so we met twice and until now it's been going good. Making the first move all the time is always tiring in the sense that, why people don't make the first move ever in my situation ? Because simply they have already their friends usually and "dont feel the need to grow their friends circle". Even on reddit of my country, the people who ask for friends also say the exact same "they want to meet new people because they are bored or just want to grow their circle they already have, otherwise they just don't want to grow it" We don't need thousands of friends for sure, but they are people like me who were hit by abandonment, betrayal, lies and decided to cut off with the bad people. It's better to be alone than with bad people who mistreat us. What I thought was a pro to make the first move is that I get to "choose" who I hang out with. It's my decision and then I just see if it goes on well or not. Another guy i met during afternoon of guitar lesson, he's younger than me a few years but he seems nice, though there are some traits that bother me a little, like being late for meeting up and saying nothing by text, or not saying sorry for being so late (more than 40 minutes sometimes). not everyone is perfect of course. But i just hope being like this is not a habit, because myself I say sorry when I'm late and send message saying I'm on my way. That's just politeness. These 2 people I hang out recently, it's only beginning. Both already have their friends. I just took the chance to speak to them more than in the context of hobby and turns out we could get along. I'll see in the next months haha I think it's cultural here. But also the way society works. Everyone is tired because of work, people just wanna go home after hobbies ,which I understand , but people really litterally run to exit when time's o clock. The Belgian are comfortable in their own life, circle of friends. They usually don't see the need to meet new people if they already have their own friends from childhood or teenager or university high school. What i state is true unfortunately because redditors and other forums confirm the struggle to make new friends with Belgian. They feel rejection, loneliness and such. Btw I may ask the girl I see if she's ever realized why herself never talked to anyone after lessons. It seems like people talk before class but not everyone can come early especially when taking the bus so I always arrive at time. Meeting people is a thing, I've met people in different situations, even bar like i said 😂 or apps (which i never wanna try again. Bad experience. Fake pictures, filters, old pics and they are dirty in real life and weirdos). Building connection is the hardest step. It's rare I've met people who want to connect more than "outside a beer or a drink". When they want to have fun, they are here, but when you need a real friend and you suffer, they disappear. It's a matter of "luck". I still haven't given up, but now I'm focusing more on myself and my well-being ,so I set my boundaries and don't allow any disrespect, bad treatment ever again ( I try) And don't forget, not everyone is this way but no wonder if most of them are 😂here I'm myself Belgian. But my open-minded may come from my own culture where my parents aren't from here, because of war unfortunately. Im asian and was born here. So I like people who are open minded, respectful and such. Living racism all the time even as an adult, in the street, even yesterday while i was in a shop, is another hardship I live with. Fortunately not everyone is racist, but I did bump into racists and im sensitive to it. I just hope one day im indifferent to it. Technologies made communication more superficial too. Meeting people too. But like I said ,at least in my own country, I don't wanna use apps anymore. It never feels genuine and people always search for interest for them. I prefer meeting people the old way, face to face. It's just that we need to break walls and make the first move ,contact,in a world where rare people do, like me. I hope you understand what I'm saying😂 Hopefully we meet the RIGHT PEOPLE. We are millions in Belgium. Billions in the world. I'm sure I haven't met the right people yet 🤣though it takes lots of time haha But meanwhile I'm focusing on my happiness
@Astral_Dusk
@Astral_Dusk Месяц назад
Absolutely the type of woman I would really open up to. The best are often really hidden gems in society. Most of the time the most painful part about dating is the superficiality and fakeness...and smartphones. She's right about just being more present, real, unapologetically authentic.
@yashsinghal1023
@yashsinghal1023 Месяц назад
This same is true for most people in gents too
@quicksite2
@quicksite2 12 дней назад
1:02 - she's very insightful with a very calm demeanor. What a rare find.
@ryanlamb8118
@ryanlamb8118 Месяц назад
Really, what an incredible and in-touch human being. I love her spirit.
@officialWWM
@officialWWM Месяц назад
This young lady gives me hope for the future. She’s so aware and that makes her beautiful!
@georgederleres8489
@georgederleres8489 Месяц назад
Be the change you want to see in the world. Hope you bring many smiles to your fellow citizens there, lady.
@Raftjumper07
@Raftjumper07 Месяц назад
She is a young woman who would be a fantastic friend, neighbor, wife. When her eyes lit up when she said “LIFE”, her hope was displayed beautifully!!! She’s on the path of wisdom. 👍👏🏻
@PhilosophyandWar
@PhilosophyandWar 29 дней назад
She is such a beautiful person. And she’s 100% right about community and about destroying the constructs in our own minds so we can truly live free.
@haraldschmutz
@haraldschmutz Месяц назад
depression is our favorite hobby here, complaining is our bizarre form of worship
@keve4253
@keve4253 Месяц назад
everyone complains everywhere
@anelej001
@anelej001 Месяц назад
@@keve4253Oh, trust me, people in Vienna really perfected complaining and brought it on another level 😂
@tankgojet2468
@tankgojet2468 Месяц назад
I wonder how does it compare to Germans, they like to complain too.
@MegaLenny1000
@MegaLenny1000 Месяц назад
You folks would feel right at home then, like everywhere in germany XD
@bobhope707
@bobhope707 Месяц назад
The Missouri of Europe
@neilclay5835
@neilclay5835 Месяц назад
Incredible interview. It's hard to have such a perspective when so deeply embedded in a society, it shows a strong spirit of enquiry and questioning, particularly in someone so young. I wish her the very best where ever she is in the world.
@bernhard254
@bernhard254 Месяц назад
I live half an hour away of Vienna and it makes me humble that there are other people around who make a change out of the stuck old thinking the parents and grandparents generation has to a happy and healthy thinking. Thank you for your words and the video. I am grateful. 😊
@flatcat6676
@flatcat6676 Месяц назад
Wow, she is so on point with not only the history that has so damaged her own country, but what is happening to communities all around the world at this very moment. I'd love to sit with her and talk about history, philosophy, and current events.
@jacobpaint
@jacobpaint Месяц назад
I clicked this mostly out of curiosity in the choice of thumbnail/title and to see how well it worked. This young woman who most would feel should never need to be lonely based solely on appearances. Pretty and vibrant, with a lovely smile and yet her tired eyes suggest she has a lot more going on. This appearance makes her look even more approachable because you might feel like you want to give her a hug so it’s even more strange that she might feel markedly lonely. Ultimately, I don’t;’t think she actually explained the “The surprising reason for why [she] feels lonely”. She gave a removed intellectualisation of her analysis of society and history but her own story is probably too personal. The fact she is cleaning floor could mean a number of things (apart from just that it’s the regular day where she cleans the floor). She may be coming out of a difficult time and the cleaning is part of her process for reordering her surrounds to try and get back on track. This interview possibly came along at the right time and might have been a good boost for her to have this conversation. She may also just have tired eyes all the time, even when everything is going well, like science RU-vidr Steve Mould.
@dandylion2837
@dandylion2837 Месяц назад
maybe she has tired eyes cause she was on youtube watching videos like this 😂
@jacobpaint
@jacobpaint Месяц назад
@@dandylion2837 Yes and eventually these videos lead to videos about cleaning floors so she finally pulled herself away from the screen to go and get some cleaning supplies.
@dandylion2837
@dandylion2837 Месяц назад
@@jacobpaint 🤣
@53strat55
@53strat55 Месяц назад
no way you just randomly approached this women, what a gem and wise woman!
@waynepatrick1
@waynepatrick1 29 дней назад
Choreographed
@kentbyron7608
@kentbyron7608 Месяц назад
I could watch these kinds of interviews for hours. A deep look into the human spirit is here. This woman is a philosopher, with courage to look at What Is, deep insight, curiosity to observe, and fearless honesty. I wish the best in the world for her. This was a fascinating interview! To think this was not in her native language is inspiring. How do you interview someone on the street so they open and share? That's a brilliant skill! What a cool intelligent dude you are. Please do more not only of more Viennese but of all peoples everywhere. Tourists rarely get to know the citizens where they visit and these people where tourists like me visit are teachers... even depressed people can be full of insight. We will rarely get to know any of the citizens when traveling unless we are very fortunate. This kind of video makes the world a better place. ❤️Subscribed.❤👏👏🌹🥰🙏🏼Bravo!
@sidneywebba
@sidneywebba Месяц назад
Thank you Eric and your stranger for this conversation, openness and authenticity... Truly inspiring... ❤
@pearlvongpusanachai5942
@pearlvongpusanachai5942 Месяц назад
What an impressive and wise young lady! Once we know the causes we can begin the process of transformation, and we can only start from ourselves. Please continue to ‘lit the candle’ and pass the candle on in your own way, in time it will be really bright. Best wishes to Austria, it’s such a beautiful country ❤
@jaidee9570
@jaidee9570 Месяц назад
I agree with most of what you said, but simply knowing the causes of a problem is not enough, transformation can only happen if we accept the problem and genuinely want to resolve it. I think the problem for most western countries is people are lost, they are so divided, so entrenched in their own reality, they don't accept that they are the problem. What most people want is for other people, the ones who have differing opinions, to change. Governments, however subtle, encourage this division, it's easier to control a divided people than a nation that is united in it's goals.
@lifeenvironments
@lifeenvironments Месяц назад
I don’t believe I have ever met anyone with such a wonderful balance of clarity, vulnerability, intimacy, compassion, intellect and beauty as this lady possesses. I don’t know who this lady is, but I feel I have known her all of my life for some reason - or at least should have. What a delightful yet haunting feeling. My day is a nicer place to be because of this video. Thank you! 😋
@dandylion2837
@dandylion2837 Месяц назад
in yo dreams hahaha
@MarkStevens8899
@MarkStevens8899 Месяц назад
​@@dandylion2837Don't be beastly Dandy😀
@Nam0Bear
@Nam0Bear Месяц назад
She is so articulate, disarmingly articulate for an impromptu tete-a-tete -kudos to the Host!
@tamarahimmelstrand8985
@tamarahimmelstrand8985 Месяц назад
That is such a good explanation for what happened to people in world war two and how that got passed on to the next generation. There was a mind control that played with peoples minds and brought them out of alignement with themselves and their soul. I love her vision and action to heal that.
@SiggyMe
@SiggyMe Месяц назад
Very bright and insightful she has really thought out what she says. Good luck to her.
@Johnged15
@Johnged15 Месяц назад
She's very wise for a person that seems young.
@axass4603
@axass4603 Месяц назад
I dont think aging makes you wiser
@Johnged15
@Johnged15 Месяц назад
@@axass4603 agreed that it is not the definitive reason but sometimes it can help
@Rondo2ooo
@Rondo2ooo Месяц назад
​@@axass4603It should, or you don't learn from mistakes and experiences to become better. It's an endless journey until death, in my opinion.
@vigenrshtuni6804
@vigenrshtuni6804 Месяц назад
Interesting. Don't know if she's right on all matters, but it's nice to see people that are conscious and thinking. A rarity.
@dougietabla5948
@dougietabla5948 Месяц назад
For such a young person, she is so insightful and eloquent. I wish her nothing but the best in life.
@lukeskywalker6809
@lukeskywalker6809 Месяц назад
She’s beautiful.
@pecesita-dorada
@pecesita-dorada 18 дней назад
What a beautiful way of perceiving life. She is so into reality ... it is happening in America as well. There is such wonderful feeling listening to people like her... it gives some sort of comfort and hope for other with that level of deep realization. Let's appreciate life and one another, people.
@punarv
@punarv Месяц назад
Listening to her is healing.
@patrickmilligan4479
@patrickmilligan4479 27 дней назад
Line up, boys! This is a remarkable woman, brilliant beyond her years. This is a scholar, best friend, companion wife, and mother extraordinaire, and she's clearly fine wine. She will get better and better each year!
@CanisMajor7
@CanisMajor7 Месяц назад
I think i'm in love ~ _Chet Baker - I fall in love too easily starts playing_
@saxwiz
@saxwiz Месяц назад
Haha it is so awesome to see another person across the world watch this video and share the exact same thought that I had. Namaste stranger
@trollol_
@trollol_ Месяц назад
it's because you have low self esteem. cheers :D
@CanisMajor7
@CanisMajor7 Месяц назад
@@saxwiz Yeah, that happens sometimes. Namaste, brother.
@cansuStBenoit
@cansuStBenoit 12 дней назад
She seems like she had cried a lot and didnt sleep well and decided to make a change and to start with cleaning
@jasonsandifer3250
@jasonsandifer3250 Месяц назад
This Woman She is Absolutely Correct in Everything she says, about World War 2. This Woman she has Profound Wisdom, and she is Incredibly Insightful, on this subject matter, she definitely has the ability to provide Solutions to creating a Enlightening, Healing, and Living a Thriving Community. God's Blessings to this Woman.
@lavatr8322
@lavatr8322 Месяц назад
The amount of self awareness she has is Mind-boggling She has Wisdom and knowledge What else do you need. She is enlightened. She is a higher being already
@supermanbobby007
@supermanbobby007 Месяц назад
I was in Vienna for 5 years. I felt the city was full of life.😊 Everyone has their own opinion though & I respect that.
@giantman
@giantman Месяц назад
She needs to come to Australia. Open, happy, optimistic people willing to talk and interact for no reason other than to intuitively connect with each other. Her intellect and insight into the shadow of Austrian trauma are admirable. Thank you for a most interesting upload!
@clairezhangh
@clairezhangh Месяц назад
She raises the vibration of a generation ❤
@Djellowman
@Djellowman 19 дней назад
Meaningless
@zeetotal
@zeetotal Месяц назад
She brings up WWII, but I kind of feel that way since the end of Covid. Post-covid here in the East Coast USA, I feel changed people to being even more insular than they were before.
@Daydreamerr13
@Daydreamerr13 Месяц назад
Yes worldwide😢
@MarceloPaste
@MarceloPaste 11 дней назад
That girl is so polite and honest in her words! Love it. Seems a good person.
@user-xi9ri2pg8v
@user-xi9ri2pg8v Месяц назад
That’s an interesting insight.
@thedudeabides3138
@thedudeabides3138 4 дня назад
What a remarkable find in such random circumstances. A really enlightened, calm, mature and reflective individual. I'd give my right arm to just hang out with Natalie for a day, I know we'd get on like a house on fire.
@NomadSupreme911
@NomadSupreme911 Месяц назад
Austria should appoint her Minister of Healing.
@danimarco
@danimarco 18 дней назад
This interview touched me! I live in Florence and this young and aware woman describes the situation exactly as I perceive it in my city. Listening to her made me think that there is still hope for a more humane world. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for this gem of an interview!
@67y3j3fv2wg
@67y3j3fv2wg Месяц назад
Impressive young lady
@Freddy-pp9rn
@Freddy-pp9rn Месяц назад
Besides her philosophical stance, I am amazed a her English level and almost perfect American accent being born and spending all her life in Vienna as far as I understood. Great interview!
@CHarlotte-ro4yi
@CHarlotte-ro4yi Месяц назад
This is such a Viennese interview ♥️ in the best possible way!
@glennelliott708
@glennelliott708 Месяц назад
So much for Vienna being named world’s most liveable city.
@LearnCompositionOnline
@LearnCompositionOnline Месяц назад
It is most because of the social services and features. It js very stressful anyway. Salzburg is better to live
@VAVORiAL
@VAVORiAL 5 дней назад
It's up there though. Safe, clean, lots of features and services, people don't bother or annoy you. It's peaceful
@karimtabrizi376
@karimtabrizi376 29 дней назад
What an amazing woman. Worth a million
@davezink7944
@davezink7944 Месяц назад
Sweet kind girl -sad to think they're still effected by what happened in WW2 -over 80 yrs. ago!
@tomekdarda
@tomekdarda 28 дней назад
It I sad, indeed. But they co-started it - and as the Germans deal with it openly, by stating they unleashed that hell, the Austrians still live in denial, secretly wanting to be seen as victims, afraid of finally coming clean. A fascinating problem it is, and you can feel this shroud of moral uneasiness so well in Vienna, if you can look past the merry pride of today. It's still there, underneath all the grandeur the country has to offer, like this girl demonstrates - they just can't smile fully with that (mostly self inflicted) baggage on their backs.
@DemsRNutless
@DemsRNutless 28 дней назад
Who else loves this beautiful person?
@097hhd63
@097hhd63 Месяц назад
Vienna is one of the cities with the most social helps and social institutions. It's obviously not a mediterranean city, but from a rational point of view, it's a very social and therefore communitarian city. But what she expects is it to be "visually" available too, she expects a form of community that is a mediterranean aesthetic, but it's just an aesthetic in the end. Some places have that, but they don't have the services our city offers us. So I'd prefer that. By the way, the "coldest", least collectivist and most individualist countries interestingly also happen to be the most social ones. It's mostly North- and Northwestern Europe and North America, but Austria also falls into this category I'd say. Sometimes, the reality doesn't match the aesthetics that we expect. But we shouldn't be superficial. Aesthetics are just a facade. What's behind it is decisive.
@aren6
@aren6 22 дня назад
what do you mean by mediterranean aesthetic?
@ArturoHernandez-ej9cv
@ArturoHernandez-ej9cv Месяц назад
Her insecurities and way of expression, shows honesty and self awareness. She is extremely sensitive and shows everyone.. how brave she is to talk about something most people would never talk about. Most of us have lost the ability to be like her, we are to wrapped up in insignificance. Simply a special human.
@___dh__dh__
@___dh__dh__ Месяц назад
This editing is really weird, why are you slicing up what she’s saying so much, just let her speak
@felixguerrero6062
@felixguerrero6062 Месяц назад
Terrible editing honestly. But I think he is just removing the "ums and ehs"
@xilef8322
@xilef8322 Месяц назад
I was born and raised in Vienna aswell and I never felt a lack of community. The community is rather small, since everyone knows everyone through someone else, but I always enjoyed being surrounded by them. We are grumpy - no doubt - but in a charming way ;) Unhealed trauma from ww2 might play a role in society but I never really noticed or fet that. Its more a problem of nepotism and greed (as it is in austria and worldwide generally).
@nolaughingmatter
@nolaughingmatter 24 дня назад
What a gem you have found randomly on the street: a young, imaginative woman with so much insight and wisdom. It is truly nice to hear such a rich conversationalist, but then this is what I experienced of Vienna - the cultural level is so sophisticated and refined. All over the world, there are way too many people glued to social media, taking selfies, and generally obsessed with themselves, never once pondering about the world around them.
@Jacob011
@Jacob011 Месяц назад
I live in Munich and I believe essentially the same, although with a different twist perhaps. Drives me nuts!
@albathoughtsofficial
@albathoughtsofficial Месяц назад
Yes I also lived and worked in Munich for 6 years. Often visited friends in nearby Austria and Italy . Observed the same. The Bavarian culture can be a lot of fun for tourists, what with the Oktoberfest, lots of fairy-tale castles, Lederhosen and Biergartens... but there seems to be a negative undercurrent underneath all that. But I give the Germans a ton of credit. They also try to teach about WW2 and the Holocaust in the schools there. I asked a German friend what was it like learning about her country's history. She said it was a shock at first but then "it explained a lot". They built a successful democracy and for all the issues it caused, an overall successful Reunification. Those are incredibly difficult things to deal with. They've become one of our strongest allies. But like with all democracies, it's a work in progress. We are all striving to achieve that "more perfect union". Good luck to the Austrians and Germans!
@josephlynch2649
@josephlynch2649 Месяц назад
what a remarkable person. her insights about the source of loneliness in Austrian society are spot on. I teach philosophy here in the States and count myself as well-educated. Her insights into the source of loneliness revealed I still have much to learn.
@c_muse1543
@c_muse1543 Месяц назад
A thoughtful and sensitive young woman--hope for humanity.
@vinestreet4031
@vinestreet4031 28 дней назад
What an incredible person. I can't imagine that any random person in Vienna would be so insightful and beautiful. We are all so lucky to have been introduced to her.
@yeshuapleaseprotectthechil2150
@yeshuapleaseprotectthechil2150 Месяц назад
Our world needs more women like her. If you can, please let her know that she is not alone. Best Wishes for this lady.
@Alexandra-gk6dy
@Alexandra-gk6dy 28 дней назад
Wow she's wise! So clear heartfelt spoken. 100% related to her. I'm german and feeling the disconnecting, isolating energy in mind often in society and even family too. People are wealthy & busy in life but this is kind of unspoken silence. Big hug to this girl! 😊she'd be a great friend.
@NoGoodGamer30
@NoGoodGamer30 Месяц назад
When someone asks me what I am looking for in a partner, I am just going to send them this video. What an introspective and insightful soul!
@thomasjgallagher924
@thomasjgallagher924 Месяц назад
I know why she's lonely and pensive: She requires a degree of thoughtfulness in her day that she's not going to find amongst her typical cohort. While I don't think she quite hit the nail on the head with WW2 -- you can read Stefan Zweig and find similar elements in Viennese society of his time -- she's obviously asking the right questions and kicking around thoughts in her head. Bravo, young lady. Bravo.
@Jeremy-f3s
@Jeremy-f3s Месяц назад
Staged, the average person in the street doesnt go into a massive monologue like that...
@sterlingmullett6942
@sterlingmullett6942 Месяц назад
I was starting to think the same thing, then I remembered all the times I'd monologue to friends around the table or fire pit. I also then noticed there were a lot of jump cuts, so she was speaking and probably drifted and couldn't get her thoughts straight at first and the videographer simply encouraged her to keep going. There are people like her in the world. I recall that video a couple years from the guy that looked homeless and his statements on humanity and politics and how well spoken he was and that was clearly not staged, he was simply a thinker about stuff. I'd like to think this was not staged but it's the internet so I'm just gonna listen to her message and move on.
@Jeremy-f3s
@Jeremy-f3s Месяц назад
@@sterlingmullett6942 hmmmmm, If there's cuts I could believe it more but I didnt really see any. I mean I can monologue but a rehearsed monologue tends to sound alot different to a random one. But yes if he's edited out her meanderings or missteps then it's possible it's genuine. I just think she's presenting as too rehearsed, talking to camera how she is. The average person would be shyer, less definite.
@Geg9449
@Geg9449 18 часов назад
her understanding of society and perception of reality is incredible. I have studied history at the univeristy of Florence for 3 years now and i can say that her perceptions are totally sound. They refelct a disturbing reality, the defeated's one. The crisis of a dying Europe that has to face its past and has lost an entire generation, the ghost of guilt with all his baggage still roams the cities of Germany and Austria. People who like her has such empathy and understanding of the sorroundings feel often out of place, that's because of their capacity to sense reality and different atmospheres and consequently take distance from it maybe even unintentionally. I'd love to speak with such a nice and intelligent person, a rare kind.
@ricky4001cs
@ricky4001cs Месяц назад
Those eyes speak volumes..... fascinating discussion.
@jimkasprak9070
@jimkasprak9070 Месяц назад
She’s gorgeous but most important is such a wise and kind girl. Hope she finds all the happiness she deserves.
@progressivebusiness4537
@progressivebusiness4537 Месяц назад
I used to feel the same way. At 23 I became a follower of Jesus and got filled with the Holy Spirit. I’ve always felt connected no matter how hard life becomes.
@ethantyler4711
@ethantyler4711 Месяц назад
Sorry you fell for the lie.
@laberbla6466
@laberbla6466 21 день назад
I love when people are naturally showing vulnerability. She is authentic and used to be herself. Meeting and talking with a person like her means to be allowed to put down your mask and then realizing that we are all the same. I love her for that - I try to do the same, and to invite people to be real around me. I think we all need more of that. Greets from heart to this beautiful soul.
@nwerdscissorhands7475
@nwerdscissorhands7475 Месяц назад
Everyone saying she is wise but wtf is she actually talking about? Everything she said is so vague and she never actually goes into detail especially about how everyone went mad in Austria during WW2. Everything she said is surface level word salad. If he asked any questions that would force her to dig deeper into what she perceived as the "problems" I suspect she wouldn't get very far.
@hellotherepeople1653
@hellotherepeople1653 Месяц назад
She's your typical pretending-to-be-deep normie, the worst kind of normie. She reminds me of Lana Blakely. The masses think this is 'deep', despite that nothing of value was really said.
@thomas4315
@thomas4315 Месяц назад
jealous... what other think is non of your business, and shouldn't even cross anyone mind. Freedom to perceive than people telling us what we perceive , as you, the fact many admire her depth, prove you wrong. By logic, you're thinking emotionally. She shouldn't earn nothing, from your experience.
@macaroon147
@macaroon147 24 дня назад
If he asked her deeper questions she would probably question herself and agree that maybe she's not correct. She's alot like me so I get what she's saying. She's the type of person who is very observant but doesn't hold onto obersvatioms and will let go of her views very easily if proven no true. Don't take life too seriously buddy, she's just sharing her opinion
@nwerdscissorhands7475
@nwerdscissorhands7475 24 дня назад
@@macaroon147 so you're dumb is what you're saying.
@yeahway869
@yeahway869 23 дня назад
Maybe she's just self-censoring to avoid getting canceled or worse. She is in Austria after all.
@johnmarengo3988
@johnmarengo3988 Месяц назад
What a beautiful person inside and out. Not surprised she does yoga. Usually gives a deeper look at life. My Dad was from Vienna, Austria. Left there during WW2. Came to the States in the '50's. I thought it was just him, as he was very closed off, or shut off, and lots of anger. Never knew if that was just his family, Austrians, or due to the war. Would love to meet someone like her. Honest appraisal of their own life and their country's.
@paulginsberg6942
@paulginsberg6942 Месяц назад
A beautiful truthful woman of extraordinary wisdom at a very young age.
@petercummings4619
@petercummings4619 Месяц назад
Did anyone notice the background in this video during the conversation. The background action jumps and there is a disrupted continuity.
@migueruta
@migueruta День назад
What a inteligent woman!😱 A rare breed nowadays.💜💯
@ZatchFan83
@ZatchFan83 Месяц назад
Wise indeed. Miss, if you read this, you’re always welcome to a friendly cup of coffee in Boston!
@Atreas1845
@Atreas1845 Месяц назад
OMG
@dandylion2837
@dandylion2837 Месяц назад
What the heck man, all people think and have feelings and also you can see their beauty...everyone on youtube comments acting like they've seen a ghost
@ZatchFan83
@ZatchFan83 Месяц назад
@@dandylion2837 Not sure I follow. What she said resonated with me and this is how I chose to express it.
@dandylion2837
@dandylion2837 Месяц назад
@@ZatchFan83 yeah, I just meant that there are many people like this.
@ZatchFan83
@ZatchFan83 Месяц назад
@@dandylion2837 I'd like to underscore that a compliment to one person isn't a critique of countless other people...
@neodhani
@neodhani 21 день назад
So much insight, it's amazing!❣️ As a psychologist myself, I wish I could speak with her, gosh. There's sooo much to learn from people like her! ❤
@iansutton8802
@iansutton8802 Месяц назад
How come there are so many edits in this? How come the people and cars behind her change so rapidly in mid-sentence? This wasn’t spontaneous dialogue. What’s going on here?
@sammyvanek
@sammyvanek 5 дней назад
Softening and being real with each other in community often doesn't happen on its own. There's skills to develop in communication and honesty, also setting the space with the right context. I'm grateful to certain groups doing just this and learning together what creates feelings of real connection. This is part of what I love to talk about in my videos for sensitive folks (like me) 💗
@liamfitzpatrick6358
@liamfitzpatrick6358 Месяц назад
How many cuts do you need?
@maelgwni
@maelgwni 12 дней назад
She is amazing. Deep and insightful. These are voices that need to be heard.
@MatschieTV
@MatschieTV Месяц назад
2:08 green man lost his existence
@User23multiply3
@User23multiply3 Месяц назад
2:57
@Janetooooooo
@Janetooooooo 29 дней назад
So eloquent and articulate, hope she can find someone at her intelligent level and connect emotionally
@Dwazedas
@Dwazedas Месяц назад
Every young person I know is an idealist. Every old person a disappointed idealist. Cynicism is the only logical conclusion to life.
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