THE TERRIBLE RELATIONSHIP OF CHE AND MIRANDA 

Hey everyone - I KNOW THE MUSIC IS SUPER LOUD, I’m sorry! There is an updated link in the description box for parts one and two and the AUDIO IS FIXED!

"I'm a fucking narcissist" is the most honest thing Che has said.

Che is the new Big; Steve is the new Aidan; Miranda is the new Carrie.

The OG Miranda wouldn't have put up with a second of Che's bullshit. Of all the ways that they ruined SATC's legacy with And Just Like That, the Miranda/Che story was the worst.

“You’re having a midlife crisis! You shoulda just dyed your hair!!!” 😂😂😂😂😂

The way miranda chases che really was grimy , like a middle schooler trying to please their crush.

I'll never forgive the writers for what they did to Miranda and Steve *(especially* Steve)! I really enjoyed this. Thanks!

The show missed the opportunity to discuss Che and Miranda's early relationship for what it actually was, an affair. If written correctly. it would detail how affairs aren't always about people being "bad" but a nuanced look at how we age in long term relationships. Its particularly odd since the premise of Miranda's affair with Che is identical to Steve's in the first movie. Its also odd that none of the other women demanded Miranda own up to the affair and speak to Steve. It was all together a terribly written storyline ad made me understand why Kim Catrall quite this hotmess show.

Ok, who brings tequila for a person who is recovery?

The original Miranda wouldn't be this clingy and needy I hate how they try to make so woke

How tf is Brady underage when he was born in 2002???? Do they not have clocks and calendars in Carrie’s universe??

Che and Miranda have as much chemistry as an old lighter on wet cardboard. Idk what they were going for when they introduced Che.

even maria and Samantha made more sense than these two, che is the worst!

Seeing every scene of them together in a row really hits home how toxic this relationship was. It reminds me of myself with my first ex: I'd cling like grim death to the slightest sign that he wanted to be with me, and he'd only come around when it suited him. But I was 18 years old then. Miranda should have known better at her age.

Miranda’s 20 year long mid life crisis and Che’s eyebrows are a burden upon my soul. I just watch on mute for LTW, Nya, and Seema’s clothes.

The way you kept throwing "oregano" in there sent me. LMAO. I still absolutely hate how they ruined Miranda's character. She was one of my favorites during the original series.

“I’m just the girlfriend” Che’s face killed me. I literally made the 😬 face. Miranda should’ve just ran.

They're trying so hard with this storyline, it feels so hammed in. 'DM me back or whatever' sounds like when old people try to act young

"New Jersey's not going to make itself laugh." No, mate, and neither are you.

I never liked Miranda, now that I'm older, I CAN'T STAND THAT SELFISH COW. She's the WORST. "This isn't enough! " NOTHING EVER IS FOR HER.

I instantly hated the Che character. It was an empty shell with no depth and felt gross from the start. Che is a horrible person. The attempt to impress certain people with those fake woke crap is embarrassing and it fell flat. Our society is going thru some weird developmental stage and has waaaay overshot trying to please certain groups. That's not being inclusive. It's fake disingenuous kissing ass and it won't work on Intelligent people who are actually paying attention. This is just wrong.

This is honestly why I hate they try to change the sexuality of characters just because the actor playing them is gay. Like Miranda didn't need to leave her husband of 20 years. It made no sense at all and made her unlikable.

I honestly h4ted Che's character, that wasn't Miranda

The Miranda I know would never put up with this.

I also hate how the show is trying to push weed. Some people don't like it, including myself. The smell makes me sick and if someone tried to breathe it into my face, thats be the end of that friendship for not respecting boundaries.

Che's hair reminds me of a Pringle

I hate the way Miranda dumped Steve. She treated him like garbage.

Damn did they all undergo botox? And lets be real Miranda never loved steve she tolerated him

Che was INSUFFERABLE. I couldn’t stand that character!

Che is a narcissist.

This video made me realize I was the Miranda in my last relationship. And that is the most horrifying sentence I have ever uttered.

The narration and writing is A+. I would lower the background music a little

I am a latina and my last name is Díaz and i dissaprove of Che Díaz.....this character is a disgrace for the latino comunity 😡😡😡

I think it’s normal that some people go through a life crisis when they are older. It’s normal that a marriage goes through trouble. But she definitely has psychological and emotional problems which don’t seem to be tackled in the show. She has always been kind of neurotic and desperate in a way. But now that she’s older, her neurosis has gone up by a 100. Also, we know she tends to get clingy sometimes when it came to men who had Che’s attitude. I’m rewatching the sex and the city series and it’s shown multiple times that she’s attracted to men who have a narcissistic or have an aggressive personality. Which does translate as to why she’s attracted to Che. Che has a difficult and aggressive personality. She wants to cling to Che so that she feels that her choices was correct

Che is Mr. Big

Oregano & organisms😂😂😂

I feel like it's a good story to tell, it's just not Miranda's story to tell. It's almost like Che is the main character w/Miranda as the side.

The writers really messed up dealing with che and miranda relationship they definitely are not healthy together 🚩

This was great! I kept saying Miranda musta got a brain transplant with how she acts in AJLT! Justice for Steve & Che is the worst & now that I think about it exactly what Miranda deserves can’t wait for you to do season 2 on the train wreck cause it only gets worse

Che makes me so angry

Omg I could not stand Che character on this show

I’m currently rewatching SATC on Netflix, and I will say that Miranda having a midlife crisis with Steve and Brady might have been something believable and honest… if it had been done right. But Miranda Hobbs chasing someone so uncaring towards her and being so desperate to someone mistreating her is NOT Miranda. This doesn’t even feel like the same person!

The things Che said about Miranda were insanely cruel. It’d be cruel to say to someone’s face let alone an audience for laughs. I couldn’t stand that Carrie stayed friendly with them after that. In fact Che as a whole is extremely selfish. It almost feels like they didn’t write them to be like a real human, they tried so hard to make them “confident” and “unapologetic” they accidentally made them an asshole.

Miranda is why some women got to be less high strung & experiment with their true desires earlier in life so they don’t go thought a bisexual mid life crisis when they got much more to lose lol.

Miranda fits the description of an addict to a tee. Where the thing she’s addicted to is another person and willing to give up their whole lives to satisfy the other. Che is a narcissist who needs the constant validation that Miranda offers them. But also the validation that everyone else gives them too.

does che ever explain why their performances are called comedy ‘concerts’? i only saw s1 and i was under the impression that the term is comedy ‘show’. them constantly calling che’s mid stand-up routines concerts makes me cringe to this day

This was good! I love the way you broke this down

Wow, this was brilliant! Thanks!

Everyone is on here saying they hate how AJLT ruined Miranda's character and I agree to an extent; but if you go back and rewatch the show, you can see she was always kind of like this. Sure, she wasn't whiny and thoughtless; but her self loathing, repressed queerness, and even her alcoholism was always there. When she goes on a date with the detective who was supposed to help Carrie find her stolen shoes, she becomes super insecure, gets wasted, and he ghosts her the next morning and leaves the phone number for her local AA chapter. Miranda also never really liked Steve. He cajoles her into a committed relationship when she made it clear from the beginning she wanted something casual; on their honeymoon she's miserable and uninterested in sex; she doesn't want to cuddle with him several times while they're dating, she doesn't want him to move in; the list goes on. She has a super unique style in the original series that often borders on being very masculine. She keeps her hair cut short. Her being gay is super believable. Miranda is to Steve as Big is to Carrie. Finally, Miranda has always been miserable, unhappy, and caustic. In the original series I think a) her youth b) the whimsical and lighthearted nature of the show and c) her friends, softened how intense Miranda's neuroses could be. It was usually played off as her having a strong personality, or just being sarcastic and having a strong back bone, but if you go back and pay attention it's really startling. In the episode where Miranda finally starts dating Steve, right after she offends him and he leaves the restaurant, she says "I knew it. Big's not coming. Men are shit." with tears in her eyes. Obviously I know she was crying because of her emotions about Steve, but Carrie (who is decidedly straight) would never have said something like that. In conclusion, I also hate the reboot. But it's realistic as hell. The choices we make in our youths can and do make us miserable if we are not true to ourselves. Thanks for coming to my Ted Talk.

i like Miranda and Steve together

the biggest crime they've done to Miranda is make a blonde have to wear redhead colours for the last 26 years

Amazing summary. Loved listening to it. Thank you!!

I can't handle the piano background music in this

Such a great breakdown. Subscribed!

Hate how everyone thinks this kind of character change can’t happen. I saw it happen in real time with my sister. She was a “hard-ass” type growing up but then all of a sudden in our 20s she’s this emotional softie that cries when she used to make fun of me when I’d cry.

Great video as always. But yeah that's not Miranda at all. They killed her! 🤬

Thank you for this analysis. Talk about sad…About to watch part two

It would have made more sense if Charlotte had ended up bisexual, than Miranda. Miranda had already dated a woman, and it was a hard "no." When Charlotte's boyfriend wanted the threeway, she seemed really in to it. I still laugh how that turned out, though. One of the funniest scenes in the O.G. series was "The Peacock." 😅

Everyone made out like the hatred of Che Diaz was transphobia. Nope. They're just a terrible, narcissistic character. Thank God they're not coming back for another season (though I've already given up on the woke-performative, self congratulatory AJLT, which misses the SaTC niche entirely.) This show was never overtly about social justice issues, and it sucks all the enjoyment out of it when the viewer is constantly bludgeoned with condescending lessons about social justice. It feels like an extended lecture from the writers masquerading as a sitcom. The point of inclusivity is to just include people of color and LGBTQ characters in the pretty fashion and relationship foibles that SaTC was always about, not to make it all about their differences and how much they struggle to be included. Just include them and don't self congratulate yourself on including them, writers and producers. What a missed opportunity and wrong response to the criticism of SaTC's lack of inclusivity.

You know the irony is Miranda did to Steve what he did in the movie and she lost it. And I just realized that Che does to Miranda what Big did to Carrie. No wonder it's toxic as F.

Miranda made a fool out of herself for Che...

what is callie torres doing

I wish they focused on Miranda, either exploring how to enjoy life or finding herself again that she lost in a stressful job/motherhood. Or exploring her sexuality outside of Che. Why go from one long time marriage into a “relationship”. Especially if she hated her marriage. She was never one for relationships in SATC so why now??

Needed this 👏 fr

Great job on this video! Che is prime example of who we all regret dating at some point in our lives

I can't wait for part 2! =D

I think they gave miranda a toxic relationship bc Big was gone, and the show kinda thrived on the constant drama of the toxic relationship. idk

If they were going to have Miranda chase tail then she needs to not look like an old lady.

ngl i expected you to have way more subscribers omg your videos are all soOOOO good

Suuuuch a good analysis 🎉 they ruined miranda, and why did che have to be so damn unlikeable?

Bro…… what is with the church band background music going on here 😅😅

And Just Like That took all of Miranda’s worst qualities and blew them up. Then they added some new previously nonexistent ones.

The level of cringe I experienced watching Miranda run after Che. I can’t believe what they’ve done to this character

THIS IS THE WORST ... UNWATCHABLE!

They really broke up Steve and Mariana’s….for this. This show was a HOT HEATED MESS

later in the series when they break up carrie and miranda go see ches comedy gig , where che is making jokes and being SO cruel about miranda , she doesnt even apoligise when she realises miranda was in the audiance

Honestly I think it could have worked, if che wasn't so unlikeable and Miranda was treated as for what she is. A women in a midlife crises who changed her loving spouse that stuck by her for 20 years for a younger more exciting model. Like imagine a story about a dude who was an absent father, cheating on his loving wife of a similar age for the younger new chick that smoked weed with their son. And besides that If anyone of the originalcast should be fucking chicks, it is Samantha. Besides that if che is non binary it is still a hetero relationship. As a homo you need to fuck your own gender (Not Sex), however Miranda is still identifying as female while Che is not, therefore hetero. And I think this is true for a Lot of plotlines. Why not investigate what it meanseto loose your life Partner and building Up your life again? Like they did with Emily in the Gilmore Girls sequel? Or have Charlotte actually maturing further as her childern mature? Just like she matured, when she understood what beeing married is about, now she learns that actually beeing a parent is putting your kids before you. This could have been so good when they would have actually commited to the idea of them aging and confronting what new challenges come with aging, but they just didn't. That would also have been really progressive as we tend to just not get old women in media.

Che was trying really hard to be a gay man.

The actor that plays Steve apparently lost his hearing in real life.

Why would she dismantle all the good things in her life and take up with an obviously gender male woman? I dont get it? Really. Why would she be desperate for this?

The Che character is annoying, pompous and a hypocrite. Not to mention selfish and arrogant pretentious

Its like Miranda turned into Carrie. She was stupid for Che like Carrie use to be for Big.

Personally I found the background music in this to be too loud. It’s a great video and I enjoyed it but I just think views might improve if the music level was a bit lower as it’s quite distracting.

I cant wait for part 2! Che and their stand up about their relationship with miranda, oof

Can I PLEASE keep Steve?!? He’s GORGEOUS 💕

not the comedy concert lol

You would think people would grow up.

How did anyone never notice how unfunny Che's comedy is? Does America really think Queer people have no understanding of how humor works?

I'm starting to question weather people want to watch tv shows based on how crazy and non logical real life is with real bad decisions... or they want to watch a fairy tale where everyone makes sense and thinks about everything before acting on anything 😂

Who else ships her and Prof. Nya? 🤷

Che is so bad for Miranda

They 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

Pushing it down people’s throats

I still dont understand why they made Steve a billion years old

This how was trying to respond to the younger generation criticizing the original series for using tropes and glamorizing toxic behavior and relationships. All it did was replace the traditional tropes with woke tropes. The toxic behavior and relationships remain.

Lol I actually want to watch this show now, shit is getting real real

OG Mirando would have never ever moved from her city to follow an affair.

Best part of this storyline is Miranda dyes her hair back to red.😊

Miranda and chai was one of the big mistakes they made and believe me there was many number one bringing in too many different characters that nobody's really interested in number two getting rid of big too early number 3 I'm not sure who. Carrie said this to but she said she made a big mistake with big! So she threw him under the bus just to date Aiden again.4 not bringing Samantha back and not telling us why all four of them weren't speaking when their friendship was unbreakable and they said they were so mates forever. 5 Charlotte's daughter Rose. Lillian Rose grew up in a fairy tale land with Charlotte giving them everything feminine and girly but yet this one decides She wants to be a 🧒they're trying to hit every racial Mark they can hit this show has become a mockery. I don't even think I'll be watching the next season. It aggravated me and I don't know why

3:12 not gonna lie…Miranda was looking absolutely stunning in that scene with the frosty hair and the black suit. Too bad I hate her as soon as she opens her mouth.