We,ll just say calm ...calm ...calm ,despite episodes of wobbling like a trembling cild after watching tnhe happenings in the Ukraine. Ithink i know what compounded my Mothers neurosis sheltering as a child from buzz bombs ,then during the sixties as a child a tense silence between her and my Dad,s pathology or narcissism,compounded by his having to fight in Burma ,allowing it up is..,not trying to pretend but at the same time seeing perhaps my over identification with the Ukrainians as the victims or the target of anothers hostility.
