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People like her are life savers. I once lived around the corner from a mental hospital and there was a patient there that followed me to my kid's bus stop, harassing me. My girls were in kindergarten and 2nd grade- what was I supposed to do? I told him I would call the police and he made a joke. Then a lady I'd never seen before pulled up in her car and said "Hey girl. How you doing?" (as if we were friends) Then she leaned over and whispered to me that she saw what was going on and asked if I wanted to wait in her car with my kids. After the kids got in the school bus, she drove me home so I wouldn't have to deal with him. I never saw her again but she was my angel that day.
That was an Angel who"s assignment that day was protecting you and your babies.... Mama's learn self defense and embrace the 2a!!!! Be thankful you have that most of us don't.
"Do I know him?" is a GENIUS question, because it takes the pressure off the girl to explain her relationship with him or the situation. The answer to the question will ALWAYS be "no" so it's a natural distancer, and if you've misread the situation it's easy for the girl to clarify that you don't know him but SHE does and she's okay.
Well, it won’t ALWAYS be no, cos sometimes we’re gonna get it wrong and she’s gonna be talking to someone she does know, but yes it’s definitely a great way to handle it if she doesn’t know him.
That means all it takes for Good to flourish is for bad people to do something... Hmmm... Was gonna make a nazi joke, but better safe it for a rain day.
@@karenskinner9044 What makes you think so? I can tell you that a similar thing happened to me where I was being held by two guys and some random stranger came up and started talking to me as if he knew me and got me away from them. Don’t be so quick to judge..
@@kenopsiadraws “If I had a nickel for every time I saw an LU enjoyer recognize me in a completely unrelated video in the shorts tab in the last week, I’d have 2 nickels. Which isn’t a lot, but it’s weird that it happened twice right?”
@@kenopsiadraws YEAH LMAO I HAD TO DO A DOUBLE TAKE- my content is so fucking niche, the idea that I’d ever be recognized outside of related circles is completely alien to me. I feel like it’s the online equivalent of running into a friend from your hometown while traveling abroad.
@@jostthegamer5494 nah bro it's like people recording themselves giving homeless people blankets. sometimes it's real but they still want clout for it lmao
This woman is BRAVE! She did not stop. “Talking to her about what?” That was right in his face! Takes courage and we all need to dig deep to find that in ourselves like she did❣️
This is actually so sweet! Even if you’re a male. If you see a woman who looks really uncomfortable please help! A lot of the time we’ll be really thankful. I’ve had a male rescue me when I was quite drunk at a bar and he helped me get home safely. He was so sweet and pretended to be my brother. Please normalize helping people because this could have been a really bad situation!
Years ago I saw a girl I barely knew from community college crying and super drunk outside a bar and gave her a ride home, I was glad I could help her. But I was also scared that if anything happened before or after that and she was blacked out I might be blamed. It could be a hard decision for me today (and i don’t mean because anything is different, just I’m older and more risk averse).
Last time I was jumped, to be fair it was only two of em and they couldn’t really fight. The time before that I got yelled and dude ran off and she was screaming at me to leave her alone. I’m good. Women hate men. I just became a dam man but im already at fault .
Amazing what this girl did. Reminds me of a time I was stuck outside a train station really late at night waiting for my taxi, and some guy started trying to shout out to me saying weird gross things. And this older man stepped in when his taxi came and made them take me home first instead. I tried to object and say I was OK, and he just turned to me shook his head and said "I have a daughter, get in the taxi and go home to your parents safe", was so touching!
@Jukebox what if I told you this situation happened to me and instead of getting help I acted like a crazy person doing a crab dance so he'd leave me alone and he had the same reaction? Oh? What's that? You don't believe me? Well it happened.
She is a smart young woman! She played it cool. I loved how she handled the situation. Even if this was staged, it can still help alot of people! Girls keep looking after one another!
@@sorad5791even if it is, i went to high school in San Diego and human trafficking is VERY common there. I've been in and seen situations very similar to this that were not staged. In good neighborhoods too nonetheless. You literally never know, even if this is staged, it makes for good awareness and encourages those to do this for others
@@sorad5791Even if it was, like the person was saying, it probably still helps people know what to do if they ever encounter a situation like this, and could reduce bystanders! :)
@@fish_sauceit IS helpful! I did that for my group mate when we were walking in a busy subway station and some dude was trying to talk to her and she couldn't shake him off due to high density crowd, so I pretended to greet her, physically standing between them, and took her away to a place where he wouldn't follow, she was shocked I noticed her in distress, much less acted on it, but she was very thankful, and thanks to instructions and examples like this I didn't even hesitate that day. Adrenaline also helps. Heh. So ye, I agree, it's very important to know how to handle situations like these.
@@sorad5791 It possibly could be like the original commenter said. It is likely that ppl have had to do similar things irl to help someone out of a situation. Like they said it can help others realize they can help out in this way
The fear in their voices shows that this was NOT staged- bravery doesn’t mean lack of fear, it means acting in spite of the fear you’re feeling! Bravo, for jumping in, and helping another girl! You rock!
@@ambergray7552- I think they’re suggesting that it was scripted. I always suspect things like this are scripted , but it’s a good example to set for others, so I’m glad she posted it, whether it’s real or not.
The way she said “yes please🥹” like omg she sounds young too Not to be this type of person but omg ty for 20k likes❤❤❤ Omg 25k?! I don’t deserve your guys😊 MOMM I’M FAMOUS 27kkk Y’all stop hating on me 😅
This absolutely! My sister & I almost got caught in a bad situation because they had a girl with them to make them seem less suspicious. Be careful out there!
You cannot possibly be that stupid to not know this is a fake video. Do NOT give props to someone trying to fear longer females for social media likes.
@@random0k you can tell from the general vibe of the video. If you have no sense of real and fake and staged then you must either be really stupid or really young. Yes this situation happens but this situation in this video is definitely fake. There's no way you can't tell.
I’m 53+ and am so grateful to a young lady that approached me at the train station when this man followed me on 2 trains! The next weekend I past it on and helped a girl lost in the Bronx when she took the wrong train. Ladies keep doing this!! That young lady saved 2 lives ❤ Please don’t be as polite as I was. I didn’t want to do anything mean or hurtful and the man followed me on the subway for over an hour. He sat there and just followed me when I got off and transferred trains he just blankly followed me. Thankfully the young lady understood Spanish and heard me say “leave me alone”
Dang the Bronx, I lived there and Mann I helped a lot of people but no one ever helps me so I learned how to boss up out there❤ it’s magical when things like in this video happen
That's how you do it. You go to them and pretend to be a friend who the girl was planning to see there and then. This immediately signals to the other person that other people know where she is right now and therefore can narrow down when and where she may disappear. Pretending to be a friend tells the girl that you're on her side. If your help is unwelcome, she can tell you so in that moment. If she needs it, she can tap into the alibi and exit strategy you just handed her. To the outsider, there's no way to verify this, two people are inherently less pleasant as a target than one, and the implication of you being an actual friend puts you higher in priority than them. So they can't even get mad at her for getting away from them. Sometimes a victim will also do this, entering a group pretending to be part of it. Close rank around them until they're safe if that happens.
@Broeckchen Cool. Really. I like how this is communicated and how Women in precarious situations can feel better and stay safer. I don't love the misandry that's become so prevalent. The Bear/Woods, acting like 2024 is a MORE dangerous time for a women, the perception that Men are just waiting to find a women alone. Anyway, even with it being fake, it's a good message.
@@scourge8097 Not sure why we gotta bring up misandry though. I'd like to point out how I kept the language in my the latter part of my reply pretty gender neutral for a good reason, namely that I know boys and men can also be victims and also deserve protection and methods to protect themselves. The reason women act like we're more at risk is because we know more about the risk we have always been exposed to now. Just like why more people are lefthanded in the statistics now compared to before it was confirmed to be normal as opposed to be a freakish outlier. Once we know, we start to react, but it's always been true.
She sounded to terrified in the very beginning of the video. I thank God that she summoned the courage to help. Her stutter of ggGirls supporting is so endearing.
That's what I was thinking as well! She was bubbly and sweet didn't act afraid, when she clearly was in the beginning. I've had this done for me. In a bar, several women came up and acted like we had been bffs for life... I have also intervened and asked the girl if she wanted me to without the man knowing. Grateful she trusted me. Grateful that brave women exist. For the ppl saying this isn't real or that it's staged? WHO CARES. It's a strong message and females are by nature (usually) smaller, weaker and less likely to run. We can not look the other way. It's not morally right. If you see someone in danger and you can help you ought to.
This video never gets old. I just love how relatable this is. I just get this sense of almost motherly pride watching her do what girls do, look out for one another.
I actually got in a situation like this one, but I was actually the one who got saved. I was coming back from the beach really late (I was out with friends at a birthday party) when a bunch of hooded people started following me around, even when I would stop to look at something just to test out the waters, they would stop too and pretend they were doing something else. So I'm almost running with my heart rate thru the roof and to reach my car I needed to pass this giant park that had a lot of dark, not illuminated spots and I remember thinking that if I went thru there I wasn't making out of there, not in one piece at least. Then I saw a couple, not really old but much older than me, probably in the late 30s/early 40s so I jumped the occasion and run full speed yelling "Auntie! Ehy Auntie, sorry I'm late, my phone died". Those two looked at me and then noticed the group behind me, smiled and nodded "There you are! We were waiting for you for a while, ready to go home?" And that's how two randos literally saved me from a robbery or something else. They walked me to my car before waving goodbye. I know it's not really a good thing to just trust strangers, but in that moment my gut was like "it's do or die"
Sometimes your gut saves you. That couple could literally have just saved your life, be it from murder, gang rape, or a mugging. Thank goodness they were quick on the uptake! So glad you're safe.
@@ellastarburst736 The difference in the questioning is that utilizing I instead of you implies that the girl recording may possibly know the girl with the sketchy guy so that way it seems like the girls R friends or related or something. It’s just a safer tactic.
@@ellastarburst736 acting like you know the person that looks like they're in trouble acts as a stronger deterrent to whoever may be bothering them than a stranger coming up, because they don't have the opportunity to lie and act like they know the potential victim when questioned
@@ellastarburst736 if you say “do you know this guy” he will think she is not friends with her or related If you say “do I know this guy” it informs the person that you are related or friend
Bless you for doing this for her. If my own daughter ever found herself in a situation like this I’d hope there would be someone like you there for her. You’re an angel.
The lines are so clever. Calls her “girl” like they are friends. Asks “do I know him?”, to give the random girl a chance to say everything is ok. Then asks the guy what they are talking about to see if he is suspicious. I can’t praise this enough.
Sorry but this can't be more staged... Like, do you really think she randomly approached a kidnapper's car (who could have been carrying a gun) while recording to save a girl she doesn't know? C'mon now. She's just trying to get clout
@@ays- I mean, I’ve done it before so it’s pretty believable. And I’ve had girls check on me and pretended to be friends when I’m obviously uncomfortable
How in the absolute fuck do you people think this is real? Yes this stuff happens, but this videos fake af. She's laughing throughout. Please for the love of god get a brain.
@angelinaalvarez933 it's complicated though. Many people have needlessly died by getting involved. Not a reason to do nothing but still I know that'd the biggest fear for some people
I have two girls. My job is to protect them. Not to protect everyone. I help where i can, though. A couple of months ago, i saw a 13 year old girl being robbed by a guy with a knife( i live in england) i went into full dad mode and beat the shit out of this man while my friend called the police, as soon as theh got there they started trying to arrest me until the girl told them i saved her. I still got an assult charge because my hands were covered in his blood. The case was dissmissed, though, because the judge said if i hadn't done what i did, then she would likely be on a missing persons list or worse. I got a standing ovation in court that day. As an autistic man, it felt nice to be accepted and appreciated like that for the first time. She gave me a massive hug and said "i didn't know super heroes were real until you showed up," and im not gonna lie that shit had me balling.
"Hey girl i was waiting for you in the car" i love this you handled this so good without setting things off and getting out of there asap good job if you see something do something
You ABSOLUTELY saved this girl from a very scary situation. The poor dear sounded terrified and you just swooped right in and handled that creep and got her to safety. You're a hero.
You literally have 0 context in which to base that judgement off of....and as with most social media videos theres a HIGH probability that this entire scenario was scripted. When "real" situations occur theres no time to make or think about making a video for social media.
My girlfriend is a savage. Last year we were driving out of the dog park when she spotted a guy in a car trailing this young girl and shouting at her from his car. She looked really upset, and was just walking with her head down as he followed her in the car, leaning out of the window, yelling at her, flailing his arms. We could hear his muffled yells through the windows and this girl just kept walking, looking terrified, keeping her head down. It was crazy, my girl actually blared the horn and swerved in front of him to physically block him from her. She shouted “leave her alone a$$hole! He shouted back, swearing at us to mind our own business. She asked the girl if she needed a ride, and this girl just jumped into the car and we took her to her dads house which was pretty nearby. Turns out the dude in the car had been stalking and harassing her for weeks. He looked at least 10 years older than her. She barley looked 18. It was brutal. My girlfriend is a real life superhero.
I've done this. I'm a guy and saw a girl that looked around 14-16 looking very uncomfortable around a guy who was checking her out like a real nonce. Luckily, the girl and I had similar skin colour/ same race, so I could get away with making out she was a sibling. I ran up to her and said "Amina (random brown girl name) mum's waiting for us in the car. Who's this clown?" And she kind of caught on straight away that I was trying to get her out of this situation. She played along, guy walked away, she walked with me and when we got back to my car and the pedo mf was long gone she thanked me and went on her way. Keep women safe lads. Some can do it on their own, but many can't.
You got 9 likes for that and someone who just said, "yes girl we gotta help eachtoher out" got almost 100 likes and everyone in the replys were hyping her up
Yhe no one cares mate because the problem with what u just said is that you are a guy... no one cares about us. It's all "girls power" "girls saving girls from the bad men, because all men are like that". No one gives a penny about us. You gotta understand that social media is basically just promoting the idea that we are useless, weak, basically anything that is bad
@@bestedits. That's fine I didn't really create the post for validation. It was more for awareness. Letting people know men can also protect women if the time ever comes.
Yes girl. That was Executed PERFECTLY. And the other girl was perfect too. "Do I know him though?", She caught on you were asking Her if SHE knew him. Good job. Slow clap for you ma'am 👏. 👏. 👏 👏 👏
Her “yes please” shook me. I understand that feeling, and it’s terrifying. It’s heartbreaking to see how uncomfortable and scared she was, and I am SO glad you were there just in time to help. You never know what can happen. You saved this girls life and as a fellow woman I have so much respect for the bravery you found in yourself to do that. You put yourself in possible danger as well, to help someone else, and I’m so glad you both made it out ok ❤️
@@lightless no, but better be safe than sorry. and every single woman knows other women (usually several) who’ve been sexually assaulted or harassed by a man. i personally know 8. women get kidnapped, raped, and killed doing everyday things, especially at night. like going out for a jog or cutting across a park on their way home. maybe read up on statistics and actually educate yourself before you make stupid comments like this. embarrassing
I love this! We need like an international “I am not okay, save me” sign. Like if you are in an uncomfortable situation and you see another woman just go, “hey girl, I haven’t seen you in ages” and we know to not leave you alone under any circumstances. Also, if you have this level of confidence, use it. You can pick up your phone, fake a call, “oh there you are, your brother said he was trying to call you, he will be picking us up in a few minutes”. We all know not all men are bad, but I rather hurt an innocent guys feelings for five minutes then let another woman go through a lifetime of aftermath after sexual assault.
I also know of a situation where the guy cornering her and the 'rescue girl' were a team so even if a girl helps you out in such a situation, thank her but don't get in a stranger's car. It's really unfortunate how you cannot even trust the person who is trying to help you but that is what the society has become now.
Yeah omg because I dont wanna do this and they're actually talking to their friend or smthn or if you don't realize someone is uncomfy, a sign would be so helpful!
i don’t think it matters if it’s staged or not bc this is an example of trusting ur gut, helping someone in potential danger, and this video is just overall a good lesson on what u can do to help prevent bad things from happening. ❤
your gut is not always right, saying this for people with ocd or people who obsess over everything. like if u think ur gonna die today randomly, yeah you probs wont die. but in scenarios like this u should probs try to help.
@@StarlightzStuff yea, but they weren't talking about this kind of situation and you really can't Include all cases when you are talking, about anything
She's very smart by asking her "do I know him?" She is basically asking her if she knows him and she also made sure to ask if she wanted a ride so she isn't misunderstanding the situation and it's like a double check. Very brave and I think alot of people wouldn't like to be in an awkward situation of misunderstanding (despite the fact that it can save a person) or the danger but she did it in a smart way to avoid it
You really couldn’t have handled or worded that better. You’re so amazing. Keeping the things you said in mind incase I have to do this for someone else
@Solarayo 🤷🏽♀️ Who knows, Who doesn't know, and idk if u assuming I believe this 😅 But like I'm just commenting on what I see so that's basically it. If it's fake ok 🤷🏽♀️ If its real then I'm happy for them. That's all.
@@CACruizin For a late-night encounter with a dude with bad intentions, there's no anxiety or seriousness in her voice! Plus a girl in peril wouldn't be stopped talking to her rapist/abductor/murderer. She'd have slid past him and carried on moving looking for help. Our heroine didn't film the perp so she could aide the police to lock him up. No... Its fake