The Top Three Rules for Being the Best Man You Can Be 

This was my husband's question. Thank you so much Jordan for uploading this. This is the best wedding gift we could ever receive. God bless you.

I love this man. He has helped me become a better version of myself.

1. Be honest with yourself. 2. Do not lie with intention of hurting someone. 3. Make peace with your father.

I never thought I’d be in the position that I am now in 4 years ago. I was aimless, nihilistic and confused. After listening to Dr Peterson and reading his books, my life changed. I stood up straight, with my shoulders back. I told the truth, not only to other people, but to myself. I changed my mindset about learning and I enrolled into university to get as educated as I could be. I lost weight and became healthy. I am now in a profession that is on the way to paying for a living that I never had as a child. The next goal? Restore the broken relationship I have with my parents. As tough as that will be, I know that I am tougher. Thank you Dr Peterson, your work has truly changed my life for the better.

Cleaned up my house. Enrolled in university to chase my dream. Got married to the most beautiful woman in the world, all thanks to you, Dr. Peterson.

God bless this man and all his wisdom. He has changed my life for the better in so many ways. Thank you, Dr. Peterson!

Funny enough, I discovered Jordan Peterson randomly when I had my youtube on my tv playing random videos while I was cleaning my room (seriously). I stopped and listened to this man speaking so powerfully at (what looked like at least) a dry administrative meeting. Since then, I've stopped doing any drugs, have found a challenging career track I feel energized by, and most importantly, found my soul mate and have had a child. I could not have done these things without the wisdom imparted by Professor Peterson.

Thanks for helping encourage so many people to become a force for good, Dr Peterson.

Jordan B Peterson is such an inspiration, truly one of the only role models we have left

They say find a mentor. I just found my first online Mentor 🙏🏻❤ Keep making the world a better place Mr. Peterson.

1. Ask the question Right. Prayer & thinking 2. What stupid things I am doing that I could stop doing that I would stop doing that prevent me from being the best person I can 3. Tell the truth or at least don't lie

“Men, by the way, can’t get pregnant!” Oh that made my side hurt! Thanks for the belly laugh Dr. Peterson!

The man is already a legend

God that piece about having the best relationship possible with your kids really made me tear up. Its so obvious but no one ever points this out.

This man is so powerful and wise spiritually. I’m so glad he’s alive and such inspiration as a father figure to who never had such an image. Even for a woman his wisdom is completely relevant.

There's something so genuine about Dr. Peterson's laugh. It makes me smile to see him being light and funny.

I love that I understand what he says now.

The simplest ideas communicated from a deep place of experience, knowledge and humility hit like a truck.

How can anyone listen to this man and not love love his heart, spirit and words!?

Great interview and question. Let your children and wife see you submit to your Heavenly Father and admit your mistakes and apologize ( whole heartedly) when you fall short as a father and husband. Love your Heavenly Father with all your heart all your strength and all your mind and love your neighbor as yourself. If we could get that right it would make us better people. In other words if you want to be a better father and husband model yourself to the best father and husband available.

Last November for the first time since I voted - 47 years ago I changed my party. I was fed up and disgusted. It's very lonely now. I am not disagreeable all it took was to change my opinion on a few issues. I disagreed and my friends stopped including me in all activities. You are kind and smart and I'm glad I found you

I keep forgetting Jordan is a grandpa. I look at him as a young middle-aged man, but sitting with his wife, they look so comfortable, like they are ready to pass on their wisdom to the future generation and let them fight the battles. They'll just be cozy.

God bless you Jordan !

Critical Analysis....Rational thinking... Great men .... What can i do better... What are the stupid things I am doing... how can I change.. try to stop lying... Great advice...

Seriously, how good is this advice. Cannot believe how accessible such life changing advice can be.

Blessed be mr Peterson. My gratitude for your voice is unending.

Jordan is a Saint , Amazing Speaker .. Thank YOU !

Hah, I am currently reading an interesting little book and that one made me think about what "praying" (from Christianity perspective) is. And I came to a similar conclusion to what Jordan just said: It's a thought process. It's reflecting the past, what happened, who you were and what you did. It's reflecting, what you could have done better, what you did great and where you struggled and may need help to find your way. It's also thinking of the future. How would you like the things to be, what is your goals, your wishes. It just all happens in a "conversation" with a fictional being (this comes from the perspective of an atheist). This realization hit me hard. I always thought praying to an invisible person that lives in the skies, was a stupid waste of time, until a few days ago. And since then I try to take time at the end of the day to reflect - just as people do with their prayers - but without the praying and conversation with an invisible man, that lives in the sky. I just have an inner dialog with myself.

It's so admirable, that you guys can work with each other . Bravo again! 👏

Love this man. He's so humble.

I've been listening to Mr Peterson for the last couple years, It hits hard to see him getting this much older on such short period.

That ending was fantastic.

I just love this guy, he is motivating me like crazy to become a better person.

It is so important to ask questions, and to learn to ask good questions. It is the beginning of thought!

2:48 I’ve done this the past year and it has made a big difference. In order to make room for new I had to let go of old that wasn’t conducive to getting what I want. Haven’t gotten everything because I haven’t given up everything

You Are Amazing Mr Petersen Never Think Otherwise The Impact You've Had On People's Lives Is Immeasurable Including My Own. Certainly Been A Better Man Since I Started Watching Your Videos, Your Impact Is World-wide. May God Continue To Bless You With Good Health.

I just realized something amazing. I always saw comments from people saying that Jordan Peterson changed their life's, it was like I knew what they were saying but not feeling connected with it. Well, I can finally say I am one of them now. What am amazing human being. You can feel his view his emotions, feel his thoughts and see his thoughts.

Goodness. Such insight, infused with humour!

Your videos never fail to inspires and make me believe in myself! Thank you for being a guiding light 💡

We love you Jordan Peterson!

That last bit is Brilliant.

Im Very Thankful Idk how I found his Videos... Thank You!

It is amazing that we are the only people who needs to accept or ignorance while the people who speak in such strong suggestions never admitted their mistakes in front of people. Maybe I am wrong and ignorant and wjat he says is always on point never a single mistake.

with Jordan B Peterson, I have adopted to be my father. Although he might not know that he has changed my life and how i am seeing the world from a man's perspective. God bless you real, really good.

Tears for. Pnuma 1 🔥 Love that man. Dr.J

you just gotta love him. and once again, you have improved my life so much i still (5 years in) cannot even fathom. i thought i was a lost cause but you gave me hope and appearantly i'm good enough to have a great, beautiful and caring stick with my stubborn brickhead haha so, thanks for that.

A living legend. Simply a net profit for society

This ends on a perfect note hahaha, never change, Jordan!

I was there in LONDON! Great stuff!

He's overall improved so much compared to past lectures. His face looks younger, brighter, more relaxed. His voice is clearer and softer and not harsh as it otherwise used to be. I don't have the proper vocabulary to describe it better than that, but I think we all noticed the difference. Glad to see him at his best.

I adore this man

i heard his laugh by end of video. it is a rare moment haha. happy

Incremental death and rebirth...well said!

You are so amazing and adorable. Thank you Jordan. Prayer is how we communicate with Almighty Father God. ✝️❤️

I'm sharing far and wide

Great video. IN regard to your discussion on Prayer & Thought. There was a Hidden Brain podcast years back talking about the power of imaginary friends. It showed how not only can our brain create simulated worlds (for testing ideas), but also create simulated versions of either people we know, or people we would like to talk to. A very powerful tool. One story in the podcast that's stuck with me was about a elderly man, politically conservative, who's wife - politically the opposite - had died of cancer. He talked about when he was confronted with difficult decisions, he would subconsciously summon her back to life, to see what she felt about a topic. We're pretty amazing creatures.

What do you wanna do dad?! Literally tears 😢

Its all about asking more questions and one day we find answers

Nice outfit. Very nice ! Colors are easy on my eyes. The coat that’s two colors distracts me . This outfit- Order. The blue/red outfit - Kaos

Just amazing 👏 😍

I agree with him 100%. I also like Jocko Willink’s advice for young men to be better at being men. Lift weights Do a combat sport Stretch Eat healthy These line up with Dr. Peterson’s “Become a monster and learn to control it.” They’re both scholars of our time.

Mulțumim!

If the whole world started to watch JBP, then the world would be a wonderful place to live.

Yes we all god within us of course chakras clearing relise old stuck energys

Its not about being the best. Its about being the best you can be.

I agree with the thumbnail

There is no fundamental difference between any human and every individual should be valued and treated with justice and fairness.

Such a lovely man!

i try to put myself in the place of those i like, so i can hopefully see what they'd like

The part where Jordan mentioned the spirit of deceit dying for something new to be born is very similar to the symbol of the Ouroboros which represents life, death, and renewal.

Written like the WRITE IN in the stars.

You could see the sadness on his face when he thought about how kids can be hurt - before he said it out loud.

I love his little laugh. 😉

Having his beloved Tammy at his side💕.

I'm too awesome to listen to this guy

The part where the kid is joyfully asking the dad what he wants to do but he's bitter so he hurts them struck me deep, know that all too well, hopefully I'll be diferent..

Very funny at the end doctor Peterson hehehehe

Love and the highest admiration for your Dr Peterson ❤🙏💥

6:25 Jordan is so right about this. I have more than my fair share of resentments but with my first son on the way (almost done 😀), all this pales in comparison. Who cares about unfair treatment you might or might not have received when your little boy wants to play with you?

I like the Hair Jordan

God bless

Jordan's wife here totally reminds me of Dianne Wiest (the mom) in "The Lost Boys".

I will never get the hate surrounding you. All you want to do is help. The sad thing is that some people only see the negative in a person and only see their past, instead of seeing the good in them.

That was a telling uncomfortable pause at the end. It’ll all come out in the warsh Dr. Peterson.

This makes me want to hear Jordan b Peterson vs Eckhart Tolle, Epic Rap Battles of History!

love it!

The strongest real words in this conversation is that thoughts is a type of prayers.. actually in Islam it's worth shipped more than prayers and عباده for a year.. You are on the right track of thinking

Nice jab at the end 😂

Man me and my girl would be so content if our honey moon was go seeing Jordan on one of his speeches.

god bless

Thank you 🍀🙏🏵️

Does anyone know what this whole interview is called?

Where can we get the whole thing ?

I swear his jokes are always so out of the blue but so good when he does them 😂

The end 😂😂

the end killed me :D

In my opinion & thought provoking; "But... there is no ignorance"... Since any "ignorance" results from an trivial and thus so common Human biological limitations and a even "virtual endless" throughout the time personal underdevelopment(?)... Anyone can learn that the intellectual investment of time is for a full lifetime(?)... There is even to much vital and necessary acumulated knowlege in the world's societies, for one indivudual to learn and "carry"(?)... The mind and consciousness has a "virtual infinite potential"; education and culture is the "self- control" of such potential(?).

JP just jumped on the first rule and only had to work on two more.

We are at the end of a type of meaning, which is the idea that for anything to have meaning, it must have a *forward* type meaning: that to have any meaning then it must knock down walls and be willing to destroy things. That's end result of the meaning of getting to some type of place. That is ultimately meaningless and necessarily nihilistic. It's an assumption that a setting can be controlled and defined life in a manner that makes any human life as fundamentally meaningless. The forward movement as a goal in itself that disregards the individual human frame as the fundamental structure and limitation of human value is fundamentally self destructive. That's the null hypothesis of Dr. Quentin Smith. If forward movement was the goal only, then every event is only an anthropomorphic expression of a previous event, and the nature of infinity means that no matter how far one gets there's always a little bit of space further. If a single human being didn't fit in a universal sieve as the guiding metric of limitations and movement, then there is no standard or limitations to movement. That's infinite form and infinite movement with no form or limitations. That's the God delusion. The idea of God is a pretense to a logically impossible infinity. Nihilism then is the logical consequence of belief in God, with an emotional sense of denial of that fact that prevents any acknowledgement that the solution to life's problems is underneath that scab instead of around or beside it. The scab being the fear of nothingness. The solution then is an acknowledgement of personal human limitations within the larger context of the universe. The argument from evil in fact is that no being that can claim to be God can exist without already existing within the universe itself. The context being that the universe is something that God lives within, like a human being driving a car. The context of the car is evidence of a logically precise context within the larger universe. The only meaning is that of a satisfying life. The only meaning is that of living a small life within the obvious context of a much larger universe as a small human being. That truth is obvious and intuitively so. Meaning is only necessary as a courageous becon to rediscover satisfaction or the perfect sieve of personal evolution. The idea of "transcendence" is an old trick to use the masses to keep life from going extinct and that's not necessary anymore. Iniquity is a word that's synonymous with injustice. Are you a sinner that just needs to find ones evolutionary seive, or are you just a deliberate worker of injustice or have you already found that evolutionary niche? As for me, I already have my place in the evolutionary process. If I were to interpret the confusion in regards to meaning it seems that others hadn't found their own state of being to start. Atheism is the philosophy of the starting place for personal evolution that allows the larger context to preserve itself. Theism is only a pretentious expectation that heaven is the "starting" place. Heaven is only a human invention. Earth is our home. Nihilism is what theism inevitably leads too in it's negative form, because the hand in theism always leads to a foolish conclusion. Once one acknowledges that, one can see the solutions to the problems of life more obviously. The proof is that it's only a false sense of pride that's causing theists to try to keep their hands on the scale of theistic foolishness, when it would be so easy for people to get out of their own way and live life within an indifferent universe. It may be limited, but it's satisfying. Either life can be still and is striving for coherence where meaning is the human shape capable of staying human, or life is just an endless sea of cause and effect that's ultimately formless and meaningless. These are the only competing philosophies. Some think they aren't nihilists just because they believe in God, when in fact it's the belief in God that keeps this very obvious logical syllogism from being obvious. It's their belief in God that keeps them essentially nihilistic with no hope of escape. Atheism as a philosophy is the only antidote to theism and the meaningless philosophy that theism entails.

We do have that spark... literally... laminin... confirmation of the reality of CHRIST. Isn't that just beautiful?!!!