This episode!!! 👏 👏 👏. Shanan, so proud of you for finding your voice and your approach. You are right that it’s not your job to facilitate conversations between Parker and his dad. It’s not Parker’s job either. Good job! Cheyenne, all of that. I told my daughter’s dad the same because we’d broken up before I found out I was pregnant. Sadly, he did not live up to his end of the deal but I kept it moving. R, I was in a similar boat when my daughter’s dad moved back home because it is an easier conversation for sure when the dad is playing “jump in, jump out.”
I love how much y'all open up about your coparenting relationships so much! It really helps people to understand. Shannan I'm so happy that you found your voice and I'm so so sorry that you are going through such a hard time right now! Sending y'all love.😍
Can Zach please prerecord the intro 🗣️🗣️👏🏻 his really good at it. And your introduction is really great and definitely 3 moms 5kids literally chopping it off about any and everything that’s happening in your daily lives and we love your wtf moments… don’t change the intro just have R or Zach do it ❤😂
Shanan I really understand where your coming from single mom of 2 kids, their dad is always in and out but they are so use to it and the minimal effort but entitlement he thinks he has blows my mind and my biggest support has been my family but mainly my dad they don’t miss out on any fatherly things all my nieces and nephews do with because my dad helps me so much
Not going to lie... Chey I thought the post was confusing & I also thought it was directed towards you! 😅 But glad it wasn't! You 2 seem to coparent so well. As a stepmom, I love to see healthy coparenting! 😊 Coparenting is hard. I've been a stepmom for almost 12yrs now. It's still hard. It gets easier in ways... as the child grows, but you never not have to deal with the other parent in some way... you always are going to be apart of the childs life, so in a sense eachothers. And it's hard. Putting pride aside is a good message- thanks Cory! 😅 Say it for all the people! 👏 Shanan- always always always be the bigger person. No matter how hard. When it comes to your child, your child will see you being the bigger the person (eventually) and will remember and learn from you. Always do the right thing. I remind myself all the time... keep doing the right thing. Kids are the priority in coparenting. They are watching and they love both parents. They see themselves in both parents. So they will remember and understand it all when they are older. But for now they can't understand. I stay keeping my side of the street clean. So do you! Don't let frustration get to you too bad. ❤ I'll add, I am a child of divorce too. I see & know many aspects of coparenting. Yall are doing great! ❤❤❤
I love y'all and Shannon your not alone it will certainly get better I'm 17 years in and I told my son's dad 15 years ago your either all in or all out and we are okay regardless
Shannon you are great person & mother & you are human we have bad days & situations. You are to have friends to vent , to talk too, that very supportive!!!. Praying that everything gets better for you.🙏🏼🤍🥹🫶🏼
Thanks for sharing and I love love the podcast!💕 Ya’ll stay encouraged! Meditation and praying in Jesus name helps a lot. Ask for wisdom, knowledge and understanding.
This is for R. In what senario would you take ur baby daddy back? I know he cheated and all that but deep down would you take him back? Kids removed and all just for you, would you?
I’m sorry but you’re saying “ for her “ like she wanted that crazy ass schedule she is literally a child let that child live as a child,,, it’s summer they should be running free with no “ complete schedule “ damn that girl once she’s grown is gonna be like “ I never had free time to be a child and that’s just bc I was forced to do so so much so my parents could be free! & so they can make sure I’ll fall the fuck sleep soon as they want me too bc I’m so worn out, wow. “ I don’t like that what so ever, yuck! When school is in i get having activities to do but god damn… pointless for these poor kids to be so overwhelmed with this sorta shit.. and it’s always the parents that have a “ following or some time of fame “ I did this once with my kids and they begged for me to just let them be free for the 3 months they have during summer, they ask when they want to go out they ask if they want to do something that day, not be like this is it and that’s it’s. You have this this this & this to do and so what. To bad for you and your poor over stimulated brain 😢 god damn. Then you get on here like I’m hella tiered and drained bc my kids schedule… blah blah then like don’t… your doing it to yourself! Fucking give me a break, wack ass shit, your wack no wonder I stopped listening to this shit 😂 She said looking at the calendar I’m like “ where do you go “ literally 3 months out of the year you can’t just chill and spend it with your child you gotta ship them off to some camp get the fuck out of here! I’m so busy with work and school and the kids sports during the school year I love having these 3 months to just be able to get up, ask them what they want to do for that day and go do it, spending time with my babies! They will not be babies forever! I hate this so so so much. Rot.
It looks like her child is loved and is happy. So that means she’s doing a great job. Clearly something is messed up in your life to attack another mom.
