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Co-Parenting as Allies, not Adversaries | Ebony Roberts & Shaka Senghor | TEDxDetroit 

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Shaka Senghor and Ebony Roberts, who met and fell in love while Shaka was in prison, struggled to navigate their new relationship as co-parents after their breakup. In spite of their hurt, they agreed to parent their son Sekou as allies not adversaries. Their relationship is challenging the popular narrative that parents can’t get along after a love affair ends. In this talk, they share how they show up for their son, and each other.
Ebony Roberts is the principal/founder of QualOne Research, a qualitative research firm based in Los Angeles. She is a native Detroiter who has worked in the food justice and prison abolition movements for nearly 20 years. Her book “The Love Prison Made and Unmade” (Amistad/HarperCollins) is a national bestseller and was named a Notable Memoir by The New York Times. Ebony holds a BA in social relations and psychology and a PhD in educational psychology, both from Michigan State University.
Shaka Senghor is the President of Shaka Senghor, Inc. His memoir, Writing My Wrongs: Life, Death and Redemption in an American Prison, debuted on The New York Times and The Washington Post Best Seller Lists. Shaka was recently recognized by the Oprah Winfrey Network as a “Soul Igniter” in the inaugural class of the SuperSoul 100. His 2014 TED Talk was featured in their “Year in Ideas” roundup and has over 1.5 million views. Today, Shaka’s priority is shifting societal narratives by creating content with deep social impact and high entertainment value. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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Комментарии : 44   
@repssrepps
@repssrepps 2 года назад
I am Great, I am Awsome , I am Amazing, I am Thoughtful, I am kind, I am loving, I am caring, I am funny, I am smart, I’m a big boy, I’m a soldier, I’m a warrior, I am Me
@alexandriaobong6753
@alexandriaobong6753 3 года назад
I could feel the love they have for each other. You could tell their breakup took a lot. Thank you so much for this.
@coparentingcollective
@coparentingcollective 4 года назад
Awesome! Our children, regardless of their parent's relationship status, want just five things: love, acknowledgment, inclusion, joy, & opportunities. Should it really be that hard to get out of our feelings to let them feel like their life matters too? After divorce, nothing tells our kids they are still important like truly great co-parenting.
@Allergictocatstoo
@Allergictocatstoo 4 года назад
Screaming from my roof top, love is capable of so much good.
@_Renee2
@_Renee2 10 месяцев назад
"fostering trust to coexist as parents" this takes maturity from both sides.
@goncanouenochbisd56
@goncanouenochbisd56 4 года назад
How in the world this doesn't have a million views🤷‍♂️
@perfettomusic1
@perfettomusic1 4 года назад
So beautiful. I cried through the entire talk. Thank you for doing this.
@daneedelmar4716
@daneedelmar4716 Год назад
I'm working overnight shift and crying at work. I commend your honor for your family and the love you want to extend to your son❤
@leahvann7328
@leahvann7328 Год назад
The first three minutes hit me hard. This whole time I’m blaming him but really, I’m the one to blame because I’m acting off of a hurt mentality and not love.
@shawnashamir
@shawnashamir 4 месяца назад
watching in 2024 and girl I agree with you 100 percent I have been living and acting out of hurt which has breaded nothing but hurt. Its time to LOVE!
@coreyneil8763
@coreyneil8763 3 года назад
I cry every time I watch this.
@sarahdean3082
@sarahdean3082 2 года назад
Made me cry, thank you, beautiful
@djgospelslimwtyj97.7fm6
@djgospelslimwtyj97.7fm6 3 года назад
Her book brought me here. I admire both of them.
@perfettomusic1
@perfettomusic1 4 года назад
Well done, both of you.
@BETHJUAN86
@BETHJUAN86 4 года назад
This is good. Acknowledging the love that once was and allowing it to fuel the love for a shared child. It's aspiring. Thanks for sharing. Me and my daughter's father are in a good space now and it is nice to see other people who are in that same good space.
@faidochannel7486
@faidochannel7486 2 года назад
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@Co-ParentingCompass
@Co-ParentingCompass Год назад
Wow, this video by Ebony Roberts and Shaka Senghor is so inspiring! It's incredible to see how they were able to put their differences aside and prioritize their child's well-being as co-parents, even after their breakup. Their approach of being allies instead of adversaries is a game-changer for those struggling with co-parenting. Their story is a testament to the power of forgiveness and the importance of putting our children first. Watching this talk is a must for anyone seeking guidance on how to co-parent successfully after a breakup.
@goddessthairapy2838
@goddessthairapy2838 4 года назад
Love is the greatest SUPERPOWER!
@henrydavisjr1361
@henrydavisjr1361 3 года назад
Awesome!!!
@barbdf2
@barbdf2 4 года назад
Love is your SuperPower!
@sarahmoodle6076
@sarahmoodle6076 3 года назад
Loved it
@harrisonmorin616
@harrisonmorin616 4 года назад
Beautiful
@gosegomakone3523
@gosegomakone3523 3 года назад
I love this
@user-eq6to1rg7c
@user-eq6to1rg7c Год назад
Good job 👏 👏👏
@couponemail1425
@couponemail1425 Год назад
This brought tears to my eyes. Goodness, I have work to do.
@modestgoddess_1245
@modestgoddess_1245 2 года назад
This is my cousin💗💗💗
@nwad76
@nwad76 4 года назад
They are still in love with each other. But, this is beautiful.
@jamilahaforrest2058
@jamilahaforrest2058 3 года назад
Yass
@sammim6229
@sammim6229 Год назад
How beautiful 😍
@sriwatisri7538
@sriwatisri7538 2 года назад
NET.
@sriwatisri7538
@sriwatisri7538 2 года назад
TED TALENT EARTH DAY SEASON 1 NETTV (2016)
@sriwatisri7538
@sriwatisri7538 2 года назад
(A-BO)
@fabco7
@fabco7 2 года назад
Horrible marriage, wonderfull co-parents. I don't know if I should be happy or not, because your son will still grow up in a broken home, no matter how good of a co-parent you are. At the end of the day, I hope it will work out for your son.
@jacobwooten6893
@jacobwooten6893 3 года назад
I honestly have no clue what the point of this Ted talk is. It was just stories with some exposition all followed by meaningless call and response. They barely touch on love and coparenting at all. They’re both there for him and talk every night. Ok...?
@nicknack8459
@nicknack8459 4 года назад
So she corresponded with a man in prison for murder, then started a family with him? She has a PhD. She could have done so much better and her family would still be intact to this day if she made better choices in her men.
@amandamqanda5225
@amandamqanda5225 4 года назад
Okay Mr Perfect!!
@charicemanor8045
@charicemanor8045 3 года назад
Don’t judge
@baiibeeNor
@baiibeeNor 3 года назад
Wow that’s what you picked up
@trinajay2202
@trinajay2202 3 года назад
But wait... how do you know the latter of your comment?! 🙄🙄🙄
@fabco7
@fabco7 2 года назад
She probably would agreed on what you said. Unfortunately time can't get winded back to reconsider choices. Probably she won't make the same choice as she did I'm guessing
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