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The Truth About Working Mothers, Daycare and Parenting - Erica Komisar | Wisdom Rebellion

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The truth about working mothers and the pressures of modern society are explored in this revealing discussion with Erica Komisar. As society increasingly values professional achievement over motherhood, we delve into the hidden costs of this shift and its impact on children's well-being.
Join us as Erica Komisar unveils the critical need for maternal presence in the early and adolescent years of a child's life. We discuss the devaluation of motherhood, the psychological implications of daycare, and how feminism's focus on career over caregiving affects both mothers and their children.
Learn the truth about the importance of nurturing and the struggles many women face in balancing motherhood with professional demands. Discover potential solutions, such as more flexible career paths and societal support, to better meet the emotional needs of both children and parents.
This conversation is a must-watch for anyone interested in understanding the truth about working mothers and finding ways to support a healthier balance for future generations. Join us to challenge the current narratives and advocate for changes that honours the fundamental value of motherhood."
#Motherhood #Parenting #FlexibleCareers #workingmom
Chapters:
00:00 Devaluing mothering in modern times and its impact.
05:21 Feminism masculinises women, limiting their leadership potential.
12:03 Understanding maternal instincts through nurturing and dependency.
17:24 Entrepreneurial practice offers freedom and self-reliance.
25:01 Declining fertility rates impact the mental health of children.
28:53 Caring for children driven by selfless need.
37:36 When to seek professional help if you’re struggling.
38:44 Politicians avoid difficult issues, neglecting societal impact.
46:39 Achieving work-life balance for working mothers.
50:11 Parental presence is crucial in adolescent mental health.
55:28 Gradual separation helps children adjust to school.
01:00:55 How Erica’s work has changed my parenting.
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15 авг 2024

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@WisdomRebellion Месяц назад

If you want to support the show all you have to do is subscribe - it massively helps with keeping the show on the road and get more great guests so we can dive into the topics that you want to hear about. Thank you for your support!

@Ai-teach1 29 дней назад

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@JJtvee 16 дней назад

These videos should be mandatory for families to watch before having children.

@WisdomRebellion 10 дней назад

Thank you and Erica's work is a must for any existing or to-be-parents.

@Jdjustsaying 3 месяца назад

A childcare centre can never replace a mother ever. ❤ Mothering is what children deserve.

@WisdomRebellion 3 месяца назад

If only our politicians believed that too... I'm getting more sceptical about daycare the more I look into it - impossible to fund well, impossible to staff adequately and children pay the price for the shortcomings of the system.

@loovejewellery6431 2 месяца назад

Thank you for continuing to discuss this topic. When every family member is against not putting our 3yr old into nursery, watching interviews like this remind me that I’m doing the right thing. It baffles me why we think it’s better to put our children into settings when they’re young. People look at me like I’m insane when I say, it’s actually better for kids to be with their parents when they’re young. Shouldn’t that be common sense? It was thanks to this doctor that I decided to not return to work and to have my children home until they’re at least 5-6yrs old. My children can’t thank you enough. Thank you.

@WisdomRebellion 2 месяца назад

The culture seems to go against any common sense we used to or still have. I'm keeping my children close to me and consider delaying starting school for my little boy too and that was thanks to Erica too. It's what I believe is best for my children but also for me - spending time with them has been and continues to be the greatest adventure of my life. Thank you for going against the grain. So many other women would benefit from doing the same.

@honorburza9110 21 день назад

Private nurseries can take babies a few months old from 7am-7pm! Five days week. Mine were in at 1 years old 8am-5pm, but thankfully just two days a week. I was led to believe that early nursery exposure was a good thing for socialisation, separation practice etc. As hard as it is to do my job two days week because always feel like in behind and it is never enough time, I am glad that my children are the priority. I am fortunate that I can do that financially. It is hard to juggle, the work of Erica Komisar helps me realise that I do have my priorities right.

@GoldasGirls 14 дней назад

I soooo agree!!! Motherhood is very very important - nurturing we can never replace afterwards. You can only raise your child once. I LOVE my work - but took a huge break when I got my 3 babies - and was there for them - and it’s an enormous privilege to be a mother. Its easy to work parttime when the children are bigger - indeed less income - but that’s less important. Indeed -other women can look down on you for choosing motherhood fulltime for a while. I didnt care. Attachment Parenting has great articles and support.

@WisdomRebellion 10 дней назад

This is great to hear, I have quite a few friends who embraced motherhood fully, and it's wonderful to see them so much more fulfilled, peaceful, and strangely determined than they were before. I'm glad to hear you made it work for you, too. Your kids' lives will be so much better because of it. Money is great, but only if you know how to spend it well, and since it's a skill we're almost never taught, we often chase the one thing that will never bring us "happiness".

@househannah333 Месяц назад

I want Erica's message to be mainstream! This is serious and important. Every time she gets a public platform her voice is smashes by thoughtless 1 line responses. Everyone needs to listen!!

@WisdomRebellion Месяц назад

How much better would future societies be if her message got to the powers that be... slowly but surely, I'm still hopeful some of us will be able to turn this around.

@kumarina Месяц назад

What a great interview. My grandmother and mother had a really bad attachment experience. My mother directed me towards career path and never mentioned how wonderful being a mum was. As soon as I became one I felt like a failure. Now my son is 12 and I am looking forward for a second chance to connect more with him.

@WisdomRebellion Месяц назад

Thank you, Erica's work is such an inspiration to reconnect with your kids, no matter how much of a rocky start your relationship might have been. P.S. I still feel like a failure sometimes, it might just come with the motherhood as a package.

@nicolegerard2907 2 месяца назад

Nap when they nap is the worst piece of advice especially if you have a short napper. When am I going to eat, shower , clean or take time for myself? I hate that advice cause most times by the times I settled into sleep after eating a meal (30 mins) plus the 15 mins it takes to fall asleep my newborn was awake. It just ended in frustration if anything. So no expectations no frustrations.

@user-yup-you-are-human2 3 месяца назад

There is literally no respect in the 🇺🇸 for mothers. I can see how disrespectful people are to their children now, and as someone who cant have children it saddens me and angers me

@WisdomRebellion 3 месяца назад

I'm sorry to hear that. Unfortunately, you're right. Individually, we all care about our children, but collectively, we don't - and our policies show that. Just the other day, I've seen one of the best TED talks ever by Scott Galloway answering the question, 'Do we love our children?' His point was that we have a system in place which constantly transfers wealth from the youth to older, wealthy people.

@irynasakharchuk7044 2 месяца назад

I love Erica❤my mentor.Thank you so much

@aannaak 3 месяца назад

Yes Kat, I remember that when you were pregnant you were so confident you will back to work soon after delivery and back to previous work activity 😊. Yes, things changes 🤗

@WisdomRebellion 3 месяца назад

Kids change everything and most for the better, although the cleanliness of our house has deteriorated drastically... I'm not going to lie 😅

@philipsankot8003 3 месяца назад

Men and women have different competitive advantages... unless those partitioned competitive advantages are defined and explained....we will continue to inefficiently allocate time and resources in a maner that continues to lead to lower and lower birth rates

@WisdomRebellion 3 месяца назад

My thinking is that they have been explained but have been under constant attack over the last 30-40 years, so the different skill sets are not being applied efficiently as we play with novel ideas that are clearly negative for both men and women.

@JoySpirit888 3 месяца назад

I baby-sat children for 10 years so i could raise my own children

@WisdomRebellion 3 месяца назад

Erica was saying that a stable nanny who can form a deep and lasting relationship with a child she looks after is the best solution if a mother, father, or close relative is not an option.

@ACAjc152 13 дней назад

Kasia? Witam

@WisdomRebellion 13 дней назад

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