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The Truth About Female Sexual Desire 

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When you think of sexuality and sexual desire, we often default to the male perspective. Many people assume it's the same for females, but you'd be surprised by how different they are.
In this video, we address common misconceptions and stigma surrounding female sexuality, the truth about female sexual desire, including low sex drive in women and issues like painful sex, and why these things are happening due to the lack of insights.
Our discussion, supported by insights from sex therapists and experts in human sexuality, aims to promote sexual health awareness and mental health awareness.
Hit the play button to learn about the complexities of female sexual desire and offer valuable insights to foster understanding and support.
Disclaimer: While this video focuses on female sexuality, it's important to recognize that many of these traits and insights can apply to individuals of all genders. Human sexuality is diverse and complex, and there are no absolutes. This discussion is intended to provide general insights and should not be interpreted as universally applicable to all individuals.
#health #mentalhealth
Writer: Sara Del Villar
Script Editor & Manager: Kelly Soong
Voice Over: Brandon
Animator: Krisha Que
RU-vid Manager: Cindy Cheong
#sexuality #sex #relationships.
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Basson, R., & Gilks, T. (2018). Women's sexual dysfunction associated with psychiatric disorders and their treatment. Women's health (London, England), 14, 1745506518762664. doi.org/10.1177/1745506518762664
Chivers, M. L., & Bailey, J. M. (2005). A sex difference in features that elicit genital response. Biological psychology, 70(2), 115-120. doi.org/10.1016/j.biopsycho.2004.12.002
Flannery, J. (2017, November 3). What Basson’s sexual response cycle teaches us about sexuality. Lifeworks Psychotherapy. www.lifeworkspsychotherapy.com/bassons-sexual-response-cycle-teaches-us-sexuality/
Harding, A. (2007, February 3). Rosemary Basson: Working to Normalise Women’s sexual reality - the lancet. The Lancet. www.thelancet.com/journals/lancet/article/PIIS0140-6736(07)60176-7/fulltext
McCall, K., & Meston, C. (2006). Cues resulting in desire for sexual activity in women. The journal of sexual medicine, 3(5), 838-852. doi.org/10.1111/j.1743-6109.2006.00301.x
Tasha. (2024). Psychology Today on Instagram: “women sometimes feel like something is ‘wrong’ with them when their sexual desire doesn’t instantly come online. but that’s normal and this is why, explains marriage and family therapist dr.tasha.relationship.therapy. pC6bgzfKLtqu/

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@jayg8719
@jayg8719 27 дней назад
47s seconds is crazy…
@TheOringinalWolfman
@TheOringinalWolfman 27 дней назад
Didn’t see your comment. You noticed it quick
@ArtisticTrex54
@ArtisticTrex54 27 дней назад
100th like
@Leontemplar-yt6ff
@Leontemplar-yt6ff 27 дней назад
It’s not that they have no pressure, it’s that they have pressure to mate due to the dwindling eggs that remain.
@FirestormX9
@FirestormX9 27 дней назад
can this be explained?
@jayg8719
@jayg8719 26 дней назад
I LOVE YOU PSYCH2GO❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉
@PengoPeguin
@PengoPeguin 27 дней назад
either way I’m still not getting any girls *how did this blow up
@Icryptic_
@Icryptic_ 27 дней назад
Real
@user-qx9wg4ee6j
@user-qx9wg4ee6j 27 дней назад
My best friend is available brotha
@josephfoster6313
@josephfoster6313 27 дней назад
Either way, she'll monkey branch as soon as she finds something she perceives as better than you! True story!
@Vennye
@Vennye 27 дней назад
🥲
@jqobsidianthegoongod9452
@jqobsidianthegoongod9452 27 дней назад
Big facts ​@@josephfoster6313
@Palpatine-exegol
@Palpatine-exegol 26 дней назад
I worked out how to get women to say yes to me a long time ago. I say to them “am I bothering you “
@commoncommentatingcommento8683
@commoncommentatingcommento8683 26 дней назад
That’s rough buddy
@puplays
@puplays 25 дней назад
This poor man
@tigerstripe8
@tigerstripe8 25 дней назад
No because that's smart
@Vindicador01
@Vindicador01 24 дня назад
We incels are right Women have it so easy its infuriating
@dyltan
@dyltan 24 дня назад
Relatable
@brain_respect_and_freedom
@brain_respect_and_freedom 27 дней назад
Stress: The ultimate libido-killer for everyone💡
@Dreoilin
@Dreoilin 26 дней назад
Not true, for many high stress causes higher sex drive.
@theblackdragon5558
@theblackdragon5558 26 дней назад
@@Dreoilin That depends on the kind of stress and weather it triggers a flight or fight response
@golddeaggler2029
@golddeaggler2029 26 дней назад
So true
@mondrian5620
@mondrian5620 26 дней назад
@@Dreoilin pssshh… yea right. Tell that to my gf..
@TheDestroyerG7X
@TheDestroyerG7X 26 дней назад
I'd argue that being in a stressful situation makes you more inclined to want release from it.
@nerdexproject
@nerdexproject 27 дней назад
Actually applies to some men too, just as some women don't need too long to get down to business - the way it's stereotypically assumed for men...
@tomykong2915
@tomykong2915 27 дней назад
not some men, most of this applies to all men to some extent, some of this video basically just implied all women were demisexual basically, which is just, factually incorrect, and most women do just desire the acts for the sake of it from time to time, just as men do. it's so much more complicated than the video really portrays it, and those 4 categories of factors in sexual desire apply to both
@Asura1733
@Asura1733 27 дней назад
​@@tomykong2915bruh I relate and I'm not "demisexual" stop it. Actually, I get you as I think everyone should look for love in the first place, not... Sex.
@adubber97
@adubber97 27 дней назад
@@Asura1733the way that’s described IS demisexual though. What do you think it means? Just curious…
@noiZtheartist
@noiZtheartist 27 дней назад
I think it's actually pretty common for people to base things on how they feel in a relationship regardless of gender It's why in unhealthy marriages both parties usually stop being interested in one another people are different obviously and I'm not convinced it's as different as studies would suggest once you take out the societal expectations that affect most people's choices
@tomykong2915
@tomykong2915 27 дней назад
@@Asura1733 i also said "some of it" not all of it, particularly the wording of instead at times, it being a requirement for there to be any desire, by definition, feeling sexual attraction only when you've got a relationship is demisexual
@Romapolitan
@Romapolitan 27 дней назад
Pretty sure most of this applies to men equally, but get's ignored, ironically, also because of stereotyping
@disheartened1030
@disheartened1030 27 дней назад
No. These things can work as a catalyst, but just seeing a good looking girl will spark an immediate pull to them
@Romapolitan
@Romapolitan 27 дней назад
@@disheartened1030 What? I am not really understanding what you are saying.
@AugustoCuervo-hx9pr
@AugustoCuervo-hx9pr 26 дней назад
​@@Romapolitan He means that a man can feel attracted towards her looks. But, in my opinion, there are different degrees of physical attraction. Some men can randomly pick up a beautiful woman unaware of everything else, while others do have a baseline, a "type" of ideal woman that makes him feel attracted, excluding the rest of women. This "type" is what we call platonic love.
@Romapolitan
@Romapolitan 26 дней назад
@@AugustoCuervo-hx9pr Well I would certainly agree. In fact most people that take a deeper look at the subject do. And it applies to women too of course.
@LucRio448
@LucRio448 26 дней назад
@@disheartened1030 So what you are saying is I never in my entire lifetime so far have even from afar seen a "good looking girl"? Now that's not really nice to all those girls (and women) that randomly cross my paths every single day
@samplebriefmint4204
@samplebriefmint4204 26 дней назад
So how exactly do women who have lots of hookups fit into this? That's not exactly a sign of a safe environment
@TheDestroyerG7X
@TheDestroyerG7X 26 дней назад
It's odd how these kinds of comments don't get any attention or explanation
@anthonyml7
@anthonyml7 25 дней назад
Same with how birth control factors into it...we have no clue because nothing was really explained lol
@user-sm1jp4en9u
@user-sm1jp4en9u 25 дней назад
Most women regret hookups. Check on Google.
@LadyAutumn
@LadyAutumn 24 дня назад
Always exceptions/outliers to any rule. I think it's just "in general".
@philippbrogli779
@philippbrogli779 24 дня назад
My guess is they have a broken sexual drive where they mix up danger and newness with sexual arousal. Also they trained themselves to think that this type of attention is uplifting.
@BingChilling-ue8pt
@BingChilling-ue8pt 27 дней назад
why does psych2go need to wat if he has a leaf on his head that can go through photosynthesis
@ankitanandy6076
@ankitanandy6076 27 дней назад
somedays he may not want to cook 😅
@elfelon9465
@elfelon9465 26 дней назад
Photosynthesis is how plants "eat" not how they reproduce
@TheBestInsects
@TheBestInsects 26 дней назад
Lol if they have flowers on their heads then they can probably reproduce just by using the pollen!
@Phillia_crochet
@Phillia_crochet 14 дней назад
​@@TheBestInsects It depends on whether the plant allows self-pollination or not. Quite some plant species are self- sterile. Also, plant can propagate or be propagated asexually in mass. A mother of thousand plant is an excellent example.
@d1l4te43
@d1l4te43 27 дней назад
I’m sure there are similarities amongst most women, just like there are similarities amongst men, but literally everyone is different. It’s important to communicate with your partner and understand what their personal desires are. It’s somewhat pointless to say “what women sexually desire” when they’re all going to give you a different answer, just like every man would. I’m not saying there isn’t something to be learned from this video, I just feel like the real answer to this question is “ask the women you’re with”
@JustinTrudeau1971
@JustinTrudeau1971 27 дней назад
This is the correct answer.
@uanime1
@uanime1 27 дней назад
The problem is that most women have no idea about these things. They can't decide what outfit to wear or what restaurant to go to, so expecting them to have fully mapped their sexual desires is unrealistic.
@BATMADZ_
@BATMADZ_ 26 дней назад
@@uanime1 ironic to reply like this to a comment pointing out generalization 💀
@d1l4te43
@d1l4te43 26 дней назад
@@uanime1 As the other person said, that’s a generalization. I’ve met women who know nothing about their sexual interests either because they’re young or inexperienced, and I’ve met women who know what they desire incredibly well because they’ve experimented and experienced sex for many years. I understand that inexperienced people may not exactly know what they like yet and therefore can’t specify ahead of time what they desire, but in that scenario you’re just going to have to take things slow with them and have trust and open communication. Try things out, and obviously if someone says “stop” or “I don’t like that” you don’t do it anymore. Just because you know someone who likes it, doesn’t mean everyone else does. Over time, people will figure out what they like. Sometimes you just gotta be a little patient, and if you love that person, it’ll be worth it.
@uanime1
@uanime1 26 дней назад
@@BATMADZ_ "ironic to reply like this to a comment pointing out generalization" You mean using evidence to point out how it's wrong.
@deusexaethera
@deusexaethera 22 дня назад
Male sexual desire isn't purely physical either. We're just overflowing with hormones that force our brains to spontaneously fantasize about sex, repeatedly, every single day, so the psychological component of male sexual desire is almost always maintained at a baseline level. Pretty much the only things that make that stop are severe injury, severe illness, or severe depression.
@gibier1724
@gibier1724 21 день назад
Put everyone in the same bag don't work. Even with the issues you mentioned
@immediateegret2120
@immediateegret2120 18 дней назад
And certain medications, including some antidepressants
@tomasbeltran04050
@tomasbeltran04050 17 дней назад
@@gibier1724 prediction+error
@deusexaethera
@deusexaethera 16 дней назад
@@immediateegret2120 : I take 3 different brain pills daily. You get used to them after a while.
@genzo454
@genzo454 12 дней назад
Or slight/mild depression, that also works, it doesn't have to be severe.
@buzzchad4024
@buzzchad4024 27 дней назад
Can I get a hug?
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 27 дней назад
Thanks for being here early!
@appadoopomme4055
@appadoopomme4055 27 дней назад
🫂
@buzzchad4024
@buzzchad4024 27 дней назад
@@appadoopomme4055 ❤️
@ianswinford5570
@ianswinford5570 27 дней назад
Yes
@StxckyBxurritos
@StxckyBxurritos 27 дней назад
​@@Psych2go😭
@editorkokichi1773
@editorkokichi1773 27 дней назад
Am I the only one who thinks the overall art style of all their characters are just so cute 💕
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 24 дня назад
Thank you so much :) Glad you like it! Would you like to see more of this animation style :D
@editorkokichi1773
@editorkokichi1773 24 дня назад
For sure (•⁠ᴗ⁠•)
@Vindicador01
@Vindicador01 24 дня назад
We incels are right Women have it so easy its infuriating
@Zu231
@Zu231 27 дней назад
Where’s our favorite narrator Amanda Silvera?
@chelseythomas6175
@chelseythomas6175 26 дней назад
I needed a woman for this.
@weaklid
@weaklid 25 дней назад
Chill! The narrator sounds like he has a lot of experience with female arousal...
@Vindicador01
@Vindicador01 24 дня назад
We incels are right Women have it so easy its infuriating
@flippomane
@flippomane 21 день назад
if you cant even do anything then there is no point in complaining bro
@Kokorocodon
@Kokorocodon 3 дня назад
@@Vindicador01 Right, easy to overlook having an abundance of attention means an abundance of self-awareness. And since woman do get more attention, it's easier to get cheated upon as male attention towards other girls is also abundant and less selective.
@danielalvarez-galan3702
@danielalvarez-galan3702 27 дней назад
Not me watching this despite never having a gf. 😭💀
@davidordaz5251
@davidordaz5251 26 дней назад
Same itll be ok women and relationships aren’t everything never had anyone either and honestly maybe its for the best not gonna chase someone that will probably never happen
@hobbytales6800
@hobbytales6800 24 дня назад
Stop being so pessimistic. Fix up all of ur physical/behavior issues that turn turn women off, and then go out there.
@enderking6430
@enderking6430 24 дня назад
@hobbytales6800 its not pessimism. Its realism. Also a person cant just "fix" all of their mistakes. The sheer idea of someone changing their entire life just to fit the desires of females is stupid and is a problem in itself.
@Vindicador01
@Vindicador01 24 дня назад
We incels are right Women have it so easy its infuriating
@FringeWizard2
@FringeWizard2 23 дня назад
​@@davidordaz5251 Sleep, food, breathing, etc. All overated who needs basic needs like love and life?
@theknivjocke
@theknivjocke 27 дней назад
Not sure if it's appropriate to generalize this fundamentally. Men can be/are like this as well. And many women are not. Many women expect men to work as in the stereotype in this video. I don't think that this video helps.
@medievaltimes6473
@medievaltimes6473 26 дней назад
Men's and women's brains are different. This stuff has been studied extensively with brain scans and stuff. Society wants us all to be the same....but we aren't!
@Vindicador01
@Vindicador01 24 дня назад
We incels are right Women have it so easy its infuriating.
@anidraco69
@anidraco69 27 дней назад
I am scared of women
@Omen465
@Omen465 27 дней назад
As a sub 5 male, same.
@MalesAreDemons
@MalesAreDemons 26 дней назад
Why?
@hikarilover8
@hikarilover8 26 дней назад
@@MalesAreDemons Simply because they’re bitches and annoying asf
@anidraco69
@anidraco69 26 дней назад
@@MalesAreDemons tf is your name dawg 😭🙏
@MalesAreDemons
@MalesAreDemons 26 дней назад
@@anidraco69 lol 😂
@nkosiezikalala5267
@nkosiezikalala5267 27 дней назад
Is it just me, or did this Video feel a bit more directionless than usual with no strong takeaways other than "Women are complex, different from Men, and different from the stereotypes" Not a critique as much as I'm just tryna gauge what I might be missing as a young man, who'd naturally struggle to relate.
@yuanvirlykaja8677
@yuanvirlykaja8677 23 дня назад
Yeah, i feel the same. I still don't get the idea
@tomasbeltran04050
@tomasbeltran04050 17 дней назад
stability? confidence? safety?
@tomasbeltran04050
@tomasbeltran04050 17 дней назад
also, non-decline over time? Did you actually listen carefully?
@ivansenpaid9486
@ivansenpaid9486 День назад
​@@tomasbeltran04050 that is actually bullshit, it's known in scientific literature that the more stable is the relationship the less women want sex. Woman sex arousal is the higher at the start of a relationship where there is less stability, confidence and safety on the relation. And still woman will do sex more than one time a day during that period so that they can pair bond. This video brought some articles and didn't even told what the articles conclusion and inference was.
@ivansenpaid9486
@ivansenpaid9486 День назад
Don't get how safe a woman feel around a men it's a characteristic that will participate in the evaluation if that partner is worth her effort or not. But besides that, accumulate stress related to safety outside a relationship will affect her desire, but thats different from the safety feeling in a relationship.
@Malacite
@Malacite 27 дней назад
Ngl, I was expecting to hear Amanda on this one - maybe even some personal anecdotes. Great video though.
@Danversdiary
@Danversdiary 27 дней назад
To be honest, when I heard his voice I was a little shocked
@stevefox167
@stevefox167 27 дней назад
I would’ve highly preferred Amanda too
@adubber97
@adubber97 27 дней назад
@@Danversdiarywhen the video started I was like “WHY is a man speaking 🤨”
@davec3651
@davec3651 27 дней назад
This guy likes taking these topics...
@Danversdiary
@Danversdiary 27 дней назад
@@adubber97 this was my exact thought process because it just feels weird to have a man speak about a woman's sexual desires😅
@monster_gman.
@monster_gman. 25 дней назад
The chances for me getting a gf is like me having a restful night sleep, impossible.
@FringeWizard2
@FringeWizard2 23 дня назад
Same. I can't sleep either.
@tomykong2915
@tomykong2915 27 дней назад
0:16-0:58 this all implies that doesn't apply to men, but any bottom into receiving will be able to tell you that bottoming is 90% mental pleasure, for example. Guys are just as influenced by other factors than just physical touch or whatever, they just have a lot more obvious a symbol for when they are aroused. 1:26 anyone can be like that, but that's just demisexual, that's not all women, and that's not only women in terms of all of this, it just boils down to men aren't nearly as in touch on average with their desires, men on average have been conditioned into having rather low standards in regards to a lot of this, and in the case of specifically genitals, their genitals are far more susceptible to influence like that, but even then, if a guy isn't interested in someone who's touching them, it's not unlikely they won't start desiring anything out of nowhere, that's dumb. female sexual desire mostly differs in social conditioning, and that there's the ovulation cycle and periods, as well as their only sexual organs are different
@Pandope-mj4cx
@Pandope-mj4cx 27 дней назад
Eat chocolate, life good
@MoonGlow22
@MoonGlow22 26 дней назад
There is nothing chocolate cant fix Except obesity I guess
@Ox1326
@Ox1326 25 дней назад
🌱🍫👍🏾
@jaideepshekhar4621
@jaideepshekhar4621 24 дня назад
Eat pu-
@Vindicador01
@Vindicador01 24 дня назад
We incels are right Women have it so easy its infuriating
@justsmae6566
@justsmae6566 20 дней назад
​@@MoonGlow22 and diabetes*
@fishfeet100
@fishfeet100 27 дней назад
39 views, 52 likes, bro did not fall off 💀
@jqobsidianthegoongod9452
@jqobsidianthegoongod9452 27 дней назад
Queen Marika didn't have sexual desire to the point that she spawned cloned herself as a male and spawned in kids and got crucified by a cosmic space fish
@xtalpax902
@xtalpax902 27 дней назад
She had Godfrey tho
@AstralNightVA
@AstralNightVA 27 дней назад
Queen Marika, The holy ass of the golden order
@tmfchickadee7785
@tmfchickadee7785 27 дней назад
Just came from Elden ring content to this lmaoo 😂
@indigochild161
@indigochild161 26 дней назад
LOL
@akekesiyeti4525
@akekesiyeti4525 26 дней назад
I am sorry, but how is this related to the topic?
@Pizza_78
@Pizza_78 27 дней назад
55s ago, u guys r fast😭
@WeGotThis-Therapy
@WeGotThis-Therapy 27 дней назад
A women’s desire fluctuates depending on her mental state, which is totally different from a men’s sexual desire.
@TheDestroyerG7X
@TheDestroyerG7X 26 дней назад
Nice sarcasm lol
@Vindicador01
@Vindicador01 24 дня назад
We incels are right Women have it so easy its infuriating
@TH3SA1NT0FMXFF1NS0
@TH3SA1NT0FMXFF1NS0 23 дня назад
@@Vindicador01respectfully shut up
@FringeWizard2
@FringeWizard2 23 дня назад
​​@@TH3SA1NT0FMXFF1NS0Make him, bh.
@tomasbeltran04050
@tomasbeltran04050 17 дней назад
I wouldn't say totally, since desire is actually a mental thing (as opposed to physical, as say, thirst or hunger). But the "mental variables" (so to speak) can be different somewhat
@Donaven619
@Donaven619 27 дней назад
Eh. Probably wont get a gf with the way things are in the world, but as a blind man once said: Like every tree, stands on its own, Reaching for the sky, i stand alone. I share my world with no one else, All by myself, i stand alone.
@zaramel4694
@zaramel4694 26 дней назад
@@Donaven619 look at you quoting Quest for Camelot 😄
@Donaven619
@Donaven619 26 дней назад
@@zaramel4694 hey! Someone got it!
@Vindicador01
@Vindicador01 24 дня назад
We incels are right Women have it so easy its infuriating
@zaramel4694
@zaramel4694 23 дня назад
@@Vindicador01 so easy in what?
@Vindicador01
@Vindicador01 23 дня назад
@@zaramel4694 well women have it easy specially in dating and sex
@Key-Key444
@Key-Key444 27 дней назад
It’s our minds.
@KidKit
@KidKit 27 дней назад
As an asexual person I personally don't really feel sexual desire to others at all. Sometimes I get met with "that's just how women are" or the "you're lying everyone feels sexual desire to people, it's biology." I do wish people understood that women can have a ton of sexual desire and if people don't have any for people it doesn't mean they're lying. Many different type of women exist. 👍
@Vindicador01
@Vindicador01 24 дня назад
We incels are right Women have it so easy its infuriating
@unicycle1017
@unicycle1017 19 дней назад
If you ask me, it's weirdly a red flag on consent issues if people believe all women have no sexual desire. If they don't want it to happen, then basically all forms of heterosexual male to female sexual contact is a form of assault, because by the definition of no woman actually wanting it at all, then all of it would be some type of illegal behavior.
@unicycle1017
@unicycle1017 19 дней назад
@@Vindicador01 I suggest you look up videos on Healthygamergg, a psychiatrist on RU-vid on his videos on incels, (he's also a dude if you prefer someone like that), because if you see women as having "no problems," or "everything is easy," in their life, then you're clearly ignorant of some things. Not that you don't have any struggles, but both genders can experience struggles and problems in their life. If you're only exposure to women are attractive female influencers on social media, I'm not sure you have a realistic sense of what women are like most in your everyday life.
@Vindicador01
@Vindicador01 19 дней назад
@@unicycle1017 i mean I think I expressed myself wrong,I think that women have it easy in dating and sex compared to men, but not in all aspects of life,im a 23 yo virgin incel but im not that insane.
@sharx7781
@sharx7781 27 дней назад
i hope psych2go will eventually make a video about having patience in life, i find that topic a very difficult thing to handle myself and i do know there's a lot of people that suffer through that aswell.. in my case.. it's about waiting for atleast maybe 5 more years to finally finish college and get a job and immigrate to the people i love.. whilst also dealing with uncertainty on whether or not I'll ever even make it.., and i think so many people go through similar stuff aswell.. it's something that's been getting me on my knees to even giving up almost.. since i can't endure so much time with every day feeling so slow.. i really hope to see something similar to this
@steelbeachsiren
@steelbeachsiren 26 дней назад
Uncertainty was a big part of my depression treatment. I recommend you get assessed for depression, then have CBT for depression, if you can
@sharx7781
@sharx7781 25 дней назад
@@steelbeachsiren thank you so much for your advice, but i still do not wanna burden my parents, so i'd prefer to remin as-is
@steelbeachsiren
@steelbeachsiren 25 дней назад
@@sharx7781 You are no burden. I recommend you force yourself to "be a burden" because with depression treatment, you'll soon realise you aren't one at all. 💗
@sharx7781
@sharx7781 25 дней назад
@@steelbeachsiren thank you so much.., it means a lot, and as it does seem, I've been visiting psych2go for years which does help me feel better aswell :)
@steelbeachsiren
@steelbeachsiren 24 дня назад
@sharx7781 I am so glad, that's what I did before I got treatment (before I even recognised I had depression) and it kept me going...
@ViroVV
@ViroVV 27 дней назад
Dangerously inaccurate conclusions.
@dhararry7929
@dhararry7929 27 дней назад
1:30 I just found a new dream job
@ChiakiHatori
@ChiakiHatori 27 дней назад
I'm desperate to know who's the artist behind the thumbnail, it looks so interesting!
@anthonyml7
@anthonyml7 25 дней назад
This video was an idea, but I didn't really explain the exchange between female desire vs male and how it's factored in when women are dating a man. It also ignored any drug / medical aspects that could affect female desire such as the pill or other birth control. I feel like this was the start to a video, but where's the rest of it...
@RealNorbol
@RealNorbol 27 дней назад
They say "the truth" as if all women are carbon copies of one another 💀
@user-zv8md9xv8c
@user-zv8md9xv8c 26 дней назад
"We're more alike than different. Tee-hee"
@anthonyml7
@anthonyml7 25 дней назад
I also like how he didn't talk about some of these "stereotypes"
@Vindicador01
@Vindicador01 24 дня назад
We incels are right Women have it so easy its infuriating.
@RealNorbol
@RealNorbol 24 дня назад
@@Vindicador01 I'm not an incel bruv 😭 I don't believe in that stuff
@Vindicador01
@Vindicador01 24 дня назад
@@RealNorbol Well I am an incel
@franjk7114
@franjk7114 27 дней назад
Well that’s full of stereotypes
@PhilosophersCallingToManga
@PhilosophersCallingToManga 27 дней назад
Understand, dont pressure, lota patience, understand, dont pressure
@user-zv8md9xv8c
@user-zv8md9xv8c 26 дней назад
Talk to more than one. Then hope to god your phone rings while on a date. The atmosphere magically changes.
@Vindicador01
@Vindicador01 24 дня назад
We incels are right Women have it so easy its infuriating
@celesserenity4423
@celesserenity4423 27 дней назад
Thank you for this… the help to understanding is wonderful
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 27 дней назад
Thank you for watching!
@Vindicador01
@Vindicador01 24 дня назад
​@@Psych2goWe incels are right Women have it so easy its infuriating
@Itadoriaesm
@Itadoriaesm 27 дней назад
great video!
@zahraazaki645
@zahraazaki645 27 дней назад
Id love to see this video on a mens desire
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 24 дня назад
Thanks for the suggestion. We will discuss with the team
@Blame9999
@Blame9999 19 дней назад
In my experience, male desire is really only one thing that can take a few different forms, so to speak... Males only desire a hot, wet hole
@AM_-wg1hj
@AM_-wg1hj 27 дней назад
Why does this video describe my sexual desire very accurately as a man ?
@altaris6593
@altaris6593 27 дней назад
Maybe you are space alien and lost a memory
@icravedeath.1200
@icravedeath.1200 27 дней назад
These things aren't binary monoliths, either you could have a 'more female' psychology or could be trans or both. Idk tho
@d1l4te43
@d1l4te43 27 дней назад
Literally everyone is different. There might be a majority of men and women who have similar sexual desires, but it’s never going to be exactly the same, nor is it specific to gender.
@JustinJulian-bq8vm
@JustinJulian-bq8vm 27 дней назад
​Because our feelings of these desires are much more complex then simple looks it not that simple
@Pin_toensaboado
@Pin_toensaboado 27 дней назад
Tbh, I think they say this is the "female desire", but I think it could be applied to anyone, even men. Just like some women might not be able to relate to this. Maybe its called female desire because its mostly girls who have it.
@aninditashreya4802
@aninditashreya4802 27 дней назад
It's interesting to have a male voice over 😅
@jon-eg6be
@jon-eg6be 27 дней назад
"4 signs you're brain is breaking down"
@TheDestroyerG7X
@TheDestroyerG7X 26 дней назад
@@jon-eg6be Number 3, you.. uh. you uh.
@joseluisbelinda
@joseluisbelinda 21 день назад
So it's like Ross Jeffries used to say "I don’t care what they want. I only care what they respond to. ...... There’s what women say they want, there’s what women think they want, and then there’s what they actually respond to. .... I’m interested in what works on the street when it’s time to date and mate, and what women actually respond to is not what they say they want. ..... They really respond to a guy who’s a challenge. A guy who’s a question mark. A guy who keeps them guessing. You see, in the beginning the less attractive you are physically, the more you have to rely on your attitude."
@gamer1q658
@gamer1q658 27 дней назад
Now everything makes sence, women don't make any sence, got it
@niasiamack9333
@niasiamack9333 27 дней назад
Fantastic video
@anthonyhunt9915
@anthonyhunt9915 27 дней назад
Cool, now did they ever ask the participants in these surveys if they were being honest I'll wait
@EldenXord
@EldenXord 17 дней назад
Don't worry too much, She will instantly fall in love when she sees "That Guy", women are simple 🗣️🔥
@blazept567
@blazept567 20 дней назад
There's something definitely amiss here... how is it than that when I started dating my now ex-wife, in the first year, at a time when we were not exactly safe with each other, we had a lot more sex than for all of the 14 years that followed? We eventually got a home, safe jobs, future projects, a lot of friends, I did everything for her to make her happy and I barely got any sex. ( i was the one who filed for the divorce, btw ). You should do a video on this topic.
@marcmarugan3565
@marcmarugan3565 26 дней назад
How do we explain “one night stands” tho? There’s no relationship in there. I also have a friend who just ended a relationship and now just wants to “have fun”, no relationship or feelings involved. How does that work?
@DuchessofEarlGrey
@DuchessofEarlGrey 24 дня назад
Not everyone has one night stands (me, for example), and everyone has varying sex drives. Maybe that friend has some unfulfilled desires, which they could not satisfy in that particular relationship.
@XofHope
@XofHope 24 дня назад
Probably as a reaction to the relationship not working and not wanting to deal again with the strong emotions that come from the failing of a serious relationship. That's what happened with me (but realized almost immediately that sort of thing wasn't for me either).
@Vindicador01
@Vindicador01 24 дня назад
We incels are right Women have it so easy its infuriating.
@jamesmoffett135
@jamesmoffett135 27 дней назад
As a adult male I would want a female companion that is gonna be open and not pushed I already know I would be the vulnerable one well this is awkward and gonna take time to find my own true life companion
@user-pd6nl2dr9y
@user-pd6nl2dr9y 27 дней назад
This thing right here makes college calculus seem easy...
@user-zv8md9xv8c
@user-zv8md9xv8c 26 дней назад
I haven't watched it yet, but it's probably horse manure.
@penapvp2230
@penapvp2230 25 дней назад
@@user-zv8md9xv8c it is maybe not for the reasons you think it is, but it definitely is 5 billion%
@Indianguy_
@Indianguy_ 27 дней назад
i am 19 i had a huge crush on my bestie after our school days got over we no longer talk .....i still don't know why i didn't asked her out but after 2 years of feeling sad i have moved to level where now i don't plan what to say to someone anymore ( these 2 years i met girls,learned some pickup lines,tried the advices on youtube but now i if i meet someone i just talk normally without thinking about whether or not i should date this person or not ). so i just normally chill in my life without ever thinking that i never ever had a girlfriend or being a hopeless romantic .......i am just hopeless now but happy , as i don't have to care what other person might be thinking or whether my actions will make someone like me or not
@vihangahiggoda5101
@vihangahiggoda5101 27 дней назад
👏
@vihangahiggoda5101
@vihangahiggoda5101 27 дней назад
👏
@angrycat2789
@angrycat2789 27 дней назад
my brother, you're 19, don't even think about dating. Study, work, and go hit the gym, you'll learn more about women along the way. When you're ready, you'll probably wont even need to approach them.
@Indianguy_
@Indianguy_ 27 дней назад
@@angrycat2789 yeah that's what i am now , i don't put efforts in doing anything with any women .............but your advice would have looked nonsensible to me half a year ago. because my bestie was my first love ,and you never actually move on from your first
@AugustoCuervo-hx9pr
@AugustoCuervo-hx9pr 26 дней назад
I am on the same situation as you. Once you leave the person you always secretly loved, even if they bring you the real Sydney Sweeney claiming that she is obsessed with you... Well, it is never going to work without the idealized love. The true definition of loyalty. But, guess what? Some women won't understand that idea. We do not see women like equals among each other, but all unseen while one tiny spark glitters in the darkness. One true love. 😢
@D.Fettuccine
@D.Fettuccine 27 дней назад
Nice to be here early
@OtterA._6890G
@OtterA._6890G 27 дней назад
Quick question, how many people are on this channel’s team? There is different voices for a lot of the videos, so I’m just curious!
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 27 дней назад
We have a small team :) So far we only have 3 voice over artists
@godknows3082
@godknows3082 27 дней назад
​@@Psych2goAmanda is best😅... This guy also doing great but i miss her😅
@briannayemm6777
@briannayemm6777 15 дней назад
I giggled so hard at the little guys sitting at their desks typing while talking about female desire, like stop being so cutely serious lol 😂😂
@AceKite00
@AceKite00 27 дней назад
Its all about the woman feeling comfortable, safe, and without added pressure. It's weird though, cause the few women I've been with, that's taken different forms. My first one promoted unwavering kindness. My next promoted being essentially a strong asshole. My current one feels like more of a mixture of the two. Maybe i just finally figured out balance. Third times the charm and all that.
@_bluepilledkiwi
@_bluepilledkiwi 26 дней назад
the idea that this is inherent to women needs to be pushed back against. i think this is true of some men as well. i typically feel the need to push back against separating “male” and “female” psychology. these things are a gradient and are largely products of the difference in the socialization of men and women. women tend to value emotional intimacy, closeness, physical proximity, and a feeling of safeness likely because of our lived experiences which make us prioritize these things. i’m sure the lived experience of some men has led to them experiencing similar forms of sexual attraction. maybe i’m off base though.
@AwesomeIan135
@AwesomeIan135 26 дней назад
@@_bluepilledkiwi spot on, definitely not off base.
@user-zv8md9xv8c
@user-zv8md9xv8c 26 дней назад
I think that they might be right regardless. What actually needs to be talked about is how men are categorized by women. And nobody with the brains to do it will be allowed to do it without a big fat disowning by society at large. Nobody wants to hurt anyone else's feelings and then have to deal with the counterpunch.
@user-sm1jp4en9u
@user-sm1jp4en9u 25 дней назад
Men who are like this are bisexual or trans.
@Vindicador01
@Vindicador01 24 дня назад
We incels are right Women have it so easy its infuriating
@nicolasm400
@nicolasm400 15 дней назад
what do you make of the differences in neuroticism and agreability between men and women in the big 5 personnality trait model? Women tend to score higher in both these traits in every culture?
@pablobro490
@pablobro490 27 дней назад
this guy has such a nice voice
@clareoreilly7187
@clareoreilly7187 26 дней назад
Thank you so much for this video
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 24 дня назад
We hope this helps :) did you resonate with the video?
@combustionconnoisseur1768
@combustionconnoisseur1768 20 дней назад
She had said a couple times how safe she felt around me, and made that an obvious point of attraction. How short of a period it took us to get intimate seems like less of a mystery than it was before.
@ashspeaker7833
@ashspeaker7833 27 дней назад
I think it would be clearer if the video was divided into sections, like other videos on the channel, with each section explaining certain things and misconceptions Right now I watched the video several times, and I still feel like I learned nothing
@uanime1
@uanime1 27 дней назад
So women's sexual desire is so complex it could be anything; while simultaneously being so clearly defined that the researchers will declare anything they don't like to be wrong. Yet more double think by researchers.
@user-zv8md9xv8c
@user-zv8md9xv8c 26 дней назад
The "double-think" is to avoid getting run up the flagpole by the usual suspects.
@uanime1
@uanime1 26 дней назад
@@user-zv8md9xv8c "The "double-think" is to avoid getting run up the flagpole by the usual suspects." Do you mean those who can sense blatant hypocrisy?
@user-zv8md9xv8c
@user-zv8md9xv8c 26 дней назад
@@uanime1 Would you like to get specific, now that it seems this conversation will be permitted to take place?
@user-zv8md9xv8c
@user-zv8md9xv8c 26 дней назад
I'll also note that a person's potential or capacity to do two opposite things doesn't automatically make them hypocrites.
@uanime1
@uanime1 22 дня назад
@@user-zv8md9xv8c "I'll also note that a person's potential or capacity to do two opposite things doesn't automatically make them hypocrites." It does when they're contradictory, as I already explained.
@joaquin67
@joaquin67 24 дня назад
All I know is that, as a guy, physical attractiveness is a MAJOR help in getting in the door and also helps in getting leniency from making mistakes as you escalate the intimacy
@therandomcommenter6629
@therandomcommenter6629 14 дней назад
That's the power of pretty privilege the same happens to gorgeous women that's just a psychological thing
@bondage8134
@bondage8134 26 дней назад
Need to watch this video, since ill never find out firsthand 😔
@yunusamarafa512
@yunusamarafa512 27 дней назад
Here we go again
@Dandiest094
@Dandiest094 27 дней назад
Why what's the problem
@appadoopomme4055
@appadoopomme4055 27 дней назад
😂
@jqobsidianthegoongod9452
@jqobsidianthegoongod9452 27 дней назад
The economy right now
@LucRio448
@LucRio448 26 дней назад
And how many studies have been done on the same thing but about men? Since apparently the claim is that it's specific to women, there surely have been multiple studies (of comparable sample size, quality etc of course) about men that found it does in fact NOT apply for men, right?Or are they just assuming if something holds true for women AND fits the picture commonly painted in modern society, it can't possibly apply to men the same if it does in fact NOT fir the picture commonly drawn by society in regards to men?
@nzingahoney
@nzingahoney 24 дня назад
Men have demonstrated time and time again they are always ready for sex and will risk almost anything for sex. Society hasn't done that for them
@therominator8709
@therominator8709 16 дней назад
OMG The way you guys designed and illustrated the cute female psych characters in this video is making me HOT LMAO
@ChimeraAxolotl
@ChimeraAxolotl 27 дней назад
Thank you 😌
@RipRoaringGarage
@RipRoaringGarage 26 дней назад
Then I guess every single woman Ive been with didnt fit into this box. Ive been the bad boy (most of my life) and it was instant. The nurturing, trust, love had no bearing on arousal. In fact, I used this to end a relationship, where I didnt want to hurt her, and I wanted her to feel it was time to move on. Ie, I moved myself into the friend zone. Nobody has total agency over their draws or triggers though. My hypothesis on why these studies are so far from reality. Men when asked, will say what their fantasies, or targets for a relationship are, and are rather open, even with knky stuff. Women do not. They are knky (even more so, to the point of crossing lines, but whatever. If it stays between consenting adults, thats their mental health lol). When asked directly, you get the generic, roses, partner than listens. When a test is non direct with questions, but stimuli from seeing videos, sounds, etc, or just browser history, thats when CNC pops up (nope, not the machning kind of CNC lol), dog pill stuff, and fam stuff. Again, not shaming anyone. So long as it doesnt cross into illegal territory. I have been studying this for 20 years now, with over 10k participants, chat logs, messages, and whatnot. Its been eye opening to say the least, but this is why I can say for sure, these studies are flawed. Cmon p2g. Go back to the more interesting psych topics. I love those. These pop psych dating things are....(Ill stop myself. I get it. These get the views and times are tough. So I get it)
@RipRoaringGarage
@RipRoaringGarage 26 дней назад
PS, I still gave you guys a like and still am subbed, and do believe of all channels, you guys are open to dialogue and new (or old) ideas lol
@therandomcommenter6629
@therandomcommenter6629 14 дней назад
It's not even that hard to figure it out just take a look at female romance novels the guy is almost always some kind of bad guy who is ruthless and evil but then slowly treats the girl differently women don't want loving support of guy and they don't want an arsehole they want to tame the beast but they don't want the beast to get domesticated they just want to hold the leash
@larauerc
@larauerc 27 дней назад
i’m already single, don’t tell me my sexual desire is gonna increase with time too 😭
@titanicbigship
@titanicbigship 27 дней назад
Womp womp
@shayadayan3343
@shayadayan3343 26 дней назад
My desire switched off when I was 49, hit menopause 6 years later, and can't remember what all of the fuss was about. I'm now 66 and can't think of anything more ridiculous or revolting than having sex again
@Magerstufe
@Magerstufe 26 дней назад
@@shayadayan3343 "I'm now 66 and can't think of anything more ridiculous or revolting than having sex again" what about eating roasted mice out of a big sombrero made from cheese?
@shayadayan3343
@shayadayan3343 25 дней назад
@@Magerstufe I stand corrected
@XofHope
@XofHope 24 дня назад
​@@MagerstufeI'm 49, very glad I never had to have sex again since I broke up with bf at 28. I'd very much rather eat a nicely roasted mouse.
@jojo_rose341
@jojo_rose341 25 дней назад
feeling like it's your duty and you have to do it or your partner will be unhappy and leave you definitely kills the chances of being naturally in the mood for anyone, you develop a bad relationship with sex and you ultimately are unlikely to enjoy it, and who craves doing something that's not enjoyable...no one 😂
@VejeSanmat
@VejeSanmat 27 дней назад
Psych2go is getting sus day by day
@audrey_computergeek
@audrey_computergeek 27 дней назад
How is this sus??
@kr4ber856
@kr4ber856 27 дней назад
for real
@soulaanvon
@soulaanvon 27 дней назад
@@audrey_computergeek they probably think anything related to sex is weird
@Lucky69K
@Lucky69K 27 дней назад
​@@soulaanvonkids think it weird even tho it isn't weird
@soulaanvon
@soulaanvon 27 дней назад
@@Lucky69K yeah, I was thinking it may be a kid too
@dandrive3249
@dandrive3249 27 дней назад
One RU-vidr I liked made a really good point on understanding male and female desire. She said pay attention to the way statues and art are created. Men tend to exaggerate details in men and women’s physical forms while women tend to make men and women look very similar and androgynous physically. Blew my mind the first time I heard about it
@uanime1
@uanime1 27 дней назад
Just one problem: that's complete nonsense. If you want proof just look at the art drawn by any woman and you'll see that they don't draw men and women the same way.
@dandrive3249
@dandrive3249 26 дней назад
@@uanime1 Of course all artist don’t draw or sculpt humans in a similar manner. Every artist is different and I’m sure there are Men that tend to draw more androgynous figures and women more exaggerated. It’s just that from what I have seen and noticed is that it tends to be that way.
@dandrive3249
@dandrive3249 26 дней назад
@@uanime1 And what I mean by exaggerated is like bulging muscles and unrealistic body portions. Androgynous might not be the best word but it’s the only one I can think of. I mean it in the sense that the images are not exaggerated at all. There more “leveled” like you can tell what’s a man and what’s a women but it’s not as black and white if that makes any sense. I also want to make it clear I have no issue with either method and I’m not saying one is better than the other. It’s just something I have noticed and find interesting. Especially given what the video was talking about in that women tend to focus more on the emotional aspect of desire and leading up to it. I just find It reflective in what I understand. Cause as I guy and while I don’t care to much on proportion (despite this conversation apparently), I can’t deny that for most guys I have had conversations with it tends to come up more then emotions and make artist tend to reflect that more.
@uanime1
@uanime1 26 дней назад
@@dandrive3249 "It’s just that from what I have seen and noticed is that it tends to be that way." Care to provide some evidence to support this claim as women don't seem to be any more likely to draw androgynous figures than men. "And what I mean by exaggerated is like bulging muscles and unrealistic body portions." You mean the things on the cover of every romance book aimed at women. "It’s just something I have noticed and find interesting." Do you have any evidence to support this claim? I'm sure if I tried I could cherry-pick the data so men were the ones who drew the least exaggerated images. Especially if I mainly used art aimed at children for men and art aimed at adults for women.
@TheDestroyerG7X
@TheDestroyerG7X 26 дней назад
Look at webtoon, most of the romance stories on there are written and drawn by women, and they all draw men as extremely, like disgustingly "attractive", unless they're the villain then they'll almost always draw them as ugly. They'll also draw women as attractive as well, even the villainous ones will be attractive. The only times I don't see this *as often* on webtoon is when the story isn't about romance.
@Nexumera
@Nexumera 24 дня назад
Secure and fulfilling environment and relationship, YES! ❤
@Darth_Buddha
@Darth_Buddha 25 дней назад
Difficult to figure out, sometimes impossible to figure out in the moment... A good number of times
@thejoker0123
@thejoker0123 27 дней назад
excellent work on covering The Sexual Desires of a Female hope to see you guys do a video for The Male
@EthanNicholson-xs6ys
@EthanNicholson-xs6ys 26 дней назад
🤦🏻‍♂️ they are just similar to guys, that's all you need to know, don't treat them as complex, fragile creatures but as an equal, just like you and me, they can be a little confusing to understand sometimes but when you're in a relationship and communicate well, this fades more (I've just turned single so this isn't just biased love) they are people, they can have different views and wants and needs, just like us, so please stop acting like this, people in the comments, they are just people like a guy, can be different, like a guy and can have a choice if they chose you ot not, like a guy
@Vindicador01
@Vindicador01 24 дня назад
We incels are right Women have it so easy its infuriating.
@Vishfeast
@Vishfeast 18 дней назад
Sexual preferences for either sex can differ, but the biggest thing that men seem to forget, is that woman go through life through being approached their whole life and go through a mixture of negative/positive experiences. Men do not have a inherit fear of being overpowered by a woman, but from my experience, it's incredibly important for men to have their behavior in line at least when interacting with her, that makes her feel safe with you and not act in a way that is neurotic.
@louisademetrio4408
@louisademetrio4408 23 дня назад
"Lack of Emotional Intimacy" is a Definite.
@something73110
@something73110 27 дней назад
As nice as this video is, it sounds so generic. I think about 95% of the stuff mentioned in this video is applicable to males as well. I think it would have benefited from talking about human sexual desire in general then specifically focus on females
@nzingahoney
@nzingahoney 24 дня назад
Men aren't always ready to have sex?
@handyhacker11
@handyhacker11 27 дней назад
Friendship is my love language, it seems to work with the girls too. At least casually.
@rebeccarocklynnx
@rebeccarocklynnx 27 дней назад
THANK YOU
@emeds.706
@emeds.706 26 дней назад
my gf do It with with her teacher at 18 (he was 40), the man knew her since she was 14, now we have 22 and 23, and i simply can't underestand how was that a thing, am i crazy for getting hurt about that? i meet that man, like a year ago (befeore i knew what happen between them) he saw me in the eyes and shake my hand, so proud and Happy for me... i still don't know how to feel about It... I feel that something is off, fundamently wrong, (me and that men have the same height, same type of hair, same type of glasess...….) but she says that It doesn't matter, that is not of my business but... i really love her... but that, and some other times she had sex (even tho we were beginning to be a serious thing) with stragenrs... i don't know, maybe is just my anxiety preparing me for the worst scenary but... something deep whitin me says horrible things to her (inside my head, i never said or do anything that could hurt her) and i just don't know what to do. Am i the crazy one? am i the one that is over reacting? over thinking? giving it more weight that it deserves? Also, i stalked the teachers Facebook he has only two photos with students, in both, he hold diferent girls from the shoulders with a smile… what if what that men wants its to f**k his students when they turn 18??? but he is a good man, loved by everybody... how would he do such thing?...… (various girl i know went to his meetings, he is a writer and only female students went to his launch thing (including me that time i shaked hands with him) idk I... I think meeting her was a mistake, not only for this theme… but i can't go back now u know? At the uni, she's the only one, and my Friends are firstly her Friends... what can i do, is only one more year… what could possibly go wrong? haha….
@jaideepshekhar4621
@jaideepshekhar4621 24 дня назад
Don't try to understand them. They understand each other, due to which they hate each other. Love them or understand them. Pick one.
@SarahEve97
@SarahEve97 27 дней назад
As a Lesbian,I'm agreed with this fact. 😊
@shayadayan3343
@shayadayan3343 26 дней назад
What's orientation got to do with this? Female is female
@penapvp2230
@penapvp2230 25 дней назад
this is terrible advice actually especially for those who are neurodivergent
@Vindicador01
@Vindicador01 24 дня назад
We incels are right Women have it so easy its infuriating.
@penapvp2230
@penapvp2230 23 дня назад
@@Vindicador01 "we progressive leftists are so right autism doesnt exist" we know its infuriating for you, its called having good judgement skills. you BOTH have bad judgement skills.
@shayadayan3343
@shayadayan3343 23 дня назад
@@Vindicador01 you are an asshole. It is easy to see why you are an incel
@ラルファルマー
@ラルファルマー 27 дней назад
Cant get one
@PerceptionVsReality333
@PerceptionVsReality333 27 дней назад
Me either unless they find out I have millions in my bank account but I'm not falling for it.
@AverageMojaveMailman
@AverageMojaveMailman 25 дней назад
I'm getting a lot of weird things on my feed but this takes the cake.
@stephaniepavlick6405
@stephaniepavlick6405 27 дней назад
As a female, all I can say is that my libido is absolutely not a thing. I do not care for it and I wish my man was the same way or at least less interested. It’s so exhausting. I don’t hate him at all, I love him. We have twin boys and a baby boy on the way. But, I just see sex as a procreation thing. I’ve never been sexually attracted to anyone. Only romantically attracted.
@Vindicador01
@Vindicador01 24 дня назад
Then let him have sex outside the relationship.
@psznaherbatka15
@psznaherbatka15 23 дня назад
It sounds like you're just asexual
@jamiebates8274
@jamiebates8274 26 дней назад
You guys are describing healthy women 😂. Y'all are not talking (scientifically) about the other kind of women
@laraparks7018
@laraparks7018 27 дней назад
You forgot to mention hormones and pheromones...so yeah, love is chemical... oxytocin is the serotonin of the future #LiquidSky
@icravedeath.1200
@icravedeath.1200 27 дней назад
That only matters up to a certain point, after all these things aren't binary monoliths. There could also be social and environmental factors at play they neglected to mention, e.g girls being raised to be more emotionally intelligent. For example, I'm trans and supposedly have male biology (haven't checked in a while, could be intersex for all I know) , but I identify a lot with the things listed in this video, such as the parts revolving around craving emotional intimacy and closeness, especially with other femme people.
@laraparks7018
@laraparks7018 27 дней назад
@@icravedeath.1200 oxytocin is the love hormone.. I think I am absent of it because I couldn't breast feed because I didn't lactate; because I was tortured while pregnant...I was basically homeless and the ob/GYN said my baby had spinal bifida based on a high alpha beta protein test result. I think they wanted to use me as a human lab rat and pad up the medical bill I hate this world 🌍
@_bluepilledkiwi
@_bluepilledkiwi 26 дней назад
human pheromones aren’t a thing and love is not a chemical, it’s a complex neurological process. libido may be effected depending on the presence of sex hormones, such as Estrogen and Testosterone, or just the person’s psychology. Love =\= Sexual Desire =\= Libido
@kangkonabiswas5341
@kangkonabiswas5341 26 дней назад
Thank you so much🌹❤
@teddyroon
@teddyroon 26 дней назад
I don’t agree with a woman’s sexual desire can increase with age. Since the beginning of the menopause, I feel nothing at all. Couldn’t care less.
@reyesaguilar4775
@reyesaguilar4775 24 дня назад
I strongly disagree😂
@nzingahoney
@nzingahoney 24 дня назад
They probably mean over 35 to menopause idk
@therandomcommenter6629
@therandomcommenter6629 14 дней назад
Well of course you don't menopause is the cut off they meant you would have more sexual desire at 25 to 30 then you did at 19
@AndesMints94
@AndesMints94 27 дней назад
does this apply to AFAB people who don't identify as women at all or even just a little? Because I've felt like as I've gotten older my sexual desire is increasing.
@Bucky_Winchester
@Bucky_Winchester 27 дней назад
I don't think just identifying as a different gender influences your human biology in terms of hormones etc. But I think the sociology behind your environment might play a role. Like, if you weren't socially raised as a girl or woman you might experience things differently on a psychological level, like if you transitioned early on or something else, you know?
@Indianguy_
@Indianguy_ 27 дней назад
when your like has power to make 899 to 952
@srikrishnavasanth3895
@srikrishnavasanth3895 22 дня назад
The reason for dropping women's lack of sexual desire is Emotional Intimacy. (forehead kiss, sudden hugs, holding hands, listening,playing with her hair, playful teasing anything other than intercourse. The problem is not intercourse the real problem touching just for intercourse stop touching just for sex and add emotional intimacy and her sex drive rockets) Just like men need more Physical intimacy women need more emotional intimacy there may be others things as well the only way to find it is communication. If she insist I want to care of you if you don't tell I consider you do not have any needs. sometimes you have to be straightforward.
@guard13007
@guard13007 17 дней назад
Maybe it's just more proof that I'm trans, but I always found it weird that we act like desire is so different between sexes when my experience tells me that the differences are in treatment, expectation, and physical cues only. Maybe "my type" is just "like that" despite including multiple people of differing sex and gender.. but it's more likely that my experiences are not that unique.
@yesikanarvaez5027
@yesikanarvaez5027 27 дней назад
Its meh
@Bannanboii
@Bannanboii 27 дней назад
hello
@user-lj2fz8vn5d
@user-lj2fz8vn5d 23 дня назад
Realizing that's why I've developed feelings so quickly for a girl on an app. I rarely ever open uo or be honest about what I feel. But I feel like I can tell her anything. It immediately made our attraction toward each other increase. We're such a good match. Im a lesbian btw
@JoseRivera-ym3wj
@JoseRivera-ym3wj 22 дня назад
This video does explain how a woman's mind regarding desire works, but female sexuality is still a mystery to me. As a 40-year-old man that has never been in a relationship, to feel attractive and desired by a woman is a feeling that still doesn't fit my mind. Lucky for those that have had life partners in their lives.
@kimbatai
@kimbatai 27 дней назад
Desire has more definitions than this. It’s a very complex emotion with multiple layers
@annatar6453
@annatar6453 25 дней назад
Simple: 6 foot tall, rich, bad boy
@reyesaguilar4775
@reyesaguilar4775 24 дня назад
For some...😂Clean & nice smelling, kind hearted. Sane& healthy. Stable. With good but not over ambitious professional standards. Single😂
@nzingahoney
@nzingahoney 24 дня назад
You forgot: not an asshole to people who don't deserve it
@Vindicador01
@Vindicador01 24 дня назад
We incels are right Women have it so easy its infuriating.
@reyesaguilar4775
@reyesaguilar4775 23 дня назад
@@Vindicador01 Im sorry u were badly treated. Hope u meet some women who are loving, honest & know better. I have met good women and good men, and also rather different ones. There are good& less good of everything
@therandomcommenter6629
@therandomcommenter6629 14 дней назад
​@@reyesaguilar4775have you seen women's romance novels and other stuff of that nature? He's entirely right women want a strong beast that gives them and them only princess treatment
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