If you try to chase whiter chicks, live in western culture yeah cause of natural ingroup preference too, if you go to a not westerned Africa and China the same will be said for their specific preference group, They say birds of a feather naturally flock together. Hierarchy is a reality sure, but you can get all the game you ever need at your flock, A hottie from yours is better than a mid from somewhere else.
@@mts43black men or boys at school that happened to be black? You’re just as bad as them if you’re using that experience against a whole group of people
Never understood that. I worked downtown years ago, and my racial preferences were obliterated. As a white guy, I have no hierarchy now, women of any race can be sexy without being exceptions. Plenty of Nigerians and Kenyans working there that blew my mind.
Someone missed , every poisonous creature is attractive including humans so to speak that’s why toxic relationships are a thing but there is much truth to both sides
@smartass751 I went to a mainly white school and had no problems, though I spoke like and behaved like a white dude according to everybody so that's probably why I did good when it came dating non black women.
Interracial dating in itself is a niche. Most people globally are naturally inclined to dating people with similar features to them. Complaining about human nature is a losing game
Not really. I see all sorts of black, indian, chinese guys go for white girls but I've seen alot of pretty white girls that write off guys that arent white. But a lot of the time i notice not good looking white girls will go for the black, indian, chinese guys more than the pretty ones will
@@urmum9898yes it is lmao. Majority of people date and socialize in their own race. Its normal. Race mixing & interracial dating is not the most common
If someone doesn’t want to date you because of your race why would you want to date them. I’m all for self-improvement but doing it in hopes that people outside of your race would date you is crazy. But to each is own.
@@scherebeatle Preference has reasons if it’s because you just find people who look similar too your attractive that’s alright if it’s because of racist stereotypes and think everyone who don’t look exactly like you is ugly just for the fact they don’t look like you then that goes deeper then just preference
Straight up throughout high school, i fr thought people were just racist cause they wouldn't date me, but over the year i realized I'm just not white lol. Asian women, white women, brown women, and Hispanic, the majority of them want white men instead of a darkskin like me.
Looks and features definitely play a big part. I'm black, but i am 6'4", a fitness model, athlete, and bodybuilder, and I've dated and hooked up with nearly every ethnicity of women. If you have the looks, then a womans culture and preferences of what man they thought they wanted goes out the window completely.
Exactly. I’m 6’4 as well. Did weightlifting and track. Double majored in mandarin and poly science with a minor in human rights. No problem dating out.
I’m mixed and don’t have a problem with any race. I haven’t even really given a conceited effort to “looksmax”. I always thought the race stuff was silly cop out. In 2024, you just gotta carry yourself like a confident man and not be a loser. Most people don’t care what race you are.
@@igpxmaster im a good looking light skin dude and asian women def find me attractive. In public mostly everyone tries to ignore eachother lol but if you are attractive most people will take a look as well as a lot of women of all backgrounds. Environment is huge tho, like in middle schoolm I had hella white girls loving me lol
@@fxfundedfxf8776 well yea because that’s you’re in a school bubble remember how women operate so for example school middle high school college is where most black men eat why? Because typically the most popular sports are overwhelming black men another thing is our dress code and charisma now when you get out of the school bubble now you gotta deal with the county bubble is the county in the state you live in have a lot of interracial couple or people that don’t judge than you are good if not you will only be seen as a piece of meat if you are attractive… attraction isn’t the problem it’s more social economic factors , history etc.. just because they look doesn’t mean they want to touch and if she wants to hook up cool but don’t expect more out of it I’ve literally had Indian and Asian women tell me their peoples will punish them meanwhile no issues if they date white men
It’s not crazy it’s facts . Whiteness is universally accepted as being the most attractive. Just look at dating apps for example the white man gets the most responses from women.
My Grandmother gave me this advice when I was in my early 20's. Marry a man who is of the same culture. She said, people from the same culture understand each other better because they have their culture in common. And all the little details that come with it. However, narcissist exists in EVERY culture....so be aware of these evil people.
I'm so sad to see a mindset like that. You can date people with other cultures, it might even enrich yours and vise versa. You can not only learn a lot of things from them, but you can learn that certain differences are fine and healthy in relationships. I'm sure your grandmother was a very lovely person and she meant well but I'm not surprised to hear that from an older generation when everything was segregated. It's time to get past that, and we are getting past that as a society slowly but surely. You are of course attracted to what you are attracted to and if you are only attracted to someone of the same race, I think that's fine. But to tell someone that they should marry anyone for any other reason than the fact that you love them for who they are, is not good advice, I'm sorry. Again, I don't think there's anything wrong with someone that wants to date within their race, people are attracted to what they're attracted to. However what I do have a problem with are people who refuse to date other races for the wrong reasons.
@@SVAsianPhilippinesGo6858 Yes, and I'm sure you also have separate cultures, especially you growing up in an Asian household. Which is great, there is nothing better than sharing your culture with your loved one. I am a white girl that is in a relationship with a black guy and I know he's definitely the one for me.
Maybe ,just maybe it's more about the status of the dude vs his color ? Most women will and always gravitate towards men with money and power. Andrew Tate isn't exactly much white, nor is Vin Diesel.
@@dantasticmania8728100% accurate. Women respond effortlessly to power, money and fame. Generally there's a hierarchy of competence embedded in the human brain. Hypergamy is how we got to populate so well. We're not thriving yet but we're reproducing well because of this.
Facts as a black man I live in Utah a predominantly white state when I hop on dating sites 95 percent of the time I don't get matched with white women. When I went to Memphis and Kansas city to visit it was a full 180 I got matches from mostly black women and hispanic so I agree with this 1000 percent
People are oblivious in the world we live especially with stigma and stereotypes around, so if you're black and attract other races its because you stick out which is a good thing.
Or mixed race like me, we are called coloreds in South Africa. Black women never give me choosing signals. I only get choosing signals from other coloreds and white women
Lol yeah but u have to fame near be perfect in terms of looks and still struggle in today's dating market due to these chicks dating white and Latino men the most they date bm as there 3rd last option I know from seeing it an here it firsthand sad game lol good luck fellas
That's totally true, I live in Brazil, a pretty mixed country, and we don't have these stereotypes here as you have in the US, they still exist, but not as much as there, so we have way more mixed relationships here. Talking by personal experience, I'm black. But I'm sure what Austin said is also true to some degree.
Most don't want to find the study and it's obvious also. A woman goes for security and when all they see on the news, social media with Blacks killing each other, acting vile, cannot speak proper English and the poorest demographic group, why would any intelligent woman go for Black men , they don't want to take the chance of finding a decent educated Black man when it's easier to find a White.
Yeah I seen the study a long time ago asian men were at the bottom for mates. Black men were like second to last Indian men above the black man and the white and Latino man was at the top. It’s fine though I’m not tripping it is what it is. It’s social programming.
@nashambenyisrael7689 I'm positive most of it is boiled down to economics; Whites historically have been the wealthiest in this country and the West, though now it is Indians ( Asian) are now the wealthiest racial group. Nigerians are top also. It's who women see as a provider. When they see a certain demographic on the news always involves in crime and oversexualization, the thoughts are not positive. If u look at FBI statistics , you will be shocked to see who commit the most rapes and against White women, who does the most murders, etc. A decent woman would not want that in their family.
Having a white women tell you they normally don’t date black men but you’re an exception is problematic af lol I would have immediately cut shorty off and blocked her
I kinda get what you mean. Almost like its a kinda backhanded compliment. Like the ‘oh youre pretty for a black girl’ etc. thing is some white girls are simply just telling the truth when they say they dont normally date black guys, but so and so is an exception. Theyre basicly saying black aint their usual thing. But i hear you though. I would keep it moving too if a girl said that to me. Cos if a girl says that to you, she is basicly just telling you youre second best to her… meaning its only a matter of time until she instantly replaces you the minute her actual european type comes along. She’ll drop you like a hat. Nomatter what her race is, Fuck with the girls that genuinly fuck with your type. Anything less is failure waiting to happen. Real playas know.
I'm asian. This isn't the worst take, but a better one is, I liked white women for the longest time. Since I never saw any other race growing up as much. I preferred white women. Now that I am older, I would much rather date someone similarly to how I look. I do not know why, but it is preferred. I'll date anyone that proves worth it of course. but my absolute preference is someone that looks similar to me
This happened to me. I am black and Latino (black passing) my father is Hispanic and when I was younger i dated and loved Latino men because I loved my dad but once I got older and wanted a family I wanted someone that looked like me and wanted kids that look like me. Now that I'm married to a BM with 3 children I honestly feel like it was great that my life went this way because I just feel more comfortable. If I would of continued dating Latinos my future kids wouldnt of looked like me and I would of stuck out like a sore thumb in a family photo lol
@genvastema3305 Yup, black guy here. Came from a high earning family so I usually dated other high earning white women. They're professional gaslighters and like to be victims bro. Especially when they're the ones that start the arguments😂 Why is everyone so obsessed with attracting white women? Strictly dark skinned women are what I need
@@KCFlightClub10they are by far the hottest, but they’re usually useless housewives so unless you don’t wanna be coming home to washed clothes and a warm meal, if stray away.
For all the guys overdosing on copium, he’s saying that white men are the most universally sought after. You can be an attractive black man and still not be considered by Asian women, whites women, Latinas etc. simply because they don’t or haven’t dated black men. Preference rules all
Your acting like Asian women and latina women and other women date white men as much as white women do which is false. Most people date within their race so that's most latinas, Asian and other women that never been with a black guy before that your not thinking about.
Nah, black women and Latina women tend to go after black men and Latino men. we tend to date in that same sphere, that is the truth. black men have had more Latina women than any white man, I can guarantee it. and Latino men have had more black women than any white man, I can guarantee that also.
@@kingofgamez_9695It’s less about that and more about exposure. Other cultures are exposed to white people more. It’s the reason why if a white guy or girl goes to Japan, the natives don’t really care. When a black guy or girl goes to Japan, the natives are literally touching your skin and hair and surprised that you someone like you even exist. Basically every culture in the world has some kind of relationship with white people, especially in the United States where white people are still the majority. They are exposed to it more so they are more comfortable with it and can assimilate to it.
From a Asian perspective: Yes your right. Asian women in the US are encouraged to date WM for prestige and $. I’ve never dated in my race tho. Usually Spanish or black for me
Me personally? I've never had really any issues attracting Hispanic, white or Asian but it's usually the SPECIFIC individuals you encounter. Example; I'm tall, dark skinned, handsome, built like an athlete since i was 15, well dressed etc, but it doesn't change that preferences always existed. Nothing we could do but love who loves you , regardless of nationality. We humans all bleed red. All we got is each other. I love Filipino women btw😉💯🙏
Finally someone said it. No matter how good looking you are or how well crafted your bio is, they’re not going to pick you due your race/skin tone and not being wealthy. I’m not saying you should give up searching for people to date, just keep this in mind when you’re using dating apps.
This is literally a victim mindset, think about people as individuals. Unless they are just racist aka mentally ill. No one is analyzing life through the color of the people that they interact with. You are not being held back
lol the factors behind this are way more complicated than just looks. White people are way more conservative than blacks on a whole...white women are more likely to submit to men in general, and have generally more traditional values...fathers still decide women choices to an extent, they are not as materialistic because they are not stuck in survival mode due to life of access and privilege and not experiencing scarcity, there is pressure to marry young etc. As such nature's brutal 80/20 rule is staved off. Black women are ahead on the feminist curve where they prefer total independence. but white women are catching up. White men on average also earn twice as much as black men and are worth 10 times as much money...so they are also more generally appealing off the bat because of that across races.
@@dmonk926 FACTS!!!! People sleep on this too. A lot of minority women also see it as a flex to have a white looking child or a child with more European features. That's female nature. They want their offspring to have a better chance at survival.
To all the people arguing about race just remember that skin colour doesn't fix your ugliness😂 If you're good looking, you're good looking... You will attract who you want
@@gabeguzman9478move on and dont let it change your opinion on yourself.. and if you're insecure , gotta work on being content with yourself and your looks
In this day and age in a cosmopolitan country like America that we're still talking about segregated dating practices is wild. Yes preferences exist but love and preference are mutually exclusive. Just be open, one person don't want you, someone else will.
Race matters 100% but it isn't as simple as being white. For example, many many Asian and Indian men are discriminated by all types of women. I also believe black men have a better sex appeal and often attract better chances of casual sex. Many white guys are looked to be the good provider type dude, while black men elicit that raw primal sexual energy from women The BBC stereotype etc helps black dudes A TON. I've heard women get w black men just for the BBC, no cap.
you have to be a VERY SPECIFIC type of black man to benefit off the sex appeal that other races think all black men benefit from and most of us dont have the legendary BBC that everyone thinks we do. Mine is big but it's nowhere near the size of someone like Dredd and that's what they're looking for.
Let's say I'm white okay and I want to date a African American woman who I find that she loves me people are often racist when I want to date someone who I love like African American I don't get way they are so triggered
A fact that hit me hard when I was younger. I saw average looking white people having more luck with dating than very attractive non white people and I thought hang on a minute, what's shappening here?
Facts my G. I'm black and I agree 1000%. Me and my cousins have been saying this for the longest. Appreciate you for not being afraid to touch on this topic because I know most "gurus" wouldn't dare touch on this.
Just putting this out there.. im bengali (not indian but brown). My first girl was white when i was 15, she was ukrainian and greek mixed. Second hookup was italian. Third hookup was Taiwanese. I guess Im an exception? But I started working out when I was 14, got hella jacked before everyone of my peers so that helped. Im also 5’11.5 - 6 foot. But yea im 20 now and I get HELLLLA choosing. Signals at the gym especially. When my muscles are hidden I barely get them. So work tf out cuz it helps a lot.
That’s a horrible thing for someone to say. You will soon be everyone’s preference if only you can work on yourself to be accepted. Acceptance comes from self. So if a person is with you because you are their last choice then that is a big red flag. Because if a better choice comes around in the end you were used as a buffer just in case a better choice comes. This does not do any justice to both parties and is very unfortunate that this is the norm instead of the exception. Be wise my brothas and think before you act!!
This is extremely true. I’m an Indian-Surinamese guy from the Netherlands. A lot of girls said I’m handsome but I don’t have much succes in the dating world. Only with girls that like ‘darker skin tones’ or other Surinamese girls.
I’ve heard “I don’t like black guys from so many girls even some of the ones I’ve been with. It’ll be something like “usually I’m not into black guys but I liked your approach.” Or “oh but you were cute.” And it’ll literally be from black girls too 😅
During my dating years i was hit on by all races, especially white men. I rejected white men because i was scared of what my black girlfriends would say but especially black men. Black men felt they could date white women but would put their hands or intimate white men. Every white man that hit on me was so, so fine. I could have passed the love of my life. This was back in the 80's to mid 90's. There are more black women don't care what society say. I see more black women dating Italian and white men. I say, "heightened your horizons", my your sisters!!!!
You must be skinny girl. I have white coworkers talk to me and a random black men will start a fight or complain some white guy told me he was on a date with a black girl and this black man with his white girl cursed him out
Well I'm a very attractive person according to many but im not black, I'm close to the Latino /Italian look....im very attracted to black girls and i was never able to date them although I have dated European latinas and white American girls..i have always been rejected by black girls even when they say they're attracted to me...its frustrating because its what im attracted to most. It might be less now than before but this issue still exists
@@MedamineSlasla-su6mvhang in there buddy. All you need is one to give you a chance. Blk women are FINALLY starting to accept advances from other races and date/marry out. I seen it with my sisters and cousins within the past 6 years they all got married to white or whites Hispanic men.
Sharon as long as you’re still breathing then you still have time to open up your options. Girl in 2020 my brothers were trying to get mad at me for dating WM. I’ve literally had blk coworkers try to interrogate me over my dating preferences. Mind you I wouldn’t bring up the convo they would bring it up and say if I don’t date BM then I hate myself 🙄. It’s annoying but idc what they think it’s my life and I enjoy dating WM.
@@MedamineSlasla-su6mvhang in there. More and more bw are finally starting to come around and date out. All you need is one good one to give you a chance. Within the past 5 years I’ve had about 5 female relatives date and marry WM. So don’t give up on ❤️
@@elroyjetson6380yes they do an honestly if u notice it most of the attractive black woman date white men even if the white men are average or even below average looking
@@Lightskinemagic1995 Most importantly, looks are subjetive. Whats attractive to one person may not be attractive to the next. Honestly I don't notice that at all. However since you notice it so often can you give me 3 examples?
Exceptions, so true: I've had former co-workers, mostly white/Latino who'd tell me they don't see me as a "typical" black guy🤨, just because I -Speak proper grammar -i don't sag my pants -im not into sports -I don't smoke (anything at all) -i DONT use the N-word as part of my lingo
@nashambenyisrael7689 Ok. What is really colonialism that did a number on all nations?? Think of the facts what colonialism did bring many benefits to the new world and old. It brought civilization in a place where they were offering children and innocent people to pagan gods to appease them; it brought lots of inventions that we all profit from today. Slavery was all over the world and was a business; all races participated in Slavery and still today. It is really jealousy of the conquerors and that they did it the best and are still looked upon as superior unfortunately; it all boils down to resources that is realized and taken advantage of as it/ they were ignored by indigenous peoples. The same with Chinese and Japanese conquest and with the Vikings and Ghangas Khan . Again the Europeans did it the best; in life there are winners and loosers, rich and poor and always will be that way. The poor will always put down the rich to feel better about themselves. The loosers are the ones who don't assimilate into the dominant successful culture in regards to language and ethos. Imitate the successful habits( benchmark) of those on too and u can become the same. Look at China, Singapore, Japan, etc when they follow the Western European model of government, they are 1st world countries.
@@celticmulato2609 I disagree but whatever makes you sleep at night. You’re white im assuming based on how you view colonization but if you asked a indigenous person or dark brown person who’ve suffered at the hands of it they’d tell you otherwise. I don’t have the energy to convince you otherwise ✌🏾
@nashambenyisrael7689 Disagree all you want; facts dont care about feelings!! Also, I'm Mulato as my moniker says which is Mixed-race, White and Black, moreover, I don't have a victim mentality and I'm being totally objective!! The indigenous people of America wasn't all living in peace as the liberal media brainwashed washed you, there were lots of tribal conflicts and children sacrifice. Yes, many of them died due to diseases, that's the unfair side of colonization of a country; many Whites died also when they came to the Americas and Sub Sahara Africa due to the climate/ geography and mosquitoes that killed many. Colonization is not always a pretty picture as we all know, remember the Vikings killed many other Europeans; the Arabs also. The end result are 1st world nations with economic progress due to inventions where all races have benefited from colonization. If u don't want to feel the advantages of colonization, go to some remote town in Sub Sahara Africa, the jungle in South America and Asia and compare colonization influences and you will kiss the ground colonizers made for you! 😆 I know this will not make you sleep well at night because it seems u have a victim mentality. It is what it is! Start by listening to Thomas Sowell, watch Guns, Germs and Steel on PBS or RU-vid if available still , you have a lot to learn about economics and don't have a victim mentality, it will only keep you down. Embrace a paradigm shift and u will be better off.
@@ellisthejerk8018 Height is top 2 importance next to facial features but facial features will always remain supreme. If the guy looks handsome, all he has to do is be taller than the girl and he has a chance. Being tall and average/below average facially isn’t enough, you’d have to make up for it with status.
@@cartiershades3392 being that 80% of women are not interested in guys shorter than 5'7 and will not date them I will have to say that height will be as Supreme as looks
Statistically white women are the most loyal to their race in America it's just that there is more white women than any other ethnic group that's why you see them with other races@@1acmji
Absolutely without a doubt, I'm mixed and I am proud of who I am and I like the way I look, but man I'll tell you, this isn't some self hating bs, but if I were born Whyte it most like would be a night and day difference, I'm a positive way. Ain't no way emo goth Kyle, arms size of a cigarette, is getting hotter grls, then majority of bm its disparaging
Maybe because I grew up in a racist part of America (the south), this isn't anything new. The same thing applies to jobs -- black men have to work harder and be prepared for more "no"s... or be the token.
I am mixed race, but a white person (I don’t know how else to explain it) I was raised around a lot of relatives who are black and I seem to only be attracted towards black people and rarely white people. I don’t think this is racist? It’s just how I feel. I agree about white woman being attracted towards black people, most of the time, depending on their upbringing
I am also mixed, black & white, but i prefer white women. probably because of influence when i was in middle school / hs. but both cultures def have influence on me & ive seen some gorgeous black women & also my first kiss at 6 was a black gal 😊
Truth . A very average white man has way more options than a above average black or brown or yellow guy. Especially in countries outside US , UK etc whites get a lotnof preference and can easily get chicks . Its a fact , no point getting pissed at it .
@@fxfundedfxf8776you already know the answer bro, girls on dating apps aren't looking for anything serious. With casual sex they can cherry pick and that usually means the big black cherry 😉
For all those either oblivious or in denial, i encourage you to take a visit to any Latin America or Asian country. Grab yourself a drink, sit back and watch how the locals (girls) flock like fleas to the white foreign men.
@@blasiankiki7831 it's cause the media is pushing interracial cause the isrealites are rising up. They scared so they flooding the media with interracial and thot music.
I agree, although I think the point he’s trying make is that people have preferences so say if Two men are both considered 8.5s the woman will go to her preference quicker and there are more people with the European Beauty standard. Which I also agree with.
@@cypher3604That’s not true at all a lot of Black women will literally date bums, provide for them and worship any type of Black guy. Not me though. I married outside my race.
@@cypher3604 That's not true. BM are just so conquered and dusty, they can't meet basic standards. This is why they have relationships issues -- no matter the women they get with. In contrast, when BW get with smart, productive, non-black men with resources, they have much healthier and longer-lasting relationships.
Bro you ain't lying, I've wondered this shit forever. Albright I've attracted some decent, looking ww, but even the most down bad looking average wm be pulling the finest. And it's crazy because I have black homes thst would smoke these dudes to outerspace.
@@keanowhitmore yo that’s literally a fact white men be pulling the baddest Asians and white girls And WM be average af but I have to remind my self . European features. / white are at the top of the dating pool . Most black people don’t realize that the people that do date us is very niche. But being black is like being a super star so it’s hard for most to even realize these things
@@makinoutmakinout2056 I'll give you some stats about myself, I'm 5'9 I'm mixed with Ethiopian, Portuguese, Italian and Irish, I'm approaching 30. I've attracted a wide range, I mean wide range. From high-school grls all the way up to just about damn geriatrics. From the amount of times I've been complicated I'd say im rather attractive I'd say im around a 7.5 to a solid 8 but albeit im balled but I look better now, and I look even better as I've gotten older. I've been with around 24 wmn 4 of those ltr longest one around 6yrs. But the kicker to thst is how it can go from attention to absolute crickets and dry spells for months and years, I'm not the most financially well off but I do well, not even a suit, and new car, and hobbies pull them. It dawned on me the types of wmn I've accepted in my life also passed up on, lot of are mixed in with single moms and wmn willing to cheat on there husband's with me. Most of them have been ww. Only 2 bw and a handful of Hispanic, I realized none of them ever wanted anything more, and all those years not one of them really tried to get to know me, know me. Just used. And you see these stories on social media these dudes with these wmn who look eager to be with them, vacations, romance kids, not me no pictures to remember, all of it was blurred. Hardest part to about being with ww is a good majority if not them, there family is racist or prejudice atleast. And looking around self improving means nothing, even if you look like this dude, only thing that holds you back is the wrong race. It's defeating. Seeing yourself better rising. Thinking the girls are attractive just to realize the girls you attract, are brads slow Tuesday, and MOG you to oblivion just cuz he doesn't look like you.
It’s allll good in the end. Those ww choose to date funky wb let em date them . I’m tired of tryna figure out this notion in dating . I mean I be seeing some funny looking wb with some bad ass women and the fact that they do it for status and security makes me not gaf y’all can keep that bs and I’ll stick what I know
You are speaking truth but a lot of Black men with big egos will fight you on this concept. Black male athletes and celebrities will due to their status have a pick of their preferences but the average Black Men definitely have the reality you just described.
@@ThorRandulfsson lol cope harder white men are the perefernce for most women also u can’t believe those dudes unless you’ve seen the white women their with alot of black dudes think an average unattractive white women is attractive simply off of being pale
All skin colors and tones are beautiful..even if I'm white, I wouldn't mind dating a black man, or asian man.. You are beautiful, no matter of your looks. ❤ Guys love yourself and they will love you!
That also includes never dating people who only like you because of your race. If he likes my Asian appearance, but he has racist or misogynist preconceptions of Asian women (I am not a submissive woman), that's equally unattractive to me. I want a man who likes me for me individually.
100% true. It’s not something to be upset about. Western women overwhelmingly choose to date white men, especially on dating apps where they have a huge selection. General appeal isn’t always better than niche appeal, sometimes it’s better to be liked a lot by a smaller percentage of people than to be generally liked
That is generally not true. I pull more white & Hispanic women then all my white friends combined & when they some women do mess with white guys it’s about the money.🤷
Bro that's really unfair as mixed race attractive Man with Green eyes women of all races rejected me because I'm not a white man I'm only 48 percent white from my mother side
It's not something to be upset about, to know that you will not have kids because of your skin color >< So much dumb people writing on RU-vid from their mother's basement, we would still be in slave century by reading those dumb f*cks "Oh, its not something to be upset about, you just have a master that gives you free food", man STFU.
Thats because you are meant to be with your own people. Biologically you never have all your needs met dating outisde your race. It is like trading 2 perfect puzzle pieces for ones that dont fit so you shove it together and think its fine.
I'm a Hispanic man who lives in VA like 20 minutes from west Virginia border you can imagine how hard is for a Latin guy to date around here but I had a lot of success in dating because of the things you mentioned it's all about how you take care of yourself
@moneymakinmitch8130 I'm usually attracted to redneck country white girls from west Virginia. Lol and it's hard to attract those type of women because of my race but if you play your cards right and of course invest in yourself you can be successful and I'm not saying it comes easy i have to work 10 times harder and put myself in the spot believe me I got rejected thousands of times but I always find one
Thanks for stating the true while NOT supporting victimhood. I really appreciate that. 🤙 People lie about this ALL the time, but the reality of dating preferences don't lie. Best you best self for your own wealth and health, go where yours appreciated and let the chips fall where they may. NEVER DEMONIZE OR CANCEL ANYONE OR GROUP FOR NOT WANTING TO DATE YOU.
I heard that back handed compliment before. One of my colleagues said that she doesn’t look at black dudes when she’s walking down the street but she’ll look at me. 🙄 We (black dudes) gotta try twice as hard to get half as much.
@@UltimateD755 Asian/Latina/White women don't tolerate us until we become successful. Don't let your desire to be with non-Black women mislead you into believing we're embraced and beloved.
@@UltimateD755 The downside of us Black men marrying non-Black women is our sons will understandably want women who look like their mothers. A White grandson doesn't sit well with me. Marrying White means your land, wealth and assets will be owned by a White male in the future. You don't get legacy interracially dating.
Most important part that guys always ignore that'll make you stand out is a good set of morals that can't be broken. Turn to Christ men not only is it the right decision but it will also help you in relationships
I dont need a card saying I belong to whatever religion to be a good person. You can develop good morals without reading a book or having someone preach to you
You're not wrong about that. People are naturally willing to date their own race because they typically have the same background and interests. We can't let that discourage us because I always know there are people out there who are willing to date outside their race. Just need to keep being ourselves, be confident, and improve ourselves everyday. I used to think that my race is a reason why I'm not getting enough dates, but it all comes down to mostly lack of confidence. Sure, there are people who still prejudge and prefer to date their own race, but those aren't the kind of ladies we don't want to deal with anyway. I know I'll discover the right match someday, and she'll be of any race.
Very true. I dont know why, but the "I don't normally like black men, but YOU.." thing sort of pisses me off. It should be flattering on paper, but it sounds annoying to me
Well it sounds annoying because it is annoying... She basically says that all your father, your brothers, cousins and friends are ugly people and that she would never give them a second look, of course it is annoying. It is basically a disguised insult.
@@TomikaKelly well generally speaking, if a women gives a man the vagana, most men will stay. It's irrelevant to the skin color at this point when she opened herself up.
@pcpll Black men especially don't have self respect. Perfect example: Obumseli who was murdered by his white OF model girlfriend last year after she repeatedly called him the n-word and he negotiatiated with her to stay. It's quite comical to see how low they are willing to stoop for acceptance, approval, and validation.
Yes because lot of black men dont want to marry black women and look outside their race. Also in certain states, the options for black men are limited. @@miguelc8780
@@miguelc8780really? Where I'm from Spanish women generally don't get with black boys and usually gravitate towards white or other Spanish men. Sounds like cope to be honest..
Exactly, this what I tell everyone. European colonization and their racist system of casts is what made "white" be considered pretty. It all started in 1492
That’s visa versa black white yellow brown blue green n red It’s what is taught while growing up Some don’t have the clue of their well being They only have knowledge of what they’ve been taught n told n treated By color of their skin God made us all as 1 ☝🏾n equally There’s millions n millions n they don’t know it No clue n without understanding n respect n courtesy is given God bless us all EVERYONE under the sun
Finally someone who says it!!! Bro been struggling with these alot, im a good looking black latin man but my succes in netherlands not good. But African girls like me
I believe it feels the same when a lot of Black Men say they prefer to date White women. We call that “a preference”, but really that sounds like a cover up.
Your exactly correct Botha … unfortunately tho most women if they aren’t black and into Black men are 304s … so we get the shyt end of the deal either way .
So true, man. Most non-black women going for Black men are not respectable women typically and are usually rejected amongst their own people. They come to Black men with sexual deviance and other debauchery instead of trying to form proper relationships with Black men. This is the real reason why interracial relationships don't work our many times and why you see white single mothers with mixed children, it isn't always because the Black man didn't want a family, it's many times because the White women (for example) was only having casual sex trying to realize some BBC fetish, and had no intentions on being with a Black man in a marriage or proper partnership.
There's some truth to this.... But, you never factored in the types of women who need to "fix/save" men often ain't hoes yet end up single with a child of a deadbeat
@@aurora5957 dense? How so? I have lived in East and West and I agree that people should travel and see the world but my point is that racism towards African Black people and colorism is universal. You can't escape racism colorism by traveling to the other side of the globe. The main comment is misleading (suggesting that escaping Western standards culture is an escape from racism colorism towards African people) and unrealistic as MANY do not have means finances to travel internationally. And this video is geared towards Black men.
Not gonna lie it’s kinda crazy that you’re okay with someone saying that to you😂 I’m black and when someone try to make an exception for me bc I’m black I could never deal with white women ever again
@@sjp4565yes. Once blacks practice racism collectively they will reap the benefits. That's why we lag behind. Every other race does it. Now we must too.
Yo I got a fade several compliments on it but it’s a buzz cut fade, it’s very rare I can find a dude who can pull off a buzz cut better then me, but in the past I had a sick ass side part with a nice fade as well, I got a good hairline, and barbers always say dude your hair is tough to fade as in it comes out so clean. I’m middle eastern but have pale skin black hair, beard full brows, but got pretty boy features too high check bones full lips, smooth skin, nice eyes. When I had a side part my features looked more “Eurocentric” now that I have a buzz cut at times I get mistaken for light skin and look more rugged but can pull off both cuts and like both, for the sake of being more universal what would be better? Black women are attracted to me, same with Latina and Asian women. White women are rare where I’m from, I’m come from a working class background if that helps.
Austin absolutely *NAILED IT* here! Deffo salute him for not lying about this like the majority of dating coaches do just to get money off naive guys who still don’t understand this simple basic truth. Props!!!
