The Truth About Life Coaching

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Life coaches are part of an estimated $2.85 billion global industry of professional coaches. Life coaches have been met with skepticism given it is a profession that does not require licensing or formal training yet resembles therapy. With a greater interest in wellness and attempts to overcome the stigma of therapy, the appeal of becoming a life coach or seeking the assistance of a coach grows year over year.
When you search life coach, Google tries to explain what a life coach is. Scandals haven't helped the profession's reputation. But despite this, the coaching industry is thriving. According to the International Coaching Federation (ICF), it's a $2.85 billion global industry with 71,000 professional coaches worldwide and 23,000 based in North America.
The profession is growing. Between 2015 and 2019, the number of coaches worldwide increased by 33% globally and 33% in North America, based on ICF's "2020 Global Coaching Study Final Report."
"Just briefly stated, coaching is about moving forward, deepening the learning and moving forward. Therapy also super useful is about going back and figuring out the why," explains Julie Colbrese, a master certified coach and board certified coach.
Life coaching is an unregulated industry, requiring no formal education, training or licensing. This allows virtually anyone to call themselves a coach. Alyse Parker holds no credentials or education in the life coach profession, and bases her practice on her life experience. She feels the openness of life coaching has enabled her to conduct 12-week seminars throughout the year and coach over 200 women in the last four years.
"I do believe that the flexibility and the openness for me to create what I what of this, of course within the realm of life coaching, it has been a huge element of why it works so perfectly for me as a person," Parker told CNBC.
Life coaching's increased popularity, may be due to the fact that it is not therapy. Coaches and therapists are often explicit about the differences.
Life coach Danielle Copsy explained, "I've had situations with people where we started working together and it became apparent that it was a therapeutic issue. How that becomes apparent is you just literally cannot move forward."
While it's important to understand the differences when seeking a coach, life coaching may act as a needed step to getting someone the mental health treatment needed. In an interview with CNBC, Psychologist, Amanda M. Spray, Ph.D. said "There is still stigma associated with mental health treatment, for sure. I think we're making a lot of progress. There have been great public awareness campaigns that have made it more acceptable to speak with mental health professionals."
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The Truth About Life Coaching

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@30flirtyandfinance 3 года назад

I really think that you should carefully consider who you're allowing on your platform. Alyse is a very danger figure who lead millions of young people into a very dangerous relationship with food.

@PotatoCouch666 5 месяцев назад

Alyse is one of the worst and yet they used HER as a thumbnail XD dayum...

@lwolf101 3 года назад

Oh good lord. Alyse scams people up the wazoo. It’s horrifying.

@davidasingleton8943 3 года назад

Really?

@autumnadams4574 3 года назад

@@davidasingleton8943 Yup. She used to be a vegan RU-vidr and charge thousands of dollars for a "retreat"

@davidasingleton8943 3 года назад

@@autumnadams4574 WOWZERS!

@davidasingleton8943 3 года назад

@@autumnadams4574 thanks for the info. I’m in this arena but I make sure to give people what they pay for and then some!

@lemurianchick 11 месяцев назад

@@davidasingleton8943 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡

@mattpredictsofm. Год назад

The rise of the life-coaching industry has many benefits for both individuals and businesses. Life-coaching can help you achieve personal goals, develop new career aspirations, and improve relationships.

@mvanwie Год назад

Personally, I know the prominence of one. The essence of financial advice cannot be overstated because having faced my fair share of the markets bad side, I've been able to scale from $18k to 57k following guidelines recommended by my coach.

@tommyfisher277 Год назад

@@mvanwie I couldn’t agree more because. It's always great to hear from a person who has gone through all but sometimes it's unnerving to see your portfolio go from green to red.

@bradsandler3526 Год назад

@@mvanwie Coming from someone who’s been actively and passively involved. I agree it’s best to seek the help of an expert. I also have been able to build a $262k portfolioo earning and learning passively with Yvonne Annette Lively analysis. So I know forehand the essence of one.

@millercyy Год назад

@@bradsandler3526 How trustworthy are these fin advisors? And how do I get a hold of your coach? Could I like look her up? I mean Yvonne Annette Lively

@joecaruso06 Год назад

@Brad Sandler Yvonne Annette Lively huh? I did find her site. Resume, background & qualifications looked impressive as well as detailed. Seems to know her stuff pretty good.

@anoukc6928 3 года назад

⛔ Be aware of this industry ⛔. It's full of unqualified people, and many are just really good at marketing and are able to sell their services. I have seen on social media life coaches, but also fitness coaches 🏋🏽‍♀️ (with no education in nutrition), dating coaches 👨‍🏫 (unmarried...), business coaches 👀(which succeeded in teaching people about how to be successful at teaching entrepreneurship while they never had previous real business...)

@insertyournamee 3 года назад

So true. the Alyse girl is SUCH a scammer. Few years back she said you can become a doctor with NO education. lol. She also went from "high-carb low-fat vegan" to "high-fat vegan" to "carnivore" in such a short span... In each diet, she said she felt the best she ever has and then months later she comes out saying she felt sick.

@helenatube 3 года назад

@@insertyournamee No offense but she sounds like an eating-disordered privileged white girl who is very lost herself.

@LaurlenaEvans 2 года назад

being married doesn't mean you are better at dating. also, sports coaches often coach without having ever played the sport, so...

@anoukc6928 2 года назад

@@LaurlenaEvans I know, but you get the idea. For sport coaches, if they are certified at least it does show some credibility.

@LaurlenaEvans 2 года назад

@@anoukc6928 You're absolutely right! I believe certification AT LEAST, is needed.

@diligenthandsfinance8326 3 года назад

Noooo. Nobody should be paying Alyse to coach them about anything.

@Dreabz617 3 года назад

Isn’t that blond girl the one who had an entire RU-vid channel dedicated to her raw vegan diet and then stopped eating vegan and went on an “only meat”/carnivore diet? She was pretty defensive and shady when her followers called her out. Yeah, I’m not taking life advice from her 😅 thanks

@insertyournamee 3 года назад

A few years ago I remember she said that her information is more valid than doctors and that people don't need education to become a doctor...

@Pistachios36 3 года назад

I thought she looked familiar!! I stopped watching her around the time she started promoting using coconut oil instead of sunscreen 😬

@autumnadams4574 3 года назад

@Running Bear what??? When did she say the n word

@danielleminerva4525 3 года назад

Yup!

@ArianaGriffith 3 года назад

YUP

@joanmcmanus5320 3 года назад

Those who can't do, life coach.

@SuperLucylola 3 года назад

all scam artists preying on the weak minded

@tennis5126 3 года назад

I agree. It is the same in sports- Player who can't make it become coaches. Life coaches are just phonnies.

@psilocylence 3 года назад

@@tennis5126 that’s actually such a good metaphor. Accordingly, people who don’t have what it takes to become accredited therapists become life coaches instead.

@investinstyle-financeinves1181 3 года назад

Some people just need another person to give them structure and routine to help them meet their goals.

@equivalentexchangeisalie5726 3 года назад

At the end of the day if you can't motivate yourself to do that, I doubt a "life coach" will make any noticeable difference

@missstarrynight7736 2 года назад

I agree that coaching is useful in such areas, but more serious problems should be solved by qualified experts with years of life experience.

@space3555 Год назад

@equivalentexchangeisalie5726 That's not true. Sometimes all it takes is that ONE person to see something in you and encourage you and it can change your life completely. Your negative outlook on it is not a fact.

@Rinee_96 6 месяцев назад

@@equivalentexchangeisalie5726 I cannot share my deep secrets and things that are hindering my life with myself or even anyone close, bcz there is fear of judgment or what if they end up telling so n so , so having a safe environment where a person can listen to me and let me vent out helps a lot

@Dmeadows315 5 месяцев назад

@@equivalentexchangeisalie5726 The statement carries a degree of truth, and it emphasizes the importance of personal motivation and responsibility in the coaching process. While a life coach can provide guidance, support, and strategies for personal and professional development, the client's commitment and motivation are crucial for achieving meaningful results. A life coach is not a substitute for personal responsibility or the client's active engagement in the process. Successful coaching often involves a collaborative effort where the coach and client work together toward defined goals. The coach can offer insights, accountability, and tools, but the client's willingness to implement changes and stay motivated is fundamental to the coaching relationship. However, it's essential to recognize that everyone's needs and preferences vary. Some individuals benefit significantly from the guidance and accountability a life coach provides, while others may find motivation from within or through other means. The effectiveness of life coaching can depend on factors such as the client-coach relationship, the coach's expertise, and the client's commitment to the process.

@lilmisscoloring 3 года назад

Noooooo not the Vegan chick. She is so awful 🤣 she shouldn't be giving anyone advice

@dertythegrower 3 года назад

Exactly... i see this all over. it is fake guru wannabe. There is a guy on youtube named, CoffeeZilla who literally busts these people and calls them out every day... he had one arrested recently doing scams like this on instagram, a reall famous instagrammer got caught because he called him out. CoffeeZilla is the mannn

@gracesimplified3860 3 года назад

No longer Vegan. Meat only!

@insertyournamee 3 года назад

went from high carb vegan to lo carb vegan (only Amy's crackers and avocados) to carnivore... crazy girl

@HitRealm 3 года назад

Is it me or do these life coaches just seem like a 'Buy-A-Friend'? I feel like anybody with healthy relationships and close friends has no need for these people.

@jacquelinele9170 3 года назад

Great point. I wonder how many people have healthy relationships though, or friends who can be differentiated enough to give good advice

@cherylvision9045 3 года назад

Maybe clients enjoy sound boarding ideas for a new way/life/job that a friend may have too much impact on.

@ShacklefordR 3 года назад

@@cherylvision9045 it's friendship on demand and I think it caters to people of different intelligence levels on their journey to self awareness & reflection. not everyone have the educational background or familiarities to quarry life's biggest question and these people somehow facilitates it for them in a relevant format for them

@helenatube 3 года назад

"I feel like anybody with healthy relationships and close friends" Sadly, a lot of people don't have this. Also, I think certain types of "life" coaches can be useful: executive, nutrition, exercise, etc. depending on their own experience. But then that means you have to wade through a lot and vet your life coaches carefully to find the right one. It seems many of them do NOT have very relevant, qualifying experience.

@psilocylence 3 года назад

@Luís Andrade I have 24 years of life experience + a degree in psychology and communication. That will be $4,200, please :) I take venmo (:

@EmmaneTheCreated 3 года назад

Life coaching sounds like a scam to me

@extrasmalldoll654 3 года назад

LMAO at Alyse

@user-eu2me4bp7j 3 года назад

CON ARTIST

@davidasingleton8943 3 года назад

How? Her audience love her. It’s about relationship

@psilocylence 3 года назад

@@davidasingleton8943 what audience? Lol. She barely gets 30k views on a month old video so where’s the rest of her 680k subs? Her latest videos have a 50/50 split between likes and dislikes, and her comments are 70% negative if not more. So half of those views she gets aren’t even from her current subs, but from her old subs who just watch to then voice their disappointment with her. She gets like 10 comments on her insta posts with her account having over 180k followers. Loving audience who?

@danielleminerva4525 3 года назад

“Like ya know, like umm coach’s are like cool man.” Just umm get on. Like”

@danielleminerva4525 3 года назад

@@davidasingleton8943 get with the times. She’s losing people in droves!

@drewconway7135 3 года назад

Rent-a-Friend is way cheaper.

@gee_emm 3 года назад

@Luís Andrade Neither is your Rent-a-Friend.

@ryankelly8077 2 года назад

Therapist: Earned a Graduate degree. Charges $75-$125/hour Psychologist: earned either a PhD or PsyD. Charged $75-175/hour Life Coach: 100 hours of “training” done over 12-months.. charges $250/hour…. Cmon bruh ^**

@DesaThomas 2 года назад

No. I plan on sharing real information to help people really unknot their own mind to move forward.

@ryankelly8077 2 года назад

@@DesaThomas - what empirically evidence based practices do you use to do that then? -> to justify you earning more per hour (on average) than physicians, that’s a fair question to ask

@DesaThomas 2 года назад

@@ryankelly8077 honestly, the information to live a life of purpose and fulfillment is PRICELESS. Every doctor is valued off the destruction of our bodies in some sort of way. They want you and bank on you needing them again. Most life coaches or good teachers/mentors understand that each client will only be with you a short time and eventually with growth evolve out of needing a life coach. I don't think that doctors shouldn't be paid what they are but why do they get paid more than some pilots, or consider even policeman when they put their lives on the line. A doctor never puts his or her own life on the line even in a high level operation.

@DesaThomas 2 года назад

Aren't they also on salary? And not entrepreneurs..? So they sign a contract involving their pay. Non Negotiable based client to client.

@ryankelly8077 2 года назад

@@DesaThomas uhhh doctors get paid what they get paid bc after 4 years of college, they do 4 years of med school, 3-7 years of residency, and 1-3 years of fellowship…. Not to mention, get absorb $200,000+ of debt… Plz name me another set of professions that requires that level of training

@TaureanBaby 3 года назад

I would rather just get a book from the library with these life questions, get a notebook and pen from Walgreens and just apply it to myself since it is up to the client anyway.

@InfinityPrimeX Год назад

"You would ratger" but you're not going to do it.

@MasonsTurtle 3 года назад

I wonder who would pay for one instead of like a licensed therapist?

@equivalentexchangeisalie5726 3 года назад

Those who have a negative view of therapy

@amazonflower5414 3 года назад

ANYONE who needs therapeutic services but is within reach of a life coach would consider hiring them NOT for good reason. Because they MARKET & PROMISE & PITCH & CLAIM. THINGS THERAPISTS ARENT ALLOWED TO DO ETHICALLY. ITS A TRAP.

@user-np6tf8zx1u 2 года назад

Those who can't afford actual therapy.

@LaurlenaEvans 2 года назад

technically they have different fields of work! therapists speak on the past so you can evolve and give therapy, life coaches guide you through life choices that you may not have the experience to do. Finding the right therapist and right life coach is a great balance but money is always an issue

@lindawang5649 3 года назад

"it's essential that coaches have coaches" sounds like an mlm to me

@Itsyourgirlbai 3 года назад

actually a lot of therapists have therapists. he was saying that coaches should have coaches to keep their personal values accountable. that’s actually very wise. it had nothing to do with his business model

@idonotknow8503 3 года назад

@@Itsyourgirlbai therapists are required to have therapists precisely because their job is regulated and they need to keep themselves in check constantly. While many people call themselves coach because they have followers to take advantage of or think to be knowledgeable enough to charge for their services. It's alla bout marketing, who buys can either find a professional or a phony twenty someting only capable of relieving you from some deep rooted money. When they open their mouth and say the same old catchphrases... there you have your pretty, wealthy scammers.

@Dont_tell_me_to_relax Год назад

@@Itsyourgirlbai a coach seeing a coach spreads arrogance and lies. A therapist seeing a therapist spreads truth and authenticity

@DesaThomas 2 года назад

I'm actually disgusted with the amount of people who do not understand the benefits of having someone who understands the mechanics of life to be able to help guide/unknot people in their current situations. I use my divinity and create purpose inside myself to be able to actually aid the community.

@ShaunHolden Год назад

What a lovely comment

@EvilSapphireR Год назад

Divinity sold for 250$ an hour.

@misstakenbelief 3 года назад

Alyse is the definition of privilege and she's discriminatory. How you can promote her is beyond me. 🤢

@williamleung9217 3 года назад

How are life coaches charging more than licensed therapists?

@a004 3 года назад

Lack of regulation allows them to do shady practices

@a004 3 года назад

@Luís Andrade they don't need to go to med school because they don't practice medicine. That's psychiatrists. But they do go to school to practice psychology. You're getting confused.

@a004 3 года назад

@Luís Andrade they don't claim to practice medicine. Science, yes. But science comes in many forms, psychology being one of them.

@gretaprikockaite3846 3 года назад

Just cause they seem chic

@gretaprikockaite3846 3 года назад

I mean life cauches seem like luxury, while a terapist seems so normal nowadays

@AntonSlizzardhands 3 года назад

Unless the "coach" is much older than me and has proven success then I don't see the point.

@bittercaramel7652 2 года назад

Agree

@bassioelmucho 2 года назад

Yeah, Shouldn't you have lived some life before you coach people about it? Arrogance of some youth!!

@1x0x 2 года назад

its about getting a different perspective and someone to keep you accountable... the coach isnt saying they have life all figured out

@Zaba_the_Dogling Год назад

she takes her experience from her life as well as ‘past lives’ 😂 says it all

@QueenAmaal Год назад

I felt the same. Not all coaches believe this or work from this.

@Jepolla 3 года назад

Psychologist > Life coach

@goodkidkraabcity9518 3 года назад

1:07 Can't even tell the difference between Eastern and Western Europe

@awabaltahir9547 3 года назад

Or better yet, don't even know east from west😂

@thequeenmidas Год назад

I'm an ex C-suite executive with an MBA. I can tell you without a doubt that life wisdom and knowing how to guide others through life's challenges does not need a degree. The end.

@trudymorgan7456 7 месяцев назад

Doesn’t need a degree to know you can scam people

@lemurianchick 5 месяцев назад

@@trudymorgan7456 Because doctors don't scam people, right 🐑? You sound fully boosted. You were told to trust the science and consent to having a bioweapon injected. So many "experts" participated in a massive hoax. And how many millions have been maimed or killed by it? Having a piece of paper doesn't guarantee competence and not having one doesn't mean someone can't be amazing at what they do.

@sotonyekoko3553 3 года назад

Sounds like multi level marketing

@mrs.lauren7726 3 года назад

The girl in the thumbnail, Alyse needs a life coach herself. She is confused! I think it's a scam as well. We are a lost and lonely people, I'm guilty of it as well but I can't afford to buy scams lol.

@EvilSapphireR Год назад

She is taking 3000$ dollar for just introducing people to a support group. She's not confused, she's exploiting people and her abstract words are an intelligent marketing strategy to convince people. Please don't let her gender come in the way of calling her out.

@belindaa9971 Год назад

My point I'm ok

@darakish 3 года назад

To all of the naysayers I ask this...do you think a clinical psychologist or therapist is the right person to go to if you want to plan a change in careers? If you want to navigate successful dating if it’s been awhile? If you are looking for someone to help with accountability to go after a goal or dream? If you are recently divorced and looking to create a life that makes you truly happy? None of these things need to dredge up the past or heal traumas. That’s why we have coaches. Yes, a friend would do if they are trained in things like motivation, planning, self reflection and asking the questions that inspire change. Coaches have immense value. Yes there are charlatans, but you’ll find some of those with PhDs as well. How many people do you know that have spent years or decades on a therapists sofa, with no real progress? If a coach isn’t moving you toward your goal expediently you need to find a new coach. Same can’t be said about therapy.

@moimoiaka10 2 года назад

THANK YOU. I have seen so many devaluing comments about a career path that has so much value when it is done legitimately. Children and teenagers are not the only people who need mentors. Plenty of adults do as well.

@ryankelly8077 2 года назад

Uhhh you ironically proved yourself WRONG…. There are different sub-specialties that licensed therapist/mental health counselors AND Psychologist work in that cover your examples….. there are clinically trained therapist and psychologists that work in areas of (1) career counseling, (2) helping someone improve their interpersonal relationship, and other niche areas…. there is also the field of industrial & organizational psychology, which involves working with both the corporations/business as well as with the employees of that organization

@1x0x 2 года назад

@@ryankelly8077 but not everyone wants something that deep or serious.. some people just want another persons opinion not a therapist. why is that so hard for you to understand?

@ryankelly8077 2 года назад

@@1x0x - if someone isn’t serious about obtaining professional help, then idk, see a “life coach” I guess (which prob costs more tbh)…. A bit counterintuitive but I guess ppl need to figure out what works for them

@soquel7912 Год назад

@x I'd agree.... if life coaches were a quarter of the price.... I mean, why pay for any ol' opinion when you can get one from an educated person who has proven to meet certain standards that are specific to your need... FOR THE SAME PRICE?!

@gracesimplified3860 3 года назад

This is very scary and dangerous. The hubris of these self proclaimed “Life Coaches”...

@lemurianchick 11 месяцев назад

How's your clot shot treating you? All the best deception from the highest level of regulation.

@idonotknow8503 3 года назад

Paying 1k a month for a GROUP program? I can have 3 months of one-to-one therapy or counseling for the same price, with a registered professional that has a strict code of conduct and years of training behind their back. I can have pre packaged self help content for free, thank you. Also, admitting that you choose a career because it is quick and not regulated... well, it says it all about who you really want to help. Your wallet.

@katie6599 2 года назад

I pay way less than $1,000 a month for therapy. I tried a few coaches. WAY overpriced and WAY under qualified.

@ltconyers78 2 года назад

I think the draw to life coaches is that they seem more relatable and down to earth. People tend to be drawn to individuals they can relate to. No, they may not have a degree (all though some colleges offer degrees in life coaching now), but they have that person's ear because they aren't using big fancy words to get to the root of the problem. Therapists intimidate a lot of people. And to be honest, book smarts doesn't equal people smarts. Some therapists seem to care more about their title than the people they are charged with helping. I have seen it with 2 of the therapists I have seen and one of the therapists my son with Aspergers has seen. She was more concerned about my son touching her "therapy dog" than his issues. Smh. Life experiences trump a book smart person most days. These people want to talk to someone that they can relate to. Sorry if that bothers a lot of the therapists, but, I have learned a lot more from people who have experience with my problems than I have with the 3 therapists I have met. I felt like I was talking to a person who cared rather than a person who has memorized case studies and theories. And , honestly, some of the wisest people I know don't have a degree. They have life experience. I don't say all of this to downplay someone who went to school and earned their master's. Not at all. But if the human element is missing from your practice, there will be some who will be turned off. We just went through a rough year with this virus. People want a true connection more than ever.

@QueenAmaal Год назад

It’s having a partner that holds you accountable to achieve. It changed my life and that of my clients.

@ben4711107 Год назад

I think you are painting your experiences with a few bad therapists with a broad stroke. I'm sorry you had to have such experiences. I've been a therapist for almost 8 years. I have never seen a client through a rigid clinical lens. And neither have any of my colleagues. The flaws that you have described from your experiences seem to call back to a time when therapists were very clinical, cold, and lacking humanity. Most therapists today understand that this is not only impractical but potentially harmful. I don't know enough about life coaching to say if it's good or bad. However the lack of governing boards and universal oversight in the field is troubling to say the least. You say that therapists are only in it for the money and status, which is not totally wrong (trust me I've met a few) but I could say the same for life coaches. Ultimately it boils down to the clients choice and what they respond better to. Have a good day

@skylinec83 3 года назад

So this is like rent-a-friend?

@VerStarr 3 года назад

U are ur own life coach 💯

@davidasingleton8943 3 года назад

Until you’re not!

@VerStarr 3 года назад

@@davidasingleton8943 LOL YUP

@VerStarr 3 года назад

@Luís Andrade you don't know my life! lol :p

@1x0x 2 года назад

wouldnt it help to have someone else holding you accountable tho?

@space3555 Год назад

That's great.....FOR YOU lol everyone isn't there yet.

@simoncherwell 3 года назад

This seems to turn into a thinly-veiled promotion for a particular organisation and its accreditation and training. Also seems to include interviews with some very douchey and self-involved life coaches.

@erinsymone1645 3 года назад

Most of the Make It videos are honestly....It gets old after awhile.

@gracesimplified3860 3 года назад

It’s sad to think that there exist so many people that don’t have healthy role models in their personal life that they can turn to for guidance and must turn to self proclaimed “Life Coach”.

@sirshrooma 3 года назад

@Luís Andrade Life-coaches shouldn't be called Life-coaches if that's not the case. No one would hire a personal trainer to help them get fit if the personal trainer didn't look healthy themselves, so why would you hire a "life" "coach" who doesn't seem to have success in their own life.

@angelacedillo6705 2 года назад

The lack of healthy role models is a good point. Or in my case, they are healthy, but not living a life I want to emulate. Definitely addresses the need and therefore the demand for these coaches.

@evelynbarry5046 Год назад

I thought life coaching was a scam for a long time. Why not read a book or talk with friends to support you ? This us what I was thinking But I discovered that a lot of people do not have that have that support. A lot of people need outside help overcoming some challenges. Sometimes friends can give you the worst advice because they have their own interest in mind or are scared to see you get a head, even parents will do this. I am not a coach but I have 50 years of experience behind me and a lot of younger people are coming to me to be their cheerleader and coach. I see how it helps them and I am happy to do that because growing up I didn't have that. I absolutely don't have everything perfect in my life but at least I can offer encouragement, advice for others when they are looking for it.

@ginaquijano706 2 года назад

One of the therapist on the video talks like she is depressed and bitter! Life coaches are awesome!!!! Been to therapy for 20+ years and meh Then life coaches came to my life and it changed me!

@ShaunHolden Год назад

What a lovely message to read!

@emejay4631 3 года назад

My issue with these coaches especially the social media coaches like allyse is that unlike the other coaches you can see directly that her being an influencer provides her with a clients base so her clients only want her as a coach because they like the highlights of her life and want that and they think by paying for her advice they will eventually get that which is interesting 🤔

@thinkinenglish4877 3 года назад

One thing I didn't like about working with the 3 life coaches I've worked with is that I needed specific advice for how to do things and they say, "Go find this person and ask them." I felt more like they were the middle man and didn't necessarily have the experience needed. A lot of charletons in this field and a lot of woo woo. I found it much more effective to take that money I invested in life coaching and pay a teacher to teach me to have the specific skills to get ahead in business.

@missstarrynight7736 2 года назад

Exactly! I have the same experience. I feel like I had a coach who kind of wanted to monitor how well I am dealing with my own problems! Gross! why to pay someone if you're the person who's expected to provide a solution?!

@RC-pm3de Год назад

@@missstarrynight7736 Life coaching is not about giving advice or solutions you need a consultant not a life coach for that..

@Aniketkumar-je8io 7 месяцев назад

I understand your concern...you got the wrong life coaches...they should help to understand how to identify disempowering meanings pattern in form of invisible self image,invisible beliefs, invisible habits, visible habits...& How to replace those but if you want to learn business,sales then they can't help but one thing to note even you get right knowledge to do business you will not execute, doubt, stress,laziness....will come to help in that is the work of life coach...help you understand the framework how to achieve success...you must check what that coach has achieved....or just he is teaching.

@abstract-thoughts 5 месяцев назад

So this tells me you have no idea what life coaching is. I suggest you go look up the definition and then you'll realize that the coaches weren't the issue.

@shawn.builds 3 года назад

I think my biggest apprehension is that this is unregulated. There's no penalty if someone gives you terrible advice. We have no tolerance for bad doctors, lawyers, and engineers, so we should hold these "life coaches" to the same standards.

@soapa4279 3 года назад

Agreed. "Oops my bad. Try this other thing instead! And give me more money"

@mudiwatm9131 3 года назад

100% agree, regulation matters. Especially considering the delicate overlap with mental health.

@soapa4279 3 года назад

@@mudiwatm9131 Good point about the mental health part. It can potentially leave some people in worse positions than when they started, mentally and emotionally.

@hansonel 3 года назад

This. Life coaching often overlaps with mental health. Many life coaches should be licensed just due to that fact.

@Sul227 3 года назад

The thing is, different people have different standards for what is helpful. I personally cannot understand why you would ever hire a life coach, you won't learn anything by being told what to do; life is about learning by doing.

@dontemaurice1532 2 года назад

In short, as a coach you aren’t helping people like a therapist or psychiatrist would. A coach is generally helping others overcome life issues that the coach has already experienced. There’s no diagnostics involved. No medication involved. You’re literally giving the other person insight on what you, the coach has already been through. How you’ve dealt with whatever the issue at hand is and the outcome. In return that client pays you for the knowledge and time spent. Which equals value.

@pnwlady 6 месяцев назад

There are a lot of crappy therapists. People stop trusting therapy when it’s failed them multiple times. In therapy there’s little incentive to actually solve problems or track improvement. It’s often just going through the motions. Getting people on the calendar and talking to them. I’m kind of over it.

@tenaciousdestiny 3 года назад

These life coaches can't even tell you what therapy is... so how can I believe them that they aren't practicing outside of their scope? Therapy isn't just about the past, and it isn't giving advice and problem-solving either. This industry is ripe for people to take advantage of others being so unregulated. And it costs more than traditional therapy, with no education or oversight? If coaches want to be taken seriously, this video was not it.

@halfbrain86 3 года назад

most of these coaches are just expensive substitutes for missing friends in your life that can give you some serious well thought advices for your life.

@1x0x 2 года назад

well if someone doesnt have that friend, why is it so bad for them to pay for someone to give them advice?

@RC-pm3de Год назад

Exactly and thats why coaches are needed as this world has become very selfish all me me me

@EvilSapphireR Год назад

@@1x0xpaying 250$ per hour for friendship?

@kevinlee4434 3 года назад

I heard Alyse said the N word at a livestream. Can anyone confirm?

@deanaagresto3550 3 года назад

Yes, she did.

@a004 3 года назад

Rent-a-friend

@rantiamanda1342 3 года назад

In japan like this, so Japanese more polite about that

@a004 3 года назад

@Luís Andrade lol if you believe in life coaches, you have no potential

@jessi031886 3 года назад

Alyse Parker is a horrible example to use.

@Ela29653 Год назад

I benefited from a career coach a lot , personally.

@skillzx5842 3 года назад

Life coach...the people who can’t get their own life in order so they coach others who are as lost as them in life.

@joytothehan 3 года назад

This. Two of my friends that are life coach couldn’t get employed and jumped around jobs and went radio silent on social media and compl revamped their profiles and became a life coach. Great people but coaching other people on life? 🤔

@1x0x 2 года назад

@@joytothehan the coach isnt saying their life is perfect... some people want the extra motivation of accountability

@raquelmirandacubero3207 2 года назад

I've been working as a coach for a while now... Some clients are wonderful, others are extremely complex! And the more people I see on coaching, the more need I have to get trained and go to supervisions. How can some go and provide sessions making it look that easy?

@user-hg8eq4jm8v 3 года назад

I give this a thumbs down just because they chose to feature: Alyse Parker as if she was someone to be "respected" as a actual Life Coach. She is a joke and farce. Do your research. But for the others they actually have degrees and certifications behind them.

@davidasingleton8943 3 года назад

It’s all about relationship.

@a004 3 года назад

They're all a joke

@a004 3 года назад

@Luís Andrade yes, standardization of a profession promotes eligibility to perform a skill

@sirshrooma 3 года назад

@Luís Andrade Since when is medicine the only industry that people care about having knowledgeable workers in? Consumers want reliability and accountability. As a result: regulations start to form. Most people would prefer a standardized industry even with some flaws vs. a fully unregulated market where for every 1 quality worker there is 100 scammers and unqualified phony's. You can disagree, that's fine. It won't change what most consumers value.

@iamsofia3782 Год назад

Alyse seems exactly like the type of person who becomes a life coach

@downzy007 2 года назад

You could have no accreditation and be great at guiding people due to life experience, genuine care, understanding etc as you could have full accreditation and be horrible at guiding people as you simply lack the experience, compassion and many other things. The world is not black and white and in reality, every person on this planet has almost something to offer in a coaching scenario... it's just knowing what you have to offer and how much you truly understand/care. You can go the textbook route,but sorry, you will simply be following robotic format in many scenarios! I'm talking from experience and as a therapist or coach, you should never sacrifice who you truly are, just to blend into programs heavily, because ppl have said you must be qualified. You are gonna fall/make mistake and possibly even realise you aren't ready to take on what you think you're ready for but stairing at paper, computers and courses for am amount of years will absolutely never give you what experience will.

@ShaunHolden Год назад

Luke - thank you for sharing this with me. I loved reading it, it made me smile. I agree "You could have no accreditation and be great at guiding people due to life experience, genuine care, understanding etc as you could have full accreditation and be horrible at guiding people as you simply lack the experience, compassion and many other things" Was so powerful to read! Unfortunately the gateway into coaching is so low that anybody can brand themselves as a Coach, finding the right one for whatever it is you are trying to ascertain from the client coach relationship is crucial!

@nOne-ol4bz 3 года назад

Life coach is the new hippie movement

@user-ir6co7ir2t 3 месяца назад

Life coaches believe you have the answer to your goals, the coaches role is to bring to light any obstacles preventing you from achieving them.

@kbflorida888 Год назад

I’m so glad I enrolled w Florida college at Jacksonville, for my life coach an ICF certification program. #1 they emphasized is a code of ethics and standards.

@happyserhii 4 месяца назад

it was online or offline?

@davidli6899 3 года назад

lol classic 1st world profession, these people would starve living in other parts of the world

@sanggarphone7064 2 года назад

I am a 59 year old Life Coach with a varied life experience. I have completed Life coaching training and continues to learn. I have been coaching Pro Bono. Majority of my clients are just looking for someone who has no vested interest in their life, will not judge them, that allows them to talk about their desires in life. By asking them open questions it gives them the ability to open their minds to what is possible or how they can discover their own solutions. I would also be very cautious about seeking out a very young life coach or for instance a very young Financial Planner with no personal experience. One of my concerns about the industry is that it seems to feed on itself.

@awaji-igbanasimeon3968 2 года назад

Hello

@rainathorpe2802 3 года назад

I wouldn't trust these people to hold my house keys

@davis3138 3 года назад

1:10 swapped around "eastern" and "western" europe there.

@saulhpalmer Год назад

At the end of the day, a legitimate life coach has the skills to add value and transform someone’s life above mediocrity. From experience, people who benefit the most from coaching are committed to making a major shift in their life. They refuse to make excuses or settle for mediocrity. People who don’t benefit from coaching don’t trust themselves. Therefore, they don’t trust life coaches and think it’s a scam. This thought process in itself is a limiting belief that often shows up in other areas of someone’s life. If you are looking for a coach, hire someone you get a good feel for, can trust, and can afford. *As hard as it is, try not to assume just because a coach isn’t for you or charges a premium they are a scam. You have to realize every coach isn’t for everyone and everyone isn’t for every coach. There are people with a wide range of reasons for hiring a coach and income.

@rogernajm7447 3 года назад

waiting for the "life coaching is not a job, its a lifestyle"

@Annawillden Год назад

😭😭😭

@Eugene.Berezin Месяц назад

This was the first video I watched when I was considering starting my coaching business. What a coincidence to see it again!

@NatalieMarie917 2 года назад

I appreciate the point that not all counseling approaches focus on digging into your past. Solution-focused brief therapy is one example. It probably has the most similarities to life coaching. Just something to keep in mind especially if you’re concerned about finding someone with verifiable credentials and ethical standards they must abide by.

@ASmith-jn7kf Год назад

Uh huh.

@dunesunny3131 4 месяца назад

This is all about coaches coaching wannabe coaches to become coaches who go on to coach other wannabe coaches. It does so much damage. My partner was sucked into a program called Transition Excellence - a 12 week program at a cost of USD 6,500. My partner was promised that this would rocket launch their coaching business. Nothing would be further from the truth. My partner was sucked in an lost USD '000s. My partner, on realizing how much $$$ they had lost ended up trying to take their own life. This so-called "profession" needs regulating and I don't mean form the ICF or other "spineless" organizations. Governments need to clamp down on these "life-coaches" with serious judicial consequences.

@ryankelly8077 2 года назад

Alyse is a prime example of a life coach that needs to have legal action taken against & possible imprisonment because of the level of damage she has caused her “clients”… if she was considered a healthcare provider, she would not only have her license revoked, but could potential face legal action due to malpractice

@ASmith-jn7kf Год назад

What doctor gets in trouble for bad advice?

@lemurianchick 11 месяцев назад

Name one thing she has done to damage anyone.

@tamarascott120 5 месяцев назад

@@lemurianchick Do your research lady, it's all over the internet.

@marcouzmark 2 года назад

Alyse is gonna be a cult leader one day lmao

@EvilSapphireR Год назад

She already is. People are already paying her 3000$ just to get into a support group. That comes extremely close to cult indoctrination.

@sophiashouse7320 4 месяца назад

I believe sometimes people just need some encouragement to move forward in life on there goals/health/relationships and it’s nice to have that encouragement available by someone biased. I think as people we enjoy more of the relationship and positive energy. So i can see why people benefit from a coach honestly.

@manyhats3846 2 года назад

A life coach reminds me of a loving parental- role! I have coached my children with genuine interest for their best being and desires! Tiring, but rewarding job! Lots of us parents dont have a plaque on the wall. We are just as qualified! Experience, knowledge trumps a non experienced, cant think out of the box-type person.

@vaneyjane 2 года назад

Ok but my parents coached me with poverty trauma, self esteem issues, and an outdated idea that if you work hard you will be rewarded. Parents aren't qualified to "coach" their kids, and should send their children to therapy rather than filling their heads with their own ideology or "no blood no sympathy" mindset.

@jeffdorris5321 3 года назад

Nice work 🎆🎇🌠

@cynthiar3013 3 года назад

I feel like you’re paying for a friend..... they have no real qualifications. But they listen to you and help you see blind spots that you might be missing......hence a friend.

@helenbarrett6451 Год назад

If I'm spending 250 an hour I'll see a psychologist. If it want someone to keep me accountable to my todo lists then I'm thinking maybe $40/hr

@rssand6840 3 года назад

I think there are more scammers than there are life coaches out there. Like I don't have any life coaches calling me, but I do get scammers. lol If someone (who is mentally sound) wants to find a consultant/life coach, they should be allowed to reach out and be okay to pay up if that person has a skill or quality they want to replicate. People who hire life coaches are usually not struggling with money if they're paying $$$ to talk to someone, which is ultimately what the service is: to talk to someone. Notice how CNBC did not interview anyone that was a victim of some life coach stealing their money? This seems like a non-issue. It's making news out of no news. Like duh, go talk to a therapist if you're depressed or having self-worth issues instead of a life coach. Most people who are going through mental issues aren't going to wake up and go speak to a life coach over therapist. Most people aren't even going to know what a life coach is. lol

@fajrdn 3 года назад

Imagine a 40yo guy getting lectured by 20yo women 😂

@ki6eki 3 года назад

Why does the editor put the video on a monitor at times?

@ShaunHolden Год назад

Keep it engaging and mix up the shot my friend. Audience retention is crucial for youtube

@missovercomer2488 Год назад

I dont know anything about Alyse, but I don't really understand what the problem is with her? People are allowed to change lifestyle choices, regardless if other people take offense to it. As far as her advice, I'm sure all coaches haven't given top tier advice throughout their career. Why is she getting so much hate?

@fof3904 3 года назад

I was hading experiance with my life coach and i was suffering from depression and she make it worse til i attempt suicide bcz of her and then she says its not respone and it is not her fault

@jedikinigget5343 3 года назад

Some of these people become a life coach so they don't have to get a real job.

@psilocylence 3 года назад

Make it all of them

@GETole 2 года назад

Most life coaches don't have clients in need of or wanting a coach, rather, most of their clients are other wannabe coaches.

@JaxsonJordan Год назад

dude this was a great video.

@LoveMikosa 3 месяца назад

i love this very inspiring

@thisguymartin 3 года назад

Alyse is cringe and people just reach out to her due to her instgram and trying to live this made up life

@sauras9 3 месяца назад

You need a life coach when you are not ready to listen to parents or other older people in ur life who will give you real life advice for free!! Life coaching has definitely grown unregulated due to social media!! They go hand in hand.

@TheLadyof-cy8tk 2 года назад

An eye opener!

@brandydinsmore8214 2 года назад

May not be required to have a degree or MH licensing to do coaching, but there are many who do! If you need coaching for Executive Functions for example, you may prefer someone with experience having it, training in adhd, and a lengthy experience in a MH area.

@stephaniemichel6443 2 года назад

What's the difference between coach, and motivation speak?

@ShaunHolden Год назад

A speaker won't always be a Coach and a Coach wont always be a speaker. There may be coaches that speak or speakers that coach. However, they are very different professions.

@mirabella2154 3 года назад

"Coaching is about moving forward, therapy is about going back." You can't move forward until you go back. The most defining years are our childhood years. And if I need help, I'd certainly not go to a "Life Coach".

@realSimoneCherie 3 года назад

But once you’ve gone back..... you may want to move forward.

@AngieStonesPhD Год назад

Life coaches help people get the most out of their lives. They provide advice and guidance in a variety of areas such as work, relationships, and personal development. A life coach can help you set goals, manage your time effectively, and even tell you how to use your talents to make the most of your life. Life coaches are available in person or online, so it is easy to find a coach that is right for you.

@mudiwatm9131 3 года назад

Coaching is a skill set that requires some degree of learning to develop. Although credentials may not be a primary consideration for some clients, it's important that coaches have foundational certified skills and a mechanism of accountability. Importantly, because of the potential overlap between coaching and therapy/mental health, it is in the interest of clients & coaches to have minimum regulation and standards.

@a004 3 года назад

The only skill set in life coaching is advertising on social media

@mudiwatm9131 3 года назад

@@a004 That may well be, but those doing it must be regulated. A person can't wake up one morning and decide to be a doctor or lawyer or teacher. They need certifications and a license to practice. Coaching shouldn't be an exception. They shouldn't be allowed to operate without a license.

@a004 3 года назад

@@mudiwatm9131 there's no skill to regulate is my point. It's a scam

@tricallyourmama 2 года назад

@@mudiwatm9131 why does it need regulation? That just means the govt sets standards meaning the govt knows what is best for us hence govt is our coach. No freaking way.

@adamj2683 Год назад

The fact that you ask that is mind blowing. You are the prime example of why it needs to be regulated. The fact that you don’t understand the serious need for regulation to protect consumers.

@Eugene.Berezin Месяц назад

The problem when don’t have enough good very well skilled coaches so after 2020 we have a flood of coaches who can’t really coach.

@TomNook. 3 года назад

Just watched this video, realised I can be a life coach. So I am. Pay me to give you life advice.

@jmo4879 Год назад

Life coaches don't give advice *eye roll

@AllisonNoel1975 2 года назад

I’m a therapist but had to quit working due to disability. I know I have the skills, experience, and education that I believe would suit me well to be an effective coach.

@ShaunHolden Год назад

What would stop you becoming a Coach? I think you are right, sounds like you would be a great Coach!

@immortalstarventure 2 года назад

starting point and making yourself

@Itsyourgirlbai 3 года назад

i think that a lot of life coaches can be more helpful than psychologists. especially if you just need guidance and don’t suffer from mental illness. yes, there are scam/unqualified life coaches which is harmful and creates a stereotype but this video is trying to show the other side which is that not all life coaches are like that. you can get training and you can go further in your education. if you don’t like it, then don’t use life coaching services. easy as that. college isn’t for everyone and the therapist/psychologist route isn’t for everyone either.

@justinho357 3 года назад

Sounds like scuffed therapy

@a004 3 года назад

That's an insult to therapy. This is plain and simple scamming.

@Ruffles2012 3 года назад

So coaching sounds like.... Having a good mentor at work? That's free... And usually possible for most people lol

@colettithekid Год назад

You say life coach. I say say you’re having people pay you to be their friend

@SugarDaddyScottie 3 года назад

why isnt tai lopez & grant cardone on this

@IReapZz95 3 года назад

this sounds to me like people are desperate to talk with somebody and they don't find another way to do it other than paying

@rantiamanda1342 3 года назад

What's the difference counselor, life coach & motivator?

@missstarrynight7736 2 года назад

Counsellor must had an official degree in counselling, so it's the safest choice in more serious situations. Life coach and motivators are/can be self-made. Of course everything depends on a person's life experience, other qualifications, skills and abilities. "Soft skills" can be safely achieved with LC and Motivator. Serious life problems should be discussed with specialists of different kinds. After all, if you struggle with finances you'd rather hire someone with good experience and a degree than a 19 year old "coach" from YT.