The truth about pregnancy after 35 years old 

As a woman who might be in a similar position but is in her early 30s wishing you strength and success in your pregnancy

Hearing about your experience gives me hope

@alicia janae any updates regarding this? is the baby healthy?

@@joellim7010 Good morning ☀️ I’m due April 13th. But, as of now they have checked his health, done the test on him for disabilities and he has tested negative for any disabilities. He is currently measuring 6 pounds. I now meet with my doctor weekly for prenatal appointments and I’ve been nauseous and super tired but everything has checked out with baby boy. I will update you after delivery😊.

@@rissa_mariposa thank you so much for the well wishes! He has been growing well and I’ve never received a bad report about him during any of my visits. I’ve been having regular pregnancy symptoms like nausea, extreme fatigue etc… but no bad news with baby. He can come any day now between 37-40 weeks. This Thursday I will be 37 weeks so he can come before the due date of April 13th, but at this point it would be okay because between 37-40 weeks is considered full term.

What a blessing! Congratulations! Your journey sounds smoother than my wife and mine. Best of luck over the next 30 weeks

Hi desi c .i m 39 years old and trying to concive .but cant conciv.i hv a 14 years son. can u share ur pragnacy conciving tips plz

@@lifelonglearners9784plz rpy

seemasoni seemasoni The only thing I did was take prenatal vitamins, stopped drinking caffeine, and eating as healthy as possible. I’ll be praying for you!

Desi C congratulations 🎊🎈🎉🍾

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That's amazing I'm getting worried I'll have trouble as I'm 34 married nearly two years hopefully I have no trouble getting pregnant as I've mist out on the latter years of my 20s to start a family but I am 7 years older then my husband but he wants me driving soon obviously for more self efficiency but I'm now waiting for lessons to resume because of this dam virus its put allot on hold

Part of what makes me worried is not having as much years with them as I would if I have them young. But I have to remind myself of quality vs quantity. Do I want many years of scraping paycheck to paycheck while having no time for my babies, or do I want to be financially stable and give better wisdom and a better roof over their heads? I guess I’ll know when the time is right

My wife and i married late and had children late - neither by choice. We have two sons. My wife bore our first at 39 by C-section, and the second at 41 by natural birth. Both are now grown, in perfect health, and quite successful in their chosen fields. It may be better to have them young, when you have the energy to chase them, but if that option is not available, don't be discouraged.

@@erriiikk1 you're wrong. It should be discouraged. Your anecdotal story doesn't make the rule. Stats say the chances of of death during pregnancy is really hugh for you and the baby after 30. The people that didn't make it aren't here to tell the story but the few that did like you are trying to create this false image to women that its fine. Its not fine, your advice will bring a lot of grief to families...

For the first time or

31 isn't considered "geriatric" you shouldn't worry just because of that

+Anna GracieC thanks for the positive feedback

Congratulations on the baby. My wife is currently at 37 weeks and we also fall into the high risk group but the doctors in Australia seem fairly relaxed. We are only just now starting weekly appointments.

why do you bother going to the doctor then?

My mom was pregnant at 43 and wasn't trying so...stopping stressing people...just eat healthy and stay fit and mentally stable.

So great to hear. Thank God! All the best.

@@syrenaxhaferi7278 The best advice in a nutshell

Pls share

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Me too

I was very worried but your comment encourage me much

Am 33 years and my first child is 13years

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Glad you found this helpful. Best of luck with the study.

Phycho Pink ok

@dcosb09 no such thing I'm turning 36 in a month all men still want me - life is what you make it - just take great care of yourself

dcosb09 I agree why would you willingly wait that long by the time you turn 30 and start looking for husbands all the men you’re looking at will be looking at the younger 22 year old something women retards

It's like this video was made by the Committee for Population Reduction. The fertility cliff is real. These pregnancy percentages for women over 35 are absurd and misleading. How many 38-39 year-old women do you see walking around with newborn babies? Practically none. That's because it's actually MUCH more difficult for them to conceive at that age. A recent study I just read said a 40-year-old woman had a 5% chance of getting pregnant. If that is indeed true, then a woman's fertility drops by 5% every year beginning at age 22. That means by 31, a woman's chances of getting pregnant are 50/50. By the age of 35, the classic "fertility cliff", she's at 30%. Keep in mind this isn't to say these women can't get pregnant but that out of every 100 attempts, only 30 have a legitimate chance of succeeding. You'll have to have a whole LOT of sex to hopefully get one baby. The fact is that women are born will all the eggs they will ever have, unlike men who produce new sperm daily. Upon first menstruation around age 13 or so, the egg count begins to decline. With eggs beginning to decline in the teens, and fertility dropping to 50% by age 31, it's VERY clear that nature designed women to have their babies in their 20's. Actually, peak fertility for women is between 17 and 21. That's why throughout all of history, women got married much younger, until the second half of the 20th century. The 35+ first-time mother is a very new phenomenon as far as the human species goes. The whole business of freezing your eggs to "extend" fertility is a lie. There is no such thing as extending your fertility. Even frozen eggs continue to age, albeit much slower, and most don't survive the thawing process. The failure rate for frozen eggs and the IVF to implant them is 79%. Whoever thought placing a "young" frozen egg into a 38-year-old woman's body that has continued to age at a normal pace could outsmart nature and beat the fertility clock? Egg freezing is just a scam to make tens of thousands of dollars off desperate women. Never do it. Time moves on. Nature wins. Every time. Have your babies as young as possible. Women who put it off for careers or any other reason are gambling with disappointment and regret later on.

I know 'sending prayers' sounds silly to some people but I genuinely wish you success. ❤

Yes... finding father can be more difficult these days than getting baby...

That's a fair point, it could absolutely be the man's issue (at least physically his issue). Research indicates that male fertility also decreases with age. I choose to not address this here however as I felt the most misconception is in regards to female fertility rather than male - congrats with the pregnancy.

Men and women are not the same. Stop. Far less of an issue for men.

@@lifelonglearners9784 lifestyle choices like heavy drinking and smoking can absolutely affect the quality of sperm at any age. I should have been clear about that in my comment.

Overweight = very healthy?!

You are too old to have a healthy kid naturally..

What do you mean no warning? You're 36 so probably nowhere near menopause.

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With my experience yes go ahead with 2 baby bcoz my daughter keep asking for siblings and now im having so many problems to conceive at age of 38

@@ZoyaKhan-ds5by I’m actually 6 months pregnant now, due in July and I turned 37 this spring

I am 40 year no baby no period

You should be a grandmother at that age

if you want it go for it, I wish you much success

35 and 16 weeks pregnant only took two months of trying.

ameeen

I don't understand ,you mean kids from older parents get those illnesses

U can die even at 10.leave it to God

Trumpanomics Hobgoblin Glad you watched the video

arra arnaez God is great nothing possible to God so so you can get 🤰 pregnant and just believe in God

Oh that's helpful to know. I am an Australian. Where are you from?

Neha Mohan because he is from Australia. "down under"

Lifelong Learners your video was very informative. I liked it very much. I am from India, might be the reason I was not able to understand you clearly. Can you include subtitles next time in your videos please ☺

Thanks for your comment. There are optional subtitles that i created for this video - just click the 'CC' icon at the bottom right of the screen.

Lifelong Learners cool, thanks!

@@orismani1718 go away scammer

Don’t listen to this crap. They discriminate women so much on their age

Can you provide any resources for this info? Haven't seen it anywhere

Yeah, considering your face, nature really did you dirty.

@@irahdykeabueva4615 people become bitter when they have to face the reality... We are nothing but small creatures of mothernature and law of nature is the only reality.. Not these stupid studies..

@@jidendrap3745 yeah, mother nature sure did you dirty

@@irahdykeabueva4615 granny got offended 😄.. Sorry granny

He just debunked the whole claim that issues "skyrocket". Didn't you watch the video?

And the kids will start off their adult lives taking care of their aging parents.

@@finchborat yes,happening to me ,it's horror ,I hated that my parents are old

@@JessG_20 I guarantee most of those kids will have health issues

@@SRBOMBONICA86 Me too. Mine were in their early 40s when I was born. I've had to help take care of my mom for nearly 10 and a half years, with the heavy lifting being in the last 3+ yrs. I'm currently 28. I just hope I'm not totally screwed as far as looking for work when the caregiving finally ends.

There's nothing wrong with white. Sounds like an issue with YOU

@@jimbosmith6327 I'm not saying there is anything wrong with it mean person! Just saying they are LEAVING out other races as always!

Race has nothing to do with this. White, black, brown etc women have the same reproductive organs. Your organ doesn't know if you're white or Filipina. Btw, why are you putting quotation marks on the word exact?

Not true.

lcowles peak fertility is at 27. I’m sure you post this crap on every fertility video. Women should not have kids as young as possible because they will be a burden on the grandparents since it costs a lot of money to raise a child and egg freezing works not 100% but it’s not a scam.

@@missxmarvel A woman's fertility at 27 is 70%. Nature doesn't care about "burdens" or "money" or "maturity" or anything else. Those are all subjective issues. Fertility is not political; it's biological, and most women who wait too long will be sorry. Nature wins. I just wrote an extensively researched article for a medical group's journal on egg freezing and the fallacy of extending fertility. There is no such thing. Corporations like Facebook and Apple will pay foolish young women $20,000 as part of their health benefits package to freeze their eggs. Why? So they can keep working and slaving away for the corporation, while valuable years of their fertility pass them by. The company won't care when they're 38 and realize their frozen eggs all failed because it was never about helping women. It was about getting more productivity out of them and avoiding having to deal with the accommodations that come with pregnant employees. If the companies really cared about women, they'd institute policies that allow women more flexibility in their schedules to deal with family issues like a newborn, additional leave time on top of FMLA, and other family-friendly accommodations. Butt that's not what corporations are about. They're about maximizing productivity and profit, and if they can get women to delay motherhood and work more years by giving them a bogus guarantee to "extend their fertility" by paying to freeze their eggs, so be it. It's the women that end up the losers. It was the American Society of Reproductive Medicine (ASRM) that lifted the "experimental" label from egg freezing several years ago. Egg freezing was ONLY approved for women with cancer and other serious illnesses as a way to protect their eggs from chemotherapy and other damaging treatments. It was only offered as a slim (very slim) chance for them to possibly have a baby after their health crisis. It was NEVER intended for healthy women as a way to extend fertility because it's impossible to extend fertility. Because the procedure could no longer be considered "experimental" after the ASRM declaration, profiteers began targeting healthy women with the costly and near-worthless procedure that has never been studied for efficacy or risk. In fact, the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG) along with the ASRM do NOT recommend egg freezing for healthy women as a way to delay conception or "extend fertility" for all the obvious reasons. Women were meant to have their babies young as nature still intends.

lcowles Yeah and Technology doesn’t care about your bullshit facts. Times have changed, it’s like saying you can’t live longer than 30 because back in the day ppl only lived that long. Things have changed we live longer and have a better healthcare system. This is a video for women who might want to get pregnant and all you do is make women feel uncomfortable with nonsense because I have met women who got pregnant in their 30s naturally. Seriously if you got nothing nice to say then don’t say anything at all. Unless you are a doctor you have no business telling women with a dream to have children that egg freezing is a lie because it’s not. You don’t even realize how heartless you are.

@@missxmarvel Nonsense? You clearly can't see past your feminism bias. Nature wins. Always.

@@L1623VP It has nothing to do with feminism scumbag. Humans live longer than back in the day and Technology has been improved. All you morons can do is accuse others of being a feminist just because nobody believes your bullshit. You even said that this video is probably made to decrease birthrates by making women wait,you couldn't be more pathetic.

Corrie Scrivener u urself seem to be a moron

"do u what my kids to have disabled problems" lol okay

And in that scenario (mainly from 38, 39, 40 onward), the kids are slapped with early caregiving. They're stuck in the nest and have to put their lives/careers on hold. NO ONE should have kids that late in life. The blessing for the parents will be a curse for the child.

Corrie Scrivener ha ha checked ur channel. U seem to be a cripple and ur concerned about moms 35 plus.. freaking MORON

finchborat how about 35 37?