Omo if you hear the things happening in this life,you will know that this life is nothing that once you kpai you are gone. May her soul rest in peace. Amennnn
God of mercy . I always say it. The only option in an abusive marriage is to leave. Especially our Igbo women. If you don't go and you die someone else will raise your children. I know there are women in the same situation here. If you are reading this LEAVE
Very true. However a woman has to be empowered to leave. If her family won’t support her, it’s very difficult. A woman might consider her kids believing she’s doing the right thing. But what happens to those children when she’s gone?
Sandra you are a courageous and great woman by standing by your husband in this difficult moments, the husband of the late woman is a full blown devil in a human flesh, please her children should never be kept under that toxic and negatives family please, what a sad day women people if you are under a toxic relationships please run away you can never change the mindset of a wicked man.
Parents teach your children self-worth. Cause I believe that when you have regards and love for yourself, you will definitely not allow anybody to hurt you.
This video is heartbreaking. It's obvious you and your husband did the best you could for your sister and sister-in-law. May her soul rest in peace!!! Sandra, you are a great warrior for abused women and children. Perhaps, you should set up a non-profit organization focused on fighting against domestic violence, and rescuing and supporting abused women and children. Prayerfully, you can seek seed and operational grant monies to start-up your non-profit organization. Under the umbrella of your non-profit organization, you can create a support and scholarship grant in memory of your sister-in-law, "Chidinma." GOD bless you!!!
Sandra and Bright sorry about your sister and sister in-law, it’s so absurd that she endured domestic violence and neglect till her demise. Marriage is not do or die my dear beloved sisters, please leave to live for your children and loving family members. May Chidima’s soul rest in peace. Sandra may the Lord continue to protect you, I know you will be there for her children. Thanks a million darling, God be with you always.
If it was to be my village, she will be buried in her father's compound. My aunt that was even married legally underwent domestic violence and her last wish was not to be buried in her husband compound but her father's compound, and the wish was granted.
I’m happy that even in her death you as a family are still fighting for her respect. You did all you could do but God knows best, her death will not be in vain and this message today Sandra will surely save another woman or man’s life. Please let your husband take heart if not he will become unwell- God never leaves his own
Im so sorry for your loss. But you guys shouldn't have let the man pay her bride price. He doesn't deserve to bury her, and neither does he deserve the kids. Its so sad, and to think that a lot of women are still in the same situation is really saddening
I think they made him pay her bride price so that he could claim ownership of the children she gave birth to him... that's igbo culture. Because from what Sandra said the man threatened her never to go with the children... it is well shaaa... so sad.
Honestly she is not a virtual woman, she died out of stupidity. My sister is going through that and i stepped in. She never told me until her neighbors came to me. The most annoying thing of this is that my sister even to an accident and when i send money for hospital, the man used it to buy clothes and perfume, when it got to me. I used somebody else to acct to send money to her to pay for her hospital bills. When she came back home, serious problems started. I made it clear to him, that if he touches her again. He will understand that my sister and i are from the same mother, but we are different in choices. My dear, it's well. May her soul rest in peace. This is not fair at all to her. She is gone. Wish they could fought like this when she was alive. According to igbo land. The kids do not belong to him. He did not pay bride prise. Parents STOP driving your kids away because they got PREGNANT.
This is so painful to watch... i dont understand thhe language but tears... just tears flowing from my eyes. May this lady now find rest in her passing. May she see the beautiful gates of Heaven and be happy there. May God also protect her children that she has left behind. Oh fataher God please ease the pain of the persons involved in this situation. Oh my God. Such pain. May you hear their cries.
See my mum was married in Mbaise she has 6 girls for my dad ,no boy heyyyyy Ọmọ ......My mama see shege banza ooooo Kai 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 We suffered growing up ,it's not an experience I want to share here Long story short now that we are grown ọmọ we don scatter the marriage by ourself oooo,we rented another apartment for my mum ,opened a business for her , she's living fine , healthy and happy Me and my sisters we have decided not marry Mbaise cos we need to breakout biko But their ladies very respectful and hardddddddworking oooooo The men women beater They don't pay school fees They maltreat their wives They lay curse on their family,they swear by amadioha always They don't work very lazy men with attitude problem God console your family aunty ,I understand the situation but I thank God my mum did not end like your sister in-law But Chidinma will definitely rest in peace amen
Tchaiiiiiiii😭😭😭😭😭😭 This is so sad, staying in an abusive marriage because of your children to come and die and still leave them. Ohhhhh Jesus, I pray that God will watch over these children and give them a better life. I hope they will not maltreat them oooo, this one that the eldest was fetching water during the burial😭😭😭. Thank you for this message, I hope many women will learn from this.
My sister died from DV also, we begged her to take a break from the marriage but she was given us different excuses. My sister died a day after she came home. My sincere condolences to your husband and the entire family.
Gosh i was just crying watching this video, i remember running naked at night from an abusive man,i fought for 6 months to get my children back,today am a single happy mum of 3 doing everything for my kids,but am happy that way,because peace is the ultimate,now am high blood free since i left there,just pray for women in abusive homes,it only takes God to leave,especially if you are not a strong woman and indecidesive. If i write a book eeh😢 May her soul RIP
The youth could have gone when she was alive,and beat the man. In this age and time one will still die of domestic violence Mr Bright and Sandra take heart.
I was really shading tears honestly. Sandra you 100% if the woman doesn't want to leave an abusive marriage . Even if you call police they won't open up to the police. It is hard to get the person out of the marriage. It is a pity she died that way. I pray to God to console her innocent children Amen.
Obi agbawa m😢😢😢 Chaii Chidinma I don't know you, buh I pray that ur soul finds peace n comfort in the bossom of our Lord.May God keep n protect your jewels you left behind😢😢
My mother was in an abusive marriage In the name of i don't want to re marry and give birth to different man But thank God we are old enough now to take care of her I have told myself that i will never be in an abusive marriage No matter what Rip chidima
This is really sad. Hope her children are all in a safe environment? Thanks for the awareness 🙏 I pray that this video minister to anyone that's going through Abuse in their relationship or marriage. Pls guys, YOU ARE IMPORTANT AND YOUR LIFE MATTERS 🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂
Accept my condolences sandra to you and Mr Bright. Please kindly help and take care of her children. God will surely console the family. Amen, you are all blessed indeed.
Sandra, my dear sister. So sorry for your sister-in-law's death. Accept our condolences. This is very sad to watch. We pray that God Almighty will console you and and your family at this difficult time. 🙏
This is emotional and very unfair. I am emotionally drained right now. I just can’t 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥹🥹🥹. This is inhumane. Why hit a lady and maltreat her to death. He needs to be put behind bars. She deserves justice . I wish there is a way we could raise a fare for a lawyer . This is heartbreaking 😩😩😩😩😩
I saw ur video last year and i fall in love with ur family and i started following u have never comment on ur page before u said it all sandra if only dey will listen polygamous family and abusive marriage is no go area i pray for them may GOD guide and protect them and lead them through... Amen 🙏🏿 Accept my condolences 🥺🥰
This is sooo saddening. What!!!! In this life?? Wow. Jesus!!! I pray she has reconciled with her God. This was no marriage at all. Please her children ooo. Chaiiii.. The hatred is demonic, May God reward OKAFOR in his coins. AMEN. Am so heartbroken!
I hope the husband is in jail already. Please file for the custody of those children, i fear they will be maltreated if they stay in that house. May we not get married to enemies in disguise.
😭but why did her people(ur in-laws) allowed her to be buried there, the was no justification to bury her in that compound where she was maltreated nd neglected😢, they should have taken her to her father's compound~ really it's such a sad situation😢 May her beautiful soul rest in peace Amen🙏🏽, my condolences to the entire family~ please take heart!!
If the Woman Family fought for her like this and stood up for her when She was alive and the husband was Abusive to her She could have not died. Guys fight for your daughters when She's still alive.. o It's so sad. May Her Soul Rest In Peace... May GOD protest And guide the Children that She left behind.
Awwww sis Sandra thank u so much for explaining all what happened just so painful and frustrating. All you said your thoughts and opinions I agree 💯. Its like before she actually passed she was dying everyday enduring so much abuse😞. May she rest in perfect peace. I shed tears on the funeral video and this one. God bless u Sis Sandra🙏🏾🙏🏾WICKEDNESS! Sending her oldest daughter to fetch water oh my goodness!!! Of course anger will come it's too much😞
In my village, has far as he no pay bride price omo the man go here am ooo,plus she is not even supposed to be buried in that man's family with everything. Only the umuada,brothers in the famiy and community men and youth will really deal with the man.
Chaiiii....I cried while watching dis video, Sandra sis.n bro Bright tk heart pls...God wil surely reward everyone according their deeds.. It's well my dear....
Sandra, thanks for standing by your husband. I felt so emotional when i started watching this video. Alot of women are still in this kind of situation and they are not letting go. They kept telling people that the man will change until lost their lives.
This is so sad, women should learn to leave abusive marriages. People really go through a lot and we don’t know untill it is brought online for others to learn.
Chai Sandra, this is so heartbreaking. The good thing is that you all tried to save her. May God accept her soul. Please they should always check on her children. My condolences to you all.
From the video,I can discern that its one of those churches that will brainwash person into believing that it is a sin to leave an abusive marriage. Seeing them alone, I don't need to ask who contributed to that her mindset.
@sandra's reality, why did your husband accept the bride price at death? You will not get custody of the kids because the bride price confirms him as the husband. It's a sad situation. Ndonu!!
They will not listen to you because they want to answer by force Mrs. Somebody. I will never allow any man to send me to early grave. 😭😭😭😭😭I leave in peace 💯
This is extremely painful to watch. Why? Why do so many women die from this marriage institution? And even when the woman leaves the whole world shuns her
I honestly don’t get women saying “I’m praying for him”. You can pray for him from afar oo. Because once you die, your kids will suffer. Don’t settle to be someone’s punching bag please women. Save yourself and save the kids. May her soul rest in peace.
What i learnt from your story is this if a relation of yours is in an abusive relationship and they refuse to leave the marriage dont Ever give up on them, check on them regularly to see how they are doing. Two if the man does not know allow her to do bussiness and is controlling her finances and money sent to her dont continue sending money that she has no access to instead buy food stuffs and provisions and sent to her every month. Three take her to the hospital yourself for regular check ups by yourself. Do this because Most times their mental state is not in a good psition to comprehend certain things. May her soul rest in peace.
This whole story is exactly the same like my mum from A to z.....she said ahe can't leave because of us but she latter died and left us..my father married her in her death and everything that happened here was what happened on the burial day.....the youth of her village still threatened to exhume the corpse after burial.....it was heartbreaking and excruciatingly painful to see all that happening to my mother but it has happened and me and my sisters has learnt from it.....i will rather come back to my father's house and hawk purewater than to stay in an abusive marriage...
This is such a pity, no matter how many time we say this things, women will still live in such abusive marriage. This is the exactly what happened to Osinachi the gospel musician. Must women stay until they are killed to be vitreous woman? Women stay alive for your children, don't stay and die and leave the children
I need you guys to get justice for her You couldn't do much when she was alive because she was defending him But now you have the opportunity to deal with thr heartless man Accept my condolences It's so painful
Thank God that I am from the United States as a African American born female. Decades ago women here in this country did not have the protection from their abusive spouses, but now we do, and the man can go to jail and spend years there. The wife dose not have to press charges, the state will automatically do so for the wife. It is called family violence or domestic violence. I hope that you all can take your niece into your custody and finish raising her, so that she can live a peaceful life!
How can they be wicked even in death and transfer the wickedness to her children? This is so painful. Only God knows how they’ll take care of these kids now that their mother is gone. Take heart nne. So sorry for your loss
Im so sorry for your loss but I wonder how her family would have allowed the abuser to marry her in death. It is up to her family to accept or reject a dowry, and they chose to accept and according to your culture once a dowry is payed the man has those rights ... Such rights should NOT be given to such a wicked person. This is so sad
Marriage is not a do-or-die affair. Women leave so that you can live. Let the public say whatever they want based on your walking out of that abusive marriage-it doesn’t matter. It is better to leave so that you can live to see your children grow up. Many abusive partners are mentally deranged; some come from abusive homes and know nothing but violence. You cannot change an abusive partner. In fact, you cannot change an adult; the only adult you can change is one in diapers. People make mistakes in life, and marriage is one avenue where you can make mistakes. If you find out you have made a mistake, you can correct that mistake by leaving. Life is already hard enough, why tame wild animals that lack home training and do not know how to love a human being? Leave so that you can live. Some families are sent from the pit of hell; never settle with a partner whose family members are unkind. Osinachi Nwachukwu already paid the price for domestic violence in our society. We should all learn from her mistake to avoid ending up the way she did.
I am sorry to hear about your loss! It’s so sad. Women need to start to speaking up ! Speaking up will keep most women alive. It’s important to stay alive and raise your kids! No abusive man, no abusive marriage is worth dying for.I am truly sorry about this loss, it could have been avoidable.
Omo 😢what’s this? Where I come from nobody go take this kind thing ohh..Benin people nor get chills ohhh..eye go turn that her husband and his entire family
