Romantic relationships are not a beautiful thing. Romance causes a lot of problems in this world. Life is a lot better without romance than it is with it. Romantic love is not special at all. Multiple studies have shown that women live happier and healthier lives being single then being married.
@@icysnow57cold64i halfy agree that they are not a beautiful thing but it whats drive us as human beings, romance a form of love is what keeps us moving forward, yeah sure it hurts like hell and brings a lot of problem, but thats the reality of it, its the most powerful emotion, makes you vulernable and thats beautiful.
@@zabi1185 Studies prove single, childless, women are the HAPPIEST demographic. Women are the happiest when single and focused on themselves. Statistically speaking, women are happiest when single and childless in today's times. Also, women can have friends and biological family that they share a life with. We as humans need the presence of other humans in our lives yes. But we can live alone. We don’t need romantic relationships to survive. We do need love and support, but it can be from friends and family. It does not need to be from a romantic partner.
@@zabi1185 Studies also show that single women are far happier than their married peers, and that married women lose out in career earnings, career trajectory, health, and life expectancy compared to those single peers as well. Married women live shorter lives, and report lower levels of happiness than women who never marry. Single women live longer than married women. Also, according to many studies, women have higher rates of depression when married. Over half of all women today are single, by choice. Statistics indicate that single women tend to have the highest life expectancy on average.
same the girl I really felt for died in a car crash and had to find out thru her mom since I messaged her on fb saying " I hope you got everything out of life and I want you to be happy even if it's not with me " her moms message hit like bricks.
Sometimes we just want to please someone so much that we forget to please ourselves. There are some that no matter how much you give them, how much you truly care for them, it will never be enough. But there are many, many others to whom you will be much more that they ever dreamed of. That's what we much strive for.
"Don't be a cage for someone who dreams of flying." "Don't be a bridge for someone who enjoys forging their own path." "Don't be a clock for someone who lives by the rhythm of their heart." "Don't be a mirror for someone who thrives in their uniqueness." "Don't be a crutch for someone who yearns to stand tall on their own." "Don't be a spotlight for someone who finds beauty in the shadows." "Don't be a fence for someone who embraces the wild, untamed world." "Don't be a book for someone who prefers to write their own story." "Don't be a lifeline for someone who thrives in the storm." "Don't be a shade for someone who enjoys the sunshine." "Don't be a compass for someone who loves getting lost." "Don't be a shelter for someone who finds comfort in the wild." "Don't be a guide for someone who embraces the unknown." "Don't be a safety net for someone who dares to walk the tightrope." "Don't be a map for someone who revels in the journey itself." "Don't be a lighthouse for someone who sails by the stars." "Don't be a leash for someone who longs to run free." "Don't be a crutch for someone who wants to dance through life's challenges." "Don't be an anchor for someone who loves to drift with the current." "Don't be a wall for someone who seeks the open horizon."
I just love the way we've seen a movie about love that doesn't get the happy ending. Tom and Summer just wanted different things from their relationship and that just proves how communication is key everytime things get romantic. Tom fell in love with his idea of Summer, not Summer herself (as it's obviously shown in the bedroom scene when Tom just zones out when pretending to listen to her) and while it may be heartbreaking for him and many other people watching the movie... maybe we have to take it as a lesson and be more mature. Be there for your partner, listen to them, try and understand them. When meeting Autumn, at the end of the movie, I think Tom had learned his lesson. At least that's what I choose to believe, anyway. He understood what he did wrong previously and truly loved Autumn.
I'm 66 years old. I've lived through this so many times and I love it! Would not trade for anything. This is what makes you feel alive! That first kiss, that first.....everything...that why we are are here!!
if thats what makes you feel alive, I think you're missing out. I think there's a God that wants us to have paradise. I could be wrong, but if I am, I really think this life is dull and miserable, not worth it imo.
@Dylan-bo6nu I don't think anybody wants everybody to live the life they want. There are people who want to live their life making money in bad ways like being a corrupt politician, or dealing drugs, and there are people who want to live their life as a rapist or a serial killer. There's a right way to live your life and there's a wrong way. What you and I might actually disagree on is whether something specific is good or evil.
The fact that we hate summer not because she's a bad person but simply because we expect too much from her. Things that she herself already emphasize that she cannot give.
this shit hits too hard, had a 3 year relationship end and I packed my things and moved across the world. still think about her all the time and what we could have been, though I know it wasn't meant to be. the little moments, the slow days, the months we spent only in each others prescense in our little apartment overlooking the highway, those emotions are so painful to revisit. I remember watching this movie with her years back and now I realize how much I can relate to both characters, this song we used to listen to together as well. beautiful lil video, thank you
I have never loved a person. I know it sounds bad but I just never felt like that. Is it. Worth it? How does it feel. Is it like in the movies and songs or is it different?
i still kinda hate summer. because she's kinda giving him some kind of hopes and act like more than friends. any normal person will catch feelings if someone did that even though they said " i'm not looking for something serious " .
@@nyzamhariz yeah and hooking up is other thing. if she just wanted to have sex with him and/or sexually attracted with him, she should've just opted for one night stand. i dont understand summer and her ideology
@@nyzamhariz but at the same time you have to realize, you can't make someone love you. The entire time Tom thought she was someone else, in love with an idea in his head, instead of who she actually was. It wasn't till the end that he realizes, she was never that person, she was always her.
@@ruvi18 same lmaaao i watched this as a kid, but after a while of reading other's opinions. I kind of get the point of how tom has been somewhat the antagonist in this movie.
this is my favorite song!! 😭💜 it fits the theme of the movie perfectly. i love 500 days of summer because every time i rewatch it i feel like i understand both characters a little more
@@theguywhoedits7460 Ayo, can I show this to Danny? (I’m his brother, no I’m not kidding you). We both love this movie lmaoooo but, just wanted to ask permission. I love this sync up cuz him and I used to backwoodz it up (feel me?) and do this w deltron 3030 and futurama. So this HITS DIFFERENT Yeah. I’m in my feelings about him; I’m prouder than I can describe. 😭😭. I dunno know...he might jus tag you lol. That aight? Lmk. Don’t want to blow the spot for you if you don’t want that; that’s how I am 🤷🏻♂️A 💯 lol. ✌️ ❤️ n 🍕
@@discowolf25 Danny Wells from The Walters ?! I'll be honored to be tagged by him . Afterall , the song credits go to him and all the members of The Walters . Thanks for the kind words !
@@theguywhoedits7460 Correct my friend. I’m Joe Wells aka Juelz if you wanna shorten it like everyone else 😂. Nice to meet you my friend. Subbed, and, as soon as he’s back in Minneapolis- I’m showing him. All ✊! ✌️❤️and 🍕🤙
500 Days of Summer is the one movie I watch whenever I miss my ex. It reminds me of all the times we had fun, loved each other and supported one another. When we broke up, I was still in love with her. Still am, but this movie is teaching me to let her go and let her be happy without me.
Just had my closure yesterday. After around 4 or 5 years without talking to each other, we finally talked and settled our differences, and she told me that I must go on with life without her. She found a new guy and things are going good with them, and I am happy for her, but sometimes I think about what could have happened if we did things differently, the pain is still fresh and the memories still linger, I still have regrets about the past, but now I am trying my best to be happy for her. I wanted to tell her that I still love her, and I wish that maybe, just maybe, one day we can be together again, but life, life is just uncertain. She went back to her hometown, and I don't know when will I be able to see her again. This song just speaks the pain in my heart, I love her but I have to let her go, it's better for me and also for her. The memories she gave me, I can never forget them because I realized how much I loved her now that she's gone. I wished for a lasting love, the love lasted, but the lover left. If ever you are reading this, I hope and wish for happiness in your life, though we may not talk to each other anymore, just know that I loved you from the very bottom of my heart, and thank you for everything and I am very sorry. You were my first and my last.
I am sorry my friend🫂but just be happy,try to find yourself,your true self,seeing how purely you loved someone is out there who will treasure you the sane way!
I am so Tom. Been in love with same girl I met in highschool. We didn't had a labeled relationship but we had something and every night I keep wondering whether she felt the same or not. We didn't exactly have lot of memories but somehow I still manage to cling onto those short little memories that she might not even remember now. Years pass by and I still can't get over her and I still dont even know why. Why can't I find the things she saw to cut herself from me. Sometime I thought I met my Autumn, but as time passes by my Summer still keep coming back onto my mind and heart. I just hope I can finally move on but deep inside me, I still want her, need her. Sht.
@@e-5249 Yeah, maybe that's the reason but like I said, I always didn't know why the hell I love her. She ain't nowhere near my "dream girl" but I guess she's simply better.
Yeah same like my life. My big mistake is, i tought she fall in love with me too. The sad fact: Until now i keep dreaming her about our relationship in highschool, that i've never experience in my real life before
There are parts of the movie that really hit me. When summer said to tom that, no one can give him the consistency he was asking. The scene of expectation vs reality. The feeling of being lost and suddenly, being given false hope. That Tom just gave too much. In his own ways, Tom is being blinded by his love and desire. He was just think of himself and not of Summer. I think Tom and Summer just didn't have the same goals and pacing in life. Its a very sad movie. Heartbreaking. Love is really inconsistent. Sometimes it's happy and exciting but it can also be sadness.
sometimes when i jus feel lonely i just come here and watch this edit. the happy moments tom and summer had make me happy too but the reality that it still didnt work out gives me a lesson that even perfect things cant be perfect together. my first love ended this christmas for no reason and now when i think about her i dont cry but theres this pain in my heart and a feeling of something stabbing me from behind and stuff but i cant waste my year crying over something thats over to anyone reading this please i hope you have a wonderful life and if youre having a bad day its gonna get over it cant be bad forever just as it cant be good and thats what makes life worth living!
I just need someone in my life To give it structure To handle all the selfish ways I'd spend my time without her You're everything I want But I can't deal with all your lovers You're saying I'm the one But it's your actions that speak louder Giving me your love When you are down and need another I've gotta get away and let you go I've gotta get over But I love you so I love you so I love you so I love you so I'm gonna pack my things and leave you behind This feeling's old and I know That I've made up my mind I hope you feel what I felt When you shattered my soul 'Cause you were cruell and I'm a fool So please let me go But I love you so (please let me go) I love you so (please let me go) I love you so (please let me go) I love you so
I've haven't yet experienced this sort of love. But I know that once I do, this song will hit me like daggers straight to my heart. A bittersweet pain that never truly goes away...
Myself and plenty of other have experienced these emotions. It will make you want to pull your heart out and toss it away because the pain hits you so hard haha
I love how the film entails how we're often stuck in a loop when it comes to moving on from a past relationship. Given my experience, its been 3 years already, and there are times where I would remember her clumsiness that I would laugh alone. But being alone gives you time to view yourself and hopefully, as time sheds its own seasons, find our own Autumn, Summer, Spring, or Winter in fact!
Not saying anything hateful, but in this time and date, we find it hard to find someone that truly loves us inside and out. So yeah, love is impossible without money involved.
I remember watching this movie when i was a kid, i did not really understood everything but all i can remember is that i was depressed after the movie ended.
bro “I’m gonna pack my things and leave you behind. This feelings old and I know that I’ve made up my mind. I hope you feel what I felt when you shattered my soul. Cause you were cruel, and I’m a a fool so please let me go.” Literally goes so harddd
I just finished this movie (the movie is called: 500 days of summer), and it was soooo good. I felt bad for Tom, but I understood Summer's actions, she did tell him she didn't want anything serious, but he wanted to believe otherwise bc he was so infatuated with her. Also the ending had me screaming because the girl's name was Autumn and I was thinking 'well after summer comes Autumn' AHHH I hop Tom and Autumn had a happy ending, he deserves it :).
There are two kinds of people in the world, one that wants to see the world and one that wants to see the world in someone’s eyes. Both are equally right and wrong👐🏼
1:41 the way he runs makes him look like a young kid. Seems like he’s feeling that childlike joy as an adult that you would normally only feel as a child
Lyrics!!! I just need someone in my life to give it structure To handle all the selfish ways I'd spend my time without her You're everything I want, but I can't deal with all your lovers You're saying I'm the one, but it's your actions that speak louder Giving me love when you are down and need another I've gotta get away and let you go, I've gotta get over But I love you so I love you so I love you so I love you so I'm gonna pack my things and leave you behind This feeling's old and I know that I've made up my mind I hope you feel what I felt when you shattered my soul 'Cause you were cool and I'm a fool So please let me go But I love you so (please let me go) I love you so (please let me go) I love you so (please let me go) I love you so
As someone else said this is a really genius edit. I love this pairing of 500 days of summer with this song so much. I don't know why but just listening to the song itself makes me sad. But watching this video with it actually makes me feel hopeful and makes the song seem super nostalgic. Because you go through this phase then eventually move on and find your Autumn ❤
Autumn... I loved that time of year. When the cold ground outside is covered in the leaves of the anciently frozen trees. The trees that have seen and remained through hundreds of generations of lost love. Those compassionate trees with a warm hearth of empathy, the only thing that keeps me from freezing during this time of year. As it is in Autumn when I remember most, my love. Now I am alone with the frozen trees and the crispy leaves, nothing in sight but a wispy breeze. Autumn, I met her in autumn.
Don't be the fire that warms someone who leaves you in the cold, don't be the sun for someone who leaves you in the dark, don't be someone's umbrella if they like rain, just don't love someone who doesn't love it.
Ahh this edit makes me remember all my wrong choices back then. Setting up expectations too high when chasing after someone who is out of my league. Even though i know what waiting for me in the end of ours, ngl that chasing part was and still is the most fun part in my love life. That is 8 years ago and i never been in action again but hey, at least i know how it feels to love someone.
Not gonna lie I lost myself when I lost her. Felt as if my world came down burning all at once, I learned to accept what happened and I’m thankful we were able to cross pass in this big world I will forever remember the good n the bad.
@@Deviruichi While the video is on the play, right-click the video and a prompt action suggestion box will pop up. Click the “loop” option and the playing video will be replay.
This song I feel like it's for those who been in love with people who don't love them back. They probably say they love them, but don't really show; actions don't match the words. Damn, tough one.. I been there. So if someone isn't really on the same boat as you are, you ought cut yourself lose and move on even if it hurts.
Man, this movie. I’ve never had anyone, never spent a moment look into the eyes of someone I love, never kissed, never smiled or laughed at a joke they make, or been there to hold them when they need it. I’ve also never had trust issues with anyone I love. I’ve never gotten into any arguments. Never felt I was losing someone close to me. Never had to worry about if I was communicating too little. Love is terrifying and so beautiful at the same. I don’t know if I’ll ever be ready for it, but when it comes, it will come. Until then I can just better myself So that I’m ready to truly love someone. Because I never wanna live out this movie.
This song introduced many depressing stories, such as a story where someone had a new girlfriend that died shortly after weeks of relationship, the video showed a pile of sweet messages before she died.
Daaammnnn.. its been forever since I watched that movie. But I was young enough when I watched it that I swear it became a core memory. I love how this movie just portrayed them both as People. With some flaws, with some good stuff. I really appreciate it and I love how heart wrenching it was to watch this edit, even as it has been so long since Ive given this movie more than a second thought. Thanks for the nostalgia.
This edit is the best!! I especially love the edit at 2:06 when the solo starts and it shows his shattered expectations. The wheels of disappointment are in motion and there’s no return.
Estoy sorprendida por lo bien que está editado el video respecto a la escena y la melodía que la acompaña; y no solo eso, sino también en la gran elección tanto como de la película y la canción. Es como anillo al dedo. Buen ojo del editor.
Love watching this one over and over because it reminds me that no matter how much love I have for someone else, it doesn’t guarantee they’ll feel the same. But there will always be someone better who will love me and the timing is right. Thank you for this lovely heartbreaking edit🖤💕
Sheesh, so glad I had someone who actually cared about me. I was literally going through the same exact thing in the movie. Luckily, I was told about the movie and watched it. This movie and my friend saved me not only time but what could have led into a spiral of depression. So… When the time came, I ended things quick and walked away with no regrets.
What Summer says and how she acts are two different things. Sadly for Tom he didn't realized it was messing him up till it was too late. The song really did give justice to the movie.
