The Work: A Two Hour Intensive | Byron Katie | Wisdom 2.0 

Agreed. Lots of trash and crap on the internet, and it's easy to get sucked in. But I went ahead and paid for RU-vid premium so I could have ad free wisdom, interviews, TED Talks Etc. But I do have to be careful cuz it's easy to get sucked into True Crime, political crap so on so forth. But I love my RU-vid premium

...but you can also get it without RU-vid premium. :-) I bet it's nice to not be interrupted with ads though. :-)

RU-vid is demonic. Don't kid yourself.

😅 we’re all in the same boat aye

I love this ❤

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Love that!

Absolutely!

What if someone rapes you? What if someone kills your child? What if you're living in abject poverty

Hej,me too,but notice what that woman said, she was going for therapy 25 years to get self impowered,and its obvious it didn't work. The work is amazing because it stops you from putting blame on others while at the same time it does not make you put the blame on yourself. That is what that woman mixed up. She is ,I suppose, thought to put the blame on someone.

Why? When there is no such person and she'd be the first to tell you so.

@@ferdinandalexander8053 Dear Ferdinand, there IS such a Person and she IS the first to tell me about the work. I don't think any more about what If. Why should I!? What is, is. And that is reality, truth and love. Katie gave her voice to me and I listened to it as I couldn't hear the voice inside me. At the end it is the same voice, the voice of love, truth, realiy, now, TAO ... however you want to name it. I am so greatful for her help. She helped me to find a tool to enlighten my stressful thoughts.

@@YesAvacan Again, she would tell you differently. Yes, what is, is. Define the word "is". It means, exist, be present or have being. That which is not present, not being, not now, is NOT. It does not exist, period! True, it's never about the words but that to which the words seem to point to or at. Only now is! There are numerous words that are used at synonymous pointers to all that is. Now, consciousness, presence, the infinite, truth, existence, reality, actuality, god, awareness, love, life, being, intelligence, and many others. These words point to what is. At they end of the day none of them can do the job as what is all there is of all there is, is wordless, unnamable, ineffable. There are no separate entities, no separate minds, no separate consciousness, no separate intelligence. Just infinite reality, pure now, alive conscious presence, being all that is being, right here, now. Yes, it may appear or seem there is a separate you that "feels" better or "thinks" it has found something that works or helps. Pure now, the present, infinite consciousness, is the ONLY self and it already is changeless perfection, undeviating aliveness, infinite presence and there is no "other" presence besides this presence that is all the presence there is. There are many methods, approaches, - isms and - ologies all designed to "get there" or "become" what you are now. They may seem to "work" as poultices or comforters but they have nothing to do with truth. None of them have any foundation in reality. Only reality can speak to the nature of reality. Its language is silence. Its action is being. Perfect stillness. Truth can't be conveyed to another because it precludes "otherness" so this is all I have to say on the subject

YesAvaCan wonderful!

"This sweet heart named Katie". Why did you phrase it like that? You could have said Katie or this sweetheart. But you said "this sweetheart named Katie". Did you chose to write it like that to make a more literary and elegant sentence?

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Courage! in French pronunciation. very positive xxxsusan 👵💜🫂🙏🏻

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How are you doing now snoozy? I find this work and breaking old habits very difficult.

Adry Armani wonderful!

I'm doing "The Work" now.

She's Amazing

Adry armani your obviously impressed by the work and id like a chat around this if possible?

She saved my life too

Yesssss ❤️❤️❤️❤️

Very annoying! Its impossible to contemplate during this session, I’ll get out of my concentration by some loud annoying commercials about a product no one needs...

@@medeaendor3706 on a cel phone? Stupid man.

@@CybeleParsignault Vanced youtube app google it :)

wow medea....

@@medeaendor3706 how can somebody as vile and abusive as you be on a byron katie video? 😂

Woundology ... yes ~ time for it to go ~

I am so curious what you mean by this comment. Me and my mum also have a very disfunctional relation so i expect to take some great wisdom from this video. Looking forward to it!

Ok it's about me and my lack of love for myself - but what has brought me to this stage of not accepting myself?? At 48 years I've come a long way with my mum. Finally I'm over the urge of putting all the blame on her cos I do see her in a different light now. Where she came from, the environment she was brought up and so on and so on. Having said all that the consequences of emotional dysfunction can have horrific outcomes on the ppl living with such a person. And with all respect to Katie but sometimes it needs to take distance from such ppl in order to be able to keep going. Esp when these ppl aren't willing at all looking over their own humps and question what they do/believe what is right and so on. I definitely have passed the stage of looking at mum with resentment but comments which refer to that most intimate relationship which is mum/daughter still do trigger me. Wishing u well :) Edit.... Gabor Mate has got some great videos on the topic of generational trauma plus healing and so on.

Should parents be expected to meet the needs of their children? If so to which extent? Is the child right to be angry if it's need hasn't been met? Is the child right to be angry if he has been abused? Where's the line?

@@thisisntallowed9560 The point Byron Katie is trying to make is although a parent neglected a child from the child's point of view she is trying to help the now adult child to see other aspects of her mom that she she couldn't see as a child and to see that maybe some things perceived aren't what they are. Her mother only knew what she knew even if they are abusive that's all they know. It's not that it's the child's fault but as an adult now to see the whole scenario in a different light it releases the adult child to free herself from the agony of neglect and know she's her own mother to herself.

@@sunray8136 I agree with what you say. The problem is, in my opinion, that it's not that easy to forgive neglect, and I think forcing forgiveness can be bad. It's hard for me to understand because the relashionship with my parents is so different, but I feel like she forgave only to feel better with herself because she feels bad about being angry at her mom that she likes. I might be wrong tho

@@thisisntallowed9560 I think you are right. I agree.

People need to look at it as taking her frlm victim mentality to victor. If someone else can control your thoughts and emotions you will never get better, if you know that you are in control of your thoughts and emotions it frees you it is liberating, it means your life can change any way you want. I dont like the way she explains things I've watched a few videos of hers and I just dont get wtf shes trying to say half the time.

Check out Gabor Mate' if you aren't already aware of him.

@@lauraross9005 yes i know him :)

Yes, but it is as an adult if we keep choosing to be the broken child ❤

You're absolutely right. A lot of what Katie is doing is brainwashing and shaming people and attempting to make them deny reality and accept a hypothetical alternative version. Hypotheses are never real. Life is real. When the woman who said sometimes there IS a real person standing there threatening her life, Katie 's response was glib and callous. It was a response that is dangerous to all victims of domestic violence or abuse experienced in childhood. Katie 's approach is reprehensible. She is harming people with this superficial bullshit.

You are correct. Katie Byron is a narcissist. She's not enlightened. Anyone suffering from trauma who seeks a compassionate expert on the subject, please check out Gabor Mate'. For anyone interested in higher consciousness and enlightenment, Mooji is another person worth checking out.

My autistic son does this on a regular basis - it is quite simple to grasp if you make it a habit of walking them through it with simple guidance

I think it’s about realizing we’re not a child anymore. We’re adults now. So we can choose to change the meaning we give ourselves as kids and free ourselves.

things have changed since Covid. our sons will not hug us anymore in case they kill us because we are old and vulnerable. life has become a little bit more difficult, since the no touching edicts xxx Susan 👵🤯😪🫂💜🙏🏻

carlos tejada what are u on about emotions can only be healed by the heart not by the works or the way you wrote about it. Emotions can be hell or heaven depends how you treat them. If people continue treating like the script you wrote they will never heal. People need to know that they are in a mess but there are self helping tools ( inward) to heal them so they can reach their goal. The goal is to become the best version of themselves Negative emotions create different vibrations in the body ( e.g. fear - holds the vibration of anger and frustration etc) when people experience these emotions they need to go into the heart bc the heart is the origin place the rest ( such as the works and etc) is translating. People need to know that this is not wise to translate their feelings but to go in the heart and ask what is this feeling? What are the emotional wounds hidden behind this pain or negative emotion? Then accept it and let it go with the breath. This brings up a lot of suffering but its a process. All the processes have their cycle which needs to be respected. Did this ( the work) worked for you? Do you have inner peace? Do you have joy and passion for life? I can tell you not. This is the work of ego just look what you wrote. When you work with thoughts without healing negative emotions then you write like you do bc the ideas are coming from the head, the solutions are coming from the head trying to heal the body from head to toe. People need to know that this is not true the body begins healing from toe to head. For everything put attention to your heart and heal the body then you can feel the breath of life the joy the passion and the love to be and to be alive. Begin a journey with the heart the rest is nothingness. No heart no love no healing no joy just you writing in this situation and for example 💁💋❤️🙏

Thanks for writing out the questions. Now I can make up my own worksheet! 🙏🏼

abc abc he’s writing it out as an example for other...I think you missed the point. It was a service to others.

Thank you! i had thought 2 and 3 were the same thing and got all out of whack haha this helped me put them back into order thanks!

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Some people seem to learn that way. Their brain wants it explained in a different way that makes more sense. I personally don't I just hope it'll make sense to me later 😝

Diana Boughner I think you are misunderstanding this work. Athens child has no idea what the parent is going through but we tend to carry these hurt feelings throughout life and unconsciously into our adult relationships. If we ne er discover this or find a way to let go of it we will continue to repeat our patterns.

@@Queenie-the-genie Yes, thank you. I get it now. 😊

The_Jedi_ Priestess me too

@The_Jedi_Priestess me too 😊

me too!!!! #TealTribe

Me too

I would love to see a teal swan with that much love. (As i wright this I realise that I would love to love like that)

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There is no such Goddess, no such person. Even she would tell you that.

God is your own human imagination. That's God the Father.

coldlessons why not do a worksheet on Byron Katie and get back to me when your done. I’d love to have a conversation about it💗

coldlessons So you know something about ‘the work’ but you have never tried it. Your suffering is a choice. Why not do something about it instead of insulting others.

coldlessons I’d love to have a discussion of a worksheet that you do on Byron Katie or anyone because the work has changed my life for the better. I invite you to give it a chance, what have you got to loose. If not me why not call the number on the website and have someone walk you through it for free.

Recently, discovered Katie and her work, yes, she is amazing; I can't get enough of her; so I am here!

coldlessons you may be right and still Byron’s method of inquiry works for me🤔💗🌈🌺

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yeah, this didn't sit right with me for this reason. I started trying to apply this to situations with my abusive mother and realized pretty quickly this is work for therapy first!

Definitely (italics). She's missing the different developmental levels. The ADULT can go back and look and make peace with a parent's shortcomings, but in the moment (italics) where the wound was formed, there WAS a need that cannot be self-generated. If kids could parent themselves we'd be a very different species.

Yessss amen, I knew something was off. Or kind of dismissive.

This was odd to me. I can understand how NOW she can get here present day. But to ask her to go to the moment and make it her responsibility seemed off.

That does sound crazy and much like self gaslighting. It’s your choice to make and only you know how it really is for you now. I have stayed in relationships for a similar reason, to work on myself and it eventually led to adding on further false masks while I was thinking I was healing them. A red alarm bell I can see in your comment is you saying that you got in the way of his happiness by falling asleep or that you apologize for “being hurt”. The problem with that is that we are not islands. It’s a give and take, make sure your own self or parts of your are not being deprived of attention and especially consideration for the sake of maintaining harmony. I highly recommend you also take a dive into Teal Swan’s work as she’s the biggest proponent of Shadow Work (which is also what Byron Katie does, so it’s right up your alley). Different tools for different moments for different situations but what matters the most is your presence with yourself and that you never never never invalidate your true feelings. Work through them yes, but never put a, so to say, “it’s fine” happy sticker on them and stiffle them. All the best to you. I personally wouldn’t stay in a relationship with a partner where only I work on myself only I show up and only I take responsibility.

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