Being glad that tattoo girl eliminated Andrew, then wanting someone to eliminate her, then being glad she was eliminated, then hating that guy. "You either door a hero, it live long enough to see yourself become a villian.
I am thinking about dropping out of school to focus on my career as a star on RU-vid. I already make a lot of money on RU-vid. School bores me so much. I need more opinions and since I don't have any friends, I gotta ask you, dio
@@AxxLAfriku don't drop out because you're bored. Trust me bro, you're gonna need that degree later in life. School sucks, I know but hang in there and just do your best.
@@theangrydweller1002 The major you choose might not be relevant, but simply “having a college degree” opens up so many more jobs. Especially now, a lot more full-time jobs are making college a minimum requirement.
U guys clearly misunderstood the lego guy. He was bragging about his legos, bc he was letting her know that his home is well protected/ safe. He's got those suckers scattered around every entryway to his home. I'm shocked she wasn't immediately impressed- every woman loves feeling safe & secure with their partner!
It's a flex on his disposable income. Me and my wife collect Legos and it might be the most valuable thing we own. Something stupid like 40k in legos, the only thing close is maybe my magic collection? Even our cars are pretty cheap and we don't own our house so....
Wagane was seriously the nicest guy, the ONE person who gave Becca a compliment. Not to mention they lasted the longest without pressing the button. It was sad to see him be sent off just because he didn't say how much he made.💕
see i think it was cause he wasnt a slender or muscular dude... cause you have some men who dont like overweight ladies but you get some ladies who dont like overweight men too... so that to me was the only reason she pressed that button... cause other wise he was a nice dude
@@asdfghj13579fly does anyone really care about how much money their date makes? I'm asking that to others here too, I'm curious now 😆. It isn't something I've considered and I don't think I know anyone personally who thinks it's a deal-breaker.
The moral of this story is: You shouldn't always believe your mom when she tells you you're a catch...Some of these people were acting way too big for their attractiveness britches...
It doesn't matter how attractive YOU are, it matters how YOU SEE the other person, so even if these button smashers were not actually that pretty/hot it still doesn't change the fact they did not find the other side attractive..it is because our looks does not dictate what we consider as attractive, it just doesn't work like that, so even if the person is only average he would still reject averages (or lower) because he truly simply don't like their looks or don't get attracted to them.
@@21EC The point is some people expect a 10 when they themselves are only a 5/6. They are out of touch with the reality of what they have to offer and they feel entitled to get more than they provide, which could be because of an inflated self perception.
@@876me7 Sure, I know that, but even I myself being average can't see another average as a girl I'd want to be my GF (I still give a chance to some averages tho if they don't look especially ugly or something that turns me completely off but bcs they are average I'm also not so hyped about them).
Personally, I feel the more I get to know someone the more attractive they are to me. But basing it on looks only tend to never really work out for anyone I know.
Gosh, imo people should judge people's physiognomy instead being like "haha they are funny and we get along" IF YOU ARE PLANNING ON HAVING A BIOLOGICAL FAMILY, you should choose SMART, and smart means the best possible outcome for your children... genetic material. You can love a girl who is a better genetic choice just as much you would have loved the other girl because of something else like a quirky personality , it's not "love at firts sight"
Same! Personality trumps everything! What do good looks help if the personality sucks? I have met so many people I felt physically attracted to at first but then after talking a while all the attraction was gone because the personality just didn't match.
Idk I don’t feel that’s it’s awful to pass on someone based on their looks, attraction isn’t the most important but it is important . I mean I wouldn’t want to date someone who didn’t think I was attractive that’s worse than getting them just saying no to me lol
Agreed but I feel like there is a “range” of attractiveness, the partner just need to be ok level of attractiveness, rather than only interacting to the hot ones
@@joesr31 as someone who has dated guys that were on the ok range of my spectrum, i can tell you that it wont ever work in the long run unless you literally make yourself and settle.i hated every second of those relationships, looking back
That’s true, but then again if people are doing that to the point where their like judging them and rejecting them based on really minuscule things like these dumdums then ofc it turns into superficial shallowness
@@Emily160798 My current boyfriend was just "okay" to me at first. Being with him has made me find him more attractive than I did before. And it's not because he's changed things about his appearance for me, but because I grew to love him as a person. Don't speak like everyone will be like you.
@@animeartist888 I'm just sharing my experience and that's how I am myself, and maaaaany girls are like that. You can't even know if you're fully attracted to someone. I had relationships where I thought I was attracted, but in the end it wasn't attraction or love even. It was the circumstances and other factors. It takes years and lots of experience to know what love or attraction even is. Maybe it is, maybe it's not, it's up to each and every one of us to figure out ourselves. I find that i gotta be attracted from the get go and that it won't get better in time. And that's fine, as is your example.
Bro Ive been single for 25 years now and my God I hate the dating scene everyone is looking for their special person but by doing it everyone becomes so inconsiderate soo its painful and super draining
yeah this show is a bad idea if your actually trying to look for a relationship it's more of a who's the most attractive person I can possibly hook up with type of show lol
the fourth episode of this is the worst, theres a girl who totally makes it seem like shes into someone and then pushes the button and goes through like 10 people, One guy she skips right as hes talking about his insecurities from adhd
I am thinking of all of the things I would much rather do than EVER try to meet someone on this show... Go to the dentist, sit at the DMV, be alone forever.
I’m constantly dealing with men like that first guy, Andrew. A pompous, middle aged creep that tries way to hard to appear more youthful and “hip” than he truly is. They are incessant and obnoxious when they’re hitting on you too, it’s truly revolting. Why would any woman, regardless of age, want to give a guy like that a minute of their time is a mystery to me.
As a female, being short is not a deal breaker. I prefer a tall dude but if we clicked as well as she and that guy, I wouldn't have cared about his height lmaoo
Yeah I never understood the height thing. I do prefer a man to be taller than me (I'm 5'5) but it's not a dealbreaker, and I really don't get why some women go bonkers over super tall guys. The ONLY advantage I can think of is that I wouldn't tower over him in big platform boots, that's it, and it's not a big deal.
I've been with a boy shorter than me and my current bf is taller than me. Body type is not what I look for in a relationship at all. The few boyfriends I've had all have different body types. I know people have their preferences but it shouldn't be a deal breaker.
Women who only date tall man disgust me (unless she's a midget or dwarf then that's fine XD). Their probably the type of girl to call guy who only dates skinny women a body shamer even though they date people at specific heights
@@adrenalineactivate I feel like I'd only date someone my height or taller because I feel insecure about being the tall one. Especially since I feel like I'm broader - I want to feel feminine, not manly. :')
Discriminating against people because of height is so shallow and pointless. All it does, as with Becca, is completely screw up your chances with people you otherwise are having amazing chemistry with
These people need to learn that they’re NEVER going to get your perfect dream person that fulfills EVERY quality on your list. Nor will they learn that you usually meet your right partner when you aren’t looking for them
@@KC-nv6qf it is hypocrisy because it generally comes from people who claim you shouldn't judge people based off immutable characteristics when it comes to dating, and they usually add stuff like their own weight to the off limits characteristics, then tirn around and have a height requirement that is well above average. The fact is everyone has preferences but those people want to pretend they are exempt.
Yeah, but this show is basically for people who instantly disqualify everyone they come into contact with based on superficial stuff they learn in the first five seconds or so. And then those same people are the ones who complain about how dating is SO hard, so @larrylev, you just keep being real and show that you really wanna get to know people for who they are, and the right people will find you :)
I hope they did a couple rounds of this game (or SOMETHING) off camera because it would be so irritating to take time out of your day to do this, wait all that time, get voted off before you can even say anything, and then be done. All of that time wasted...
Its highly underappreciated. You'll miss it once you're in a relationship. Single is freedom & less stuff to worry about. Wait for that unicorn fam, don't rush into anything.
"It's not often that guys have to reject girls" what world does he live in?? I got rejected all the time and so did my friends and we weren't that bad looking
Girl #3 voting off the first guy after he mentioned his age preferences being much younger than him made my day. I’m not gana lie I straight up judged her right before that.
I'm sorry, but if you age preferences don't involve your own age, that's sus. Also she was 18 years younger then him lol she wasn't even in his preference
This is a motto I will always live by: "If an older person asking you out says they like dating people significantly younger than them, there is a reason people their age don't wanna date them. Those people know something you don't. So gtfo of that situation."
That isn't necessarily true. I had a rough late teens to mid twenties and I missed out on life. Everyone my age is in the settling down phase or has too much baggage. I hang out with younger people that still want to have experiences.
I'm 38 and have finally ran into the age thing. 19 year old hitting on me (I have a son who's 19) and to add insult to injury my son is older by 4 months. Out of respect to my children and to this young man I had to tell him no chance.
When today is actually your birthday and all you wanted was ken to say happy birfday and he did, , life is complete. Edit- thanks for the birthday wishes guys!!! Love this community:”)
26yr old here With the 22-26 thing, I've noticed that from 23 onwards you *start* to move away from the teen thought processes, for example avoiding petty drama. I think that's what he meant
He said she was "too young", but I thought he meant "too immature". And by "years" he meant "wisdom" but then I watched longer and realized he just wanted to break her streak.
my mother is 45 and I'm 19 she goes to parties, talks shit about friends and family behind their back, and is out till 2am hooks up a lot, she acts more my age than I do to a point I have to be the parent between her and my 18 year old brother
Ok but the girl with tattoos and tank top is definitely the girl who says "not to be mean or anything" thinking its going make it ok to be mean to someone, like she literally doesn't like anyone with a Fandom or any other political opinions like wooow these dudes honestly don't want her
political viewpoint is a big deal tho and as someone who's invested in fandoms, its not fun or attractive if you explain fandom stuff on your first meeting if that person isn't interested in it/ doesn't know stuff about it :o
Exactly! The girl who waited in the back for a long time to get instantly eliminated was the equivalent to the people who would get one step off the bus and hear “NEXT!”
when he said that 23 to 26 you get years on your life, he was saying that 22 year olds tend to be immature and between 23 and 26 you learn a lot about how the world works and do a lot of maturing.
Tho I should also add that the guy was a douch and shouldn’t have judged her by her age alone, saying she’s too young. He’s still young and everyone’s maturity level is different no matter how old you are.
So here’s my thing about body judgment; I don’t have a preference about height, weight etc. I’m tall and a little thick, but I don’t take it personally if a guy isn’t interested because of my height or if he thought I was just unattractive. Nobody is wrong for having preferences! If a guy doesn’t like my body or my face I don’t think that makes him shallow, he’s just not attracted to me. He doesn’t owe it to me to overlook the things he isn’t attracted to. When the girl rejected him for his height and Ken was upset about her passing him up over an attribute that he couldn’t change, I disagreed. We are all different in looks and everyone likes different stuff.
I agree. You're never obligated to date or be attracted to someone. You can not date someone for any reason, no matter how small or invalid it may seem to other people. I just hate when people act like women are all bitchy for things like this, cause every group of people has those with really strong preferences.
YESS thank you girl!! I was kinda upset at how he went all out on her for something so natural. men can have as high standards as they want for a girl, but the moment girls have ONE standard for attraction guys go berserk, and suddenly attraction is something we should gatekeep(??) he said he doesn't like when people "make decisions" based on height like she did, but that isn't a decision... if you aren't into someone, you just aren't. why should we FORCE ourselves to date short guys, or ANY guy we aren't attracted to? never heard anyone tell guys the same for any of their growingly absurd standards for women.
I mean I think y'all are overthinking this a tad too much. Just need to have your ego and self-confidence in check. Don't take it so seriously. I'd go, it'd be fun lololol
i think when ppl complain about that it's mostly about short girls wanting guys over 6'0, like it's ridiculous at that point lol. what you're saying is perfectly reasonable
@@liiviiosa wtf... so now we're gatekeeping attraction? I am not a short girl, nor do I care about the height of a guy, but yall need to stop with that "you're too short to want such a tall man" bs. never heard that attraction to others has to do with how *you* look. what's next, guys can't be attracted to only D-cups cause they're flat? yall really sleeping on this one. its almost like it makes no sense. if a girl the size of a peanut finds guys that can't fit through the door her type, who is ANY of yall to say she's too short? the ONLY people who can decide are the people she is actually into. like WHAT
@@noface3641 it's not abt preference or attraction, it's when girls shorter than 5'5 refuse to date guys under 6' only bc of height. that's super shitty imo. there are too many girls who i've seen do that. i don't think height should matter at all but they take it so seriously for no reason
Ken: “you can’t grow taller” Me: *furiously deleting web searches about Russian leg extension procedures* Nope, you definitely can’t go to Russia and get your femurs repeatedly broken and stretched to grow taller artificially and it’s totally not massively dangerous to your health due to the blood clotting risks or anything...
I seen a documentary on a Asian girl who got this procedure to become a flight attendant she wore leg braces for a while but got her dream job ig she's doing great
As a short guy (5’4”) 🙋♂️ I just wanna say thanks Ken for making that rant! It really is frustrating how people hold things against others that beyond their control and you said it well 👏 👏.
Dude it’s just a preference. It’s not like you need the world to be attractive to you anyways, you just need that special someone and they’ll love everything about you. I think it’s stupid how ppl think they can tell others how we should feel when it comes to our preference and attraction to others.
@@hafsamohamed3555 a preference usually doesn’t involve cutting someone down because they don’t match up to it. When it comes to things a person has absolutely no control over then making fun or looking at them as less than is what I have a problem with. I’m not telling you how or what to think I was just happy to hear from Ken something that resonates with me.
@@sugakookie6303 😕 I’m sorry to hear that. Just know it has nothing to with you and more to do with their feeling insecure about their height. I’ve personally never had problem about dating someone taller than me.
I’m a woman, 5’2 and it seems like I should have dated more guys closer to my height. If I really hit it off with a guy, I don’t think height would be an issue. I’ve usually dated tall men. I think they notice me when they’re sitting down and I’m walking by.
Yeah, anybody who is constantly going from partner to partner after a month or two, or just super quick in general; there’s a problem, and it’s probably something to do with them, if they can’t ever stay in a relationship for long at all
"Making decisions like that on things that people literally can't change drives me crazy" You shouldn't have to change anything for anyone. The right person will love you for who you are.
@@DemonsCrest1yeah sure, wanting to date someone young when u double their age is creepy asf anyway. And im sure the main reason why they want younger partners are for superficial reasons more than "healthyness", if they have less experience is more easy to manipulate or groom them, the age doesn't mean someone will be more or less bitter or tell you how many partners have been with 🙄
i think its natural to have an age range of people youd want to live the rest of your life with. im not dating someone 10 years older than me (at this point in my life), and im not really attracted to anyone with the high schooler mindset even if theyre only 3 years younger than me. i know what i was like in high school and i know what the girls around me were like, and i dont want any of that at this point in my life, now that i have a degree and a research placement and possibly a career lined up. its the looks, difference in mentality and also longevity of the relationship. if they die way before you then youll be alone.
This show is shot here where I live. They randomly go around asking people to be on the show. I've seen my neighbors, bartenders & grocery clerks on this show. So its SUPER funny to see these people get roasted or made fun of just to see them out and about. I have a little 👿🤣 in me when I do.
i really feel like no one can get mad at someone for hitting the button on someone who they aren’t attracted to..if you aren’t attracted to someone, you just aren’t. A lot better than leading them on.
@@Emily160798 that too!! but i mostly meant the comments. or anywhere really. like i’m in a poll group on fb and One of the questions was “if someone is only attracted to people who are intelligent, are they ableist?“ And people were in the comments arguing with people who disagreed! People just wanna argue about everything now. Like, if you aren’t physically attracted to somebody, that doesn’t necessarily make you a bad person, it might make you shallow depending on how you go about it but it just means you prefer some thing over another. ughhh lol lol sorry. I just hate close mindedness & blatant ignorance sm!!! but i appreciate u for understanding 🥺
Maybe the point was to get the contestants to really stop and think what else their decisions are based off of. Yes you want to be with someone you’re ‘attracted to’, but the things you are attracted to can change over time. Having a “type” also means you realize you can find love outside that type. It’s the “over 6’2” husband or 6 figure paycheck vs death” kind of people.
'Do you have an age preference?' '25 to 30' 'How old are you?' '40' Yeah, okay, I lost all faith in this guy. Not surprised he has been rejecting everyone so far (haven't finished the vid, tho, I'll edit if I change my mind later on lol) Edit: I have finished the video, total douch. Though not the only one featured here lol
@@JulieDmomof3 Totally. It's not about the biological clock. Usually searching for a much younger partner is tied with problems with accepting one's age or the power dynamic. Gross.
@@ForsetisStenographer And not to get too deep, but also the gross fetishization of young girls plays a big part in why many men seek out much younger women.
I find it interesting that people that you think are your "type" usually aren't really your type. We have an idea of what we want but usually it's what you don't expect to work that ends up working.
Yup exactly. That’s why I’m not even looking for a relationship or a date. I’m just focusing on my life and career goals, and cherishing my friends and family. But I’m almost always open to meeting new people and trying new things
Bruh this is why I prefer to stay single lol, too many judgemental people who don't really give you a chance. "What's that?? Your name's Robert?? That's an old man name!"
they are right tho, it isn't you who decides who they wanna be with no one is obligated to like anyone for whatever reason just as the person isn't obligated to like them first
@@TheMathtag Well yeah that's true but you also gotta agree that it can be pretty discouraging and irritating when a lot of people you meet are so quick to judge and turn you away before they've even really given you a chance let alone even really meet you. At the end of the day yeah it's entirely up to you who you choose to date because everyone has their preferred "type" hell I'd be lying if I said I didn't have a very specific type and preference but at the end of the day I also just want someone who I can just have fun with regardless of what it is because who knows maybe they introduce me to something new I've never tried or something I once thought wasn't for me but after doing it with em I have a blast and come to enjoy it. Someone who accepts me for me and won't judge or ridicule me over every little thing I do from my hobbies all the way down to something as minor as what kind of hat I wear or how I walk, however that is me and everyone is different. But it can also discourage people from dating when just about nearly everyone they meet turn em down and judge them over such minor things before even really getting to know them. Again there's nothing wrong with having a preferred type and wanting to date who you want because that's what dating is, finding the right person, but at the same time there's also a point where you're just being way too picky and not really even giving people a chance.
Okay, so you guys are now my all time favorite RU-vidrs. I've been binge watching everything you uploaded for the last 3 days (only came across this channel 3 days ago) and its just 10/10 every video!! Constantly making me smile and laugh and I love both of you and your attention to little details. I find myself having weird irrelevant questions to certain shows and somehow you guys will ask the same questions and then find out! So resourceful. It's like you're both in my head. Mad love for Ken but DANE!! Man, it would be SO AWESOME to meet you and hang out with you. You're so joyful and blunt and your laugh and smile is infectious!!! This is literally a perfect channel and even more perfect duo. I binge watch all these shows you guys do reacts to as well, so it's extra funny to me 🥰🥰
Yep, the concept is ruthless tbh, it forces you to choose fast based on looks,if not you are risking being eliminated yourself! So ofc superficial people have an advantage over someone more open-minded or less confident!
@@hamtaroloops3017 tbh it's not that bad, some people don't care about finding a relationship, they just wanna get it over with. Arrange marriage is bad if you get arrange with someone abusive/insane or if you don't want to get married in the first place. One of my friend say that they rather someone marry her then date someone cause she doesn't like the dating process. My teachers had arranged marriage, travel to New York with him and had 4 kids and she said that it wasn't that bad and their still happily married. I don't mind an arrange marriage if I get to marry a genuinely decent person
@@hahahahaahhahahaahah most people have to high of a standard, this video proof it. Even when they have chemistry and are attracted to each other they still skip them base on their heights and look. You don't need to date someone who makes you horny the moment you see them, you slowly get attracted to them the more you get to know them and some people don't seem to know that
I never understood the height thing like who cares? I mean sure I’m smaller than most people my age but if a guy was shorter than me I literally wouldn’t care as long as we can get along.
I guess it really depends... personally I'd be okay with a guy being a couple inches shorter than me but I don't want to feel like I'm towering over him. I'm also tall, 5'11", so it's something I have to think about a lot. I'd like to at least give the guys some chance to talk before immediately kicking them off.
I love watching these two because they’re so aware of the things they say,, like so many youtubers target the women in all of these segments but ken and buff are unbiased and recognize that everyone here sucks lol
@@angelcorekt they’re joking around and they don’t specifically target women. they said the same thing about that brandon dude, they don’t antagonize women but jokingly fool around with everybody
I can appreciate the button thing, how many of us have went out with someone because you didn’t want to hurt their feelings. You either feel someone or not. Sometimes it’s not physical , you just don’t like their vibes.
I mean, we can always eliminate the taller population so that 5 foot becomes the new 6 foot, right? You can't be short if there are no tall people left On a serious note, in the end, height never matters right? Like someone could be super tall and all that but no one likes a person with shitty personality. Hope you feel better about your height in the future :)
@@ShamaD274 no not rude at all lmao thanks bud i dont feel too bad about my height unless people genuinely start disrespecting me and treating me like a child because of it. Shich does happen quite a lot ...very fun lmao but theres always gonna be stupid people like that about anything thats their problem tho
Instead of the Cut, it should be called Superficial. Granted first impressions matter but not to this extent. Makes me wonder why anyone would agree to this... you know you can get restaurant gift cards by watching a timeshare presentation? It's less torturous than this dating show.
That really caught me off guard, for the most part they were defending people throughout the video and calling out jackassery, so when he said that out of the blue I was pretty grossed out
@@kaleallerion595 well, to me it's just sad that some guys decide whether a girl is "wife-material" or only worth a one night stand solely based on what she looks like
