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#TheLoveHour | We Don’t Communicate Well!
In today’s episode Melissa and Kev break down the definition of communication in their relationship.
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@gracious2gf 3 года назад

Kev: "We could clear our name and end the conversation, but we don't". Translation: Liss and I could air this whole thang out with receipts... But we tryna be cool 😂😂😂

@teesherese7849 3 года назад

To quote Liss herself: H E L L O.

@CourtneyEmon 3 года назад

Period!! Liss said don’t play with her she got the receipts 💪🏾🗣

@teatean2972 3 года назад

Correct

@gracious2gf 3 года назад

@Andrea C exactly. Now that's what I call grace and mercy 🙌🏾

@daniellehacker 3 года назад

“We protect those who don’t deserve protection.” -I felt that. That’s the Jesus way.

@BosseLadi12 3 года назад

This hit home

@SD-hs2pk 3 года назад

yes that s beautiful

@NancyAh. 3 года назад

So true!

@avaholloway32 3 года назад

Yes I felt that too and as @Tobe Nwigwe would said #OUU

@feelingwill 3 года назад

Please don’t end the Love Hour! You two have absolutely no idea how many marriages you are saving. Even if it’s once a month, y’all are a whole ministry that is desperately needed. I promise I’ll join Patreon.

@mrsvr 3 года назад

Can we do a video on top 5 things that are going well in marriage. Like maybe things you thought you would struggle with but you two do better together?

@Juice-ig3jz 3 года назад

That's a good idea!

@Passion84GodAlways 3 года назад

LOOOVE this suggestion!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@tybooskie 3 года назад

Thumbs this all the way up!!!

@brittanyjackson1016 3 года назад

Love!

@judymwende8876 3 года назад

Yes!

@ckfields7146 3 года назад

My mother always says you don’t have to tell anybody your business for them to understand. I live by that. It keeps me looking young, sane and unbothered at all times.

@kornandpeasandcarrot 3 года назад

Yassss. We are staying moisturized and unbothered in 2021! Lol.

@TWilliams88 3 года назад

Preach!!!

@droosyg252 3 года назад

@@kornandpeasandcarrot #moisturizedandunbothered LOVE it! 😍

@1LocWonder 3 года назад

Raise your hand if you like before watching a second…I’ll go first 🙋🏾‍♀️

@soulfulki 3 года назад

Liss and Angel have unlocked a new level in their friendship because that TRANSITION I was like okayyyy Lisss 😂😂😂

@MizdeeLiving 3 года назад

Lizzo was just saying this. It’s a whole different level of peace not hearing the mess! Someone said what you think about me is none of my business. PERIODT!

@OurKindofEntertainment 3 года назад

80k subscribers?! You're gonna be at 100k in no time :)

@trinawms3749 3 года назад

This is the realest couple out there, I pray Jesus keep you in his perfect peace!

@steventhompson8333 3 года назад

That’s a good Christian man right there. I would let the chopper spray…LOL. The Lord ain’t through with me yet.

@afletcher257 3 года назад

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 It's the honesty & self awareness for me! 💕💕💕

@sheribarnes8737 3 года назад

New levels, new devils Kev. Social media can be so ruthless sometimes 😔We know you ain’t operating on that wavelength…..praying God protects you from that energy and may His light shine through you and your content 🙏🏾🕉💜

@ebbypetes 3 года назад

Kev we know you and liss are good good people. Those that have been following for a while understand that. I'm glad I didn't even know about no drama. I love yall tho. Keep the main thing, the main thing. ❤❤❤

@afletcher257 3 года назад

AMEN & AMEN 💕💕💕

@nichelleandrews1173 3 года назад

This Love Hour has truly hit the nail in the head for me. I've just had/celebrated 26 yrs married, 28 yrs together. But these last 5yrs have been challenging for me. This discussion has put my feelings into words, I couldn't have said it better. I'll listen to this again, take note(points) that I need to talk with my husband with and do my part (to self-reflect). Thank you!

@kimberlybrown5594 3 года назад

I’m in the 95% who had no clue until your video. I had to watch some bull videos just to make sense of your video. Now back to the app and patreon as per my regular schedule

@robn314 3 года назад

Right because I’m still lost

@brangeeellis3083 3 года назад

@@robn314 me too 🤷‍♀️

@latoyataylor5382 3 года назад

Been rocking since the beginning as well and am still confused! 🤷🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

@yungJA30 3 года назад

So what actually happened? Just so this episode makes more sense

@1LocWonder 3 года назад

@@robn314 Stay that way, it’s not helpful! Don’t investigate

@raisingaking9303 3 года назад

My husband and I had a similar conversation a few months ago. For me, Articulation > Communication. My husband can be somewhat “wordy” and so sifting through the meaning sometimes is daunting. But when he takes a moment and really articulates what he means we have the most amazing conversations.

@mschaneyful 3 года назад

I go through this with my husband and sometimes find myself not paying attention anymore bc I'm waiting for all the filler to bypass and get to the meat and potatoes.

@CherieButler 3 года назад

Trials and tribulations got y'all out here preaching the best sermons ever. Seriously, this is some of the best advice ever and can be used in non-romantic relationships as well. Thank you for sharing and hooking us up even though you're exhausted from dealing with a bunch of mess.

@fdoctor79 3 года назад

Congrats on 80k subscribers, Liss. Just remember, "Great minds discuss ideas; average minds discuss events; and small minds discuss people." - Eleanor Roosevelt

@christianwatkins7185 3 года назад

Kev, stay up! If you don't have enemies, then you aint doing nothing! Also, this episode was great. Yes, Melissa, you have the teacher anointing!

@LG-kx8xl 3 года назад

Higher Levels, Higher devils & to some 👿 any attention is good attention when they don't have it on their own. Stay UP!

@elektrasmagicalstorytime 3 года назад

They def are anointed!

@dsanders401 3 года назад

Im your youtube audience (and patreon) who has no idea what's going on. Just watching your videos and laughing 🤣

@davidasmart1082 3 года назад

"CORRECT" lol 🤣 gets me every time

@Future-zx9ts 3 года назад

When Kevin was talking about people “existing” in marriages and people saying “they should’ve gotten divorced 25 years ago”, it made me realize - those couples should’ve been in therapy 25 years ago. But it wasn’t readily available. Thank God that therapy is easier to access now than it ever has been. Of course, getting your spouse to go is another thing. But at least it’s available for individuals, so they can at least work through their own issues and decide the best course of action to take. The generations before us didn’t generally have that option, so we are blessed to hopefully make better and healthier decisions.

@catjames 3 года назад

The Krew knows the integrity of the Fredericks.

@LadyPsalmist99 3 года назад

Absolutely WE DO!!!🎬🎬

@kayekaye08 3 года назад

Period.

@BridgettS 3 года назад

We need to keep them lifted in prayer though because it has to be draining on the spirit.

@LadyPsalmist99 3 года назад

@@BridgettS definitely 💪🏾

@UKLeonie 3 года назад

@@BridgettS YEP YEP YEP YEP 🎬🎬🎬🎬

@coco698 3 года назад

32:01 LOL.... Liss: "Oh, is that what you be doing?" Kev: No..😶

@tybooskie 3 года назад

I'm still laughing at someone telling KOS to call HBO. That took me out🤣🤣😂🤣😂😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂. Outside of something morally egregious Imma still watch. I have never come across any influencer that I haven't side eyed at least once.

@kellentraylor4949 3 года назад

I love when Liss says "yassss" and "correct"

@msfefeenicole8158 3 года назад

I wish I could like this episode a million times. This episode has shed so much light on why my first marriage failed. We both had issues with communication, being vulnerable and transparent with each other. In my new relationship I will be implementing these aspects. I LOVE this episode so much

@kirky3051 3 года назад

Kev came for everybody in the beginning even your grandma’s cooking 😂

@eritreangal 3 года назад

Kev just want to say that we know who you are and the other ppl who I wont mention honestly a bunch of bitter bettys its so clear to see, its sad. Keep shining keep spreading joy and doing your thing!

@jessicakanwhen870 3 года назад

This is, by far, the BEST definition of the word communication I have ever heard!! Communication is being honest, transparent, and vulnerable. Wow!! So good!! We’ve been married for 10 years and have been to numerous marriage conferences and marriage counselors and I’ve never heard communication defined so accurately and yet so simple. Love, love, love it!!

@ATMM514 3 года назад

You can’t stop people from believing what they want, but you can keep yourself from caring about it. Love your life and love well the ones that matter.

@BreRenee19 3 года назад

Kev I’m gonna continue to watch and support but I’m still gone defend you like I defend Beyoncé 😏😏 because just like BEYONCÉ you you don’t bother nobody and stay in your lane. I love y’all

@aleialaw 3 года назад

I think the meanness comes from unresolved pain. And the bad part is that sometimes it may have NOTHING to do with your partner.

@Teeville1 3 года назад

Long live The Love hour!!!!!

@jaderichardson6353 3 года назад

Melissa can write a book with all the gems she be dropping. This was a good episode!

@mrs.jayallison4792 3 года назад

This was a great episode! Honesty, Vulnerability and Transparency equals Effective Communication.

@jadaj.8275 3 года назад

59:01, God gave you that revelation for me. I’m am in this moment literally reflecting on mine and others communication style. I literally shared this specific episode with 6 people! Wow!! When I ask God for signs/answer and he come through in the nik of time WOW! Thank you again

@beingmelisaann1728 3 года назад

You are so right! A lot of our parents and grandparents stayed together bcuz it was socially unacceptable to divorce and the women couldn’t afford to leave. They didn’t do a lot of communicating, they did a lot of tolerating. Men had whole other families across town. I heard a therapist on Oprah years ago say “let’s stop celebrating time in the game”, let’s instead say “how’s that working for you”. The answer might surprise you.

@vc9732 3 года назад

Choosing to protect those who don’t deserve it. Man that’s my life Kev. Look. Keep doing what y’all doing which is uplifting and making us laugh smile And think. Classy Liss 💖

@Passion84GodAlways 3 года назад

📚 Book Recommendations I thought of while watching this episode. 📚 1.) "Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and how it Can Help You Find - and Keep - Love" by Amir Levine and Rachel S. F. Heller" 2.) "131 Necessary Conversations Before Marriage" - Jed Jurchenko Some conversation starters are light but some of them spark DEEP & INSIGHTFUL CONVERSATION! 😁👍🏾 CaptivatedStageWingBooRyder📸️🎬👼🏾🦋🚘

@UKLeonie 3 года назад

Book two sounds good,thanks for the recommendation.

@Passion84GodAlways 3 года назад

@@UKLeonie - 'Twas my pleasure! 🤗❤️🙏🏾

@joyade8495 3 года назад

I was literally re-watching last weeks episode and this just dropped! Look at God! 🙌🏿

@ebonimccain6988 3 года назад

I love that movie War of the Rose's and I think everyone should watch it because you can see key moments where they could've stopped and worked with each other or just not been together at all but they didn't so they just imploded.

@dakaraijohnson4315 3 года назад

He's right. RU-vid is my only social media. So when the initial video came out I had to ask my daughters if they heard anything. Lol. Fan of 5 years or so.

@shaniceledbetter9765 3 года назад

Where is the Melissa Fredericks relationship book? I love the podcast but I would definitely buy your book or audible! ❤️ 📖

@jessicagant8682 3 года назад

Don't try to clear your own name. . . get an attorney and they can clear it from the internet!

@dinathadiva7981 3 года назад

“Protecting those that don’t deserve protection” - I FELT THAT!!!!

@karenm1965 3 года назад

Amen. Love the staying out of drama & keeping focus on what you want to put out into world & protecting your peace. Love your channel!🙏🏽💕👏🏽 “put proverbial headphones on “ 🎧

@1LocWonder 3 года назад

That was a WORD!

@Amber_AB_Boyd 3 года назад

Using i-messages allows individuals to be honest, vulnerable and transparent. I am learning that it helps and I try to use it often!

@Joce-bl7qi 3 года назад

@boydab13 At first I thought you meant the Apple to Apple messaging system and I was so confused, like what’s the new feature that’s helping relationships lol

@Joce-bl7qi 3 года назад

@ boydab13 Oh… I hadn’t reached the point where she explained that yet lol

@MizdeeLiving 3 года назад

Yes Liss! I call that EFFECTIVELY communicating. You can talk, say words and the communication not be effective.

@peepieicu 3 года назад

I need to start a tip jar so I can join all of the patreons … the perks! 🦋🦋🦋

@sramirez2583 3 года назад

@MrsKevOnStage I hope the this show doesn't end any time soon. I absolutely love the open and sometimes very difficult topics you guys discuss. As a single woman who is still healing and learning to love herself 10 years after a very toxic and traumatic relationship these topics give me a totally different perspective. I won't say that you guys are relationship goals but I will say that I admire you and KevOnStage for being so open and transparent. Plus I'm learning so much about myself and what I think a healthy and loving relationship should look like.

@jend8519 3 года назад

Yall dropping gems on this episode!

@LG-kx8xl 3 года назад

SILENCE speaks volumes AND you don't even have to repeat it for those in the back that didn't hear you Because it repeats on its own WITHOUT effort from you. Stay UP! 🙏

@nothks0 3 года назад

We are in this until the end! #stagekrew ❤ your work speaks for itself.

@alannathompson7977 Год назад

So glad the Love Hour is still here.

@izzye7307 3 года назад

This episode was sooo GOODT! 😩🙌🏾

@UKLeonie 3 года назад

Maybe because I've been singing Evelyn from the internets "mind your business" all week, I've missed all the headache even in the live. SK4L 🎬🎬🎬🎬

@VeeJL366 3 года назад

Had this on last night while I was crafting. Had to listen to it again this morning to take notes. So many good gems!!!

@Sweet2kiss1 3 года назад

I soooooo needed this will be watching it over again!!! Soooooo good!

@xpressionsllc9448 3 года назад

I love you all's conversation! Love it! And your connection 💜

@ChelsaSMoore 3 года назад

Liss, I see books on your journey and marital guidance coming from YOU! Your revelation is God! Kev be dropping nuggets too. #WritetheBook

@mschaneyful 3 года назад

Great and needed conversation!! We appreciate yall!!

@SD-hs2pk 3 года назад

This was a gem of an episode 💎

@piqueny8872 3 года назад

May god bless your marriage forever Y’all both are my free therapy thank you!

@msvanessaceo 3 года назад

Very good breakdown! Keep it up, this is very helpful!

@shanes5235 3 года назад

This is great, i really like this

@tiffanykennedy2746 3 года назад

We LOVE The Love Hour!! Great episode.

@kajmylove4434 3 года назад

That honesty transparency vulnerability, is so good

@Nettieboo1014 3 года назад

This episode is all up in my business!!!!

@geeniality4215 3 года назад

Thank you so much for this conversation. I learned so much.

@tamikalove2658 3 года назад

🗣TEACH TEACHER...H.V.T🙌🏿🙏🏾 THIS IS SO GOOOOD!

@jadaj.8275 3 года назад

Hello.Great video! This applies to friendships as well!!- WOW WOW WOW I feel so enlightened, seen and heard from this podcast. Thank you Melissa & Kevin.

@TheRinn3453 3 года назад

I’ve been loving the most recent episodes. More Melissa 2.0 please.

@elanc3264 3 года назад

I just read Yvonne Orji's book (via Audible)! I'll have to join your book club discussion...her book is phenomenal!

@MsFlipped365 3 года назад

The love hour podcast!!!! I’ve been listen regularly since the 1st ep with Tab and Chance ❤️. Liss in unbelievably gorgeous!!!!!! 🥰

@SheldonTyler 3 года назад

This was one of the best I have seen. I will use this.

@peaceandluv007 3 года назад

Love yall Kev and Melissa!!!

@kford8724 3 года назад

Whew Chile that was stress but so informative thank you guys this episode opened my eyes to so many things.

@ugommaokorie1660 3 года назад

Really brilliant episode Liss and Kev!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@mrmrsmisterpodcast8255 3 года назад

This was awesome!! I love you guys!

@anai5563 3 года назад

When you have to scroll back cos the transition into the ad was so good!! I mean good heavens Liss that 3rd love one was just waow!

@lynnbill 3 года назад

This was so good and can relate to a lot of it 👍

@nickiok1663 3 года назад

Thanks you two for positive vibes 💥🌞🌟

@kaimurimagu5804 3 года назад

This is pure gold guys. Awesome!! Thank you so much for this, I am coming back to this over and over.

@CherieButler 3 года назад

Y'all stay strong! These are just growing pains. Keep growing right on through them.

@MikkiDreams 3 года назад

Y'ALL SPEAKIN' TRUTH TO POWER AND SETTING PEOPLE FREE ON HERE!!!! #HiFive #Myfav

@ARoberson99MaryKay 3 года назад

This is so good! This reminds me of the old Love Hours from years ago

@TheDstinfrared34 3 года назад

This was great and it's actually helped me with a close friendship of mine.

@tamikalove2658 3 года назад

YESSS the truth of the matter the true fans have no idea what your talking about...keep it positive and funny and I'll will continue to watch and ❤ you guys.😍