I personally know both of these people. Angie went to school with my son. She was my sons first little girlfriend. She’s come so far. She’s a God fearing, very sweet woman. I’m so proud of her. After on/off and on/off of getting back with and splitting back up- they are finally done. He was very abusive to her, physically and emotionally. I love Ang. I’m so proud at how very far she has come along. 🤗 ❤️❤️❤️❤️ Love you, Ang.
People need to be held accountable to their actions. She is literally in trap houses doing the unthinkable with drug dealers while being married with children. . Get real. No excuse
Don’t think she’s trying to make excuses it seems like she clearly knows it’s wrong but there are reasons that ppl have for doing bad things and it seems like she’s trying to work through it
@@anthonyalexisantunez4581yeah clearly you’ve never been abused by anyone. So let me explain, she isn’t making excuses, she is owning that she is messed up. In her case cheating is a drug, a way for her to get that high. Children who have been sexually abused often blur the lines, they participate in high risk behavior bc it stimulates a certain part of the brain that wasn’t able to develop properly bc of the abuse. And if I had to guess I would say that her husband probably has some abusive traits. Abused children often end up dating/marrying their abuser bc that is the only type of interaction they see as normal. They don’t know what a healthy relationship looks like. It’s easy for you to sit behind your phone and be a keyboard warrior, judging people without having taken a single step in their shoes.
Excuses! If something was done terrible to me why would I do the same thing? If my father was an alcoholic, I would have 2 choices. Either learn from him and be like him or hate what he did and be different
Theres a difference between having an alcoholic parent and being sexually abused for your whole childhood. Are they both bad? Yes, ofc, but being sexually abused from a young age legit changes the way your brain develops into adulthood. The way she copes is the way she was taught to cope by the adult that was sexually abusing her as a child. She's not a bad person, she's a victim
I’d love to know how all these keyboard judges would deal if they were repeatedly raped as a child, and was never taught how to get help. The fact is there is a good chance that she married her abuser. Majority of women that were abused and sexually assaulted as a child that they tend to date the same man that resembles their attacker. Their brain is wired differently bc of the trauma. It’s not an instinctual thing for victims of abuse to seek help bc they are often threatened by their abuser that something bad will happen to them or a family member. And figuring out why someone does what they do to cope is not an excuse it’s acknowledging that their behavior is not right. If you don’t know why you do something then you can’t fix it. It’s likely the cheating is a drug to her. She is an addict. Seriously people have some compassion. Try to walk in someone’s shoes before judgment. She isn’t asking to be excused of her behavior, she isn’t asking her husband to turn a blind eye. She is asking for help to stop this behavior.
I understand she is hurt to a degree. I understand the childhood abuse and negativity. But at some point some “rationale” has to stop being used, ESPECIALLY if one has the audacity to throw it in their partners face every time. That and she slept with 15 more men than he thought… 15?! And to emasculate him so much…when does he get respect
sry but being assaulted as a child doesn't excuse you from knowing right and wrong as an adult. i don't think her one experience during childhood validates her being a terrible, embarrassing excuse for a wife and a disgusting role model to her daughters. the husband deserves someone who is mentally mature and actually wanting to be in a committed relationship. genuinely pity him for wasting his time with her.
Yeah she picked a wimp she can’t respect to make it easier to cheat on I think. Same as serial cheaters is usually know who to marry that will put up with them
He’s a true husband, sticking by his wedding vows. Kudos to him. I thought ppl were strong for leaving their partners. It’s now that I know their strong for sticking by them.
You're right. I guess the steps to therapy aren't always as visible from a victims perspective. She didn't have guidance as child, didn't/couldn't open up to her mother (seems like more one of those 'I didn't see anything' or 'you wanted it, it was consensual' types, but not sure). So without knowing the common sense behind therapy... I mean she said it herself (and that was even after brainstorming with her husband) she thought she must learn to forgive and let it behind her. Not saying what she put her family through wasn't wrong and it was her jib to protect her little ones.
She played a blinder and got everyone feeling sorry for her. Excuses, excuses, excuses. She manipulated everyone except, i suspect, other women. That guy needs to put his kids first, run for the hills and let them grow up without her malign influence.
THAT'S TRUE BECAUSE WHAT SHE'S DONE IS NOT A MISTAKE BECAUSE SHE CONSISTENTLY KEEPS ON DOING IT. SHE HAS TRAUMA BUT THAT DOES NOT MEAN HURTING HER HUSBAND HER CHILDREN. I FEEL BAD THAT DR PHIL IS MAKING IT SEEM LIKE ITS OKAY WHEN IT'S NOT. CHEATING CAN HURT SOMEONE REALLY BAD, AND UNFORTUNATELY, SHE DOES NOT CARE. HE SHOULDN'T TELL HIM WELL IT TAKES A MAN TO BE OKAY WITH CHEATING, NOT THAT'S FALSE. NO ONE SHOULD BE CHEATED ON, IF YOU WANNA CHEAT LEAVE.
@@luzrincon6620do you have any understanding about the human brain and addiction. She cheated so you think she should be locked away way forever and have her kids taken away… even though later we find out the husband was also abusive… It must be nice high up on that horse…. I wonder how you would cope after being raped as a child
Well the guy (husband) ended up being another abuser. So you really think he was innocent in all of this… it is amazing to see people so high on that horse that they think they’d have been the better person after being raped and abused as a child. Yeah let me know how you would respond and cope.
