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things i will NOT have at my wedding: a rant 

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@Gxport
@Gxport 10 месяцев назад
100% agree. I also want a child free wedding and a small wedding. I don’t know why people, especially STRANGERS, would get mad at that.
@Lauren.O
@Lauren.O 10 месяцев назад
Strangers on the internet get mad at the dumbest things 🤦🏾‍♀️
@ambernicole1692
@ambernicole1692 10 месяцев назад
I feel you on that childless wedding! My bf’s family has hella kids and I told him “Sorry! Find a babysitter or don’t come!”
@jameslynphillips5629
@jameslynphillips5629 10 месяцев назад
It's your wedding do your THANG! Just don't forget to share the pictures and videos with us!😂😂
@ayanafite
@ayanafite 10 месяцев назад
I've been on the fence about that lol. I just don't want my wedding to feel like "content"
@jameslynphillips5629
@jameslynphillips5629 10 месяцев назад
@ayanafite I definitely understand that. Whatever you choose to do, I know it will be AMAZING!😍😍🤗🤗
@angeliqte
@angeliqte 10 месяцев назад
@@ayanafite maybe a honeymoon vlog or video. But use wedding pictures/clips for the intro. Whatever you decide, I wish you and Amy the very best!!
@trulyunbothered1578
@trulyunbothered1578 10 месяцев назад
I never gave much thought to this before but I agree! Childless wedding would be amazing. It would feel a bit more celebratory and less likely to have choas, late comers, and early leavers because children dont really have patience levels for all that wedding stuff.
@CB_2389
@CB_2389 10 месяцев назад
Bride to be here....Absolutely no kids at mine either. My wedding will always be child free. Thankfully everyone has been very supportive about that. And yes...of legal drinking age as well. So im with you on this ALL THE WAY.
@ciciboo95
@ciciboo95 10 месяцев назад
I’m the same way when it comes to wanting an open bar and not a cash bar. I refuse to have a cash bar at ANY party of mine in my life ☝🏽🙅🏽‍♀️🙅🏽‍♀️
@QueenMuva
@QueenMuva 10 месяцев назад
I had an extravagant wedding at Midnight.. no kids, no phones allowed during the ceremony and if your azz wasn't in the space BEFORE 1130, you weren't getting in.. we had a Cocktail party BEFORE the ceremony and the reception.. Open Bar
@se2664
@se2664 8 месяцев назад
Midnight?!? Why so late in the evening to host a wedding
@Missteezimbabwex
@Missteezimbabwex 10 месяцев назад
i love how people have so much to say as if they are the one's paying for the wedding
@purplehaze4730
@purplehaze4730 10 месяцев назад
You can’t get childcare, it’s perfectly fine that you won’t be there
@goddessjsj
@goddessjsj 10 месяцев назад
Exactly
@ambernicole1692
@ambernicole1692 10 месяцев назад
Ok!
@IndependentPrettyGirlis
@IndependentPrettyGirlis 10 месяцев назад
Exactly
@auzij4949
@auzij4949 10 месяцев назад
That wig looks good on you ❤
@ayanafite
@ayanafite 10 месяцев назад
Thank you!!
@saymslee
@saymslee 10 месяцев назад
My wife and I had a child free wedding. She has a 2 year old nephew and the moms parents watched him for the night. It was an amazing time! All the parents who attended were so happy to have a child free night to turn up. I highly endorse child free weddings. We have a lot of the same viewpoints. I literally would never have a cash bar, that’s so tacky IMO! These people are coming to celebrate you. You gunna make them pay for the food at the wedding as well? People be projecting A LOT!
@TiasjahAtchison
@TiasjahAtchison 10 месяцев назад
Finally, I think you’re the only RU-vidr that I actually sit around and wait for you to post a new video you and blossom are very entertaining and informative
@Hottool365
@Hottool365 10 месяцев назад
That wig looks great and F them kids!!! It is your wedding day and you should have what you want on that day. Some people just love to be negative.
@teelc0253
@teelc0253 10 месяцев назад
People always got something to say. Girl your rules and requests or preferences are perfectly fine to me in my opinion. 100% valid reasons. Great video Ayana 👍🏾👍🏾
@grahamcrackerjay
@grahamcrackerjay 10 месяцев назад
The entitlement of child care being paid for is wild. 😂😂
@princesslamour4659
@princesslamour4659 10 месяцев назад
You deserve to have a wedding of your dreams, one size doesn't fit all. You and your partner can do whatever
@astoldbylee2746
@astoldbylee2746 10 месяцев назад
I’ve never had an event where children are allowed. If you don’t have trusted childcare it’s okay to say you won’t make it.
@DearYoungerSelf111
@DearYoungerSelf111 4 месяца назад
4:53 My ex sis in law did not invite any children to her weeding except for the kids that was in the wedding (her kid her husband kid and my son). It is what it is.
@reddfoxx7362
@reddfoxx7362 10 месяцев назад
The wig and hair color looks good on your skin tone.
@ChrissyAaliyah
@ChrissyAaliyah 10 месяцев назад
I totally agree with you on almost all of your rules Ayana!! But the one I absolutely agree with you on is not having a cash bar bc some ppl have to fly in and they do take off work. So the least we can do is serve them food and drinks. You have every right to state that bc it’s your day.When I went to my cousin’s wedding I had to go home to New York and I definitely had to take off for the entire weekend.
@brandisdouglas6123
@brandisdouglas6123 10 месяцев назад
Not the dramatic movie vows with the fake cry😂😂😂😂
@fredelynemertilus5617
@fredelynemertilus5617 10 месяцев назад
Mine was child free and all the parents were happy
@faboul467
@faboul467 10 месяцев назад
At my wedding, I want no phones during the ceremony. Such as, no taking pictures or videos. I want people to live in the damn moment. Not reach for your phone. Pretend we’re in the 90s. And yes I like the hair color
@ayanafite
@ayanafite 10 месяцев назад
this is a good rule!
@faboul467
@faboul467 10 месяцев назад
@@ayanafite thank you! Another rule is ( I was a maid of honor ) no professional pictures or videography during the wedding. I was a maid of honor and I only attended cocktail hour for less than 15 mins. I was called to take pictures and soon as we finish, we had to go to the next ceremony. I ate dinner but still felt hungry. And the bride was hardly there because she was taking pictures and videos the whole time.
@ryyreads
@ryyreads 10 месяцев назад
i love this, same asf. ❤
@princesslamour4659
@princesslamour4659 10 месяцев назад
I love this wow ❤️❤️❤️. I was just thinking about this. I'm 22 and I'm low-key old school
@faboul467
@faboul467 10 месяцев назад
@@princesslamour4659 I’m 29 and so am I 😊
@vanitybeyond
@vanitybeyond 10 месяцев назад
I never understood why people bring children to weddings anyway. Especially when they are under the age of 12. It's distracting, and when the wedding's going on. You have crying babies, now you have to get up and excuse yourself to calm your child down. That was always annoying to me. When I got married, the only kids that were at my wedding were mine, and they were very much under control..
@erickar9744
@erickar9744 8 месяцев назад
I respect it. I’ve been to plenty of weddings with that stipulation. Ain’t no different than a dress code to me. Do you Chile!!
@grahamcrackerjay
@grahamcrackerjay 10 месяцев назад
Omg the way you did you bangs effortlessly. Show tf out girly!
@jesswithdakids5172
@jesswithdakids5172 10 месяцев назад
My invite said no children at the wedding because I didn’t want other peoples kids or little cousins at my wedding but my nieces and nephews were there. My bar was open and I had a plated dinner but I wish I did the buffet. If you can’t find childcare then we will miss you boo!
@tanmariedoesitall6748
@tanmariedoesitall6748 10 месяцев назад
I 100 % agree With The Kid Free Wedding so the adults can enjoy them selves instead of being in mommy & daddy mood
@jeanellreynolds7291
@jeanellreynolds7291 10 месяцев назад
I really love the wig. It looks so natural. Yes get another one.
@lovelife2186
@lovelife2186 10 месяцев назад
Remember that every thing is a choice they don’t have to come
@meeraladva4261
@meeraladva4261 10 месяцев назад
Your wedding your rules. Simple 😌🤷
@ayanafite
@ayanafite 10 месяцев назад
Right?!
@yumyum215
@yumyum215 10 месяцев назад
You have to be mentally insane to argue with ANYONE about THEIR choices for THEIR wedding/event. Especially one that none of you are attending. That's insanity!!! Also, I can tell by them comments that none of those people could possibly have had a wedding before! The internet is full of weird, insecure people.
@brittanydonnet7347
@brittanydonnet7347 10 месяцев назад
Well that’s your decision if you don’t want kids at your wedding that’s your wedding ‼️ people get mad at anything that doesn’t involve them
@nijahlynch1589
@nijahlynch1589 10 месяцев назад
I agree with these. Also, yes to the wig for Africa.
@deavonte76
@deavonte76 10 месяцев назад
Hey, love it's Your wedding and every bride definitely set their own rules. So that what you want, period. I wish I could have a wedding without children but I can't...so as long the bride is happy nothing matters.. ❤❤
@grahamcrackerjay
@grahamcrackerjay 10 месяцев назад
You slayed. Yes, Africa, wiggy! 🌍
@mariahsenn1740
@mariahsenn1740 10 месяцев назад
Why were all those comments from people who act like they never been to a wedding before?! All of your ideas are normal and reasonable. Do want you wanna do girl. It’s your special day ♥️
@donnahaskett9588
@donnahaskett9588 10 месяцев назад
In my opinion weddings r fo grown ups and not fo kids. Do whut u feel Sweetie ❤
@julianacheriza9673
@julianacheriza9673 10 месяцев назад
I agree with the vows! Saying it privately
@JayDee-ut5yg
@JayDee-ut5yg 10 месяцев назад
Unfortunately we as black people will always have something to say and not respect that other people have wishes and desires outside of their thinking!! We are always so dramatic as a people and opinionated!! Instead of holding each other up even though someone may have a deferring opinion... especially when it doesn't affect you in the least!!
@reet7060
@reet7060 10 месяцев назад
It was actually mostly white people saying that 😂
@reet7060
@reet7060 10 месяцев назад
@@alysiawilliams2139 You must not follow a lot of white influencers. Their white viewers will be the first to turn on them and cancel them. My roommate actually just hit 100k and some of his viewers want to cancel him because they thought he was a tan Latino and not a pale Latino😂 Stupid shit like that the white viewers are canceling him for not being their definition of Latin🤦🏾‍♀️
@kahjatraylor2063
@kahjatraylor2063 10 месяцев назад
Omg im going thru that now im getting married n people are upset that i didnt want kids at my wedding. Im founding myself stress becuz no one cares bout what i want
@ReignBeauxStar
@ReignBeauxStar 10 месяцев назад
Do not get stressed out love. It is your day. Do what you want and if anyone has a problem with you being happy, they don't love you. They wanna control you . Point blank period
@timewizard98
@timewizard98 10 месяцев назад
The hair color is so pretty! I think you should wear it for Africa!
@princesslamour4659
@princesslamour4659 10 месяцев назад
I loved every single one your ideas and reasoning and I can see you truly want a intimate and authentic wedding. Should I be blessed with marriage in the future I would apply your ideas to my own wedding. No kids, personally for me less than 30 people, open bar, no dance routine(so corny), no buffet, etc Edit: I find it funny people assume everyone is the same way financially. The projection is wild!
@Briana235
@Briana235 10 месяцев назад
Those people are used to a backyard wedding with dad cooking on the grill. Nothing wrong with that but it’s not everybody’s vibe. Why be mad about a stranger’s wedding you won’t be invited to anyway? People are weird.
@chocolatebeauty1688
@chocolatebeauty1688 10 месяцев назад
People upset at what someone else wants at their own wedding is wild 😒 I have 3 kids and I love my babies but if I attending a wedding child free. That's my time away from my kids 😂😂
@julianacheriza9673
@julianacheriza9673 10 месяцев назад
I agree with the open bar!
@tiffaneybraxton4434
@tiffaneybraxton4434 10 месяцев назад
Girl you need to be using the already cut side as a guide to get it even lol...it's cute though ❤❤
@lucywambui402
@lucywambui402 10 месяцев назад
the hair color is beautiful
@vontaylor472
@vontaylor472 10 месяцев назад
Happy Holidays. 🎅🏾🎅🏾🎅🏾🎄🎄🎄. You should be able to have the wedding you desire. My wife and i did. Love you and Amy💖💖💖🥂🥂
@IssaVirgo
@IssaVirgo 10 месяцев назад
As someone who plans weddings and provides bartending services, and I’m married with kids…NO CHILDREN!!!! I worked a wedding and a kid pulled the fire alarm at the reception. And kids hate weddings for real lol they come for cake and Shirley temples and that adds up 😂
@crystal2.074
@crystal2.074 10 месяцев назад
I was surprised you were installing a wig lol, you look beautiful as always
@tpmcclanahan5272
@tpmcclanahan5272 10 месяцев назад
Baby girl, your wedding your way 100%….
@nicolecoleman3123
@nicolecoleman3123 10 месяцев назад
Yes !! You did the hell out of that wig.🔥🔥
@riahsrockyroad
@riahsrockyroad 10 месяцев назад
Yeah I can’t imagine my wedding guest fumbling around in their pockets and dresses for money to buy a drink .. prepaid bar for sure
@olajumokeomotesho4846
@olajumokeomotesho4846 10 месяцев назад
hi..its nice that you're visiting Africa... i wish you'd stop at Nigeria so that your fans here (myself inclusive) can see you ..but i know thats a wishful thought so...but i hope you'd have a nice time in Africa though.. cheers
@SNOB4LIFEE
@SNOB4LIFEE 10 месяцев назад
I was literally just watching old videos!! Girl thank you for your consistency cuz you keep me entertained 🥰😅 .. ok let me watch the video !!
@Futhi.Johnson
@Futhi.Johnson 10 месяцев назад
Which part of Africa are u going to..South Africa ? If u going there...no planting wigs ..it's really hot down there
@vanitybeyond
@vanitybeyond 10 месяцев назад
And also anyone who would have a problem with being invited to a child. Free wedding can simply decline the invite. I'm not understanding the uproar from everyone about your preference. It's either you're gonna come and find someone to watch your kids during that time or decline. And just wish me well from home. That's like someone saying I want a child free adult birthday party, and someone gets mad because they can't bring their kid to your adult birthday party. Just stay your azz at home then.😂
@tywanbrown3034
@tywanbrown3034 10 месяцев назад
Hey Girly, LMBO people and their opinions Lawddd i'm not on TikTok but i can imagine the comments. When it's your day you can have whatever you want and whomever you want there. I have been to weddings were everyone was 21 and up. I also went to 2 weddings where the only kids that were there was the bride and grooms and after the ceremony and pictures the kids left and it was only adults at the reception; AND no surprise that some guests had things to say after everything was said and done about how they thought it was unfair that their children couldn't be there LIKE REALLY SMH. Weddings cost events period cost and no disrespect but kids waste food and they get restless and some people just don't want to deal with that also people are drinking and celebrating
@97clipz
@97clipz 10 месяцев назад
Listen my cousin had a wedding and the attendees that weren’t allowed to drink definitely watched the younger kids cause baby sit down and watch yo sister and the cousins lol
@guaporuss
@guaporuss 10 месяцев назад
i love watching your videos queen!!
@vanitybeyond
@vanitybeyond 10 месяцев назад
Now I will say I did not do An open bar because my pockets are not that healthy 😂. But we did get creative and we had tickets we made that was like book marks and everyone who drinks get two. And it was two free drinks of your choice that was paid for and of course, we had a specialty drink list that you can choose from also. And once you had your two free drinks the rest you had to pay for. But if you can afford an open bar, why not? If that's what you wanna do I don't understand why everyone tried to project what they would or wouldn't do on someone else.
@howarddodge772
@howarddodge772 6 месяцев назад
i love your hair
@destineetomar
@destineetomar 10 месяцев назад
your hair came out very nice I love it.......🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩
@ayanafite
@ayanafite 10 месяцев назад
Thank you! 🤗
@tamrobinson3523
@tamrobinson3523 10 месяцев назад
Love the hair color it will look Beautiful in Africa. And I hope your future wedding is everything you hope and dream of.
@muvadeebrinson8378
@muvadeebrinson8378 10 месяцев назад
I was in my aunt wedding a few years ago and I didn’t know that kids weren’t invited until last minute so I didn’t have a sitter. But I winded up getting a sitter but I was sooo salty. This year I went to a wedding that allowed kids and let me tell you…every wedding that I Attend in the future better be kidless because ain’t no way ain’t no fucking way 😂😂😂 I’m sorry I love my kid but there is definitely a time and a place for kids.
@sephorad6644
@sephorad6644 10 месяцев назад
I love the hair on you! You should wear it to Africa
@dimples262009
@dimples262009 10 месяцев назад
nothing is Wrong with that!
@shanisewilson
@shanisewilson 10 месяцев назад
I love your hair i love the color
@chandraross1506
@chandraross1506 10 месяцев назад
Is the lace mocha or cappuccino, i need this ASAP. It looks amazing on you.
@goddessjsj
@goddessjsj 10 месяцев назад
Love the wig
@dimples262009
@dimples262009 10 месяцев назад
❤ don't mind them Negative comments!!!!
@chrissyp5141
@chrissyp5141 10 месяцев назад
Weddings are not family reunions! People love bringing up scenarios that most likely do not apply omg lol I don’t want kids their either including family
@abadadson8648
@abadadson8648 10 месяцев назад
Baby girl from an African sister to you.. Get braids!! It’s hot here
@QueenBoftheQueenCity1
@QueenBoftheQueenCity1 5 месяцев назад
If you can’t afford an open bar, you can’t afford a wedding. Guests are supposed to be just that, GUESTS.. If you invite me to a cash bar event, I’m taking the money out of the card I was going to give you and getting lit.
@nicolecoleman3123
@nicolecoleman3123 10 месяцев назад
Hey Beautiful❤ I agree with you its your wedding ..its your Special Day..🎉🎉 Forget what others think.knowing you and your personality you Dgaf!!!! Period . keep doing you.. Love the real ones🎉💪😊🤞.. Happy Hoidays
@mimisimons
@mimisimons 10 месяцев назад
My uncle turned his mic off during his vowels and we did not notice
@alexlesbean8739
@alexlesbean8739 10 месяцев назад
Damn you made that bang look easy.. I’m trying to start wearing wigs and I definitely want a bang to cover this big ass forehead
@biancajohnson543
@biancajohnson543 10 месяцев назад
I told my gf the same thing I wanted to do my vows in private as well
@Findmywaysince1992
@Findmywaysince1992 10 месяцев назад
Just watching this video and people just want so bad to say something its ok she has a prefrence they acting like they gone be there lol girl do you 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
@devlynne
@devlynne 10 месяцев назад
What about your niece who lived with you? Is she not allowed at your wedding?
@reet7060
@reet7060 10 месяцев назад
It’s probably and age cutoff like >16
@ayanafite
@ayanafite 10 месяцев назад
She’s 18 and is of legal drinking age in the country Amy and I are having our wedding. She will be there.
@justinewhite2418
@justinewhite2418 10 месяцев назад
Did Amy propose?
@EmpireNomads
@EmpireNomads 10 месяцев назад
The whole childcare thing is out the window. Lol people act like you plan the wedding A WEEK IN ADVANCE?! lol. People usually know about a wedding MONTHS in advance. Plan properly!
@crystal2.074
@crystal2.074 10 месяцев назад
people stay tryna push their views smh
@aretaford5892
@aretaford5892 10 месяцев назад
I just don't understand why people want to control what you do at YOUR wedding. People are weird. All the ones that has an opinion, are they helping to pay for YOUR wedding?
@AnntDaMenace
@AnntDaMenace 10 месяцев назад
Ayana Us My Spirit Twin
@se2664
@se2664 8 месяцев назад
Child free weddings are peaceful ! I don’t give a damn about nobody having childcare that’s their issue not mine. Also my old college friend had an alcohol free wedding which was better than making guests pay cash at open bar
@Yahyahsouth401
@Yahyahsouth401 10 месяцев назад
Yea kids don't enjoy weddings
@ReignBeauxStar
@ReignBeauxStar 10 месяцев назад
OMG I don't know why anyone has a problem with what you want to do for your special day. Regardless it's what you want. People these days just love to be argumentive. Hell if you wanna have a no clothes allowed wedding.... That's what you want. May not be for me but I'm not gonna argue with you about it.
@CierraleeYT
@CierraleeYT 10 месяцев назад
Weddings are for adults you shouldn’t have to tone down your antics , music or behaviors to appease children . The children be bored running around doing what kids do .
@qcouple4930
@qcouple4930 10 месяцев назад
Our community gets mad about a child free wedding bc too many ppl in our community have kids they can’t afford. So they can’t even afford a babysitter for one night. #condoms #settingkidsupforfailure #crabsinabarrel #irresponsible
@saldiamond
@saldiamond 10 месяцев назад
How did people think vows in this context mean saying "i do"??? Also people didn't know what "first look" meant?? Folks yall dont even know what common wedding terms are, don't comment lol
@rebellerihanna
@rebellerihanna 10 месяцев назад
that hair would eat in africa
@ayanafite
@ayanafite 10 месяцев назад
Rightttttt??!!!
@ninicherefe1075
@ninicherefe1075 10 месяцев назад
It seems like the biggest problem from your comments is that people just don’t know what happens at a wedding lol or they don’t know proper wedding terminology
@reet7060
@reet7060 10 месяцев назад
Your wedding is not the YMCA Drop the kiddies off with grandma or get a babysitter
@danyelpickett2191
@danyelpickett2191 10 месяцев назад
Are you really having a wedding is my question
@deaaronduncan9797
@deaaronduncan9797 10 месяцев назад
❤️🔥😍🥰🤩😛
@ycartyahoo
@ycartyahoo 5 месяцев назад
The "what if"ers are so tiring...
@deesott5123
@deesott5123 10 месяцев назад
Jesus love you and died for our sins amen 🙏 without him this fleeting life ends in eternal doom!
@ohsoLOVELY6
@ohsoLOVELY6 10 месяцев назад
What’s your tik tok? lol I want to follow and support lol
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