So many comments and people praising, so I did some digging in local news and get to know this is scripted to get the likes and comments on social media. This wasn't the real proposal. People at their worst.
Usually proposing at someone else’s wedding is tacky, but because they had the permission and even assistance of the bride this time is not only acceptable but very sweet
It's not tacky it's being an asshole that wants to take everything from your special day but becuase they had permission it was okay and it shows that the bride was still thinking of her friend even on her special day
@@ArtisticAlly123 I’m going to go ahead and say she was coaxed into this idea. It’s a massive taboo bc let’s be honest that day is 98% about the bride and 2% about the BRIDE and groom. Even if for some reason the bride thought of it the guy should have taken a min and said hmmmmm should I take this time away from the bride on the one day that is 1000% about her and make it about me? PHUCK NO. She could still give her the Flowers without fb deluxe getting on her knee
Is there something wrong with wanting a special day for a special event in your life to be all about you and your significant other? I mean, it's what a wedding's for.
W Bride for planning to share the special day with her friend. That's a tough thing to even consider sharing, so the fact that she planned this was so wholesome
@@kaidonwatxhem2275 Ive never once heard anybody say it was only for the single people. I have seen multiple times people catching the flowers and then looking over to their partners.
The thought that women think it's only about one woman, excluding the groom, is really sad, and wicked. Such a person doesn't deserve marriage. Ugh!! Imagine the vanity inside the bride on that day. It's got to be a sin.
Most people actually plan to have their proposal so moments like that don’t happen lol, what I mean is they discuss getting married and unofficially agree.
So you think that marrying is the most important day? Not graduating from university, not having a child, not buying your own first house, but your wedding day? Well, you do you.
@@irenecunningham9782 I never married, and I certainly did not have children (which was better for all concerned) But still if I ever had married there would still be so many more days I would consider more special.
@@the_big_5_is_the_goat Did you even read what I said? You can’t use someone else’s marriage to propose because it’s a great event. It’s not your moment, it’s theirs
This is nice because the bouquet toss is usually at the end of the wedding so the bride still got to have her day whilst also making it an extra special friendship moment.
People saying this should be the only time it’s fine to propose at a wedding but i’m here thinking that this is the first time i ever seen someone propose at a wedding.
Tbh if someone proposed at my wedding I'd be thrilled. 🤷♂️ these comments are skanky... all depends how selfish you are I guess 🤷♂️ and how much an individual thinks the world revolves around them... yuck 🤮
@@braddo7270 your wedding day is your wedding day, you can't just dictate everything, but it's still your and your new spouse's special day. It's incredible rude and selfish to make the day about you by getting engaged at their wedding or reception. UNLESS the bride or groom (preferably both) say that they can do it.
OMG.... As a man... This is amazing . It's one of the most important days in a person's life ... And she shared it with her best friend. THAT IS ONE AMAZING BEST FRIEND! This should be shared with sooooooo many women out there. (Note: especially Karen bridezillas... And Ken groommothras)
i think most people would 💀 it’s not making it any less special for you, plus they’re doing the bouquet toss so that means the ceremony already happened
@@MEOWWWWWWWWW69 But the proposal thing, that's not what most people would want. Some people think sharing their special days with someone makes it less special for them.
@@chunnilal2111 then they can stop thinking the world revolves around them. they should be happy for their loved ones. i agree it should always be with the brides permission but these people have to stop thinking that their wedding day is supposed to be the most important day to everyone in the world.
@@MEOWWWWWWWWW69 You should see some of the comments in the thread I do agree though it’s a little selfish to do soemthing like this without your permission It’s not about the day being theirs but the venue, the guests all being together, the event It’s a lot of work and stress usually by the family too Doing something like this on your own shows that you don’t care about how they want to do their once in a lifetime event Not many things are that important that they can’t wait a little
I think 🤔 that was aGreat Idea,because it was the Brides Idea to Share Her Day with her best Friend,which made her Wedding Day an Extended Event,Awesome 👍 Congratulations 🎊 👏 💐 🥳 😀 to All
See this is how you do wedding proposals the right way. The bride is in on it and accepts it happening, playing along with it. It shows their friendship. It’s beautiful
with permission from both getting married this is totally OK! Any other scenario and..No. why did this simple comment get so many likes.. EDIT: HELP I JUST SCROLLED DOWN I KNOS THIS COMMENT IS OBVIOUS THATS THE WHOLE POINT TO SOME IT ISNT I CANT CONTROL HOW MANY LIKES I GET WHAT 😭
This is probably the best idea this girl has on her wedding I thought she would toss the flower and gave her the flower and made her turn around for a proposal
I've read many stories in which false friends pull bullshit crap at someone's wedding, like announcing an engagement or a pregnancy, specifically to steal attention away from the bride. This is an outstanding example of a pair of REAL friends that support each other. I wish I knew these women personally. I'll bet they are wonderful people. Their respective husbands are the luckiest guys ever. Aside from me, of course. My wife is an absolute gem of a woman.
@@randomstuff6088 I get that you're just kidding, but what was the joke, exactly? That women are controlling? That being married is bad? That this guy DOESN'T actually love his wife? Idk, I just genuinely don't understand this brand of joke, but I'd like to.
@@jimmymcgill5072 Bruh, ever heard of comedy, the 🤓 is very much needed. Also, why you calling a harmless comment unoriginal, it may be unoriginal, but it's humor, and you can't say that it's bad because you don't like it.
It’s good to know that the bride was in on it instead of him doing it unannounced. I’m sure the bride and the maid of honor will stay friends for a long time.
Yeh, most brides are very very self-focused when it comes to their wedding day as its something they've dreamt about since they're little girls and they really want to only ever have to have one shot at it. For her to intentionally take all the attention away from herself and onto her best friend like that is very rare, especially for women
@@ass640 “especially for women” yeah okay I’m pretty sure no one would like that not even men would like that its there special day if it’s planned and the bride&groom accepted then ok but if it’s not it’s straight up disrespectful it is the bride and grooms day in the end it’s not self centered nor selfish to not want ppl to ruin your day it’s more selfish to ruin the day
The way she gives her the flowers first before turning her around for the proposal is 🥰 imagine having two people who love you and treat you like that, damn.
“Imma bout to start this man’s whole marriage” I know this is very overused and kinda cringe but thanks for the likes and replies, they kinda helped me get through today ☺️
i like how she gave them permission to do it instead of them doing it without her knowing. doing that is akin to crashing the party because you’re just drawing attention to yourself. but this is so wholesome they must be really good friends
So many comments and people praising, so I did some digging in local news and get to know this is scripted to get the likes and comments on social media. This wasn't the real proposal. just two girls hungry for social media likes. People at their worst.
I understand people wanting this to be a special day for themselves, but I'd honestly rather have it be something greater, like this. I hope that this becomes something big and special for them, not just because of the event or what happens, but because this is possibly one of the most magical and special moments I can imagine for a couple of best friends.
I know right? I feel like some people are too hungry to be the center of attention for narcissistic reasons. If you want a special day for only you I get that, but some women have full blown gotten pissed off talking shit about the friend in the video. It just proves how toxic some women are. I personally would LOVE to do this for my best friend💚
@@nightynightshade it’s not toxic and it’s not about them being women. It’s YOUR wedding day and you shouldn’t have to share it with others. I’ve only seen people get pissed when these surprises aren’t planned with the bride and groom beforehand.
@@aloeleaf the “pissed” people im referring to are the viewers of THIS video. Like I said if you wanted the day to be YOU and YOUR husbands day, that’s ok of course! But for other women to judge this bride is ridiculous! The bride did this for HER best friend. She WANTED to share the special memory. Just because their memories of love happened on the same day, it doesn’t make the memory less special. If you think a memory can only be special when it’s ONLY about you m, then you must have a lot more to learn about life. Some of the best memories are shared with those you love. Again it doesn’t automatically make you “selfish” if you want a special day for yourself. That’s ALSO ok. The point is. It’s toxic and nasty to see fellow women judging another woman simply for sharing a special day with her best friend.
@@aloeleaf Seems like the bride wanted this to happen. It's not like it was sprung on her out of nowhere. If this is something she wanted to do for her best friend then there's nothing wrong with it.
Having a real friend does not always mean that they let you get proposed to at what’s supposed to be a really important moment of your life you would probably remember for the longest time which is supposed to be about you and your groom. I guess if the bride and the groom were fine with it, not that bad, but just because your best friend doesn’t want to do that with you doesn’t mean the friendship isn’t as true as it is.
@@djksjhd oh I know! I'm sorry if you misunderstood. I just meant like, how much they love and care about their friend so much to share the spot light on a very important day to them is really sweet. To some people, sharing an important moment with the people you love makes it even better.
My husband did that at my brother's wedding, asked my SIL first...and she handed me the bouquet while my fave John Legend song was playing in the background. One of the best nights ever!
The same happened at my friend's wedding (she was the bride who handed the flowers), that was super sweet to watch, I still enjoy this memory with a tear up)
