This is what every Dad should say to his future son in-law before he hands his daughter over to him.😭🥰 (Sure wish SCOTT PETERSON had just given LACEY and CONNER back to Her Family.😢)
Can the groom also be given away like that to the woman ?? I think it will be cute if there can be a custom like that where the man’s hand is now given to the woman. A marriage where the woman in charge can also exist. Some people might like that , a woman being the head of the household. What’s wrong?
@@marshmallowsmars Kids also want to be in charge lot of times but can’t? 🤪 They are not less important for not being it… ‘In charge’ is symbolically ‘the strongest one who defends’ and that should be a man. And anybody who is mature in mind is okay with it. It is never one person who asks about everything in marriage anyway, so respect the symbolism and give the man honor in that way, and woman gets its own by being treated like a ‘princess’ here. Don’t ruin that.
I agree. That entire speech was beautiful! Him praying that they are at the right place at the right time in everything they do was heartwarming. The daughter is so lucky to have this on record for the rest of her life!
@@denisewalters1088 I have found that the daughters who end up on their own are usually the ones whose husbands disrespected her father, either by refusing to ask his permission to marry prior to the marriage, or treating the father badly after the marriage. If the fiance treats the father of the bride badly or disrespects him, the gal should see this as a sign and call off the wedding. Fathers always have their daughter's best interests at heart.
Can you imagine a Father loving & caring for his daughter’s welfare that he doesn’t give her until he is clear about her future. If this would become part of the wedding ceremony how many marriages would last a lifetime. Amen
Lasting a lifetime and love are not the issues. If an abusive person man or woman can't understand can't learn then yeah they love and yeah they never divorce but it is a lifetime of misery. It's about a happy peaceful life. Is that not possible->divorce. Health and happiness is crucial.
If only more people treated marriage this way. It’s very important for fathers to be there for their daughters, and it’s just as important for suitors to gain the blessings from said fathers.
@@vonn2221that's called healing. To be able to give what you never had. To go for therapy, look within and beyond for the resource that's more than just what eyes can see
My father told my husband IF YOU DONT LOVE MY DAUGHTER ANYMORE PLS SEND HER BACK TO ME " ASAP" ..Now we are together almost 25 yrs.. My father passed away during COVID. .... We luv you very2 much daddy......
Can the groom also be given away like that to the woman ?? I think it will be cute if there can be a custom like that where the man’s hand is now given to the woman. A marriage where the woman in charge can also exist. Some people might like that , a woman being the head of the household. What’s wrong?
Can you read the room! This was beyond beautiful. Yes it can happen where the groom is given away but that's not the point of this video. Don't take away from the purity of this interaction by your selfish desire to pick a fight.
@@pokebuddies1 what? You picking a fight. By being so mean and rude ! If you think this is beyond beautiful so should giving away the groom. Is all what I said . Because no body looks into that point of view giving a man’s hand in a marriage . You wanted to be mean just because I have mentioned something outside of the norm ?, if people are celebrating this then the other way around should also looked into a positive light right ? Is all what I said. It was you who go don’t have a room to appreciate unique things apart from what is considered a norm to you . It’s you who are picking a fight by meaning rude to me.
@@pokebuddies1 actually in all honesty, this is disgusting ! If it seems beautiful to you cause you think it your culture and thing out of that is considered your culture is triggering and you feel upset about it . Remember its the same an outsider feels towards your! People who don’t belong to male led culture or associate themselves with it, this looks utter most disgusting! 🤮🤮 understand!
Omg, that made me cry. All fathers should be like this man with his daughter. If a lot more fathers were like him. The world would be a better place. This makes woman feel valuable.
@idonthaveaname7303 At their daughters wedding they 100% will. Women just act like they're being controlled when the dad just wants what's best for her so she never gets to this point.
@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj Peace be with you. If you believe in Jesus Christ, then you can have faith in what Jesus Christ said according to the scriptures: Matthew 23:9 King James Version 9 And call no man your father upon the earth: for one is your Father, which is in heaven. Romans 8:14-16 King James Version 14 For as many as are led by the Spirit of God, they are the sons of God. 15 For ye have not received the spirit of bondage again to fear; but ye have received the Spirit of adoption, whereby we cry, Abba, Father. 16 The Spirit itself beareth witness with our spirit, that we are the children of God: Matthew 11:28-30 King James Version 28 Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. 29 Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls. 30 For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.
What the dad said couldn’t be said enough. When dads have to give their little girls away they just hope that the man they gave their daughter away to will love her unconditionally and endlessly, but unfortunately, that’s not always the case. So yes, if he ever changes his mind, please, please just return her to the people who love her!
Simply beautiful. I Dont have daughter, have 2 sons. But my responsibility is that they know how to treat others with respect and I will never tolerate my young sons ever disrespecting their future wives.
Also be careful w that. My father was kind and his first wife became a monster. After their divorce she was awfully abusive to the children. My father found out after years. All the money he gave never went to the children and they experienced awful things. So yes self-respect matters too.
You need to know that respect is 2 sided and you want men to respect women but women need to respect men too. Just because of that thinking is why many men get hen pecked by their wives too. That happened to a lot of my uncles due to thinking like that.
@@priskruger314 Exactly and people are so one sided and always think that men must respect women but forget that respect is a 2 way street. She/he says she will not tolerate her sons disrespecting their wives but what if their wives disrespected and hurt her sons too? I don’t have kids yet but I have brothers and nephews and I see my sister in law’s disrespecting my brothers and sadly just because of thinking like that is why my brothers suffer and nephews may suffer in the future. People need to remember that respect is a 2 way street.
@@marypscreationsandmoreprog4316 Shouldn’t the same apply to a man too? I don’t have kids but I would say that to my nephews’ future wives. If they change their heart, please don’t hurt my nephews and give them back to me and my family.
It's like, all the beautiful comments people are leaving someone has to come in and just say something negative about it. Wish people would just be more positive and grateful and enjoy seeing things like this rather than being bitter or pointing out 'well not really for this' or 'i don't agree with that' Let's just enjoy a beautiful video and cry tears of joy with this really seemingly wonderful family!! The world needs more wholesomeness and Jesus.
Now THAT is giving your daughter away! Her father has me in bed crying. I would've all out sobbed, but I didn't want my niece hearing me & asking why I'm not taking my nap yet 😂😂 Bless this father/man of God. He is a true blessing & leader to his household, I can tell. It touched me that he prayed for them then & there & to see his level of emotion. And his request to bring her back if ever her groom changed his mind. Lord, have mercy, what a beautiful care, love, & headship! It reminds me how my grandparents told my mother she could always come back home if it just didn't work out. May the Lord bless what's His, & we know He will. May the knowledge & love the father has for Jesus be a beautiful inheritance in this family always. 🤍
That's what my older brother (who raised me with my mom in the absence of a deadbeat father) told my then husband (now ex-husband). He said "we didn't give her to you to be treated badly. If you can't treat her well, give her back, we can take care of her." I call him my dad. He never left me even all through my adult life. Now I'm remarried at age 44 and extremely happy. I still can't believe a husband could be like this!❤
@sph1226 You're so blessed to have your brother look after you, stand by you...bless him for being the father you didn't have. I wish you every happiness in your present marriage, may you always have love, faith and your loving brother. Be blessed 🙏
I am lucky to have many big brothers too but they are not that great to me. However, not too bad. People need to remember that marriage is a partnership and you both treat each other well regardless of gender.
@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj sometimes people are just too busy with their own things to handle...I wish you well though. For a marriage to work, there should be mutual respect, love, understanding...much like a relationship with a friend, there must be commitment.
@@ritakisil1508 Exactly and I can take care of myself as my brothers have their own lives to live too. They have their own kids and family too. It is never good to rely on anyone too much. I totally agree with you and have always said that for any marriage or relationship to work there has to be mutual respect, love, trust, etc. Yes, you must be good friends with them too. I have seen that with most successful couples. You are a lot of things to your partner as they are to you. Also, never take your partner for granted because once you do, everything goes downhill from there.
@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj wise words...I lost my husband to ill health, 1 month before our 36th anniversary. It was devastating but a relief to him because he was free from pain...he suffered from brain aneurysm for 4 years and I looked after him, singlehanded. I had my eldest son but he is married, my 2 younger kids had their own work and life too. True, have to be independent...the only thing I don't do anymore is drive...long story. I confess that in 36 years of marriage, disagreements, differing opinions, but we never let it drive us apart and commit ourselves to why we set up a home. It's been 5 years now without my husband, I just turned 65 last week...that was his age when he passed. You're on the right track, I see it in your writing...always stay strong, God bless🙏
Those last words hit really hard.... if one day u stop loving her, dont hurt her just bring her back to me..... dont go doing the scot patterson or chris watts moves in jesus name!!!
This is so heartfelt, and I love how he said if one day you stop loving my daughter, don't hurt her. Bring her back to me. Because I'm giving you my precious daughter. What a loving, caring, and passionate Father. ❤❤❤❤
Because these days it is so hard to trust another with the most precious things of your heart. 😢 How this father felt he needed to say that just shows how messed up and unsafe the world has become. "Don't hurt her bring her back to me..." Lord may you keep those words of that loving father forever ringing in that young man's heart. That even when the enemy tries him he will stand firmly established upon the righteousnes of God. For Your name' sake Lord Jesus bring their marriage to perfect peace. Amen🙏🏽🇿🇦
@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fjDon’t call yo Dad evil you were born because of him no matter how evil your Dad is, still he is your father. Judgement and punishment is for God at the end of the day this is just a temporary life we are just passing by . I’m not close with my parents either. Afterlife is the real permanent life and we have our eternal Heavenly Father that is our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ🙂 we have hope and Lord Jesus Christ is our hope.
That was wonderful. He brought God into their relationship! There is nothing deeper and stronger than a Father-Daughter relationship. I lost my Dad when I was 18 to a stroke. My friends and female cousins were always jealous how my Dad treated me. He taught my brothers and me how we should be treated, and how he expected us to treat our Mother.
Okay, this is supposed to be a joyous occasion, but I'm crying now😅. Your dad was right. I pray your love for each other waxes stronger as you both grow older together..
Shouldn't every parent ask that of the one that will be in charge of their child's well-being? Husband or wife, if you change your mind on the love you give and receive, return them to their family gently, don't hurt them.
Well then not unnecessarily hurt is a better request. It will hurt if he says, "This is not working out for me. I made a mistake." That's cool. But if he cheated, lied for years, had a side family, made her look and feel like she had something, but all she had was a joke of a man who claimed to be her husband? That would hurt much much more than simply being honest with his own feelings about what he's done with her, and letting her go on to be happy with someone else. Let her have a second chance without believing she's damaged goods.
I agree it should apply to the son or daughter. If the girl hurts her husband, he can come back to his family too. This of course will apply to the women too.
I pray he will never return her to you but seek God when he feels weak so that what God has put together no man separate in Jesus mighty name.May them both stay in obedience and love to our Lord Jesus.
That’s a true Father’s love. If ever you do not love her anymore - do not hurt her - give her back to me - my precious daughter. I wish I had had that kind of father’s love. You are a very lucky daughter to have such a loving, thoughtful father!
Only a father can make his little girl feel like a princess, no other can reach that standard... Dada I miss you so much.. always daddy’s little princess
Such a fortunate Bride to have found the profound love of yet another great man after her father’s first love of her..may they all stay so blessed. Two Men, one receiving her gratefully and another giving her away and willing to receive her back, anytime! Such a tear jerker, and the prayer!!..
I am weeping... 😢😢😢 God has given me a son, my only child. And, I think I know why... If it was i girl and I had to give her away one day like this father, my heart would give up... 😢😢😢
I love this dad especially when he says if one day you have a change of heart and you don't love my daughter anymore please don't hurt her just bring her back to me. I love this man. ❤❤❤
This are the WORDS OF GOD TO EVERY MAN From GOD ALMIGHTY...Rem when you receive a daughter in marriage,,God becomes your Father in law not just a Heavenly Father...DONT HURT EACH OTHER . Also to you ladies Dont hurt the Man ..Incase of change of mind return to parents your spouse😢😢❤❤
I am sobbing. When he said "if ever you have a change of heart and don't love her anymore, please don't hurt her, please just bring her back to me" I just lost it.😭
If One Day You Ever Have a Change of Heart That You Don’t Live My Daughter Anymore, Please Don’t Hurt Her, Just Bring Her Back and Give Her Back To Me 🥺😩😭😭😭
