Divorce is horrid. I was divorced at 25, to the a man that I loved with all of my heart. I swore never...NEVER again!! Life really does go on and life will be sweet again. I send you love and good vibes :0)
@@shanego685 sounds like u still have regret or unforgiveness in your heart, life does get better again with God, go and seek him, life does not end there
Using people is not good and people does it in many ways...... That guy really loved you and marriage is not something to play with ok..all of you blasting the man and don't think that wen needs to listen to their partners , worst if the other half is going through alot , maybe family issues or their family dosent like their partner but I wish that you both take this as a message and a Lesson...
@@toussaintburke1434 why do you keep assuming that she used him? It is clear that she loved him as well! We don't know what happened, some a unu chat too much and love assume, for God in heaven sakes, it is obvious that this woman is going through a lot, give her a break! Sounds like your marriage went sour bcz somebody used you
Got married at 25, Broke up the same year, divorced. The slander, the depression, the shame, all came at once and was unbearable, my mom was the one who helped me thru that. Fast forward to 10 years now, Happily remarried with a daughter looking back I can now say that divorce has absolutely no power over me, some days I didn't even remember I was married before now. Lol. In the process it's hard when you get on the other side you will look back and smile. Trust the process hun, May the Lord bless and keep you and cause his face to shine upon you. ❤
As women we face the most challenging path that foot can trod!!! the embarrassments, fear depression, and they try to buried us with shame. pity did they know that we burst forth like seed from the ground, throw us to the wolves we come back leading the pack...Blessedqueen one love❤
Anyone who is going through any form of separation, breakup, or divorce needs time for themselves mentally, emotionally, and emotionally. We had to understand your situation and give you time to heal a bit. Take your time and figure things out What's next. The optimistic and positive ones will be here for you and boo.
Until you are faced with it and / or go through it, there's not much to offer. Everyone has to travel on their chosen path when they get there. Otherwise, there is no judgment zone !
Hi Kim, I am crying just hearing you talk about God. He will take care of you. He says he will never leave you nor forsake you! You are on the right track. God will give you peace. Blessings always!
I understand your situation, I'm married to a older man in the usa going 3 years and I'm ready to call it quits, depression is real and i stay to myself here. No friends. No family. The only thing keep me going is watching my funny jamaicans on the internet or movies
Hugs mama, the best of us go through these things. What dont break you can only make you stronger trust and believe this too shall pass. Chin up n straighten your crown queen
Girl I'm happy to see you. I have missed you. Checking your ig and checking on you. You will be ok. My husband of 14 year walk out on me while I was going through breast cancer and I'm still here. We women are resilient. Love you
It is puzzling how a young, beautiful young lady saw it fit to pick up an old rooster who cannot even string a sentence together. I really hope she gets over this bump in the road.
Alecia, i have been there where i shut down, and shut out everyone. I'm now trying to build back my confidence and go through the motions. I dont trust the people around me to share anything with them
Man I am listening to your video and tears come to my eyes. Because I got through for my dream job last year and an injury caused me to not be able to be in that job right now. When I tell you that I completely shut down Mentally, Physically and Emotionally. I was so depressed, and angry having to sit at home with feeling like a Failure.I cried constantly and ask God why do I have to go through so much fight, when I just want a future for myself. I shut out my family and friends because I really do not want to talk about it due to how I feel inside. I have been trying to push myself to get back stronger physically, mentally and emotionally. I start to put more faith in God by praying to him, and listening worship songs to feel better. It is still a working process that I am going through even today. I commend you on your healing journey, only time will help with everything. Keep pushing and been your true self.. Big Up..
Girl just pull yourself together and move forward you are not the first nor you will be the last going through a break up slash divorce just be you and do you
GOD GOT YOU,YOUNG LADY...YOU SHALL OVERCOME...KEEP GOING AND KEEP FOCUSED...BETTER IS WAITING FOR YOU...SOMEDAY,YOU WILL LOOK BACK AND SMILE HAPPILY...ONE THING,YOU HAVE YOUTH ON YOUR SIDE...YOU SHALL RISE TRIUMPHANTLY🙏❤🙏
My dear you could have been my daughter, her is a word of advice. The love of God will never leave you where his grace can’t keep you. What ever you are going through it will pass. I pray that the God will keep you under his wings and love and continue to order your steps in his humble word.
Chile, you need to get a life outside of RU-vid. You cannot depend on RU-vid/RU-vidrs to make you happy. I know you were probably worried about her, but to go into depression is alarming. I'm glad you're feeling better though.
I've been praying for you so much! Just yesterday, I was saying out loud, "LORD, please let Kim be ok and let her post something tomorrow (today) for us to know she's ok." God answered my prayer fast!! Praise God, you're ok.
Amazing how we can get so involved in the lives of those online. My prayer was Lord, we just need to know she is okay, and God cares even for us who feels the emotions from her taking a step back. He was healing her and her entire Big up crew as well.
Dear Alicia, I am grateful to know that you have been working on you. The will of God never take you where his grace cannot keep you. You are truly big up. Strength of a black woman in another man's country.
I sat here and listened to the entire video and I must encourage you that even when all the is past and gone remember the one who has kept you in all of this , the one who hold your hand , who kept you in His arm and the one who gave you life. God Almighty. Include Him in all you doing
The Psalmist David was going through a lot. I'm glad you find comfort in the scriptures, continue to read and meditate on God's words. A lot of people don't understand that being happy is a choice, so I was glad when you say it's not how you fall is how you rise...that is so true. No one should stay in a sad space so long to where they started to feel comfortable because they're so overwhelmed with sadness it afect their ability to think so they can't receive encouragement. Thank God you're stronger then you know and here you are looking beautiful as always, it's like you went on a long vacation to a place where there's no internet just enjoying life...that's how refreshing you look. Welcome back ❤ I'm so proud of you. You never know how strong you are until it's time to be strong.
I literally was just thinking about you yesterday. I said damn I hope she don’t feel alone in this place cause I know she don’t have family here but I know she got friends. Honestly, I’m having a hard time in life too so I know what you talking about w the worship music I don’t want to cry so I try and avoid because I want to be strong but Im human and God is who we lean in when we weak he carries us through literally, we must remember who and where our strength comes from. Im glad to see you girl this is helping me FORREAL.
u are slimmer. whatever you are going through does not show on you. You look well Kim! Continue putting one foot in front of another, you will get through.
What is coming on the other side of this will be worth all you are experiencing now. In fact it will make this seem so insignificant. Ride through this storm, feel it, embrace it and learn from it and know that the path will clear and the sunshine with appear 🙏🏾
I haven't been on any social media for such a long time and to come and see what happened to one of my fav couples on youtube made me sad. I am from Trinidad and Tobago and it feels good to see Caribbean people making it out there and to now see that you guys aren't together again, my heart breaks. Much love going out to you and pray for God's peace and love overflows you. Blessings!
Alicia, you must get a really good lawyer to handle all your divorce and immigration issues brought on by this divorce. Make sure you also do your own research about the divorce laws in Florida so that you can prepare for everything coming. Make sure you tell your lawyer everything so they can help you to the max. Also make yourself in the know on the federal immigration laws too. Keep working but be mindful of everything you say on your channel while you are going through this awful time. You really need a family member to be there with you as you are going through this trying time. See if your mom or your brother can come up to support you with their love in person. Let us know if there is any help you need. Your fans will do whatever we can do to help you. Stay prayed up and keep working.
Sis just say it break up divorce you are not the first and you are not the last. Sis put his first and don’t regret your life I. The internet it’s business now your way of life. Now stand tall move on and God will send you the right man for you just be happy you didn’t bring a child into this. The right man is there for you.
Even in our darkest moments, there is hope for a brighter tomorrow. Your experience serves as a beacon of light for anyone going through similar struggles, showing that healing is possible and that joy can be found on the other side of pain. Wishing you continued blessings, love, and joy in your journey ahead# Faith over Fear
I'm sorry to hear that I'm a Jamaican man here in Canada I was married to the woman I love, but it didn't work after 16 years because ppl changed over a while you can't do anything about it, but please becarefull make sure everything is safe please don't trust nobody nowadays....
My dear, I feel your pain. It's ok to take some time to build up your mental health because without it you can't navigate through complexity of each day. I pray your strength. God is able, continue to draw closer to Him who is our parakletos!
I am glad to see you back and I wonder what had happened to you. I was critical of your marriage but some things you just have to find out on your own you are a young beautiful woman with your whole life ahead of you and that situation you were in just wasn't it, you deserve better, so I am glad you came to some realization and doing better now.
Welcome back Kim, it’s so nice seeing you again. I was so concerned about your wellbeing. Stay strong and God keep you safe always. Keep the faith. Blessings.
God promise he will never leave you nor forsake u Good bounce back sweetheart. You can only go up from here because you hit rock bottom. Keep thinking positive
Alicia, I used to watch your videos while I'd work out in the mornings. I was going through a LOT at the time. Your videos kept me going. So positive and such fresh, relatable vibes. I'm glad to see you're back. Take your time on your healing journey and let the tears flow. It's good and helps to release pain and trauma. They can also be for good times, gratitude or positive overwhelm. I now let my tears flow and I'm not ashamed or "weak" for doing that. Neither are you. Thank you for sharing with us, and keep your head up. God is great. Continued prayers and support to you in this new transition.
Welcome back beautiful lady. Yes we need people to help us through our difficult times. I have been going through trauma from my breakup since 2022 and the journey is not easy.
WONDERFULLY ARTICULATED,LADY KIM...ENOUGH SAID,AND I FULLY UNDERSTAND YOU STATED...WHO KNOWS ,KNOWS WHAT YOUR POINT AND ISSUE IS...STAY BLESSED ,STAY CALM AND CONTINUE READING YOUR BIBLE❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Sooo glad to see you. We still love and support you fully. Our prayers are for your continued prosperity and strength. Go Kim go. You are a survivor. 🎉🎉🎉🎉❤
I do understand what you are going through, I was married at 25 and divorced at 29. I felt like a failure but I had to do what was best for me. You can’t listen to people, just depend on God to get you throughout the rough times and I have prove God more than once that he will always be there. Just trust him and depend on him for everything . I wish you all the best ❤️🙏🏽
If I get through my divorce you will get through it. Believe the best decision I have ever made was leaving this demon. Now I am happily married and just know why healthy love looks and feel like
