This Dating Show Got So Awkward They Stopped Talking 

All of them play a game of smash and the winner chooses whether the other person stays or leaves

Actually a good idea

yeah this but ludwig is the button

A very cringe production

Buttonboxing event that you have to box and date xD

The button is big red content pill. 🤣

Literally 😭 “Kayla is a fat fuck but can’t cook” 😭😭😭

Ong

they was gon win

It finally got past its horn phase and is now just jealous.

It sounded fine until he said "until someone tries to chastise you" lowkey sounded a lil off but hes doing his New Hampshire best😂

I read this comment first and was expecting a faux racist spiel, but hey, not bad Lud

@@sethg2179 I mean, I still don’t see what’s wrong with that. Someone did chastise him by calling him out for his lack of knowledge. That was like the only good “I’m not racist” argument that I think I’ve ever heard.

plus she also asked the question herself not being sure so fair enough him not having thought about it 😭

@@starbot9828 a key point of good "I'm not racist" arguments are that they never include the phrase "I'm not racist" lmao

Who Tf are we Akinator???

@@comguzzlers99 fr 💀

@@comguzzlers99 what

Which one?

@@comguzzlers99lmfaooo 🤣

aiden lesbian confirmed

I'm a bisexual and I feel like it's more just queer culture in general

Woah woah woah Hey hey hey 🛑

​@@elitezerp2262 im not bi but mspec and same

​@@haux522 ?

Finding a date on the button sounds like a nightmare.

Yea, just not from the button. God, such awful convo starters man. I cringed so bad the other girls r probably embarrassed af

She needs to lose a tonne of weight first though

@@imcontemptwithlife4155 mm noh I think she’s on the healthy side still, and ngl mate ur not her mom or friend and neither will u date her sooo ur opinion (and mine for that matter) is irrelevant ngl

@ImContemptWithLife it’s not your place to say that. It doesn’t matter what her body looks like wtf. What she looks like has nothing to do with anything. Stop talking lmao

Like a drug addict

he secretly love the button videos 😂

He didn't say it this time, he says he wants a guys only version now! He is getting more and more shameless!

One day it will be

(this is coming from a straight 21yo guy with just a few serious romantic experiences) how does that even works? like, dont u guys find it wierd/sad that someone that you once tought to be the love of ur life is now banging someone else? even if you are over the relationship and wish all the best to the other person, wouldnt it still be wierd to be close to them? are the new partners usually ok with that too? you just dont get jealous?

@@gdxnsk As a straight man, I was wondering the same thing.

@@gdxnsk If you ever had an ex which broke it off with you in good terms. I don’t think there is any reason to not still be friends.

@@gdxnsk It’s not a culture thing it’s more toxic relationship thing but it’s different for everyone. Girls tend to be nicer and more forward with their feelings than guys though so if they say they’re just friends and no feelings then they mean it but if a straight guy is involved then there’s likely still feelings and availability there. I have seen lesbian couples break up though and live together after and it turn super abusive super quickly. Could’ve been the alcohol involved or cause one kept bringing back a new girl everyday from the gay bar but the other pulled a knife on her one day cause she was jealous and had enough. One restraining order later tho and a civil court case over who owned the dog and it was done and over.

@@ogheros5541 you had it: availability. That's the reason why exes live together and the reason why your friend tried to kill her ex (pulling a knive is a death threat). Women tend to be more hypocrites and will hide stuff if they think they will gain something by doing it and you'll see it in every single pair of female friends how they will talk shit about other mutual friends... men don't tend to be like that so there's incompatibility.

Pretty good idea, balances some mechanics 🤔

YESSSSS GOOD IDEA

But after the first round of the switch being neutral it will always be pointing in one direction, so you always know exactly who will be voted out. I personally think that the presser leaves is better because both players can still get voted out, but there's no selfish "let me just see what else there is" vibe

@@martijnp half the fun is the ruthlessness though. We just don't wanna see same person thinking they get to go through the whole cast.

@@HamaP you can't with the presser leaving though? With your solution it'll always just be back and forth

That was actually a great statement 10:11

Tru

Goatwig

Truest thing that Lud's ever said

Nah vodka straight from the bottle is the real deal

water bro?????

Ah yes, the famous vodka + water special drink, one of my favourite 💀

yeah i LOVE diluted vodka...

I’m a lesbian too and I agree so muuuch

YESSSS

no one cares you aren't special random

Hey, God loves you all and Jesus died for you to be free from sin and death and to be made whole in Him. I was once bisexual and transgender for 5 years until God rescued me, healed me from depression, suicidal thoughts, and drugs and ive never been more free, full, and at peace than with Him. Turn to God because He loves you more than anyone else!! ❤️🔥🔥

I don't believe you were trans. Being transgender is a feeling inside your gut. If you trans for 5 YEARS and then went back to being cis what was the point of being trans? Also how do you stop being bisexual???

Literal cash cows

I like it

he needs to make the money back for the chess-boxing event! and I’m here for the pettiness of the button

@@AndrewH1994 not just that, but also to fund future events

cool pfp

I doubt they care that much about shilling out 100 bucks for dinner than they do for the entertainment aspect

I mean, they're basically best friends content wise so yea

@gsl Thanks for the heads-up! I'll check it out.

this speech is so quotable

EATING A BURGER WITH NO HONEY MUSTARD

​@@Lettuceisawesome I can't take it anymoree

Tf

@Weirdo4Life yer, feeling like there is a whole backstory or vid clip here, but I'm as lost as you.

@@choppy3148 oh my goodness

All good except the last one /j

For real, the rant I didn’t know I needed to hear

Based af

Somebody clip that

true. Im African we do blush but it’s hard to see, depends on how dark the person is. Im lightskin so sometimes ppl can see sometimes not

"what do you want from me?!"

Lmao same

Same! The urge to click it even though I like a person is strong just to get it to shut up so I can think

Why doesn't it work in heterosexual relationships tho?

@@itsdalion6612 Personally, I think it's because of how differently men and women are raised, and though I wish that they could stay friends.. I don't think it'll be ever possible. It starts off with boys getting teased for being friends with a girl, and through the years that can turn into (and does a ton) "you're a woman, I will only befriend you because I want to date you." (this is why so many women says they wish to be friends with men the way men are friends with each other). So sometimes, in very rare instances they can be friends after a breakup even if they did actually love each other, but usually the case for them being friends is because they never really loved each other. My sister stayed friend's with her first ex but it's because they both realized that they don't have romantic feelings for each other. I also think it's because straight men don't trust other men and straight women don't trust other women (don't really know what's the reason besides cheating) Edit: To add onto my sister's part. I am pretty sure they are like really cool best friends now, and I think that because of the way they were both raised (being friends with the opposite gender = crushing/dating) they thought that they should date, but just turned out that they're friends. I should ask her about this, lol

@Real_Human most men only stay friends with women if they still have feelings and hoping for another chance- its not %100 but thats what men claim, and some women are the same way. I think a reason for it is straight men don't tend to let go of attraction and tend to value something more than friends over being just good friends. I am still friends with an ex and it works fine, we have mutual respect and get along well and no real reason to stop being friends, unless one of us dated someone and that person had an issue. Another reason can be like "i dont want to date someone whos friends with their ex, so out of respect im not gonna be friends with an ex"

That was really cringy also personally.... It feel like dating things to find friends. No tension , nothing.

they didn't even hold eye contact or anything. all of them besides the last girl on the right seemed shy af or as if they weren't even sure if they are actually lesbian

mood

@@arko.0.1. at least one of them on the left looked like she was avoiding eye contact precisely because the flirty conversation gave her that nervous excitement. They definitely all seemed sure they were lesbians lol idk what you expected. I feel like lesbians being a little shy with women they find attractive is pretty normal if anything

@@arko.0.1. that's wild that you said that and even thought Of that

Either you two are hoping to reignite your relationship or jealously is going to be a rude awakening for one of you... Update us 6 months after you move in.

Get that roommate, split those bills 🙏

dem bills my boi 🙏

@@bradgarrett7159 Brad the cishet here to tell us how relationships between women work lmao. Another more likely possibility is they're best friends like she said and that's all it is?

@@V1brationCanine Thought it was a dude, and it doesn't matter how you spin it, living with an ex is never going to be "just friends" without feelings or jealously.

Welp you're gay now

@gsl Just a hint to show the magnitude of his pronounciation. 😉

button is such a weird word to pronounce though. if you fully enunciate and say "button" it sounds like you've just learned english or like you're trying too hard to be formal, but saying "bu'on" also leads to people thinking you pronounced it weird. there is no good way to say button.

It’s okay to come out as British, it’s 2023

@@nocheapdopamine725 oh, you mean BRIH-ISH

"only between the straight people" on this show ;) I would take a guess that the reason for this is a mix between communication/emotional intelligence gaps and the 'in-group/out-group bias'.

@@MidnightMeka hi, hello. What’s the ‘in group - out group bias’? Never heard that term, and im genuinely curious why straight couples and flirting between straight people seems so different, especially on this show. I put it mostly on the fact that without the “standard” genders and expectations, you’re more free to do whatever? But I’m still baffled at how different this edition of the button was. Also better, it was miles better

@@Sebisajiminstan I guess that they mean that both men and women are often told that the other thinks in a different way and thus no real understanding is created and you get more misunderstanding and less sincerity.

@@lordnatu like the episode that started with a war over a guy who loves marvel too much by the guys side making statements about how “women think” or whatever.

Me 2

@@ryanfairhurst5567 me 3

@@k5ko_3alqueda66 Me 4

@@duelmasteryuya1205 Me 5

Lmao. Yes we were just better off as friends and have been only friends for 5 years

Hey, God loves you all and Jesus died for you to be free from sin and death and to be made whole in Him. I was once bisexual and transgender for 5 years until God rescued me, healed me from depression, suicidal thoughts, and drugs and ive never been more free, full, and at peace than with Him. Turn to God because He loves you more than anyone else!! ❤️🔥🔥

Lesbians are rad, good things will happen to you (ominous)

@@lamblyyIt sounds like they are happy who they are. I’m happy religion has helped your mental state, but leave them alone - you chatting about a dying religion in a youtube comment section probably won’t change anyone’s lives.

"what do you WANT from me"

‘Objectively correct opinion’ simp

@@parafraceren literally the first comment I've made on any of Lud's videos, specifically because of how much I liked this singular statement, and now I'm a simp for him. Beautiful logic, exactly what to expect from some random on youtube

@@Psikiks Perhaps you're just easily impressed then

I luv u, stay strong, mate

@@christopher5784 thank you gamer. I appreciate it more than you know

go on the button when you are healthy

@@eamonbrannigan genius lol thank you for the laugh

Skill issue

This is funny because if you start fighting them because you dont want to date them you can take a fat L and lose to them in melee and be swapped out

HELP😂😂

That actually changes everything, lol.

I haven’t heard that sound in so long LOL, it really does tho

It's Lesbian Lee Mulligan

nah

@@robertfernandez3746 it is weird they all weirdos

its common between queer people, im still close friends with most of my exes, zero feels zero nothing just good vibes

It’s literally not a big deal, and it’s very common... it says more about *you* if you have a problem with them just being friends with someone they clearly get along with considering they dated for a reason at one point.

What sorta red flags? It's quite common for queer people to still be friends with their exes (unless they are legitimately shitty), I've seen it a lot more so in saphic communities women are friends with their exes all the time it's not a big deal.

ngl queer dating standards are just so much healthier??? like there are some weird toxic things in every community ofc and the queer community has some but like the way people handle relationships and feelings is so much better (generally) than the straight tropes of "never trust your partner" "cant stay friends after a breakup" "force the relationship to keep going until you both explode because you cant acknowledge when a relationship needs to end on a healthy note". thank u to my past friend groups for giving me the perspectives hollywood and straight media hates to bring up