🙏👌😍I’m so sorry but I’m so tired of living… (I’m Dutch 🇳🇱and am surrounded by people with compulsive desires) That’s why I listen to your message and try to understand the reason for their compulsive desires AND behavior)
I will be happy to speak with you if you wish... 100% scripturally based. I get it. DO NOT GIVE UP... you will never then know how God might use your sufferring and I will NOT compare... to make you 'feel better' but know... YOUR SUFFERING is 'my' suffering, and I mean that in the kindest most appropriate love that can be shared, between man and woman, man to man, or even Jew to Gentile, believer or not. Love is not something that has requirements - it has a requirement... give it to any who need it. I love you. ❤
God designed sin (self inflicted neglect) to be 'easy' - as this can teach also. Some 'follow' a path of wisdom, some 'learn' wisdom. Fear is the 'beginning' of BOTH paths, this is why we were given 'skin'... as the law, the bone, cannot be broken, and if sin is made 'available' as an option, pain is needed as a throttle to stop us from having too much fun. If these people are in your circle, and friends, just be there when they crash, it will show your heart.
Hello Rabbi Jacobson from New Zealand.. I'd just like to say thank you so much for your teachings.. I really try to us your words of wisdom you shear with us all world around the world in my day to day living.. and things are getting so much better in my life now.. when I first commented on your site being homeless to now having a small home and a job.. I am and always will be Deeply indebted to you ❤ Diane New Zealand Maori Cheiftoness's
Rabbi how can I ever repay the unconditional gifts you've given me. I give you my word that I will continue to learn so I to can be the positive influence this world so desperately need. I've tried with adults and I'm thinking I'll leave them to you. Above my pay grade. Lol I think with my animated personality I now know exactly what to do. Things seem to work out much easier when we have a Teacher. Bless you Love you
Thank you Rabbi for tackling difficult but deeply important and hidden human behavior. Self destruction reminds me of a hamster on a wheel, on autopilot , living with little long term direction as days pass, then weeks and soon years without even understanding how we got here. Thanks for your willingness to produce growth.
What if our impulse is to give love and be totally selfless at the expense of my own well-being? It seems virtuous to me but it also seems to result in being abused and taken for granted on a consistent basis. I've been trying to untangle my own mind and have come to realize through various sources that I am what attachment theorists call a Fearful Avoidant. The going advice to 'healing' this seems to be to take inventory of how i destroy myself for other people's benefit, and to suppress my impulse to reach out, give and connect if I ever hope to form a lasting meaningful bond with anyone outside of myself. This makes no sense to me but I cant argue with the results that my impulse for love and connection seem to produce. Does this mean I have to suppress any desire for love of any kind if I ever hope to have it reciprocated? I'm asking this from experience but also on behalf of the many others who are struggling with this issue.
prelepe besede..samo to vam moram na srce dati,, jaz sem se pocasi transformirala..in vse je bilo del transformacije..drugace ni moralo biti..ampak naredila sem velik korak..in to je ZACETEK,,
I destroyed my marriage before I finally reached this point, it was a matter of mere weeks, talking about hitting rock bottom. Be mindful of the people around you, always!
