This is Actually what it means to be a Man 

watching this video made me cry. im a girl trying to understand what healthy masculinity meant (since theres a plethora amount of examples in media that showed what toxic masculinity looked like) and realized that we have almost no role model of a healthy masculine male in media form. thats why its so hard to understand and even visualize and think about because we dont have much of anything modeling that concept for us.

19 here, dad died 5 years ago. Mother raised me in very feminine way, now im battling to find my masculine corr and purpose. Surely this will help.❤

As weird as it sounds, I don't want to "be a man," I just wanna be me.

I am an autistic man in his mid twenties and I have often wondered if I will ever be strong enough or good enough for anything. I have often struggled with things others find easy, especially sports and social situations, but I always do my best to work hard when others depend on me. I am willing to stand up for myself and those I care about and sacrifice any luxury or comfort if it means helping someone I love. I hope that compensates for my shortcomings but even if it doesn’t I will never stop trying.

I NEVER comment on videos, BUT this one right here, came to me at a critical moment in my life. Divine Timing

Man. that was something. the fluency in which you speak, the words you describe things with, its different. you're meant for this. I respect your work. until we meet again, soldier.

Thank you for your time & attention. A like/subscribe really helps the channel. No pressure though ;). You can find the full video notes here: newelofknowledge.ghost.io/

Thank you for this message, it was truly moving. I’m 18 years old and have started taking things a bit more serious and always wondered what it ACTUALLY means to be a man, and so far i’d say you encapsulated the answer to that question within this video perfectly. This video is great and you are very well spoken, you’re bound to make it on here

Absolutely god tier video. The fact you left such an impression on so many people without any music in the background is even more impressive.

This is exactly what I needed to here as I currently battle my own battles in my marriage. This video is a foundation of what it truly means to be a man!

I am 17 and I faced my first rejection after 6 months of talking stage I can say that this video helped me know what it takes to be a man and how lucky am I being a man to provide care and protect thanks a lot.

This video is so informative. I am an 18 year old young man and this is exactly what I needed. I will watch this video each and everyday until I become the man described here. Thank you Newel of Knowledge.❤️❤️🙏🏾

The best video I've ever seen about this topic. Thank you from the depth of my soul for this.

I really love your videos. I’m 36 and becoming the man I think I should be has been a lifelong struggle. I’m still not there but I’m thankful that I found your channel. Good shit man.

17, wondering how I can be like the men I read about in legends. This video has helped me get a little closer. Thank you.

Your living the dream brother, keep this work up!

Sir, you are correct. From the bottom of my heart, thank you. I am astounded by just how deeply what you said has resonated in me.

Beautifully written my friend

Dude. This was a gem. Truly. Thank you.

Wow! Thank you brother. I really did need that reminder.

i messed up and now i deeply regret ever starting on the thing i did now for months ive been feeling out of touch with reality and depressed.since i started going to my therapist my mental health became a bit better each time but the emptiness still remains i just want to be better and i try to be each day and it works but my mental keeps dragging me down. im at a point where i wish i could do some of this life over bc i dont know what the future will hold for me but i know i cant.... i just want to feel how i felt as a kid before the horrible stuff that i did to people and that happened to me so instead of that i want to help people because i have a feeling that i owe something to the world and i do so I hope that I can when the time comes and I just can live. thank you for this video it means a lot to me

Bro i love you for that, you compact everything in very precise words 3:38 give me goosebumps, i hope everyone got this view now. And i now feel more accompanied in this jorney knowing that people like u exist

Great video, keep up the good message

oh MAN what a solid video, learnt some nice concepts from this

A man MUST become burdened by the things around him. The loss of his parents, especially his dad, will only help to add tremendous burden on his life. And the life of his new family with the woman he must love and protect. Without a family, without kids, a man has yet to feel the burden of providing and caring for the lives of not only just himself and his lover. And through stress, through difficulty, and burden will a boy become a man. A real man takes the full burden of providing which has only gotten harder in this economic environment we find ourselves in, but it can be achieved if put through enough hardship, struggle, and growth. And unto Adam he said, Because thou hast hearkened unto the voice of thy wife, and hast eaten of the tree, of which I commanded thee, saying, Thou shalt not eat of it: cursed is the ground for thy sake; in sorrow shalt thou eat of it all the days of thy life;" Understand that we must go through our entire lives burdened and thus incredibly stressed. This is the law of nature that GOD intended. Welcome it and grow from it.

Beautifully explained Masculinity and the reason to be theist, The Creator, The Giver, The Destroyer... and a moral man, can do all these function of God..!! beautifully put..!!

I am glad that i found u brother, huge respect!

What a thoughtful video. Will share with others.

i didn't have a father and my mother was doing her best but she couldn't be both mother and father to me, although im grateful for having her, but im glad i found the good side and the correct use of media, thank you, i really needed this, u might've changed my life in its entirety

Man, this is truly inspiring, I'm your new sub. ❤

Might be the greatest video I have ever seen in my life.

Thank you bro.

crazy good video bro keep it up

This was an awesome video mate, be proud of yourself for this! Great work mate. Inspiring.

Appreciate you bud. Carry on!

Excellent description and very eye opening! I was wondering if there are any books you’d recommend me to pick up on topics such as the “Zanshin/ Mushin/ Fudoshin” ideology and also books where you got your own inspiration from? Nonetheless great content - definitely checking out the rest of your videos!

poetic and charming love this video incredibly vulnerable and honest .

i sure know what my passage rite its. ive been through a lot in the last years, but for some reason i crave for a specific moment and place in the world that i know its harsh to conquer, but when i do, i know it will be it.

Great video, as always! What movie are the clips with the kind of Nordic-looking knight guy from?

It’s telling of our culture when we need a video like this, but the effort is justified.

Great video!

I was amazed when I heard that because that's exactly what I'm doing without knowing it

I really hope you never stop what you're doing..stay blessed ❤

Can't believe you got Tom Hardy for the final shot 🤣 Great video, very thought-provoking!

This was moving, thank you.

Wow, this was based. Little of what you said was _completely new_ to me, but to hear it all in one place so succinctly and clearly was like puzzle pieces falling into place. Where did you pull your ideas from? I'd love to read the book(s) that inspired you. If you told me it was all off the dome, I wouldn't believe you at first, but if convinced would be heavily impressed.

Thank you so much

started great fckd it up after "what it means to be a man" part

Great video as per usual!

amazing video!

Regarding number 3, can you please explain what would someone who does not believe in theism, (such as a buddhist) , face the tough path when all hope seems to be lost? Thank you.

This video is really good, man. You earned a sub! Lucky you, you had your rite of passage as a backpacker--I had my rite of passage in an ICU bed!

Just found your channel, and watched 3 videos. I absolutely love your work my friend. You are very talented. As a young man battling against myself most of my life, having an abusive childhood, I too, thought, maybe if I lose my virginity, or do this or that, I will finally be a man. The problem was for so long I wanted to be a man, but having no idea what I man is. I would watch TV shows and movies, and want to be the characters so badly. But, things are going to change, I will no longer have this thought of being a man, I will become it, and do whatever it takes. I found Jesus last August, but would still sin every day. My relationship with him has grown within the last 2 weeks, and I actually have a very strong desire now to stop sinning, I know I may trip and fall from time to time, but I will try my absolute best. No idea if you'll see this comment, but, thank you. God bless you brother 🙏🏻.

This is something I have struggled with, maybe it is just my nature maybe some part of it is my upbringing I am making a conscious effort to add more fun to my life to counteract the monotony of software development

Love it!

3:48 my man is a man of culture too

This. Is. Brilliant.

Man, I wish I had a friend like you

Perfect. Thank you for this. Shirt but very efficient video. Almost everything in one place. Love it. Need tocsee more videos on your channel. I am called to help kids in teenagers to become better men and women (my wife is helping with girls and women). This summer we have long like through slovenian alps. Two men and four 14-16 years old teenagers. It will be a great advanture. I cam here to find some ideas and man God send me to right place.

Bro I wrote down EVERY WORD you said so I can reflect and embody these qualities as I grow and progress into my future of changing history for the better. Can you give me recommendations of shows, movies, books and actrs of GREAT men. The misspell is on purpose to have a lil fun with you, sorry I myself can recommend a show called The Mentalist. The main character has the highest charisma I've ever witnessed, an unparalleled genius in reading people and their actions. The antagonist is JUST as good in terms of skill. He appears a few times in the show for you to keep your eyes peeled. But the rest of the categories of the show are all 8 or 9/10. My kind mom just shared delicious vanilla pastry with me, this day is beautiful edit: If you're curious about my age, just ask me, I'm young so anyone reading this can do this. In fact i'll pray for you

0:38 Wow I felt that guys pain straight through the screen

could a movie expert pls tell me the movie titles of all these clips?

Well put young man.

Inspiring, that is the least I can say.

According to this video I'm more of a man than i thought, but I must get some things straightened out. I'll come back to this video every day and add a new comment to track my progress. Goodbye for now. I did not come back to this video but since the comment action has been taken mentally. I have been meditating every day and processing my values

thx man

This video deserves more views. I mean it.

those who dont give up are men , those who are not loved are men , those who provide are men, those who fight are men.

For Frodo

This sounds like a recipe for manliness. Recipes are for the ones who still don't know that their options are wide open. Why fret ceaselessly about masculinity when you have the option of simply being _humane?_

Doesn't this set of values also apply to women or basically to anyone regardless of gender?

Become G.O.D. Generator, Operator, Destroyer.

Magnificent 🍷...

This video is fucking brilliant. Well said cuz 💚

Where can I find this "essay" in writing?

Great hypothesis

MY MAN 👑

Im 31 and I feel like an overgrown boy for a lot of reasons. I was surprised (and a bit disheartened) that you are only 23.

3k views 16k likes how....nice video bte

I’m 26 but I don’t feel my age .. is it something wrong with me.. I’m not that masculine guy I’m just a ordinary person

I'm sorry i don't wanna sound rude. But at first i thought the god in this was just a metaphor for mens purpose but then i watched it again and again. Are you implying that in order to be the best man you can be you need to believe in god ? Don't get me wrong i love theology and i used to be religious my self but i don't believe that believe in god is necessarily needed in order to be a good man.

There’s 1 man in history that embodied all these traits and even more. The prophet Muhammed pbuh. You can find his narrations (referred to as the Hadiths ) which serve as the ultimate example for us in our journey to becoming a Man.

When you talk about God, what do you mean?

Bro had that only guy working in a hostel full of hot European women rizz

My brother.

You lost me at “god”. Religion is not what makes a man. I am humbled and guided through my own beliefs, and I offer myself to the world because I believe in life, kindness and love. One does not have to follow god in order to guide him, he simply has to stay humble and believe in his own book of values. Religion teaches great values, such as humility, compassion and courage, I agree, but it is not a requirement to becoming a man.

Ah i love being a man

What's a purpose, what's my purpose, that's what this generation struggle to answer

Step one becoming a man is probably watching the movie Apocalypto, of which there were a few clips in this video.

Don't let the world tell what a man is the world is ass backwards get all the girls all the money no the truth is to be a man is🧐 to be authentic to self duty commitment to ur wife I like to look into the Mahabharata to understanding the dharma and karma atman 😮it's to much to say I just say be u authentic commitment to something like stoicism zen

Buy a better mike, beginning was boring, the middle part was gold, work on that.

Where can you go and talk to other masculine man about females is hard to find

All these videos about "how to be man, etc.." that internet is full of nowadays, are bullshit, praying on young men's ignorance......There's no such thing such as a rule on "how to be a man".... Just, be yourself, stand your ground and don't let anyone tell you what's your worth, especially a woman......you owe nothing to noone, but to yourself.....

I have no friends, no family or god. I guess I'm not a man, right? 🤦‍♂

Kid, you are 23 y.o. growing up in the 21st century in a western country.......How many hardships have you faced? Because a man's character is build on hardships, and you grew up with youtube and fb, in front of a cellphone........watching comic superhero movies and Netflix.......All these role models you have from the past are delusional, knights and kings, are fake, you know that right? I don't think you are in any position to dictate anyone "how to be a man"......

Great Content. I appreciate it very much. I unfortunately was brainwashed by Andrew Tate for a time with many of his radical beliefs and statements. Luckily God ✝️ has opened my eyes and brought me back to the truth. I am happier now and more productive. Being a Man is doing the things you don’t want to do but doing them because you know it’s right and you know it will benefit you and the people around you.

This is a very precocious 23 year old.🧐

What it means to be a man; brought to you by examples from fantasy and Jordan Peterson.

Important that you had to mention God. Without a relationship with God, life is empty...

Read the bible Jesus was the man