Its only body positivity, when it applies to women, when its applied to men, its just body shaming....endlessly. This is why i just never.....take them seriously, cause they are nothing, but a pathetic joke that fell flat.
It’s so funny how women will sit here and say Lizzo is a 10 and men shouldn’t care so much about looks but then when asked about this guy, they immediately comment on his weight. How utterly hypocritical.
That's it 💯! These women don't even see the fact that the way this guy is speaking is exactly how many women today speak about themselves. When it is him, they have all sorts of critique but if it were a woman saying this, it is totally understandable then and they would all "girl rally" behind her and call her a queen and give her all the motivation to have her standards and "know her worth". Sad they could not recognize that, but that would require some logical thinking
The immediate reaction from him being a man while saying this causing them to laugh and poke fun. If he was a girl they would just sit there going "yus queen" all day. They keep asking why more men are starting to hate women and just really don't see it.
Man, everything that guy in the video said was spot on but the way he looks made him impossible to take seriously. This is how much power looks have over everything you say and do.
@@rickg7838 I mean, his message is to people he's already on a date with. If you're not going to take someone seriously for being overweight, you're not even going to agree to a date to begin with. He's talking to people who've already agreed to a date--ie, to people who don't see his weight as a dealbreaker. In that context I don't see any issue asking for reciprocity.
@@Dark0blivion He can certainly ask for it. But he deserves rejection. What kind of bald-faced do you have to be to get into regular convos with women and think "It's ok, she's got honor and respect! She won't treat me with contempt even though I approach them for sexual attention looking as I do. Oink!" It's not that it SHOULD happen. It's that it COULD happen. And why could it happen? There's the rub. Him asking for "reciprocity" while being a chunk is a thing they'll use as justification to throw a wrench in the whole thing about people trying to have authenticity in relationships. I wouldn't be surprised if someone put him up to this.
@@GlutenSensitivityReaderwhat they deserve is to just be happy some dude is gonna pay for the date,maybe pay their phone bill and to shut up and spread their legs. Lol
Yes, it would be. Because that kind of guy doesn't have the confidence, insight and intuition it takes to be alright with oneself let alone be a success. Women would be going up to him like "I'll like your posts for a month if you give me all your money, piggy!" *wink wink*
@@GreatWhite7 How am I SIMPING by telling females that they can look just as delusional to guys as he did to them? And I know he was talking about respect, I agree with him. But just to make it clear, the females in the room made all kind of faces listening to him. He sounded delusional to them...and I'm telling them THEY LOOK DELUSIONAL TO ME SOMETIMES WITH THEIR ENTITILED PRATTLE. Now how is that SIMPING? Did you carefully read my comment? If you didn't understand it, that's cool, maybe I wasn't too clear, but now you know.
The point would have been driven more by a side by side with an equally fat woman, but every one feels sorry for the woman while still feeling disgust for the man.
Let me add my two cents. I accept that most people will have a visceral reaction, but actually if you listen to what he's asking for, it's not looks, or money, or status or anything other that a reciprocation of interest. All he wants, is for someone to show some level of interest in him back. That's all, and not even the same level of interest, just some interest. Frankly it doesn't matter what you look like, anyone should have the self-respect as a human being to want the same. If he was saying he has a list of metrics that he needs for someone to date him that he does not conform to, I would agree that is an unrealistic expectation. But he's not, he just wants to feel like his date wants to be there, and is offering at least a little reciprocity of interest.
Lol the bar is in hell? Because a guy making money, being fit, having game, and showing up on your radar is easy? It's nuts she thinks that's a reasonable statement
Any woman who says a "ladies bar is low to go on a second date" is being dishonest. Women will evaluate a males prospects during the first conversation, much less the first date. If they think you are attractive you are likely to get a first date. It then becomes how close you come to their expectations of "deserved treatment" while with you on that date that determines if there will be any further contact and at what level.
Kudos to the weight loss! I put on 100lbs of Dad Fat and Beer Gut in my 20s-30s. Started jogging at 38, then the gym at 45 and lost 110# then put on 20# extra muscle. Now I’m a 205# Giga Chad! U Can Do It!
You guys talk many times about 'red flags' or 'indicators of interests' so yes I do care or I take mental notes if the person on a date asks questions or lack there off. As a guy I do tend to ask the questions and yes its better to let her speak more, but if we talk about genuine desire of interest I assume she wants to get to know me too. Also in my opinion one of the other signs i'm looking at or after the date is was she grateful, yes women assume we pay but I also look for indications of appreciativeness, no not for validation only but also indication of good upbringing. Then again i'm not the type that would walk away like that but sit through , drink a few glasses, enjoy the time and then at good amount of time i'd go home
6:05 ... the typical feminist beach walking around out there. ego, boss-babe, laughs at guys, disregards them completely; but hey, she lost her weight. she hired a professional body trainer then at 7:45 ... she goes " i didn't want to offend 'noone' " ... as stated ... typical stroll down the beach.
the ladies are comparing how much of an ADVANTAGE to HER he is to her . and when the ladies realise (instantly) that his ADVANTAGE to her was insufficient, then the negotiation he was asking for (ask me a question about me or I'm leaving) was laughable
You can be fit, attractive, and well off, and women will generally still be "one way" in every interaction, which wouldn't be as much of an issue if more of them were actually worth the effort. But even the ones that aren't overweight, but delusionally think they're "10s" anyway, seem so addicted to acting and talking like guys that it's just not appealing to be around. If I found acting like a guy to be attractive, I'd be dating guys.
None of the women on the panel are even that fine and we see the energy most of the women had after seeing the man shows one of the major issues in our dating world
1:06 This is exactly the problem, he's NOT going on dates with people of equal attractiveness, things dont work that way anymore. Women dont want to date across anymore even though it's the strategy that would make everyone happy.
Michael exposed himself by saying he puts more of the effort into dates with certain women and they’re not putting in the same energy. I don’t care how attractive you are if your personality doesn’t come across well I’m out
The dudes were simps atleast for this episode. So, body positivity is only good for women? What ever happened to being equal according to the feminist jezebels?
If woman look at looks, men look at personalities and the way a girl behaves. Then see if there actions matches the personalities, the woman is playing
Why are we not talking about Rollo's hair, no offense but you look like a guy who grew up in the 70's and got stuck in time. Brett Michaels and Hulk Hogan comes to mind with the forever bandana. Like the guys with mullets. I get you want to do what you want but that hair does nothing to elevate your masculinity. Just saying.
Without knowing what the other person looked like, judging the guy by only his appearance is meaningless. For all you know, the 2 were absolutely equal on the scale. Who knows, maybe the guy in the video was the hands down better looking guy of the two. The people here were judging him on their own personal scales, and not on the scale of the other person on the date, which is the only scale that matters.
The only one who reacted positively in my view was the rave lady who actually listened to what the dude said. Every other person here reacted ugly by saying something or neutral by keeping quiet
Dang they couldn’t listen or take him serious bc of his appearance?? I mean what he said was valid. A me me me chick is only for sex not long term partner
