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There's a subtle difference between summarising a group of people by their individual lifestyle choices and encouraging people to make the same lifestyle choice. Videos these days tend to ignore the former while primarily focusing on the latter. In reality people choose their lifestyle to fit their own individual circumstances, which are as varied as the number of people on Earth.
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Trad wives and housewives are not old school. Old school had no dishwasher, microwave, or washer and dryer. They had no epidural when they had their babies, and they had more than one. My wife washed clothes by hand until she came to the US five years ago. She breastfed, made dinner (no microwave), cleaned, and washed dishes while taking care of kids. The women referenced in the beginning of this video are mostly just lazy women who don’t want to work. There are some exceptions for sure. But most of the trad wives we see on the internet are rich or lazy or both. Their lives revolve around the internet and social media, not their kids or housework.
True. My mom took care of the house and three kids, with no dishwasher, no washing machine, no vacuum cleaner, and no car. Her struggles and sacrifices were beyond any of these women.
Hate to break your heart but it’s 2024 & most, if not all people are using the internet. My 70 year old grandma from the Caribbean is using the internet.
There needs to be distinction between *traditional* and *soft life / 50s* (WORK-at-home-mother vs. STAY-at-home-mother) A traditional wife supports her family, and is just as busy as the husband in that role (gardening, homeschooling, couponing/frugality, etc). Any man who thinks the 1950s was the pinnacle of relationships is just getting suckered. That's when women only did their supportive role part-time.
I respectfully disagree with the superiority narrative. My partner and I both have careers. We have a respectful division of labor. She and I would both reject any criticism of stay at home parents. I suggest that there are different types of division of labor in relationships. What matters is that both partners accept, support, and agree with the chosen roles each partner embraces.
@@TheFriendlyPsychopath you're taking the worst of what he said. to assume that a real wife must not work, is delusional in 2024. a real wife nowadays has the right attitude and behavior, and the rest is details.
In all fairness….women tear women down. There really doesn’t need to be a specific reason. Heck….they tear men down too. It’s an exceptional woman that doesn’t do this today. They are out there but they are not common. Hats off to the ones that don’t do this….
My parents schooled me well on marital assets and inheritance law. Including offshore trust accounts, and their protection from ''tilted'' courts. My beautiful loving wife aged into menopause, and I swear her soul left her body. The divorce was a ''planned'' blindside attack , and a ''swing and a miss''. I still don't hate her though , she hates herself enough for both of us.
Women could always get jobs in the past - without having to have spent years on their careers. Most careers that women do today still require little education and skills. eg: In Australia many work holding stop signs and get well paid.
Oooh! I like that argument. Women always use the no prenup because that’s planning for failure argument. Now you can use the trad wife card as an Uno reverse.
I would agree Alexander if the traditional wife trend was real and widespread. It seems to be a very small segment of society at least in the USA and a fairly recent phenomena online at least since 2018. One must be guarded as with regular television as to what is real or not regardless of popularity. What man wouldn't want a wife with all of the attributes of a traditional lady. In my opinion this is a fantasy.
Disagree. By your logic, if a woman having a job is preparing for failure, so is a man signing a prenup agreement, since thats what will protect him if divorce comes. Both sides should be allowed to have backup plans.
I have a problem with this video, Alex: You basically make it sound as, if a woman wants to be independent and be the best she can in her career, she is in the wrong and she has low-self esteem. HARD disagree. If a woman want to be a trad-wife stay-at-home mom, the husband can afford it, and she is willing to do all the work necessary to fulfill her role, great! But if the woman wants to excel in her career instead, that is ALSO great, contrary to what you are saying. Being a career-oriented, independent woman is GREAT, in my opinion. The problem isn't that. The problem is for that woman to become a bossy, insufferable person. And a trad-wife can become an insufferable person too.
Because every inclination of their heart is stupid evil and contradictory, and they endlessly desire something and throw it away like a spoiled child when they get it. There are two women on earth the women who is happy with little and the women who is an endless bottomless pit of greed
My wife stayed with me when I was broke, and we worked together to face life's challenges. She is beautiful, gentle, and kind. She was never a party girl, doesn't post our life on social media, and is more educated than me. She thinks she is just a normal girl, but if you ask me, I feel like I've won the dating jackpot! Needless to say I always cherish and honour her.
1950's USA was the pinnacle for woman on the earth. Stay at home like all the generations prior BUT all the modern convenience. Would a woman want that OR work a corporate job?
I have been a single father for 18 years. My son is now 20 and on his own. All those years I raised him, worked a full time job AND did all of the housework and yardwork. Women have no idea how easy it is to do the chores. If they think that is so hard to do and so terrible, they are truly delusional.
Not delusional. They are children in adult bodies, that's why they cannot be accountable for anything they do. They've been lied to by their peers, their parents, the government and the media about what they are and what they are capable of.
Agree totally. But let me add, their emotions get wrapped up in it: they feel like they will be judged if things are not just so, they get emotionally involved in cleaning up dirt, they feel like an untidy room is mocking them..... these emotions add a lot of needless burden. (Part of a man's job is to rescue a woman from herself: fill her head with other emotions, make her laugh... etc.)
Oh, they know. Look at how the tables turn and how little regard they have for stay at home husbands/fathers and the things they do. They arent allowed to have problems, because their lives are so easy, getting to stay home. "Oh, YOU had a rough day, today, Darren? Staying here at home, not doing anything? Let me tell you about MY day...!"
heh i was so efficient at doing chores and maintaining the house the ex claimed in the divorce i literally did nothing because everything was always done when she got home from her "power" job
I was married to a career woman for 10 years. I did all the cooking, cleaning, home repair, grocery shopping, laundry. And I got to pay all the bills because I also had a good career. It was a miserable experience. Good thing is she didn't get much in the divorce because for those 10 years all her pay just went right in her bank account.
Whats mine is ours and whats hers is hers. The biggest difference that I see, when women are the 'breadwinner', is that they run their bank account as just theirs and good luck with yours. They realise that marriage can be a place where the other can spend all your money, and they are not okay with that. Makes sense, as they are not men who know this is how it is meant to be and we are happy to do it.
Either one is already so far along on the right track that there's no point in complaining. If it's her passion to promote this lifestyle, and give it a 1950s style level of refinement, sign me up.
It's easy to be a feminist. To work 9 to 5, to own a house, to have a car, to have lots of meaningless sex. Try to maintain a real loving relationship while raising kids and doing everything for their future. That is radically hard work.
For all those women who think that at 50 you’ll be happy because you can afford expensive margaritas twice a year at some beach in Mexico for 10 days or getting 2 extra luxury bags per year let me tell you… you will not
They wouldn’t listen anyway, they only learn it when they feel it themselves. Sadly too late. With little incentive to admit it at that point to anyone, and no one around to admit it to anyway.
I’m 32 and I lost hope for these women 4 years ago. I have a job, I cook because I have to, I clean because I have to, and I have no one nagging me. It’s awesome!
I've lost it, after having 3-times a freak show within 15 years. I've had enough. Traditional values and happiness - i'd find only into the east. No more western women. Many just suck, and have a distorted, twisted mindset nowadays. Doesn't matter how they look, it's no more like 20+ years ago. Women changed, not for the better. Blame unsocial media cr@p.
I hate this larping trad wife tik-tok crap. I grew up in 80/90s in a small town pretty much every one had a stay at home mom an none of them dressed like they were in The Sound of Music.
Trust is big. I got divorced because my wife spent so much time on her career that it hurt my career and our family. What was her reason that she eventually admitted? She was afraid of relying on me and wanted to protect herself. I make six figures and was a dedicated husband and father. Wtf was there to not trust me about?
Maybe she didn't feel safe & re-assured with you or she settled for you regardless of your income. Coming from a woman, if a woman cannot relax and put trust in you, it could be her trust issues with men or she settled for u, or you didn't make her feel re-assured. When you look back did u perhaps not re-assure her by any means? Or did she have trust issues daddy issues or something like that?
Was it Tim Allen who said something like "women have choices. They can work, or not work, get married, not get married, have kids, not have kids etc... Men have only ever had the same 2 choices. Work. Or prison."
@@zer0bre that's the essential trick isn't it? like a nuclear arms race, we have to inspect if they're wearing it, without being seen as looking for it (to ruin trust). "How about a pat on the back for a job well done!" [pats back and feels for parachute]
Be very careful, guys; There's a huge difference between a "tradwife" and a woman with actual traditional values (untouched by the claws of feminism). As soon as times get tough, modern "tradwives" will likely split and leave you hanging. Finding someone genuine that Alex is talking about here (in Western culture) is super rare.
Women don't care about making things work with a man anymore. They have too many options, and feel entitled to a perfect relationship. So at the first sign of anything she doesn't "feel" good about, she will leave u and find another man. It could be the smallest/dumbest reason ever, but it doesn't matter because women are always looking for the best.
we don't know that. Though, we should always be on guard. I imagine most are functionally grifters. However, that doesn't mean she as an individual necessarily is. Don't mistake the trees for the forrest.
There are still traditional women, but they aren't on Tik Tok. Real "trad wives" are just living their lives and taking care of their families. You'll never know about them unless you meet them in person.
Good and bad women are transactional regarding general interactions. If money were obsolete women would have nothing to do with many of us. I refuse to base my life on their needs because the truth is. The Ideal women are rare. And expensive AF.
The issue is we as men also want it all. We want absolutely drop dead gorgeous fit girls who would also be good wives mothers based on their character (I know I do). No wonder that a creature like that is worth it's own weight in gold...
This bro this!!! And so many men seem to be so okay with it. How most of them are openly narcissistic while men are conditioned to be openly selfless is something that confuses me. We shouldn’t still have simps in 2024 in this age of information.
@@Gajdosh Haha, almost all my school friends were just looking for a 'cute' girl who was slightly interested in the same things, so they could share hobbies and also get a little spice in their life with difference. I don't remember any guys saying they were gonna get the hot 10/10 women, we were all really down to earth about it. Maybe it's the times changing, I dunno, but that was only 20~ years ago.
@@Rexhunterj no you’re right. The person you’re responding to is using a straw man. Not a single man I know wouldn’t be happy with a 6 who was respectful and kind.
@@thenarrator1984 well, the difference is, a jaded and bitter man will still work. He doesn't expect a woman to solve his problems. Most wahmen on the other hand will deseperately want to leech of some man that they won't even respect.
@@raytracer5726 that's an idiotic take. Women have failings. Men have failings. You're doing exactly what feminists do to men,.but you do it to women. You view and gauge women as men. That's not the path bud. You're lost.
No, the trad wife life is not that old. Women always had to work till very recent times. The thing is that men did the dangerous work, war included. There's a difference between ending up tired and ending up dead, but women always had to work hard. This idea of trad wives is actually quite modern, and it's about 200 years old, but especially all this trend is the ideal of 1950s american way of life.
If they could work and not become insufferable that would be great. Career women see men only for money, and so when they have their own income, they think its ok to treat men as disposable. Its not the work, its the mindset.
These women are very much something new. Unless you're Amish, you're nothing remotely close to a traditional housewife. And a lot of these women who are trying to wear that mantel as if they've earned it are the most entitled, spoiled, and pretentious ones out there.
I think they know, problem is they are so unbelievably entitled because of their massive egos they think they can obtain those things whenever they choose, no matter how old, fat, gross or whatever. So they are all about money, the gram, and all this other stuff because they think at 40 they can easily and any man they want and get those 3 H's.... despite men nonstop telling them we don't want 35, we want 25
@@numskulltheory7133 They do hate the truth and cold reality. It's absurd, they'd live such better lives if they just accepted biological realities, lost some weight, hit the gym and learned how to be caring and loving, and how not to pick a sociopath as a partner.
It's true, because gratefullness makes happiness so if you aint gratefull, you ain't happy, no matter what you have, happiness is a conscious decision to be gratefull for what you already have and not torment yourself to get what other have.
Women act like there aren't opportunities to be "a boss babe" inside the home during their free time. When their chores are done, they could have a hobby trading in stocks, building a portfolio -- or trading in some kind of commodity like art or collectibles, all from the comfort of their home. That could allow them the nest egg, the golden parachute, and a passive income for years. But no -- it's always an either/or proposition: Either they're pungently independent, or they're hanging onto you for a free ride like an eternal toddler.
I've been a monk for 18 years having replaced modern women with motorcycles. Honestly, I don't care that they are miserable. It is by their own hand and I'll be damned if I am ever going to suffer another emotional hangover because of them.
I can relate. Without a serious woman for 15 years, did a solo ride around North America 2 years ago, bought a second Harley yesterday (just because I wanted to) - - and I and my dog are very happy.
i'd be willing to bet she costs a lot of money to keep that attitude sky high. the makeup is a dead giveaway about their intentions for someone claiming to be traditional and basic.
@@Freedom-Fries Probably the real trad wife, avoid social media. Busy with the house, food, kids, and all. I don't think having men thirsting on your posts while you're married is very "traditional"
It has taken a couple of generations for the message to really hit home. I can recall going to a party hosted by a couple living in a high rise apartment overlooking the Detroit River to watch the Gold Cup hydroplane race. They had a toddler child together. The parents were both high-powered litigators. Their kid wanted some attention, maybe a little scared about all of the adult strangers in his house. He toddled over to Mommy, who literally pushed him over towards Daddy with her high heel clad foot. Daddy pushed the kid back towards Mommy with his loafer-clad foot. The kid began to cry. Both Mom and Dad then had a long stare-down with each face getting angrier and angrier as the minutes slipped by. The kid was still crying. Eventually Mommy picked up the kid and comforted him a bit while cursing at her husband about what a fuckin' sexist SOB he was to expect her to do any childcare during their party. IIRC, Hubby died young from a massive myocardial infarct. I have no idea how the kid turned out. Near as I could telll on the date of the party, that was no way for a man and woman to live. Never was, never will be. At least they could afford that luxurious high-rise apartment close to the downtown courts and their offices.
Let's be honest, we all know the lady in the video is quite expensive to maintain at home. It doesn't negate the point that Mr. Grace is making, but the issue is still there, that she will stay at home, but at a later time, if he doesn't earn the same, I wonder what that stress would do to her quaint, albeit correct, decision. That is to say, is she making the decision conveniently- aka- it's easy to stay at home when your man earns a high salary and you get what you want--but what happens if her buying power isn't so strong. I wonder what that situation would do to her level of commitment.
@@Freedom-Fries I have to admit, this has been a weird one, but going back and forth, it's clear to me that you see yourself as some sort of wise philosopher. You talk in a weird way, and have the Yoda picture. You accuse me of projecting and having never been loved because I wouldn't trust a woman who doesn't want to work. The flip side of it seems that you, yourself, have at some point been cheated on by a stay at home partner when you earned less. I'm sorry, that is rough.
This is a tough one for me. My ex wife was a stay at home mom, but was not feminine in that role and did not appreciate that I worked really hard to provide. I did the traditional male chores or caring for the cars, etc while also doing more chores than her in many cases. I felt very taken advantage of in the divorce. This sounds amazing, if she enjoys it, values you and looks to do her part. Otherwise her working is honestly better.
Same here. I ended up having to do more & more house chores so she wasnt so tired for sex until the point i was absolutely EXHAUSTED, physically and mentally.
Its hilarious to me how people try to push this traditional wife narrative. These stay at home housewives are some of the biggest cheaters I have known. The husbands work all day and they have so much free time outside of their kids that it gets boring after a while and they love to have a dirty little secret that no one would know about. As much as I love the traditional wife look and the femininity of it I would NEVER actually want one. I know and have seen the bs that comes with it. If you're just gonna be working all day to keep this lifestyle going she's eventually going to cheat. Its not a matter of "will she?" but more of "when she?"
It slightly less likely to happen with a stay at home wife as with a working one. The working one has a bigger circle of people around her so more chances of straying. With the SAH one it depends of the kind and quality of friends she makes.
Yeah, but that's traditional too. Men cheat with their secretary and women with the mail man. No wonder we moved on from the 'perfect' 1950 marriage, people actually want to love their partner now
Ex-English Law lawyer here. The worst divorce for a man is one where your wife gave up a highly lucrative career and became a housewife. The best divorce is with a career woman. Your decision.
I’m a guy, and I have tremendous respect for women who manage to juggle all the responsibilities of caring for children and keeping the home clean and cozy, and still manage to smile despite being tired, as if it brings them joy. I also respect those who are new to this role and are doing their best, even if things don't always go perfectly, haha. Bravo!..
Spend a few weeks doing it. It is less than 20 hours of work a week after the kids go to school. Once you realize that women spend more time exaggerating the work and difficulty than actually doing the work you lose a lot of that respect real quick.
@@liwojenkinsI have been divorced and done both. Stay at home parent is way easier if you are not weak and lazy. Think about how many hours you spend getting ready and going to work plus the hours at work...no comparison to staying at home.
@@liwojenkins With modern conveniences stay at home is now a joke, before washing machines, dryers, dish washers, grocery stores, microwaves, etc. it was much more work.
@@JoshDragRace0688that is true. Women in the old days had their work cut out for them. Men invented products to make their life much easier, way easier. My wife complains if she has to pack a dishwasher.
@@liwojenkins 100% This. My ex pissed me off with her whining and excuses. I would see her post literal books on her Facebook page while I was at work and I would get home, no dinner, the house a mess, kids' brains rotting out in front of screens. And she would act like "Oh good, you're home, now I can have a break!"
There's another side to this. My wife wanted to be a traditional housewife and a stay at home Mum because because the cost of living is so high and i didn't earn enough to pay for both us to have a decent lifestyle, we both HAD to work. After our kids were born, she stayed at home for a while, but money was so tight it was pretty miserable. Once the kids were old enough to qualify for free daycare my wife started working again and things got a bit better, but unfortunately we had gone into debt to keep things going and she ended up leaving me. So its not all a bed of roses.
Women who bails instead going through it with you and come out on the other side together would leave you anyway. Still, I'm sorry that it happened. I how the debt was on the both of you and she didn't leave you to deal the debt in your own.
Having your wife be a dedicated mother also helps ensure that you're the ones raising your kids, with your values, and not letting the outside world raise them.
My mom was a housewife. She didn’t cheat on my dad but she was a shitty person. She loved being a stay at home mom because she didn’t have to work or ever financially contribute, she would find expensive household projects to bankrupt my dad and she ignored me her only child. To the younger generation it’s rare in any time period in human history to find a loyal and good hearted woman, it’s a fantasy
Stay at home wife before went out and looking for cheap stuff to buy and did everything for the husband to pay things cheaper so she took alot of time look at magazine, sales etc were she could buy cheap product and food etc. Even made alot of food from scratch because it was cheaper. Also taking care of the kids,garden and the home etc. So it was alot of work behind it that made life mutch easier for the husband AND cheaper. But today that mindset are already gone even of stay at home wifes.
The older I get, the more I realize that one of the most important things is for women to choose and support good men and to raise good children. So much hinges on these seemingly simple decisions.
Women choosing who to marry and raise children with is an extremely important part of the societal equation, as it has such a strong domino effect that it can either make society prosper or eventually collapse. It just depends on how widespread the particular choice is among women, but we're currently in an era of women largely choosing the wrong men, and it shows..
@@danielsterling4918 Not only that, women who are choosing to abandon and/or cheat on genuine men just for cheap excitement. At this point, it might take a long time for men and women to treat each other as regular people.
I am now 54. I know of no woman who works at this age group who likes work. None. They whine about it constantly. And, many get on some compo payment from some work “mental health” damage.
Yes, it's a trend, and it was a trend in 1950 too when America became economically bloated. The truth is that, historically, women being a stay at home mom was never a "decision" women made because the environment didn't allow for otherwise (and no it wasn't men that put them there). Guess who still doesnt have a choice, even now-Men.
It's kinda annoying that you are giving feminists your platform by sharing what they are all about. I think it is preferable to focus on the good, what is right, what is healthy rather than pointing out and focusing on what isn't. It's kinda like focusing on what would make our society great and working toward that and discussing that vs talking about the problems of the world, what is wrong with the world and what issues the world has. You see, one is healthy direction. The other is unhealthy. This channel has the potential to be healthy! Just need to kick the negativity/negative off the platform. When you talk about what a feminist wants on your channel it gives them power over your channel. Forget about them! Who cares what they think or feel! Lets see more women who love kids! Lets see more women who appreciate their husbands! Lets see more family dynamic that is healthy happy functioning and blessed! Focus on what is working and what works!
Oh this was happening in the late 80%’s I never boUgHt into Working was all that was acceptable. I stayed home. I use to be shunned at parties,from other woman and looked down on. I was like wat the heck. Back at that time it was easier to stay home vs a job in may fields. The cost of tax rate, child care, and clothing cost for work. Actually made you in the hole. But these woman where proud of their stupidity. I remember one woman saw the differences in the two year olds at party and said I can tell which child has a stay at home mom. Mine was just happened to be just sll around more ecerything.
the ACTUAL trad wife is not on social media, dolled up, trying to tell others how to do it. that's literally the millennial's formula for status chasing. maybe she believes it, but from here, it's easy to see through it.
It's all great but so many countries of the world can't support a single working parent reality. A lot struggle even with both parents working full time jobs. It's not a life we can choose for ourselves. It's a life that was given to us. A lot of us don't have the opportunity to be rich. I agree that the rise of extreme feminism and shaming these women is partially the reason they don't want to be housewives. But a big chunk is just living a reality, where they just can't afford that kind of a life. You need to understand this. In a sense, you're shaming women that don't have any other choice except to get up every morning and go to work, together with their husbands, in order to survive. It started with the beginnings of feminism, where the governments realised that they can tax the women, too, if they give them equal right, the right to vote and to go to work. They celebrated that for a while but in my opinion, feminism was invented by that same government. That would double their tax income, instantly. So, through the years, through an avalanche effect, they just can't go back anymore. That way of life is too far gone. At least for the majority of people. And before someone says "oh well, man up! you need to start earning big bucks for your family!" let me explain why this isn't relevant. The difference between an average job in my country and a really good job in my country is $500-600. Per month. Which would still make it hard for a family with a stay-at-home mom. As her pay is higher than that. I'm sorry but the days of housewives, for ordinary people at least, are long gone. That way of life is just not sustainable anymore.
Women have the luxury of choice compared nearly 100years ago which I feel is a vg thing. Women can choose to be full corporate boss babes, stay at home wife’s or part time workers as well, or stay at home mums with some part time work and many other combinations. Feminists should be happy with women having soooo many options to choose from but instead bring down women who decide to choose focus at being a stay at home adult supporting their household or family!
except that the working woman has allowed for the house prices to escalate by levying 2 wages to the purchase of property rather than one. It goes from being an option to work to being a requirement to work if your woman wants a house. this is what happens in the UK. Add in migration Rate higher than house building rate and housing soon becomes unaffordable for young couples.
Love the “planning for failure” point. So much relationship talking points nowadays are based on this seeming inevitability of divorce. Marriage is supposed to be a lifetime partnership and should be based on total trust
i agree with all that but the problem is a bit deeper than that.. you see society has being directed to be this way slowly but surely over the years most people wont be able to live with just one salary to have and be a stay home mom , it would simply wouldn't work anymore unless we got massive raise in general work places salaries. we need two salary now to raise a family, let alone buying food and everyday stuff for just two under one salary. becasue of this it will never coming back unless the man have a very good income.
13-30 we are independant feminist! We hook up only with oligarch sons who pay us salary and push up the ladder....30+ oh, we would like to return to classical style. You know what? - gth
Two problems (for men): - One salary is generally not enough to support a household in this economy - She's not more committed at all. She has every bit the plan B if not more. She can divorce and take at least half his assets and future earnings. Sad as it is, the only logical choice for a man who wants kids is to marry the boss B.
Did anyone else pick up that she is not wearing either an engagement or wedding ring??......no traditional, trad or old school real wife would be seen dead without those rings.....in 35 years I don't think I have ever seen my wife go with out these rings unless she was cleaning them...I believe this one is actually a real wife, just dressing and acting for the clicks..
My first wife made more money than my current wife, my current wife and I have a great deal more in assets and cash, why? My current wife is better with money. It's not how much you make, it's how much you keep that matters.
The tradwife lifestyle has been the standard for atleast thousands of years. The burden is on feminists to prove that their 10 year relationship experiment is a better option for both parties. So far, it's been quite the disaster.
Nothing in my life has given me more drive to succeed in my career, than my wife's insistence to not only be a stay-at-home mom, but to homeschool the kids. I hated the idea at first because I couldn't fall back on her to supplement my failures; but something changes in a man's brain when you take away the safety net.
if you want trad wives , make more money , also being trad is not a choice , no one would go to work if they dont need to, especialy if you have i dont know your kids to hang around with .