Acknowledging my true perception of constantly being disrespected, I concluded that you're absolutely right. Your short message is so bold and straight to the point. 💐
I enjoy placing these ideas in the context of various people I know. By holding one person in mind to see how this shows up. Also you have to measure the same thing against yourself. If I have been blind deaf and dumb it was on me and I should be more mindful.
You have to consider, “Is this person in the same page, in the same mind frame, and with the same goals?” We had a personal property exchange day, between my former sister the other day. I could’ve offered her other things, that I know she may have wanted, as there’s an abundance of items I don’t need or care about, but that would simply be me, being on a different page, with a different goal and an opportunity for her to have a another meltdown, because she’d feel I was trying to trick her or whatever weirdness she likes to conjure up. It would’ve also simply signaled to her, that I was beneath her. Bad enough, I wasn’t sure if the officer present, would need to tackle her and she’s the one who called for police presence, to get back at me calling for it, the last time. I also have NO DOUBT she will say she doesn’t have things she actually took possession of, although I have pictures. The shorter route, for the whole thing, would be for her to simply fall out on the lawn and have a tantrum.
I’m dealing with narcissistic abuse by my x baby mother. She’s absolutely ruthless and volatile and hostile constantly. I don’t know how to deal with that. I acknowledge that’s what she’s doing now but it has caused PTSD and now I can’t even communicate with my daughter or call her because im TERRIFIED of my x . I don’t know what else to do. When will this pain and suffering end
