Good point. I was blinded by beauty and would chase girls that had options and acted like they were a prize to be fought over. Now that I have money, nice car, big house, the tables have turned and i act like a prize and its always my way or the highway.
You think so? How does a man choose a woman for his kids? 1st: a man is visual. So his eye is caught by that radiant face, the hair, the smile... 2nd: he scans her chest, narrow waist, hips, legs, feet 3rd: if she meets his standards of beauty, he speaks to her... 4th: if there's chemistry, he takes it a notch higher... The point I'm making is, it all starts at the beauty!
@@mrjnutubethanks for your comment! I Hope more men see it, men, stop letting women manipulate you by diminishing beauty in your mind. Don't go out here picking fat girls or less than physically desirable women based on what Sadia is saying. She's doing the classic manipulation based on where she's approaching. Beauty will always be first, but she's right in the fact that most of us will tolerate unacceptable behavior from beautiful women. So, if she meets your beauty standards, then let's see if she's consistent in her treatment of you. If she can check those two boxes, then by all means proceed. Don't get with women you're not attracted to based on advice like this. Bad idea guys!
@@lingtwist974 I will be praying for you. It's a battle with your flesh. GOD can break that bondage of lust. Next time you feel that urge, say JESUS and keep saying HIS name, and that spirit will leave you. It is an unclean spirit.
This video made me smile. For a man, the moment you reach the point in your life where you've had enough sex that you can either take it or leave it, feels like your life is complete. Only death can take that feeling away from you. These men are a distinct minority (and I'm one of them). You're also able to form healthier relationships with women, as they're no longer able to manipulate your emotions through sex, enabling you to find women who actually respect you and care about you.
I'm one of them too, I did enough running around in my twenties and thirties. Quality will always out weight quantity. When you become more discipline and mature towards sex women admire that.
@@harrisn3693it is possible to live without sex even for men. Being physically active and working on your goals finding what you are passionate about could help. N cold showers.😊
Woww that is 100% my guy. He was 10 years single before meeting me. He didnt need sex, till he met me and i am seeing the positive changes in him, how he loves me more,how he is showing his attention,how he surprises me sometimes with flowers, he respects it when i dont feel like getting intimate on certain days BUT when we are in bed, he is a bomb... I love him so much
But do you both get really down and dirty? I'm talking about salad tossing and face blasting or is it missionary and I love you's whispered over John secada cds 🙄
@@doppies2000 When two souls meet in unconditional love, they not only merge with each other but also with the cosmic soul. That is the longing and goal of human evolution. Follow your soul's longing to return home. Watch the film "Gladiator". Maximus knows his home. This home exists and you will meet people in your life in whose presence you feel and recognize the common home. That is where the manipulation ends.
There's such a power in discipline and patience. Some people have no idea. Its not only sex its controlling our emotions period as a man or woman . The devil cannot use them against us
I found this teaching lately and it made me smile. I just found out that the devil cannot start anything nor create anything. The devil just follows or accompanies what you've already started.
I agree with you, but because most people lack discipline, patience, etc. They buy material things and brands in excess to impress people who don't care about them, eat bad, don't excerscize get fat and then eat more to comfort themselves and get fatter, but a fat undisciplined person is a fat person who doesn't look or feel their best regardless of the car they drive or the size of their house and often they have credit card debt far above $10,000, one must excerscize discipline in every facet of his life or one's health, finances and relationships will suffer while being disciplined by life.
And when a woman is ok with a man with or without money and she loves him regardless, she's a powerful woman. Cut the crap, most men don't experience that type a feeling until we are older and learned the ways of women
Define what you mean by "older" Maybe I'm a rare example but I managed to work this out about women especially the hot ones along with a whole bunch of life altering truths and realizations before I turned 32 and thank fk for that cos I see men in their mid-40s an early 50s who are still slaves to a hot woman and what their little head he's telling them to do
If it gets difficult go to the gym, burn off excess energy, that will also help, you'll be to tired to do anything, or work another job, anything to exhaust extra energy
Needed to hear this trying to get my walk with Christ back in line and I’ve had trouble in the porn department and definitely need pray still but I’m truly thankful the lords continues to push me and that he’s helped me see there needs to be a change and this video was just conformation for me that ya I need to fight it and not give in lord give me strength
Just understand that it is of the Devil through the work of seducing spirits. Repudiate all that, and you will be free. Remember that the truth shall set you free.
Find a purpose that is bigger than yourself, workout to make your body and mind stronger and do not forsake the gathering of the brethren (the church) and the battle will become easier. God bless.
You had it right up to the last phrase. "When you can remove women from a mans world, he becomes powerful." When needing and looking for women is removed from his world, he becomes a radiating soul of energetic power.
Men, ignore these women, don't give your money to them, don't give your energy to them, and by no means give your time to them. Women ae currently out of balance, if you copulate with them they will cause your imbalance. One day with an imbalanced woman will cost more than.its worth.
Even the church and religious women be lying and manipulating men. For power, goods and services. So when dealing with a woman dont give any of those things. Don't give your power. Don't give your good$ Don't give your $ervices/time.
Unfortunately men lead with their money, and consequently they get it stolen, along with their heart. See, I was molded by the oldtimers, the Shaman, the Guru's of Ism, Doctors of Love, Administraors of getting women sprung. I was taugt to be clean, be kind, be firm, stand on one's square, and never blink, if a woman passed the trials she could come over and make me dinner. But if she failed, if she was loose, had no moral character, she would never know who I really am. Keep her at a distance, keep all the fadar at bay, until one could pass the trials. Now the trials were nothing difficult, only principled...
Women think men are all about looks, NAH, NOT SO, looks are important, but looks are not the first thing we look for, we look for agreeability, compatibility, harmonics/ harmony.
Agreed. Actually concept goes everywhere, if someone is able to manipulate you, they can't respect you. So it should be right in this scenario as well.
She is talking bullshit .. woman love and respect men who fall for them and show a tenderness and attraction for sex .. men who just want to show stronguess and won't fall for their natural cravings turn out to be full of ego , self centered thoughts, ko respect for partners feeling ,lack empathy..that's the truth .. so fall for sex ..no issues but love and respect your partner..both go hand in hand ..
Women dont necessarily respect a man for being ok with or without sex. A woman is disrespectful because she decides to be that way. If she decides to be respectful to her man regardless of being able to manipulate him, then she is worthy of spending time on.
she is so true ..i also appreciate man who cant manupulate with sex .we respect that kind of man.those who cannot control his penis he is not even worth calling a man..he is ok with or without sex absolutely worthcalling a man🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
@@LowCostVideo it means something but in 2024 it’s hard to find real love. Almost every girl is used and we get the second hand version where we have to deal with their trauma and compare us to their exes.
I don’t watch porn. I am a man. My ex GF wanted me to watch it because she thought it would help our intimacy. I wanted to connect at a level she could not meet me at because she was demanding and selfish. Porn wasn’t going to help our relationship. I can’t believe I was with a woman like that.
She also said men need to stop watching porn because it causes them to stop persuing women. Niw she says when you stop allowing sex to control you, you become a powerful man. Therefore, pornography makes men stronger.
P*rnography definitely helped to kill my relationship of 20 years. We had other issues that took centre stage at the time, but in the background was his use of p*rnograhy which robbed us of all intimacy and the ability connect emotionally, which could have helped us deal with with all our other issues together. I would try to initiate only to find he was already done, having used p*rn before I even got there. A relationship cant survive when one partner is contantly telling the other that they'd rather get off with random strangers then be intimate with them. It upsets me when people (especially men) try to blame feminism or feminine caprice for why women are most often the one ending relationships. It's always more complicated than that. It's often issues like porn usage, neglect, disrespect or lack of emotional connection, which go on in the background, that really kills relationships.
You’ve said a lot without saying a lot. Sounds like u had other issues and accountability on ur part to solve. You wanted to be intimate with him without fixing those issues
Maybe he didn’t find you attractive anymore, maybe he stopped liking you (fell out of love) Stop trying to justify his actions and blame him, remember - it always takes two to make and two to break!
Porn is a perversion of what love and intimacy is suppose to really be like between a man and a woman. It robs the affection and beauty from the form of making love.
Really😂, relationships, specially romantic kind are built on trust, not sex, trust is the highest feeling a man can have for a woman. Ask your man whether he trusts you, if not then you have two choices, find another man who trusts you, or apologize and put your ego down and put up with a little disrespect and coldness and supplement that with warmth and love. But don't try both options simultaneously .
People can say what they want about this message but she is speaking FACTS!!! Lust is such a strong sin but when you are in a great space with God, the peace and clarity you fill is unmatched, the impulses never truly go away but the battle becomes easier!
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That is very true. This is exactly why no man has touched my body until ik we are compatible & he respects me/loves me. Sex isn't the only thing I'm looking for. I definitely agree.
The man's judgement is made from the actions and words of reality, a woman that conveys true and spoken makes the man's mind realise what is real for truth❤
Are you seriously selling part of a religion? Sad. It's just another crutch to alleviate your lack of self discipline. WaKe up and liberate YOURSELF!! You can do this!!!
From The Desk Of A King …And I can laugh and say this confidently “I Am Not Distracted By Lust And Sexual Activity BUT if I desire you I will forever want YOU,whether that be physically or mentally !!!!! 😌💯💪🏽 🧠
What is amazing is most if not all of these men and women conversations is about changing the man’s behavior. Nothing is hardly ever said about changing the woman’s behavior. Go figure….!!!!
She's good at emotionally heart-felt rhetoric and jumping to crisp conclusions. Young men with a strong libido have quite the challenge. I'm not going to pretend I can give crisp advice like she seemingly can, but I would have thought venting elsewhere would provide men with a degree of poise when dealing with women, reducing their need to overdo it. It's not guaranteed as it's a multifaceted issue, no doubt. But, please, try being a tad aloof if there's anyone left in that camp she's referring to.
I have seen those relationships personally where the woman will use sex as a reward or punishment. It makes me laugh cuz it shows how weak that man really is. I think men like that are complete cowards. My wife and I been together 15 years now. Towards the beginning I remember her making a joke about withholding during an argument. Even though she claimed it was a joke I still decided to make it clear that sex would not be used against me like that. I would not be like these other pussy whipped guys. So I didn't ask or even hint towards wanting anything for atleast 2 weeks just to show her I can go without just fine. She's the one who had a hard time with it and finally had to pursued me. Since then sex has never once been used that way in our relationship.
Im falling away from ever wanting any relationship again, everyday realizing that everything goes better alone in this fckd up world. I already have my loved ones whose been there from my day 1.
This chick pretending like she knows something smh needs to sit down. She’s still single and childless but pretending like she actually knows what men go through.
In reality, she will leave that man if he is not affected by sex and show friendliness with other man, and other man will be lured with sex , this is what is happening, but men who have nice controlled are left alone and some also label them as arrogant, selfish and egoistic and are not at last given the love he needs and this is the standard ground level reality occuring .
Wooooowwwww !!! ...I've discovered this accidentally...for years my wife controlled me emotionally by allowing or denying sex....when I realised her actions ...I stopped point blank begging, seeking permission, initating...she's a far more stable wife.
I disagree.......with the part about pornography. The rest is completely true. I don't see how the two things are connected. Don't blame pornography for men's weakness towards women when it comes to sex. Pornography is not the cause of that weakness...at all.
They only time or way that a man is “ok” with or without sex is if… #1. Has a low sex drive/testosterone #2. Does not work out #3. Has an office job #4. Is having relationship problems #5. Is not in love #6. Wants out of there relationship #7. Is no longer attracted to you #8. Is not masculine enough #9. Has depression/anxiety #10. Watches porn because you don’t give him enough affection
Real powerful men , respect themselves and others as well . If somebody is respecting himself and he respects his partner / girlfriend/ wife , he doesn't need pornography. Real decent women that respect themselves and they respect men too , they don't go around only rich guys . Sugar girls and gold diggers do that ...😂
