This Is Why Black Women Hate Average Earning Men

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Today we talk about the refusal to date down, and the issue between black women and average earning men.
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@TheBlacGhost2093 2 года назад

What some Black women fail to realize is that, When childless Black men date Black women with kids we're dating down too. Even though we know that we'll still give them a shot. The same cannot be said about them.

@__khadijahhhh 2 года назад

Spot on!

@andrewanderson5948 2 года назад

In this world, many of them would think they giving that childless black man a shot 💉

@evos469 2 года назад

Dating ultra down.

@alwaysblack2436 2 года назад

Growing up, I saw this alot. A bm would date AND marry a bw with 3 children in a heartbeat. He would proceed to caring for her children as if they were his own. It's still happening in some circles of the country.

@evos469 2 года назад

@@alwaysblack2436 and she had respect for him contrary to what going on now

@boondoggle4820 2 года назад

The disconnect is that they only care about wealth when they’re ready to retire from the streets, and by then why would any man who spent all those years with his nose to the grindstone accumulating that wealth invest it in a woman who spent her younger years belonging to the streets? She didn’t insist that those guys have wealth. They just had to be hot, dangerous and exciting. Most men are not going for that.

@normanhenderson7300 2 года назад

I know I am not and that is why I am single, not because I want to but our necessity. I do not make much money, I can maintain a decent bank balance. Had I been with one of the types she is discussing it would have been all over for me.

@kielanENmiles 2 года назад

Right, no man who accumulates wealth would also look for this type of woman. He is not about to waste on his effort on a useless, vain woman.

@monkey43950 2 года назад

Boom 💥. Case Closed. 🔐

@jimbrown9046 2 года назад

They did insist men from the streets have money or wealth ,, guys from the streets think differently than nerds think especially when it comes to a woman ,, it’s called 100/100 with us not I pay all the bills while you sit home and be my maid like nerds think ,, which means once she sees she can’t manipulate a street dude she turns to a nerd and try’s to manipulate him ,, stop believing everything women tell you most woman have dealt with all kinds of men until they find there sucker

@JahZilla_inc 2 года назад

Exactly

@__khadijahhhh 2 года назад

And let’s be honest, a lot of women don’t understand how money even works. They are only saying things they’ve heard others say. Love crimsons perspective, delivery, and demeanor.

@andrewanderson5948 2 года назад

Yep, they're just regurgitating something they heard online and or somebody else said without giving it real thought and a level of research.

@LukaDonesnitch 2 года назад

We know, that's why they are the consumers and who companies market to the most. They know women look for money so they can spend it on things, even if they don't need it. They've been told they need it or want it because another woman has it.

@alwaysblack2436 2 года назад

Exactly Khadijah. They continue down that 'lost value system' road year-after-year because they allow pride to continuously blind them to the truth.

@timothythomas2705 2 года назад

@@alwaysblack2436 Y yes and YAH HATES PRIDE!

@alwaysblack2436 2 года назад

@@timothythomas2705 Amen brother!

@davidvilabrera 2 года назад

Years ago I wanted to date a woman who turned her nose up at me and said I was not good enough for her - I went to college, then to medical school, graduated, and became a physician. I ran into that same woman years later and she was with her then 9 year old son - she met some guy who filled her head with stars, but when she got pregnant he vanished like a puff of smoke in a hurricane, and she had to raise the child alone. She saw me and when she found out that I was a medical doctor she was practically falling all over the place trying to give me her phone number - I took out my wallet and showed her pictures of my wife and two children and watched her face drop to the ground with a loud CLANG. I left her where she stood, but when I got far enough away from her I broke out laughing loudly and vindictively. Those who don't see the value of a black man need to be left alone to find out the hard way. Brothers, become the one who got away and let them cry about it later.

@idomalion6167 9 месяцев назад

😂😂😂poetic justice

@jefferywilliams2151 7 месяцев назад

The End...Make a movie doc

@ronniejones2991 2 года назад

The funny part is most black women dont even understand that earning 70 80 90k a year ain't easy and more money than most..i would know it took me years to make a 80k salary and im 30 years young..and when you make that kind of money..you aint checking for these types of women..keep going sis you on fire

@kavistone6951 2 года назад

These women would take a man with a job. I dont buy this fake high standard. Probably very very sexy and attractive women or women who think they are that attractive lol!. It's all fantasy. Most of them don't have any real meaningful relationships if any.

@mikewill1740 2 года назад

@@kavistone6951 Bruh you right. But the thing is these female pocket watch. Those the ones you weave out. I've dated females all money brackets. At the end of the day most just want a man who can make his own money, with the big 3 (car, own spot, job). Be a man, and show them a good time every once in a while. If you dont have the big 3 you dont qualify for most.

@marlonthemightysmith7836 2 года назад

Facts

@Justamanliving 2 года назад

I think the problem is BM aren’t just competing with the legal working men like other races are. We are competing with men who are chasing illegal street money. Our women love those kinds of men.. We are in essence trying to show we are more valuable than those men but dollar for dollar it’s impossible. It takes a man 5-10 years to make 6 figures annually the legal way. You might make that year one illegally. Also the willingness to spend hard earned money is not there. Street dudes are dumb enough to risk there entire on the money then spend it on women…

@ronniejones2991 2 года назад

@@Justamanliving I make that legally due to sacrifices but I understand your point and it makes total sense

@randywhitener834 2 года назад

A woman is never above me!!! I dont care what she makes!!! Stand of black men and stop putting up with this bull!!!!!!!!!

@alwaysblack2436 2 года назад

Amen. I agree because I know my role.

@seanlagrone601 2 года назад

Facts

@ivandunn1334 2 года назад

She’s not morally but in this system we live in, everything is about external wealth and materials. You don’t have that, the other stuff don’t mean anything to them.

@Don_AlejandroDelLaVega 2 года назад

Always, I get called arrogant and stuck up! Fuck'em you will respect me or get to stepping..

@Don_AlejandroDelLaVega 2 года назад

I wish more brothas had the attitude and mind set

@U4ia28 2 года назад

“If he’s not getting the wealth AND GIVING IT TO HER HE IS USELESS…” This right here. Holy shit. What makes this paradoxical is how women will give her most valuable possessions (her youth and womb) to men that are “beneath her” but apply the top quote to the men that would actually generate wealth for her. Then complain about the lack of good men

@SaveYourselfGents 2 года назад

🤦🏾‍♂

@FiFwonder 2 года назад

Facts!

@marcushennings9513 Год назад

Imo it boils down to many of them produce very little financially themselves yet consume the most with their constant appetite for salon visits, fashion and lifestyle thats above their means of which they feel entitled to a man's money to finance it all. About 20 years ago I was ispending $300-500 per month (for about 6 mo) just to get my dreads professionally started now they're cost free but imagine if that was an recurring ongoing expense as it is for them and they pay even more for their weaves and styles. Then many other races respect average earning men because thats what their daddy was and he had respect in the household and was in it, their family made it through while the sons were able to learn the same trade in many cases. They sit up high in they're mind making demands while being very little themselves.

@Zoloft77 25 дней назад

True. They still open up their porkchop for Pookie and any dusty Zaddy.

@barrylittle2969 2 года назад

They hate us because those of us who have got some sense and a purpose, are NOT going to be on-demand ATMs for them.

@wisesavedone2721 2 года назад

💯💯💯💯

@tcaseyfba4518 2 года назад

Exactly, Black women have a net worth of 5 dollars.. These women are hilarious.. And majority of Blk women don't have a house they live in Apartments...

@patescortez88 2 года назад

you would think with 5 dollars everyone else looks rich

@javaseiland5310 2 года назад

Real Facts 💯💯💯

@BluEx22329 2 года назад

Those days are coming to an end

@iamceino 2 года назад

I had two jobs back in 2003 in an condo with my girl at that time, I helped her to start her own business doing hair at home & that still wasn’t enough for her. She didn’t have to pay any bills. All she had to do was earn her own money, go to the gym like I told her & stay in shape. That wasn’t enough for her. Some women will never be satisfied. Great vid.

@ivandunn1334 2 года назад

Like she mentioned in the video, it’s not about being able to pay bills, car notes, mortgage, rent, etc. They consider that basic and standard. They won’t admit it, but they want Black men with Jay-Z and Mayweather money.

@ivandunn1334 2 года назад

Most of them just can’t get those type of men.

@ivandunn1334 2 года назад

That’s why to them, it’s called “settling”.

@stanleyball2615 2 года назад

@@ivandunn1334 So true. They get to have their bills paid as side chicks or in the rotation of high income earning men. Or they get to have children and get child support from high income earning men. Most women know they cannot get these men to marry them.So women settle for these things that I just mentioned from high income earning men.

@iamceino 2 года назад

@@datdude8878 Thats all you got from that! WOW! Please just ignore my comments & page. Have a blessed day.

@alwaysblack2436 2 года назад

Like I stated in the chat, to summarize, this is exactly why other groups of women are happily married, with children and a husband. They are building wealth TOGETHER regardless of how much the husband makes. And these same types of bw are depressed, angry and lonely. They later end up filing for bankruptcy because even if they make a good salary of 80 to 100K, they overspend to counter their depression and try to impress ppl they don't even know or like to show them that they can still survive alone. Living under that lost value system is a lost situation.

@javaseiland5310 2 года назад

Thank You, I Agree with you 💯💯💯

@HumptyMcFly 2 года назад

FYI..men in other groups are having the same problems with their women as well. Let’s not give them undeserving credit.

@alwaysblack2436 2 года назад

@@HumptyMcFly Uh, I didn't say ALL of them were perfect and never had any problems. Watch the majority of them for yourself then and see what you see.

@landlordmedia7447 2 года назад

🙏🏾amen.

@greyfox8310 2 года назад

wow! depressed, angry and lonely. you hit the nail. FACTS!!

@i.d.jegede1527 Год назад

And it’s even worse. The trend is to not only hate average earning men. There is a hatred for men who are not outright BALLERS. It’s a sickness.

@1wsmithson 2 года назад

The bad thing is a lot of sisters have more respect for a gang banger or drug dealer that has more money than a brother that make 60,000 a year working a nine-to-five.

@kavistone6951 2 года назад

Most Brothas don't make $60k. And most drug dealers don't make $60k a year

@ivandunn1334 2 года назад

@@kavistone6951 Most people don’t make/earn 60K annually let alone brothers or drug dealers. But the point is, these women want men who earn Jay-Z, Floyd Mayweather, Drake, and NBA athlete money. To them, 60K is almost useless because you they can’t live lavishly. They want to spend 60K and not think about it.

@kavistone6951 2 года назад

@@ivandunn1334 Basically, they are dreaming. And don't want to do anything to gain that level of lifestyle. They don't think they should contribute anything to the success, they just want to participate, which is why in most cases they are always replaceable. But they just can't understand it. They're gambling on at best a brief good time. I wish them luck! Lol

@TheTyperboi 2 года назад

Kendra is breaking ground and she is shaking the tectonic plates of our community...I respect and appreciate this amazing woman.

@normanhenderson7300 2 года назад

And it is not a palatable medicine to swallow.

@thomasbrown9699 2 года назад

Well explained sister!

@mobydick3895 2 года назад

Nobody knows what the "loss value system" is, (or whatever) except her.

@williamnichols539 2 года назад

@@thomasbrown9699 yes, it is a very indepth analysis.

@dwighthayes4738 2 года назад

Alhamdulillah she's absolutely amazing too❤️

@enaalexis92 2 года назад

I was heart hurt that some people came for your dead husband and tried to use his life as a barometer of how wealthy you should be. This lost value system is pollution of the soul.

@mrgadgitt1 2 года назад

That's why it's called LOST system

@workyourland8435 2 года назад

Don't let the media fooI us. I know alot of bw with masters degree struggling to pay bills, keep an apartment, and hold a steady career. Filled with college loan debt.Yet I know bm making more than them with little or no college skills. A man making 50k or more would be a blessing to a lot of them but the pride won't let them make it work.

@patriciacoley3801 2 года назад

Dang! We truly do need psychological help. Kevin Samuels was dead right!

@ashasun6620 2 года назад

What do those bm own? What are they bringing?

@d.kj.n1392 2 года назад

Bingo!!! I can go deeper... I tell every man don't believe the hype, don't be fooled by the cars, LV bags, Fendi belts, the house (they don't own the home, they have a mortgage), college degrees, etc.. most I've come across are drowning in debt... When you understand finances and money, you know most people are barely getting by, especially these bw. And yes, most are drowning in student loan debt, the most I've heard a woman tell me she had was 215k in student loans 🥴🤦🏾, on avg I hear 90k... Fellas don't be fooled out here...

@davaughn2376 2 года назад

@@ashasun6620 with the right women a lot. We have to work together, I know because I’m married and me and wife have nice things but that stuff means nothing if you don’t have God. It’s men and women who think like this and this is why their broke or not as wealthy as they could be. It’s common sense to other races of people but some black people don’t understand how money really works. Especially black women, they think that every race is making a 100k a year and this is false. They’re just working with their wives and not over spending on pointless stuff like weave, bbls, big rims ect.

@workyourland8435 2 года назад

@@davaughn2376 Thank you for saying this as my response is the same. Working together is the key. Individually its two separate homes, two set of bills, etc. why not work together, earn more together, and be financially free together while also putting your child/children to be have the best outcome in life. Yes, you can do it alone but how many people are doing that successfully.

@Chris1982416 2 года назад

How is it dating down when both parties are working? I remember when i told women that i worked as a ramp agent for the airline. They would look down on me but didn’t realize i was bringing home $120k a year. If this is the case men always date down. We worrying about the goofy stuff. Are parents, well at least my parents had basic jobs and still together in their mid 70s (yes i was raised by both my biological parents) People meaning both men and women be doing to much. I find it funny how we having this conversation in 2021. We black in America we need to be working together and creating families instead playing games. We the only race running around without a core family structure and it shows by our youth dying in the streets.

@maxbigavelli88 2 года назад

🎯 🙏🏿

@jayquan17ify 2 года назад

Women look at your occupation, not how much you make.

@harrydaloc9112 2 года назад

It’s game over for the women here. You may as well start looking for a black woman from Colombia, Brazil or in Africa.

@davaughn2376 2 года назад

This is so true brother. I’m married and me and my wife are both teachers who make an honest living. We have a house and everything is going good. Single black do nothing but hate and try to tear us down because they be so jealous. We have to work together to have generational wealth. What don’t these people understand about that. Prices are rising each and every single day. This pandemic is just giving the government more money. We’re not rich and most of us will never be but we hate on each other for this very reason. Black women have even starting hating on black women because of money, it’s crazy. They want you to be rich but they’re not rich. Two average incomes equals an above average life if your smart with your money and invest. They only see money as a means to compete with their friends or family. That’s why they don’t want a man who is an average earner. A man in house impact goes deeper than money if they truly understood men.

@Biggdoom344 2 года назад

Preach my man.

@reginaldblakey1441 2 года назад

The love of money: Attaining it is a shield for incompetence and allusion for weak character behavior of GMO’s.

@MrNJ456 2 года назад

Looking back on the relationships I've had, with women. They all, have been in the LVS.. I"m currently getting divorced from a 14yr marriage with 2 black sons and I tried over and over to provide leadership, order and structure and was met with resistance every step of the way. I was caught up in looks, how fine and attractive she was on the outside, but all her internals were a mess. Your channel has been invaluable in understanding the need to get of the hamster wheel and to truly knock it off. At the start of the marriage I was an average earner, and money was always the issue. Now I make over 6 figures and money is still the issue. It not about money, was never about money. The mindset and the lack of value system was the problem. Thank you for these messages my sister. You speaking the truth here that so many need to hear. Salute.

@SaveYourselfGents 2 года назад

The issue was, and is, the succubi... It has nothing to do with money.

@jermaineburgess3767 2 года назад

Damn sir well put im going through the same everything that she dosen't agree with is met with automatic pushback I don't get my bm is a dictator if it's not her way it's no way I have no control over anything my son does

@SaveYourselfGents 2 года назад

@@jermaineburgess3767 Jezebel succubi. It won't change. Gotta prepare your exit strategy.

@jermaineburgess3767 2 года назад

@@SaveYourselfGents sad part I know 😢 😞

@waltersimmons946 2 года назад

My mother told me as a teenager, "Do not marry a woman for her looks but don't go out and marry a gorilla either. If she loves you , you have something to work with ". I'm happily single for that early weather forecast sign to this day.

@terminatorT- 2 года назад

if you're not careful , you will become their work horse , while they would become your dead weight

@javaseiland5310 2 года назад

Real Fact 💯💯💯

@m.woodsrobinson9244 2 года назад

And that's the hustle. You're right!

@olivionb 2 года назад

100 percent accurate and facts.

@georgedavis5984 2 года назад

@@olivionb remember the marriage vows for richer and poorer

@justhomas83 2 года назад

Very True

@stephonwimbley6834 2 года назад

In the coming months this will change, we are on our way to a depression worst than the great depression; there is a great humbling coming.

@tmuhammad4474 2 года назад

The prepared look forward to it! Long overdue!

@MD-DLive 2 года назад

Agreed! Solid statement!

@martind1636 2 года назад

The lost value system will unravel even more by displacement.

@sleepinghill6484 2 года назад

We are in the great falling away keep the two commandments love god love your neighbors is the whole of the law yes 🙌

@AR-ge7nt 2 года назад

@@sleepinghill6484 yesss, indeed...truth

@terminatorT- 2 года назад

l don't want to be a walking ATM machine.

@adrianjohnson650 2 года назад

Same here!

@patriciacoley3801 2 года назад

And now that you know the truth, you can be free of that!

@ivandunn1334 2 года назад

Unfortunately, in this system you are as valuable as the money and materials you have. All else is secondary. Yes, it’s not morally right but that’s the facts.

@LifeOfJowl 2 года назад

Ong bruh

@LifeOfJowl 2 года назад

@@ivandunn1334 not true well it is in Black america

@anthonyjacksonjr4812 2 года назад

You can have generational wealth but how you treat people will always be key in life. Money doesn't last forever but leadership, humility, and character does.

@Spooner125 Год назад

Treat good people well and grow your wealth. Black people need to do doth.

@AbrahamPalmer-wj5cb Год назад

Big Time

@DhaneCrowley 2 года назад

$100k isn’t “wealth” either. True wealth is owning assets that produce income in excess of your living expenses. True wealth is not a six-figure job. Women have to be honest with themselves and say they want men with wealth because they want to live a high-end lifestyle.

@tyhubb804 2 года назад

Facts

@SaveYourselfGents 2 года назад

Preach big homie..

@oaklandsoldier8520 2 года назад

But most of the time, the average BW don't qualify for that type of lifestyle from a man

@seandeans1279 2 года назад

I had a woman curve me because I told her I was a maintenance man. What she didn't know is that Im also a general contract worker and investor that makes 12k a month altogether. The look on her face when she saw me on the private balcony of 7 star steakhouse was pure comedy. Tried her damnest to get back with me. Helll to the naw!!!! To the naw na naw naw helllllllllllll nawwwwww 😎

@123gollc9 Год назад

I’ve always liked blue collar men 🤷🏾‍♀️ lol . I have a friend that did the same when she asked what a guy I was dating made. So disgusting. She’s currently pregnant by a doctor that makes $340+ a year . He’s about to take her off her job soon. She told me how much he made the same day he told me he exists . His earnings are non of my business. The first month of dating she was on IG showing the world she was framing her mans degrees for him and had a coffee mug that said something a long the lines of “ my boyfriends a MD. “ she felt the need to showcase as she let everyone know he’s working late in the ER and she misses him. It’s the status and lifestyle they are after. They don’t associate blue collar with status because it’s often no as flashy and no shock value to say my husband is a general contractor . It’s sad and we all are not like this

@dylanhill6736 2 года назад

I met a woman the other day who's never worked a day in her life due to health issues. She was saying how she wants a high value man and refuses to talk to any man below her.

@alwaysblack2436 2 года назад

Ok, she wants a high value man, but I wonder how a high value man would define her? This entitlement along with arrogance!

@GungFuRichard 2 года назад

The healthy, good looking cashier at Burger King is above her in the relationship market.

@adrianjohnson650 2 года назад

She's a lost cause.

@kokodee4626 2 года назад

@@GungFuRichard you know what,you are correct . Because the BK woman still knows how to hustle. BP woman is most likely to help you build

@patriciacoley3801 2 года назад

That's just insane!

@blackdeville4217 2 года назад

Because BW want to feel envied, at all costs. And most higher earning men don't display his wealth in material ways, because that can make him a 🎯 target.

@Spidermane-tp3bu 2 года назад

Some people are cold-blooded-saying that you’re 20 year marriage was worthless because he, Rest In Peace, didn’t leave a house behind. They deserve every ounce of hell they bring to themselves with that purely capitalist/materialistic mindset. Blessings to you, sister

@m.woodsrobinson9244 2 года назад

That lets you know that their goal isn't a happy marriage but a house.

@reubenmorris487 2 года назад

@@m.woodsrobinson9244 Accumulation of material possessions and money.

@perrykeshahwalker5321 2 года назад

I feel you.

@khennimahmud4006 2 года назад

He failed to provide.

@donnis618 2 года назад

They don't like average men because it reminds them that no matter how much money these women make, they are pretty "average" themselves.

@ivandunn1334 2 года назад

Correct. They want millionaires, not average earners.

@StephIsColdG 2 года назад

Well said!!! 💯💯

@mirumotsuyasuke8327 2 года назад

We don't care

@fc775 2 года назад

what up bro

@geralddial3154 2 года назад

ayo we need a video with this woman, I know for a fact you're working on one.

@eliezairesylvain5741 2 года назад

this is really mr cold?

@deionfergie9190 2 года назад

SHIIIIIIIIIIIID we got stephiscold in here. Big fan of your channel

@hyperxx99 2 года назад

I don't think most women think this far and you're far smarter than most. Most of the time they're just following the lyrics of some pop star. They hear "I don't want no scrub" and all of a sudden the average to below average women thinks they deserve more than they can possibly to bring a relationship. These same women struggle on the dating scene regardless of her income.

@patriciacoley3801 2 года назад

You're right! That is something else we never consider as a community! The songs of today is totally detrimental to our mental AND spiritual health! It's evil and pathetic, really!

@kavistone6951 2 года назад

Right. Keep'em stupid

@davaughn2376 2 года назад

@@patriciacoley3801 yes and this is what the industry is pushing because it keeps black women single who are one of the most, if not highest consumers. The bbls are designed to make black women feel like their lacking in the body department so they run out and pay for one. This is common sense to a lot of men but we can’t tell them better because they’re too busy listening to songs that glorify being a side chick or being sexy. That stuff means nothing but a lot of single women get so depressed they think that they have to change something about their self to attract a man. It’s sad and the government is getting paid while at the same time eliminating us black men because the women can’t raise him on her own adequately in most situations. It’s like killing two birds with one stone smh!

@patriciacoley3801 2 года назад

@@davaughn2376 Yikes! You've said a mouth full there! You're right about the government agenda, but who are the ones swallowing the poison willingly? If we can get away from consuming so much media, and sit in peace for a while, it make a difference. This may sound childish, but whenever I come to a location that is blasting that music , I place my hands over my ears and hum "nam myoho renge kyo" (a Buddhist chant) as loud as I can to myself, so that my mind stays distracted enough not to hear and take in that crap! Meditation can be a key to solving some of this madness bw are going through : )

@khennimahmud4006 2 года назад

Scrub was referring to men with no jobs and no car. This was not about average me .

@vida130 2 года назад

When a couple works together a Kingdom can truly be built on an average income. The character of a good man and the support and encouragement of a good woman will make it possible. Never despise small beginnings! You can't be a black queen without a black king.

@elohgenesis875 2 года назад

Amen my brother Amen 👑💯

@tellyhudson4005 Год назад

Wife got caught in the illusion, and destroyed a family and a home... I believe she is happy with her results.... They low key hate us

@afro_souledits2382 2 года назад

Unfortunately in our community money is worth more than our own melanin but on the contrary it's the opposite

@rodneyevans5353 2 года назад

Average people de-valuing average people is insanity. And it's best to distance oneself from all forms of insanity.

@DerekDorsey829 2 года назад

Thank you, sister. This finally explains the mindset that ended my marriage of over 25 years whom I've been Simpin to. I say Simpin because I violated all the rules demonstrating my mindset of lack and low esteem.

@Don_AlejandroDelLaVega 2 года назад

Glad you're awake now bro..

@thehebrewrapoholic Год назад

Hot damn... you are brutally honest with yourself i see. You clearly are not working with the lost value system. Looking back i have simped myself and it was very stupid of me.

@Spooner125 Год назад

If decent black men aren’t careful, it’s easy to simp when you think you have the girl of your dreams. This is because the black woman you are with will ruthlessly abuse and exploit you generosity and willingness to be with her. I’ve known Greek Cypriot men, Asians etc with the girls of their dreams. None of their women take advantage of the man’s good character the way I’ve seen black women do.

@clarencew93 2 года назад

Wish this was a hour long but it was much needed information.

@patriciacoley3801 2 года назад

She needs to rest her voice for the next video....which will probably be in the next hour or so! You gotta love how hot and heavy she's bringing that truth! lol

@gmanfitness 2 года назад

I have NEVER been made aware of things concerning women in my entire life than I have now listening to you. You are AMAZING!

@HigherCelf100 2 года назад

Facts! She’s an amazing educator.

@melanin3516 2 года назад

Me to sister hood exposed

@ContextReallyMatters 2 года назад

Some people are just bad with money. It doesn't matter how much they make. They still end up living check to check because before they even get it, it's spent. I know dancers who were on section 8 making 500 to 1,000 a night and they still used to be broke from buying purses, shoes, hair, eating out all the time and other bad habits. A lot of women spend money like it grows on trees.

@teachmetofish8710 2 года назад

Wow. "Not enough money to see him as a human-being." That is crazy. Thank you for making it clear.

@alkabaylon69 2 года назад

This society has convinced bw that they're better than their bm. That's why when they say they don't date down is mostly always towards bm. Because you do see that when they date out.

@mirumotsuyasuke8327 2 года назад

I don't care. I'm certainly not begging for their attention.

@tonystarks7715 2 года назад

Dating bw? Your better off playing Russian roulette with a shotgun 😐

@raymamba1962 2 года назад

Most black men make under 60k annually. How are all these children being made if women don't want most black men?? Doesn't add up. Maybe im missing something or BW are just lieing

@user-hy3vp5kp1o 2 года назад

@@raymamba1962 Greetings Ray Mamba:, Children are still being made because black women still love sex and having babies just with the wrong Men most of the time.. That's why the child support courts are full of black women nationwide After they ruin their relationship with us black men, they proceed to destroy the lives of their black sons and daughters through manipulation know as witchcraft in the spiritual world.. the

@rickywatts2536 2 года назад

I've been saying this for years. Money is the new God. Relationships and marriage have nothing to do with love anymore. I tell young men don't bother with either. Stay single and get you a little friend when you feel like hanging out. Then send her on her way.

@DC-cz2sr 2 года назад

Fucking facts!

@thecodetalker5742 2 года назад

Nah, this is a very old concept...It is even mentioned in the Bible as "Mammon."

@rickywatts2536 2 года назад

@@thecodetalker5742 I know. What I'm saying is that a lot of women say they want love but they really just want money. You can be the best man in the world but if you don't make enough money she won't love you. These modern women don't love you, they love what you can do for them. Men like me are tired of being seen and used as walking ATM machines.

@thecodetalker5742 2 года назад

@@rickywatts2536 I understand...I'm probably 20 or 30 years older than you. I saw the same nonsense in my early 20's. It can be tough but the truth is that dating only drains a man's resources (time & money). So, look for a woman of substance that respects you. Respect is a prerequisite for love from a woman. You are going to have to find a slow-moving respectable one that has friends like her. Until you find one, get your earning ability up.

@yoghetty5636 2 года назад

That's how you have to play it nowadays,real playaz evolve 🤔🤔😜😜How to be a playa

@therealhijabiniqabi7714 2 года назад

This is exactly why I love listening too you daily I truly love listening too you speak I learn so much from you about black women ❤️🙏🏽✊🏾🗣

@kurtty9112 2 года назад

May The Most High CONTINUE to protect and strengthen you. Perfect teaching!

@TroyBanks 2 года назад

I guess I will die alone. I love what I do and I do what I love. I struggle in cycles but I am happy about what I do and where I do it. Money has never been a motivating factor for me and probably never will be. Would I like to make more, sure. But I am not going to sell my soul for it. I am who I am ladies, a average Joe.

@BLACKRAIN390 2 года назад

REAL TALK BRUH

@andrewanderson5948 2 года назад

Finally a sister that knows how to dress to deliver a message.

@Rock-mo3ry 2 года назад

Right.

@bronzeprince5279 2 года назад

Her stylish and classy modesty in dressing is why I started watching her. I can't listen or take seriously a lady who's exposing all parts of her body.

@alwaysblack2436 2 года назад

@@bronzeprince5279 And today it's cleavage. And lot's of it. 😕

@melvinslaughter7685 2 года назад

@@alwaysblack2436 what are you talking about??,what cleavage?

@alwaysblack2436 2 года назад

@@melvinslaughter7685 I'm talking about a number of bw who have channels on YT dress in low-cut shirts or blouses. Meaning that Kendra does know how to dress and is different from the others.

@walk4348 2 года назад

Black women hate any black man that earns his money legally. She don't have any hatred for the dopeboy tho.

@ashasun6620 2 года назад

Sounds like your talking about teens or young adults

@ivandunn1334 2 года назад

What they really hate is average earners. If you are making legal money like Jay-Z and Mayweather, that’s a different story.

@walk4348 2 года назад

@@ivandunn1334 the average black man makes $40k. I make nearly 3 times that, own my home, have money in the bank, no baby mommas, educated and they still hate me too. Matter of fact, I had o e break up with me specifically because "I feel like you don't need me". That was her exact words. The reason she said that? Because someone stole the wheels off my car and I wasn't begging her for rides waiting on the new ones. I ordered my groceries online and took off work. I had the problem solved without her input and she didn't like that.

@escobarinc.1805 2 года назад

@@walk4348 had my wheels stolen as well recently wow! Thank goodness for rental coverage.

@enviedeveryday2835 2 года назад

@@ashasun6620 a black women lawyer got killed by her thug boyfriend the other day so stop your excuses

@stevejb8770 2 года назад

And that's why they're the most single...... You don't want to work together for a better outcome. 50k + 50= 100k etc

@19zach75 2 года назад

💯💯💯

@kcoh77 2 года назад

Her money is her money and his money is there money 💰

@stevejb8770 2 года назад

@@kcoh77 It should be Ours. That mindset is why relationships don't work.

@d.kj.n1392 2 года назад

Most just don't get it

@Temboz 2 года назад

@@kcoh77 what in the world...that's a stupid mindset I had a chick I was seeing tell me that and I dropped her faster than speedy gonzalez...most of them want to be seen and treated as equals while they dont want to contribute like equals.

@CobraC. 2 года назад

YES You Are Correct.... The Reason Is MEN GIVE THEMSELVES AWAY FOR FREE. IF IT'S FREE IT'S NOT WORTH ANYTHING TO WOMEN.

@kennethmoss7394 2 года назад

Were you a VIRGIN when you got married?

@CobraC. 2 года назад

@@kennethmoss7394 I Am Not Married. I Am Not A Virgin. I Am A Man.

@HWilhelm516 2 года назад

You just described why 80% of black women will never get married.

@nick1aug2000 2 года назад

Facts...but lately the exception to the money rule is education and status. An example is how many educated women won't even seriously consider a blue collar man without a degree as an option no matter how much he earns above her salary. If he doesn't have a degree he is less than. If he doesn't wear a shirt and tie to work he is less than. Those are status symbols. A man can be almost broke but with a degree and a title he'll at least be considered an option. But the exception to that situation is that the street dude that has a little money to flash but no wealth or security can Trump both blue and white collar men these days.

@KiamKweli 2 года назад

This is one of the most important videos you have released this year. Excellent title, summary, and concise delivery explaining the true wealth gap affecting men and women.

@DB-wx1zs 2 года назад

WOW This is one of the BEST videos I’ve ever watched on how the modern women think. This was an amazing break down. Thank you for this. I’m going to share it to all my male friends that need to wake up! They’re men who do great for themselves but they feel worthless sometimes all because a woman doesn’t approve of their earnings. It’s like you said, the women don’t see men who don’t have wealth as human beings. And this doesn’t just apply to black women, but many different races of women think this way, especially if they’re in a western Americanized country and culture! So you are 100% correct!

@ismaildavis7692 2 года назад

That's why I can't deal with the average and I said the average black female UN-educated as well as the Miss-educated. This gender/entitlement/materialistic De-volution is getting very annoying.

@jaybaby9713 2 года назад

As a blk man I can honestly say hey I hear what your saying and i understand..it's not my job to convince you with debates,it's my job to accept it or decline it..That's it,nothing more or less.

@williamstiggersws 2 года назад

Greetings Sista, this is something I've known most of my life and it's saddening. But the older that I've gotten I came to realize that it's not going to change. I came to realize that my integrity my morality and even me being a human being doesn't matter to the type of women that you're talking about, none of that matters what matters to them is exactly what you're expressing monetary gain for her.

@athaliyahbaytjudas9334 2 года назад

COVID killed the Pookie & Ray Ray era

@meangreen4500 2 года назад

Now days women will ask for money befor they ask your name. Major red flag for me!

@redaquarian8665 2 года назад

Everything the Sister stated is literally the total truth! I know because I see it and live it each and every single day! I am that so-called average earner. Getting looked over is a way of life for me. I know that I don’t want a woman whose been sold out to the streets, Tyrone, and with years of multiple partners to suddenly “recognize” this average brother after Vesting In all of those soul ties! Peace within is paramount for me know. It would be nice to share life with a beautiful black woman, but I don’t think it’s possible for me anymore! To the brothers who have been blessed to find a rare precious jewel please hold on to her! The same for the sisters who have been blessed to find that rare good black man! In these last days and times it appears as though finding good hearted human beings is becoming more and more rare! Shalom

@imdon8920 2 года назад

Stay single bro, you can be a father if you so desire without being a husband. A wedding ring is the most expensive and the smallest cuff a man willingly puts on himself.

@redaquarian8665 2 года назад

@@imdon8920 Thank you for your wisdom.

@SlanSellsCars 2 года назад

Great insight. I feel sorry for these single guys out here dealing with these “women”.

@arnibah 2 года назад

This is one of the reasons why all boys should be taught to become asset accumulating machines.If we are in an environment that make's money god,then we should become a master of the god.

@queldavis4898 2 года назад

ok robot with no other inherent values, morals, or let alone a soul. Money is a new construct. Its the value were looking for but for what? for who?

@arnibah 2 года назад

@@queldavis4898 In this realm,money=Freedom and Power.That's just the way it is.This is why money is a god to some.Lack of money= slavery and want.Is this what you want for your children?Then don't spend time telling them to go to college etc.The only reason parents push their children to go to college,is so they can make more money than the average person that doesn't go.

@hazel1190s 2 года назад

Damn Ms Kendra. I came back to your channel to scrutinize and i cant disagree. Love of money trumps all. I even battle with this but stayed with my man for good character....money isnt everything. That's sad af that we have to decide whats most valued. Our men and our bond to them should never be determined off finance. But i do like this video and your depth. Ill be back.

@jehovahchozenone2205 2 года назад

Thanks to hip hop, played a big role. I work my butt off every day doing 12 hour shifts. And a lot of black woman look down on me because I don't have a Bentley or showing off materialistic things. I'm tired of it, I'm ready to get married and cater to my wife and love her and make sure we have God in our marriage.

@markeljohnson2594 2 года назад

I feel ya bro and in the end all these materialistic things they look at won’t matter cause they can’t take it with them when they die. What matters most is having a great relationship with Jesus so that we can make it to heaven.

@jehovahchozenone2205 2 года назад

@@markeljohnson2594 well said

@christinewalker7759 2 года назад

Did it ever occur to you that maybe you’re interested in the wrong women. Usually men who make comments like this are referring to the ig model types or exceptionally beautiful. They don’t want average men and don’t have to cause they can get “better”. Everyone wants the best they can get so idu why anyone including bw get shamed for it.

@jehovahchozenone2205 2 года назад

@@christinewalker7759 it's not about money or looking for better, it's about being a team, and liking someone for who they are and not what they have.

@jehovahchozenone2205 2 года назад

@@christinewalker7759 a lot of ig model are just looking for a men to take care of them, a lot of them have makeup caked up and don't even look like that without make up

@kenloc312 2 года назад

Black women say that they refuse to date down, and yet, they always end up with the pookie & ray-ray’s 🤷🏾‍♂️

@shaunphillips7451 2 года назад

It's been a pleasure watching your platform grow. ❤🙏🏾👑

@josedanielrodriguez1126 2 года назад

I agree with you, we need values, loyalty, commitment and God to be the first in our life and our marriage

@jerryx_x3702 2 года назад

So if a man makes 45-65k a yr, none to very little debts, good credit score, ,50 plus thousand in savings, a retirement plan, just a good solid dude over all who’s trustworthy,honest, dependable etc. he’s not worth being with because he don’t make more than a average salary??

@khennimahmud4006 2 года назад

Nope. Realistically, that is not the norm for average earning men. Statically most of them have debt and little savings with poor money management. A man in that situation who can provide a decent lifestyle will have no trouble.

@genesultry6447 2 года назад

Proud Brit here… Kendra is exactly correct describing this cultural shift especially regarding African American woman. The same truth can be said for Caucasian woman…I think they refer to it as hyper-gamy or hypergamy. Modern feminism, social media and the need to impress others has all but ruined healthy dating in this day and age. Money is a God to many and it will undoubtedly be the downfall of more.

@Mind-H-Walk 2 года назад

This is indeed a Great video, you hit the nail on the head with a sledge hammer. It doesn’t only apply to our sisters but to us as a community, we only highlight, respect and praise those who have “wealth” even if they compromised morals to attain it.

@Spooner125 Год назад

It’s largely because so few of us have wealth. As a group, we have less wealth than any other by far. Every other racial group owns and controls business and institutions in its community. Blacks have vertically none of these and approximately 2 percent of us practice wealth building. Yet we are easily impressed when we see it. All other races crave wealth and financial power for themselves, their families and communities. That is , financial power the source of which they own and control. They crave this far more than blacks. Yet it doesn’t damage their value system at all. Blacks just crave money in the form of wages earned as a result of wealth building for other groups. Our financial value system is screwed because we don’t think about money and wealth correctly. We then spend this money on fun time goods further enriching the other groups.

@crenshawgrinder2515 2 года назад

I appreciate the way you presented this information. The loss value system is detrimental to our community.

@MrWriteminded 2 года назад

Hopefully these women have above average looks, bodies, and personalities.

@kendrickwallace1111 2 года назад

Shiiiidd

@karenblalock5645 2 года назад

My parents married in the 60's, my mother did not work. My father sent all of his children to college. He was pharmacist for 40 years. FACTS. Be happy and find someone that want to be happy with you no matter how much money you earn. My father didn't have any excuses he just did it in the 60's. FACTS.

@kwaichangcaine8234 2 года назад

I'm an average white man and I'm lucky if I can make 50K , it's not just black women. My ex dumped me looking for a better deal , she took the paid for house land cruiser and everything I had , that was 13 years ago. She's still looking for someone better.

@jayb7105 2 года назад

Consider yourself lucky! Those types of women belongs to the streets! Don’t take her back!

@kwaichangcaine8234 2 года назад

@@jayb7105 Don't worry, not a chance. She's not my girl anymore. She belongs to others now.

@javaseiland5310 2 года назад

Thank You Ms Kendra for Telling The Real True Facts, Much Appreciated.

@rontang8092 2 года назад

I love this sister. Primarily for what comes out of her mouth. It's medicine for my soul.

@draytonwilliams1806 2 года назад

Won't they talk about all the miscarriages in abortions that they've had to the man that they want to marry them

@kuramobay2445 Год назад

This message needs to be posted again. It's extremely important and always relevant. It's a classic.

@simba5734 2 года назад

Why do most black women follow Jesus for everything else, but when the WORD says man is the head of the household, they want to rewrite that text?

@gremlingaming4 2 года назад

Feminism

@philippeboursiquot163 2 года назад

Feminism

@oneoftheskull3158 Год назад

"We want to deal with things in a natural way, but we not living in a natural way." Preach Sista! That's the hardest part for us natural beings.

@jwoods9659 2 года назад

Yep fellas your income is YOUR income. Your not meant to give all your funds to a another person

@chanze555 2 года назад

I drive by black women holding signs that say things like "Mercy" or "Homeless", but still try to look prideful when a good earning black man drives past. Can't make this up!

@SuperKwame1 2 года назад

A kuchi from a 10K woman is the same as a woman of 200K.

@tbo0001 2 года назад

Absolutely!!!

@jayleezy3681 2 года назад

70k is above average in America.

@thegreattreon0177 2 года назад

So I guess me and my $43,000 a year job, 3 cars, 2 level house and $17,000 in savings need to go kicks rocks

@mofofish_ 2 года назад

It’s sad how accurate this is. I blame single parent households. Women can properly raise men, and they create money hungry daughters because of their own personal financial struggles. Need to bring love and companionship back to the front and build together

@mofofish_ 2 года назад

*can’t properly raise men

@BluEx22329 2 года назад

Just like in the new Candyman movie. Look at the dynamics of the main black couple

@patriciacoley3801 2 года назад

I haven't seen that movie yet, and don't intend to because I hate horror on film. It's bad enough to see it happen in real life! lol

@amilcarpolanen5994 2 года назад

Sometimes you can piece this together out of actions but never have i seen it laid out so clearly.Thank you for enlightning us.

@trueskool68 2 года назад

I'll NEVER BE YOUR BEAST OF BURDEN 😤🗣

@thmoney25 8 месяцев назад

I've dated down and even married a man who made less. They do not have to make 6 figures. I've noticed that the various men that I dated that made less than me acted I insecure. I had to pay for my meals and sometimes theirs to. I've bought nice gifts and in return gotten knockoffs and fake love. So they have to at least be close to the 70k what I make. So my decision comes from experience.

@kevinlynch8699 2 года назад

Guess my question would be, even if I do make enough money that any woman thought was "enough, "under which universe do they think 🤔 I'm giving it away to them? Just curious....

@kbee5587 2 года назад

Now I truly understand the "lost value system" and its impact. Interesting approach to understanding the social dynamics in human relationships.

@southernsocialite5061 2 года назад

I am a woman that tries so hard to be supportive and kind. I love blue collar men because that's the definition of hard-working men in the south. I have had the absolute worst time trying to date. The men I meet aren't wealthy because that's not something I look for, but they don't seem to care. I wish someone would see how much of a struggle there is for some women that are trying to be cooperative.

@jayb7105 2 года назад

Some men don’t care but others do care! I thank you should re-examine your circle of friends and date with intention! Think about what you want in life and be around around people that supports your goals.

@wakeup810 2 года назад

@@jayb7105 facts

@SAsaiyajin 2 года назад

Have you ever tried to talk about food, and what they like to eat? The simpler the man, the simpler the questions.

@tjandcj123 2 года назад

Don’t give up. Yes it is hard, but when you find the one you will be so grateful you didn’t throw in the towel. I know a lot of these men in the comments say they have given up on black women....I am a big believer in our words form our reality. Watch your words...only speak what you want. Instead of saying “I have the absolute worst time dating” say “I’m grateful for the experience and the opportunity to see what I don’t want so that when what I do want comes along I will immediately know it” Trust me all these men or even women who say “I’m done with women or I’m done with men” are creating their future with their words...don’t let your words form a lonely future for you. You got this sis!

@joshuaisrael7311 2 года назад

We cant build our homes, much less our nation if our spirits ain't right. Keep teaching our sisters my sister. There are men out there trying to awaken the brothers as well. Fear not. Keep it up.

@watchmedobetter 2 года назад

Excellent stream it was definitely DJ FISH GREASE FRIDAY, I seen you on dope discussions last night you all day cooking. So everything you said its demonstrated on KS platforms endless amount of interviews of it, also why those women like April Mason Ms Pope got out the " helping a sista out" game. Thank you Ms C

@tmerchant96 2 года назад

6:15 tells us why most women have a distasteful attitude towards the average earning man. Well said Crimson 👍

@stevetaylor205 2 года назад

Now I understand why many black women are single today because of what I’m hearing right here!

@tunama1 2 года назад

This is beautiful, thank you so much🥰

@thehebrewrapoholic Год назад

Thank you for explaining this. The name very fitting, the system in truly lost, as lost as the people who think to hold to it.

@thamilton1340 2 года назад

Get this WOMAN a whole Channel that runs All-Day on every station in the World...Love U Sistah🙏🏿

@mlionea 2 года назад

They hate Me for earning my own life ? Just coz I don't pull up a big enough salary ? Non materiallistic women end up aging gracefully in life. The men they chose while earning less, helped and stuck with never forget them after they make it . Bw obsession with monied men & monied men only is LACK OF WISDOM in simple terms

@SK_Falchion 2 года назад

One of your best lectures yet. I make damn near close to six figures but because I'm a minimalist blk women still make snap judgements based on what they think I don't have.

@CeCe-os3ul 2 года назад

These are the women that come to work with fake hair worth hundreds of dollar,designer bags, but asking you and other co workers to borrow lunch money. It’s a sad sight.

@patriciacoley3801 2 года назад

Good to hear there are other blk Minimalist Brethren out there. It's among the best lifestyle choices on the planet!

@internetgangsta7242 2 года назад

I feel so much better now after learning the true value system thank you so much

@esaasaggus4179 2 года назад

What???lol, That sound ridiculous. So if you ain't balling your worthless?? How old these women are? They sound very young minded. So if I invested in stocks when I was younger and have bonds when Im older and makes 50k-70k a year and have IRA or a 401(k). Im broke? So everything have to be liquid asset. Really These women fail economics.

@garyblade2332 2 года назад

Stocks and bonds? A lot will simply look at your feet to see how expensive your sneakers are, lol.

@kavistone6951 2 года назад

Yes they are immature

@daradee3593 2 года назад

I do think that the age of the woman is a factor.

@esaasaggus4179 2 года назад

@@daradee3593 No it doesn't. Its the maturity of the women. Im 39yrs old and I know women my age an older still think the same way as though the 16yrs old with a Chris Brown poster on they wall. That's how they sound wanting dude to make over 100k+ a year. Especially during Covid when most people conserving their money. Most men just saying away or just have them for entertainment nothing serious.

@daradee3593 2 года назад

@@esaasaggus4179 I guess I just don’t have those type of women in my circle. My friends have men who can take care of themselves completely if they were single, but do not earn as much as their wives and they are fine.