My brothers and sisters please pray for me that I marry her, Oh Allah if she's not good enough for me, then make her good enough for me, if i am not good enough for her, then make me good enough for her, and put goodness in both of us and make us righteous spouses to each other, ameen 🥺
@@Nornorwill_ Ameeeeennn🥺Sum ameen.. Ya rabbal alameen🥺 Honestly this is the best dua I've received so far.. Jazakallah🥺 It means a lot... May Allah SWT bless you immensely.. May he be pleased with you.. And may Allah SWT accept all your duas.. Ameen✨
I disagree. Women also have desires too. if a man walks outside of the home he’s going to face temptations if a woman works out to she’s going to phase them too. it’s just a stay at home mother will not face such things very frequently. But it’s our responsibility to fulfil our commitment not just as a chore but sincerely and have consideration. and you see, a relationship goes both ways it’s not like the woman didn’t work all day so when you see your husband coming home with a frown then it’s unfair to expect a smile sincerely from the wife. just like a husband can be filled with resentment so can a wife. No relationship can be healthy without two way effort. If your wife has to smile so does the husband. and if the husband constantly can’t fulfil his commitment, of course, the wife will not be pleased. if the wife constantly was late, the husband wouldn’t either. Just like husbands are human so are the wives. Yes, we should be kind and welcoming. But not one sided. also, if the wife constantly addresses something and the husband does not take seriously when his wife tries to communicate, he’s not very considerate. he needs couple therapy or individual therapy. Instead of being defensive, he needs to listen to what his wife is trying to say. that is just basic communication. if you want kindness and consideration, you must be kind and considerate. Also deliberately giving someone the cold shoulder to make them apologise even when they’re not at fault you are that’s manipulation that’s not healthy at all. If you do something wrong you need to address it and make up for it and not repeat that again instead of giving cold shoulder and making her apologise.
Of course, a marriage is all about communication and balance. I think he is just pointing it out from the man's point of view since the hadith that was mentioned in the beginning was a male sahabi, and he did say in the end of the video, "taking care of the wife and taking care of the husband, may Allah grant us the best husbands and the best wives." Hope you have a great day.
May Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala accept the sacrifice I've made by breaking contact for His sake. I pray that He brings us back together in a way that pleases Him, with our hearts pure and intentions sincere. May Allah guide us both on the right path, fill our hearts with love and patience, and allow our reunion to be blessed and full of His mercy. I place my trust in Allah's wisdom and pray that He reunites us if it is what is best for us in this life and the Hereafter. Ameen. (Can you all make a dua for us) 🥺
This is great advice. But The silence doesn’t work with my wife. I only do it so she doesn’t keep insulting me and disrespecting me. I voice myself by saying “hey I don’t appreciate the way you’re speaking to me.” All I continue to get is insults so I try to walk away sometimes. But unfortunately, even the silence is just a temporary solution, just for my own peace of mind. Her ego is too big to ever admit any mistake. If I feel sad she won’t care. Is there anything to do in that situation? What would the Prophet PBUH do?
Don't loose hope brother try to openly communicate with her and make her understand. Make dua to Allah. May Allah grant peace and happiness between both of you
This is a purely 'masculine' speech or rather oriented according to a point of view of certain men. Women have desires and temptations except that the culture and education they receive since childhood is completely different. In addition to this, the body of women are different from the anatomy of men in the sense that they menstruate, they become pregnant, etc. It is certainly true that women are more inclined to certain practices. and men too. Except you see, human beings, unlike animals, have an extremely developed nervous system. We have the ability to counter our impulses and habits. This is why God the Almighty gave rules to follow. This speech is completely ridiculous and very revealing about the person giving it. Humans are not ruled by only their pulsions. At least not all of them. Islam is precisely here to elevate us from it. Here is an explanation of the verse you used: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-N6BBGGRewvQ.htmlsi=s1MZB7GbSSL8jFlY
How simple do you have to be to not understand that if those women went through the same things he put her through they wouldn’t give that smile either
Don't get married, serve the state, serve the people, your blood may not continue but your name would. They will erect great statues of you, they will right books on your name, you will become the ageless.
@@ADreamer-ef6tc If what you're trying to say is get married for the sake of God, the you are supporting videos and topics like this to exist. But if you join my side of the boat, you end the problem at its root and you outperform what this particular commandment would allow you to succeed. This, more often than not has problems, my proposition is one of absolute sustenance. You can not fail! Not everything God said would apply to you today, especially when God knowingly has let soo many people loose; you run behind that checklist of yours you will learn the hard way, might as well assess your cards before you put down your hand and are forced to fold. Aim big, win bigger.
Many who aim to immortalize themselves by wronging themselves and wanting people to praise them and erect statues of them will always fail and be humiliated, you’ll never beat time. And God is time
