That s why parents must have the elderly ( grandparents) at home. Even if they cant personally take care, they can keep an eye on the activities of the maids
@@Sridhar.Ananthanarayanan Are you married? Do you have children? Will you leave the job and take care of your children at home and let your wife work? In these days, some families can be managed only if both of them work. Even if wife works, wife is not treated equally.
I'm going to be a first time grandmother soon...in about 4 months. Right now we are working in Kuwait but I have decided to quit my job and go back to india to be with my daughter and help her during her confinement and thereafter to take care of our 1st grandchild. I wasn't sure about so many things but this video has decided everything for me!!!
Good decision mam... Now a days parents have to do work for their children future in this case we need grand parents help.... Please give your support...
@@velpukondahimabindu very true but not all have this type of mindset of supporting their Kids.I have personally faced a lot of challenges while taking care of my child. Neither of my mom or mom in law though both staying with me helped me in taking care of my kid.I had to resign from my good corporate job to take care of child.But nevertheless I know God will definitely do justice with me.
Children are the most precious gift of God , given to you.. he trusted you and gave you a child. Take care of this precious gift, there are many couples n families who are longing for this gift... Be responsible for your kids.
What police are doing i don't understand ... Every day each one of us will see atleast 4-5 beggars holding small children and i sometimes feel police might also getting share from the money they collect.
I left my state government job to take care of my son , today he is working in US , and l'm also working (part time ) ,no one loves you more than your parents 🙏
🎈When we make a Big Decision to get Married & have Children, 🎈then it is Our Duty as Parents to make the sacrifice & look after our Children.🎈 Money & Career are Not the priority in Family Life. 🎈Otherwise, like this video, we will end up regretting it & blaming others for our own negligence.🌿🎈🌿 A Baby needs its mother, not a maid.🎈 Take Care & God Bless 🪔🌿🪔
@@marasangalli1332: The point is, it’s our choice to have children or not. In my opinion if we choose to become parents we have to take the responsibility seriously. At the very least, if both parents have to work, and there’s no family to help out, then find shift work so that there’s always mum or dad there. Why have a child if you have to leave them with strangers and open the door to all kinds of abuse?
@@marasangalli1332 simple don't have children when u can't raise them. It's a huge responsibility. In that case they could be just called the baby's grand parents instead of paying a random person to take care of a child.
I came across one of your videos and watched almost 3 videos. Each and every one of them is made with utmost social responsibility. Your service to the society is really commendable.
@@themagicisreal9910 my mom was a salon worker she left my older sis with my grandma when sis was small 1 or 2 and then when she found out she was pregnant again (with me) she quit her job and I always till now I tell her pls go back to salon working so you can earn money she said she will I am so happy 😊
I was a babysitter from 10 to 19, I've gotten a job since then but occasionally I'll babysit when I'm not at work, and I always treated the babies and kids with love and kindness. I love babies especially. I can't imagine being so cruel to do something like this.
That s y my father is great and best...he made my mother as homemaker.. Blessed to hve dad like you🙏🙏🙏🙏... He didn't look for my mom s salary and he just thought that our future is very important than mom s salary..
Such a cruel people .... I can't imagine that situation as a mother I sacrificed my professional career for the sake of my kid Every working women needs their family support.. the women are facing very hard situations with career and children
I always sure about giving up my career and job for my son. But sometimes when you feel down or thinking about own life exsistance I questioned myself whether what I did is right or wrong. Again these videos and other stories in the society always keep reminding me what I did was absolutely correct and not to doubt about it.
l'll add some inputs, not to raise doubts in your mind, but so that you might consider the likelyhood of this happening to you. After fifteen years of raising your child with complete dedication you find that the child takes you for granted or swears loyalty to someone else. Nobody thinks of bad outcomes until it's upon them. I'm only saying that there is no fullproof way to be happy.
This freaked me..and gave me goosebumps Me and husband are alone and we have an eight month old..I was actually considering to leave her with a maid and get back to work..Good you opened my eyes!! Hope the couple got back the baby
You can work ... this is just eye opening that you should be careful with your maid or care taker.. spend good money on taking care the baby..try to select safety day care with camera installed.Savings are secondary while taking care the baby.WORKING MOM IS DOESN'T MEAN THAT YOU ARE RUNNING BEHIND MONEY.
Get yr in laws or parents to be there with the maid, while you are working, you take over when when are back frm work, in singapore we practice this way, and children also get grandparents love that way, all the best love frm 🇸🇬
Sub aise nhi hote hmari maid to bhot acche se rkhti h mere bete ko hum b dat dete h pr wo kbhi datne b nhi deti mera beta bhot khus rhta h unke pass bhot care krti h wo
Moral of the story: Don't leave your child alone with anyone. Especially not a maid, no matter how much you trust them. These people are desperate and very easily manipulated.
I practically gave up my all to raise my kids best decision ever. I don’t have a career that pays me money but I have a career that gives me peace of mind and pride ‘looking after my kids. When I get accolades from people I know I made the right choice
Money is only not life. Money is required to lead a life but after our partner,kids and parents only. Very good video. It should be a lesson to the parents who are busy in earning money.
This is an eye opener to the society.Stop judging woman and men on their income and financial status... It is disturbing them a lot to run along the money leaving all the things behind Being judgemental to everyone is the main problem for every situation. If u wanna be happy and let others happy stop being judgemental It is a sin ur doing to others No prob if u can't help anyone
Sometimes your kid is not safe in joint family scenario also. It's a harsh truth, see the rape statistics. So don't suggest blindly the joint family solution. If possible take care of your child yourself.
My father had taken a paternity leave to take care of my elder brother when he was born. By the time I was born, my brother was old enough so he and my grandparents took care of me. And now me and my elder brother take care of my younger sister. Basically, we three siblings have formed a very strong bond in between us.
Its a lesson for all youngsters, they r literally ignored elders, not respecting, atleast one who is doing this type of big mistake, they should realise now onwards
Honestly not all maids are bad.. I was raised by a maid from age 0-14 by the same maid she took very good care of me instead I was a bit mean to her lol 😆 Also she saved my life twice as a baby I had high fever and I could've died according to doctors if she hadn't rushed to the nearest hospital with me in her arms
yeah.. not all the maids are bad.. I know a maid that has taken care a boy from one month old until now.. she knows even when the boys lied to her when even her mom didn't know.. she knows more than her mom of what happen in his life and even when he went with his friends she always check him via phone.. I was laughing when she told me this.. I am a full time mom myself because I want to be with my kids
Every child needs motherly love and care when they are very young ,unfortunately we live in a world where most mothers don't really know what it means to leave your children under someone else care. I conclude by saying let me babysit my own children when they grow up God will give me the way forward 🙏
Watching this breaks my heart 💔😭I feel the mother 💔😭poor little angel💞such a s2pid nanny.... CCTV is really a big help to monitor your kids at home, such a beautiful series evryone can learn a lesson 💞🏆newbie friend here watching your beautiful channel from Saudi Arabia Riyadh 🇸🇦
Almost every employee mother has to undergo a kind of stress during one stage until her children come to school going stage. Some times this stress effects her professional career as well.
Things like this happens a lot! Never ever leave ur child with any maid.. no matter how trustworthy.. dont have a child if you can't care for him.. but don't leave the baby at the mercy of strangers
If one is financially secure what you said can happen.what about widowers,widows, single parents or those who have to work for the ends meet .They have to rely on maids.
It did happen really. I remember reading this news happening in bangalore about 12 years ago. And I never forgot it. And I suggest whoever has to leave their baby/kid with a caretaker, make sure to setup cc cams so that you will be able to watch your baby anytime
Got goose bumps! But when I heard that has actually happened…. Chill ran down my spine….. everything else can be compromised but not a child’s safety!!
Basically this is truth of the society we live in nowadays..that's why I love this channel,, they show things which happen that all of us might not be aware of
yeh to haqeeqat hai aik soteli maa thi wo bhi apne sotele bacho ko rent pe deti thi is ka bether hal yeh hia k larka 2nd shadi kare kisi bache wali aurat se dono husband wife job karein aur paise kamayen aur wo ghr mien bacha sambhale
Yes I ve heard of such a story in chennai too. Children need mother till 9 years of age. From 10, they start thinking on their own. Till then mother's should show lot of love and teach all good values by being good to everyone. Others can't compensate a mother. I read this content from a book that was written by lord karthik swamy himself recently. God knows that people need to be taught the basics again now.
They start school at the age of 3... do they start thinking when they are in 4th std only.... that makes no sense.. it's okay to be a working mom. It's ur choice.. working doesn't mean neglecting your child..
My mother was always working and my father lived out of state. I lived with my grandparents till I was 6 years old. Then me and my mom shifted to live together with my father and I went to daycare when my parents did their jobs. Rn, i am 15, and I have a very close bond with my parents even though they were not present too much during my childhood.
I left my job to take care of my kids...my opinion is kids is must in our observation and love... after that job entertainment etc..,,no one can give love as mother.,. mother job is the greatest job in the world ever...
Similar case has happened with my colleague in Bangalore, where the colleague was not allowed to get the child from krash inspite of coming early from office. Also the krash ppl refused to show cctv footage of the child to the parent.. when she asked to make sure if the child is safe. But altogether the story was different. In the evening some person from signal/beggars came and handled the child.. such horrible ppl
In 1970's maid in master's house used to feed the baby with tobacco in milk ,lock the house ,go away n return b4 the parents were back.Always the baby was sleeping only n getting thin.The parents having doubt,one day ,they came in the afternoon n found their house locked.The maid was freaking with her boy friend n went for afternoon movie.They were caught n handed over to police . In the same way,a survey study about begging at traffic signals in general with / without infants/ kids done by a person long ago revealed about a racket n all behind the scenes / screnes.
Begging, n encouraging them by giving money at traffic signals n other places, is a reason for such crimes. Greed of easy money, n sympathy. Sympathy for the poor could be showed by paying someone's fees, providing books, uniform, etc.
Mother is the only one who takes care of the child very carefully not even grand parents as well ... It is better to quite the job if the mother is working only for the wellbeing of the child atleast till the baby gets 5 years ....
Madam is dunia m bht logo k sapne nhi pure hote h...job zaruri nhi ki koi apni mrzi se kr ra ho...ho skta h financial problems ho...pet m bhuk lgegi na to ma b bcche ki ni hoti
Bhai we proud of u. Aaj jaha channels vulgarity se , prank se bhare hai wohi aap aise awareness vdo banate ho really appreciable. Keep it up. I recommend this channel to others..
When I was kid my parents both r working,no one there for taking me but my parents gave to me my grandmother and she take care well now I am 18 till now she care me very well.....love u grandma
Thank you sir... Given thise information to all..... I am a mother....when can i see thise story I can't stop my tears... That little baby how was he feel that moment.... How was he saffer....
I'm working from home, taking care of my son with the help of a maid. That too when he turns 3.5years. Before that me and my husband shared the time to look after him. Don't leave your child alone @home. Even now also I'm scared to leave him alone at home.
Thank you Rohit! This video is an eye opener for capsule family of husband and wife both working with their new born baby to be attended at home by maid. Very shocking, but brute reality of urban life.
Same incident happened to one of my aunt back in late 1970s. It seems this is not something new happening recent years... but most of the people are not aware of such thing happening in real life 😒😒 Thank you for educate all parents around the world...
I was just feeling low about giving up my job for my children..seeing this made me feel it's worth it..returning back from abroad just to stay with my kids and give them time.a tough decision but seeing this makes it feel worthwhile
God! This is scary. Now I don't regret quitting my job after becoming a mother. Seriously, one must have family members at home if one wants to work. Else rather quit job. Such scary times these days!!!
You are absolutely right .100% agreed .There is no question to do any Job when you have your first priority at home ,it's mothers job to look after their babies not maids ,they have no interest doing this except sme of them so please every one feel and realise your own duty before it gets too late. .May ALLAH KEEP EVERY ONE WITH HIS BLESSINGS.
@@naheedazeem1499 no its not only mother's job. it is a parent's job. when one parent should be at work and another one should take care of baby. but there's nothing like another one should always be a mother. be a responsible father. also stop calling it as a mother's job
@@shampadas6538 Well said. Why is it mother always? And what about those families where both of them have to work without anyone at home. This is surely a lesson. But it makes people feel guilty when you are keeping your baby in a daycare
My child was playing in the hall we kept a cylinder in that room and my inlaws both were there and i was busy in the kitchen thinking that they will look after my kid they were talking to somebody in mobile. My child pulled cylinder towards him and fell on his leg and crying like any thing. Except mom and dad nobody can take care of a child
Yes, very true i have a 3year old son now but before when he was just more than 1year old i left him to my mother in law and go to my little tea store, when i came back my son crying she said the baby fell down from the chair, while she continued watching tiktok. After that i never left my son to her, lesson learned not all parents in laws can be trusted. Only real parents.
Yes, i did not mentioned she's not the real mother to my husband, but based from my experienced the way she took care of my child while im at, work, all i can say is no one can be trusted in terms of taking care of their child only the real parents.
